I got married 7.5 years ago. My twin sister tried everything she could to blow up my wedding. From telling us no one would come because it was a 5 hour drive away (which in my opinion is nothing for a wedding), to refusing to smile in any photos, to straight up telling me she wouldn't pretend to be happy for me because she didn't like my husband (he doesn't tolerate her bullshit). My husband still hates her and she believes he should just let it go (i am fully on my husband's side). She and I are very low contact. She is single and I know it is out of anger and jealousy. She was the 'pretty popular' twin, and I was the 'weird fat nerd' twin. The fact my husband and I have been together almost 12 years makes her more angry than anything and honestly a life well lived is so much better revenge than anything else.
while I agree, she may seriously not have had ill intentions. she truly believed it was an okay dress to wear. some people just have different opinions and views about things.
Exactly! It's just like black; there are a lot of different versions of it with different undertones that are still white for all intents and purposes.
One of the most beautiful gowns I have seen in a wedding was with a bride in brown velvet. She was doing her History PhD on a 13th C. English queen, so the gown echoed medieval with tight sleeves coming down to a point over her hands, which her mother sewed!!! They were on a really tight budget, did the flowers themselves, and everything was utterly gorgeous. Especially for a winter wedding. Nothing about being “covered,” just echoes of her interests and passions
3:08 "it's a shame you didn't know the color of my dress before you posted the video..." "You don't know me, so let me tell you about myself..." How to ruin your own defamation case in one easy text message lmao
@@KeitieKalopsiaTo be defamation you have to be lying about someone on purpose. With the sole purpose of hurting their reputation or their business or something. If she didn't know the color of the dress she didn't know she was lying. And if she didn't know who the person was she wouldn't be lying about her to cause harm. I believe
@@KeitieKalopsiaits considered the hardest thing to prove and if she isnt from American, she is facing an almost immediate case that I feel most judges would laugh out of their courtroom
There are so many things a photographer could do to make a picture look good, the editing software is amazing today, so I do not agree with it depends on if it's a cloudy day or where the location is. I saw amazing pictures of a bride in a dirty abandon building, and the photographer did an amazing job, the bride looked gorgeous.
Im so thankful for my mother in law. In the past week i tore a ligament in my knee, i have to take my daughter to the city to see a surgeon for a tumor, my husband is across the world on another continent for work and on top of all that i found out my dad only has a few months to live. My mother in law called me and said she would come and stay with me to help out with whatever i need and that she will always be there for me when i need it.
I’m so sorry for your pain sister. Sending prayers immediately. I too have an absolute angel for a MIL. It’s a good thing because my mother is literally evil and I went no contact in July because she is so mean. My in-laws are the family I always wanted❤
@@donnapauley8183 hopefully he won't be gone too long he is deployed but has given me the numbers to call if things get worse so he can come home immediately.
This is why my wedding last week was just the groom, me , two friends and the officiant. We had everyone else on Zoom and Discord. So, with them muted, no drama!!!!
I only wore white to a wedding once. for my Pakistani friend's wedding. She was in red with deep pink details. She wanted me in white with red and the same pink in details. As I was her best friend and helped her plan everything. But agian she wasn't in white!!!
A lot, a lot of people think western culture taboos are the norm all over the world. I wish everyone, whose culture does not have white as a bridal color would shout out in the comments what would be considered taboo in their country and the reasons. As more and more cultures are celebrated across the world, we need to know this so as to not upset the wedding.
My husband and I have been happily married for four decades. We opted for a simple courthouse wedding, as we believed that the essence of marriage lies in the commitment and love shared between two individuals, rather than the extravagance of a lavish ceremony. Many couples get caught up in the grandeur of weddings and lose sight of the true purpose of marriage. My husband and I are grateful that we chose a practical and cost-effective approach, avoiding unnecessary stress and financial burden.
Defamation is a really hard thing to prove. The 3 things you need to prove to have a legit libel/slander case: the person in question lied about a FACTUAL thing, publicly (that means even if you only tell one person), KNOWING that you are lying about that FACTUAL thing, causing reputational or fiduciary harm (not just hurting her feelings, but like the lie you told got her fired or lost her brand endorsements, etc). But by all means, if she wants to sue for defamation over the difference between "peach with pink undertones" and "white," let her. It'll cost her real money.
@@Nasty_B_TV Sounds like… No case here! 👍🖕🫤 Why didn’t she just wear an appropriate dress? 👗 doy daaahhh!!! 🤷♀️😅 She obviously wanted to STAND OUT…accomplished. 😝
I was wondering this because what if in this situation that one ladies followers found that girl and started threatening or harassing her could she go after her for a civil case in that way? Like Charlotte said it was from TikTok so people most likely found her
I LOVED the photographer my sister hired. The lady worked so hard to get to know everyone there that it didn't feel like some random person was in your face with a camera, it was like a friend of the family just happened to be there taking the best candids. She was SO sweet, funny, outgoing and awesome, I was sad to say goodbye to her at the end of the event when she left because if felt like I just made a new friend. I wish I could remember her name. The photos were amazing, of course. She was so patient with our whole rowdy (despite being 100% sober,) crowd. She made the evening 25% better than it would've been without her wonderful energy.
It's perfectly fine to wear makeup! I don't understand why people try to lie about not wearing it. I respect people who put the time and energy into wearing makeup everyday. I can't wear makeup that often because I get dizzy whenever I touch my eyes, so I need to sit down and have someone else do it for me.
The switching out for the garter belt is what we did at our reception. His best man helped distract him while my DAD sat down. Got some hilarious pics from it. My dad was cheesing his expressions and it was glorious. The groom's face was so red after, but he genuinely laughed about it. I ultimately picked the wrong groom, but I still treasure that picture
My mom passed away 20 years ago, and I still miss her deeply, especially at Christmas. Watching the two of you is bittersweet. Cherish each other. ❤️❤️
I agree that people should absolutely respect the newly married couple's first hours together. I think the honeymoon technically starts the moment you are married. When I got married, my husband's childhood best friend flew across the country to come to the wedding. We appreciated it, but he was not in the wedding party or expected to be there. (Our wedding was small and only family was in the wedding party). For the wedding night, we chose a beautiful historic hotel where we thought we would be alone in peace. Wrong! Apparently his friend assumed we would be coming to the airport to see him off, and he was livid that we didn't psychically know that and show up. The friend called my new mother-in-law (who was already a piece of work) and whined to her about how his friendship with my husband was over. So she called our hotel room and screamed at both of us, completely ruining our wedding night. Why was any of that necessary? Isn't it common knowledge that newlyweds will be out of communication unless there is a dire emergency? 😮
I was a bridesmade twice and a MOH once. You know what I did? I wore what I was asked to wear because it wasn't my day and not about me. I wore a teal satin dress, a peach satin dress, and for the MOH a beautiful black gown. 1 outta 3 wasn't bad but did I say anything at the time? No, because that day was about my friends. People are so selfish.
In a lot of places, the black dress would be out of line unless it’s the request of the bride. The girl who let everybody else react while she kept herself above the fray is the clear winner.
I agree! I believe I’ve only been a bridesmaids twice. (I’m forgetful so hopefully I’m not forgetting about a wedding party I was involved in) I wore whatever they wanted. If they had asked me to dress up like big bird from Sesame Street I would have done it. I might of complained if it was summer cause I get sweaty and over heated fast but I would have complained to my husband or someone else not associated with my friend. When I got married my bridesmaids wore silver and my 2 MOH wore a minty green color. They all looked beautiful. The only thing I picked though was the colors I told them to pick whatever dress style fit them and that they could afford. It worked out beautifully the colors all coordinated perfectly in my opinion and it was a magnificent day. Truthfully I don’t think anyone at my wedding wore white but if they did I sure didn’t notice them.
