The last name thing… thank you for putting all of my “am I psychotic for not wanting to change my name back” thoughts to rest. I’d give up so much more than a maiden name for my girl too ♥️
If I can offer 1 bit of advice to all you mommas not wanting your kiddos seeing you cry... I know what that's like believe me I did that with all my kids...but come middle school you know what happened? I noticed my kids doing the same thing. They'd hold their feelings in. I would say onions or allergies was making me cry but if I realized that I was unintentionally pre programming them to hold their feelings in I would have never done it. We think we're being strong for them & we are but we don't want our kids holding stuff in. Kids are smart they should see it's OK to have feelings and see how you work through them so your giving them a good coping skill. In the moment I never thought I was doing this till it played out. I have 6 grown children so I do have a little experience anyway I wanted to share that. Mamas you are all amazing doing an awesome job. If anyone doesn't recognize that you are in store for something much greater ❤ hugs
You are so right. There is nothing wrong with our children seeing us cry. We are human and humans have emotions. Being free with our emotions teaches them to be as well.
Kat, you are a breath of fresh air! One thing I can’t thank you enough for is the “my Italian mother”. I know you are dealing with divorce and a child but you have the most positive attitude and your daughter will be the one to benefit from you as the person you are and continue to grow to be. You give a lot of yourself and I appreciate the fact that you are such a down to earth individual. I’m 68 but I have been a person who has also been a different “duck”. When it comes to life. Please be happy and I hope you and your daughter continue to grow and love each other as you give of yourself to her and her to you!
@kat stickler I was rewatching your last couple of videos and missing you, like all of your fans and friends, and lo and behold, here you are! Thank you so very much, Amiga!
On our kids seeing us sad or going through some struggle can be healthy because you can also show them how to cope and go through life in a healthy way.
Don’t stop raising yourself up. Your baby girl deserves to see her mommy happy. Kat believe it or not you relate to majority of the female population. Careful in answering some questions.. some viewers are too damn nosy and won’t support no matter what you say or do just to get a rise out t of you. Stay blessed dear one❤ I look forward to your future vids. Keep going!💪🏻💪🏻
You are so adorable!!! My son will be 40 yo this year, and my family still says “mote troll” instead of remote control and brokage instead of broken, til this day.
TH-cam decided to recommend your channel tonight and I gotta say, tonight they get me. So, I haven't seen you before but MK walking right by the camera to show her earrings... That was a perfect Glimmer. My children are in there 20s now so "no, it's your helcome", I felt that in my soul
You are so funny! My Mother was an angel as well. It is so easy to make fun of and laugh with someone so beautiful and strong! They can handle it! :) I love and understand your honesty and humor! Thank you!
I dont think its okay to hide your feelings from your kids. Yes she is smaller. But I dont hide my feelings. I dont share everything with the kids but being sad is normal. We should normalize feeling sad and picking ourselves up
It's actually Kats last name too. When they got married it became hers as well and the law says she can "carry" that name as long as she wants to. My mom kept my dad's last name until she married my step-dad which was 20 years after the divorce.
@@JenniferMoore of’course it’s her’s too but it doesn’t take away from it being his ex-husband’s . If she dates someone else she still has to explain it’s her ex’s surname. And it’s her choice like your mom but a fact is a fact.
Kat you’re a literal ANGEL & I adore you. 🥹
Me too!!
The last name thing… thank you for putting all of my “am I psychotic for not wanting to change my name back” thoughts to rest.
I’d give up so much more than a maiden name for my girl too ♥️
Omg Kat we missed you so much ❤
I’ve missed YOU!
If I can offer 1 bit of advice to all you mommas not wanting your kiddos seeing you cry... I know what that's like believe me I did that with all my kids...but come middle school you know what happened? I noticed my kids doing the same thing. They'd hold their feelings in. I would say onions or allergies was making me cry but if I realized that I was unintentionally pre programming them to hold their feelings in I would have never done it. We think we're being strong for them & we are but we don't want our kids holding stuff in. Kids are smart they should see it's OK to have feelings and see how you work through them so your giving them a good coping skill. In the moment I never thought I was doing this till it played out. I have 6 grown children so I do have a little experience anyway I wanted to share that. Mamas you are all amazing doing an awesome job. If anyone doesn't recognize that you are in store for something much greater ❤ hugs
Thank you for reminding me of this! ❤
You are so right. There is nothing wrong with our children seeing us cry. We are human and humans have emotions. Being free with our emotions teaches them to be as well.
