You always have a gentleness about your advice I love that about your readings. You do it from the heart. What a beautiful soul you have. I listen and trust your advice. I truly believe in healing past trauma that becomes baggage. That's one of my gifts. I always meet people that need that kind of healing. I can pick it up right away and people just tell there life story just in the line of a grocery store. It's my thang.I used to do reiki before COVID. I think that's what I need to start doing again.
You definitely pulled the energy of the Taurus I dealt with. He's not an individual you want to have a relationship with. He does own and run a company. Coldest person I've ever met. Anxious-Dismissive avoidant textbook. Not giving one ounce of energy to this.
4:57 I literally have been trying to talk about all of this with people but nobody wants to listen to me… I’m always ignored or cut off. Lmao this is confirmation for me . This whole video was for me !
Wowsa! On POINT with a very fresh breakup for me- Cancer, artist, fully focused and invested in her career and shuts off emotionally and suddenly. Thank you for showing me it's definitely time to let go x P.S.: Your video "this reading finds you when your life is about to change" popped up tonight on my homepage. Thanks, universe!
Thak you brother. Had been seeing 444.now can understand .had been dreaming,overthinking .after decluttering my home,room and thoughts am good. Taking sunlight,moonlight done shadow work. Iv healed a lot. Redirecting my thoughts, taking small steps towards my main goals . being practical and CONSISTENT.thank you again for being here for us dear brother🙏🙏
It's true you're either holding on to love baggage past hurt baggage whatever that was The baggage that you need to get your life in gear The baggage you're losing friends but for reasons And people-pleasing reasons You're absolutely right it's hard for some people to change I'm definitely changing for the better and I need to let go of all the emotional baggage that I carry in my head it's defeating at times it's hard when you feel like you're running out of time but it's never too late to change Thanks for your reading You're one of my new ones that I watch very wise for a young man I appreciate you very greatly😊
But then again….sometimes people can’t leave because nothing else would even come close or make the same kind of sense with anyone else! His barely here to talk is worth more while I fix myself than all the guys who blow up my DM! 🥹❤️🔥
@@amandadarnell6525 I used to think the same thing but it never works if only one person is trying to fix themselves and the other person doesn't change it's a hard pill to swallow and sometimes you have to walk away and tell you're self you deserve better and your happiness is worth more than not knowing where you stand in the relationship just saying
You’re right!!!!!! Fckkk committing to myself or anyone!!!!! Nowadays people ain’t For committing to anything, the world will punish you for tryna be faithful before it’ll give ya rewards for being unique n rare!!!!
🌙♓️ I have a Pisces Moon and rising sign. This one resonated for me. I kept falling for this type of guy. Ones are hot & cold and ghosty. I have given up on dating and been single for years. Unfortunately, I still end up with friendships following the same pattern sometimes.
This video came across my feed at the perfect time, and everything you mentioned is happening to me right now. The person you described is exactly like him! 🤯 You nailed his job, his personality everything. But today, I decided I’m going to let him go. I need to focus on myself. I’m not about to chase anyone; if that’s what he wants, then fine. I could’ve been one of the best things in his life. He could’ve trusted me, because I would’ve given him everything he ever wanted in a relationship. But now, I’m pulling away because I think about him too much. I care too much, but I’m so tired of the hot-and-cold energy. I just don’t have time for it anymore. By the time he realizes what he’s done, and finally understands I’m good for him, it will be too late and I might have already moved on and found someone who won’t waste my time. I’ve done everything right I’ve been supportive, caring, and so much more. All for me to end up hurt because he won’t bring his walls down. I like him, but I had to ask myself: is he worth me feeling sad all the time? No. It’s not worth it anymore. Despite all of his flaws, he’s the most affectionate person I’ve ever met. I once told him I wish he could see himself the way I see him, but he doubts himself. He even said once that he doesn’t feel like he’s a good person. But affection isn’t enough for me to stay. I truly believed it could’ve worked out if he had just stopped playing games. It’s sad, because everyone wants someone good in their life, but they miss out on it and end up with someone who will do the same things that hurt them before. They could’ve been happy if they had just let me in. But I have to let him go.
