@@serioussam909 have you heard the phrase if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all? I was very unhappy and barely surviving. I'm now happier than l ever thought possible, I'm clean and sober, l am in a healthy relationship, and l have a career I love, I am no longer just surving but positively thriving, and you think I was better off before?
@@serioussam909 I look my age, which is 48. As trans men we always look much younger pre testosterone, and then once on testosterone we go through male puberty and catch up with our age. I look like any average 48 year old man does. Why are you so obsessed with looks?!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I'm not the one who has gone through god knows how many surgeries to change their looks (for the worse to be honest). If anyone is obsessed with looks - it's you. I don't even have any piercings or tattoos. You could have those relationships, career and everything else without those body mods. In fact I would not wish something like that to my worst enemy.
Hey there, Finn! Thank you for your video posts, even though this comment is over 2 years late! Haha. Nonetheless, I am grateful to have come across you (: Out of all the countless FTM introductions I've seen... yours has got to be the closest to my coming out (only out to those in support groups and a few peps I know in real life). I was in denial for I must say, 4 years? A year after I graduated high school in 2009; twenty-three now. I've been "officially" out since January of this year.
Bless you my friend, thank you. We all come to our realisations in our own ways, at our own times. There is no right and wrong in this and no one is more trans than the other depending on their coming out time. I was in denial for a heck of a lot longer! congrats on coming out, I hope its all going well?
Watching this video after watching your more recent ones gives me hope that where ever my journey will take me, weather I choose T or not, bottom surgery or not it will definitely take me to a better place
Im very glad this video had that effect! yes, there is a ton of hope to be had! If you need any more info, I have a website too finlaygames.com/welcome/
+Krystle Smith Ah how lovely , thank you! I love it when someone comments on my old vids, it means I see my old face, get taken by surprise, realise just how far Ive come, and grin my face off!!!
+Krystle Smith I just discovered the channel too, and I'm doing the exact same thing. I just found this channel last night, and I think I have become addicted!
+FinnTheInfinncible You really have come a long way too. I'm so impressed by how well you and Drew have handled this. Thank you for sharing your journey.
FinnTheInfinncible Total change in subject but you look a good bit like Donny Walhberg, especially in your profile photo. I mean that as a complimentary comparison, as I think most NKOTB fans have found/still find Donny very attractive.
I just scrolled down all your videos to find this one. Watching one of your videos I couldn't believe it. I thought you were a born male posing as a transgender. It blows my mind looking at the difference.
Everytime one of the old videos gets a comment and pops up it blows my mid too! I remember discovering trans people, and it blowing my mind! Suddenly realising what had been 'wrong' all my life! And now here I am, happy and at peace as the man I have always been on the inside, finally showing on the outside :)
Ah thanks my friend! I love being your cooking companion! These old vids are a joy to watch, OK perhaps a little cringey at times, but so wonderful to see how far I've come on ever level! Happy new years eve my friend!
ok finn i have been following you for a while now and decided to gooooooooooooooo way back to the beginning to your first video. question what was your female name? i thought there was maybe a link between the 2 and why you chose the name Finn
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks man appreciate it I’m so happy so see how far you have come in your transition since your first ever video incredible! It makes me so excited for myself and the changes I’m also going to experience
I was recommended to your page today. I'm 56. I was previously on T 2017-18. Off for the past two years but know that I have to go back on and be my real self. Anyway, I will be watching your videos. I'm up in Scotland.
Yay! Welcome to the FinnFam! Lovely to have you here. Welcome to this epic journey too! Sometimes we need a couple of false starts before we really get going! I look forward to getting to know you in the comments section! I have a website with additional info too at finlaygames.com
Thank you mate, honesty is the only way for me! And yeah, it is the small things that are the hardest to adjust too, I still struggle with whether to X or not!! And then how many...and then if I dont will they think Ive gone off them...its all so darn complicated!! Its an ongoing discussion for me and my male and female friends...crazy but fun times!!!
Congratulations little Finn! 💕 You made it to a successfully completed stage 3 surgery! You're journey has been so educational and incredibly awe inspiring to watch you build yourself in to the amazing man you are! Love you so much Finncutehair! This video is just as special and important as the videos you make today, as it's a very special building block in the foundation of who you are. Looking forward to seeing where your life continues to take you. The world is your oyster! 😊😘❤☀
Oi! Less of the little! hes a big boy now ;) Ah I see you mean baby Finn! ;) Thanks sweets, yes what a bloody journey! Wouldnt change it for the world and cant wait to see where it takes me next! So glad your with me on the ride!