My cousin got married to his gf of 9 years back in October. They didn’t really have a ‘bridal party’ and everyone wore whatever they felt/looked good in. A cousin on her side officiated the wedding with a few Star Trek references 😅 Her style is more thrifted vintage, which I absolutely love, and her dress was a beautiful cream 50’s-60’s style dress. It was a great event, and everyone had such a wonderful (drama free) time
The poor bride who had the breakdown after her wedding-that’s why people get a wedding planner. She will be glad to tell people “No” so you don’t have to.
I'll do it for you - just give me an invite to the wedding - a free meal and a couple of drinks is more that enough payment! I'm at the "I don't give a damn and I'm not afraid to go to jail" phase in life! See, there's this saying that goes "Don't piss off old people, because the older we get, the less of a threat life in prison is to us!" 3 squares a day, a bed to sleep in, time to hang out with all the new friends we make, and my friends on the outside to put money on to my commissary is enough for me!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I got married in the 1970s and where I live, we didn’t have a full menu. Basically, there was a greeting line and then people would go get a slice of cake, a little cup of mints and some punch. Even that was too much. The best wedding reception I ever went to was in the mountains, a fire, grilling some brats and some good liquor. The overblown receptions and destination weddings is wrecking stuff. Go simple and spend the money on the honeymoon or your new house.
Married (and still married) in 1986. We did a small wedding, close family and friends, on a holiday weekend so no one had to take time off work. Our savings went to the purchase of our first home. The focus should be the marriage, not the wedding.
I liked the bride who did her MIL and so SIL back on the white wedding when they all planned to wear white wedding dress. She had everyone she knew who could to wear a wedding dress and she wore a different color. I think it was purple. I would have gone out and bought a second hand dress if a bride did that. I think it would be cool.
I was a bridesmaid for my now sister-in-law recently and all the bridesmaids were able to pick any style dress as long as they were all the same color. Super easy, used a website, it was great. Had simple options for shoes as well. The fact that those girls couldn’t figure out their dresses or their shoes for 9 months and that the sister totally disregarded her sisters wishes…
The photographer could have changed the color of that attention seeking sister's dress. It is easily done. I, myself, can alter any color of a dress using correcting photographer software. I can even change hair color and skin color.😉
The sepia bride gets me every time 😭 it’s called an editing style, she didn’t know who she was choosing as a photographer and not see their previous work to see if they fit the style you want for your wedding??? The photos were gorgeous.
it's one thing to have a certain style and another thing to only slap a preset on the photos and not taking care of the photos individually, fe not putting in the effort to brighten the eyes (to name one example). the photographer did a sloppy job in that area of her job and it's okay to point it out.
Plus, if she's so unhappy, she could've literally asked for the unedited pics that didn't have the sepia filter. I'm sure the photographer would've been more than glad to send them her way and not be dragged through the mud on TikTok. Lol
I also don't get why she thinks her eyes are too dark, and looks like she got a black eye. Uhm...no it doesn't. Girl has DARK BROWN EYES, they're not gonna look "bright and lively" the same way blue, green, or light brown eyes will; and the sepia toned pics have a slightly higher contrast between light and dark.
In my opinion it was a sloppy editing job, paying 5K+, I expect each picture to be the best it can be. I paid my photographer $50 for a 2 hour ceremony and the shots he took were beautiful, but raw takes. I did the editing on a simple program and I couldn’t be happier with them. It probably only took me a couple hours. This was back in 2020.
The infinity dress. Is 1 style you can style like 100+ different ways. And it comes in quite a lot of different colors. "Short" - knee length or long floor length. My sister got us all burgundy and we all styled it differently. We looked gorgeous. Same color. Different styles For anyone wanting wedding party ideas for bridesmaids. INFINITY DRESS ❤
My sister let us choose our own styles as long as they were all a certain deep purple and I ended up buying one of those infinity dresses. That was 2017 and I continue to wear it 4-5 times each year (and always receive compliments)!
@@L4O2V0E That dress sounds like one of the coolest dresses I’ve ever heard about. How much do they run for price wise? I just let my bridesmaids & MOH’s pick their own dresses. All that matter was that the bridesmaids were wearing silver and my 2 MOH wore mint green. I let them do whatever they wanted with their shoes, hair and face but I’m not as much of a particular person when it comes to most things.
Some people honestly don’t know wedding etiquette … I went to my friends wedding wearing cream . I wore a blazer and a knee length dress so it didn’t cause problems but if I had known I wouldn’t have worn it … I found out years later , we are still good friends, so I called her and apologized . She laughed and said it wasn’t an issue she even thought about ❤
Most respectful wedding cake smash I’ve seen was that bride with the poncho. They clearly planned it ahead of time, she got him in the face first, and he made sure to only get the cake on her back where the poncho was 💙
What I find interesting is the original purpose of bridesmaids was to 1, protect her from jealous suitors and 2, were supposed to dress identical to the bride in order to protect her from evil spirits. They would dress the same to confuse the spirits.
The original purpose of marriage is different to what it is now though too. Thankfully traditions have changed over the years as have the traditions of what the bridesmaids stand for
26:37 A contract is only an agreement between two party’s. Verbal contracts are JUST as enforceable as written contracts, they’re just harder to prove. But email correspondence between two parties (a person & a rep from a company) is legally a contract. How many times has Judge Milian drilled that into people’s heads? 😂
My wedding go to color is green...spring wedding..light green....summer wedding? Bright green, fall or winter wedding...hunter green and with greens with warm or cool undertones you can find a green that will work for you! Also, I wear it with thoughts of life and vibrancy for the new couple!!!! This has never steered me wrong!
I would send the MIL who stole the wedding cake leftovers a bill. Wedding cake if so expensive leftovers are only for the wedding night and honeymoon couple! EDIT: I said leftovers....as in what is left after the party is over. That in my opinion belongs to the bride and groom and they can do with it what they want. In the story the bride was not happy that MIL stole it.
Is that true? Interesting! In my culture, they'd cut the rest in slices and share it with guests and give it away to whoever wants a bit. The cake is so big and the newlyweds are not going to eat all that! They might take a bit, for the next day or so..
@@borountree4539 we gave a bunch of our cake away. Admittedly my husband and I are huge cake people. A close family member of mine made out cake and it was a smaller 3 tier cake. Each tier had different flavored filling. She’s a very skilled women and we took a small piece to try each tier. We were told that the smaller top tier of the cake is supposed to be for the bride & groom to take home freeze and then your supposed take the cake out at some point down the road maybe on your anniversary and eat it? It was quite a few years ago now so I don’t remember exactly what we were supposed to do or even what we did do. I know we took it out and atleast ate some of it I don’t think we waited a whole year though lol 😂
We had a two tier cake and kept the top tier (froze it) and brought it out a year later to a family dinner to celebrate our first Wedding Anniversary. My nephews were so excited because they loved the cake and this time they were allowed to eat as much as they wanted and play with the fondant! 😂 I would have been very upset if anyone took it!
@@Raraking4796 That is an interesting custom too. And I actually find it cute. If you freeze it and you have a real good freezer it can still be just great a year later.
@ the best trick to it is also making sure it’s sealed good so it doesn’t get frostbite and stuff like that. I will say it did still taste good whenever it was that we ate it.
Looking back at the Olivia Culpo situation along with their response, calling the influencer "evil" smacks of trad wife, plain, colorless, Christian nationalist propaganda.
I once met a guy at a wedding. I caught the bouquet and he caught the garter. Unfortunately, we were both out of towners and lived 9 hours by car apart.