@@CobyIsThinking I haven't watched the video yet but the "why are the quiet" pulled me, I was going through the comments and just saw yours. DUDE, I, too have made my mind to let him go TODAY. I have kept a msg ready in my drafts, couldn't send it yesterday, wanting to see him one last time, waiting to see if he asks me out today and even if he doesn't I'll hit the send button tonight. We got this. We deserve better for ourselves. We need more love from ourselves
I feel like I wrote the first half of your comment. The hot and cold attitude and everything except he loves himself more than anything, he's very clear and there is no self doubt, I need to bring that in my life as well
@@yoonjinniecupcake This isn’t healthy for us. I should’ve known better when he sent me a picture of his friends happily cuddling at the movie theater and said he didn’t like that kind of stuff. Maybe he was just joking, though, because how can he say all that about his friends being in love, yet still be so affectionate with me? One time, while I was cooking, he grabbed me from behind and held me as I prepared dinner. How can someone do that and not feel anything for the person they’re holding? There’s just no way he doesn’t feel something. He’s holding in his feelings because he’s more focused on his career. People are really good at suppressing their emotions, and it makes me sad. They’ve been through so much, and here I am, wanting to give them all the love they never got. That breaks my heart. I deserve love too we all do. But some people just can’t give in to love and trust again after being hurt. I’ve been cheated on and gone through so much, yet I still want love. I’ve been treated terribly, and I still keep trying. But some people break and never recover. That’s what hurts the most.
@@CobyIsThinking dude dude my guy hates PDA too, he's like these things should be kept private, honestly I've become a very private person in the past few years so I'm not very fond of pda either. Now what you're talking about, my guy is very similar to what you're saying, they don't feel 'nothing' or they don't hide their emotions, but guys feel it differently than we do and they don't think of love as we do. I studied male psychology after dating this man 💀 anyway is your man and aquarius?
Oooo my gosh, you are so good its actually spooky lol. Every.Single.Thing.!! Every single thing you've said has been a sort of theme for this Pisces the last month or more. But dang, yeah, you were right on! Two people in my life that I always have very close to my heart are exactly how you described. I tend to gravitate towards those types. Actually very frustrating. But I love them nonetheless. Also I have been having such horrible issues lately trying to sleep. And I rely heavily on my dream life. Its where I do my best work lol. Thank you for the clarity and insights!! Much appreciated!
My god....I clicked after reading the title...and once you started reading, from the 1st word, 1st card... everything resonated...thank you for your reading! God bless you ❤
You said "make your dreams come true, dont worry" and at the same moment i saw my birthdate..what a coincidence and a wonderful reminder. ❤Also i have been seeing my birthdate everywhere for past few weeks. Never could make sense of it. 🎉
Thank you so much for the gentle way you read and give kind compassionate advice. I truly am grateful for this reading. He is a Capricorn sun and Leo rising and yes he’s very cold. 🥶
Your video showed up and I decided to watch it and i am only halfway through but have felt myself almost tear up like three different times. Especially the past pain and having courage part. And you're so relaxed and it comes through in the video, needed that too. Thank you!
And this is literally the situation I'm in right now, I wanted to commit but they did not want to because they have other goals they want to accomplish, not relationship oriented atm. and it was always a hot and cold situation...I wouldn't hear anything for a few days and then all of a sudden get a "thinking of you" text and we would hang out and I would fall even more and then it was quiet again. I needed to hear this. It's not what I want. Thank you so much 💓
@@anna.noelle37 there's something more in line for you. Someone more for you. 🇨🇦💯🇺🇸💙💙💙💙💙🤍🕊️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️✨🌟🌙💫☀️🌛⭐🌞🌎🌍🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ someone out there who wants to be with you. Release the old. You have power within. Work on that in the meantime
I am reaching out to a consultant to help me look at buying my first house. Trying to process a breakup (taking a long time exactly because of the avoidant anxious dynamic). Nailed it. Thank you for your advice. 😶🌫
It's hard when you can't open a door to somebody's head and you realize eventually that you got to stop trying but if that person really cares for you they should at least try to communicate it's not like they have their business 24/7 and basically I just see it as they don't give a damn and I don't want to see it that way and it's really sad because people shut it down man when they need to speak sometimes it's not like I'm trying to pry open the whole life the whole thing that they have just to know that they care would be wonderful but when you live in the internet IA people got to have the money world cinnamonality and might as well be cinnamon sentimentality seems to be banished in you're basically in that undone unfortold what a shame😢
Im going through this exactly. Feeling like I’m the only one who tries to reach out and communicate until I’m left to feel like the other one doesn’t care and I’ve got no choice but to detach… The worst feeling ever.
