Take it from a cop who is also pursuing law. When cops come to your house, when cops are called we are not looking to settle a dispute, we are looking to lay a charge. Example in (from experience) canada: Couple gets in a heated arguement, neighbor call cops, cops walk into home finds gun on desk after being cleaned. Thats a section 86 and 3 years in jail, found the home trashed so reason to arrest the male on a domestic also. No injuries on female, however can arrest and charge based on reasonable grounds. Man now has 2 charges facing 5 years in prison maximum. In canada even if the victim recants only the prosecutor gets to drop charges.Guess what, the prosecutor ( which i am pursuing in law) Gets paid to ruin your life pretty much. So Dont call the cops and dont talk to the cops. We are not mediation group we are law enforces. I see too many couples call cops over dumb stuff.
what are the chances of jailtime for domestic violence from a threat text message in new york? first time offense, no record at all, i was charged for midemeanor, my gf regrets calling nypd and doesnt want to press charges.
Me and my husband got into a heated argument I felt disrespected so I slapped him. He had a scratch on his nose and when I called the sheriffs station. To have the officer establish peace but instead I his wife was arrested I’ve never been in trouble I don’t have a bad driving record I graduated top of my class for criminal justice. And the officer even though my husband said no I’m not pressing charges she called not me. I was booked on a felonie charge I admitted to him I did slap him I was so cooperative vs my husband didn’t say anything . He filled out a statement in hopes the DA will drop the chargers
This exact same situation that happened to me. In this case I’m in your husbands shoes and I’m writing up a letter as well. What happened in your situation after? It’s such a shame for me as well as I was the aggressor but they didn’t see it that way.
@@anasoto7513 well girl dec 4 I got a call from the public defender lawyer and they dismissed the case, 6 months later. We paid my bond 5k. The letter he wrote saved us from classes that could have been at least 3k. They saw the situation was self defense and they dismissed it but only because my husband wrote the letter so they could understand what happened that day. I’m 2 months pregnant now with out 4th baby and when I got the news that they dropped my chargers I was so happy
Take it from a cop who is also pursuing law. When cops come to your house, when cops are called we are not looking to settle a dispute, we are looking to lay a charge. Example in canada: Couple gets in a heated arguement, neighbor call cops, cops walk into home finds gun loaded. Thats a section 86 and 3 years in jail, found the home trashed so reason to arrest the mail on a domestic also. No injuries on female, however can arrest and charge based on reasonable grounds. Man now has 2 charges facing 5 years in prison maximum. In canada even if the victim recants only the prosecutor gets to drop charges.Guess what, the prosecutor ( which i am pursuing in law) Gets paid to ruin your life pretty much. So Dont call the cops and dont talk to the cops. We are not mediation group we are law enforces. I see too many couples call cops over dumb stuff.
@@doingsomething5084 why? So ur aresting sineone and ruin there lifes? Dies this make u feel good? My wife and i had a fight someone called the cops they arested me evan no harm was done at all .just because someone called the cops on us for fighting, i am starting to lose all my gig jobs . No harm was done on anyone of us .now i am in a big mess and it will be plsyed out untill June .have all kinds of problems like 60 years old now with this on my record ? U wouldner why people r homeless .the law sucks needs to be changed .
This GANGSTER with the tear drop threw down on me FOR A FADE, and you know I BOX 🥊!! So I was like I’ll give you a FREE ONE because I’m not going to jail. So he pulls his phone out & start provoking me and followed me ALL THE WAY HOME recording me on his phone SAYING HE WAS GOING TO CALL THE POPO’s on ME. That would’ve been a 1st Degree Assault (Assault 1) charge if I punched him FIRST which carries up to 10 years in prison, and up to $20,000 in fines. (WHERE DO THEY DO THAT? And he FOLLOWED ME?) ON EVERYTHING I LOVE ❤️ SELAH See what I mean?
