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People today have thin skin. It's not an insult, it's the result of social media, which is a manipulative. You only see "success" around you, and automatically think that if you fail at something, you are a bad person. This is extraordinary false.
I needed your video. I have had few interviews with a company - spoke about joining date - salary and was waiting for my offer letter (even said I was the best)... (drum roll) I got an email saying I did not get the job. My anger went from 0 to 1000000 level - because I have rejected other interviews while waiting for the offer letter - and the company won't share why I am being rejected. I think they took only my project ideas and decided to drop me.
I had a great interview last week, and really connected with everyone at the interview. I really wanted this job. Ultimately, they decided to go with someone else. It sucks, I asked for feedback, and all they said was that they really liked me and my qualifications. I think that they had someone in mind already who they wanted to hire, but they needed to conduct interviews anyway. I guess it was good experience, but I'm still disappointed. My job hunt continues. Edit: Just started a new job, everything worked out. Don’t give up! 🙂
This has been happening to me for years now. I go to job interviews where someone is already selected. It hurts 😭 It just happened to me today after going through a test and the interview.
I will tell most of the people get jobs because of their friends or family members, not because they qualify for jobs, That's very UNFAIR because we worked hard for this position and just because you know someone in the company you get that job even if that person has NO Experience, qualifications or work hard as you did! It happened to me too, just keep trying, don't lose faith! That hard work will pay off one day!
I had my 8th interview 4 days ago and I'm getting rejected every time and I think it's the same reason as yours, I hope to get a job soon, best of luck Amber and congrats for new job!
I believe in the importance of time. When it's not yours, the door will shut. When it is, you won't even have to break your back, the opportunity will work itself out.
i’ve applied to 165 jobs and only less than 10 i passed the cv screening and made into interview, and got rejected from all of them. keep knocking doors, the right one for you will open
Keeping going in good yes but evaluate what's been going on for those last times. You can keep going and not learning from why it's not working and be in the same place. Are you evaluating your past thoughts, actions? beliefs?
Been unemployed for a year, and got rejected many times by big companies I really want to join, I totally thought I might be that bad or I have such a serious impostor syndrome. Thank you for sharing, Natalie. I don't want to give up and I wish I can find what I want to be, even when it takes so much more effort than applying for the job. Edit: I got a job 4 months ago! Everything worked out I hope you all get a job as well!
Life sucks been on five job interviews and I haven't gotten a single job.... All these companies talk about there's not enough people but they don't want to hire the people that want to work!!!
@@Sana-su2se hang in there man I had to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince but I eventually got hired by a company. Have faith man just keep going it's demoralizing it really is when you don't get a return call but.... You have to pick yourself up and just keep going you'll get something eventually trust me Just keep going
"God will bless those who are rejected right in front of people who rejected!" All success stories have 1000s of rejection... Still they didn't loose hope n moved on..... Moving on and trying is quintessential in life but one needs God to support, to wipe tears n encourage as well...!! Be positive ... Somewhere your dreams are fructifying for a better n higher self but it is invisible right now!!
Thanks I needed this. I pray to God for a job everyday. I hope to find a full time job someday. I have two job interviews today as well. We’ll see how this goes.
I thought so too. But today, even after reappealing my rejection by showing them that I'm just as competent and what they hadn't given opportunity to learn about me in the interview, they doubled down with they made an offer to someone else. This is s job I really wanted.
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Everyone who sees my resume wants to interview me . I have had so many interviews and no offer .Never experienced this before . I never interview this long without an offer .
I’m in the same boat, I’m thinking you’re probably over qualified and they couldn’t pay your worth. I wish you luck I hope you have found a good job it’s been 3 Months since you posted.
I am here because I got rejected today from a job that I really really wanted, I believe I did well in the interview I have never shown much passion for other interviews. It was and still hurts and I don't understand what exactly they were thinking I could have helped them a lot, thank you for the video
@Juan Joséyou implied that we did not get the job because interviewers can see we wanted the job and that was the problem. So I am confused. If people don't want the job then they wouldn't be there for sure. So i dont know why you think interviewers know candidates want the job is the problem. No company want to hire someone who do not want the job I am sure.