@@alexischarest378 not at all... everyones timeline is different and there are truly situations when you just know. they just celebrated being together for 28 fkn years, does that seem weird to you? lol grow up
To me, it feels like MIL was probably sending a message like “You don’t need to eat any more cake, sweetie. You’re looking a little…fluffy lately ::stomach pat:: I’m saying this out of love and concern for you, of course.”
40:43 Personally, the dress is a little dated and old fashioned looking for me. If that's what she wanted, more power to her. But her after party dress was the polar opposite of the dress she was married in. Seriously nothing left to the imagination. Sorry but the bride is a contradiction in terms.
36:42 I ended a 3-decade friendship with someone like this. I laid out the details of how she had behaved throughout most of our friendship in an email to her (that I BCCed to some mutual friends) because she also likes to tell her own version of the truth to protect her image
I love the compilation videos. It makes it easier to watch while I'm cooking at work and I don't have to keep going back to my phone to click a new video. Love it
The bride who made a tiktok account just to slander Nicole Ashley's photography has literally never made another video from that account lol she was SILENCED
Love a compilation! I'm at the Laundromat and having nice long vids playing in my earbuds so I don't have to stop to find the next vid to play is a lifesaver! Happy December potatoes!
Not true on several levels. #1 - You can sue anyone, anytime, for anything. Whether you actually will prevail is a different story... but you CAN sue them. #2 - There is a part of defamation called 'defamation per se' which doesn't require a loss. If the individual is generally a private individual and involves a statement so obviously harmful that the person need not prove anything. An example of this would be accusing someone of a serious crime, knowing it was untrue. I'm a paralegal and have worked on a few cases like this - specifically online defamation.
@@InternetJury you can start a lawsuit for anything but that doesn’t mean it will go through. Likely to get tossed out before the court date or be thrown out on the first court date. Which basically means you can’t sue, The semantics don’t really make a difference here.
@@aduckofsomesort I work in the legal field. I know exactly how it works. Initiating litigation (lawsuit) is suing. That's it. Civil lawsuits don't just "get tossed" as you insinuate. Cases get dismissed for a variety of reasons, and it's almost never because the judge dismisses on the merits. In fact, I have NEVER seen that happen. Judges dismiss cases before trial for technical reasons unrelated to the merits of the case - like parties who aren't following court rules. If a case is dismissed before trial, it's likely because one or both parties request a dismissal. This is very often because the parties have settled their dispute outside of court and no longer require a trial. In fact, almost 95% are dismissed by the parties because they settle out of court. That doesn't mean that a dismissed case lacked merit... in fact, many dismissed cases have plenty of merit. Parties often prefer to settle before trial because it's in everyone's best interest - for financial, privacy, etc. All of the civil cases I've had go to trial were many years in the making and were ALWAYS because one of the parties was being unreasonable, refusing to settle. Keep in mind, by the time a case gets to trial (other than small claims and the like) the parties have exchanged substantial discovery, like had at least one mediation, settlement conferences, etc. In fact, in many small claims cases, this has also happened. In my area, many of the small claims judges mandate mediation first. It takes a LOT of time and effort to get to a civil trial, and it's almost always because one of the parties (or sometimes all of them) are just stubborn and unreasonable regarding settlement. Again, a dismissed case doesn't mean it was a meritless case. In fact, it's common for them to be privately settled BECAUSE the case had merit and the parties wanted to avoid a public trial. Keep in mind, we're talking about civil law, here, not criminal. Criminal cases are completely different. SO when you talk about a judge "tossing" a case, likely due to insufficient evidence, you're probably thinking about the criminal side of things.
People always think that threatening to sue someone is considered a threat! Threaten away!! I have every right to speak my mind, and I didn't actually name you when I said what I said. So sue away! I'll wait for the summons!
My sister was a very easy going bride. Almost too easy going! Sometimes we had a time getting her to make a decision! But she asked us to wear any black dress. It turned out very nice :) I’m not a dress wearer but I thought mine was so pretty :)
The bride that's mad about the photographs still boggles me. Like did she not look through the photographers portfolio before hiring her?!?!? I'm so confused.
She did. If you paid attention to the video or finished before commenting it, she's a well known photographer within her area or at least state. The bride was just a known headache to deal with that even the other vendors told the photographer not to take her as a client.
My sons fiancé (been together for 5 years) told me I’m the best “almost MIL”.. Best compliment of my life. She’s the best “almost DIL”.. so grateful!! I hope I can live up to it and not end up in one of the stories :-)
In regards to the first video, that dress is not guest attire acceptable. My wedding dress was if not the same color, on that color wheel. Some brides will want a color other than white, maybe peach, pink or blush. As I did the same thing. The women is wrong and the OP is in fact, in the right.
No. It's beige and she prob knew what the colour the brides dress was. I think the person doing the video was extremely nasty. It was from a photo. She wasn't at the wedding. Photos can make colours look whiter. It's none of that person's business.
@@supernova4839 while it’s a color that can look close to whiteish in pictures seeing stuff in person is a lot different than seeing a picture of people. Peach and pink undertones are very popularly picked by brides yes but brides also pick those colors for their MOH and bridesmaids. She made a public video about people she didn’t know and possibly had no knowledge or context about. Its one thing to call someone out in person at or immediately after the wedding is over or to even call someone out privately but to take someone’s private wedding event and to publicly call someone out on TikTok while showing their face it’s yucky behavior. She wasn’t in the right at all. It’s very possible that girl only responded to that creator because she was being harassed by her followers cause people on the internet are unhinged keyboard warriors. Imagine you attend a wedding. Your a bridesmaids or your a guest that has cleared your dresss personally with the bride and then some internet stranger is on TikTok sharing sneaky pictures of you with the world saying you wore white to a wedding and the bride was sad. We never heard from the bride was she actually sad? I feel like there’s alot of missing context. We only have one persons perspective and honestly her perspective isn’t even the one that matters. It’s giving stalker in my opinion.
while it’s a color that can look close to whiteish in pictures seeing stuff in person is a lot different than seeing a picture of people. Peach and pink undertones are very popularly picked by brides yes but brides also pick those colors for their MOH and bridesmaids. She made a public video about people she didn’t know and possibly had no knowledge or context about. Its one thing to call someone out in person at or immediately after the wedding is over or to even call someone out privately but to take someone’s private wedding event and to publicly call someone out on TikTok while showing their face it’s yucky behavior. She wasn’t in the right at all. It’s very possible that girl only responded to that creator because she was being harassed by her followers cause people on the internet are unhinged keyboard warriors. Imagine you attend a wedding. Your a bridesmaids or your a guest that has cleared your dresss personally with the bride and then some internet stranger is on TikTok sharing sneaky pictures of you with the world saying you wore white to a wedding and the bride was sad. We never heard from the bride was she actually sad? I feel like there’s alot of missing context. We only have one persons perspective and honestly her perspective isn’t even the one that matters. It’s giving stalker in my opinion. She’s not here to stir the pot but she’s out here on the internet publicly calling out strangers on the internet. She’s clearly happily stirring the pot.
So glad i will NEVER have to worry about costs, venues, vendors, people wearing white or other colors i don't want, people trying to up me, bridesmaids, MOHs, drunk people, people being picky, photographers etc. Sooo glad i don't have to worry about any of it.!!!
The Wedding Cake first bite smash has been happening since the 1960s as far as I know! I've seen it at every wedding I have attended, although the whole cake, or a huge piece smash seems to be a new development!I haven't been to many weddings in recent years.
My in laws are frickin awesome! They were awesome from the first time I met them and have only gotten more loving and supportive as the years passed by. I am remarkably blessed. My husband says that he feels very lucky to have my parents too, because they cherish him and he has never had to wonder if they like him. When I think about how rough so many people out there have it with their in laws, I feel even more blessed. It definitely makes it easier to have a strong marriage, because we both have a great support network, which is so important.
