The Permanence of Marriage (Mark 10:2-12) / Sin of Remarriage

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  • @jmh7977
    @jmh7977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What a wonderful and truth-edifying sermon, truly. I am Confessional Lutheran but I greatly enjoy and am enriched by your teaching. Thank you!

  • @KatieYoung-i4x
    @KatieYoung-i4x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love this, and thrilled to see this message coming from an Anglican! This is an area of sexual ethics that I've rarely seen addressed, even by faithful, orthodox Christians. Thank you for your courage and clarity in addressing it.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KatieYoung-i4x Thank you for the encouragement sister. It is indeed sad that it is really taught.

  • @VickersJon
    @VickersJon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for bending the knee to the Lord instead of sin. Praise Christ! Sanctify us Lord. Amen.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@VickersJon thank you brother and amen

    • @tlhhammer8873
      @tlhhammer8873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop being a slave slavery is wrong, stop bending the knee like the black lives matter it is an insult. Stop bending the knee to God, and stand up like a man or a woman and face God eye to eye. You won’t though, because you are a slave, and that is what your God wants slavery. My answer to that never slavery is evil. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @MeteorMonk
    @MeteorMonk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well researched, well presented and most importantly faithful.

  • @clivejames5058
    @clivejames5058 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It helps a marriage if one knows it is indissoluble from the beginning. In my nearly 40 year marriage, my wife and I have had countless disagreements and a handful of serious rows but we know we have to spend time in prayer, reflect, repent and come back together as one. I feel I have a strong marriage as a result and our adult children let us know frequently how much they appreciate it.

  • @Sam-hy2rc
    @Sam-hy2rc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A great sermon, very clarifying.

  • @holinessofthebride1935
    @holinessofthebride1935 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this excellent preaching. Few topics are more important for the churches today to hear. We need repentance on a great scale when it comes to marriage.
    That's a helpful example about breaking into someone's house to explain the exception clause.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@holinessofthebride1935 Amen, and thank you for the encouragement

  • @RGabeDavis
    @RGabeDavis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks this really cleared up things for me!

  • @kerryshannon1030
    @kerryshannon1030 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great preaching!

  • @samiam159007
    @samiam159007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent!

  • @evanpax8585
    @evanpax8585 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great sermon on a position I have never heard preached before. I have heard the indissolubility of marriage, but never how to repent of a second marriage. I’ve seen a case where a divorced man got remarried, knowing full well it violated scripture and the teaching of his church, only to have him and his new wife (a phillipina. Passport bro situation) be accepted immediately back into the church. This was not my church thankfully, but it seemed like something was very wrong with that situation, yet I could imagine that it probably happens all the time.
    I will certainly search the scriptures more on this, but I think I am convinced. Thanks and I respect your faithfulness to the Lord in preaching a very hard truth. I personally am feeling a sense of foreboding regarding the responsibilities that might come with understanding this doctrine - 1 Corinthians 5:11?

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@evanpax8585 thank you! Yes, the Church frequently fails to properly teach and discipline this issue, and when one becomes convinced of it, it makes one realise just how bad things have become.
      Check out my article linked in the description for more argumentation on it.

  • @thedesertwillowlunchtable
    @thedesertwillowlunchtable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't wait to watch this. Please do more on sexual ethics!

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    excellent a call to the remarried.....

  • @1679-n6g
    @1679-n6g 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like your teaching on this and I have seen that you are keen to research and teach more on this.
    I recommend the book by J.N parks "Divorce and remarriage -what the church does ddnt tell you" and lots of works by late Dr Joseph Webb. He also has a book "until death do us part?"

  • @sergekatshunga1912
    @sergekatshunga1912 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Controversial , that's the truth of GOD 'S MESSAGE

  • @BrockSamson18
    @BrockSamson18 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A hardy topic indeed.

  • @bmxfamily5
    @bmxfamily5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If the Matthew verses are read in light of the Jewish Betrothal they make perfect sense. Joseph sought to put Mary away, privately, being a just man. Even later, Jesus was accused by the Pharisees, "We were not born of Fornication!". That aspect of Jesus' arrival, that he was conceived before Joseph and Mary were married, yet they were betrothed, and Jesus apparently was conceived out of Wedlock, must of followed him, and Mary, and Joseph, throughout His Ministry.