@tubbsthebigcat I know how you feel I think some people either make excuses or they may not know how to express themselves out of some kind of condition or they are selfish. There are so many routes of communication to let the other person know. To either giving them closure or to let them know what's going on showing compassion. Thank You Tubbsthebigcat!🙂 I had adopted a tuxedo cat named him Tubbs I named him after a VA REP Guy who's last name was Tubbs who helped with financial support for my elderly father who had Alzheimer's.
I’m pretty sure you’re talking about my relationship with myself, the wounded and healed sides of me, literally - the avoidant attachment style, focusing on work and isolating, it’s me!
This was wow wow waw.Bravo.I felt like a name written often in the book you wrote for me. It was WoW.Relisten to it tomorrow again when cooled a little,like you said: working for serenity and stability
How the hell do you know about an avoidant sag I love and I’m overthinking about… 😭 I indeed do NOT feel serene. I’m going through it and am so over it lmao. How do I forget about him when he’s my twin flame and we were soooo in love for years, and then one day he completely switched on me and is now ghosted me… I didn’t even do anything wrong to deserve this… I have an extremely hard time leaving him even though I know I have to. He is burying his pain into work and avoiding me, which is just triggering the hell of my anxious attachment and rejection wound… My guides are connecting to me through tarot video but they’re all saying the same thing. Turn that page. Thank you for this reading. It’s way too accurate. Uncanny.
You said Aries, a manager, who is avoidant and my eyes SNAPPED OPEN 😂 My best friend, and roommate, is an Aries who is a manager at their job rn and is often someone who focuses on work rather than relationships and we are having some tension rn due to personal opinions. Then again, we are opposing sides of the wheel. The beginning of a cycle and myself as the end. Most of the time we get along swimmingly for a fire and water sign But sometimes we make too much steam
Yeah I think I'm just going to take a trip and go have some cinnamon tea going to speak with the Buddha like he's got the answers when he's all isolated at some mountain somewhere😂😂
Baggage claim lol🧳 Toxic Taurus/Aries girlfriend issue. Power and control play... love bombing to gaslighting. Same shit diff person I love a narcissist they r my fav.lol Lesson never learned.Tried to sabotage a job for me this time caught her then tried to lie her way out of it. Why do ppl lie to a ♓ My heart is starting to close for this one Separation is on the horizon. On point with the energy as always friend🔥🖤👏🏼
i just found your channel and i really love you read your cards so detailed and defined love it i am a pisces i did subscribe to it your channel and will be following it often lawanda miriam pearce arizona thanks you
You’re very wise and I totally claim this reading. ❤ I’ve been looking for certain answers and not even my dreams or synchronicities have been clear. My husband is an Aries 😢 I just found out I’m pregnant and I was so ready to leave and be alone, and now I am confused about staying
Yeah, it’s an avoidant Sagittarius. Prioritizing work only. Interesting read. I’m the water sign with an fire rising. I hear you I detached actually slowly
That’s insane because I also go by Empress on one of my accounts and am also a water sign (Pisces) dealing with an avoidant sag prioritizing work…. Crazy how much we’ve got in common. Which water sign are you? We need to talk!!!
Ugh, I’m also going through the same thing. Month of no contact, he had a divorce a year ago and still hasn’t let go. I left and I’ve been focused more on myself. Sucks because he did show interest but the deeper I would try to get, the more he retreat into himself. I got tired of trying, I’m also a Pisces with a Virgo rising
Omg you picked up on his energy like crazy. Super solitary career focused, shuts down emotionally. Avoidant. I have to turn the part of myself off that even thought he could give me the same respect. An acknowledgment would be nice if you’re going to say something to me out of the blue. I can’t deal with it in my head anymore. Focusing on what I have. Thank you ❤
It's hard to turn off the worry when you're constantly positive but u just keep getting hit with the negative. And i aint ready to hoe out in not going to jump from relationship to relationship my focus is my money and thats not ecen working out cause i want to leave.
Second time I’ve crossed watched for a Pisces Venus. I’m an Aries rising and he’s a Taurus. He owns his own business, was really hurt by an ex and went really cold on me.
Leo Crosswatcher here. Im only quiet cause I've tried getting her back by talking things out with my pisces ex but thats not possible. And always doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity like Albert Einstein said. I assume she ghosted me because she thinks I am not good enough. So I am working on myself and breaking the silence, once I am ready and improved at a level so that she thinks that I am good enough for her.
