I agree with you Wayne. I was over there with a mate surfing around 83 and our money got pinched from our room and we still had around 5 days left . The Balinese still looked after us with very basic food (mostly rice and some fruit) which we appreciated. They do however draw you in with the aim of selling you something which I believe happens everywhere. Overall they’re lovely people mostly.
Indonesians are generally kind, and kindness is deeply ingrained in our culture. Balinese people, as part of Indonesia, also reflect this value. Kindness is essential in our diverse society to maintain harmony and avoid friction in daily life. As Indonesians, it is almost like an unwritten code of conduct to be kind, even if only on the surface. From my experience, people across Indonesia have been incredibly kind and warm. Many have offered me drinks, invited me to their homes for a meal, and engaged in friendly conversations. Making friends here is easy and often spontaneous. While I wouldn’t claim that every Indonesian is kind, I can confidently say that, in general, kindness is a notable trait among Indonesians. Kindness is a religious practice whatever religions we have here in Indonesia.
@@fiascodagama1 Then again, kindness is seen as both a moral obligation and a spiritual necessity. People are taught that doing good deeds is essential, not only because it aligns with religious principles but also because it brings blessings or good karma, while negative actions lead to undesirable consequences. Understanding this cultural and spiritual integration cannot be achieved in a short time by meeting a few people, and it is not like learning statistics. Even as a local, I continue to learn about the diverse cultures in Indonesia and strive to understand how people might react to our actions in different contexts. My ongoing learning as a local person has taught me the importance of consistently being a kind and considerate person to be accepted in society. By doing so, we help maintain an ideal social harmony. Having traveled to several countries, I can honestly say that Indonesians remain the friendliest and kindest people I have encountered so far. It is not always about the agenda of selling something and making a profit to get by, at the very core, people are just simply kind and helpful to others.
Hi Wayne, firstly I enjoy your content, so please keep it up. I have been to Bali many times as well as Java and other places in Indonesia. People generally in Bali are kind, friendly and welcoming. I think all over the world there are those who try to take advantage of a situation and those who are genuine like so many of the Balinese. Foreigners have the choice to give tips or buy goods as they choose to and with politeness and respect,visitors to Bali will be treated the same in return. Good manners cost us nothing. Hope to run into you there one day.
Hi rick. i agree it takes nothing to be polite and respectful even if things aren't going your way for whatever reason. And yes, we're grown ups and have the choice to engage if we want to or not.
Having been around the block a few times, the Balinese earn kudos by how they take care of the downtrodden & unlucky. There's no persistent homelessness, many foreigners over many years have landed on hard times & found the Balinese always willing to keep them fed & somewhere to rest.
@@fiascodagama1 Singapore is the only other built up area in SE Asia I've never seen significant homelessness. For Bali to be in this category while being a lot less financially able, says something.
Funny, people are worried about the Balinese being insincere, while in the city centres in Australia, police have stop and search powers for knife crimes. Some shop assistants are being threatened with violence daily.
Retail workers put up with a lot. Last year i was walking through the city and had to intervene as a retailer was opening the store and had to contend with an aggressive drunk.
Over the 30 years we have been visiting Bali, I have noticed Balinese folk's placid, smiling and friendly nature. I can't say the same for the other Indonesians who live in Bali. Their religious & political belief systems have much to do with their friendly nature.
Sincerely Wayne, I think someone being nice to take advantage of you is an undesirable human trait which you will find anywhere and everywhere. In defence a little of the Balinese, they have had to put up with a lot. I'm not sure I would've had their grace and patience in dealing with western tourists. I don't live in Bali but have been here for 32 years and I can say honestly that my Indonesia friends are the most cherished friends I've ever had. There are no calculations and/or expectations. They are pure friends for life. One does need to stay here long enough to learn the nuances of choosing friends though. 😂 Keep up the great videos.
Great video, I enjoyed seeing you play the guitar at the end. I lived in Bali for 3 mths a few yrs ago and loved it and the people, and while traveling had a 'driver' that was sort of my go-to for the last 8wks or so.. Being empathic I tipped well. After arriving back in Australia, he then had a number of 'misfortunes', accidents etc and consistently asked me for money.. Unfortunately I had to block the number as it became too much. I didn't feel good about that, but in this situation I believe it was indeed for profit. I am planning to go back, and this time not be so vulnerable 👍
Setting boundaries with generosity can be difficult and it's unfortunate some people want to see how far they can push it. I think we can all say we've had some occsions in bali which has taught us a lesson or two. Hope your next trip is a good one, RB. Cheers.
Like any country there are people who are prepared to prey on tourists. But in my experience and as demonstrated by the candid street walk conversations you have in most of your videos, the vast majority of Balinese people are genuinely good people.
Nice with a Perth video. I think you’re wrong about the Ild Courthouse having been moved. It‘s location was closer to the river because the line of the river shore was altered by land fill.
