Andrew Huberman Needs To Stop Excusing His Sh*tty Behavior With Therapy-Speak
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- It's time for another edition of Sanity/Petty Corner! This week, Erin and Alyssa are joined by Dana Schwartz to get petty about blurb culture, Andrew Huberman, Gen-Z and lab results.
0:00 - Lab results
4:00 - Andrew Huberman
7:55 - Blurb culture
13:14 - Generational complaints of Gen-Z
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The first thing my therapist told me when I started therapy for my PTSD and CPTSD was "A person's mental illness may explain but does not excuse their behaviour!" and that makes a lot of sense.
When it comes to psychology and spirituality, the most dangerous humans are the ones that learn the language, but don’t do the work.
Yeah, they say it's actually bad for psychopaths to go to therapy because they use it against people. Abusive people learn how to abuse better with better tools
spot on.
Wow, so well put!
I would add that applies beyond psychology and spirituality, in all matters of ethics, which goes across disciplines - anyone with any position of authority: teachers, professors, social workers, lawyers, etc
This is a classic tactic of abusers and narcissists
Hey, elder millenial here. I think part of what frustrates most people of any generation about those coming after them is that younger generations need to grow up and gain life experience in order to become self-sufficient. Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday, you know? I know I was an idiot about a lot of things as a young adult that seem super obvious to me now. I also remember the boomers rolling their eyes at us and complaining about how helpless and unprepared we were for adulthood when I was gen z's age and entering the workforce. Generational differences are real, but I'm skeptical that this particular issue is a generation thing. I think it might be more of a "growing up" thing that most of us go through in one way or another.
"Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday" Truth! You're good with the words, I like your words. 😃
I agree with this. I was also thinking, why didn't Erin be resourceful, by just like taking the top bun, swipe it over the mayonnaise, and voila, you're done! Lol
Being annoyed by the younger generation is the hallmark feature of elder generations since forever. Chill, Erin. Gen Z’s brain isn’t done cooking yet. 😂
Most 16 year olds are functionally useless, I was pretty much devoid of value until I was into my 30s. Every generation is going to look like an idiot when you're judging it when it's brain hasn't finished developing (that's well into your 20s btw before an average brain is finished).
Also, maybe, did she say what the mayo was even for? They may have just assumed it was to dip chips in, which is very common around the world instead of ketchup...
Don't take this the wrong way... but you're saying Gen Z isn't resourceful when you had to go up to the counter and ask for a utensil before you could spread mayo on a sandwich? Tear a bit of the box, use a french fry, find literally anything clean and flat. I think the brains of service industry members are broken from lack of pay, compassion, and job benefits, not what year they happen to be born.
Not to mention that the kid WAS resourceful. They didn't have mayo packets, so they found a different way to get the mayo for her. I'm so confused by that whole story and the defense of generational criticism.
I'm born in the 50's but SO tired of people dumping on genZ. They're beautiful and deserve our support. And I'm also sick of rich people with degrees slamming service jobs that get 8 hours of disrespect from the public and the management every day. If you're so "resourceful" make your own food.
Valid. Z & A and mid/younger millennials grew up in an entirely different world. Add the formative years of Z&A happening in isolation and their milestones not marked or celebrated remotely.
I'm a billion year old boomer who enjoys Dr. Huberman's show. I click on your video with the express intent of disliking this podcast. I've been duped. You guys are brilliant. It's like hacking a private Zoom meeting of witty friends riffing on fun topics. Nobody is posing for the camera. Well done.
Really? He sounds immature but all this is from one side. He says he tested negative, but somehow we know she didn't sleep with anyone else? Why aren't all the other supposed gf's infected? Is this any of our business? One article claiming this stuff, which honestly isn't that serious and definitely information that should stay between consenting adults.
@raincadeify I still like Dr. Huberman. I will continue to consume his content. But I did find the construction and delivery of this podcast amusing. I think Dr. Huberman will continue to thrive. It does seem that fame exacts a terrible price. No doubt, the journalist who wrote the article will have her life examined and dissected by some curious individual with a platform.
@@raincadeify All that stuff is new to me tx for info... but do agree about way too much information in this context.
