@@premr8784 im not jennifer but what i hear gz say is: instead of approaching a relatinoship through a 'romantic lens' - approach through spiritual. he has said a romantic lens would have partners consistently defend their spouse, regardless of behaviour, looking just to defend and protect one another within that framework. finding a spiritual partner - each partner's highest aim would be for their own, and their partners, highest growth/increased capacity to elevate in communicating, relating, intimacy, honesty ....being our best selves. at least...tahts what i think hes saying.
Garry your book Universal Human is one of the most real expression of truth of how we have moved for gain for what greed is doing for out world and life so excellently truly no one out there has been able to recognize the system we blindly operate in our lives wow I’m deeply moved by your willingness to meet this in yourself so completely now I get to recognize my own knowing so deeply that it’s been life enhancing changing for my own life now, recognition of your pointing to what our lives have brought all of to the brink of extinction,I bless your integrity in writing this monumental book on your honest discoveries of what we are caught up in this destructive ways in our lives in deepest gratitude and love minucha
The main idea of this video I think is that we try to find other partners outside our relationships thinking that they can fulfill all our needs and they are better and that's impossible. As an individual you have to be able to work on yourself and make yourself happy in a relationship because your partner can not provide all your needs 100%. I learned this from an experience, jumping from one relationship to another and at long last figured that each relationship comes with its own challenges and no matter how many times I search no relationship is perfect and my partner will never be able to fulfill all my needs.
All thanks to Dr ikhale my broken Marriage has been restored.We recently made up, even though it was difficult. It’s been more than a month now, and everything feels like it’s returned to normal. He has begun to treat me better, and it’s been a healing process for both of us. The nightmare that had lasted for almost 1 years before we broke up is finally over. It’s like we fell in love all over again! We’ve both put the past behind us, and are trying to move forward and for the first time in a long time, the future looks a lot brighter I can’t express in words how grateful I am Dr ikhale It’s like we’ve finally rediscovered those things about each other that made us fall in love in the first place. All of the worrying and stress has simply vanished Thank you Dr ikhale for saving my broken Marriage and brought my husband back to me Me and my husband are living together happy again. All thanks to Dr ikhale If you have any problem contact Dr ikhale now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him drikhale@gmail.com Cell whatsApp +2348157039913
This aligns with my own experiences at 28yo when he says it is not about finding someone that can save you from your own shortcomings, but about how you relate to the other person and what you come to learn about yourself while you are with them for the appropriate amount of time. Such a mature and true perspective on dating that I think transcends science. We will have psychologists saying this today and mainstream will accept it even after but when we listen to life with our hearts as humans we are always guided gently.
The Seat of The Soul is an amazing book, which introduced me to the concept of Spiritual Partnership. Since reading the book Spiritual Partnership, I haven't been able to date the same way because my expectation of a partner and myself changed forever. I know when I am ready, I'll meet someone who understands and desires this type of relationship too. A lot of info in under 8 mins, excellent video. Thank you Gary for the work you do 💛
✨🙏🏻✨ Much gratitude to you, Gary ~ I’m going through the process of cleaning out old baggage rebuilding myself after heartbreak, getting to know myself, my old life was a challenge and just couldn’t continue to betray myself. One of the toughest and most beautiful experiences of my life on the earth school. I’m gonna do this bc I’m committed to myself worth and growth. ✨ Now preparing myself for my EQUAL. ✨
It's perfectly possible to have a romantic relationship without more obstacles than any other kind of realationship. The problem it is not that it is romantic, the problem its because majority of relationships are not based on true love. When we understand what true love is, doesen´t mater if the relationship its romantic or anything else.
Wow wow! Thissss is what we need. A deeper sense of who we are. No one on the outside can make us happy or sad. They are just a triggers and it’s up to me to figure out why! Thanks Gary! Love the explanation. Ans LOVED your book
This spoke to me. I have very intense but rather occasional attractions to people but when I do form any kind of intimacy with them I am overwhelmed with doubt. What if they aren't perfect, what if they aren't the one for me? I have begun to learn that that doubt will always be there, to unpack the feelings about myself associated with that doubt, and to be ok with doubt.
