I think the parent that worries about if they are being a good parent is a sign of a good parent. We want to do our best but that's not always how a day goes but, you know what, tomorrow we'll wake up and try again. We love our kids and it shows in our daily efforts and time spent with them. Sending all the love and encouragement. You're doing great.
Hang in there, B&J! I raised two (only two!) - boy & girl. That alone was stressful, but you know what? Your consistency means you love them and the girls, complete with their hormonal ranges, will love you to the end. They’ll be with you forever!
You and Judy are very fortunate to have Mel, you guys have a lot more date nights, trips and alone time than a lot of people have and that’s with you guys having five kids. I was looking back at older videos about how often the older three would be with Mama, how you and Judy would travel a lot. Things have changed now, not as much help so you guys are really feeling the stresses of raising kids. Thankfully the older girls are old enough to do a lot of things themselves but that doesn’t mean you guys are safe from the teen years, good luck 😅.
@Dogmama00 I think you’re just basing your opinions off their vlogs. We’re only seeing what they show. Losing a loved one in a family is already tough as it is, it’s something that takes a lot of time to heal from. Mama was a big part of their life. I think they’re doing an amazing job as parents. But with you saying their 3 older girls would be with Mama and how they would travel a lot, I can see that you’re being insensitive towards them. Family time and spending time together as a married couple is just as important as being good parents. I think it’s awesome that the girls got to spend a lot of time with Mama. Remember they’re human beings and they have needs too. Yes they are fortunate to have family to help them but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to point out things about them like they have more date nights or etc than other people. It just seems like you are projecting and comparing yourself to them as a parent. Sure, we may have similarities in life but you will never be the same parent as them. Their vlogs only share some parts of their life on TH-cam but it’s not everything. At least give some parenting advice instead of saying they aren’t safe from teen years. I think they raised very good girls and anything you think that could happen in their daughter’s “teen years” is honestly none of your business. Not all parents struggle or aren’t “safe” in their kid’s teen years. Just please be nice and respectful. We’re all learning through life just as they are as parents.
Treasure every moment. It’s cliche to say it all goes fast, but it does and until it’s behind you, it’s hard to fully grasp how fleeting it is. My daughter is 25 and I miss the days you are in so much ❤
Benji alone time, even food shopping alone gives you time to re-energize, cool off and get a well deserved break. Every parent needs a break. Both you and Judy are great parents, go easy on yourselves.
as a daughter who's had talks with her dad about me and my sibling's childhood, i think you worrying about whether you're doing a good job is normal. my dad told me he wondered about that too, and it just made me so emotional lol... because i never questioned whether or not my parents were good parents. i know they are. we didn't have every material thing that my parents wanted to give us, but what i remember was the quality time we spent with our family would it have been better if we got more on-brand barbies? more gameboys? i don't think so haha
The fact that I was watching yesterday’s vlog while feeling like the worst mom ever. My baby fell off the bed and I cried for four hours. You and Judy were talking about how parenting is hard, and how parenting was one of the topics that your pastor was preaching about and you felt so proud yet you’re also learning. I felt a sense of relief because I’m a stay at home mom and I’m currently 6 months pregnant. It’s just a lot right now, so thank you so much. 😪🥲😩🥹🥺😞
Benji, your awareness & effort to evolve as a dad to your daughters is incredibly inspiring. As someone who doesn’t have a relationship with their dad, I now know how much that’s affected me growing up and even today, as an adult. I’m a long time viewer and can say I’m so proud of the parents you & Judy have become and the loving family you guys created ❤
Parenting is definitely a balance. I have an 18 (boy), 15 (girl), 11 (girl), they have taught me as much as I have taught them. What i have found is kids are people too and they want to be seen and heard no matter what age. You have a wonderful family and I truly enjoy watching your content as well as Judy’s. Give your girls a hug from me, time flies, before you know it you’ll be dropping them off at college (as I am 😳). 🤗
Benji! I’ve been watching u and the family for as long as I can remember, you two are such great parents!! It’s normal to doubt, it just means u are working to do your best for ur kids, and u totally are!!