Personally I think Balinese are genuine but Javanese are VERY money oriented, you certainly can pick the difference, good to see you Wayne , and as always safe travels😅
I totally agree. Unfortunately I've been noticing more and more Javanese people flood into Bali. Most tourists will never know the difference. Hopefully one day Bali gets independence from Indonesia
@7:12 Foods of India, especially Southern India ... mostly Banana Leaves, although there are areas that do a wonderful work of art, stitched palm leaves (stitched together with the fine stems of the leaves😮)! ❤😂 Govinda, Govinda! 🎉
They have changed over the years. A lot are faking it in tourist areas but the further you get away from the tourist areas they are genuinely lovely people. The locals in the tourist areas have learnt how to sort of scam from you cause we have taught them that . We have taught the worst things to the locals.
Been going to Bali since 19 (56 now), love the people..but there’s good and bad everywhere..been ripped off of course, but love the people. I think they are weary of the poor treatment from people who treat them like servants and forget they’re guests in another country. To be honest, I hate saying I’m from Australia. Happy travels! Haha..you polished that plate Wayne 😂👍
Hi John. Haven't had some Indian food for a while. I think it's a valid point you bring up - local Balinese are often treated poorly in the service industry by some visitors.
Was at a restaurant in Tabanan and a waiter was overly friendly, chatty etc, maybe he wanted a large tip. No problems since then, but mostly keep to myself unless I see another cyclist. Loved the short tour of Perth and bookmarked those spots, will spend a week or two with my bike checking out the place later in the year.
Traveling solo on your bike as you do I imagine would remove you from a lot of the sales pitches as you're getting out away from the heavily touristed areas. I hope you enjoy your Perth tour, 1dancier.
I think it's a mix of both. I have some beautiful local friends in Bali and Lombok but I've also had my kind nature taken advantage of on numerous occasions, sadly. My ex-Indonesian 'husband', who I found out recently was not my husband (needed another ceremony), lied to me for 18 months! Two weeks after our ceremony in Lombok, he hooked up with an expat back in Bali. Dumped her when I came back the next month. And the story goes on and on like that. After he left on 6 Dec 24, a week after I arrived into Bali, so much came out of the Sanur Rumour Mill, it was mind-blowing. I got back to Perth 15 Jan 25 and am typing up the book that I hand-wrote over 6 weeks across Bali & Lombok. It is a tell-all book but also a lot more than that. Other friends, well, I have to be more selective. Always asking me for help but expecting payment if I ask for a small favour. So, I have had to carefully consider who I consider a real friend or just another user, usually for money, sadly.
Gee, that's some piece of work you found yourself with. I hope you send him a signed copy of the book with a photocopy of a copy of your publishing advance. :)
@fiascodagama1 😅 Oh, they'll all be sent a link to buy my book 😅 I wouldn't have been able to write it, if he didn't take off. So for that, I'm grateful. Here's my draft synopsis: Her Pheonix Rises Bali - Lombok Based on a true story, we follow the riveting six week journey of a vivacious fifty five year old woman named JJ who seeks to fulfil Her dream to relocate from Perth Western Australia to the island of Bali to set up home with her Indonesian husband. A shocking twist of fate sees her encounter the truth, both ugly and beautiful. Her pathway is entwined with lies, deception, manipulation, fraud, theft, cruelty, harassment, threats of being sent to Kerobokan prison for life or permanent deportation from Indonesia, if she reports the crimes against her to the police. Plus the tragic death of her youngest son's close mate back in Australia, just twenty one years old. JJ becomes empowered through a spiritual awakening of Her inner Being, a deeper connection with God. She finds bliss in the simplest pleasures of nature, new friendships formed, old friendships reconsidered. With Her new high frequency radiating and the strength she finds during a tumultuous period of time, Her Phoenix begins to rise from the ashes.
Some of them can be very friendly for the money prospect i think but all in all they are just a calm respectful race of people in my view, 🎵 Sweet home Alabama🎵
Govindas vegetarian restaurants are usually found in many cities around the world where there's a Krishna Conscious temple (ISKCON). The food varies according to the country. Wow that info the police officer gave you on the whole shaking people down at random is unpleasant news. It's been a norm here in Colombia 🇨🇴 forever. Here they will always ask for your ID as well with or without a pat down.
Yeah, I guess we should be grateful in many ways the police don't have greater powers but it's unsettling to see random people being stopped and searched.
I think generally on the whole the Balinese are just beautiful kind natured people but like anything there will always be a couple of bad eggs. As few people have said here people coming to work in Bali from other islands are just there to cash in and most tourists can’t distinguish them from the true Balinese. I have some Balinese friends that never asked or expected anything from me or made me feel like I should be giving to them yet are always so welcoming and giving.
Problem is Bali is full of non Balinese Indos with the Javanese working there being among the worst, Question should be are all those Indonesians living and working in Bali genuinely friendly of faking it for profit and the answer is Faking it! I have been going to Bali since the mid 1980,s and its steadily got worse. Balinese born and bred on a whole very friendly and Tolerant!