Me too, I got one or two rejections this week. I barely remember applying for. Been trying to build a small business thing, which is also tough but at least something that I believe in
I was rejected after 2 interviews 2 weeks apart, both great opportunities. I practiced quite a bit, but always get nervous so it becomes difficult to effectively communicate my skills and abilities. This vid just gave me the hug I needed. Back to the drawing board.
Needed to hear this. I just graduated in August and have gotten 2 interviews for jobs that I really wanted and was in my field but I got rejected for both. I’m feeling disappointed but I am getting better at interviews. Having anxiety doesn’t make it any better either.
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Same here, my anxiety is getting in the way when I interview. I already have a job but trying to get promoted within my current organization. Praying for better results in 2022.
2 lmao? Come back and make a comment when u have been on over 10+. Especially after having interview coaching and etc. Also graduated from a top 50 university in the whole country with Econ degree.
I’ve been to 20 interviews and got 1 offer from a place that was so desperate for workers they hired me on the spot (there was no one else interviewing)
I know the feeling. I've gotten direct offers by email with little company information and triple my past job salary. Talk about desperate. Talk about scams
LOL fake! the truth is All companies has a high standards and wanted a jack of all trades person with a 10 years of working experience at age of 25 that can accept their below minimum wage offer.
my lesson is: find happiness withing yourself and create your own sustainable business (self love) dont look for validation like a junkie (next job/hit)
I've had 4 interviews that were each 3 rounds, and I still never got an offer. I am literally baffled. They were a secretary job, a customer service phone job, and 2 copywriting/content writing jobs (I have 2 basic resumes that I tailor -- 1 is for secretary work, and the other is for my writing work, so I apply to those two fields). Well over 300 applications, most of the time I just never hear from anyone after I apply.
I know bro. I don't even know how many interviews I failed so far. I guess 9 or 10. Stopped keeping count. I guess we should just acknowledge the fact that life works on random probabilities and we should keep pushing till we get "lucky."
Due to unfortunate circumstances I lost a job and ended up working for a low paying dead end job. Since then... 100+ interviews and well over 200 applications later and.... I am giving up. Psychology Degree, 20 years of para-professional, journey and up experience. I have been through vocational programs, training, certifications, interview trainings, so forth. I have done every single thing I could think, even went through state programs for job training, resume restructuring. I could sit here and write for awhile, but sadly I am out of life steam. I feel so worthless. But hey, at least I have a dead end job, am barely scrapping by and I am alive right? Goodluck to those out there in a similar position. Keep your head up, stay positive, keep going, I hope you are able to make it.
That analogy about trying to give away a $100 bill was spot on. So many times I’ve been rejected by people only worried that I’ll be a bigger fish than them when all I want to do is work hard.
I've been to five interview and got rejected so don't feel bad! It just wasn't meant to be and that's okay because there is something out there ment for you. It still hurts though cause one of those interview was my dream job. 🥺
I needed to hear this Natalie. I’m graduating from college in May and I am having such a hard time job searching. I’ve had seven interviews so far and two final round interviews yet no job offers. It’s really disheartening to keep getting rejection after rejection even after I prepare really hard and do my best. The only bright side here is that I can say my interview skills have improved tremendously.
Hey, have you had any luck in landing a position yet? Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I also recently graduated from college since May, and I've been applying to jobs since mid June. I had 2 final round interviews a couple of weeks ago, one company rejected me and I'm still waiting to hear from the other (though they're taking a while to get back). I got rejected from another company today but I'm still in the interview process for 3 other companies. The process is so disheartening.
@@melaniebrown1443 I'm 17 right now. I have yet to apply for any job and go for an interview but I just know I'm gonna have a tough time finding a job. The idea of getting a rejection letter is enough to ruin my day
Had a job interview. Got hired right on the spot. I dont have an MBA or doctorate degree lol. Not even a bachelors. Been working with them for 2 years and the first one 3.
Alot of times recruiters make you feel like a rock star and give you a false sense of your worth before an interview. I have fallen victim to that. Like the recruiter is so sure you are a good fit and will get the job then maybe the interview isnt your best or you do fine but dont get the job and you feel like crap.
yeah overconfidence can lead to not being specific enough, because you think you don't have to be, Over confidence can lead to slacking because you think you already have it in the bag. good realization. Its never a done deal until contract is signed.