  • @kimmaree5414
    @kimmaree5414 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel as though I "just won the lottery" (only a turn of phrase) by coming across this sermon on this channel because your marriage permanency essay, referencing Jack Shannon in the footnote, came up in a Google search!
    How can I participate with you in your services? I live in Penrith, Western Sydney, near the Blue Mountains, in a place where the time of day isn't that different to yours.
    Being able to participate in a Prayer Book service in a marriage permanency church is my dream!

  • @vinxit
    @vinxit 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for this sermon! I understand your interpretation of the words "except for sexual immorality" in Matt 19:9, "whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery", only applies to the divorce (using your housebreaking example), but you also acknowledge that the reading is a little strained. I would imagine, therefore, you'd agree that there is some ambiguity here (whether "except sexual immorality" applies to only the divorce, or applies to both parts of that sentence). If so, and I would imagine you would not tolerate this ambiguity (given how strongly you term remarriage adultery), how would you resolve this ambiguity? There are no other biblical passages that say that remarriage after divorce following sexual immorality of a spouse = adultery, are there?
    Thanks!

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vinxit Check out my article linked in the description, it goes into much more detail about that verse. If you have any follow up questions after reading it then make another comment and I'll discuss it further

  • @davidpate6095
    @davidpate6095 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I asked the Lord if I could remarry and he said “No.” I asked why and he said “Solomon answered it.” I said “Solomon?”, and he said “A child.” I immediately knew what he meant. The two women fighting over one child in 1 Kings 3. The meaning was a child is a physical manifestation of a spiritual reality, because in a child, two become one flesh. You can’t divorce your spouse because you are now one flesh.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@davidpate6095 Absolutely. Thank you for sharing that brother.
      Can a child be divided? His parents should be one as he is. Can one flesh be divided? Only by death.

  • @TheOtherCaleb
    @TheOtherCaleb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What do you think a wife, for example, should do in the case of brutal abuse in marriage?

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheOtherCaleb separate

    • @TheOtherCaleb
      @TheOtherCaleb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@newkingdommedia9434 gotcha

    • @TheOtherCaleb
      @TheOtherCaleb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@newkingdommedia9434 Another quick question: If the husband of said wife files for divorce after a separation and he lives in an easy divorce/no fault divorce place, does the wife have anything to repent of?

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TheOtherCaleb nah

    • @TheOtherCaleb
      @TheOtherCaleb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@newkingdommedia9434 gotcha. Thanks for the answers!

  • @barryfernandez1204
    @barryfernandez1204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where in the bible marriage is actually mentioned??????? Why catholic do not and where is that sanctioned?

  • @terismith1077
    @terismith1077 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a valuable teaching. However, I disagree with the idea that remarried individuals who have children should remain together and just practice abstinence, even when there are children involved they must complete completely repent, turn away from. To me staying together is still dabbling in sin. Yes, they still need to co-parent, but they must do so from separate homes. When Hagar bore a child for Abraham, God instructed her to leave with Ishmael. Similarly, in Ezra, God called for men to separate from their unlawful wives and children. Paul advises that we must either remain single or be reconciled to our first spouse. It’s difficult to reconcile if you are still living together in a remarriage. The truth is, sin is sin. Scripture says, if your right hand is causing you to sin, you must cut it off. We need to take decisive action.

  • @iron_vicuna6784
    @iron_vicuna6784 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mother was divorced and remarried 4 times. I'm a child of the 4th marriage. Does this make me a bastard or product of adultery?

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@iron_vicuna6784 I would never call anyone a bastard. Are you a product of adultery? Sure, but so was King Solomon, and our Lord came from that line.

