How to Raise Children on Deen & Dunya | EPIC Masjid | Hina Khan Mukhtar
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SubhanAllah. When Frozen was at its peak I reverted to Islam. I did it secretly so my parents didn't know I was a Muslim, it was several months on that I started to gather the courage to tell them that I am a Muslim now, and let it go was my courage song 😅. I was like that, concealing my faith, I was acting as the good girl I was supposed to be, but inside me was my faith burning strong, so when Elsa said "Here I stand and here I stay
Let the storm rage on" that was my line, no matter what my parents will say, I was a Muslim and there was no coming back, mind you I was a really young girl at the time. So it hits different for me Alhamdulillah.
So precious ! ❤
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May Allah keep you steadfast on your deen
What about ur life after that. The reaction of parents and brother sisters, the marital life, children, if. Plz share .
@@Masood-w7h well, I won't lie, it was a rocky road, parents didn't accept at the beginning, bother supported them, extended family and friends stopped contact, that was their way to try to convince me from quitting Islam, Alhamdulillah Allah gave me the courage to know that as long as I have Him I needed no one else. Eventually they accept it (my mother didn't talk to me for more than 7 years). Only one of my friends is still my friend. Alhamdulillah Allah blessed me with a pius husband who is my rock and support, he is my shield. It was very hard, very extremely hard to be cast out but I would do it all over again if I have to, my deen is worth that and more. When I was struggling I used to remember about the companions of our Prophet saw and I knew that what I was going through was nothing in comparison Alhamdulillah. Always having in mind the Aya in Surah of the spider, do you think you will say I believe and won't be tested?".
Listening to this making me break to tears.. in reflection that I, myself need to increase my knowledge in my deen. My Allah guide me and us to His path and increase knowledge.
Ameen
"Nothing is from us..." Insha'Allah will certainly stick to my mind. Such a beautiful reminder to the power of Du'aa and to appreciate the blessings of Allah. We should be grateful to the blessings of Allah and use them as a mean to get closer to HIM. BarakaAllah Fiikum.
I cried listening to this , the best video I ever listen to , my ALLAH bless you and your family, My ALLAH guide us to his path
Ameen
Maşallah Sübhanallah it is such a great time spent. It is like a lecture. I should watch it over and over again. May Allah bless you
MashaAllah this was beautiful!! Best parenting lecture I’ve heard hands down. May Allah bless the speaker, her family, and all the listeners with righteous children, and may He allow us to bring up a strong and united ummah!
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
May Allah protect you and your family sister.
Jzk jzk kairn alhamdulillah ✨️ alhamdulillah ✨️
Top 10 tips
1) Dua...all success is from Allah SWT....every time a decision..istikhara...every time a need..salatul hajar... every time a good..salatul shukr
2) Suhnah... Your companions...Your friends and relatives and your children's friends...around your children. Ensure children grow up in wider community. You are who your friends are. Your children are who their friends are.
2b) Relationship with grandparents...teach.. selflessness..compassion...adab..service...look out for their needs... prioritise their care.
2c) children having mentors who they can take advice from... teachers/shaikh they can take advice from
3) Living with the Prophet (saw)....make the Prophet saw a living example in your children's life...refer to Muhammad (saw) give his example to introduce different things...
Post index cards...the dua for doing different things....repeat to memorise... introduce..gently...print sunnah duas
...teach children Seerah ( example of prophet saw with kids, family)..and Nasheeds about Prophet saw...the Life of Perfection....1 hadith every day about Prophet (Saw)
...make children know/love Prophet (saw)
child praying fajr....the last word of the Prophet (SAW)...the prayer, the prayer, the prayer. All who prayed loved the Prophet (Sallalhu Alayhus Salaam)
4 ) Beware the dangers of don't...make your home as halal as possible...the religion of 'yes you can'...for every haram stopped..give 2 halls to children...
Jazakallu khair.
Please share remaining. Very helpful
I'm listening to this for the second, third time!
Masha Allah..This is one of the most touching parenting talks...May Allah bless you sister
May Allah reward you for this beautiful lecture.