@ 34:44 I like to believe, that these brides are finding grooms that are just as delulu as them, so in reality they are doing us (normal people) a favor by taking the crazies out of the market 😂.
Was the best man to my father and the only guest in such a marriage ceremony. We then went to a nice restaurant after and it was great. No complications, no drama.
My bridesmaids all wore short black dresses. They picked the style that fit their body best. My only requirement was one length and must look good with black boots. I had a red ribbon for them to wear as a belt. It worked out great.
I had a friend take my photos. I enjoy photography, and I didn't have much money, so I edited them myself, because i love to do that! And we're still friends, no drama, and I love my photos!
You can't sue for your image being shared like that for defamation, defamation has to have PROVABLE intent to slander and harass with documented financial/social damages. She is absolutely BATCRAP CRAY CRAY.
I once went shopping with my sister bc she needed a dress for a friends wedding, and it’s a good thing I did. She was steadily trying to pick out white or white adjacent coloured dresses. She finally gave up and got a blue dress but seemed pretty defeated about it.
I’m one of the lucky few who has a great relationship with my MIL. I love her to pieces and she has always treated me like her own and I know she has my back. I was once on a call with her at work and ended the call with “ok I’ll talk to you later, love you too” and my coworker asked if that was my husband. When I said no my MIL she was in shock lol
In eu we use also quotations as contract. It works as a writing agreement. If both part signed it and it as written prices, dates,… it works as “contract”.
My MIL has 9 children, 3 of them are married, and she managed to cause drama at each wedding. At mine and my husbands she got drunk and stated a fight with hubby's stepdad, at my SIL's she started screaming at the bride, for smoking a cigarette, and BIL's she picked a fight with the bride and when BIL defended his new wife, she went crying to my other SIL, who then smashed a bottle over BIL's head. Most of the rest have decided they are just not getting married.
So, my hubby and I got married 20 years ago. Our pictures were all ruined. Every single one was overexposed. (Back in the day of film cameras) we only got about 2-3 rolls of film, and every picture was terrible! Mostly shadows and blurry faces. We didn't even get one of the 2 of us. You know what though? It was still one of the best days of my life, and 20 years later the photos in my mind are still clear and crisp. Best of luck youngins.
I like the modest dress it had a very Victorian or Edwardian feel to it, pop buttons up the front I stand Victorian Wedding dress and I love the Victorian Era, so to me it was good.
I thought it was lovely and she looked beautiful in it. If you don't like the dress you don't need to respond like the woman did just don't wear it yourself.
@@dancer2179that’s her job. She she wasn’t horrible about it or her. The bride was horrible though when talking about the why and hypocritical with what she wore afterwards and lying about herself. Don’t want problems, don’t cause them 🤷🏼♀️
Love your videos Charlotte 😊 I don't know what it is your doing in preparation for your wedding, but you are looking absolutely beautiful, your glowing 🤗
I think it is appropriate ONLY IF they both agreed to it before hand. Surprised by it is never ok. My husband and I did it but we discussed it beforehand. He would never have even tried had I told him not to. It can be fun but again only if both parties agree to it 1st.
Ginger 🫚 in boiling hot water and raw honey 🍯 will ease your tummy. If you have chamomile tea ☕️ add it too. Feel better soon and take this time to TOTALLY rest and relax. 💖💐💝
These stories make me SO grateful for my MIL. The first time I saw her after my now husband and I got engaged, she gave me the biggest hug and said, “I’m going to have a daughter!!!” (she has two sons). She’s so opposite of what a typical MIL is like to her child’s partner, and I couldn’t feel more lucky for it!
let's talk color theory. Color theory can make blue look white. Contrast, it's important to note just because it's not white, does not mean it won't look white. Like that one reddit story of the woman who told the bride that the dress would look white on her as her dark skin tone would create contrast. Surprise bride didn't believe her and accused her of "ruining the wedding" even though she straight out told her it would. Want to know a good way to always avoid this, WEAR A DARK COLOR like damn it is not that hard to pick a color on the darker side and not dabble in the whites, greys, peaches, creams, beige's. There are literally thousands of shades to choose from that work and if you don't know the joy of a little black dress it's your loss.
I am so excited, my brother is getting married in less than 6 months and I have put myself on red wine duty. My MIL wore white to my wedding and I won't let ANYONE do it to my brother and new sister ❤
HEY PETTY POTATOES HELP ME! last friday I got my master's degree in psychology and I wanted to say thanks to Charlotte ❤ You helped me a lot though this process, part of my degree it's yours ❤
The hen party bride is delulu😂😂😂😂"How dare you upload a picture before my daughter"!😂😂 How are you not EMBARRASSED???😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like the bride is insecure about her 😅 girl is pretty ngl. So maybe that’s the underlying issue? 🤔
OMG 1st world Gen Alpha problems
@@raventilyndel7186 right lol
They not embarrassed because they act like this every day, so it's just another day to them!!
I got married 7.5 years ago. My twin sister tried everything she could to blow up my wedding. From telling us no one would come because it was a 5 hour drive away (which in my opinion is nothing for a wedding), to refusing to smile in any photos, to straight up telling me she wouldn't pretend to be happy for me because she didn't like my husband (he doesn't tolerate her bullshit). My husband still hates her and she believes he should just let it go (i am fully on my husband's side). She and I are very low contact. She is single and I know it is out of anger and jealousy. She was the 'pretty popular' twin, and I was the 'weird fat nerd' twin. The fact my husband and I have been together almost 12 years makes her more angry than anything and honestly a life well lived is so much better revenge than anything else.
That dress in the first story is not stark white but the style and fabric is definitely bridal! I can't imagine not having doubts wearing that!
That has to be deliberate, I would never dare wearing that
while I agree, she may seriously not have had ill intentions. she truly believed it was an okay dress to wear. some people just have different opinions and views about things.
@@Suedepants100 I suppose that's a possibility, I still think she should have made sure it was okay to wear. It never hurts to ask
Exactly! It's just like black; there are a lot of different versions of it with different undertones that are still white for all intents and purposes.
If you need to prove your dress is not too white for a wedding, it's TOO WHITE.
One of the most beautiful gowns I have seen in a wedding was with a bride in brown velvet. She was doing her History PhD on a 13th C. English queen, so the gown echoed medieval with tight sleeves coming down to a point over her hands, which her mother sewed!!! They were on a really tight budget, did the flowers themselves, and everything was utterly gorgeous. Especially for a winter wedding. Nothing about being “covered,” just echoes of her interests and passions
3:08 "it's a shame you didn't know the color of my dress before you posted the video..." "You don't know me, so let me tell you about myself..."
How to ruin your own defamation case in one easy text message lmao
I know nothing about defamation. How would that hurt her case?
@@KeitieKalopsiaTo be defamation you have to be lying about someone on purpose. With the sole purpose of hurting their reputation or their business or something. If she didn't know the color of the dress she didn't know she was lying. And if she didn't know who the person was she wouldn't be lying about her to cause harm. I believe
@@KeitieKalopsiaits considered the hardest thing to prove and if she isnt from American, she is facing an almost immediate case that I feel most judges would laugh out of their courtroom
@@Ktspitfire007 I hope so, this is ridiculous.
@@esikazemese that dress was lacy long and looked bridelike but to start threatening legal action. pathetically childish
There are so many things a photographer could do to make a picture look good, the editing software is amazing today, so I do not agree with it depends on if it's a cloudy day or where the location is. I saw amazing pictures of a bride in a dirty abandon building, and the photographer did an amazing job, the bride looked gorgeous.
Im so thankful for my mother in law. In the past week i tore a ligament in my knee, i have to take my daughter to the city to see a surgeon for a tumor, my husband is across the world on another continent for work and on top of all that i found out my dad only has a few months to live. My mother in law called me and said she would come and stay with me to help out with whatever i need and that she will always be there for me when i need it.