Benji, you and Judy are amazing parents!! You guys are the reason why I’m excited to be a parent one day. I am taking a lot of notes for myself and my future kids. I hope to be great parents like you guys. Yes I’m sure parenting can be difficult and stressful but I think it’s safe to say that it’s just part of parenthood. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I think one of the most important things you both do as parents is that you are doing the best you can for your girls and yourself. I know one day they’ll look back and say they had the best parents in the world for them. No other parents will ever be comparable. Something I always cherished with my parents were the quality times and the way they showed me love such as simple gestures like giving me a plate of fruit. I’ve been watching you guys since your wedding day. I love watching your family vlogs and they bring me so much joy. I just wanted you both to know that I see how hard you try to be good parents and you both are definitely doing an awesome job! Much love ❤️
Benji, I am your spanking new subscriber! Been there done that. This too shall pass. Do the best you can as parents and have a strong sense of humor and you and Judy are going to be just fine!
I only have 2 kids 1 girl 25 and 1 boy 21. I couldn’t imagine having more than just those 2! God bless you both continue to give you patience. Even with my kids being adults now I still make mistakes! It doesn’t get easier it just changes imo. I still loose sleep over my adult children. IMO it’s easier to shop without small children. It’s cute to shop with them sometimes not all the time. Its ok to take time out alone to reset and do something you find joy in doing without any kids.
You guys are amazing parents!! I hope my sweet boy will grow up to have similar traits as the Travis kids! They are all so kind, smart, respectful, and just themselves! I’ve always wanted to see a video of you and Judy talking about the way you guys discipline and how to maintain structure in the kids lives. I’m a first-time-mom and would love all the tips and tricks as a growing parent
I have been watching you guys since I was in college and we're now expecting our first baby. I used to leave a comment in college saying that I want my husband to be as caring and loving as you, Benji. And now, I look up to you and Judy when it comes to parenting. YOU GUYS ARE DOING A GREAT JOB!
I think you and judy deserve a holiday not commitments just you two to reconnect ❤ love both ur channels and been watching since before u had julianna ❤i was in highschool when i started watching and now im in my 30’s
Its so difficult but believe it’s all temporary. Prioritizing during a difficult time would help you guys get back on track and don’t forget to ask for help!
Thank you Benji for being so honest !! I am dealing with this right now. I just had a baby 2 weeks ago and it’s been difficult transitioning with 2 kids now. My oldest who is almost 5 has had a difficult time. And me not spending the time I used to with her does not help. She’s been acting out more and I haven’t been patient with her like I should. But like you said there is no perfect parent we continue to learn and grow. And the most important thing is always speaking life into them especially to end the day ! Thank you !!
Aww thank you Benji for thinking to cheers to those who WANT to be parents! I'm a long time viewer of you guys, however not a parent yet but God willing I will be one day! 🙏🏽 Keep up the great work Benji!
Benji, with all the green onions you go through...you can cut the stems with roots and put it in jar/cup /vase in water but not over the stems...the onions will naturally grow again especially by your kitchen windows in the sun.
$2.99 for cilantro is wild. I thought $1.29 for organic was expensive here... You can get non organic for $.50. I live in Texas so maybe it grows better here.
Benji....You are such a great cook. You pay attention to detail and make sure your dishes are flavorful. Judy gets to enjoy your meals along with your children. Excellente!
Ohhh they’ll get easier to manage. You and Judy has a house full of personalities & emotions. (us women)… Stand on business always with your parenting!
I appreciate your honesty and transparency so much, Benji. Parenting is hard and hearing you talk about you and Judy's struggles makes me feel less alone 😢❤ So so blessed by you guys!
You and Judy are amazing parents! thank you for sharing the reality of parenthood. I admire your attitude, it's a season and make the most of it. By the way, the noodles made my mouth watered, thank you!
To be honest, one of the reasons why I still watch you and Judy at 30 is because I love the way you raise the kids. A loving and participating dad is something I never grew up with, but you both provide so much love and patience for your daughters. Ya’ll do so much with 5 girls! So many props to the both of you for raising such independent individuals!