Jazakillahukhair sister. May Allah bless you and your family. Very informative talk
In Islam, raising children on both Deen and Dunya involves nurturing them spiritually, morally, and intellectually. The Qur'an encourages parents to instill values like God-consciousness, good character, and gratitude, while the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) emphasized kindness, justice, and education in parenting. Islam teaches the importance of balancing religious and worldly knowledge, ensuring children grow up as compassionate, knowledgeable, and morally upright individuals who can succeed both in their faith and in society.
Salaams. I enjoyed listening to you even not having children. I will forward to parents
Excellent suggestions. May Allah help raise awareness in parents towards bringing up leaders of the muttaqeen.
Jazakallah Kair my sister may Allah help and guide every parent ❤and there families allhumma ameen this was beauitful nice lecture may Allah reward u and ur family❤❤❤ ❤ thanks to the umma that shared this may Allah reward them and there rightous kides❤ Allhumma ameen
Best lecture so many good examples
JezakumuAllahu heyren jeza. May Allah bless you and your family with all goodness in this world and the next ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
MasaAllah beautiful speech
I have to admit that I don't get inspired by female speakers easily, no I'm not biased at all. But Hina Khan you nailed it! Well spoken and super quality material that's needed today. Well done Hina.❤ i shared the video with all my family and friends.
Jazakum allahu khairan
JazakaAllahu kheyr
May Allah guide me my kids my parents my husband all ummah in straight path..Aameen Summa Aameen 😢
Ma sha Allah Allahuma Barik 💚🩷 this is the best parenting master class May Allah bless you and your family and all of us. Ameen
Maasha Allah Jasakalaahu Khayr sis Allahumabarik
Jazakallahu khairan, the best parenting advices ❤
Jazakallah kHAIR for all the tips rising our youths on the straight path In Shaa Allahu !
Jazakallah khair. May Allah give you the best in this world and the hereafter sister. You have touched hearts. Tips will help everyone to raise pious kids. Obedience to Allah. Thank you sister may bless you with the best to you and your family.
ALLWAHUMMA SWALI ALAA SAYYIDNAA MUHAMMAD
💯Good Topic.. Educate the Muslim Ummah.. Families are lost in this world.. too much desires for the worldly life🎯
May Al'laah (sawt) Bless the Ummah of His Beloved Prophet Mohummad (sawt).
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MasyaAllah
Jazakallah Khair my dear sister may Allah bless you....GEMS of advice
Alhamdulillah all praise belongs to Allah. A great lecture.
The books recommended in this lecture: 1. The collapse of parenting by Leonard Sax and his other books; 2. Hold on to your kids by Gabor Mate & Gordon Neofeld
Alhumdulillah ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this topic ❤
MA sha Allah, very beneficial lecture. May Allah bless the Sister and her family with goodness in both worlds, for sharing such beneficial tips, Aameen. May Allah give success to the perents who follow these tips to bring up their children to be pleasing to Him. Aameen.
Thank you so
Much this is Golden advice I wish I got this when I was raising my kids but I can still benefit from this special the Dua tip I have experienced this and has done miracles. Jazak Allah ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
MashaAllah. Thanks for creating this lecture video
MashaAllah so relevant and informative! Helpful for any parents, new or old!
Masha Allah ❤
Hadith book recommended by her is called “Life of Perfection” Shamail of Rusulullah
Alhamdulillah 🤲you can did it sis-me from🇲🇾
Jazaki Allahu Khairan...great tips. May Allah help us to raise righteous children and keep us and them steadfast in the deen
Please do include how children are taught the importance of tawheed..the first pillar of Islam...the Salah is critically important..but Tawheed even more so
MashaAllah love this! Only thing I would disagree with is don’t introduce nasheed to your young children. Let them fall in love with the Quran first.
MashaAllah, a must listen
Great talk!!
Masha Allah sister
Amazing, and inspirational!
As salaamu alaiki Al hamdullilah jazaakallahu khayran. I really appreciate this may Allah bless you and your family Ameen 🤲🏾
Jazakum llah khairy 🎉
Sheikh Bilal,has a good workshop called Muhammad SAW to know Him is to love Him its all about the History of Islam
JazaakumuAllaahu khairan
Ameen
رب اجعلنی مقیم الصلوۃ ومن ذریتی ربنا تقبل دعاء 🤲🏻🤲🏻
Who else is motivated to have kids after watching this 😂
Thanks!