Lived in Indonesia almost 40 years. I genuinely believe Indonesians, whether Javanese, Balinese , Sumatran remain some of the friendliest on the planet. By the way, tourist areas throughout the world are often filled with scammers and cheats.
Bali hv positioned itself as a unique place on earth... balinese at core suppprt this notion.... help by beauty plus other and cultural aspect. It is quite a good position... granted is not a big population but unique and culturally very non violent
@fiascodagama1 I have always had an egalitarian point of view but in this case random searches should be converted to profiled searches having had The situation we have in Cairns here. I guess it's all part of the woke overlap from several years ago.
I think the balinese are genuinely a beautiful people..but desperation (I reckon exacerbated by the poverty induced by covid)..can push anyone into behaviours that may be seen as negative..but the larger part of me just can't blame anyone for wanting to better their lives and the lives of their families..it must be really hard to watch your family slide into poverty while "rich" westerners are out partying and having a great time... I sometimes worry about this contrast ..whether an underlying river of resentment may be beneath the surface of friendliness.. I have to say ..I would feel the same way if the positions reversed ..although we always tip like crazy and during covid my family sent many thousands to our driver to help his family and community..it's still only scratching the surface of the economic inequality...
That's a really valuable comment and highlights some of the issues locals have faced, leannes. Underlying resentment is apparent in some interactions I've had in the past and I understand why some Balinese people might feel that way for reasons you've mentioned. thanks.
Definitely make sure you come home regularly. I’ve met Aussies and Americans who stay too long in SE Asia and they lose their sense of cultural identity. They are not Asian and never will be, but they also lose their connection to their own culture. Their sense of right and wrong and appropriate behaviour becomes skewed living in between cultures. In the end they don’t fit anywhere. Better to be an Aussie that travels to Asia and relay that experience to your audience, much more relatable for a western viewership and to remain a decent bloke 👍.
@@hamishfullerton7309respectful of culture. My observation is that when experiencing a new culture where you don’t understand the rules, it is possible to think that there are no rules. For example if someone walked through the streets of Perth in their itty bitty swim suit they would get the stink eye and comments from people to put some bloody clothes on. Balinese won’t confront the people walking around half naked even though it is really bad form, so some people think it’s OK. Attitudes towards women can deteriorate, especially in Thailand and Vietnam where Western men become very handsome and they attract way more attention from women than they ever dreamed possible. Over time they can start to behave in ways that assumes women are only there for their convenience. Treating women as commodities. I know the exploitation can work both ways but when that becomes your norm, you can’t slip back into western society easily. Outside of the romance world the ease of getting your accommodation, food, laundry, transport and sightseeing needs met with very little money in SE Asia means your expectations for service become very high and and failure to meet those standard can be met with frustration. A standard of service you would never expect in Australia. Best to come home regularly, reconnect and then truly appreciate the absolute privilege we have of visiting SE Asia. This is my observations of SE Asia after visiting every (COVID excluded) year for the past 20 plus years. PS not saying Wayne is in anyway like this, he seems very respectful 👍.
It is too broad to actually say that “ The balinese” are disarming you for gain or money. I think it is fair to say that “some” may have that motivation, but it would be a mistake to say it any broader than that. After all, any “seller” anywhere in the world wants to be your best friend before a sale. I think there value system which incorporates Karma is too bigger an issue for them to knowingly be unkind. I tend to overlook some of the more obvious approaches of any nationality - and selling something to you is a common obvious trait. Love Bali.
I personally find it had to call , as there is so many indonesians from all over the archipelago. Although the Balanese I do meet appear quite Genuine in my oppinion. Bit concerned on the random frisks just feel another civil liberty gone , not that I Agree to carry Knifes just concerned where it ends. Anyway thanks again Wayne always look forward to your submissions Cheers
@@paulmarchant7418 lots of youth knife crimes in OZ atm , it's called jacks law after a young man was randomly stabbed and killed in Qld, hundreds of knives have been taken off the streets in qld alone
Random not Random and Coles is banning knifes after recent incident I would definitely opt to pop into Oz few times a year as my strategy in future. Govinda's in Sydney is near Kings Cross Station& decades since run by HK,it is a buffet set up more expensive but yum&upstairs you can take off shoes&lie down for movie. There is meditation there&read if you are connected to Syd Govinda's there is an ashram in India connected to it. I like the look of your Perth one though and I do like mango lassi. I think having a base in Oz is important for many reasons as the world is constantly shifting and best not to have all your eggs in one basket Also,there is an element of truth to most stereotypes and one worker used to make a point of complementing things she liked hoping I would gift it, however over time I gravitated more towards a more sincere person with no agenda,every culture has good and bad but in general a warm culture is inviting even if there are some opportunistic folk Cheers Wayne
I hadn't been to Govindas in Perth for a long time and was so glad I did. It's interesting how I've started to see the benefit of returning to oz every few months and agree having a bit of a home base is comforting - i wonder if I'll ever make the permanent move to Southeast Asia which I thought I always would. People reveal themselves eventually, and for me the older the Balinese person is the more genuine they appear to be.