Thank you for your meaningful words. They do point the finger inward. To appreciate others outside ourselves, we must evaluate and work on our own inadequacies to contribute to a relationship and the world. Don’t look for your cure in others. You hold that power.
Why this channel has so little views ? This gentleman's youtube page should have thousands!!!. love you Gary, after seeing you in the oprah show, I'm obsessed with anything related to your knowledge.
The reason why he has less views is because us humans we obsess with non motivational videos, talks which are useless. For example anything to do with robberies, nakedness, drinking, drugs the list is endless has millions of views.
Finally a clear through break down of one's self. This was explained better than any pastor collecting offerings while shaking their heads with judgement. Powerful video.
It's so true that it's easy to get caught up in honeymoon fantasy and try to make those feelings last forever, but they're not based in reality so they never will. The ugliness of reality will eventually settle in whether you like it or not. No one is 'perfect enough' to fantasize about forever, once the butterflies settle down you have to really look and see what you and this other person have to offer each other.
Oh wow!! This came exactly at the right time!!!😃 I literally wrote down questions over the last few days, feeling stuck in this pattern of codependency. You just answered them all!! Thank you so much!! 💝🙏🏻💫💫
I just know this channel.. Ooohh my God, am I late ?..I hope not. I'm your new subscriber. 🙂No coincidence.., I saw him in Oprah show.., I've learned about Spritual lately.., so I think the universe just give a sign by this channel..., Thank you..🙏
Romance isn’t real ; everything comes from within , and when you seek outside of yourself you’ll just end up finding mirrors reflecting to you what needs healing within you .
self love and improvment, reading Zukav, Hoffman and Singer, self love and spiritual.ork, healing past traumas, this is only right, not reverse psihology. I am.watching Jonathon Asley and he always recommend your book
Sometimes the partners cause them - ie domestic abuse / abandonment/ deceit etc. teal swan is finally acknowledging the need for connectivity and the mirroring
They are not when we get to know the other person during a lengthy period of time before committing ourselves to it. A relationship is a common 'enterprise' of giving n taking with full respect towards e.o. It takes two to tango. The tango of love.
wonderful.. Thank U 🙏&2find Ur channel 🔥♥️😎👑 Soul Relationship King & of Psychology ..grateful comforts 2hear unspoken Truth of love projection said Soulfully & eloquently 🙏♥️🕊🍃🌞
ive carried around for 38 years a feeling that i am inherently flawed and if people saw me as i really am they would not love me. eh. nevermind! i think this life is just a temporary dance anyway.
Simon0 why do you think that? God doesn't make junk. You are wonderful as you are. Did something traumatic happen to cause this thinking? Don't sell yourself short
You are not alone in feeling this way. Most of us who feel this way are on the journey inwards and trying to figure out why we react the way we do. I think it was extremely brave for you to post this. It shows courage and openness. A major step toward reclaiming your own power, healing and becoming friends with yourself. As I write this to you I am also writing the words I need to see also. ❤️
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. And also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse. Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. And also, it seems that fathers usually hate it whenever their daughter gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy), and it seems that they often hate the idea of their daughter dating, and many fathers seem against the idea of their daughters dating. There are even shirts made for daughters that say "I'M NOT ALLOWED TO EVER DATE" and shirts made for fathers that say "DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING". Brothers also tend to act the same way that fathers do whenever their sister gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy). It seems brothers (like fathers) hate the idea of their sisters dating. So it seems that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and it also seems that most brothers don't ever want their sisters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone. So those could also be other reasons why the concept of romantic relationships isn't a good thing because of how protective fathers and brothers tend to be whenever their daughter or sister dates someone. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
I don’t understand this, when a partner tells his friend “ it is Valentine’s Day, go home take your wife to dinner, to me it doesn’t matter , I don’t care about these things very proudly, then comes home announces to his wife very proudly what he said to his friend. How this is only a trigger. He doesn’t even consider that person standing in front of him a human being, how this is going to hurt that person. How to stand and listen to this and not to get hurt? I really don’t get it. Someone please enlighten me and I am open
Remember this simple rule. No one comes Into your life for your reason , they come Into your life for there own reasons . This means that we are all natural selfish although we can give and can be generous we want a relationship for our own benefit in the first instance . We give in a relationship so that we can receive what ever it is that we think we need . All relationships are insecurity Based and are based in needs and greed's . If someone is secure and does not need a person in there life full time then they won't have one , so all those who are in relationships have needs to fulfill which could be a need to survive and reproduce and also for company for fear of being alone .