@@riddlerhymes512 What terrible price? He courts personal notoriety there has to be a sane line in the sand here. He's not exactly John Lennon getting assassinated. On the other hand, yes, gossip column journalism is .... gossip column journalism not terribly high-minded by the most generous of assessments.
I love Andrew Hubermans vids as well.. There is enough info out there about his personal life now that it’s pretty obvious he’s either on the spectrum or leans into the cluster b category of personality disorders.. but nothing about his personal life leaches the importance of the data he provides.. it’s good stuff.. none of us have to date him.. additionally, yes.. yalls podcast is also awesome and I enjoy them..
Too much therapy for the wrong people is kind of the moral of The Sopranos if you watch it until the end…
Can we all agree that modern therapy culture has consumed and digested its own tail a long time ago and is currently chewing on the back of its neck?
Every generation has complained about the next, saying the exact same things. These young folks are learning how to be people in the world. They make the same awkward mistakes as every generation before them. They're learning problems solving skills as they grow into their personhood. I'm so disappointed when I see millennials (I'm millennial, but gen-x cusp) dump on gen-z the way we were dumped on just a few years ago. Do bettah! (still love y'all)
Exactly. Don't waste your love on people who criticize food servers. They don't deserve it.
Thank you for saying this (and the person above me who responded to you)
It was sad to see them just lean into that same lazy divisive rhetoric without any self awareness. And to not have the grace to think maybe that food service worker is new with her “just do it right the first time kids!” Argument.
Anyone complaining about "kids these days" needs to put the blame on the parents!!
Never trust an influencer named Andrew. It can never be good.
Oh, that makes a whole lot of sense lol
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A “bro” friend of mine recommended Huberman, and I was skeptical, but I gave him a few listens… I stopped listening the moment he mentioned Jordan Peterson… NOPE.
What about when he had nothing but great reviews about Andrew Tate. It's his biggest red flag.
@@malinpin4518 Whaaaaat??? I did not know that - holy crap.
Ugh. I really liked some of stuff on mental illness. Sigh. Why?? Tate and Peterson? No redeeming qualities whatsoever. I notice that all the male podcasters have interviewed Peterson, probably because their audience requested it but come on.😫
@@arcticgoddessyup, the con runs deep. Jbp is part of that cesspool called daily wire
It’s a mixed bag for me. He will have a guess talking about good things then promote Peterson or Rogan. Ugghh
As an avid reader I take absolutely no notice of blurbs.
Gen X without college degrees being the largest demographic that voted for tRump, is so terribly sad and infuriating. As a gen X woman with a college degree, I honestly don’t understand the rationale, motivation perceived benefit for voting on the side of a political party that is antithetical to their aspirations, hopes and dreams. Sometimes I think these people made so many mistakes in life that the only satisfaction they have left is to drag others down with them.
In 2016, I think Trump’s primary competition was two political dynasties that had decimated the non educated workers of America. Their trade deals put American union workers in competition with third world sweat shop labor while simultaneously gutting welfare. What did they replace it with? War and austerity. Clinton’s trade deals and welfare reform would generate the poverty and desperation needed for Bush’s illegal wars which would further decimate the American economy on top of killing hundreds of thousands of our kids for a lie. The American working class had been betrayed by the two political dynasties and Trump would use that to his advantage. Of course this was purely opportunistic. He duped many people. Still, we made that very easy to do by tryouts to shove two powerful political dynasties down people’s throats that have already failed us all.
I think Biden won for a reason and he’ll likely win again for this reason. I think Biden, for all of his flaws, understands the failures that crippled working class America enough to at least feign a since of populism which could get him reelected. In his first time running for Senate, he consulted a jr political analyst named Pat Caddell who advised him to instead of running against a specific person to run against “Washington DC”. Caddell had been studying the reasons why RFK and his ideological opposite George Wallace were popular among the same people. He determined the common factor was a sense of fighting those in power. What Hunter S Thompson called the “Fuck the bosses” vote. Needless to day, Biden would win that election. I think, with the exception of Bernie Sanders Biden is better suited to play that role than anyone else on the 2020 primary debate stage. However, I do think providing a genuine left wing populist alternative to the insane fascist clown show populism is the way we beat fascism in the long term.