Just like a Latina mom, bonding with your daughter through cleaning😂❤!
You absolutely must protect "you're helcome" at all costs!!!
Kat, you are a breath of fresh air! One thing I can’t thank you enough for is the “my Italian mother”. I know you are dealing with divorce and a child but you have the most positive attitude and your daughter will be the one to benefit from you as the person you are and continue to grow to be. You give a lot of yourself and I appreciate the fact that you are such a down to earth individual. I’m 68 but I have been a person who has also been a different “duck”. When it comes to life. Please be happy and I hope you and your daughter continue to grow and love each other as you give of yourself to her and her to you!
🥹 You are the absolute sweetest!!
@kat stickler I was rewatching your last couple of videos and missing you, like all of your fans and friends, and lo and behold, here you are! Thank you so very much, Amiga!
I totally agree, that’s why I kept my last name for my child.
On our kids seeing us sad or going through some struggle can be healthy because you can also show them how to cope and go through life in a healthy way.
I wish your videos were around when I was going through my separation. They're so helpful!
Don’t stop raising yourself up. Your baby girl deserves to see her mommy happy. Kat believe it or not you relate to majority of the female population. Careful in answering some questions.. some viewers are too damn nosy and won’t support no matter what you say or do just to get a rise out t of you. Stay blessed dear one❤ I look forward to your future vids. Keep going!💪🏻💪🏻
You are so adorable!!!
My son will be 40 yo this year, and my family still says “mote troll” instead of remote control and brokage instead of broken, til this day.
Loved this so much
Love the “blanking” for MK’s benefit😂
I’m a mom of 4 and you help me so much with parenting advice ❤
Twas awesome. You’re a natural!
Lol. I watched you on TikTok years ago. Glad to see you again. You are hilarious
TH-cam decided to recommend your channel tonight and I gotta say, tonight they get me. So, I haven't seen you before but MK walking right by the camera to show her earrings... That was a perfect Glimmer. My children are in there 20s now so "no, it's your helcome", I felt that in my soul
You are so funny! My Mother was an angel as well. It is so easy to make fun of and laugh with someone so beautiful and strong! They can handle it! :) I love and understand your honesty and humor! Thank you!
I discovered you in short clips on You Tube of you mimicking your Mom. Just to be clear. LOL!
We're going to cry when our toddler says yay-yo (yellow) correctly 😢
“Burn the boats” I love it, hear I go🔥⛵️🔥
This year went by so fast!
Ah love your videos!!
Love and respect from Egypt 🇪🇬❤️❤️😍😍
Classy podcast
You are rocking it just being you! ❤
I dont think its okay to hide your feelings from your kids. Yes she is smaller. But I dont hide my feelings. I dont share everything with the kids but being sad is normal. We should normalize feeling sad and picking ourselves up
I NEED to know where that office chair is from 😭😍
Super fun love it
I wish I could be your friend
💯🙏🏼4u❤️❤️❤️✨️✨️
Nice beautiful
I love you girl 🩷 but it IS your ex-husband’s last name you’re caring around
It's actually Kats last name too. When they got married it became hers as well and the law says she can "carry" that name as long as she wants to. My mom kept my dad's last name until she married my step-dad which was 20 years after the divorce.
@@JenniferMoore of’course it’s her’s too but it doesn’t take away from it being his ex-husband’s . If she dates someone else she still has to explain it’s her ex’s surname. And it’s her choice like your mom but a fact is a fact.
We missed you kat❤ btw 3rd so I've a magic trick, if I say kat 3 times I'll get a reply 😉 kat kat kat🪄
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I love you @kat!! Your honesty, humor and kindness make me feel better and stronger as a fellow single mom.
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