Seat of the Soul opened me up about fifteen years ago. Ever since my Soul has longed to meet yours in pursuit of a complete alignment for Self-moreso now than ever. #Dreams
If a partner suddenly switches gears into a controlling narcissist set to psychologically destroy you once they have leverage or power over you.... how is that coming from within yourself? Please explain.
E. P.: Life is a mirror. You're reflecting what's inside of you. Anything bad we see in others are the parts we don't want to see and accept about ourselves.
There are unhealthy relationships that should end if both partners are not open to growth. Sometimes people are too afraid to end a relationship for fear of being alone with themselves.
E.P. : That's exactly what I thought too. What he said can't be applied to relationships where abusers are involved. I wish he'd at least qualify it so that it wouldn't inadvertently encourage people to stay in abusive relationships. The moment you find out your partner is a narcissist, hopefully sooner rather than later, is the moment you should start to plan to leave the relationship. Don't ever think you can change a narcissist for the better because that's just not going to happen.
@@shopgirlseeks " we are the answer and the question, If one is abused, it is in the best interest of the abused to search with in for the reasons he allowed and created the space for the abuse. the abused allowed for the abuse. Abusers/ Abusee's are looking for the same fulfillment of external power.
Question I have listen to most of all your pod cast. My question Can a soul leave the body and another soul take over the body? Or was it the same soul all that time? Because you help me cope with my current situation. Could one soul leave body and new soul take over? I once knew one kind caring soul. But this new soul in his current body is who I don’t know. Please answer.
I see a major contradiction in Gary’s reincarnation model, which goes as follows: 1) In his book, the Seat of the Soul, Gary says: ”After an incarnation, the soul returns once again to it’s natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love. 2) But Gary also says that the purpose of our many physical incarnations is to heal and evolve the soul. So my question Is: If the soul’s natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love, then what on earth does the soul need to heal from or evolve into? It’s already in a natural, pristine state of boundless love. I don’t get it
We hv forgotten our true essence of peace n happiness...love n compassion are there in us but we are searching outside....also tbere are past life impressions n this birth impressions of anger..hate...resentment ..jealousy which we need to heal n evolve n return back to our original nature of purity...peace...compassion...truth...righteousness etc
@@meghananemlekar6873 If our natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love, as Gary says, then the logical conclusion is that all we have to do is stay away from material incarnations and we won't develop anger, hate, resentment, jealousy, etc., which is where this negative stuff develops - according to Gary's model. So we will remain in our natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love in our non-material existence. Put another way, if we're already in a natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love, then there's no higher level to evolve into. We're already at our highest conscious state in our evolution. Where else is there to go from a natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love?
@@LearningTheStixx If the soul's "natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love," as Gary says, there is literally nothing to be healed. You're already there: in natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love! So, logically, just stay the hell out of physical reality and you're already "perfect," good to go! If it ain't broke, don't fix it!
Spiritual relationship is the goal
Hi Jennifer, can you explain :)
@@premr8784 im not jennifer but what i hear gz say is: instead of approaching a relatinoship through a 'romantic lens' - approach through spiritual. he has said a romantic lens would have partners consistently defend their spouse, regardless of behaviour, looking just to defend and protect one another within that framework. finding a spiritual partner - each partner's highest aim would be for their own, and their partners, highest growth/increased capacity to elevate in communicating, relating, intimacy, honesty ....being our best selves. at least...tahts what i think hes saying.