So they're avoidant. Cool. Then I know enough, I dont mess with people like that anymore. They will let all of their damage destroy you because it's easier than looking in the mirror.
Yoh this reading describe my avoidant partner and i or should i say ex.he discarded our relationship 2days before Christmas but still called and rexted like i dont get it.he came to me he was si happy we hugged and kissed but i know that I'm just attached to him because of my childhood trauma.thank you❤️
Am a pisces. Left my ex Narcissist 6 years. I am seeing a counsellor/shrink. It's extremely hard and difficult to let go. It was mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abused. Am ILL myself. All the doctors appointments and hospital, were not allowed to attend, now I am suffering. 😢😢😢😢
I'm a cross watch ..Virgo sun pieces moon. Yeah I became distant...but he saw and became intimate withsomeone else, ugh so I'm backing off but really care about him. Why f up a good thing.? On him know.
*Baggage* again 😂 being hurt in a previous romantic relationship is not enough to create baggage - *wounding* is from childhood and everyone is wounded as a child by being shamed and rejected ie abandoned etc because children interpret normal negative life experiences as very scary and difficult to understand. As a result we create protector parts that guard our wounded parts and these still manifest in adulthood as defensive behaviours, lack of trust in self and others, people pleasing and so on. If our childhood was a series of continuous adverse events we would have some pretty serious psychological complexes or *issues* as commonly referred to. When childhood experiences are extremely bad it's traumatic as you would be aware. So on the extreme end there's psychotic illnesses and personality disorders, then cPTSD, and then going along the scale to mild anxiety disorders and so on until we get to the typical so called *normal* person who has lots of annoying quarks and behaviours that are self sabotaging and unhelpful. No one gets through childhood unscathed and no one is healthy and balanced and fully psychologically integrated, especially not those who claim to be *healed* and spiritually enlightened and transformed, elevated out of egoic behaviours through some kind of fantastical ego death experience. So good luck finding a baggage free human. I'm 56 and have never met one yet. 🙏😏🩵
I'm a Pisces Aries Cusp dominated by fire 🔥 in my chart my ex is a Pisces she doesn't believe in all of this she is atheist she does dream I don't dream
the only love i want for rest of my life is Jesus christ and our heavenly father ❤... done with men. single life is good life and peaceful no drama or toxic 😂😊
You always have a gentleness about your advice I love that about your readings. You do it from the heart. What a beautiful soul you have. I listen and trust your advice. I truly believe in healing past trauma that becomes baggage. That's one of my gifts. I always meet people that need that kind of healing. I can pick it up right away and people just tell there life story just in the line of a grocery store. It's my thang.I used to do reiki before COVID. I think that's what I need to start doing again.
You definitely pulled the energy of the Taurus I dealt with. He's not an individual you want to have a relationship with. He does own and run a company. Coldest person I've ever met. Anxious-Dismissive avoidant textbook. Not giving one ounce of energy to this.
@LVLuxuryHomes-pp3jl same!!! My ex Taurus was cold hearted, narcissistic and conceited. 🤮
What's the name A this Tauras
I think we know the same man. Seriously.
@LVLuxuryHomes-pp3jl my aunt (godmother) is too!! She is so cold mean n nasty, very insensitive to others feelings etc
Dang... i know a Taurean just like that too. 😮
4:57 I literally have been trying to talk about all of this with people but nobody wants to listen to me… I’m always ignored or cut off. Lmao this is confirmation for me . This whole video was for me !
If possible please do readings for pisces more often.
i have been procrastinating an avoiding and i DO need a Life Coach!! keep up your positive work!!
Just do it bro
@kram534 Thank you , for that. .
Wowsa! On POINT with a very fresh breakup for me- Cancer, artist, fully focused and invested in her career and shuts off emotionally and suddenly. Thank you for showing me it's definitely time to let go x
P.S.: Your video "this reading finds you when your life is about to change" popped up tonight on my homepage. Thanks, universe!
