Life Lessons From My 20's | Friendships, Relationships & Opening Up
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2024
- Let's have an open and honest chat about the lessons I have learnt in my twenties. I cover topics including friendships, relationships, health, productivity and fear.
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Loved it, thank you for sharing. Definitely a work in a progress when it comes to not measuring your worth by your productivity. Some wisdom passed down to me recently about parents, is get to know your parents and record a conversation with them and especially their laughter.
I love that, that is such an amazing and valuable idea. I want to film a conversation with my parents and I will push it to the top of my priority list. xxx
My thirties have been so much more enjoyable than my twenties. I know myself so much better.
I am happy to hear that!
I totally relate to the life is fragile lesson. In 2018, aged 22, I was knocked off my bike in a hit and run. My whole life changed and I developed life changing disabilities including needing four knee surgeries and a partial knee replacement. My mental health also just crashed. I went from being a marathon runner to relearning how to walk.
My whole life before then I had my whole life planned out and I was 'on track'. Then it was all blown out the water and its only really in the last 5 months that I really feel I am embracing my identity as a disabled person and focusing on what I can do. I am in the process of starting out on a new career route to go back to university to train to be a social worker and use my experiences to help others.
This was a wonderful and very insightful video.
I am so sorry to hear that you learnt that lesson to such a severe extent, I truly hope that you continue to push forwards and embrace your new identity. Good luck on your new career path lovely xxx
Really interesting to watch because I feel like I had learnt all these lessons by my 30's and entered my 30's with relief and wisdom (turning 32 this week). These are things you particularly notice you've learnt when you spend time with younger people. I wonder if most people feel this way as they get older.
Glad to hear you learnt the same lessons Catharine! xx
Fantastic video, thank you. I’m slightly older mid 30s. My 20s were full of highs and lows as I made the transition to adulthood with great happiness and lessons.1 month after my 30th birthday, my father got ill and as he never remarried,I became a full time carer overnight with no warning. I lost many friends in the process which I totally understand because your 30s is where you make shit happen in your life now you have budget etc.However,I’m sharing this because even with the additional responsibilities and getting injured whilst looking after my parent there is still allot you can do to improve your circumstances. Ie if you can’t change your job develop a Niche and get a more experienced mentor , learn to meditate for mindfulness and wellbeing watch positive TH-cam videos. And then when you have less restrictions in your life, live like your life depends on it….just wanted to share incase it helps anyone struggling.
Oh Zanna, this is lovely. You are a beautiful soul. ❤️
Thank you so much Jacquie!
Love you babe! 💛 For what it’s worth, I’ve loved my 30s more than my 20s :) The productivity one - I can relate! xox
I am so happy to hear that, thanks for the reassurance love! xx
Absolutely love this video, thank you for sharing! Really insightful and agree with everything you said ❤
Thank you so much Charlotte!
This was amazing to watch and listen to and I took so much away from it even though I’m in my late 30’s! Don’t be afraid of your 30’s- from what I know about you, it is going to just be incredible and you will embrace all of it! ❤️
Thank you so much love, that is super reassuring! xx
Loved these life lessons!
You are amazing Zanna ❤️
you are too kind!
Absolutely love your videos. Not watched for a while but I realise what I've been missing. Surrounded by negativity and depressing news, you are such a positive lady and you jam pack your videos with useful motivating and super positive material. I love that you use humour as well to express yourself and keep your content light hearted, calming and interesting. Everything you say is absolutely spot on. Such a wise woman for your years.
Thank you so much for being you, sharing your feelings and making my day a better one just from listening to you xxxx
Oh thank you Kathryn, this comment has totally made my day. I truly appreciate your kindness. xxx
@@ZannavanDijk you've just made mine too by replying xxxx
Loved it! Thank you for sharing ♥️
Thanks so much Sharon!
really nice video zanna! the tolerating those bits in those we love really hit me. xxx
Really happy to hear you connected with it love!
Wise words Zanna, thanks for the excellent video.
So glad you found value in it! x
Thanks for sharing Zanna 🌹
You're so welcome lovely!
I've learned a lot of the same lessons in my 20s. It's definitely natural heading into a new decade. However, I'm determined to age like a fine wine only getting better with age 😆....and I'm only two years into my 30s and I've already learned to some valuable lessons being two years in. Being open to change is one of the greatest lessons I've learned and am still reminding myself. Change is overall good 😊 even if you don't know it yet.
Thank you so much for sharing your key lesson too Jacqueline. You're making me excited for my thirties, hopefully I age like a fine wine too!!xx
Thank you this was lovely ❤
You are so welcome love xx
As an older viewer, I can tell you wholeheartedly, that your 30s will be fabulous. Xx
Oh this is great to hear, thank you!
Thank you, this has really helped me!
You are so very welcome!
love these chatty videos and this one definitely got me thinking as a woman in her mid 20s!
So happy to hear that Lauren!
I truly love you & your Beautiful inspirational self & heart ❤ Loved this,vblog. Thank yu & have a lovely Easter weekend 🥰🌞🐣
Thank you so much Joan, I always appreciate your kindness. xxx
@@ZannavanDijk 🥰
Some great lessons in there. Thanks for sharing. The productivity one is a challenge for me too, and something I still struggle with at age 35, especially because I work in a content producing job. So I’m working on that one too - let us know if you stumble upon any helpful tips in that department going forward.
I will definitely share any tips I find, I desperately need to implement some in my life!! xxx
Thank you for sharing. I would like to listen about your "job story" so how you started to work on your own
That is a great idea, thanks Maria!
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You are ganna smash your 30s the same way you've smashed your 20s!