@@fiascodagama1 Yeah mate I was watching thinking, I bet he grabs a guitar... 2 seconds later right at the end..!! Yes his done it !.. Love it mate... Catch you up for a jam one day..🤙
The police officer did clearly state they don’t ask for your ID when doing a random search. They only ask when warranted. Your alarmist nature is a little disturbing.
Really Balinese are only friendly if you are giving them money( Peopke I'm Lombok dont care to play this game)walk past someone your gave money to the day before and see how they look at you if they realise your nit buying form them again,was just in Bali and Lombok the 40th anniversary of visiting both and believe me when I say, everything has changed and not 9:169:18 for the good
I'm often getting taken advantage of - speaking a little of the language doesn't protect you unfortunately. if you don't know the actual price of something it's easy to over pay. having said that, it's not like I'll lose my life savings when buying some bananas no matter what they charge. :)
Hey Wayne, happy Sunday from east coast 🇦🇺 Please consider doing a trip to Thailand, some islands and regional villages.. (not Pattaya or Bangkok) to get a different perspective on se Asia …. Sometimes I feel Bali has burst at the seams but not progressed in a good way to cater for the increased population - cheap comes to mind …
@fiascodagama1 i stay in Bali more than 20 years ,before covid balinese people seen to be friendly and nice but after covid they show they are true color ,racist even to Indonesian citizen itself
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I agree with you Wayne. I was over there with a mate surfing around 83 and our money got pinched from our room and we still had around 5 days left . The Balinese still looked after us with very basic food (mostly rice and some fruit) which we appreciated. They do however draw you in with the aim of selling you something which I believe happens everywhere. Overall they’re lovely people mostly.
Hi Sean. That was very generous of locals to help you out in your time of need. Do you still surf?
the police checking - utterly OUTRAGEOUS
I think so as well. Where does it stop?
Well, if there wasn't so many stabbings in Perth/ Northbridge recently, then they wouldn't need to be doing it.
A sign of what Australia has become, absolutely disgusting.
Indonesians are generally kind, and kindness is deeply ingrained in our culture. Balinese people, as part of Indonesia, also reflect this value. Kindness is essential in our diverse society to maintain harmony and avoid friction in daily life. As Indonesians, it is almost like an unwritten code of conduct to be kind, even if only on the surface. From my experience, people across Indonesia have been incredibly kind and warm. Many have offered me drinks, invited me to their homes for a meal, and engaged in friendly conversations. Making friends here is easy and often spontaneous. While I wouldn’t claim that every Indonesian is kind, I can confidently say that, in general, kindness is a notable trait among Indonesians. Kindness is a religious practice whatever religions we have here in Indonesia.
I think your assessment is a good one and pretty much agree most Indonesians are friendly and kind even if just on the face of it.
@@fiascodagama1 Then again, kindness is seen as both a moral obligation and a spiritual necessity. People are taught that doing good deeds is essential, not only because it aligns with religious principles but also because it brings blessings or good karma, while negative actions lead to undesirable consequences. Understanding this cultural and spiritual integration cannot be achieved in a short time by meeting a few people, and it is not like learning statistics. Even as a local, I continue to learn about the diverse cultures in Indonesia and strive to understand how people might react to our actions in different contexts. My ongoing learning as a local person has taught me the importance of consistently being a kind and considerate person to be accepted in society. By doing so, we help maintain an ideal social harmony. Having traveled to several countries, I can honestly say that Indonesians remain the friendliest and kindest people I have encountered so far. It is not always about the agenda of selling something and making a profit to get by, at the very core, people are just simply kind and helpful to others.
Hi Wayne, firstly I enjoy your content, so please keep it up. I have been to Bali many times as well as Java and other places in Indonesia. People generally in Bali are kind, friendly and welcoming. I think all over the world there are those who try to take advantage of a situation and those who are genuine like so many of the Balinese. Foreigners have the choice to give tips or buy goods as they choose to and with politeness and respect,visitors to Bali will be treated the same in return. Good manners cost us nothing. Hope to run into you there one day.
Hi rick. i agree it takes nothing to be polite and respectful even if things aren't going your way for whatever reason. And yes, we're grown ups and have the choice to engage if we want to or not.
Having been around the block a few times, the Balinese earn kudos by how they take care of the downtrodden & unlucky. There's no persistent homelessness, many foreigners over many years have landed on hard times & found the Balinese always willing to keep them fed & somewhere to rest.
I've heard plenty of stories of Balinese people helping out visitors who've found themselves in a bit of spot as well.
@@fiascodagama1 Singapore is the only other built up area in SE Asia I've never seen significant homelessness. For Bali to be in this category while being a lot less financially able, says something.
Funny, people are worried about the Balinese being insincere, while in the city centres in Australia, police have stop and search powers for knife crimes. Some shop assistants are being threatened with violence daily.