Gen X woman here....100% AGREE
They DON'T seem to UNDERSTAND that EVERYTHING they complain about is a RESULT of HOW & WHAT they vote for. They are voting in a block which is the actually the ANTITHESIS of what they desire.
Not being disrespectful, but i haven't seen any evidence of your first sentence. Yes, i can search it (i don't do branding, so, no googling here) but if you (or someone can point me in the right direction, i'd appreciate it.
I wouldn't say it's Gen X, it's all generations. I've had people from all ages glorify him, just as I've had people from all ages showing recognizable thought processes.
I'm in that demo ( don't vote maga of course). Lots of us are hyper-macho.
Not sure why, but this conversation is so much realistic - compared to whatever the F other podcasters have. Thank you so much for being practical, logical, a bit petty, sarcastic, and amzing
Gen X superiority, oops, I mean self-reliance. Lol 🤣🤣🤣
So he had six girlfriends at once, but only gave one of them HPV?
That's what they're going with. 👍
The others likely didn't test/have it show up on the test yet/didn't want to share that they too caught it/etc.
@@ZaraBizaraOr you just want him to be guilty so bad you are willing to ignore logic which comes as no surprise given the park and you.
Anybody under 25 has poor executive function. Which means they have difficulty considering other points of view and thinking logically. Their frontal lobes are not completely developed.
When Millennials were young, I went to a fast food place where the cash register was broken. I had to take out a calculator and add up my total for them.
Yeah, I’m a boomer so I know it all now. When I was in my 20s I was an idiot. So were you.
Poor executive function in our 20ies? Nah. Women's frontal lobes are fully developed in our early 20ies. They are almost fully matured by the time we leave our teens, and almost fully developed frontal lobes are not completely useless. I wish I still had the level of executive function that I had when I was 20. I ran circles around the 30-50 year olds in my office both in the execution of complex multitasking and quick decision making for hours at a time, and operated largely from working memory.
I did make some poor decisions in relation to my dating life, but that kind of poor decisions seem to be made by single people in just about every age group.
@@Kari.F. I don't think the science supports your assumption.
@@AnnNunnally I have studied the "newer" science, and the fact that I passed my introduction to neuroscience exam is all the evidence I need that the science backs me up.
@@Kari.F. Intro to neuroscience? Wow.
It’s not so much about the 6 GFs, it’s about the abusive, manipulative, narcissistic behavior. A charming, intelligent man with major issues!
Can you please show us how he abu…. them? By the way the main one making accusations in the article is under investigation by the DOJ. Andrew left her after finding this out. Funny how no one mentions this little inconvenient detail!
Also a feral resourceful Gen Xer here lol. I am surprised to know my gen voted highest for orange devil :(. We were so punk rock and alternative. Most of my fellow Gen xers I'm in touch with are libs like me.
For the record my parents did a pretty good job, giving us freedom but still curfews and life lessons. Also liberal, always called themselves independents which is a little why I didn't grow up knowing what party to go to, I'm still ind but have no choice but to vote Dem since I'm pro human rights, bodily autonomy, taking care of those in need, anti violence, and health care for all, etc.
A year or 2 ago a writer/comic with a podcast told us about that morning in NYC she went in a coffee shop and the barista didn't understand what black coffee was.
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Sometimes individuals have gaps in knowledge, we don’t need to do the divisive and over done “shit on the kids these days” rhetoric. The barista didn’t permanently not know what black coffee was, your friend just happened to be around when they learned the term
Think about the mean jocks, the rednecks, and the church kids from high school in the 80s -- they all vote red hat.
@@Tortilla.Reform Maybe it's a failure of the employer who certainly should make sure when serving coffee everyone knows what coffee is with no fancy junk in it. I'm soft on people for a Gen Xer but that is a wow from me.
Gen-X here but maybe not the most feral - I was more free-range with my millennial son than my parents were with me - but I do have to say I know a lot of Gen-Xers that are Trumplovers. For a while it was hard for me to wrap my head around, because it wasn't just the jocks and rednecks. It's also the folks who were working class alternative types. I'm guessing they still identify as anti-establishment, but now they're all into elites who rail against other elites and blame all their problems on other poors instead of voting for people who are actually trying to do something for the working class.