This is the most relatable video you've ever made, Benji, and I appreciate the realness and vulnerability. Parenting is the hardest job ever!! There is no handbook for how to parent but I totally feel you when it comes to balancing discipline and affection. The parent guilt is real but we're all doing our best out here and that's all you can do!
Guess what??? There is no such thing as perfect parents!!! I'll say you having Mel to help is something not everyone has!!! Lucky you!! Parenting is not ever easy ...try and try again and do your best at the moment! learn and improve as you go❤❤❤❤😊😊😊 You two are great parents your girls are so LUCKY!
Benji I cherish these moments u are transparent with us. I’m a struggling parent never knowing if I’m doing enough. It brings me comfort knowing I’m not alone. Thank u Benji 🙏🏼
I watch you and Judy and it gives me inspiration and positivity. I have 2 under 2 don't really have family support it's really hectic on some days especially when my hubby is at work or has to go away for work. He gives a lot of support so I completely understand the craziness and hectic world of parenting❤ all the best. We are all doing the best we can even when there are days we feel we didn't give enough to our kids.
I feel this a lot… I have two step daughters (12 & 15), and then we have two little ones (5 & 18 months). We have no family support where we are, it is just my husband, myself and the older girls mum who lives here, so the three of us rely on each other to survive this parenting gig 😅 my husband and I are lucky to work for the same company both in high/flexible positions, so we can make it work mostly. But when you get hit with sicknesses, no sleep, you just can’t catch a break!! Kudos to you and Judy with five girls, I’ve been a viewer since 2012 when I was in my last year at high school 😊 you both are doing a fantastic job 🫡
Been watching and idolizing u guys for years esp when it comes to parenting. I have no kids yet but I learn so much from u and ate judy. You are both amazing. 🙂
Agree Parenting is a PAIN! 😒😒 Don't be so hard on yourselves! Know that there are Good and Bad days! Good that you both stayed in it!! And didnt Coward Out like "Some Parents" would do when thing's gets tough!! I command you both for hanging in there & not giving up on eachother & the Kids! 😊❤🙏🏽 YOU GUYS GOT THIS!! ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
The fact that you think your not a good enough parents shows you are the best parent cause you are worried about it! ❤don't worry benji your doing great! The girls will love you for it!🎉
I’ve been a fan since jb was little. Seeing your girl’s love and care for each other especially jmk towards leah & bela proves that you and judy are doing a great job👍. Ps. I now constantly use the “you want palo?” To my niece😅
Benji, don’t go too hard on yourself. There are times being a parent is stressful. But, look at it in a positive way that you are blessed with your children. I know it isn’t easy being married and not getting a long at times either. Marriage isn’t all peaches and all roses. There are so many blocks in the road. After all, you both love each other at the end of the day. Keep your chin up and know that there is love that fills your families cup and to remember that there is a lot of good days and a lot of bad days. It is what you make it.
I feel the same ,as a mom ...I have 2 tween boys an 2 toddlers ... but I feel spending less time with the older kids ,but because they are kind of been more in their own thing ,and for that, nobody prepares you ! 😢 I wish time will slow down a little.
You guys are amazing father and mother to your girls,it’s okay no one of us are perfect at anything ,I love you family ❤ I did learn something from is so thank you 🙏🏻 I’m now a grandma and it’s hard and I’m just 42 but I try because we don’t get to much together,he’s 4.its not easy but I love him with all my heart and soul.I will always stop myself and just breathe
Benji you are a remarkable Dad to understand what Leah says. Even Judy has difficulty in deciphering her utterances. Judy is one lucky lady to have you as her husband, with your suave, debonair looks, physique & classic pompadour hairstyle, not to mention your top notch grocery shopping & culinary skills. Judy must be the envy of ladies in her circle.
Agree to everything except the classic pompadour hairstyle. Benji's hairline reminds me of 2 slices of pizza. Isn't that befitting Benji's love for pizzas?
Benji, are you planning to get Leah help with her speech before she starts pre-school? My daughter is like Leah & endured a lot of teasing from her classmates. Hope that doesn't happen to Leah. Kids can be ruthless at times.