I keep getting interviews that go great but then still don't get picked. its been like 6 months and everything has gotten so bad for me that im sleeping on my friends couch now
I have been getting rejected left and right from Walmart,Target,Express,Office Jobs. This video made me feel so much better I was ready to give up. I have another interview tomorrow I was not even going to call and schedule the interview but I am glad I did.
Sorry but when you face 20 rejections after interviews, you can't just pick yourself up and tell yourself something. The job search is making me feel like I truly have no value and at times has made me feel suicidal.
Your right you want to understand why you keep getting 20 rejections. I have a series that answers this for you sign up for the 8 Reasons why you keep getting interviews but no offers here nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop It is a Completely FREE workshop Series
The most frustrating part about this process for me has been when I get rejected that I don’t get any actionable feedback. I have had a lot of interviews where I make it to the final round, but they choose someone that has more experience. In my eyes, in those interviews they all went very well, I felt confident in answering all of their hard hitting questions and it becomes more of a conversation. How do I know where I can improve if I’ve practiced time and time again and each interview goes well but I’m passed up because of my lack of experience? I already have a year of experience and I’m applying to entry-level roles but for sought after company’s. Any advice would help, thank you.
I have tried everything and I still have more to work on. I just graduated three months ago and have a masters degree and i cant get a job in my field. I am working on more example questions, preparing to not be nervous, I answer clear and try to give in depth to my answers. I have gotten feedback and I have took their feedback on. I've picked myself up rejection after rejection and I'm here watching more TH-cam videos crying and laughing at myself. Just gotta pick myself up but the idea of going travelling for one year is honestly becoming more desirable by the day 😂
What means failure? It's when you do something wrong. What can be wrong in preparing for a job or interview. More precisely what do you do wrong. What can you do wrong ?
Hi Natalie, how are you doing? I myself have been in a few interview positions for good jobs, as my skills and abilites are equal to or somewhat surpass the job requirements. Anyhow, yes I'm aware that not all interviews go well, as i see your reason for saying that why it's not good to fall into self pity when we strike out. You say that we have to learn from the failures at interviews, but that's the thing, they don't tell you anything. All they say is what they ask you, you give them the proper answers that are related to what they are asking. In the end they would say thank you for coming and we will stay in touch with you or send you an email. But they either ghost you afterwards or when they reject you, there's no explanation for why they decided to.
I agree. It;s even worse in Europe they just hardly ever say anything specific. Only pre-determined templates like "the team liked you but we went for a candidate who was a a better fit". I also found out by "insider" person from one company that they actually lie in rejection emails/calls and they sugarcoat everything, you won't hear the real reason for sure. In my opinion this should change, we need to change the laws so the companies can feel safer to provide contsructive feedback.
Hi CM. Badillo, thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
I got 3 email rejections this past summer... the job did not say as 3 to 5 years experience, but that was what they were looking for and hired people who had that unspoken requirement.
Watching your video is like having a good conversation with my teacher it is really helpful and help putting my mind at ease after my recent rejection. Thank you!
Glad to hear that. I also just put together a workshop that will help you, you can access it here. nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop
Great video. I just had an interview and the HR person didn't believe me even though I only told her the truth. I just don't display my life all over the Internet. Apparently that can hurt credibility. I don't have anything to hide, I just don't want the stalkers, honestly.
I think you should focus your marketing match on college students who need that high threshold for many no's. I am extremely confident, but the interview process can rock just about anyone. Can you imagine if your only 20 years old and going through this for the first time? Your expert insight could change lives, Natalie!
Happened to me recently. I admitted to the recruiter. She was fine with it. But not me? This was a 15 minute phone 📱 interview just to get to know my job background?
One thing I would wish to express here is, no problem if you reject the candidate, but give them a constructive feedback that they could work upon. Just sending text stating you didn't get through doesn't make any sense. The candidate has taken so much of this time to answer your questions, do an assignment and much more. It is really rude being blunt to them...
I had a great interview 2 weeks back and I was pretty sure I will get the job, but I received a rejection email today and I am just thinking about what doesn't go well, It's hard sometimes to learn what was wrong because nothing was actually wrong, I gave my 100%. But as you said, success is built on a pile of failures.
Keep looking for answers to relieve your anxiety my podcast can also be a huge help to you. Keep putting good inputs into your brain and you will start to feel better and better. Keep up the good work my friend.