Retail workers put up with a lot. Last year i was walking through the city and had to intervene as a retailer was opening the store and had to contend with an aggressive drunk.
@@fiascodagama1 I think they know if they play up enough they will get, a free bed and 3 meals a day.
Over the 30 years we have been visiting Bali, I have noticed Balinese folk's placid, smiling and friendly nature. I can't say the same for the other Indonesians who live in Bali. Their religious & political belief systems have much to do with their friendly nature.
The Balinese do draw from their religious belief system in day-to-day life, i think.
Totally agree.
Sincerely Wayne, I think someone being nice to take advantage of you is an undesirable human trait which you will find anywhere and everywhere. In defence a little of the Balinese, they have had to put up with a lot. I'm not sure I would've had their grace and patience in dealing with western tourists. I don't live in Bali but have been here for 32 years and I can say honestly that my Indonesia friends are the most cherished friends I've ever had. There are no calculations and/or expectations. They are pure friends for life. One does need to stay here long enough to learn the nuances of choosing friends though. 😂 Keep up the great videos.
Hi Dale. I think you raise a very valid point in the understanding of people - spending enough time in a place to grasp the subtleties. Thanks.
Great video, I enjoyed seeing you play the guitar at the end. I lived in Bali for 3 mths a few yrs ago and loved it and the people, and while traveling had a 'driver' that was sort of my go-to for the last 8wks or so.. Being empathic I tipped well. After arriving back in Australia, he then had a number of 'misfortunes', accidents etc and consistently asked me for money.. Unfortunately I had to block the number as it became too much. I didn't feel good about that, but in this situation I believe it was indeed for profit. I am planning to go back, and this time not be so vulnerable 👍
Setting boundaries with generosity can be difficult and it's unfortunate some people want to see how far they can push it. I think we can all say we've had some occsions in bali which has taught us a lesson or two. Hope your next trip is a good one, RB. Cheers.
Wayne , I just spent a week in Sanur , I found it expensive compared to my usual Haunts , Thailand, Cambodia, glad I went , but won’t be back
Like any country there are people who are prepared to prey on tourists.
But in my experience and as demonstrated by the candid street walk conversations you have in most of your videos, the vast majority of Balinese people are genuinely good people.
I tend to agree with you, Ken. the vast majority of balinese are good sorts, i think.
I think if you’re selling something to someone it might pay to be nice 😂😂. Balinese or not .. great chops on the guitar Wayne 👍🏻🔥
I think you're right, Peter. Sales people all over the world have mastered the art of friendliness to get the deal.
Im married to one, do not piss them off. 😅
Ha! they soon lose the charm then, huh?
@@fiascodagama1 no, she treats me better than I deserve. Over 10 years w/ kid.
Hahaha and dont get in the way of their food. 🤣
😂😂😂I’m sure that just pertains to all women in general.
Nice with a Perth video. I think you’re wrong about the Ild Courthouse having been moved. It‘s location was closer to the river because the line of the river shore was altered by land fill.
Oh, Ok. Thanks, Ronald.
Personally I think Balinese are genuine but Javanese are VERY money oriented, you certainly can pick the difference, good to see you Wayne , and as always safe travels😅
Well they are political
I totally agree. Unfortunately I've been noticing more and more Javanese people flood into Bali. Most tourists will never know the difference.
Hopefully one day Bali gets independence from Indonesia
Hi Craig. I've had other people tell me they believe people from outside the island working there are more money oriented.
@7:12 Foods of India, especially Southern India ... mostly Banana Leaves, although there are areas that do a wonderful work of art, stitched palm leaves (stitched together with the fine stems of the leaves😮)! ❤😂 Govinda, Govinda! 🎉
The leaves are a great plate to eat off. I do have very fond memories of Southern india.
@fiascodagama1 so eco-friendly, I love this most ancient civilization that survives today!
They have changed over the years. A lot are faking it in tourist areas but the further you get away from the tourist areas they are genuinely lovely people. The locals in the tourist areas have learnt how to sort of scam from you cause we have taught them that . We have taught the worst things to the locals.
Been going to Bali since 19 (56 now), love the people..but there’s good and bad everywhere..been ripped off of course, but love the people. I think they are weary of the poor treatment from people who treat them like servants and forget they’re guests in another country. To be honest, I hate saying I’m from Australia. Happy travels! Haha..you polished that plate Wayne 😂👍
Hi John. Haven't had some Indian food for a while. I think it's a valid point you bring up - local Balinese are often treated poorly in the service industry by some visitors.
Hi Wayne. I thing genuine friendliness and kindness comes from the heart and it can't be faked.
Morning, Greg. I think there a lot of genuine Balinese people who aren't faking it.
@@fiascodagama1 sorry about my poor grasp of the English language. I’m glad you understood.
When are you heading back to Bali?
@@gregc6695 Arrive back in Bali on the 27th of January. Your English is fine, Greg.