Yeh after 10+ yrs how do u not kill each other lol fuse seems to be getting shorter and shorter! You guys are doing great! Being on the same page is what helps.❤🎉
Finally turned 40 yesterday. Spent the day with my Dad. For the past two months he's been in and out of the hospital and now bedridden at home. Life can be stressful at times, just have to enjoy the time we have left.. =]
First....there are no perfect parents because there are no perfect people. Just so you know where I am coming from...I have 4 kids....when I had the 4th one my oldest was almost 5. Now my youngest is 34. Looking back I can see where God helped me raise them. I prayed a lot. I felt like you that I wasn't doing a good job but I am confident that I did the best I could at the time. I have matured since them too. I think being firm but gracious is important as a parent. You are the parent not their friend. Their feelings in the discipline times are secondary. They need to learn to mind and be respectful regardless of their feelings. Some children need a little more firmness too. Leah might fit into that....like the poopoo comments to others. Keira said she didn't like it when she was washing the car. I think you are doing a good job from what small amounts I see and hear in the videos. Trusting God and faith in His leading is key. One day, one moment at a time. 😀😀😀
No parent can be perfect because we are imperfect humans, when my kids were little I asked them individually what can I do to be a better Parent for them. That helped me out a lot ❤️❤️
Benji you should do a Podcast with other Dads and ask question about being a Dad! What's it like the Good and the Bad experince! I think that would be interesting to watch!😊
U both are awesome parents that is all I can say awesome 👌 don't even have the words for u Benji awesome dad and Judy ur daughters are lucky to have u as a mother ❤
You and Judy are a great example as a parents. I'm a mom of 2 boys and still learning as I go. You and Judy are doing amazing. ❤
Thank you. Dad of five but still always learning.
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I think the parent that worries about if they are being a good parent is a sign of a good parent. We want to do our best but that's not always how a day goes but, you know what, tomorrow we'll wake up and try again. We love our kids and it shows in our daily efforts and time spent with them. Sending all the love and encouragement. You're doing great.
Hopefully in the new house Bella will have her own room
Hang in there, B&J! I raised two (only two!) - boy & girl. That alone was stressful, but you know what? Your consistency means you love them and the girls, complete with their hormonal ranges, will love you to the end. They’ll be with you forever!
You and Judy are very fortunate to have Mel, you guys have a lot more date nights, trips and alone time than a lot of people have and that’s with you guys having five kids. I was looking back at older videos about how often the older three would be with Mama, how you and Judy would travel a lot. Things have changed now, not as much help so you guys are really feeling the stresses of raising kids. Thankfully the older girls are old enough to do a lot of things themselves but that doesn’t mean you guys are safe from the teen years, good luck 😅.
Oh,oh 3 teens in the Travis home round the corner. There sure is going to be a lot of sparks, going by what I witness in my household with 2 teens.
@Dogmama00 I think you’re just basing your opinions off their vlogs. We’re only seeing what they show. Losing a loved one in a family is already tough as it is, it’s something that takes a lot of time to heal from. Mama was a big part of their life. I think they’re doing an amazing job as parents. But with you saying their 3 older girls would be with Mama and how they would travel a lot, I can see that you’re being insensitive towards them. Family time and spending time together as a married couple is just as important as being good parents. I think it’s awesome that the girls got to spend a lot of time with Mama. Remember they’re human beings and they have needs too. Yes they are fortunate to have family to help them but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to point out things about them like they have more date nights or etc than other people. It just seems like you are projecting and comparing yourself to them as a parent. Sure, we may have similarities in life but you will never be the same parent as them. Their vlogs only share some parts of their life on TH-cam but it’s not everything. At least give some parenting advice instead of saying they aren’t safe from teen years. I think they raised very good girls and anything you think that could happen in their daughter’s “teen years” is honestly none of your business. Not all parents struggle or aren’t “safe” in their kid’s teen years. Just please be nice and respectful. We’re all learning through life just as they are as parents.
The older girls are so well behaved..Juliana, Keira and Miya are so nice love them and loved watching them grow up!
@@PositiveAvocado777huh? How was she not being respectful? Calm down.