Thak you brother. Had been seeing 444.now can understand .had been dreaming,overthinking .after decluttering my home,room and thoughts am good. Taking sunlight,moonlight done shadow work. Iv healed a lot. Redirecting my thoughts, taking small steps towards my main goals . being practical and CONSISTENT.thank you again for being here for us dear brother🙏🙏
what a pleasant voice :)
It's true you're either holding on to love baggage past hurt baggage whatever that was The baggage that you need to get your life in gear The baggage you're losing friends but for reasons And people-pleasing reasons You're absolutely right it's hard for some people to change I'm definitely changing for the better and I need to let go of all the emotional baggage that I carry in my head it's defeating at times it's hard when you feel like you're running out of time but it's never too late to change Thanks for your reading You're one of my new ones that I watch very wise for a young man I appreciate you very greatly😊
Some ppl stay because they have nowhere else to go
Story of my life……….!
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But then again….sometimes people can’t leave because nothing else would even come close or make the same kind of sense with anyone else! His barely here to talk is worth more while I fix myself than all the guys who blow up my DM! 🥹❤️🔥
@@amandadarnell6525 I used to think the same thing but it never works if only one person is trying to fix themselves and the other person doesn't change it's a hard pill to swallow and sometimes you have to walk away and tell you're self you deserve better and your happiness is worth more than not knowing where you stand in the relationship just saying
You’re right!!!!!! Fckkk committing to myself or anyone!!!!! Nowadays people ain’t
For committing to anything, the world will punish you for tryna be faithful before it’ll give ya rewards for being unique n rare!!!!
That was so funny when all the cards fell 🤣🤣 thanks Spirit
🌙♓️ I have a Pisces Moon and rising sign. This one resonated for me. I kept falling for this type of guy. Ones are hot & cold and ghosty. I have given up on dating and been single for years. Unfortunately, I still end up with friendships following the same pattern sometimes.
Ughh I feel you. Pisces sun, moon and Saturn. Sending hugs. ❤
This video came across my feed at the perfect time, and everything you mentioned is happening to me right now. The person you described is exactly like him! 🤯 You nailed his job, his personality everything. But today, I decided I’m going to let him go. I need to focus on myself. I’m not about to chase anyone; if that’s what he wants, then fine.
I could’ve been one of the best things in his life. He could’ve trusted me, because I would’ve given him everything he ever wanted in a relationship. But now, I’m pulling away because I think about him too much. I care too much, but I’m so tired of the hot-and-cold energy. I just don’t have time for it anymore. By the time he realizes what he’s done, and finally understands I’m good for him, it will be too late and I might have already moved on and found someone who won’t waste my time.
I’ve done everything right I’ve been supportive, caring, and so much more. All for me to end up hurt because he won’t bring his walls down. I like him, but I had to ask myself: is he worth me feeling sad all the time? No. It’s not worth it anymore. Despite all of his flaws, he’s the most affectionate person I’ve ever met. I once told him I wish he could see himself the way I see him, but he doubts himself.
He even said once that he doesn’t feel like he’s a good person. But affection isn’t enough for me to stay. I truly believed it could’ve worked out if he had just stopped playing games. It’s sad, because everyone wants someone good in their life, but they miss out on it and end up with someone who will do the same things that hurt them before. They could’ve been happy if they had just let me in. But I have to let him go.
@@CobyIsThinking I haven't watched the video yet but the "why are the quiet" pulled me, I was going through the comments and just saw yours. DUDE, I, too have made my mind to let him go TODAY. I have kept a msg ready in my drafts, couldn't send it yesterday, wanting to see him one last time, waiting to see if he asks me out today and even if he doesn't I'll hit the send button tonight. We got this. We deserve better for ourselves. We need more love from ourselves
I feel like I wrote the first half of your comment. The hot and cold attitude and everything except he loves himself more than anything, he's very clear and there is no self doubt, I need to bring that in my life as well
@@yoonjinniecupcake This isn’t healthy for us. I should’ve known better when he sent me a picture of his friends happily cuddling at the movie theater and said he didn’t like that kind of stuff. Maybe he was just joking, though, because how can he say all that about his friends being in love, yet still be so affectionate with me? One time, while I was cooking, he grabbed me from behind and held me as I prepared dinner. How can someone do that and not feel anything for the person they’re holding? There’s just no way he doesn’t feel something. He’s holding in his feelings because he’s more focused on his career.
People are really good at suppressing their emotions, and it makes me sad. They’ve been through so much, and here I am, wanting to give them all the love they never got. That breaks my heart. I deserve love too we all do. But some people just can’t give in to love and trust again after being hurt. I’ve been cheated on and gone through so much, yet I still want love. I’ve been treated terribly, and I still keep trying. But some people break and never recover. That’s what hurts the most.