  • @GraftedbyGrace7
    @GraftedbyGrace7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please forgive this pathetic excuse of a poem. I wrote it years ago as a child of divorced and remarried parents.
    The bough broke,
    The cradle fell,
    down came both of the babies and all that they could have been
    That tree was hacked down-and split into two
    Each half joined to a foreign tree with nothing but Krazy glue
    They left the fruit they produced to wither and die
    They don’t give a rip no matter how much we cry
    Their tree may be split but the roots remain intact
    They can live in denial but they’re still one-and that’s a fact!
    Divorce is the opposite of love-it’s perpetual hatred-God calls it violence
    I speak up on behalf of the oppressed covenant children who’ve been suffering yet silenced
    Our Creator made two to become one in an institution called marriage
    We were the fruit that He placed in their God designed carriage
    He said man better not separate
    This benevolent gift He did wisely and purposely create;
    Because Jesus tells us marriage is for life
    If only this topic didn’t evoke so much strife
    Marriage is when a man leaves father and mother-not when he leaves his wife and children to be joined to another!
    A wife whose covenant husband is not deceased
    Is an adulteress if she marries again-and adultery must cease!
    Adulterous remarriages aren’t legit-they’re a perversion, a farce, a counterfeit
    Those in them are utterly deceived and refuse to see-they’re fools just playing house;
    Jesus calls them to repent-He desires they return unto their spouse
    They argue that they aren’t required because they claim they’re “a new creation”,
    What they fail to do is quote in full that God gives “new creatures” the “ministry of reconciliation”
    Others blindly approve and praise them, not perceiving the mirage,
    Then they wonder why we can’t do so, and accuse us of attempting to sabotage
    Our parents are bewildered as to why we can’t be “one big, happy family and all just get along?!”
    Oh the irony, to hear this from the ones who obliterated our nuclear family, leaving us nowhere to belong
    The deceived labor hard to make wrong appear and feel right
    They’ve abandoned their own and won’t consider their children’s plight;
    One child lies and pretends all is swell
    The other struggles just to breath, she can’t hide her hell
    Now the grandchildren suffer from their lack of repentance
    But the perpetrators remain willfully aloof to the generational life sentence;
    They claim devotion to Christ despite how their lives contradict, it’s distressingly grievous what the reality depicts
    They’re too busy living for self and for now and for pleasure
    When Jesus and His kingdom is what they should treasure beyond measure
    Jesus is coming, He expects a pure bride
    He’ll be here soon-we’ll have no place to hide
    Now is the time to pray and to fast,
    There is no time to waste being unchaste
    In just a short time we will all give account, obedience to the faith is absolutely paramount
    Let us cast off the works of darkness and night, and let us put on the armor-the armor of light!
    We are called to be faithful, no matter how often we’re betrayed. So stick to your vows, righteousness always pays
    If you are one whose spouse unjustly departed,
    Rejoice and take comfort, for Christ binds the broken-hearted
    If you’re reading this and you understand the indissolubility of marriage as true, it’d be wise to consider yourself here too;
    Do you commit adultery in your heart by looking with lust?
    Or are your eyes, soul, and body devoted to the Almighty who is holy and just?
    Communion with God is what is at stake when our union with our spouse we recklessly forsake
    The kingdom is at hand, The night is far spent,
    Hearken now, all who have ears to hear, hearken now and repent!

    • @GraftedbyGrace7
      @GraftedbyGrace7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This one is worse, but both sum up what it feels like to be the child of parents who have divorced and remarried.
      When a mom and dad one another do betray through the act of divorcing aka putting away
      Those created by them who their image do portray suffer far more than mere words ever could convey
      Our Creator is a Master Arborist who alone is qualified to engraft
      He makes two to become one-not one to become two torn apart jagged halves
      Countless husbands and wives treat one another as if they are trash to dispose, “Out with old, in with the new!” as the worldly saying goes
      This epidemic is devastatingly tragic, it’s incomprehensibly reprehensible
      How parents can’t bother to care that to their progeny they as an entity are indispensable
      Our blood testifies of the two He made one to bring us to existence
      Which is why I must share this truth with such importunate persistence
      Surely as the voice of Abel’s blood cried out to God from the ground
      Our blood cries to Him too, dead or alive-however we’re found
      Just as the Lord’s image humanity doth bear
      God made children in the image of the parents they do share;
      We are a living picture of the two He made one
      When He joined them in marriage their true family begun
      Jesus’s definition of marriage is not merely an ideal
      He took us back to the beginning of creation-He didn’t reinvent the wheel!
      When a covenant couple chooses to divorce
      They’re going against nature and altering the course
      The course of HISstory...
      Instead of trusting in the Lord to reveal the mystery
      The mystery of what might possibly unfold
      If they obeyed His word just as we are told
      Twice in the gospels (regarding marriage) Christ says, “...let not man put asunder.”
      It’s a wonder how so many could even make such a blunder
      Nevertheless there is forgiveness with Him
      As long as we repent instead of following our every whim
      The Lord said through Paul, “Let not the wife depart”,
      When, oh when, will believers take this to heart??!
      If she leaves her husband she must remain single-The scriptures are clear, she’s forbidden to mingle
      “Let her remain unmarried or be reconciled...”
      We have to believe the word of God lest we are beguiled
      Too many men are living a fantasy playing Chief of another man’s tribe
      Repentance is the solution the Lord most definitely does prescribe;
      Whether they realize it or not they’ve brought their covetous desires to life
      When they said, “I do” to another man’s wife
      All scripture was given for doctrine, correction, instruction, and reproof
      And by God’s inspiration husbands are told to rejoice with the wife of their YOUTH
      Parents in adultery get hostile and angry if we attempt to expose and accuse us of not understanding their woes
      Never once considering the burden on children (grown or small) their unnatural relationships impose
      When sharing this unpopular truth it becomes automatic....
      I’m labeled as a legalistic, pharisaical fanatic
      This truth is simple yet hard, it’s ever so profound
      Even the disciples when they heard it, them it really did astound
      We must rid ourselves of any unrepentant leaven-It’d be better to be a eunuch for the kingdom of heaven
      We are told to hold fast-the word is more powerful than gravity
      If we reject the truth we only reveal our depravity
      It’d be impossible to be blindly or willfully deceived if we really, truly, in His word wholeheartedly believed
      Let’s not be among the wicked and adulterous generation
      Instead with our hearts and our lives we must give our veneration
      We must watch out too for teachers and preachers who are sly
      Instead we ought drop to our knees to diligently seek the Most High;
      Allowing Him to refine us and to purge away our dross,
      And when we arise from our knees we need to take up our cross
      So many want what they want even at the expense of others, they prove they love themselves so much more than their brothers
      One thing is for certain, their actions convey they lack an earnest desire to follow Christ and obey
      When it comes to our faith we must be authentic and serious lest we succumb to unholy desires and become delirious
      We have to persevere even it means we will suffer, we can do all things through Christ our strength and buffer
      We’ve been exhorted, exhorted to count the cost, and if we don’t consider the Lord worthy we are without doubt lost