Garry your book Universal Human is one of the most real expression of truth of how we have moved for gain for what greed is doing for out world and life so excellently truly no one out there has been able to recognize the system we blindly operate in our lives wow I’m deeply moved by your willingness to meet this in yourself so completely now I get to recognize my own knowing so deeply that it’s been life enhancing changing for my own life now, recognition of your pointing to what our lives have brought all of to the brink of extinction,I bless your integrity in writing this monumental book on your honest discoveries of what we are caught up in this destructive ways in our lives in deepest gratitude and love minucha
The main idea of this video I think is that we try to find other partners outside our relationships thinking that they can fulfill all our needs and they are better and that's impossible. As an individual you have to be able to work on yourself and make yourself happy in a relationship because your partner can not provide all your needs 100%. I learned this from an experience, jumping from one relationship to another and at long last figured that each relationship comes with its own challenges and no matter how many times I search no relationship is perfect and my partner will never be able to fulfill all my needs.
sabiyumva Alphonsine ... I’m beginning to think that the purpose of life is to learn self love.
Well said!!
All thanks to Dr ikhale my broken Marriage has been restored.We recently made up, even though it was difficult. It’s been more than a month now, and everything feels like it’s returned to normal. He has begun to treat me better, and it’s been a healing process for both of us. The nightmare that had lasted for almost 1 years before we broke up is finally over. It’s like we fell in love all over again! We’ve both put the past behind us, and are trying to move forward and for the first time in a long time, the future looks a lot brighter I can’t express in words how grateful I am Dr ikhale It’s like we’ve finally rediscovered those things about each other that made us fall in love in the first place. All of the worrying and stress has simply vanished Thank you Dr ikhale for saving my broken Marriage and brought my husband back to me Me and my husband are living together happy again. All thanks to Dr ikhale If you have any problem contact Dr ikhale now and i guarantee you that he will help you.Email him drikhale@gmail.com Cell whatsApp +2348157039913
This is so empowering..being selfaware is the most important thing in our lives.
This aligns with my own experiences at 28yo when he says it is not about finding someone that can save you from your own shortcomings, but about how you relate to the other person and what you come to learn about yourself while you are with them for the appropriate amount of time. Such a mature and true perspective on dating that I think transcends science. We will have psychologists saying this today and mainstream will accept it even after but when we listen to life with our hearts as humans we are always guided gently.
The Seat of The Soul is an amazing book, which introduced me to the concept of Spiritual Partnership.
Since reading the book Spiritual Partnership, I haven't been able to date the same way because my expectation of a partner and myself changed forever.
I know when I am ready, I'll meet someone who understands and desires this type of relationship too.
A lot of info in under 8 mins, excellent video. Thank you Gary for the work you do 💛
equal together for the purpose of your spiritual growth...
✨🙏🏻✨ Much gratitude to you, Gary ~ I’m going through the process of cleaning out old baggage rebuilding myself after heartbreak, getting to know myself, my old life was a challenge and just couldn’t continue to betray myself. One of the toughest and most beautiful experiences of my life on the earth school. I’m gonna do this bc I’m committed to myself worth and growth. ✨ Now preparing myself for my EQUAL. ✨
It's perfectly possible to have a romantic relationship without more obstacles than any other kind of realationship. The problem it is not that it is romantic, the problem its because majority of relationships are not based on true love. When we understand what true love is, doesen´t mater if the relationship its romantic or anything else.
Wow wow! Thissss is what we need. A deeper sense of who we are. No one on the outside can make us happy or sad. They are just a triggers and it’s up to me to figure out why! Thanks Gary! Love the explanation. Ans LOVED your book
This spoke to me. I have very intense but rather occasional attractions to people but when I do form any kind of intimacy with them I am overwhelmed with doubt. What if they aren't perfect, what if they aren't the one for me? I have begun to learn that that doubt will always be there, to unpack the feelings about myself associated with that doubt, and to be ok with doubt.
