Jewel tones are beautiful on you!!! They are my favorite too!!! What eye shadow color is that?! It’s like a teal/green shade! I love it!!!! I used to be a total eye shadow and makeup junkie (still am) but I’ve also gone to a new pasture where I’m absolutely addicted to high quality beads, Czech glass, Lampwork, Swarovski crafters lines and any of the Austrian crystals! I think my inventory has reached about 200k!!! Since 2020. I definitely have a talent for buying 😂🤣😂 now I need to start MAKING!!! It’s been one of my ways of staying sane and therapy while living under a Covert Passive Aggressive Malicious mother while I’ve been held captive until about 3 months ago. I’m almost 50 now and it really is going to take the rest of my life to overcome even if not fully the damage that has been done to my psyche, brain, health etc.
Finally got around to watching your latest video, yessssss!!!! This was heavy, on so many levels. I'll say that as I get older and see how much of a mind-fuck life can be, I have more sympathy for my mother as a person. Also, the anger and resentment is too much of a burden to carry so I'm working on unloading the baggage I've been carrying for so long. It's so hard, but so worth it. Yes to moving forward with our lives!!! (and not repeat the toxic behaviours with our own kids, or even those around us)
Thank you! Yeah much like them, we get older and the anger starts to diminish. It takes time, but as you said, it is very burdensome to be carrying all that hurt. Best wishes on your journey of healing!
Hey, I'm so grateful for having found your video on my homepage. I have been feeling so down lately and trying to find someone to talk to, to help me make sense of my situation. you described everything that i have been going through down to a tee, personally i feel like i would really enjoy cooking too if i gave myself the chance to explore it more, but since i'm still living in my mother's house, its hard to do that without her hovering around and making a bad comment about everything i'm doing. So i just stick to locking myself up in my room to avoid running into her because i know when i do she's gonna make a heartbreaking comment about my body. My 2 older sisters both moved out when i was younger and cut off all communication with her, she never stopped complaining about them to relatives talking about how they dont talk to her after everything she's done for them. it wasn't until i got older myself that i came to understand why they had to do what they did. I am glad i am in the mental state that I am today, i have learned to not argue back but just keep silent and mind my business, i have a good work from home job, been working hard to save up and will soon be moving out and do exactly like they did.
I admire your resilience & the fact that you have a game plan to make a better life for yourself - you deserve that! I'm glad that my video resonated with you and I'm sending you lots of love, my dear! 🫶🏾🩷🫶🏾🩷🫶🏾
I've noticed daughters (not all) tend to have good relationships with their fathers even if their fathers are not good people. Yet the daughters will judge the mothers more harshly than the fathers. Of course, the same could be said of the mothers too - they liked/loved their fathers even if their fathers didn't treat their mother well but then expect their own daughter to reject her father if he is not treating the mother well (I hope that makes sense).
The mother is not always the villain, just in this particular case and in a lot of other people's cases. I'm sure there are videos out there of mothers critiquing their daughters.
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Jewel tones are beautiful on you!!! They are my favorite too!!! What eye shadow color is that?! It’s like a teal/green shade! I love it!!!! I used to be a total eye shadow and makeup junkie (still am) but I’ve also gone to a new pasture where I’m absolutely addicted to high quality beads, Czech glass, Lampwork, Swarovski crafters lines and any of the Austrian crystals! I think my inventory has reached about 200k!!! Since 2020. I definitely have a talent for buying 😂🤣😂 now I need to start MAKING!!! It’s been one of my ways of staying sane and therapy while living under a Covert Passive Aggressive Malicious mother while I’ve been held captive until about 3 months ago. I’m almost 50 now and it really is going to take the rest of my life to overcome even if not fully the damage that has been done to my psyche, brain, health etc.
So glad more people are talking about this. Thanks for sharing! ❤️
🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you for receiving it, boo!
Finally got around to watching your latest video, yessssss!!!!
This was heavy, on so many levels.
I'll say that as I get older and see how much of a mind-fuck life can be, I have more sympathy for my mother as a person. Also, the anger and resentment is too much of a burden to carry so I'm working on unloading the baggage I've been carrying for so long. It's so hard, but so worth it.
Yes to moving forward with our lives!!! (and not repeat the toxic behaviours with our own kids, or even those around us)
Thank you! Yeah much like them, we get older and the anger starts to diminish. It takes time, but as you said, it is very burdensome to be carrying all that hurt. Best wishes on your journey of healing!
Hey, I'm so grateful for having found your video on my homepage. I have been feeling so down lately and trying to find someone to talk to, to help me make sense of my situation. you described everything that i have been going through down to a tee, personally i feel like i would really enjoy cooking too if i gave myself the chance to explore it more, but since i'm still living in my mother's house, its hard to do that without her hovering around and making a bad comment about everything i'm doing. So i just stick to locking myself up in my room to avoid running into her because i know when i do she's gonna make a heartbreaking comment about my body. My 2 older sisters both moved out when i was younger and cut off all communication with her, she never stopped complaining about them to relatives talking about how they dont talk to her after everything she's done for them. it wasn't until i got older myself that i came to understand why they had to do what they did. I am glad i am in the mental state that I am today, i have learned to not argue back but just keep silent and mind my business, i have a good work from home job, been working hard to save up and will soon be moving out and do exactly like they did.
I admire your resilience & the fact that you have a game plan to make a better life for yourself - you deserve that! I'm glad that my video resonated with you and I'm sending you lots of love, my dear! 🫶🏾🩷🫶🏾🩷🫶🏾
Love this video. I could relate to every point. Side note your make up is amazing 😍
I'm glad that you were able to connect with it! ; Thank you, beauty~ 🙏🏾💕
This was incredible and not discussed enough but very thankful for you sharing and being vulnerable ❤️.
I'm so glad you enjoyed this, thank you for taking the time out to watch; Always!! ❤️🙏🏾
Sounds a lot like my relationship with my dad when I was growing up.
I hope that you have found peace now 🙏🏾💕
@@amakaumez4768 We are much better now. He's mellowed out in his old age. Thank God.
Another really good book is "The Road Less Traveled" by Dr. M. Scott Peck.
Thank you for the recommendation-- I'll check it out!
I've noticed daughters (not all) tend to have good relationships with their fathers even if their fathers are not good people. Yet the daughters will judge the mothers more harshly than the fathers. Of course, the same could be said of the mothers too - they liked/loved their fathers even if their fathers didn't treat their mother well but then expect their own daughter to reject her father if he is not treating the mother well (I hope that makes sense).
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Thanks for the video, I had a similar experience. I hope you are well?
I'm glad you received it well. I hope you are well. I am doing well, thank you!! 💕🙏🏾
So, the mother’s always the villain, the daughter’s never to be blamed
The mother is the ADULT.
spotted a toxic mother
The mother is not always the villain, just in this particular case and in a lot of other people's cases. I'm sure there are videos out there of mothers critiquing their daughters.