I’m so sorry for your pain sister. Sending prayers immediately. I too have an absolute angel for a MIL. It’s a good thing because my mother is literally evil and I went no contact in July because she is so mean. My in-laws are the family I always wanted❤
Rachel, so sorry. Your husband needs to come home! ASAP!
I don't want to do the wedding cake thing at my wedding haven't discussed it with my fiancee yet tho
@@guestguest9634 thank you for the prayers! I'm glad you have awesome in laws too. It is such a blessing.
@@donnapauley8183 hopefully he won't be gone too long he is deployed but has given me the numbers to call if things get worse so he can come home immediately.
This is why my wedding last week was just the groom, me , two friends and the officiant. We had everyone else on Zoom and Discord. So, with them muted, no drama!!!!
I only wore white to a wedding once. for my Pakistani friend's wedding.
She was in red with deep pink details.
She wanted me in white with red and the same pink in details. As I was her best friend and helped her plan everything.
But agian she wasn't in white!!!
And you asked what you were to wear.
Non-western culture, bride chose it, and you weren't trying to look like the bride. Very nice.
A lot, a lot of people think western culture taboos are the norm all over the world. I wish everyone, whose culture does not have white as a bridal color would shout out in the comments what would be considered taboo in their country and the reasons. As more and more cultures are celebrated across the world, we need to know this so as to not upset the wedding.
I love non western weddings. So pretty.
Fair enough I can understand that. I wore white to a wedding once…..but it was my wedding haha 🤣
My husband and I have been happily married for four decades. We opted for a simple courthouse wedding, as we believed that the essence of marriage lies in the commitment and love shared between two individuals, rather than the extravagance of a lavish ceremony. Many couples get caught up in the grandeur of weddings and lose sight of the true purpose of marriage. My husband and I are grateful that we chose a practical and cost-effective approach, avoiding unnecessary stress and financial burden.
So true! Save for a house, instead! Grand weddings are to feed egos of attention starved fools.
Defamation is a really hard thing to prove. The 3 things you need to prove to have a legit libel/slander case: the person in question lied about a FACTUAL thing, publicly (that means even if you only tell one person), KNOWING that you are lying about that FACTUAL thing, causing reputational or fiduciary harm (not just hurting her feelings, but like the lie you told got her fired or lost her brand endorsements, etc). But by all means, if she wants to sue for defamation over the difference between "peach with pink undertones" and "white," let her. It'll cost her real money.
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No case here! 👍🖕🫤
Why didn’t she just wear an appropriate dress? 👗 doy daaahhh!!! 🤷♀️😅
She obviously wanted to STAND OUT…accomplished. 😝
The fact she was calling it slander AND libel told me she had no idea what she was talking about.
Exactly. Her being so over defensive over this speaks volumes.
I was wondering this because what if in this situation that one ladies followers found that girl and started threatening or harassing her could she go after her for a civil case in that way? Like Charlotte said it was from TikTok so people most likely found her
Being the most modest to wearing a inappropriate lampshade 😂
I LOVED the photographer my sister hired. The lady worked so hard to get to know everyone there that it didn't feel like some random person was in your face with a camera, it was like a friend of the family just happened to be there taking the best candids. She was SO sweet, funny, outgoing and awesome, I was sad to say goodbye to her at the end of the event when she left because if felt like I just made a new friend. I wish I could remember her name. The photos were amazing, of course. She was so patient with our whole rowdy (despite being 100% sober,) crowd. She made the evening 25% better than it would've been without her wonderful energy.
Photographers can change the color of any white dress.😂😂
It's perfectly fine to wear makeup! I don't understand why people try to lie about not wearing it. I respect people who put the time and energy into wearing makeup everyday. I can't wear makeup that often because I get dizzy whenever I touch my eyes, so I need to sit down and have someone else do it for me.
The switching out for the garter belt is what we did at our reception. His best man helped distract him while my DAD sat down. Got some hilarious pics from it. My dad was cheesing his expressions and it was glorious. The groom's face was so red after, but he genuinely laughed about it. I ultimately picked the wrong groom, but I still treasure that picture
Happens to the best of us, no shame
My mom passed away 20 years ago, and I still miss her deeply, especially at Christmas. Watching the two of you is bittersweet. Cherish each other. ❤️❤️
ahh tiktok the gift that always deliver juicy drama that and so much tea to be spilled.
There's always drama on tiktok and I'm there for it 😂😂
I agree that people should absolutely respect the newly married couple's first hours together. I think the honeymoon technically starts the moment you are married. When I got married, my husband's childhood best friend flew across the country to come to the wedding. We appreciated it, but he was not in the wedding party or expected to be there. (Our wedding was small and only family was in the wedding party). For the wedding night, we chose a beautiful historic hotel where we thought we would be alone in peace. Wrong! Apparently his friend assumed we would be coming to the airport to see him off, and he was livid that we didn't psychically know that and show up. The friend called my new mother-in-law (who was already a piece of work) and whined to her about how his friendship with my husband was over. So she called our hotel room and screamed at both of us, completely ruining our wedding night. Why was any of that necessary? Isn't it common knowledge that newlyweds will be out of communication unless there is a dire emergency? 😮
I was a bridesmade twice and a MOH once. You know what I did? I wore what I was asked to wear because it wasn't my day and not about me. I wore a teal satin dress, a peach satin dress, and for the MOH a beautiful black gown. 1 outta 3 wasn't bad but did I say anything at the time? No, because that day was about my friends. People are so selfish.
In a lot of places, the black dress would be out of line unless it’s the request of the bride. The girl who let everybody else react while she kept herself above the fray is the clear winner.
I agree! I believe I’ve only been a bridesmaids twice. (I’m forgetful so hopefully I’m not forgetting about a wedding party I was involved in) I wore whatever they wanted. If they had asked me to dress up like big bird from Sesame Street I would have done it. I might of complained if it was summer cause I get sweaty and over heated fast but I would have complained to my husband or someone else not associated with my friend.
When I got married my bridesmaids wore silver and my 2 MOH wore a minty green color. They all looked beautiful. The only thing I picked though was the colors I told them to pick whatever dress style fit them and that they could afford. It worked out beautifully the colors all coordinated perfectly in my opinion and it was a magnificent day. Truthfully I don’t think anyone at my wedding wore white but if they did I sure didn’t notice them.
See o how many marriages did she have boy
It’s the Brides Day - you show up in what the bride wants you to wear and SMILE
Right? I’ve been a bridesmaid once, and we could choose our own dresses, just no sequins or lace. No worries!
My cousin got married to his gf of 9 years back in October. They didn’t really have a ‘bridal party’ and everyone wore whatever they felt/looked good in. A cousin on her side officiated the wedding with a few Star Trek references 😅 Her style is more thrifted vintage, which I absolutely love, and her dress was a beautiful cream 50’s-60’s style dress. It was a great event, and everyone had such a wonderful (drama free) time
The poor bride who had the breakdown after her wedding-that’s why people get a wedding planner. She will be glad to tell people “No” so you don’t have to.
I'll do it for you - just give me an invite to the wedding - a free meal and a couple of drinks is more that enough payment! I'm at the "I don't give a damn and I'm not afraid to go to jail" phase in life! See, there's this saying that goes "Don't piss off old people, because the older we get, the less of a threat life in prison is to us!" 3 squares a day, a bed to sleep in, time to hang out with all the new friends we make, and my friends on the outside to put money on to my commissary is enough for me!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I got married in the 1970s and where I live, we didn’t have a full menu. Basically, there was a greeting line and then people would go get a slice of cake, a little cup of mints and some punch. Even that was too much. The best wedding reception I ever went to was in the mountains, a fire, grilling some brats and some good liquor. The overblown receptions and destination weddings is wrecking stuff. Go simple and spend the money on the honeymoon or your new house.