Was at a restaurant in Tabanan and a waiter was overly friendly, chatty etc, maybe he wanted a large tip. No problems since then, but mostly keep to myself unless I see another cyclist. Loved the short tour of Perth and bookmarked those spots, will spend a week or two with my bike checking out the place later in the year.
Traveling solo on your bike as you do I imagine would remove you from a lot of the sales pitches as you're getting out away from the heavily touristed areas. I hope you enjoy your Perth tour, 1dancier.
Enjoyed the guitar playing.
Thanks, Phys. Good to see you.
I think it's a mix of both. I have some beautiful local friends in Bali and Lombok but I've also had my kind nature taken advantage of on numerous occasions, sadly.
My ex-Indonesian 'husband', who I found out recently was not my husband (needed another ceremony), lied to me for 18 months! Two weeks after our ceremony in Lombok, he hooked up with an expat back in Bali. Dumped her when I came back the next month. And the story goes on and on like that. After he left on 6 Dec 24, a week after I arrived into Bali, so much came out of the Sanur Rumour Mill, it was mind-blowing. I got back to Perth 15 Jan 25 and am typing up the book that I hand-wrote over 6 weeks across Bali & Lombok. It is a tell-all book but also a lot more than that.
Other friends, well, I have to be more selective. Always asking me for help but expecting payment if I ask for a small favour. So, I have had to carefully consider who I consider a real friend or just another user, usually for money, sadly.
Gee, that's some piece of work you found yourself with. I hope you send him a signed copy of the book with a photocopy of a copy of your publishing advance. :)
@fiascodagama1 😅 Oh, they'll all be sent a link to buy my book 😅 I wouldn't have been able to write it, if he didn't take off. So for that, I'm grateful.
Here's my draft synopsis:
Her Pheonix Rises
Bali - Lombok
Based on a true story, we follow the riveting six week journey of a vivacious fifty five year old woman named JJ who seeks to fulfil Her dream to relocate from Perth Western Australia to the island of Bali to set up home with her Indonesian husband.
A shocking twist of fate sees her encounter the truth, both ugly and beautiful. Her pathway is entwined with lies, deception, manipulation, fraud, theft, cruelty, harassment, threats of being sent to Kerobokan prison for life or permanent deportation from Indonesia, if she reports the crimes against her to the police. Plus the tragic death of her youngest son's close mate back in Australia, just twenty one years old. JJ becomes empowered through a spiritual awakening of Her inner Being, a deeper connection with God. She finds bliss in the simplest pleasures of nature, new friendships formed, old friendships reconsidered. With Her new high frequency radiating and the strength she finds during a tumultuous period of time, Her Phoenix begins to rise from the ashes.
@@jennynairn1388 That reads very well, Jenny.
Random searches are a waste of time. The bigger issue is bail laws in Australia
I'm not familiar with the bail laws.
Interesting police interaction. Can’t do that in the US. Wasn’t there some issues during Covid as well?
I think you need RAS in the USA - meaning, reasonable articulable suspicion.
Some of them can be very friendly for the money prospect i think but all in all they are just a calm respectful race of people in my view, 🎵 Sweet home Alabama🎵
Hey Jonesy. I tend to agree with you. The most overplayed song in the history of camp fire singalongs maybe. :)
Love ya work Wayno!!
Thanks, cap. Good to see you.
It was not moved ,the river was close to the old courthouse mate
Oh, ok. thanks.
I’ve seen the friendliness shown by Balinese people on many occasions and it had nothing to do with money ,
Yes, there are plenty of local people who have no hidden agendas or interest in prying your money away from you.
Govindas vegetarian restaurants are usually found in many cities around the world where there's a Krishna Conscious temple (ISKCON). The food varies according to the country. Wow that info the police officer gave you on the whole shaking people down at random is unpleasant news. It's been a norm here in Colombia 🇨🇴 forever. Here they will always ask for your ID as well with or without a pat down.
Yeah, I guess we should be grateful in many ways the police don't have greater powers but it's unsettling to see random people being stopped and searched.
Great videos, let us hear you play guitar for a full song, you are good,
Ha! I'm not sure the TH-cam world is ready for a full song from my camp fire repertoire. :)
I think generally on the whole the Balinese are just beautiful kind natured people but like anything there will always be a couple of bad eggs. As few people have said here people coming to work in Bali from other islands are just there to cash in and most tourists can’t distinguish them from the true Balinese. I have some Balinese friends that never asked or expected anything from me or made me feel like I should be giving to them yet are always so welcoming and giving.
There are plenty of local people not interested in your money, i agree.
I think the Balinese are beautiful people and if i do pay a little more so be it ...Thanks from the East Coast 😎
Hi Loraine. I also try not to get too caught up with paying a little extra.
Nice guitar playing Wayne. I see the police and the government seem to be monitoring and controlling the people. Love your content take care Wayne 🙂
Thanks, Charlie. It's kind of strange to walk through the city and see people being randomly searched.