This is the most valuable video on this topic I have seen! “Your tolerance to failure is what’s going to get you the result”! This is exactly what I needed to hear! I have been on 10+ job interviews with multiple companies and cannot get past the second interview. It’s very discouraging and it feels impossible to land a job. I feel as though either I am Never going to land a job or I have to take a very low paying job to even get my foot in the door. These companies are looking for specific skills and each one is significantly different. If I do fit the description they give it to an internal employee. How does one find that one in a lifetime opportunity where you can check all the boxes and get hired. It’s super frustrating. Thank you so much for this video!
OMG! Natalie Fisher you have what it takes to succeed as the premier interview coach for 2020! Your sensitive mix between psychology and process are spot on! You convey your points with great empathy, while not compromising your message's intent. I absolutely loved your style and the way you connect with your audience. I think offering many free videos and insight is just the way to increase quota for many one-on-one consultations !
I’ve done 3 interviews in the past month, one disappeared even though I had 2 interviews with them and both went very good, 1 was amazing and they told me I was super impressive with my track record and told me I would not be happy there and rejected me, the last one yesterday told me that they were pleased to meet me, that my work is excellent and I presented it very well, that they would love to work together but they choose to move on with another candidate. I’m seriously analysing everything as I think there must be something I do wrong, but not sure what
The real reason fake job interviews are set up is because the role has been already promised to an internal staff member. Group interviews are a red flag avoid at all costs trust me if you go for an interview and 5-10 people are also sitting waiting around to be interviewed for the same job walk out do not waste your time trust me it’s happened to me twice for government jobs when I used to live in New Zealand. Especially group interviews as what they’re doing is eliminating large numbers of applicants in one swift and most of the time 3-5 people in the group work at the company already and are just pretending to apply for the role to give you the real applicant a sense it’s legit.
I had a great interview, the interviewer (who would be my boss) even mentioned that the interview went great and I am indeed fit for the position based on my resume and the interview, but he had to wait and go through the hiring process & get back to me soon…. 3 hours later I received an email saying they won’t go through with my application ! I felt like $hit honestly. I was really disappointed by the outcome.
Check out the episode on confirmation bias. I totally get it that it is frustrating, These 2 actually will be good resources to direct you to 1) nataliefisher.ca/intentional-self-confidence/ 2 ) nataliefisher.ca/confirmation-bias/
It's definitely frustrating ,bc my current job, I'm unhappy in have been for awhile, I'm young but live by myself, so I can't just jump out of a job, I have to find one first.
i get a LOT of good interviews. i go through rounds and rounds and rounds and after over a year, i still have not landed the job and i don't get it. this am i found out i didn't get a job that i thought i had in the bag bc all the interviews seemed great. but today i heard back no. they are not hiring me. i was shocked. and i feel defeated. it has never been this hard for me. and i am worried about money life future. why can't i land any of these jobs?? i mean, lots of interviews is good. but it feels bad bc i haven't gotten the jobs. :( thank you for your video.
yeah, i just got rejected from McDonalds, the employers at my school said i'd 100% land the job because they support helping growth for teens. The interview went well and i spoke clearly. The only reply i got was that " Unfortunately, we are unable to offer you a role at this time. I'm sorry it didn't work out for now, but please stay in touch with us as we are constantly hiring. I wish you the best of luck in your job search."
Great and positive advise Natalie! But we also have to be brutally honest here to. Sometimes employers just don't want to make a job offer based off what a hopeful employee may look like. I have personally fell victim to this, despite a great resume and good experience in the field too which i was applying for.
This video was a great detailed way of simplifying the process. A lot of the time some people just don’t like you. For many reasons. Most of the time it’s the 2 reasons you have provided. Good thing is you provided solutions. Most talk at people, but you spoke TO people. You are teaching us•-> 1. BE OBJECTIVE! 2. BE POSITIVE 3. BE HONEST (to update for next time with valuable data) 4. BE ADAPTABLE (mixing to the next with a learning op vs. rejection). Great video 💐🥂
I printed out 10 resumes, and will go back to McDonald's if I can't get a new job after I run out of 10 resumes. I worked for McDonald's for years so....I guess the my choices over the years doomed me into McDonald's forever so to speak. At least it's a place where I'm welcomed.