Top 10 tips.. continued
Have parties to celebrate when child reach specific Islamic milestones....one prayer at 7... selected...
4a) Expose children in homoeopathic doses of TV..not banned but not over exposure....children value time spent with family...make it family time.
Please do not allow children to be alone with internet.
Treat internet like loaded weapon
Teach children how to use it safely...
At least until age 12... No cellphone/laptop in children bedrooms on their own
5) parents talk the talk...parents practice what they preach...children are sponges...they learn from watching parents...
Show them your ibadah..giving charity..doing good
Child saw Father cried when he missed a prayer...this taught him more about importance of prayer than lectures. Praying on time..spending time doing Salah properly..letting children see
Get prayer 'in the way'... rather than get prayer 'out of the way'
6) not the bad guy but not the best friend either
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Show children...but also tell them what is expected...tell them when they need to pray... don't just show.
Subhanallah very good comments
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There's a lot to take from this talk. I would like to add one thing here I heard somewhere and it's for all both muslims and non-muslims. Don't clap or give candies (appreciate) to your children for everything good they do. Let your children learn they have to do good anyway. More so when we try to build their relationship with ALLAH. We even have to look elsewhere just to leave that act between them and ALLAH.
Plx tell us how to do this in oman..there are no commu ities n we have no one here..kids are not listening to wat we say
This is beautiful lecture jazakallah khair but I'm little bit upset because 2nd point is have a village or community of people with Islamic values but I moved to UK and I don't know how to be part of something like that where I can go halal fun things as a group neither do I have grandparents or aunties close by to have positive influence on them. I want best for my children in both worlds but I feel like it's not enough they deserve better
Eselamu Alejkum can I get the sister's web please
Good lecture but not every one gets that lucky like you sis, having many many elders around children or an army of cousins ma Sha Allah that you have.
I like the eyebrows.
Sister, you’re recommending books by people who are not Muslim. Do you not have any recommendations for a Muslim written books?
Beneficial knowledge can be taken from anyone. The first Muslims adopted worldly knowledge and technologies from good scholars and tyrants alike.
@@iwatchwithnoads7480 yeah true, but one must be very very careful when taking info from them, as they are heedless of tawheed and can instruct us to do something that seems harmless but it’s in direct contradiction with the teachings of our deen
You can always take what is beneficial and leave what isn't. If you are unsure, ask someone more knowledgeable. Our faith will be strengthened in discovering what is beneficial for our families, and our judgement can improve when we learn about things that we don't necessarily agree with. Wishing you and your family, and our Ummah, the best.
@@fatimahammoud9942 thank you for your reply - precisely as you said, when unsure, ask - so I asked, is it smart to be recommending these non Muslim books, as none of us really knows in these posts. In fact, if you watch some of the videos of real scholars, they will actually tell you to be very very careful when learning from other than true, Islamic, sunnah sources anything to do with how to morally behave. Of course, technology and scientific finds - sure go ahead. But something that can potentially inhibit your iman, you should definitely stay away from.
I completely agree with not learning morals from others not on the deen, however that is not the same as taking knowledge that is beneficial. For example, the sister mentioned a study that looked at the importance of fathers in teaching religion to their children. We apply this principle to our lives by encouraging fathers to actively teach deen to their children. There is no risk of straying from tawheed by looking at studies like this, in fact there is immense benefit. Allah sw gave all humans minds to discover and learn. When we come across knowledge that we are unsure of, that is when we ask those more knowledgeable to confirm what Islam says about these topics. Yes our values and morals should come from Islam, but our knowledge can come from any worthwhile source. @eminaticic5790
Please don’t say him but Allah. Translating Allah to He/Him doesn’t work.
Allah (swt) says “Huwa” for Himself; He says it in the Holy Qur’an. “Huwa” translates to “He is,” not “She is,” not “It is,” not “They are” - “HE IS.” A study of Arabic is crucial before making misinformed comments like the one above. I am only responding so that no one else is left confused or misled.
How NOT to come online in front of stranger Men on internet . "Women should stay home and not make videos of themselves and post online "
Aren't the forearms and wrist of a woman considered awrah? What's going on here??
A bit much
Listening to this making me break to tears.. in reflection that I, myself need to increase my knowledge in my deen. My Allah guide me and us to His path and increase knowledge.
Ameen