I'm not so sure about the college-educated alternative types. I think most of them escaped this town and so I don't hear much from them, but I'm in the oil and gas industry so most of the degreed folks I know are also R as heck, but I do at least know some who used to be R's and hate Trump.
The frontal lobe is still forming well into a human’s 20’s. The frontal lobe is where we make our decisions. It’s nice knowing this as I give anyone under the age of 30 (and over 30 for some men) the grace they deserve as they grow into their wisdom years.
GenX here...when I was 16, I worked fast food. A customer approached the counter to ask a co-worker for extra ice. Without hesitation, he turned around, stuck his hand in the ice bin, and grabbed a handful. He then turned around and offered the (now horrified) customer a bare handful of ice.
My point is, the mayo box was an improvement. :)
It’s weird that Erin’s argument was “just do it right the first time” instead of the possibility that they were new, and the fact that learning is a process, nobody starts at the finish line
Regarding the box of mayo: my son works in fast food. They are not allowed to give out anything extra unless the customer specifically asks for it. If they do and don't charge the customer, they get a tongue lashing regarding profit margins. It may be more from fear of getting yelled at than the inability to problem solve. I mean seriously, how do you charge a customer for a utensil? 😂
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How does a utensil cost more than a box filled with mayo?
@@bitchenboutique6953 It shouldn't cost more. My son would offer to remake the sandwich or give them the mayo and a knife, whichever the customer preferred. It was just a theory I was throwing out there based on the owner's policy.
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I believe that you are correct, I have to ask for everything in fast food, which is okay, imagine how many wasted plastic utensils if they give out a knife fork and spoon for everyone.
Not unique to gen -z ,40 years ago ran into worse w/ middle aged dry cleaner recommending "just put a patch on it" for a stained dress shirt and 20 years ago w/ middle aged mechanic recommending super glue to repair windshield wiper he broke. Plus, nothing compares to the lack of problem solving by previous generations that left gen-z holding the bag for the rampant environmental, economic and political catastrophes we are responsible for.
The entire argument in that last segment is sadly on brand for the “kids these days” rhetoric. Of course the youths she’s complaining about should know those things, but nobody starts at the finish line, it’s a growing process, and she was probably similar to them at her age and looked at the same by older people around her
When my youngest was a baby I spent about a year exclusively reading ARCs and posting reviews on Amazon and GoodReads. Some of them were truly amazing books that I never would have encountered otherwise. A actually emailed a couple of the authors with praise and asked to be notified when their next book came out. I love being the person to post the first review on something new and interesting.
Resourcefulness is a skill that is taught. If the kid doesn't know how to be resourceful it's usually because it's a skill that is underdeveloped due to opportunity or a lack of teaching from their parent/gaurdian. I feel for Gen Z, between iPad parenting and Covid, they really havent' had the opportunity to develop the same social skills that the rest of us have at their age. Everytime I interact with one I remind myself that they're behind and they need a little bit more guidance.
Had you ever been to a fast food restaurant before? 😅
Ok, some people dip their fries in mayo. No utensils needed.
6 girlfriends of a millionaire. Who is lost on this power dynamic?
I think you need a bit more information. Article also included info about his science and others who he has disrespected. Once you get more info, go back and watch some of his older episodes and you'll understand how disingenuous he is
On the mayo, did you specify what it was for? Some people dip their french fries in it, in which case no utensils needed.
Yes! Bell Hooks test - legal requirement!! :D
“ The wrong people are getting too much therapy, “ is the funniest thing I’ve heard in weeks. I can’t stop laughing. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Booooooo you take the top bun off and smash that shit in the box of mayonnaise. Then back on the Mchicken. “ I got a plain chicken sandwich” girl you just outed yourself
Just dip the sandwich 🤷♀️
Actual discussion about subject matter begins at four minute mark. . . . . .
"Were you in middle school before you had to wipe your own butt?" 😂😂😂
I teach gez Z at the undergrad level. You're spot on.