Thank you for your meaningful words. They do point the finger inward. To appreciate others outside ourselves, we must evaluate and work on our own inadequacies to contribute to a relationship and the world. Don’t look for your cure in others. You hold that power.
Why this channel has so little views ? This gentleman's youtube page should have thousands!!!. love you Gary, after seeing you in the oprah show, I'm obsessed with anything related to your knowledge.
J lo maybe others who followed Oprah didn't know he had a page on TH-cam. How did you find his page? I found it by accident. Ugh
Me too, by accident. I love the deep things of the spirit. :)
We need to tell people about this wonderful human being.
The reason why he has less views is because us humans we obsess with non motivational videos, talks which are useless. For example anything to do with robberies, nakedness, drinking, drugs the list is endless has millions of views.
I couldn't agree more. Gary is heaven-sent.
WOW! this just totally resonated. I’m so thankful I stumbled on this channel. Thank you.
Thank you Oprah for presenting us such a wonderful human being. I'll make my way to buy the book shortly. ❤
Was obsessed with your 1st. Book when I was young❣️
He is the best!, he has empowered me so many times with his wisdom and i am so grateful for people like him who change our lives
Your wisdom has change my life and my perception. I am grateful!
Finally a clear through break down of one's self. This was explained better than any pastor collecting offerings while shaking their heads with judgement. Powerful video.
This is deep. Real talk!
“Beware of what you are asking”
Thanks I wish I had heard that be4 lol
Extremely good insightful perspective. A video worth watching a number of times to grasp and apply the concept in your own life.
I’ve listened to this teaching more than 20x and recently ordered the book. thank you 🙏
It's so true that it's easy to get caught up in honeymoon fantasy and try to make those feelings last forever, but they're not based in reality so they never will. The ugliness of reality will eventually settle in whether you like it or not. No one is 'perfect enough' to fantasize about forever, once the butterflies settle down you have to really look and see what you and this other person have to offer each other.
I’ve listened to this message so many times because I need to hear it over and over... thank you ❤️
Your books, Gary, are changing my life. Thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you
Thank you. This is a road map for what I have been wanting for a long time. Love the book, but this video is so easy to share.
Lovely to hear you Mr. Zukav. You level me up ❤️
thank you very much - wonderfully explained
completely!
Oh my God. This man is amazing.
I love this, Gary! Thank you!👍👍👏👏👏👏
absolutely magic ! ThANK YOU FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE.
Oh wow!! This came exactly at the right time!!!😃 I literally wrote down questions over the last few days, feeling stuck in this pattern of codependency. You just answered them all!! Thank you so much!! 💝🙏🏻💫💫
A video very close to heart. Thank you Gary Zukav for being so wonderful.
I love you Mr. Zuvak! Thank you. Thank you!
Clear, concise and remarkable insight!
Beautiful and wise words 👏
Thank you sir !
Thank you so much Mr Zukav you have made me realise all the mistakes I have done in my relationships and I am going to change
Thank you for sharing your insight, knowledge and your own personal experience. This will make a difference in my life and my family
I just know this channel..
Ooohh my God, am I late ?..I hope not. I'm your new subscriber. 🙂No coincidence.., I saw him in Oprah show.., I've learned about Spritual lately.., so I think the universe just give a sign by this channel..., Thank you..🙏
I haven't ever asked for Romance. That's scary to me. Gary, you are so timely.. 💞
Romance isn’t real ; everything comes from within , and when you seek outside of yourself you’ll just end up finding mirrors reflecting to you what needs healing within you .
I could listen to this man ALL DAY.
Love his views. Oprah promoted dr Phil and he lost his soul. This man has substance. Hope you keep your soul.
self love and improvment, reading Zukav, Hoffman and Singer, self love and spiritual.ork, healing past traumas, this is only right, not reverse psihology. I am.watching Jonathon Asley and he always recommend your book
Love Gary!! So many amazing learning moments I have had listening to him!!
Here we find with Gary... a TRUE Master Teacher!
My Zukav LOVE YOU , HAVE FOR MANY MOONS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM AND LOVE !!!CChris ……….Syd Australia love your books !!!