Problem is Bali is full of non Balinese Indos with the Javanese working there being among the worst, Question should be are all those Indonesians living and working in Bali genuinely friendly of faking it for profit and the answer is Faking it! I have been going to Bali since the mid 1980,s and its steadily got worse. Balinese born and bred on a whole very friendly and Tolerant!
I also think there might be an increase in people from other islands working in some areas.
Blimey really sorry about Australia Perth mate. Reminds me of Germany in the 1940s.
It's not a great look.
Lived in Indonesia almost 40 years. I genuinely believe Indonesians, whether Javanese, Balinese , Sumatran remain some of the friendliest on the planet. By the way, tourist areas throughout the world are often filled with scammers and cheats.
This is true, Phillip. Any main tourist areas will have their fair share of scammers.
Btw, I enjoyed your series on Bali. Thoroughly recommend Java next time
Good morning from the uk, 👍
Good morning, MrP.
@ good on ya fella, keep up the great work,I’m glad your doing well 👍
Bali hv positioned itself as a unique place on earth... balinese at core suppprt this notion.... help by beauty plus other and cultural aspect.
It is quite a good position... granted is not a big population but unique and culturally very non violent
It is indeed a very unique place which is why so many of us like it, i guess.
Good morning all !
And a good morning to you.
Some people in Bali are genuine with their friendship.
But for sure some only do it for higher tips and ongoing work.
I think many are genuine as well. It largely depends on where you are, who you're with, and what you're doing maybe.
Exposed more of your hidden talents, quite the guitarist.👍
Oh, I think you're being pretty generous, Ken. A few camp fire songs is about all I've got. :)
Sweet home Alabama... Perth Bali India where ever.......
I didn't mess up to much if you've picked the song. :)
Random (really is random 🤔looking at the victim) frisking on the streets ! Im off to Bali.
It's quite unnerving walking through Murray St Mall to see random people being searched every ten minutes.
@fiascodagama1 I have always had an egalitarian point of view but in this case random searches should be converted to profiled searches having had The situation we have in Cairns here. I guess it's all part of the woke overlap from several years ago.
A key ingredient of beer and whisky 😂
And there is an abundance of those ingredients available. :)
I think the balinese are genuinely a beautiful people..but desperation (I reckon exacerbated by the poverty induced by covid)..can push anyone into behaviours that may be seen as negative..but the larger part of me just can't blame anyone for wanting to better their lives and the lives of their families..it must be really hard to watch your family slide into poverty while "rich" westerners are out partying and having a great time... I sometimes worry about this contrast ..whether an underlying river of resentment may be beneath the surface of friendliness.. I have to say ..I would feel the same way if the positions reversed ..although we always tip like crazy and during covid my family sent many thousands to our driver to help his family and community..it's still only scratching the surface of the economic inequality...
That's a really valuable comment and highlights some of the issues locals have faced, leannes. Underlying resentment is apparent in some interactions I've had in the past and I understand why some Balinese people might feel that way for reasons you've mentioned. thanks.
Medication in bali is not as strong as what you get back here.
Definitely make sure you come home regularly. I’ve met Aussies and Americans who stay too long in SE Asia and they lose their sense of cultural identity. They are not Asian and never will be, but they also lose their connection to their own culture. Their sense of right and wrong and appropriate behaviour becomes skewed living in between cultures. In the end they don’t fit anywhere. Better to be an Aussie that travels to Asia and relay that experience to your audience, much more relatable for a western viewership and to remain a decent bloke 👍.
That's an interesting observation and one I hadn't really considered before, Paula. Thanks.
Interesting take ,what do you mean by right and wrong specifically, ie attitude to family, money, animals, ethics, religion, social etiquette ect🤔
@@hamishfullerton7309respectful of culture. My observation is that when experiencing a new culture where you don’t understand the rules, it is possible to think that there are no rules. For example if someone walked through the streets of Perth in their itty bitty swim suit they would get the stink eye and comments from people to put some bloody clothes on. Balinese won’t confront the people walking around half naked even though it is really bad form, so some people think it’s OK.
Attitudes towards women can deteriorate, especially in Thailand and Vietnam where Western men become very handsome and they attract way more attention from women than they ever dreamed possible. Over time they can start to behave in ways that assumes women are only there for their convenience. Treating women as commodities. I know the exploitation can work both ways but when that becomes your norm, you can’t slip back into western society easily.
Outside of the romance world the ease of getting your accommodation, food, laundry, transport and sightseeing needs met with very little money in SE Asia means your expectations for service become very high and and failure to meet those standard can be met with frustration. A standard of service you would never expect in Australia. Best to come home regularly, reconnect and then truly appreciate the absolute privilege we have of visiting SE Asia. This is my observations of SE Asia after visiting every (COVID excluded) year for the past 20 plus years. PS not saying Wayne is in anyway like this, he seems very respectful 👍.
good morning in Perth ! I think there are elements of truth.
Morning, Brie.
WOW, so they randomly check pretty young ladies for knives, very hard to believe Aussie's are OK with that, good picking brother, PEACE!!!