Just what do people think their parents and their parents' friends thought of them as problem solvers, especially when they're young AND not in the upper 50
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Exactly! She’s just doing the same generational nonsense with no self awareness or grace for others. You become a problem solver, you don’t just start there. But she has a problem with meeting a young food service worker who hasn’t gotten there yet, kind of entitled and gross
Over 30 years of therapy?? Good grief!
His sins are his own. It doesn't diminish the troves of knowledge he dispels. Im not in need of a role model. im in need of knowledge on how my very addicted, post-traumatized
brain works.
Agreed. I watched Hubernan's podcasts for info on the central and peripheral nervous system--not morality, religion or philosophy. Whether he was a convicted bank robber or murderer were not relevant.
I didn't like his "fashion sense" or lack thereof, but who cares?
I unsubscribed from Andrew. Just had to.
Girls, I love you all, but no woman would ever have multiple partners and bs someone about it, would they?
Yep, the hypocritical salt is forming a hard crust.
There are plenty of women who have never had more than one partner
Just because anyone of any gender has the ability to do that doesn't make everyone guilty of behavior that is clearly reprehensible.
I don’t think you made clear that Huberman lied to each of the women, saying that he wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with each one. Based on that, they had unprotected sex with him. He’s a lot worse than a guy who just is sleeping with six women at the same time.
So why aren’t they talking about the fact that the accuser is under investigation by the DOJ and that’s why Hubberman got out of the relationship? The article in question neither do these “ladies” in the video mention any of this. Are the rest of the ones he was supposedly seeing also test positive? You didn’t even bother to ask any of these questions and I am not a fan of his just observing the hypocrisy….
Anyone paying attention already drew that conclusion. Also the fact that he gave anyone HPV disease KNOWINGLY is abuse in and of itself. I love how s$$ty men always " out" themselves by defending the indefensible.
I watched a couple Huberman TH-cam videos and picked up the sociopath vibes quickly. Plus he was twisting dubious research results.
In relation to the Andrew Huberman revelations, as someone else said: "When it comes to psychology and spirituality, the most dangerous humans are the ones that learn the language, but don’t do the work." I get huge narc vibes from him, and this story has confirmed for me what I suspected. His problem is that his entire brand did appeal equally to men and women, but he just lost all the women. Cut his audience in half. My bet is he'll now go full on bro, like a cleaned up, more sophisticated Andrew Tate.
Agree totally. I followed his you tube when it began. And noticed how quickly his ego got caught up and he started doing way too many episodes and started taking on sponsorships.
I just wish there was a good substitute who has integrity
He hasn't lost me.
Bingo. Alarming how most of the male cult leaders start off this way. As a narc gains attention, their ego feeds off itself in an echo chamber of affirmation and they end up believing every base personal impulse is correct. The last few stages before the end are typically abusing women sexually and declaring themselves some sort of messiah. Looks like Andy is picking up speed, so it's only a matter of time before the crazy starts peekin' out.
Huberman has a BA and MA in psychology but then randomly got a neurobiology PhD from UC - Davis.
"You have to pass a test on bell hooks before you can have a podcast as a white man." Yesssss! Brilliant! OMG, this might save humanity. Love it!
100% and the same with banks! Don't call us, we'll call you unless you see something unusual. I don't need more services!
I live with a millennial for the first time in my life and can confirm everything you say. I can't begin to explain everything they do that defies logic or makes any kind of common sense otherwise I'd be here writing all day. .It is truly amazing they are able to get up, get dressed and go to work every day without hand holding involved through the entire process since they contribute exactly ZERO to the household and stay shut in their room only emerging to collect their Uber Eats order every night. I will just give one example. One time the kitchen bin was full, and they took it to the front and left it in the middle of the yard. "It was full. I didn't know what to do." No I am not making this up.
Tony Soprano said it best about too much therapy: "I came here today to tell you, in all seriousness, that I'm done. I did what you said. I gave it a lot of thought and I decided, once and for all, it's over. The truth is this therapy is a jerk-off."
I think a lot of people don't have forward -thinking skills, of any age. I don't know what the common denominator is.
Teaching “to the test” and not for understanding is probably a big part of it.