Yes i am here and yes i have had to look at myself and yes its hard and yes its painful but its worth it in every sense
When your attracted to someone they have something in their brain you want
This is sooooooo good 🥰. Thank you
YOU ARE DOPE!!!! This video is 100% on point!
Sometimes the partners cause them - ie domestic abuse / abandonment/ deceit etc. teal swan is finally acknowledging the need for connectivity and the mirroring
Karina Lombrozo clearly you’re having a response if fear, just as he predicts. Listen, give him a chance!
Thank You. Truly life changing.
Wow this is so helpful! 🦋😊 thank you!
They are not when we get to know the other person during a lengthy period of time before committing ourselves to it. A relationship is a common 'enterprise' of giving n taking with full respect towards e.o. It takes two to tango. The tango of love.
Man this is some great stuff! #respect
Nailed it!🌹
Perfect timing
Brilliant video!! Thank you⚘
Thanks a lot for all that you talked
Life changing:)
He is very GOOD!!! Excellent!!!
Sweet Jesus this was good! 💥💥💥
FANTASTIC!!!! 👏👏👏💓💕💖
wonderful.. Thank U 🙏&2find Ur channel 🔥♥️😎👑 Soul Relationship King & of Psychology ..grateful comforts 2hear unspoken Truth of love projection said Soulfully & eloquently 🙏♥️🕊🍃🌞
I wish I knew this earlier
ive carried around for 38 years a feeling that i am inherently flawed and if people saw me as i really am they would not love me. eh. nevermind! i think this life is just a temporary dance anyway.
Simon0 why do you think that? God doesn't make junk. You are wonderful as you are. Did something traumatic happen to cause this thinking? Don't sell yourself short
Simon0 you are wonderful as you are! We all have this feeling on being flawed, but we aren’t. We are all unique and whole ❤️
You are not alone in feeling this way. Most of us who feel this way are on the journey inwards and trying to figure out why we react the way we do. I think it was extremely brave for you to post this. It shows courage and openness. A major step toward reclaiming your own power, healing and becoming friends with yourself. As I write this to you I am also writing the words I need to see also. ❤️
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
And also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards.
So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
And also, it seems that fathers usually hate it whenever their daughter gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy), and it seems that they often hate the idea of their daughter dating, and many fathers seem against the idea of their daughters dating. There are even shirts made for daughters that say "I'M NOT ALLOWED TO EVER DATE" and shirts made for fathers that say "DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING".
Brothers also tend to act the same way that fathers do whenever their sister gets a boyfriend (even if the boyfriend is a good guy). It seems brothers (like fathers) hate the idea of their sisters dating.
So it seems that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and it also seems that most brothers don't ever want their sisters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone.
So those could also be other reasons why the concept of romantic relationships isn't a good thing because of how protective fathers and brothers tend to be whenever their daughter or sister dates someone.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
I don’t understand this, when a partner tells his friend “ it is Valentine’s Day, go home take your wife to dinner, to me it doesn’t matter , I don’t care about these things very proudly, then comes home announces to his wife very proudly what he said to his friend. How this is only a trigger. He doesn’t even consider that person standing in front of him a human being, how this is going to hurt that person. How to stand and listen to this and not to get hurt? I really don’t get it. Someone please enlighten me and I am open
Remember this simple rule.
No one comes Into your life for your reason , they come Into your life for there own reasons .
This means that we are all natural selfish although we can give and can be generous we want a relationship for our own benefit in the first instance .
We give in a relationship so that we can receive what ever it is that we think we need .
All relationships are insecurity Based and are based in needs and greed's .
If someone is secure and does not need a person in there life full time then they won't have one , so all those who are in relationships have needs to fulfill which could be a need to survive and reproduce and also for company for fear of being alone .
100 percent true
Touching speech 👍
Me every 20 seconds watching this: Wow Wow Wow
Love this info!
Wow! a big Reflective moment
This man is wise...
Thank you so much 🤍
Amen to THAT!