Married (and still married) in 1986. We did a small wedding, close family and friends, on a holiday weekend so no one had to take time off work. Our savings went to the purchase of our first home.
The focus should be the marriage, not the wedding.
I liked the bride who did her MIL and so
SIL back on the white wedding when they all planned to wear white wedding dress. She had everyone she knew who could to wear a wedding dress and she wore a different color. I think it was purple. I would have gone out and bought a second hand dress if a bride did that. I think it would be cool.
It was a very cool idea, not only did it show them up but let all the ladies get to wear their wedding dresses for a second time
I was a bridesmaid for my now sister-in-law recently and all the bridesmaids were able to pick any style dress as long as they were all the same color. Super easy, used a website, it was great. Had simple options for shoes as well. The fact that those girls couldn’t figure out their dresses or their shoes for 9 months and that the sister totally disregarded her sisters wishes…
The photographer could have changed the color of that attention seeking sister's dress. It is easily done. I, myself, can alter any color of a dress using correcting photographer software. I can even change hair color and skin color.😉
Thank you Charlotte for still managing to take care of our entertainment needs with these compilations while planning your wedding ❤❤
The sepia bride gets me every time 😭 it’s called an editing style, she didn’t know who she was choosing as a photographer and not see their previous work to see if they fit the style you want for your wedding??? The photos were gorgeous.
I’m sure it won’t surprise you, but they were divorced before their first year anniversary.
it's one thing to have a certain style and another thing to only slap a preset on the photos and not taking care of the photos individually, fe not putting in the effort to brighten the eyes (to name one example). the photographer did a sloppy job in that area of her job and it's okay to point it out.
Plus, if she's so unhappy, she could've literally asked for the unedited pics that didn't have the sepia filter. I'm sure the photographer would've been more than glad to send them her way and not be dragged through the mud on TikTok. Lol
I also don't get why she thinks her eyes are too dark, and looks like she got a black eye. Uhm...no it doesn't. Girl has DARK BROWN EYES, they're not gonna look "bright and lively" the same way blue, green, or light brown eyes will; and the sepia toned pics have a slightly higher contrast between light and dark.
In my opinion it was a sloppy editing job, paying 5K+, I expect each picture to be the best it can be. I paid my photographer $50 for a 2 hour ceremony and the shots he took were beautiful, but raw takes. I did the editing on a simple program and I couldn’t be happier with them. It probably only took me a couple hours. This was back in 2020.
The infinity dress. Is 1 style you can style like 100+ different ways. And it comes in quite a lot of different colors. "Short" - knee length or long floor length.
My sister got us all burgundy and we all styled it differently. We looked gorgeous. Same color. Different styles
For anyone wanting wedding party ideas for bridesmaids.
INFINITY DRESS ❤
My sister let us choose our own styles as long as they were all a certain deep purple and I ended up buying one of those infinity dresses. That was 2017 and I continue to wear it 4-5 times each year (and always receive compliments)!
This is exactly what I've been telling all my friends.
@@L4O2V0E That dress sounds like one of the coolest dresses I’ve ever heard about. How much do they run for price wise?
I just let my bridesmaids & MOH’s pick their own dresses. All that matter was that the bridesmaids were wearing silver and my 2 MOH wore mint green. I let them do whatever they wanted with their shoes, hair and face but I’m not as much of a particular person when it comes to most things.
My SIL had us in navy blue
I have two! A black and a terracotta color! I love them. 🫶🏻🖤
Some people honestly don’t know wedding etiquette … I went to my friends wedding wearing cream . I wore a blazer and a knee length dress so it didn’t cause problems but if I had known I wouldn’t have worn it … I found out years later , we are still good friends, so I called her and apologized . She laughed and said it wasn’t an issue she even thought about ❤
Most respectful wedding cake smash I’ve seen was that bride with the poncho. They clearly planned it ahead of time, she got him in the face first, and he made sure to only get the cake on her back where the poncho was 💙
1:14:33 the family photos are adorable. Candid shots are my favorite shots.
I lived under a rock for so long lol. Your videos have helped teach me proper wedding etiquette and I thank you for this
Same here. Seriously. 😳
Our mother's hair is looking especially fire red in this video- I'm here for it 😍
What I find interesting is the original purpose of bridesmaids was to 1, protect her from jealous suitors and 2, were supposed to dress identical to the bride in order to protect her from evil spirits. They would dress the same to confuse the spirits.
The original purpose of marriage is different to what it is now though too. Thankfully traditions have changed over the years as have the traditions of what the bridesmaids stand for
26:37 A contract is only an agreement between two party’s. Verbal contracts are JUST as enforceable as written contracts, they’re just harder to prove. But email correspondence between two parties (a person & a rep from a company) is legally a contract. How many times has Judge Milian drilled that into people’s heads? 😂
She didn't name the person or show her face. There are no damages....sincerely, an attorney.
My wedding go to color is green...spring wedding..light green....summer wedding? Bright green, fall or winter wedding...hunter green and with greens with warm or cool undertones you can find a green that will work for you! Also, I wear it with thoughts of life and vibrancy for the new couple!!!! This has never steered me wrong!
I would send the MIL who stole the wedding cake leftovers a bill. Wedding cake if so expensive leftovers are only for the wedding night and honeymoon couple!
EDIT: I said leftovers....as in what is left after the party is over. That in my opinion belongs to the bride and groom and they can do with it what they want. In the story the bride was not happy that MIL stole it.
Is that true? Interesting! In my culture, they'd cut the rest in slices and share it with guests and give it away to whoever wants a bit. The cake is so big and the newlyweds are not going to eat all that! They might take a bit, for the next day or so..
@@borountree4539 we gave a bunch of our cake away. Admittedly my husband and I are huge cake people. A close family member of mine made out cake and it was a smaller 3 tier cake. Each tier had different flavored filling. She’s a very skilled women and we took a small piece to try each tier. We were told that the smaller top tier of the cake is supposed to be for the bride & groom to take home freeze and then your supposed take the cake out at some point down the road maybe on your anniversary and eat it? It was quite a few years ago now so I don’t remember exactly what we were supposed to do or even what we did do. I know we took it out and atleast ate some of it I don’t think we waited a whole year though lol 😂
We had a two tier cake and kept the top tier (froze it) and brought it out a year later to a family dinner to celebrate our first Wedding Anniversary. My nephews were so excited because they loved the cake and this time they were allowed to eat as much as they wanted and play with the fondant! 😂 I would have been very upset if anyone took it!
@@Raraking4796 That is an interesting custom too. And I actually find it cute. If you freeze it and you have a real good freezer it can still be just great a year later.
@ the best trick to it is also making sure it’s sealed good so it doesn’t get frostbite and stuff like that. I will say it did still taste good whenever it was that we ate it.
Looking back at the Olivia Culpo situation along with their response, calling the influencer "evil" smacks of trad wife, plain, colorless, Christian nationalist propaganda.
I mean... she turned her own wedding into a pick me culture war. She gives... beige mom.
I met my husband at a wedding, we were engaged within a week, married within a year...we celebrated our 28th anniversary a few months ago.
I once met a guy at a wedding. I caught the bouquet and he caught the garter. Unfortunately, we were both out of towners and lived 9 hours by car apart.
@@tamaradavis3693 holy potatoes! Engaged within a week is wild but I’m really glad it worked out so great for yall. Happy early anniversary!! 🎊 🎉
Engaged within a week… weird
@@alexischarest378 not at all... everyones timeline is different and there are truly situations when you just know. they just celebrated being together for 28 fkn years, does that seem weird to you? lol grow up
@@alexischarest378 when you know, you know. We weren't wrong, it's been over 29yrs since that day. 😉
Charlotte you're AMAZING......such a girls girl.Everybody needs a friend like you.
