My Emergency Surgery Experience in Korea TW ectopic pregnancy

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ส.ค. 2024
  • Hello everybody!
    In this video I want to bring more awareness to ectopic pregnancies and talk about my emergency surgery experience I had here last year.
    Please note the trigger warning!
    If you have any questions you can text me in the comments or on Instagram:
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    #ectopic pregnancy #pregnancy loss #emergency surgery

ความคิดเห็น • 29

  • @bycaeli
    @bycaeli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im beyond happy to hear from you again Victoria! I respect you for sharing such personal story and appreciate your concern to enlighten people about this common but not well-known condition. I cannot image the confussion and impotence you went through these past year. Let's hope for a happy and healthy year ahead ^^

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Celia ❤️ Thank you so much for your thoughtful and supportive comment! 😭 A happy and healthy year sounds promising ;) I wish you the same!! Stay safe and have a nice week ahead :))

  • @davidcarr5752
    @davidcarr5752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow, I'm so happy to see you looking so well now, you are very brave telling your story..well done you..stay well and stay happy and I look forward to more content...🤩

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi David, thanks for your nice words! It took me a while to gain courage to film this video, but I'm glad I finally did it. Hope everything is well and have a nice Sunday!! :))

  • @DixonVarghese
    @DixonVarghese 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Victoria! Hope you are well now!! You are a Strong Woman!! Stay Happy & Healthy! Have a Great Day. God bless you!

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Dixon! Thanks for your supporting words and for watching my video!! I'm all good again! Stay safe and have a good week!! :))

  • @AprikosenKlang
    @AprikosenKlang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hallo Victoria! Oh man ich bin so froh, dass es dir gut geht 🥺 Ich habe tatsächlich vor ein paar Wochen gedacht, dass es von dir lange kein Video mehr gab und mich gefragt, ob bei dir alles gut ist. Es klingt echt nach einer sehr schweren Zeit. Daher ist es um so schöner, dass dein Mann und seine Familie dich so unterstützt haben und dass es dir jetzt wieder besser geht 💕

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Anne!
      Vielen lieben Dank für deinen netten Kommentar und dass du an mich gedacht hast 🥺 In schweren Zeiten merkt man wirklich wie wertvoll die Menschen um einen herum sind.
      Habe eben gesehen, dass du viele neue Videos hochgeladen hast, da sind die Mittagspausen für nächste Woche gerettet ;) 😍

  • @tinyoddfable
    @tinyoddfable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my gosh, i’m so sorry you went through all that. Even sharing your experience must be so difficult, you’re incredibly strong. Also, going through a lot of back and forth with doctors is the worst. Even, tho it was obviously an emergency for them to tell you to come back another day must have been so frustrating. Sending you all the love 💖💖💖

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Alex! Thanks again for your kind words ❤️ I was very proud of myself to make it through recording and editing without crying 😅 All the best for you, too!! ❤️🧡💛

  • @riekebusch2293
    @riekebusch2293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Liebe Victoria, ich bin sehr froh über das happy end!
    Ich erinnere mich daran, dass deine Mom spontan zu Dir reisen wollte... und dass es wegen Corona keinen Sinn machte . Ich wusste aber nicht, WIE ernst das alles war!
    Alles Liebe und Gute!!
    Rieke Busch

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Liebe Rieke,
      Vielen Dank für Deinen Kommentar! Wir sind auch froh über das happy end ☺️ Es war Schade, dass meine Mom nicht kommen konnte, aber dank meinem Mann und seiner Familie war ich zum Glück nicht allein!
      Alles Liebe und eine gute Woche wünsche ich Dir!! :))

  • @T0KEEYO
    @T0KEEYO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First of all ... you look amazing! I just needed to say that. ❤
    I can totally relate to doctors disregarding our pain. It's insane to think they take oaths and then can turn around and dismiss the pain we are feeling. I also think it has to do with us being foreigners.
    I'm very familiar with ectopic pregnancies not because I've had one but because I have researched them.
    I'm so happy that you were able to get surgery even though it was a crazy experience getting there.
    How scary to have a surgery in a foreign country right? I can feel your pain and stress through your experience.
    I am so happy to see you healthy and better!

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Amanda! Thank you so much 😭
      I absolutely agree on the oath and also felt that I was treated differently because I was a foreigner (and maybe even a women, because the "calm down you dramatic woman-vibe was definitely there), having to rely on translation also doesn't help.
      Thank you for your kind words and also all the best for your upcoming medical treatment. I'm glad that you have a supportive husband that you can rely on!

  • @jolabruch2562
    @jolabruch2562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so happy to see you again!!!!

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy to see you in the comments again, too! ;)

  • @ellgimogi_internationalcouple
    @ellgimogi_internationalcouple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i am so so proud of you for talking about it ! i am so so happy that you healed well and that you are mentally strong too and could bounce back from this.. i cant begging to imagine how painful of an experience it was, the fact that you talk about it to help women out that is so admirable. ^^ i love you and lets see some cherry blossoms together

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Ellada ❤️ Thank you so much and as I already said many times: thank you for being there for me during those times, meeting up with you guys helped me way more than you think, also your Greek snacks ;) Love you too and hope we‘ll meet soon 🌸

  • @DanaAmundsen
    @DanaAmundsen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    so glad you are healthy now, and thank you for sharing this story with us! stay safe

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks a lot for your comment and for watching, Dana!! Stay safe, too!! :))

  • @unlee6993
    @unlee6993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Modern hospital is a weird place... The utmost value we put in people's lives makes the hospitals do whatever it takes to save their lives. At the same time you are sort of treated like sacks of meat and bones to be probed and scanned, and your dignity also suffers in a lot of ways... The irony of the experience was quite eye opening.

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah ... I know what you mean. Under different circumstances I would've probably been offended, but back then I was just thankful for everyone doing their job and saving my life 😭 And honestly it was incredible how optimized and perfectly smooth the huge hospital was running. 😯

  • @kaitlinberanek4539
    @kaitlinberanek4539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    💓💓💓

  • @meikewillner1034
    @meikewillner1034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Vicky ich bin erst bei der Hälfte. Ich benutze IG nicht mehr, wenn du meine Nummer noch hast und dir irgendwas auf dem Herzen liegt meld dich bitte per Whatsapp oder so.
    Bin so froh, dass du noch da bist. Ich geh kurz ne Runde heulen.

    • @Victoria_Lee
      @Victoria_Lee  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Meike! Zum Glück hat alles gut geendet 🥺 Hab dir eben bei Whatsapp geschrieben, hoffe es ist die richtige Nummer ;)

  • @ellabock6085
    @ellabock6085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    unglaublich ... was du alles erzählst ...

  • @rkvssr
    @rkvssr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ♥️