    • @holinessofthebride1935
      @holinessofthebride1935 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a wonderful poem. I'm sorry that you had to go through that destruction. Can I copy the poem and share with others? Thanks.

    • @GraftedbyGrace7
      @GraftedbyGrace7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, and you are absolutely welcome to share!

  • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
    @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good sermon, but I think you must live in separate places even if you do have kids from the adulterous remarriage. A born again Christian cannot have any appearance of being in remarriage adultery. If you stay living in the same house you will be led into temptation and fall. You can't remain in a fornicating relationship that produced children either. Jesus is coming very soon. Maranatha.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways I understand completely where you're coming from, it's just that I also think there's a very very serious requirement and obligation for parents to raise their children properly, and that means having mum and dad at home.

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @newkingdommedia9434 No. Mom and Dad should separate and live in two separate places while raising the children to obey Christ's commands. In Ezra 10 the Jews obeyed God to send away their pagan wives AND children. Generational sins are repeated when you compromise on obedience. A fornicating couple can't continue to live together either even if they have children. Jesus is coming any day to rapture His true followers, and those who are ready have purified themselves and live holy. My most recent video was an interview with a woman in her third marriage who has repented, is looking for another place to live and will proceed with a divorce (not the kind God hates).

    • @DrGero15
      @DrGero15 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways Rapture?

  • @redknightsr69
    @redknightsr69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nearly 41 minutes.....

  • @Rome_77
    @Rome_77 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    > Preaching against “remarriage”
    > is an Anglican

  • @franklinbumgartener1323
    @franklinbumgartener1323 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ok... But what about King Henry the 8th? Isn't that where your Christian tradition began? Seems ironic somehow.

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@franklinbumgartener1323 Henry VIII didn't divorce his wife, he annulled the marriage. He never should've married her, as she was his brother's wife, but the Pope made an allowance for it due to political reasons. And he didn't found our church anyway so it's irrelevant. Henry was a popeless papist who killed William Tyndale. The Anglican Church started 1000 years before Henry VIII and Anglicanism as a distinct Protestant tradition was oppressed by Henry VIII in its formative period. After Edward VI died, England returned to Rome. It did not decisively break from Rome until Elizabeth I.
      So no, you're wrong. And it's frankly embarrassing that you can't help but respond to as deeply serious an issue as remarriage by making cheap denominational potshots.

    • @stevenjames6830
      @stevenjames6830 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@newkingdommedia9434 your tradition is such a joke and ahistorical

    • @newkingdommedia9434
      @newkingdommedia9434  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@stevenjames6830 Grow up.

    • @holinessofthebride1935
      @holinessofthebride1935 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@newkingdommedia9434 Ironically, today the popes would annul Henry's marriage in a heartbeat, as they do for nearly all who ask for it.