Take it from a cop who is also pursuing law. When cops come to your house, when cops are called we are not looking to settle a dispute, we are looking to lay a charge. Example in (from experience) canada: Couple gets in a heated arguement, neighbor call cops, cops walk into home finds gun on desk after being cleaned. Thats a section 86 and 3 years in jail, found the home trashed so reason to arrest the male on a domestic also. No injuries on female, however can arrest and charge based on reasonable grounds. Man now has 2 charges facing 5 years in prison maximum. In canada even if the victim recants only the prosecutor gets to drop charges.Guess what, the prosecutor ( which i am pursuing in law) Gets paid to ruin your life pretty much. So Dont call the cops and dont talk to the cops. We are not mediation group we are law enforces. I see too many couples call cops over dumb stuff.
what are the chances of jailtime for domestic violence from a threat text message in new york? first time offense, no record at all, i was charged for midemeanor, my gf regrets calling nypd and doesnt want to press charges.
If a man slaps a woman in the state of Colorado, and is charged/arrested, the sentence is an automatic 2yr. in prison.
Should be 5 years
Me and my husband got into a heated argument I felt disrespected so I slapped him. He had a scratch on his nose and when I called the sheriffs station. To have the officer establish peace but instead I his wife was arrested I’ve never been in trouble I don’t have a bad driving record I graduated top of my class for criminal justice. And the officer even though my husband said no I’m not pressing charges she called not me. I was booked on a felonie charge I admitted to him I did slap him I was so cooperative vs my husband didn’t say anything . He filled out a statement in hopes the DA will drop the chargers
This exact same situation that happened to me. In this case I’m in your husbands shoes and I’m writing up a letter as well. What happened in your situation after? It’s such a shame for me as well as I was the aggressor but they didn’t see it that way.
@@anasoto7513 well girl dec 4 I got a call from the public defender lawyer and they dismissed the case, 6 months later. We paid my bond 5k. The letter he wrote saved us from classes that could have been at least 3k. They saw the situation was self defense and they dismissed it but only because my husband wrote the letter so they could understand what happened that day.
I’m 2 months pregnant now with out 4th baby and when I got the news that they dropped my chargers I was so happy
Take it from a cop who is also pursuing law. When cops come to your house, when cops are called we are not looking to settle a dispute, we are looking to lay a charge. Example in canada: Couple gets in a heated arguement, neighbor call cops, cops walk into home finds gun loaded. Thats a section 86 and 3 years in jail, found the home trashed so reason to arrest the mail on a domestic also. No injuries on female, however can arrest and charge based on reasonable grounds. Man now has 2 charges facing 5 years in prison maximum. In canada even if the victim recants only the prosecutor gets to drop charges.Guess what, the prosecutor ( which i am pursuing in law) Gets paid to ruin your life pretty much. So Dont call the cops and dont talk to the cops. We are not mediation group we are law enforces. I see too many couples call cops over dumb stuff.
@@doingsomething5084 why? So ur aresting sineone and ruin there lifes? Dies this make u feel good? My wife and i had a fight someone called the cops they arested me evan no harm was done at all .just because someone called the cops on us for fighting, i am starting to lose all my gig jobs . No harm was done on anyone of us .now i am in a big mess and it will be plsyed out untill June .have all kinds of problems like 60 years old now with this on my record ? U wouldner why people r homeless .the law sucks needs to be changed .
@@randylove hey man, did everything work out ok?
This GANGSTER with the tear drop threw down on me FOR A FADE, and you know I BOX 🥊!! So I was like I’ll give you a FREE ONE because I’m not going to jail. So he pulls his phone out & start provoking me and followed me ALL THE WAY HOME recording me on his phone SAYING HE WAS GOING TO CALL THE POPO’s on ME.
That would’ve been a 1st Degree Assault (Assault 1) charge if I punched him FIRST which carries up to 10 years in prison, and up to $20,000 in fines. (WHERE DO THEY DO THAT? And he FOLLOWED ME?)
ON EVERYTHING I LOVE ❤️ SELAH
See what I mean?
What about dv burglary felony?
What does class A mean....?
Family matters I don’t want to move forward with pressing charges however the prosecutor is moving forward it’s my fiancé and we live together
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