Treasure every moment. It’s cliche to say it all goes fast, but it does and until it’s behind you, it’s hard to fully grasp how fleeting it is. My daughter is 25 and I miss the days you are in so much ❤
Benji alone time, even food shopping alone gives you time to re-energize, cool off and get a well deserved break. Every parent needs a break. Both you and Judy are great parents, go easy on yourselves.
Lucky to have a break, even if it’s an errand. Impressed with the parents that don’t get a lot and still make it happen! 👊🏼
as a daughter who's had talks with her dad about me and my sibling's childhood, i think you worrying about whether you're doing a good job is normal. my dad told me he wondered about that too, and it just made me so emotional lol... because i never questioned whether or not my parents were good parents. i know they are. we didn't have every material thing that my parents wanted to give us, but what i remember was the quality time we spent with our family
would it have been better if we got more on-brand barbies? more gameboys? i don't think so haha
Great point. Yes it’s the most important part of my fatherhood journey to spend quality time with them and as much of it possible.
The fact that I was watching yesterday’s vlog while feeling like the worst mom ever. My baby fell off the bed and I cried for four hours. You and Judy were talking about how parenting is hard, and how parenting was one of the topics that your pastor was preaching about and you felt so proud yet you’re also learning. I felt a sense of relief because I’m a stay at home mom and I’m currently 6 months pregnant. It’s just a lot right now, so thank you so much. 😪🥲😩🥹🥺😞
Benji, your awareness & effort to evolve as a dad to your daughters is incredibly inspiring. As someone who doesn’t have a relationship with their dad, I now know how much that’s affected me growing up and even today, as an adult. I’m a long time viewer and can say I’m so proud of the parents you & Judy have become and the loving family you guys created ❤
Parenting is definitely a balance. I have an 18 (boy), 15 (girl), 11 (girl), they have taught me as much as I have taught them. What i have found is kids are people too and they want to be seen and heard no matter what age. You have a wonderful family and I truly enjoy watching your content as well as Judy’s. Give your girls a hug from me, time flies, before you know it you’ll be dropping them off at college (as I am 😳). 🤗
Benji! I’ve been watching u and the family for as long as I can remember, you two are such great parents!! It’s normal to doubt, it just means u are working to do your best for ur kids, and u totally are!!
Benji, you and Judy are amazing parents!! You guys are the reason why I’m excited to be a parent one day. I am taking a lot of notes for myself and my future kids. I hope to be great parents like you guys. Yes I’m sure parenting can be difficult and stressful but I think it’s safe to say that it’s just part of parenthood. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I think one of the most important things you both do as parents is that you are doing the best you can for your girls and yourself. I know one day they’ll look back and say they had the best parents in the world for them. No other parents will ever be comparable. Something I always cherished with my parents were the quality times and the way they showed me love such as simple gestures like giving me a plate of fruit. I’ve been watching you guys since your wedding day. I love watching your family vlogs and they bring me so much joy. I just wanted you both to know that I see how hard you try to be good parents and you both are definitely doing an awesome job! Much love ❤️
Benji, I am your spanking new subscriber! Been there done that. This too shall pass. Do the best you can as parents and have a strong sense of humor and you and Judy are going to be just fine!
I only have 2 kids 1 girl 25 and 1 boy 21. I couldn’t imagine having more than just those 2! God bless you both continue to give you patience. Even with my kids being adults now I still make mistakes! It doesn’t get easier it just changes imo. I still loose sleep over my adult children. IMO it’s easier to shop without small children. It’s cute to shop with them sometimes not all the time. Its ok to take time out alone to reset and do something you find joy in doing without any kids.
You are doing a great job Benji!!! Much respect and love for you and your family ❤😊
You guys are amazing parents!! I hope my sweet boy will grow up to have similar traits as the Travis kids! They are all so kind, smart, respectful, and just themselves!
I’ve always wanted to see a video of you and Judy talking about the way you guys discipline and how to maintain structure in the kids lives. I’m a first-time-mom and would love all the tips and tricks as a growing parent
We just had our second child first daughter this week and this video gave me all the feels 😭. Thank you for putting out quality content!