It's weird to see police walking around the streets randomly stopping people to demand they be searched.
Where are u
I'm in Perth for 10 days.
It is too broad to actually say that “ The balinese” are disarming you for gain or money. I think it is fair to say that “some” may have that motivation, but it would be a mistake to say it any broader than that.
After all, any “seller” anywhere in the world wants to be your best friend before a sale.
I think there value system which incorporates Karma is too bigger an issue for them to knowingly be unkind.
I tend to overlook some of the more obvious approaches of any nationality - and selling something to you is a common obvious trait.
Love Bali.
I think you're right in regard to anyone selling you something is always going to be best friend for sure.
I personally find it had to call , as there is so many indonesians from all over the archipelago. Although the Balanese I do meet appear quite Genuine in my oppinion. Bit concerned on the random frisks just feel another civil liberty gone , not that I Agree to carry Knifes just concerned where it ends. Anyway thanks again Wayne always look forward to your submissions Cheers
The random frisks and searches are a bit scary, aren't they? When are they going to be able to just walk into your house?
@@fiascodagama1 Yes it all points that way !
@@paulmarchant7418 lots of youth knife crimes in OZ atm , it's called jacks law after a young man was randomly stabbed and killed in Qld, hundreds of knives have been taken off the streets in qld alone
@@fiascodagama1 that law was passed also Wayne many new laws were passed during convid
That is a huge meal and I love Indian food . I hope they do take away for left overs lol
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Random not Random and Coles is banning knifes after recent incident I would definitely opt to pop into Oz few times a year as my strategy in future. Govinda's in Sydney is near Kings Cross Station& decades since run by HK,it is a buffet set up more expensive but yum&upstairs you can take off shoes&lie down for movie. There is meditation there&read if you are connected to Syd Govinda's there is an ashram in India connected to it. I like the look of your Perth one though and I do like mango lassi. I think having a base in Oz is important for many reasons as the world is constantly shifting and best not to have all your eggs in one basket
Also,there is an element of truth to most stereotypes and one worker used to make a point of complementing things she liked hoping I would gift it, however over time I gravitated more towards a more sincere person with no agenda,every culture has good and bad but in general a warm culture is inviting even if there are some opportunistic folk
Cheers Wayne
I hadn't been to Govindas in Perth for a long time and was so glad I did. It's interesting how I've started to see the benefit of returning to oz every few months and agree having a bit of a home base is comforting - i wonder if I'll ever make the permanent move to Southeast Asia which I thought I always would. People reveal themselves eventually, and for me the older the Balinese person is the more genuine they appear to be.
Cheers for the guitar piece Brutha!
Haha..made my morning champion! 👌😎❤
Glad you enjoyed it. od. :)
@@ozdog822 agree great stuff indeed
@@fiascodagama1 Yeah mate I was watching thinking, I bet he grabs a guitar...
2 seconds later right at the end..!! Yes his done it !..
Love it mate...
Catch you up for a jam one day..🤙
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The police officer did clearly state they don’t ask for your ID when doing a random search. They only ask when warranted. Your alarmist nature is a little disturbing.
I saw them ask for ID several times while walking around behind them.
@@fiascodagama1 were you privy to the exact reasons why they asked?
Australia Beautiful country
We think so. :)
Perth one of the best Cities in the World, I have lived here for 45 years from the gloomy UK
Really Balinese are only friendly if you are giving them money( Peopke I'm Lombok dont care to play this game)walk past someone your gave money to the day before and see how they look at you if they realise your nit buying form them again,was just in Bali and Lombok the 40th anniversary of visiting both and believe me when I say, everything has changed and not 9:16 9:18 for the good
I think it's become a little worse in the touristed areas. Still many good folk otherwise, I belive.
You are quite a good guitar player Wayne.
I'm not sure about that but thank you, kellie.
Cool guitar playing 🎸
Thanks, Jenny.
Did you just wake up to that you admitted to get ripped off and you speak the lingo.
I'm often getting taken advantage of - speaking a little of the language doesn't protect you unfortunately. if you don't know the actual price of something it's easy to over pay. having said that, it's not like I'll lose my life savings when buying some bananas no matter what they charge. :)
Hey Wayne, happy Sunday from east coast 🇦🇺
Please consider doing a trip to Thailand, some islands and regional villages.. (not Pattaya or Bangkok) to get a different perspective on se Asia …. Sometimes I feel Bali has burst at the seams but not progressed in a good way to cater for the increased population - cheap comes to mind …
I'm thinking the next visa run might be to Thailand, Tony.
@ - yes it has me interested as so many small beachside town or mountain villages . People seem to be genuinely friendly and food options galore.
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Nice work. :)
Bali is about no money no honey ,70 % the smile is fake
Depending on where you spend most of your time, i think.
@fiascodagama1 i stay in Bali more than 20 years ,before covid balinese people seen to be friendly and nice but after covid they show they are true color ,racist even to Indonesian citizen itself