Feel you.. ❤
@@CobyIsThinking dude dude my guy hates PDA too, he's like these things should be kept private, honestly I've become a very private person in the past few years so I'm not very fond of pda either.
Now what you're talking about, my guy is very similar to what you're saying, they don't feel 'nothing' or they don't hide their emotions, but guys feel it differently than we do and they don't think of love as we do. I studied male psychology after dating this man 💀 anyway is your man and aquarius?
Oooo my gosh, you are so good its actually spooky lol.
Every.Single.Thing.!! Every single thing you've said has been a sort of theme for this Pisces the last month or more. But dang, yeah, you were right on!
Two people in my life that I always have very close to my heart are exactly how you described. I tend to gravitate towards those types. Actually very frustrating. But I love them nonetheless.
Also I have been having such horrible issues lately trying to sleep. And I rely heavily on my dream life. Its where I do my best work lol.
Thank you for the clarity and insights!! Much appreciated!
My god....I clicked after reading the title...and once you started reading, from the 1st word, 1st card... everything resonated...thank you for your reading! God bless you ❤
You said "make your dreams come true, dont worry" and at the same moment i saw my birthdate..what a coincidence and a wonderful reminder. ❤Also i have been seeing my birthdate everywhere for past few weeks. Never could make sense of it. 🎉
Thank you so much for the gentle way you read and give kind compassionate advice. I truly am grateful for this reading. He is a Capricorn sun and Leo rising and yes he’s very cold. 🥶
This Readig Told Me Alot For Pisces What Im Going Through 🤔, Thank You For Sharing Lovely, Bless You, Blessed Be 😇😇😇
Aquarius man no!🚮 Libra man hell no!🚮..no air signs!!🙅🏽♀️
@@RhiBrison Aquarius is the worst. I have a family member and they absolutely exhaust me!! 😒
I do like libras emotional sensitivity though lol
@@RhiBrison my ex who I am about to break up with, again, is an aquarius 💀
I’ve never understood why water signs are surprised they don’t mix with air signs… like no shit dude
What do you expect
Libra realmente não da
@@RhiBrison exactly,air signs are like robots with no emotions
Wow...totally resonates with a Leo....very accurate.
Your video showed up and I decided to watch it and i am only halfway through but have felt myself almost tear up like three different times. Especially the past pain and having courage part. And you're so relaxed and it comes through in the video, needed that too. Thank you!
And this is literally the situation I'm in right now, I wanted to commit but they did not want to because they have other goals they want to accomplish, not relationship oriented atm. and it was always a hot and cold situation...I wouldn't hear anything for a few days and then all of a sudden get a "thinking of you" text and we would hang out and I would fall even more and then it was quiet again. I needed to hear this. It's not what I want. Thank you so much 💓
@@anna.noelle37 there's something more in line for you. Someone more for you. 🇨🇦💯🇺🇸💙💙💙💙💙🤍🕊️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️✨🌟🌙💫☀️🌛⭐🌞🌎🌍🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ someone out there who wants to be with you. Release the old. You have power within. Work on that in the meantime
word up, i really appreciate you dude foreal man..
Thank You so much for the On Spot Reading Blessings
serenity is spot on!
I am reaching out to a consultant to help me look at buying my first house. Trying to process a breakup (taking a long time exactly because of the avoidant anxious dynamic). Nailed it. Thank you for your advice. 😶🌫
It's hard when you can't open a door to somebody's head and you realize eventually that you got to stop trying but if that person really cares for you they should at least try to communicate it's not like they have their business 24/7 and basically I just see it as they don't give a damn and I don't want to see it that way and it's really sad because people shut it down man when they need to speak sometimes it's not like I'm trying to pry open the whole life the whole thing that they have just to know that they care would be wonderful but when you live in the internet IA people got to have the money world cinnamonality and might as well be cinnamon sentimentality seems to be banished in you're basically in that undone unfortold what a shame😢
Im going through this exactly. Feeling like I’m the only one who tries to reach out and communicate until I’m left to feel like the other one doesn’t care and I’ve got no choice but to detach… The worst feeling ever.
@tubbsthebigcat I know how you feel I think some people either make excuses or they may not know how to express themselves out of some kind of condition or they are selfish. There are so many routes of communication to let the other person know. To either giving them closure or to let them know what's going on showing compassion. Thank You Tubbsthebigcat!🙂 I had adopted a tuxedo cat named him Tubbs I named him after a VA REP Guy who's last name was Tubbs who helped with financial support for my elderly father who had Alzheimer's.