8:08 You just solved the mystery - she did that _because_ YOU love cake so much, that's why.
To me, it feels like MIL was probably sending a message like “You don’t need to eat any more cake, sweetie. You’re looking a little…fluffy lately ::stomach pat:: I’m saying this out of love and concern for you, of course.”
40:43 Personally, the dress is a little dated and old fashioned looking for me. If that's what she wanted, more power to her. But her after party dress was the polar opposite of the dress she was married in. Seriously nothing left to the imagination. Sorry but the bride is a contradiction in terms.
36:42 I ended a 3-decade friendship with someone like this. I laid out the details of how she had behaved throughout most of our friendship in an email to her (that I BCCed to some mutual friends) because she also likes to tell her own version of the truth to protect her image
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I love the compilation videos. It makes it easier to watch while I'm cooking at work and I don't have to keep going back to my phone to click a new video. Love it
Happy Sunday I’m watching this while putting up my Christmas tree 🎄 ❤
Hope it makes putting up the tree a little more fun! 😉
Same! Happy Christmas season, fellow Petty Potato 🥔 🎄
Happy Holidays, French Fry!🎉
Me too! ❤
@@CharlotteDobre your videos make everything more fun!! ♥️
Beautiful engagement ring...Emeralds are lovely..❤
On the chicken and egg bride that got arrested.
Do you think they stole the egg first or a chicken????😂😂😂
😂😅😂😅
The bride who made a tiktok account just to slander Nicole Ashley's photography has literally never made another video from that account lol she was SILENCED
Love a compilation! I'm at the Laundromat and having nice long vids playing in my earbuds so I don't have to stop to find the next vid to play is a lifesaver! Happy December potatoes!
Love these compilations! They keep me easy company at work. Lots of Charlotte without having to switch videos!
You can’t sue for defamation if you haven’t had any loss of money or opportunity.
Not true on several levels. #1 - You can sue anyone, anytime, for anything. Whether you actually will prevail is a different story... but you CAN sue them. #2 - There is a part of defamation called 'defamation per se' which doesn't require a loss. If the individual is generally a private individual and involves a statement so obviously harmful that the person need not prove anything. An example of this would be accusing someone of a serious crime, knowing it was untrue. I'm a paralegal and have worked on a few cases like this - specifically online defamation.
@@InternetJury you can start a lawsuit for anything but that doesn’t mean it will go through. Likely to get tossed out before the court date or be thrown out on the first court date. Which basically means you can’t sue, The semantics don’t really make a difference here.
@@aduckofsomesort I work in the legal field. I know exactly how it works. Initiating litigation (lawsuit) is suing. That's it. Civil lawsuits don't just "get tossed" as you insinuate. Cases get dismissed for a variety of reasons, and it's almost never because the judge dismisses on the merits. In fact, I have NEVER seen that happen. Judges dismiss cases before trial for technical reasons unrelated to the merits of the case - like parties who aren't following court rules. If a case is dismissed before trial, it's likely because one or both parties request a dismissal. This is very often because the parties have settled their dispute outside of court and no longer require a trial. In fact, almost 95% are dismissed by the parties because they settle out of court. That doesn't mean that a dismissed case lacked merit... in fact, many dismissed cases have plenty of merit. Parties often prefer to settle before trial because it's in everyone's best interest - for financial, privacy, etc. All of the civil cases I've had go to trial were many years in the making and were ALWAYS because one of the parties was being unreasonable, refusing to settle. Keep in mind, by the time a case gets to trial (other than small claims and the like) the parties have exchanged substantial discovery, like had at least one mediation, settlement conferences, etc. In fact, in many small claims cases, this has also happened. In my area, many of the small claims judges mandate mediation first. It takes a LOT of time and effort to get to a civil trial, and it's almost always because one of the parties (or sometimes all of them) are just stubborn and unreasonable regarding settlement.
Again, a dismissed case doesn't mean it was a meritless case. In fact, it's common for them to be privately settled BECAUSE the case had merit and the parties wanted to avoid a public trial.
Keep in mind, we're talking about civil law, here, not criminal. Criminal cases are completely different. SO when you talk about a judge "tossing" a case, likely due to insufficient evidence, you're probably thinking about the criminal side of things.
@@aduckofsomesortI like your username and I agree. The case will most likely get thrown out.
People always think that threatening to sue someone is considered a threat! Threaten away!! I have every right to speak my mind, and I didn't actually name you when I said what I said. So sue away! I'll wait for the summons!
I'm off work right now recovering from surgery, these compilations have been an absolute lifesaver!!
I'm an unofficial bouncer for a wedding coming up in April and I take my role very seriously 😈😈
Get that wine ready 😂❤
Great idea for a small business. Wedding bouncer. So many don't have a friend to help out like that.
@@paulagoeringer9466 Jen Glantz had a business like Bridesmaid for Hire that did something like this, I think.
@@paulagoeringer9466 that's a heck of an idea honestly
That's a brilliant idea 👏 make a business out of it, get lots of money 👍
My sister was a very easy going bride. Almost too easy going! Sometimes we had a time getting her to make a decision! But she asked us to wear any black dress. It turned out very nice :) I’m not a dress wearer but I thought mine was so pretty :)
The bride that's mad about the photographs still boggles me. Like did she not look through the photographers portfolio before hiring her?!?!? I'm so confused.
She did. If you paid attention to the video or finished before commenting it, she's a well known photographer within her area or at least state. The bride was just a known headache to deal with that even the other vendors told the photographer not to take her as a client.
My sons fiancé (been together for 5 years) told me I’m the best “almost MIL”.. Best compliment of my life. She’s the best “almost DIL”.. so grateful!! I hope I can live up to it and not end up in one of the stories :-)
In regards to the first video, that dress is not guest attire acceptable. My wedding dress was if not the same color, on that color wheel. Some brides will want a color other than white, maybe peach, pink or blush. As I did the same thing. The women is wrong and the OP is in fact, in the right.
No. It's beige and she prob knew what the colour the brides dress was. I think the person doing the video was extremely nasty. It was from a photo. She wasn't at the wedding. Photos can make colours look whiter. It's none of that person's business.
@@supernova4839 while it’s a color that can look close to whiteish in pictures seeing stuff in person is a lot different than seeing a picture of people. Peach and pink undertones are very popularly picked by brides yes but brides also pick those colors for their MOH and bridesmaids. She made a public video about people she didn’t know and possibly had no knowledge or context about. Its one thing to call someone out in person at or immediately after the wedding is over or to even call someone out privately but to take someone’s private wedding event and to publicly call someone out on TikTok while showing their face it’s yucky behavior. She wasn’t in the right at all. It’s very possible that girl only responded to that creator because she was being harassed by her followers cause people on the internet are unhinged keyboard warriors.
Imagine you attend a wedding. Your a bridesmaids or your a guest that has cleared your dresss personally with the bride and then some internet stranger is on TikTok sharing sneaky pictures of you with the world saying you wore white to a wedding and the bride was sad. We never heard from the bride was she actually sad? I feel like there’s alot of missing context. We only have one persons perspective and honestly her perspective isn’t even the one that matters. It’s giving stalker in my opinion.
while it’s a color that can look close to whiteish in pictures seeing stuff in person is a lot different than seeing a picture of people. Peach and pink undertones are very popularly picked by brides yes but brides also pick those colors for their MOH and bridesmaids. She made a public video about people she didn’t know and possibly had no knowledge or context about. Its one thing to call someone out in person at or immediately after the wedding is over or to even call someone out privately but to take someone’s private wedding event and to publicly call someone out on TikTok while showing their face it’s yucky behavior. She wasn’t in the right at all. It’s very possible that girl only responded to that creator because she was being harassed by her followers cause people on the internet are unhinged keyboard warriors.