FinnTheInfinncible I know you're having a joke, but yes, I meant baby Finn as in chronologically you 😉 😊 But Finn Jr.. hey he's another story.. I'm sure you could use him as a lightsaber and win any battle 😀😂😍😘 It's really special to be walking this journey with such an incredible man of character xxx
Hey Finn, thank you for your video and sharing your story, I am 4 years older and I really appreciate seeing someone around my age posting their story. I am just now starting to watch your videos so I see I have quite the way to go =) Looking forward to your vlogs. Thanks again and best regards.
Hi my friend! Yes there are a few of us late bloomers around! It does seem like a steep uphill climb but just take it one small step at the time an before you know it you will be at the very top. great to meet you and good luck with your journey!
Thanks My friend, omg your videos are addicting ! I didn't get to bed till 3 am last night because I watched your videos :-) Thank you for the reply =) Hope you and your gf are well ... Tomorrow is the day for my first Day of T =)
Hi again James, Ive just commented back to you on my other vid, fantastic to meet you, always love meeting trans guys in recovery :). Congrats on both your sobriety and starting T soon, I really look forward to seeing your vids, let me know when they are up! Take care man.
Omg I’ve just found your channel and this is the first video I’ve watched..I’m just coming out and I’m 38 in two weeks...any help you could share I’d be grateful. Gunna be watching all your stuff
Hello and welcome to the FinnFam! Welcome to the journey too! I have tons of playlists on all aspects of gender transition, and I have a website with additional resurces to. I shall link you to a page which has all my written and video resources, hope its helpful, and do feel free to send me a message anytime! finlaygames.com/index/
You too bud :). Im finding more and more older guys and thats great, loving being part of the channel, has really made a difference to my settling into myself. Its a great community to be a part of!
A up my Sunshiney Finn! I just thought I'd look and see when you started vlogging because I didn't know yet. After watching your first video I'm going to repeat myself and say you've really grown into yourself, in such a beautiful way! And now you're counting down to the final part of your physical transition, it's sooooo exciting!!! I'll be cheering with you at that final 'ping' from the transgender cake in the oven LOL!!!
Found your channel through a reddit thread when searching for a lesbian relationship where one partner ended up coming out as trans. I've been married to my partner for 8 years now, who identified as "non binary" for most of our relationship (actually still is lol) but recently started taking testosterone. He has already had the name change, the pronouns and the top surgery. At this point I'm just trying to get ahead of the game so I'm not taken off guard again. So thank you for these videos!
Hello and welcome to our friendly Finnfam community! I'm glad to be able to help. My partner and l split in the end, it wasn't really about being trans though, we had just grown apart. I know plenty of people who's relationships have continued and even got stronger for it so please dont let that news worry you! I wish you both a world of happiness and of l can help at all please do stop me a message. I have an accompanying website with more info and you can contact me there too,its finlaygames.com. please stay in touch!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I just sent you what I think was an email? Anyway, sorry it ended rather abruptly. I have to get my little patient ready for school in a few minutes and was thinking, why am I writing such a long thing when we haven't even started a dialogue? So then I just sent it without a proper end like a weirdo American. I do look forward to talking with you.
Wow Finn you've grown into such an amazing man/human. I'm very young I'm only 19. But seeing your story from here and your very last new video you posted yesterday. It's helping me a lot to think about my gender. I'm closed trans male. My coming out story isn't all sunshine and roses. I'm still struggling to fully come out to my tran/homophobic family. It's hard when you love your family to death. But it's also hard when they play a Christian card game with you. Say that you were born a girl. Feeling/being a boy is wrong. And will never understand a boys mind or have any boy trats. It's been very hard for me last year and this year. But I am fighting in my own way, and I'm growing into person I am today. I can't wait to keep watching your videos. I'm so honored to find you in the time of my life. I really need wiser words from a person who is like me in some was. Really thank you from the bottom of my heart that you even made this channel. I'm excited to keep going with you in this amazing adventure you are unfolding. Love ya Finn. Cx
Glad l could get these in order for you! I'm going to go the same with al my series playlists now to make it easier for folks to watch them. Thanks for pointing it out!