Hi J.F., thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
Failure tolerance! I have learned about this in the last few years and wish I was told taught it at a young age. I was raised to be a winner, second place is the first lesser, failure is not an option. My inability to win and succeed at at almost everything has tattooed my lack of worth all over me.
I had two interviews in the same day 3 hours a part, one of them was online and the other one was face to face. I got rejected by the 1st one (the online) and have been told that they are happy for me to reapply. However, I accepted by the 2nd one (face to face) ☺. Based on my exprience, my advice is do not limit your self in one option, always think "what if" and expand your apportunity by applying multiple jobs you don't lose anything 🙂
I really want to thank you, I got a rejection 2 days ago, and I felt too bad, it was my dream company. I applied for an apprentice role, I did really well in the first interview, and just the next day, they invited me to a second interview, as far as I understand I did really well in the second interview. in the second interview, they mentioned it was not a technical interview and they just wanted to make sure I was the best fit, however, they got engineering drawings with them to ask me about my understanding of it and if I did have any questions, I answered one question wrong, the rest of the interview was really good. but 2 days later i got this disappointing call letting me they proceed with another candidate. and the only question I kept asking my self was:" why wasn't I their best fit?" :( Your video really helped a lot. Thanks again!
I got a rejection email last night. Only reason which mentioned was "we had 250+ applicants this time and quality of applicants were very high". It was one of my favorite job but unfortunately I didn't select.. I am rejected many times now by different firms although I do have required qualifications.. I don't know what should I do. What is missing in me... It hurts 💔
Hi Jawad thanks for the comment! I hear you and I can help you! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
9:15 One problem, though, is that sometimes you can just get used to failure at interviews and make it the status quo. This means that after another interview failure - you brush it off, as if it means nothing - thinking: 'It is just another failed interview.' So you don't really get emotional because that is what you expected. There is a song called All We Are - by Matt Nathanson - with the lyrics: "It's hard to change the way you lose, if you think you've never won." which I relate to, in this specific manner.
This is a great video! I have learned a lot about myself after 4 interviews and only one call back that is scheduled a few weeks out. I am improving my resume and honing my interview skills. I am learning to be LESS candid and more discreet. Not everyone appreciates how amazing i am ! 😊 that's their loss, not mine.
I really needed this advice today. After 5 weeks that included a giant application and 4 interviews I just heard back that I won't be moving on to the final round which is a writing assignment. I feel like I've come so far and spent probably 20-30 hours of interview prep that to not be able to be given the assignment feels like a kick in the you know what. That said i am going to ask to be allowed to take it when i send them the customary email you send after a rejection. The worst thing they can say is no.
I've changed careers twice now and I failed sooo many interviews when making those career changes and each failed interview 1000% made me better even tho I felt like shit after the interview (knowing i messde up) or receving the declined feedback thinking the interview went well.. I tried changing my CV so the interviewer could talk about specific things, I learnt about more things I could talk about and how to structure my answers and how to communicate with the interview...
last 10 months 20 interviews yet no offer .. I am losing my self as a whole person since my skillset are in high demands but hiring managers want a person who can train their 10-20 years experienced IT guys . Very tough to crack the selfish mindset.. BTW I only get technical interviews since trend has been changed from hiring managers no longer waste their time on asking HR typical questions
I hope you can answer this because I’m unsure what the issue is for me... I’ve had two recent companies that I went through multiple interviews with, final interview I was told that no one else was a better fit, they loved me, they looked forward to having me on their team, even asked how soon I could start and said they’d indicate to HR to send paperwork over. Both times, NO OFFER. The first job ghosted me. The second job sent me a rejection letter less than 24 hours after. That second job, I was even told by the head of the department how direly they need a bilingual person and that I’m the only candidate who is bilingual in the two languages they need. So... What gives? I am feeling incredibly defeated right now and like there’s no point anymore. :(
PS: in all my past years, if I made it to the interview stage, I always knew right away if I would be offered a job. There was a couple of jobs that threw curveball questions at me that were not in the job description or things a recruiter misled me on, those I totally failed on and me & the person interviewing me acknowledged it. However I’ve never in my life been told I’m the best candidate and that a company loves me *unless* they’re offering me a position. That just doesn’t happen. I don’t know what’s in the air ever since Covid but companies aren’t being very clear and things are awful.