The scariest thing I ever heard was a teacher at a faculty meeting I was speaking at about 20-25 yrs ago say they couldn't remember the last student they had with a shred of deductive reasoning ability. This has been part of the plan. I'll counter and defend the Genx/z's as victims of the decades-old program of dumbing down the populace. In some cases these capacities - part of normal intellectual and emotional development - do not exist. The are equally incapable of empathy. This is a HUGE problem Love you gals.
15:25 _If you don’t have time to do it right the first time…_
_When will you have time to do it again?_
Elder Gen X here. Just discovered this show not long ago and it cracks me up every time. We were feral and had to become resourceful. Love this show.
I can relate to subpar customer service, and also how I and probably many others don't want to be labeled a Karen for speaking to the manager.
Then don't be a Karen.
Nuance matters. You can inform them something is wrong, without acting like Erin here with the “Just get it right the first time” argument. As if the process of learning is an on/off switch for people lol, no grace for the possibility of a new person who doesn’t know what “right the first time” is yet, and then applying that silly argument to all young people
@@Tortilla.Reform Pretty callus of them. I won't be watching this channel again.
Gen X here....we used to hang out late but the rule was when I was a kid, when those street lights come on your ass better be in the living room. lol. But I do remember those commercials. Thank you ladies. Very much appreciated.
I prefer punk mysogony to class mysogony. Maybe some new wave. Progressive!
16:25 Think about it like so: You never used utensils except in more formal situations. And anytime you have been eating with your friends you dipped the food in the sauce and you never thought you need something else.
Imagine a binary health world where there were only two states: healthy, and dead.
Any sickness meant you would just die instantly. Otherwise, your alive and healthy.
Many would say, they would rather face the suffering of sickness than just die, but would you really?
Imagine, no fear of suffering, no horrible nausea and vomiting, no fear of surgery and chemo with an uncertain result, you might survive but end up disabled, or you might get better but then get worse again.
Or: no suffering, and no fear of possible suffering, your just dead, of food Poisoning or a simple flu.
I know what I'd pick.
If you can go to an independent bookstore, ask a bookseller for book recommendations. A serious bookseller is worth their weight in gold. They actually read the books in stock. Sorry but book tik tokers or “influencers” are being paid. Not as reliable.
I gave up on Huberman months ago when his advice smelled of pseudo-science. He was not credible, and now he's a bad dude? Yikes.
Thank you for this!
I am a male in America and I find Andrew Huberman to be one of the most obnoxious people I’ve ever heard.
Did I spell his last name wrong? I’ll check.😙
why?
OMG can you say "LIKE" 100 more times? This is like listening to kids in a high school parking lot at 4:20!
Turn off email alerts. Let it be like your USPS snail mail box. Manually check your email, sort through the spam for the real, important stuff.
My friend and I work at a major land grant university system. She had a Gen Z assistant not know and not know how to find out how to copy/paste. (sigh) This person is a full BA-level graduate of a university and is a career path staff member.
They used phones not actual computers with keyboards so they don't know commands.
People who say I am feeling petty openly are extra shitty people...
Disparage an entire generation of people by complaining about... A mayonnaise incident?
Yeah, and I suppose some _kids at McDonald's_ are fairly representative of the entire Gen Z population.
Andrew Huberman PhD is not a medical doctor and is an associate professor at Stanford. His meagre lab recently moved from neuroscience to the Department of Ophthalmology. Little research is being there.
as an older millenial, totally agree with your "old lady advice" at the end.
F ANDREW HUBERMAN!
I saw him on Rogan, and that was it.
What terrible thing did he say on Rogan?
@@maesemenese you know how Rogan is... People dribble out an ooze of nonsense that melts your mind before you can defend yourself.
I don't have the strength to go back and listen again, unfortunately at this point in time.
17:53 ouch...Not a great take. It's not like Gen Z have had to live thru a plague that required people to isolate themselves which limited their opportunities. Also, they didn't have mayo packets, so the employee found a different way to get the it for you. Most restaurants have utensil areas too. This was likely a new, unfamiliar situation in the kid's limited experience where someone asked for something specific and they were trying to help.
And yuck! mayonnaise and McDonalds? You are what you eat I guess.