Seat of the Soul opened me up about fifteen years ago. Ever since my Soul has longed to meet yours in pursuit of a complete alignment for Self-moreso now than ever. #Dreams
Thank you 🙏🏻 I feel like you are speaking directly 2 me ❤️ Have you had any downloads on lemurians ? if so is that relative ?
Wow..it my pleasure to find your page , it's a good day to start my 2019 ,,,, Yes✨🙏🔱
If a partner suddenly switches gears into a controlling narcissist set to psychologically destroy you once they have leverage or power over you.... how is that coming from within yourself? Please explain.
E. P.: Life is a mirror. You're reflecting what's inside of you. Anything bad we see in others are the parts we don't want to see and accept about ourselves.
There are unhealthy relationships that should end if both partners are not open to growth. Sometimes people are too afraid to end a relationship for fear of being alone with themselves.
E.P. : That's exactly what I thought too. What he said can't be applied to relationships where abusers are involved. I wish he'd at least qualify it so that it wouldn't inadvertently encourage people to stay in abusive relationships. The moment you find out your partner is a narcissist, hopefully sooner rather than later, is the moment you should start to plan to leave the relationship. Don't ever think you can change a narcissist for the better because that's just not going to happen.
@@shopgirlseeks @tipperarylinks explains it perfectly... The comment on top 👆🏾
@@shopgirlseeks " we are the answer and the question, If one is abused, it is in the best interest of the abused to search with in for the reasons he allowed and created the space for the abuse. the abused allowed for the abuse. Abusers/ Abusee's are looking for the same fulfillment of external power.
Thankx so much🙏
wow so true!
Very helpful!!! Thank Gary!!! Muito obrigada!!!
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Fantastic!!!!!!!
Amazing insight
Question
I have listen to most of all your pod cast. My question
Can a soul leave the body and another soul take over the body?
Or was it the same soul all that time? Because you help me cope with my current situation.
Could one soul leave body and new soul take over?
I once knew one kind caring soul. But this new soul in his current body is who I don’t know. Please answer.
Its just the opposite...body dies since body is made of 5 earthly elements...soul remains the same
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She fucking hates me.. Nah nah nah nah.. I tried to hard and she tore my feelings like I had none.. And ripped them away..
So helpful
This is a paradox because, if you need someone to help you grow spiritually, this would be the same as needing someone to complete you.
Think this is brilliant! However, I’m just confused about sexual attraction. So is sexual attraction just an illusion then?
I see a major contradiction in Gary’s reincarnation model, which goes as follows:
1) In his book, the Seat of the Soul, Gary says: ”After an incarnation, the soul returns once again to it’s natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love.
2) But Gary also says that the purpose of our many physical incarnations is to heal and evolve the soul.
So my question Is: If the soul’s natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love, then what on earth does the soul need to heal from or evolve into? It’s already in a natural, pristine state of boundless love. I don’t get it
We hv forgotten our true essence of peace n happiness...love n compassion are there in us but we are searching outside....also tbere are past life impressions n this birth impressions of anger..hate...resentment ..jealousy which we need to heal n evolve n return back to our original nature of purity...peace...compassion...truth...righteousness etc
@@meghananemlekar6873 If our natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love, as Gary says, then the logical conclusion is that all we have to do is stay away from material incarnations and we won't develop anger, hate, resentment, jealousy, etc., which is where this negative stuff develops - according to Gary's model. So we will remain in our natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love in our non-material existence.
Put another way, if we're already in a natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love, then there's no higher level to evolve into. We're already at our highest conscious state in our evolution. Where else is there to go from a natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love?
@@Secular_Monk ..pls do brahmakumaris 7 days course fr further clarification
We take on these issues each incarnation to take responsibility for the healing process. Accepting what has to be healed rather than avoiding it.
@@LearningTheStixx If the soul's "natural state is compassion, clarity and boundless love," as Gary says, there is literally nothing to be healed. You're already there: in natural state of compassion, clarity and boundless love! So, logically, just stay the hell out of physical reality and you're already "perfect," good to go! If it ain't broke, don't fix it!
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