Hi ShamShim, thanks for the comment! I hear you! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
I used to have this approach when I was younger (able to shake off rejection very easily) ..... This video has reminded me of that time.... I certainly was making the failure about me recently...... Much needed reminder!!!
Hi C, thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
I've had times where I feel I answered what the panelists are expecting to hear and they don't hire me...Other times I know that I did poorly, like last time, in which the interviewers were kinda unmotivated to interview me, so I lost motivation during the interview as well. Also, their questions were the same question presented in a different manner, so it was really difficult yo answer differently. I felt so bad after that that I was depressed for 3 days. Thank you for this video. It helped me yo feel better about that embarrassing experience
I know what not to do in job interviews but when the time comes I always do it. It's definitely my poor answers making them think I don't know what I am talking about. How can I stop this?
At what point should you just accept your current status in economy? I have a job currently, but it's a nowhere job at nowhere pay. Been rejected so many times, I'm now declining interviews because I'm sacrificing too much PTO to attend. Former co-workers got offers after their first try, but not me. So frustrating! At what point are you doing more harm than good by interviewing, and getting rejected, so much?
Hi Ajay, thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :) nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/ Thank you and have a great day!
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People today have thin skin. It's not an insult, it's the result of social media, which is a manipulative. You only see "success" around you, and automatically think that if you fail at something, you are a bad person. This is extraordinary false.
If I saw this video, I would not hire you. I never hire anyone who wears glasses. Also, women must be a 10 or no work. That's the level.
I needed your video. I have had few interviews with a company - spoke about joining date - salary and was waiting for my offer letter (even said I was the best)... (drum roll) I got an email saying I did not get the job. My anger went from 0 to 1000000 level - because I have rejected other interviews while waiting for the offer letter - and the company won't share why I am being rejected. I think they took only my project ideas and decided to drop me.
We had a great conversation with my interviewer. Never knew he would reject me two weeks later
Same happened with me also
@@upasanayadavanshi3600 it sucks, now am waiting on one I had a bad interview with
The same happened to me too. He just sent me a text, that I didn’t get the job even though he told me I did very well in the interview.
Same over here
@@qaareeshaw2220 Rejected today 😔
I had a great interview last week, and really connected with everyone at the interview. I really wanted this job. Ultimately, they decided to go with someone else. It sucks, I asked for feedback, and all they said was that they really liked me and my qualifications. I think that they had someone in mind already who they wanted to hire, but they needed to conduct interviews anyway. I guess it was good experience, but I'm still disappointed. My job hunt continues.
Edit: Just started a new job, everything worked out. Don’t give up! 🙂
This has been happening to me for years now. I go to job interviews where someone is already selected. It hurts 😭 It just happened to me today after going through a test and the interview.
I will tell most of the people get jobs because of their friends or family members, not because they qualify for jobs, That's very UNFAIR because we worked hard for this position and just because you know someone in the company you get that job even if that person has NO Experience, qualifications or work hard as you did! It happened to me too, just keep trying, don't lose faith! That hard work will pay off one day!
I can entirely relate to this. And not giving up! Happy to hear that you got a new job.
Sorry pumpkin....you will get there regardless.....your Jamaican. Friend😊
I had my 8th interview 4 days ago and I'm getting rejected every time and I think it's the same reason as yours, I hope to get a job soon, best of luck Amber and congrats for new job!
I believe in the importance of time. When it's not yours, the door will shut. When it is, you won't even have to break your back, the opportunity will work itself out.
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
@@TLJAWSIMIB😂😂😂😂
This is so true!👍
Life doesn't work that way.
@@dhenderson1810 it has for me, many times
i’ve applied to 165 jobs and only less than 10 i passed the cv screening and made into interview, and got rejected from all of them. keep knocking doors, the right one for you will open
Keeping going in good yes but evaluate what's been going on for those last times. You can keep going and not learning from why it's not working and be in the same place. Are you evaluating your past thoughts, actions? beliefs?
I thought I applied alot I only applied to 70 jobs around a month and 6 interviews that I got rejected by but that just motivated me to keep going
Wow. How long did it take you guys to get the job ? It has been almost 2 months and nothing .
How are you now?
Been unemployed for a year, and got rejected many times by big companies I really want to join, I totally thought I might be that bad or I have such a serious impostor syndrome. Thank you for sharing, Natalie. I don't want to give up and I wish I can find what I want to be, even when it takes so much more effort than applying for the job.