Sadly feels we are watching the slow start of Karinifcation in real time.
As opposed to figuratively went to bed
So first of all let me just say as a person who is starting a low-key literary "book report" site (we don't aim to take down, but the takedowns will happen) you're more than welcome to come and check us out when it's up and ready. 😀
the "bell hooks" test! As a white male - I confer!
Lots of things Andrew Huberman has said has been helpful to me. You don’t need to take everything that everyone says with 100% certainty, take what you want and leave the rest.
The last time I ever went to Shoney's they seated us (me, wife, two small children) right next to the emergency exit. The bar you push to open the door and activate the alarm was jamming into my arm. But the main point here is: I asked the waitress for some hot sauce. Don't care what kind, just bring me some hot sauce. She gave me a look of utter confusion. She came back some time later with a small dish of some substance that we concluded had been cobbled together from ketchup and hot water.
Love the show by the way. Glad I discovered your channel.
It’s not necessary to receive all those emails from your lab! You can opt out on the website.
don't judge a generation on McDonalds' workers
15:40 I'm not gen-z, but that's easy, just try to pour it at first and then invert the box and transfer the rest.
I think you need more McDonalds experience then you would naturally react like so.
As a Clinical Scientist, usually your Doctor will call you in for results.
We call them after we determine the results, then we call the doctor, then they call you.
Huberman is the 2024 version of Pacey from Dawson's Creek.
Insightful and articulate commentary, “I mean…gross”.
Enough said
They didn’t sent the results by accident. It’s a federal law that when results are available to the physician, the patient also has availability of the results. Not a mistake.
Competence is already a noun, Dana, without adding "y".
Oops! I'm petty, too!
Morning ladies, that McDonalds mayo incident sounds exactly like me lecturing my son after every chore had had to do & rushed it. If he took his time & did it right the 1st time w/o his cellphone in 1 hand wouldn’t have to be on his ass about it.
That part was funny to me for 2 reasons, the way she tells the story is just funny on its face but I also cannot comprehend a "Box of mayonnaise" I just do not get it why? how? does mayo come in a box? just open it up and a cardboard box with mayo in it? this sounds terrible. I must not get out much because where I'm from mayonnaise comes in a jar. or small packets... I cannot imagine this box of mayo being anything less but gross. What? in a box?
@sharkulashairstylist5505 Exactly. It doesn't come in boxes. But this yahoo scooped mayo into a hamburger/sandwich clamshell-type box, and somehow thought that was equivalent in utility to a mayo packet.🤯
@@chinnasue58People make mistakes. I bet he wasn’t properly trained or taught the right way handle those situations, or maybe he just doesn’t care, which I can’t fault them on hahah
Dana! bell hooks reading list! I love it! Also - I've worked for feminist publishers for many years and I always reach out for blurbs on behalf of authors AND we have always published any additional blurbs (that don't fit on the back cover) in the front matter - we never tossed them. Support indie small presses! Interestingly, in my experience, it's often the big boys that thrust most of the work on authors. As we know, they l-o-o-ve profit for the least possible amount of work. Ptooey.
Could you take a poll which of the following "depth" youtubers is the most annoying?
Andrew Huberman
Tom Bilyeu
Patrick Bet-David
I´m sure i must have left a few out, feel free to add.
So confused at that fast food worker. A lady has asked for Mayo, how much is appropriate? Idk, box full 🤷🏻♂️
great video, your complaint about "Gen-Z" is something i've exclusively encountered with millennials...
Ngl I'm an older ish Gen Z (2001) and what you described isn't a "gen Z" thing its definitely more of a what they were taught in life type of thing. The majority of Gen Z that I know are very competent, just like every other generation it has those who aren't but that's more personal rather than generational thing. I know gen-x people who didn't know the ctrl alt delete function on a computer or how to fully work their phone, and I know quite a few millennials who are the epitome of the stereotype but I don't generalize... If anything the only fair generalizations of Gen Z are we're better with tech than the generations before us and no one take us seriously even as adults.
Last week a younger coworker asked me for a hand bringing in supplies from her car cuz "they were wedged under something". I went down and was able to grab them without moving a thing...nothing was wedging them in. I just had to slide them out. It was...interesting. oy!