I’m pretty sure you’re talking about my relationship with myself, the wounded and healed sides of me, literally - the avoidant attachment style, focusing on work and isolating, it’s me!
This was wow wow waw.Bravo.I felt like a name written often in the book you wrote for me. It was WoW.Relisten to it tomorrow again when cooled a little,like you said: working for serenity and stability
Wow I’m a first time listener and u are soo on point fully resonated with me. I cried, I do need to reach out.
This one felt direct ngl
How the hell do you know about an avoidant sag I love and I’m overthinking about… 😭 I indeed do NOT feel serene. I’m going through it and am so over it lmao. How do I forget about him when he’s my twin flame and we were soooo in love for years, and then one day he completely switched on me and is now ghosted me… I didn’t even do anything wrong to deserve this… I have an extremely hard time leaving him even though I know I have to. He is burying his pain into work and avoiding me, which is just triggering the hell of my anxious attachment and rejection wound…
My guides are connecting to me through tarot video but they’re all saying the same thing. Turn that page. Thank you for this reading. It’s way too accurate. Uncanny.
amazing reading! congratulations and tku.
Beautiful reading thank you so much xx
Thank you , and bro please make more videos for pieces
Time to get back on track. I go for a run. Many thanks!
Did a 5km run. Thanks for the motivation!
You said Aries, a manager, who is avoidant and my eyes SNAPPED OPEN 😂
My best friend, and roommate, is an Aries who is a manager at their job rn and is often someone who focuses on work rather than relationships and we are having some tension rn due to personal opinions. Then again, we are opposing sides of the wheel. The beginning of a cycle and myself as the end. Most of the time we get along swimmingly for a fire and water sign
But sometimes we make too much steam
Well i did not click . Just scrolling thru yt videos and all of a sudden this started playing
Yeah I think I'm just going to take a trip and go have some cinnamon tea going to speak with the Buddha like he's got the answers when he's all isolated at some mountain somewhere😂😂
😂😂😂well that made my night!
That sounds cool haha😂
Baggage claim lol🧳 Toxic Taurus/Aries girlfriend issue. Power and control play... love bombing to gaslighting. Same shit diff person I love a narcissist they r my fav.lol Lesson never learned.Tried to sabotage a job for me this time caught her then tried to lie her way out of it. Why do ppl lie to a ♓ My heart is starting to close for this one Separation is on the horizon. On point with the energy as always friend🔥🖤👏🏼
Thank you so much bro i needed this
i just found your channel and i really love you read your cards so detailed and defined love it i am a pisces i did subscribe to it your channel and will be following it often lawanda miriam pearce arizona thanks you
"Whatever then they just suck" lol
My God. Amazing. You are like a wake up call. Thank you from Gemini/Pisces. Exactly like that🤍
You’re very wise and I totally claim this reading. ❤ I’ve been looking for certain answers and not even my dreams or synchronicities have been clear. My husband is an Aries 😢 I just found out I’m pregnant and I was so ready to leave and be alone, and now I am confused about staying
Amazing one
Thank u ❤
Can you post some videos about yourself?? You have a great aura/vibe.
Would love to hear some history of how you got started in taro/astrology !!! 🙏
Omg spot on like wow
2/23 is my birthday he’s an Aries you hit this reading on the nose thank you so much I just subscribed
❤ I knew you would be spot on and you were ♓ thanks 🎉❤
Pisces moon !!
So glad I clicked
Thank you!! 💕
Phenomenal. Wow.
Thank you so much❤️🙏🌸🌷
Spot on!
Umm.. this was spot on
Great advice 👍
Yeah, it’s an avoidant Sagittarius. Prioritizing work only. Interesting read. I’m the water sign with an fire rising. I hear you I detached actually slowly
That’s insane because I also go by Empress on one of my accounts and am also a water sign (Pisces) dealing with an avoidant sag prioritizing work…. Crazy how much we’ve got in common.
Which water sign are you? We need to talk!!!
@@tubbsthebigcat I’m a Pisces lol. And yes this is a crazy coincidence isn’t it🤔
Are we living a parallel life?