I have been watching you guys since I was in college and we're now expecting our first baby. I used to leave a comment in college saying that I want my husband to be as caring and loving as you, Benji. And now, I look up to you and Judy when it comes to parenting. YOU GUYS ARE DOING A GREAT JOB!
1:38. Green onions are so easy to grow. Try planting some in your backyard. 👍🏼.
I think you and judy deserve a holiday not commitments just you two to reconnect ❤ love both ur channels and been watching since before u had julianna ❤i was in highschool when i started watching and now im in my 30’s
Its so difficult but believe it’s all temporary. Prioritizing during a difficult time would help you guys get back on track and don’t forget to ask for help!
Thank you these videos, Benji!! 🫶🏽
Benji, I noticed a pocket on your side neck, is that normal for you? Have you had it checked? Or is it just a shadow?
Thank you Benji for being so honest !! I am dealing with this right now. I just had a baby 2 weeks ago and it’s been difficult transitioning with 2 kids now. My oldest who is almost 5 has had a difficult time. And me not spending the time I used to with her does not help. She’s been acting out more and I haven’t been patient with her like I should. But like you said there is no perfect parent we continue to learn and grow. And the most important thing is always speaking life into them especially to end the day !
Thank you !!
Aww thank you Benji for thinking to cheers to those who WANT to be parents! I'm a long time viewer of you guys, however not a parent yet but God willing I will be one day! 🙏🏽 Keep up the great work Benji!
Benji, with all the green onions you go through...you can cut the stems with roots and put it in jar/cup /vase in water but not over the stems...the onions will naturally grow again especially by your kitchen windows in the sun.
$2.99 for cilantro is wild. I thought $1.29 for organic was expensive here... You can get non organic for $.50. I live in Texas so maybe it grows better here.
Benji....You are such a great cook. You pay attention to detail and make sure your dishes are flavorful. Judy gets to enjoy your meals along with your children. Excellente!
Ohhh they’ll get easier to manage. You and Judy has a house full of personalities & emotions. (us women)… Stand on business always with your parenting!
I appreciate your honesty and transparency so much, Benji. Parenting is hard and hearing you talk about you and Judy's struggles makes me feel less alone 😢❤ So so blessed by you guys!
Love this video, but I know those workers were stressing about him moseying around in there so close to closing 😂
You and Judy are amazing parents! thank you for sharing the reality of parenthood. I admire your attitude, it's a season and make the most of it. By the way, the noodles made my mouth watered, thank you!
$9 for one case of sparkling water?? Geeze I'll stick to Costco brand sparkling water 😳😅
To be honest, one of the reasons why I still watch you and Judy at 30 is because I love the way you raise the kids. A loving and participating dad is something I never grew up with, but you both provide so much love and patience for your daughters. Ya’ll do so much with 5 girls! So many props to the both of you for raising such independent individuals!
Mr.travis ,u are the best dad to your5 daughters,u an Judy taught your girls alot of respect, amazing family.👍👍👍🤗
This is the most relatable video you've ever made, Benji, and I appreciate the realness and vulnerability. Parenting is the hardest job ever!! There is no handbook for how to parent but I totally feel you when it comes to balancing discipline and affection. The parent guilt is real but we're all doing our best out here and that's all you can do!
Guess what??? There is no such thing as perfect parents!!! I'll say you having Mel to help is something not everyone has!!! Lucky you!! Parenting is not ever easy ...try and try again and do your best at the moment! learn and improve as you go❤❤❤❤😊😊😊 You two are great parents your girls are so LUCKY!
Cheers 🍻 To you too! Benji!
Benji I cherish these moments u are transparent with us. I’m a struggling parent never knowing if I’m doing enough. It brings me comfort knowing I’m not alone. Thank u Benji 🙏🏼
❤ You've grown up, Benji. A natural process. Be in awe of IT! You AND Judy have grown up. It's allllll part of God’s plan.