Just a reminder that all young people of all generations have moments like this, learning and growing is a process. It’s always sad when people fall into that cycle of criticizing the new young people for the same things they did at the same age, and their parents before them, etc etc.
The “just do it right the first time” argument from Erin was pretty gross sadly. They obviously don’t know what right the first time is yet, learning is a process, not a nuance free binary
I've watched a few of his videos. But when I saw he and another guy were having a big discussion on women's health- menopause and I couldn't go back.
Augh, the box of mayonnaise! LOLOLOL
I think that one of the most valuable, distinguishing human traits is EMPATHY. And it is flagging, apparently, in our current culture. No one with five molecules of empathy would give a person with a dry chicken sandwich a box of mayo (are you kidding me rn?!) without a way to spread it around on their sandwich. Hello? Think it through, lil buddy! 😆
Empathy, as a basic skill and mindset, is at least partially atrophying in younger generations. I don't see it being taught in schools or by parents nearly enough. I do fully admit this thought could be me just shaking my cane from my very late boomer bandstand. The lack of empathy, imo, is rampant in all generations to some degree in this age of unbridled greed and self-importance. Everyone is screaming "Look at me listen to me!" and not enough of us are listening. ::coughs annoyed grandma dust::
My deepest, and most rewarding, practice of personal growth is cultivating empathy. Not sympathy, but empathy; the sense of shared values and humanity and experience that allows us to resonate compassionately and vibrantly with another human. I'm also working to notice when I am stuck in opinion, especially emotion-based,factually unfounded opinion. Like right now, with my attitude about the younguns, haha! But, really. What would life be like in a culture that valued the skill of empathy over the skill of acquisition and hoarding?
“Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It requires no accountability, no understanding. The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world. It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.” ~ Bill Bullard
Lol this channel is fucking brutal 😂!
You two are my therapy.
I love a good Gen Z ribbing. They get high scores in Vibes, Positivity, and Social Cohesion but that's about it 😄
Can't wait for the "This Fucking Guy" episode about Caitlyn Jenner.
The same thing happened to me recently. Omg! I had panic attacks for days. 😮
One way I find books is through hearing book talk on TH-cam shows or podcasts. I recently got two books from listening to Hysteria. I bought Eve, by Cat Bohannon, and I got Vagina Obscura, by Rachel Gross; both were excellent-thanks for discussing them.
I think Andrew is great. I think Jordan Peterson is great. I like that Peterson & Huberman (for that matter) have emerged as leaders, mentors & even heroes for so many to follow. I enjoy Joe Rogan & Lex Friedman. After familiarizing myself with these guys, I believe they all have nothing but good intentions. I’m thankful that they were available during lockdown. I’m glad they exist. I sincerely hope ppl don’t jump ship & discount all the good they are doing as emergent leaders that inspire ppl & help others - much less based on an article that can’t be proven as fact. First, it’s not anyone’s biz. Secondly, would a group of jilted exes ever have glowing reviews? A gaggle of scorned lovers ganging up together probably isn’t the most credible source especially without the truth being known. What do they say? Three sides to every story: what (6 exes) say, what he says & what really happened? Yet more importantly, who cares? This is just one more example of MSM altering perceptions of reality. After all, if it’s in the media then it must be true, eh? It’s unfortunate if such nonsense negatively affects the good that these guys are trying to do every day.
Personal integrity is the core of a person's character and informs all aspects of their lives ie, if he lies to his nearest and dearest, you can't trust he has integrity in any other part of his life, including his work. His actions are literally telling you who he is. It's incredible to me that people ignore this; actual fact and think just because someone comes across really well, then they must ok and only have good intentions.
Simple really
@@dellajohnston3601 if Dr Huberman does that to his love ones ... the capacity to do evil to benefit his career might be as similar or worse.I dont trust anyone whos a terrible person to his family and fun and charming at parties.
You like con-artists and you're proud of it?
Hes a fraud professionally!!! Why doesnt anyone bring this up
I literally never heard of this guy before watching this.
The Gen-Xers (who survived) are very resourceful.