You ARE a happy dude - loving your videos mate, very open and honest. Cheers for sharing your experiences. I dig what you mean about the small changes taking time to get used to e.g. how to sign off texts/emails now, to both male and female friends, 'x' feels wrong for either.
Wow you have chanced and grown so much comparing with newer videos. I hope you don't have problems with alcohol anymore, it's not fun. And congratulations with the regent engagement.
Thanks mate, the wait is the hardest part....feels like forever...but suddenly the day arrives and someone sticks a needle full of T in yr butt!! Hang in there dude!
Wow a lot has changed since this video! Find a more recent me here: th-cam.com/play/PL-xdbMjLqelIeuSd3sFjB_O751xVbXVr4.html
You looked way better before all this.
@@serioussam909 have you heard the phrase if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all? I was very unhappy and barely surviving. I'm now happier than l ever thought possible, I'm clean and sober, l am in a healthy relationship, and l have a career I love, I am no longer just surving but positively thriving, and you think I was better off before?
@@FinnTheInfinncible But it looks like you aged for like 3 decades in less than 10 years.
@@serioussam909 I look my age, which is 48. As trans men we always look much younger pre testosterone, and then once on testosterone we go through male puberty and catch up with our age. I look like any average 48 year old man does. Why are you so obsessed with looks?!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I'm not the one who has gone through god knows how many surgeries to change their looks (for the worse to be honest). If anyone is obsessed with looks - it's you. I don't even have any piercings or tattoos. You could have those relationships, career and everything else without those body mods. In fact I would not wish something like that to my worst enemy.
A cool dude then, a cool dude now.
Ah thank you!
Hey there, Finn! Thank you for your video posts, even though this comment is over 2 years late! Haha. Nonetheless, I am grateful to have come across you (: Out of all the countless FTM introductions I've seen... yours has got to be the closest to my coming out (only out to those in support groups and a few peps I know in real life). I was in denial for I must say, 4 years? A year after I graduated high school in 2009; twenty-three now. I've been "officially" out since January of this year.
Bless you my friend, thank you. We all come to our realisations in our own ways, at our own times. There is no right and wrong in this and no one is more trans than the other depending on their coming out time. I was in denial for a heck of a lot longer! congrats on coming out, I hope its all going well?
Watching this video after watching your more recent ones gives me hope that where ever my journey will take me, weather I choose T or not, bottom surgery or not it will definitely take me to a better place
Im very glad this video had that effect! yes, there is a ton of hope to be had! If you need any more info, I have a website too finlaygames.com/welcome/
Just found your channel. Going back and watching all your old videos. You and your partner are adorable, love following your story! :)
+Krystle Smith Ah how lovely , thank you! I love it when someone comments on my old vids, it means I see my old face, get taken by surprise, realise just how far Ive come, and grin my face off!!!
+Krystle Smith I just discovered the channel too, and I'm doing the exact same thing. I just found this channel last night, and I think I have become addicted!
+FinnTheInfinncible You really have come a long way too. I'm so impressed by how well you and Drew have handled this. Thank you for sharing your journey.
+Eliana Tali ah how wonderful to make you addicted!! Bless you my friend for your very kind comments, thank you so much for watching
FinnTheInfinncible
Total change in subject but you look a good bit like Donny Walhberg, especially in your profile photo. I mean that as a complimentary comparison, as I think most NKOTB fans have found/still find Donny very attractive.
I just scrolled down all your videos to find this one. Watching one of your videos I couldn't believe it. I thought you were a born male posing as a transgender. It blows my mind looking at the difference.
Everytime one of the old videos gets a comment and pops up it blows my mid too! I remember discovering trans people, and it blowing my mind! Suddenly realising what had been 'wrong' all my life! And now here I am, happy and at peace as the man I have always been on the inside, finally showing on the outside :)
It’s really amazing watching these old videos and seeing how far you’ve come. Once again, I’m cooking to your greatest hits. 😁🥰
Ah thanks my friend! I love being your cooking companion! These old vids are a joy to watch, OK perhaps a little cringey at times, but so wonderful to see how far I've come on ever level! Happy new years eve my friend!