Ugh, I’m also going through the same thing. Month of no contact, he had a divorce a year ago and still hasn’t let go. I left and I’ve been focused more on myself. Sucks because he did show interest but the deeper I would try to get, the more he retreat into himself. I got tired of trying, I’m also a Pisces with a Virgo rising
Super cute, Taroverse.
Thank you. ❤
Thank you.
Omg you picked up on his energy like crazy. Super solitary career focused, shuts down emotionally. Avoidant. I have to turn the part of myself off that even thought he could give me the same respect. An acknowledgment would be nice if you’re going to say something to me out of the blue. I can’t deal with it in my head anymore. Focusing on what I have. Thank you ❤
They're not quiet, I am quiet silencing her out of my life.................
Happy New Year to you ☺
Thanks Tarot verse much appreciated, bless you 👼😇🙏🙏🦋💫💫💫💫🍀
It's hard to turn off the worry when you're constantly positive but u just keep getting hit with the negative. And i aint ready to hoe out in not going to jump from relationship to relationship my focus is my money and thats not ecen working out cause i want to leave.
So Accurate !
He is a sagittarius.
Second time I’ve crossed watched for a Pisces Venus. I’m an Aries rising and he’s a Taurus. He owns his own business, was really hurt by an ex and went really cold on me.
🎸🎶❤️🔥 thank you appreciate your gift
You're so cute. Your energy and vibe i love it
Leo Crosswatcher here. Im only quiet cause I've tried getting her back by talking things out with my pisces ex but thats not possible. And always doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity like Albert Einstein said. I assume she ghosted me because she thinks I am not good enough. So I am working on myself and breaking the silence, once I am ready and improved at a level so that she thinks that I am good enough for her.
Where is the extended?
do you do private readings?
wow 100%
should I read his sun sign? cuz he is quiet
So they're avoidant. Cool. Then I know enough, I dont mess with people like that anymore. They will let all of their damage destroy you because it's easier than looking in the mirror.
Yoh this reading describe my avoidant partner and i or should i say ex.he discarded our relationship 2days before Christmas but still called and rexted like i dont get it.he came to me he was si happy we hugged and kissed but i know that I'm just attached to him because of my childhood trauma.thank you❤️
Am a pisces. Left my ex Narcissist 6 years. I am seeing a counsellor/shrink. It's extremely hard and difficult to let go. It was mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abused. Am ILL myself. All the doctors appointments and hospital, were not allowed to attend, now I am suffering. 😢😢😢😢
I'm a cross watch ..Virgo sun pieces moon.
Yeah I became distant...but he saw and became intimate withsomeone else, ugh so I'm backing off but really care about him.
Why f up a good thing.? On him know.
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Wow I keep seeing 111 a lot lately
He's a Libra man. I'm over this situation. Grow up dude.
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*Baggage* again 😂 being hurt in a previous romantic relationship is not enough to create baggage - *wounding* is from childhood and everyone is wounded as a child by being shamed and rejected ie abandoned etc because children interpret normal negative life experiences as very scary and difficult to understand. As a result we create protector parts that guard our wounded parts and these still manifest in adulthood as defensive behaviours, lack of trust in self and others, people pleasing and so on. If our childhood was a series of continuous adverse events we would have some pretty serious psychological complexes or *issues* as commonly referred to. When childhood experiences are extremely bad it's traumatic as you would be aware. So on the extreme end there's psychotic illnesses and personality disorders, then cPTSD, and then going along the scale to mild anxiety disorders and so on until we get to the typical so called *normal* person who has lots of annoying quarks and behaviours that are self sabotaging and unhelpful. No one gets through childhood unscathed and no one is healthy and balanced and fully psychologically integrated, especially not those who claim to be *healed* and spiritually enlightened and transformed, elevated out of egoic behaviours through some kind of fantastical ego death experience. So good luck finding a baggage free human. I'm 56 and have never met one yet. 🙏😏🩵
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U said they turned their back and pisces deserve better, why pisces choose them, they too have heart... It's no pisces can understand 😂😅
I'm a Pisces Aries Cusp dominated by fire 🔥 in my chart my ex is a Pisces she doesn't believe in all of this she is atheist she does dream I don't dream
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Hmm, I don't think this message is meant for me. It was nice listening though. :)
I want Libra back. We really had a shot. I don't know what happened. I'm okay, but I'm open.
the only love i want for rest of my life is Jesus christ and our heavenly father ❤... done with men. single life is good life and peaceful no drama or toxic 😂😊