❤ 🌊🌊 #Seatown 😉
These videos are just great ! Realy enjoy watching the Grocery, talking, cooking, eating, just great. This is so inspiring. 👏👏
Sanzo is good but it’s super expensive for soda water (for me personally)
Also I love this more personal vlog style. It adds way more dimension to your channel
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I appreciate your thoughts and introspection. Your such a caring loving person that feels alot for others. Thanks for all the advice.
I watch you and Judy and it gives me inspiration and positivity. I have 2 under 2 don't really have family support it's really hectic on some days especially when my hubby is at work or has to go away for work. He gives a lot of support so I completely understand the craziness and hectic world of parenting❤ all the best. We are all doing the best we can even when there are days we feel we didn't give enough to our kids.
I feel this a lot… I have two step daughters (12 & 15), and then we have two little ones (5 & 18 months). We have no family support where we are, it is just my husband, myself and the older girls mum who lives here, so the three of us rely on each other to survive this parenting gig 😅 my husband and I are lucky to work for the same company both in high/flexible positions, so we can make it work mostly. But when you get hit with sicknesses, no sleep, you just can’t catch a break!!
Kudos to you and Judy with five girls, I’ve been a viewer since 2012 when I was in my last year at high school 😊 you both are doing a fantastic job 🫡
Been watching and idolizing u guys for years esp when it comes to parenting. I have no kids yet but I learn so much from u and ate judy. You are both amazing. 🙂
Introspection is very much a part of parenthood. Judy and you are doing a good job. God bless you always and abundantly.
Agree Parenting is a PAIN! 😒😒 Don't be so hard on yourselves! Know that there are Good and Bad days! Good that you both stayed in it!! And didnt Coward Out like "Some Parents" would do when thing's gets tough!! I command you both for hanging in there & not giving up on eachother & the Kids! 😊❤🙏🏽 YOU GUYS GOT THIS!! ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
The fact that you think your not a good enough parents shows you are the best parent cause you are worried about it! ❤don't worry benji your doing great! The girls will love you for it!🎉
I’ve been a fan since jb was little. Seeing your girl’s love and care for each other especially jmk towards leah & bela proves that you and judy are doing a great job👍. Ps. I now constantly use the “you want palo?” To my niece😅
I live for your cooking Benji!!!! Judy if your readying this have an extra bite for me!! 😂😊
Benji, don’t go too hard on yourself. There are times being a parent is stressful. But, look at it in a positive way that you are blessed with your children. I know it isn’t easy being married and not getting a long at times either. Marriage isn’t all peaches and all roses. There are so many blocks in the road. After all, you both love each other at the end of the day. Keep your chin up and know that there is love that fills your families cup and to remember that there is a lot of good days and a lot of bad days. It is what you make it.
Benjiiiiii the momofuku noodles target sells them for half of price
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I feel the same ,as a mom ...I have 2 tween boys an 2 toddlers ... but I feel spending less time with the older kids ,but because they are kind of been more in their own thing ,and for that, nobody prepares you ! 😢 I wish time will slow down a little.
こんばんは ベンジ さん. parenting is difficult. You and Ms Judy have been doing amazing. we have seen how your girls shine in life. You’ve got this.
thanks for sharing a recommendation of sparkling water. I will definitely give it a try.
I’m 27 and low key terrified of being a parent because I feel so young! But I would love to have kids one day (I think lol) I’d appreciate any advice
You will ‘grow’ into it. Its not such a shock when you wait for a baby and you read, educate and ask questions.
You can do this! Don't be afraid!😉
You guys are amazing father and mother to your girls,it’s okay no one of us are perfect at anything ,I love you family ❤ I did learn something from is so thank you 🙏🏻 I’m now a grandma and it’s hard and I’m just 42 but I try because we don’t get to much together,he’s 4.its not easy but I love him with all my heart and soul.I will always stop myself and just breathe
I am not even a Parent but whatever Benji said make sense and its so understandable.
Anyone else feel like hanging with the Travis fam and trying Bengis cooking
Just me ? Lol
Benji you are a remarkable Dad to understand what Leah says. Even Judy has difficulty in deciphering her utterances.
Judy is one lucky lady to have you as her husband, with your suave, debonair looks, physique & classic pompadour hairstyle, not to mention your top notch grocery shopping & culinary skills.