I am a really really lucky guy to have such amazing support from people. Its blows me away everyday :)
Thank you so much! Its amazing watching this vid now and seeing how far Ive come!!
ok finn i have been following you for a while now and decided to gooooooooooooooo way back to the beginning to your first video. question what was your female name? i thought there was maybe a link between the 2 and why you chose the name Finn
Oh my, its like a different person! I dont publicly share my old name. I really dont see the point as its just a name!
So cool to watch this video after seeing a more recent one. Thank you for being open about your journey!
Ah I love to do that too! It astounds me this epic journey I have been on! Thanks for watching and for that lovely comment!
Iv just started T I’m about a week on it and it feels amazing your videos are really inspiring me so thank you for sharing your journey 🥰
It makes my absolute day to hear that! A mahooosive congrats on starting T!
@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks man appreciate it I’m so happy so see how far you have come in your transition since your first ever video incredible! It makes me so excited for myself and the changes I’m also going to experience
I was recommended to your page today. I'm 56. I was previously on T 2017-18. Off for the past two years but know that I have to go back on and be my real self. Anyway, I will be watching your videos. I'm up in Scotland.
Yay! Welcome to the FinnFam! Lovely to have you here. Welcome to this epic journey too! Sometimes we need a couple of false starts before we really get going! I look forward to getting to know you in the comments section! I have a website with additional info too at finlaygames.com
Thank you mate, honesty is the only way for me! And yeah, it is the small things that are the hardest to adjust too, I still struggle with whether to X or not!! And then how many...and then if I dont will they think Ive gone off them...its all so darn complicated!! Its an ongoing discussion for me and my male and female friends...crazy but fun times!!!
Congratulations little Finn! 💕 You made it to a successfully completed stage 3 surgery! You're journey has been so educational and incredibly awe inspiring to watch you build yourself in to the amazing man you are! Love you so much Finncutehair! This video is just as special and important as the videos you make today, as it's a very special building block in the foundation of who you are. Looking forward to seeing where your life continues to take you. The world is your oyster! 😊😘❤☀
Oi! Less of the little! hes a big boy now ;) Ah I see you mean baby Finn! ;) Thanks sweets, yes what a bloody journey! Wouldnt change it for the world and cant wait to see where it takes me next! So glad your with me on the ride!
FinnTheInfinncible I know you're having a joke, but yes, I meant baby Finn as in chronologically you 😉 😊 But Finn Jr.. hey he's another story.. I'm sure you could use him as a lightsaber and win any battle 😀😂😍😘 It's really special to be walking this journey with such an incredible man of character xxx
Hey Finn, thank you for your video and sharing your story, I am 4 years older and I really appreciate seeing someone around my age posting their story. I am just now starting to watch your videos so I see I have quite the way to go =) Looking forward to your vlogs. Thanks again and best regards.
Hi my friend! Yes there are a few of us late bloomers around! It does seem like a steep uphill climb but just take it one small step at the time an before you know it you will be at the very top. great to meet you and good luck with your journey!
Thanks My friend, omg your videos are addicting ! I didn't get to bed till 3 am last night because I watched your videos :-) Thank you for the reply =) Hope you and your gf are well ... Tomorrow is the day for my first Day of T =)
Hi again James, Ive just commented back to you on my other vid, fantastic to meet you, always love meeting trans guys in recovery :). Congrats on both your sobriety and starting T soon, I really look forward to seeing your vids, let me know when they are up! Take care man.
Omg I’ve just found your channel and this is the first video I’ve watched..I’m just coming out and I’m 38 in two weeks...any help you could share I’d be grateful. Gunna be watching all your stuff
Hello and welcome to the FinnFam! Welcome to the journey too! I have tons of playlists on all aspects of gender transition, and I have a website with additional resurces to. I shall link you to a page which has all my written and video resources, hope its helpful, and do feel free to send me a message anytime! finlaygames.com/index/
FinnTheInfinncible thanks Finn. I will definitely check out your site. I’m planning on documenting everything too but over on Instagram
WOW... watching your first video for comparison... you were awesome even here, you've come so far though!
Ah yes! Its both strange and wonderful to see this old me now! What a journey!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I agree
Hello Finn, thank you for sharing. You are making the internet a better place 😊 Best wishes
What a lovely thing to say, thank you so much!
You too bud :). Im finding more and more older guys and thats great, loving being part of the channel, has really made a difference to my settling into myself. Its a great community to be a part of!
Heyy! Just wanted to say, i think you're pritty brilliant and i love your vlogs! Inspiration for all :D Happy transitioning!