Edit: I got a job 4 months ago! Everything worked out I hope you all get a job as well!
Did you find a job yet ?
@@catalina7787 Yes, I finally got a job 4 months ago!
@@ochtiy I happy for you ♥️
Life sucks been on five job interviews and I haven't gotten a single job.... All these companies talk about there's not enough people but they don't want to hire the people that want to work!!!
Same here!!
Was feeling so low for sometime after receiving 5th rejection
@@Sana-su2se hang in there man I had to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince but I eventually got hired by a company. Have faith man just keep going it's demoralizing it really is when you don't get a return call but.... You have to pick yourself up and just keep going you'll get something eventually trust me Just keep going
@@highlander723 thanks for the motivation:) means a lot.
I agree
I hate that crap
"God will bless those who are rejected right in front of people who rejected!" All success stories have 1000s of rejection... Still they didn't loose hope n moved on..... Moving on and trying is quintessential in life but one needs God to support, to wipe tears n encourage as well...!! Be positive ... Somewhere your dreams are fructifying for a better n higher self but it is invisible right now!!
Thanks I needed this. I pray to God for a job everyday. I hope to find a full time job someday. I have two job interviews today as well. We’ll see how this goes.
I needed this, a part of me felt God didn't want what I thought was good for me. My time will come in his will
I'd rather get the first job I applied for and not get rejected at all.
I have been unemployed for almost 3 years now. I can say that I have developed an immunity to job rejections.
Me too
Same here i collect unemployment 836 every two weeks yippee
3 years damn!!!!
Chin up bro.
I thought so too. But today, even after reappealing my rejection by showing them that I'm just as competent and what they hadn't given opportunity to learn about me in the interview, they doubled down with they made an offer to someone else. This is s job I really wanted.
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I definitely just got over it, I’m working for myself. These jobs are such a waste.
You focused those efforts in building your own business. The best way! Congrats!
Everyone who sees my resume wants to interview me . I have had so many interviews and no offer .Never experienced this before . I never interview this long without an offer .
I have the same issue. It’s so discouraging 😭
I’m in the same boat, I’m thinking you’re probably over qualified and they couldn’t pay your worth. I wish you luck I hope you have found a good job it’s been 3 Months since you posted.
I learned a long time ago - move on to the next interview or job you want to pursue, if it wasn’t meant to be learn from it and keep trying.
I am here because I got rejected today from a job that I really really wanted, I believe I did well in the interview I have never shown much passion for other interviews. It was and still hurts and I don't understand what exactly they were thinking I could have helped them a lot, thank you for the video
Me too
@Juan José if you don't want it why you are there 😑
@Juan Joséyou implied that we did not get the job because interviewers can see we wanted the job and that was the problem. So I am confused. If people don't want the job then they wouldn't be there for sure. So i dont know why you think interviewers know candidates want the job is the problem. No company want to hire someone who do not want the job I am sure.
@Abbi's little joy, yeah, they're just gaslighting you
i failed and stuttered and i won't give up bout about to. hope i can get a job its about 2 weeks now.
I just received a rejection email, but i don't remember applying to that company. That's how I cope with rejections. LOL.
Me too, I got one or two rejections this week. I barely remember applying for. Been trying to build a small business thing, which is also tough but at least something that I believe in
I was rejected after 2 interviews 2 weeks apart, both great opportunities. I practiced quite a bit, but always get nervous so it becomes difficult to effectively communicate my skills and abilities. This vid just gave me the hug I needed. Back to the drawing board.
Update
That's exactly me
I get job interviews back to back but no offers at all. 😭
Me with no offers
@Juan José since I'm injured for the time being, I'm unable to work 😓
sometimes they have already someone in mind but they keep interviewing just to act as an equal opportunity employer
Agreed
Needed to hear this. I just graduated in August and have gotten 2 interviews for jobs that I really wanted and was in my field but I got rejected for both. I’m feeling disappointed but I am getting better at interviews. Having anxiety doesn’t make it any better either.
Hey Mira, I hear you! Here is the video to help you If you're caught up in your negative thinking, just follow these 4 steps: th-cam.com/video/MJpaphNg8Gw/w-d-xo.html&ab
Hang in there, was never easy and the job process was just as shitty as this when I graduated from college years ago.