Imagine you attend a wedding. Your a bridesmaids or your a guest that has cleared your dresss personally with the bride and then some internet stranger is on TikTok sharing sneaky pictures of you with the world saying you wore white to a wedding and the bride was sad. We never heard from the bride was she actually sad? I feel like there’s alot of missing context. We only have one persons perspective and honestly her perspective isn’t even the one that matters. It’s giving stalker in my opinion. She’s not here to stir the pot but she’s out here on the internet publicly calling out strangers on the internet. She’s clearly happily stirring the pot.
So glad i will NEVER have to worry about costs, venues, vendors, people wearing white or other colors i don't want, people trying to up me, bridesmaids, MOHs, drunk people, people being picky, photographers etc. Sooo glad i don't have to worry about any of it.!!!
The after party dress was absolutely ridiculous, especially after her wedding dress. 😂😂😂😂
Wonder how she actually sat down in it? It was absolutely ridiculous looking
The Wedding Cake first bite smash has been happening since the 1960s as far as I know! I've seen it at every wedding I have attended, although the whole cake, or a huge piece smash seems to be a new development!I haven't been to many weddings in recent years.
My in laws are frickin awesome! They were awesome from the first time I met them and have only gotten more loving and supportive as the years passed by. I am remarkably blessed.
My husband says that he feels very lucky to have my parents too, because they cherish him and he has never had to wonder if they like him.
When I think about how rough so many people out there have it with their in laws, I feel even more blessed. It definitely makes it easier to have a strong marriage, because we both have a great support network, which is so important.
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing😊
@ 34:44 I like to believe, that these brides are finding grooms that are just as delulu as them, so in reality they are doing us (normal people) a favor by taking the crazies out of the market 😂.
See, this is why I got married in a registry office with two witnesses and told everyone I got married a couple of days after. Not worth the hassle
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I did exactly the same!
Was the best man to my father and the only guest in such a marriage ceremony. We then went to a nice restaurant after and it was great. No complications, no drama.
My bridesmaids all wore short black dresses. They picked the style that fit their body best. My only requirement was one length and must look good with black boots. I had a red ribbon for them to wear as a belt. It worked out great.
These are honestly some of my favorite videos. Bc I know I've missed videos lol
I had a friend take my photos. I enjoy photography, and I didn't have much money, so I edited them myself, because i love to do that! And we're still friends, no drama, and I love my photos!
You can't sue for your image being shared like that for defamation, defamation has to have PROVABLE intent to slander and harass with documented financial/social damages. She is absolutely BATCRAP CRAY CRAY.
You can sue anyone at anytime for any reason.
It may not go anywhere but you can spend the money to try lol
I once went shopping with my sister bc she needed a dress for a friends wedding, and it’s a good thing I did. She was steadily trying to pick out white or white adjacent coloured dresses. She finally gave up and got a blue dress but seemed pretty defeated about it.
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I’m one of the lucky few who has a great relationship with my MIL. I love her to pieces and she has always treated me like her own and I know she has my back. I was once on a call with her at work and ended the call with “ok I’ll talk to you later, love you too” and my coworker asked if that was my husband. When I said no my MIL she was in shock lol
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In eu we use also quotations as contract. It works as a writing agreement. If both part signed it and it as written prices, dates,… it works as “contract”.
My MIL has 9 children, 3 of them are married, and she managed to cause drama at each wedding. At mine and my husbands she got drunk and stated a fight with hubby's stepdad, at my SIL's she started screaming at the bride, for smoking a cigarette, and BIL's she picked a fight with the bride and when BIL defended his new wife, she went crying to my other SIL, who then smashed a bottle over BIL's head. Most of the rest have decided they are just not getting married.
What an awful mother! I’m sure she blames everyone else! Don’t invite her, she’ll ask why and tell her point blank she ruins everything!
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So, my hubby and I got married 20 years ago. Our pictures were all ruined. Every single one was overexposed. (Back in the day of film cameras) we only got about 2-3 rolls of film, and every picture was terrible! Mostly shadows and blurry faces. We didn't even get one of the 2 of us. You know what though? It was still one of the best days of my life, and 20 years later the photos in my mind are still clear and crisp. Best of luck youngins.
If they had it in writing by email, any judge would have agreed with you that the original price stand. Should have sued.
I absolutely love how you’re videos are edited. It really reflects your personality so so well! ❤😂
Having a very rare low day today, and I just know this video will cheer me up. You have that way about you, Charlay!
55:44 the OP that was complaining about her photos drove me crazy. Trying to ruin someones business because you had a bad experience is really shitty.
I like the modest dress it had a very Victorian or Edwardian feel to it, pop buttons up the front I stand Victorian Wedding dress and I love the Victorian Era, so to me it was good.
I thought it was lovely and she looked beautiful in it. If you don't like the dress you don't need to respond like the woman did just don't wear it yourself.
@@dancer2179that’s her job. She she wasn’t horrible about it or her. The bride was horrible though when talking about the why and hypocritical with what she wore afterwards and lying about herself. Don’t want problems, don’t cause them 🤷🏼♀️
@@dancer2179 I liked it, I didn't care for her after dress the one that looked short swimsuit cage one, but I liked the Wedding dress
Love your videos Charlotte 😊 I don't know what it is your doing in preparation for your wedding, but you are looking absolutely beautiful, your glowing 🤗
I think Olivia's dress was stunning
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The cake thing is just so disrespectful! If my now ex husband had done that to me, I would have immediately walked out the door!
I think it is appropriate ONLY IF they both agreed to it before hand. Surprised by it is never ok. My husband and I did it but we discussed it beforehand. He would never have even tried had I told him not to. It can be fun but again only if both parties agree to it 1st.
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These stories make me SO grateful for my MIL. The first time I saw her after my now husband and I got engaged, she gave me the biggest hug and said, “I’m going to have a daughter!!!” (she has two sons).
She’s so opposite of what a typical MIL is like to her child’s partner, and I couldn’t feel more lucky for it!
let's talk color theory. Color theory can make blue look white. Contrast, it's important to note just because it's not white, does not mean it won't look white. Like that one reddit story of the woman who told the bride that the dress would look white on her as her dark skin tone would create contrast. Surprise bride didn't believe her and accused her of "ruining the wedding" even though she straight out told her it would. Want to know a good way to always avoid this, WEAR A DARK COLOR like damn it is not that hard to pick a color on the darker side and not dabble in the whites, greys, peaches, creams, beige's. There are literally thousands of shades to choose from that work and if you don't know the joy of a little black dress it's your loss.
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I am so excited, my brother is getting married in less than 6 months and I have put myself on red wine duty. My MIL wore white to my wedding and I won't let ANYONE do it to my brother and new sister ❤
Wow! Cracked in before 100! Hope the wedding planning is going well, Charlotte 😊❤
Haha…this is my earliest time also!!🎉😂 🙌
Reason #1 to not have a dry wedding. Red wine as an insurance policy against anyone wearing a white dress who isn’t the bride.
Most brides don’t want to hear a negative critique of their special dress.
Then don't wear them where others can see you.😁
Love these stories. I will never go to another wedding. My friends know inviting me is tantamount to ending our friendship
The person that thinks that dress is "peach" is 100% delulu 😂
Lol the kit kat when you said "give me a break"😂
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you shouldn’t wear a dress that can be confused for a wedding dress to a wedding. simple
I would’ve had the photographer photoshop the sister’s dress green and be petty🤣