A up my Sunshiney Finn! I just thought I'd look and see when you started vlogging because I didn't know yet. After watching your first video I'm going to repeat myself and say you've really grown into yourself, in such a beautiful way! And now you're counting down to the final part of your physical transition, it's sooooo exciting!!! I'll be cheering with you at that final 'ping' from the transgender cake in the oven LOL!!!
Oh I do love it when I re visit this vlog....how times have changed!!! Thank you so much, I cannot wait for that final ping!!!!
Found your channel through a reddit thread when searching for a lesbian relationship where one partner ended up coming out as trans. I've been married to my partner for 8 years now, who identified as "non binary" for most of our relationship (actually still is lol) but recently started taking testosterone. He has already had the name change, the pronouns and the top surgery. At this point I'm just trying to get ahead of the game so I'm not taken off guard again. So thank you for these videos!
Hello and welcome to our friendly Finnfam community! I'm glad to be able to help. My partner and l split in the end, it wasn't really about being trans though, we had just grown apart. I know plenty of people who's relationships have continued and even got stronger for it so please dont let that news worry you! I wish you both a world of happiness and of l can help at all please do stop me a message. I have an accompanying website with more info and you can contact me there too,its finlaygames.com. please stay in touch!
@@FinnTheInfinncible I just sent you what I think was an email? Anyway, sorry it ended rather abruptly. I have to get my little patient ready for school in a few minutes and was thinking, why am I writing such a long thing when we haven't even started a dialogue? So then I just sent it without a proper end like a weirdo American.
I do look forward to talking with you.
Haha!! yeah its wierd watching this vid now, Ive changed so much in 9 months!!
Wow Finn you've grown into such an amazing man/human. I'm very young I'm only 19. But seeing your story from here and your very last new video you posted yesterday. It's helping me a lot to think about my gender. I'm closed trans male. My coming out story isn't all sunshine and roses. I'm still struggling to fully come out to my tran/homophobic family. It's hard when you love your family to death. But it's also hard when they play a Christian card game with you. Say that you were born a girl. Feeling/being a boy is wrong. And will never understand a boys mind or have any boy trats. It's been very hard for me last year and this year. But I am fighting in my own way, and I'm growing into person I am today. I can't wait to keep watching your videos. I'm so honored to find you in the time of my life. I really need wiser words from a person who is like me in some was. Really thank you from the bottom of my heart that you even made this channel. I'm excited to keep going with you in this amazing adventure you are unfolding. Love ya Finn. Cx
Thank you!
Glad l could get these in order for you! I'm going to go the same with al my series playlists now to make it easier for folks to watch them. Thanks for pointing it out!
I have been friends with bill & Bob for 3 1/2 years 🙂 found your channel today. Best wishes!
+KaylenaMakeupArtist Ah how wonderful to find a mutual friend! Best wishes to you too!
You ARE a happy dude - loving your videos mate, very open and honest.
Cheers for sharing your experiences. I dig what you mean about the small changes taking time to get used to e.g. how to sign off texts/emails now, to both male and female friends, 'x' feels wrong for either.
Wow you have chanced and grown so much comparing with newer videos. I hope you don't have problems with alcohol anymore, it's not fun. And congratulations with the regent engagement.
Thanks so much! Yes, lots and lots of changes, and all positive ones for a change! I am still sober, 10 years now!
Great Vid, this is the stage I am at! I am not happy about waiting either! :o)
Haha! Thanks my friend! Good to meet you too!!
38! No way! you look about 20 mate :D
great into vid finn only just came across it :D
Thanks mate, the wait is the hardest part....feels like forever...but suddenly the day arrives and someone sticks a needle full of T in yr butt!! Hang in there dude!
Your so different 😱
Haha! I know right! In every way possible! I love getting comments on old vids as its so awesome to be reminded of the change!!!
+FinnTheInfinncible it makes me stay positive. Even though I'm a long way off from where you are, I'm really excited/nervous to face this journey.
We all start at the beginning my friend, youll be surprised how quick time goes as you move along the journey
hahahha your vid made me laugh from the get go...I'm in AA ...LOL
Haha! Yeah its true!!! I get that all the time, its a good job I dont drink or smoke because Id never get served :D!!! Cheers man :)
True story :)
I can feel the cry for attention.