Judy must be the envy of ladies in her circle.
Agree to everything except the classic pompadour hairstyle. Benji's hairline reminds me of 2 slices of pizza. Isn't that befitting Benji's love for pizzas?
Benji, are you planning to get Leah help with her speech before she starts pre-school? My daughter is like Leah & endured a lot of teasing from her classmates. Hope that doesn't happen to Leah. Kids can be ruthless at times.
Wowwwwww!! That food looks so ONOLICIOUS!!!
Yeh after 10+ yrs how do u not kill each other lol fuse seems to be getting shorter and shorter! You guys are doing great! Being on the same page is what helps.❤🎉
Love your vlogs....God bless you and your family always ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Noticed it too. Do have ut checked Benji, to be on the safe side.
Finally turned 40 yesterday. Spent the day with my Dad. For the past two months he's been in and out of the hospital and now bedridden at home. Life can be stressful at times, just have to enjoy the time we have left.. =]
Welcome to the 40s Club, including Benji.
You should try making japchae next time. It’s like pancit but with potato noodles and sesame oil
And sugar!
Lol i love benji dont give af after they announce 10 min and he's the only one in the store!😂
Hi Benjie can you tell me where I can purchase a beer mug like yours?
First....there are no perfect parents because there are no perfect people. Just so you know where I am coming from...I have 4 kids....when I had the 4th one my oldest was almost 5. Now my youngest is 34. Looking back I can see where God helped me raise them. I prayed a lot. I felt like you that I wasn't doing a good job but I am confident that I did the best I could at the time. I have matured since them too. I think being firm but gracious is important as a parent. You are the parent not their friend. Their feelings in the discipline times are secondary. They need to learn to mind and be respectful regardless of their feelings. Some children need a little more firmness too. Leah might fit into that....like the poopoo comments to others. Keira said she didn't like it when she was washing the car. I think you are doing a good job from what small amounts I see and hear in the videos. Trusting God and faith in His leading is key. One day, one moment at a time. 😀😀😀
the little dancey dance after eating is so real😂🫶🏾
Benji .and Judy this to will past...parenting is apart getting to beginning at peace with family.
yup i agree with you i'm single mom
I have 3 boys 😫 9,6 and 8 months. It’s tough but I know it’s temporary ❤️
Enjoy the chaos. Yes it will pass however the crazy moments sometimes are the best memories.
That dish looks amazing!
I love Waterloo. No sugar It’s so good. On top of topo chico.
Do you guys still have a compost or garden? I feel like pet quails can save a dollar or 2 on eggs 😅😊
There’s no perfect parent. You don’t need to be a perfect parent as long you take care of them, teach them to be a good person and respect others.
No parent can be perfect because we are imperfect humans, when my kids were little I asked them individually what can I do to be a better Parent for them. That helped me out a lot ❤️❤️
Parenting is difficult??? Who would have thought 🤦🏻♀️
I love you guys!
love this ❤
I liked the video just because I am feeling your title❤😂
Benji you should do a Podcast with other Dads and ask question about being a Dad! What's it like the Good and the Bad experince! I think that would be interesting to watch!😊
lol i love the title
awesome dad😊
U both are awesome parents that is all I can say awesome 👌 don't even have the words for u Benji awesome dad and Judy ur daughters are lucky to have u as a mother ❤
Also Benji where did u buy that meat looks delish would love to buy some
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I have one kid. And that's all i can handle. Lol 😅 so i bet 5 kids is more than a handful.
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Watching you eat is making me hungry :/
Why chose to have so many kids....esp when only one channel is succesful and another is not making the money
Yes, with the benefit of hindsight they ought to have stopped at 3. Spending quality time with the kids is so very important.
@@kamaladevi1441Agree!!
Benji you are the best❤
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I JUST HOPE ALL DAD R LIKE U 😢😊❤..
All about balance...from a mama of 5...but ages of 21-28😅...you got this🦾♥️
GO-choojang 👍🫡 hehe now gonna try that Sanzo sparkling .. if there’s any left 😂
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