Same lol
Same here, my anxiety is getting in the way when I interview. I already have a job but trying to get promoted within my current organization. Praying for better results in 2022.
2 lmao? Come back and make a comment when u have been on over 10+. Especially after having interview coaching and etc. Also graduated from a top 50 university in the whole country with Econ degree.
I’ve been to 20 interviews and got 1 offer from a place that was so desperate for workers they hired me on the spot (there was no one else interviewing)
I know the feeling. I've gotten direct offers by email with little company information and triple my past job salary. Talk about desperate. Talk about scams
LOL fake! the truth is All companies has a high standards and wanted a jack of all trades person with a 10 years of working experience at age of 25 that can accept their below minimum wage offer.
100% facts
100 % true !!!!
Sure feels that way.
the best answer found while I was scrolling down!!!
Yep!
my lesson is: find happiness withing yourself and create your own sustainable business (self love) dont look for validation like a junkie (next job/hit)
I've had 4 interviews that were each 3 rounds, and I still never got an offer. I am literally baffled. They were a secretary job, a customer service phone job, and 2 copywriting/content writing jobs (I have 2 basic resumes that I tailor -- 1 is for secretary work, and the other is for my writing work, so I apply to those two fields). Well over 300 applications, most of the time I just never hear from anyone after I apply.
Are you happily working now ?
Needed to hear this. Just got rejected after 6 rounds of interviews. 5th job rejection thus far.
I know that feeling bro. Especially for landing a job in the finance industry
@@chakmingyeung7292 yeah bro I'm in finance as well and I feel like it's very competitive
@@tennispie1 True. The earlier you realize how fierce it is, the better off you will be.
I know bro. I don't even know how many interviews I failed so far. I guess 9 or 10. Stopped keeping count. I guess we should just acknowledge the fact that life works on random probabilities and we should keep pushing till we get "lucky."
I hear that. So close. Sucks.
Due to unfortunate circumstances I lost a job and ended up working for a low paying dead end job. Since then... 100+ interviews and well over 200 applications later and.... I am giving up. Psychology Degree, 20 years of para-professional, journey and up experience. I have been through vocational programs, training, certifications, interview trainings, so forth. I have done every single thing I could think, even went through state programs for job training, resume restructuring. I could sit here and write for awhile, but sadly I am out of life steam. I feel so worthless. But hey, at least I have a dead end job, am barely scrapping by and I am alive right?
Goodluck to those out there in a similar position. Keep your head up, stay positive, keep going, I hope you are able to make it.
That analogy about trying to give away a $100 bill was spot on. So many times I’ve been rejected by people only worried that I’ll be a bigger fish than them when all I want to do is work hard.
I've been to five interview and got rejected so don't feel bad! It just wasn't meant to be and that's okay because there is something out there ment for you. It still hurts though cause one of those interview was my dream job. 🥺
I needed to hear this Natalie. I’m graduating from college in May and I am having such a hard time job searching. I’ve had seven interviews so far and two final round interviews yet no job offers. It’s really disheartening to keep getting rejection after rejection even after I prepare really hard and do my best.
The only bright side here is that I can say my interview skills have improved tremendously.
Success is measured by how many times you fail on your way to get there.
Hey, have you had any luck in landing a position yet? Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I also recently graduated from college since May, and I've been applying to jobs since mid June. I had 2 final round interviews a couple of weeks ago, one company rejected me and I'm still waiting to hear from the other (though they're taking a while to get back). I got rejected from another company today but I'm still in the interview process for 3 other companies. The process is so disheartening.
@@melaniebrown1443 I'm 17 right now. I have yet to apply for any job and go for an interview but I just know I'm gonna have a tough time finding a job. The idea of getting a rejection letter is enough to ruin my day
Stay strong
Had a job interview. Got hired right on the spot. I dont have an MBA or doctorate degree lol. Not even a bachelors. Been working with them for 2 years and the first one 3.
This lady is so sensitive with high professional skill set. Thank you!
Alot of times recruiters make you feel like a rock star and give you a false sense of your worth before an interview. I have fallen victim to that. Like the recruiter is so sure you are a good fit and will get the job then maybe the interview isnt your best or you do fine but dont get the job and you feel like crap.
yeah overconfidence can lead to not being specific enough, because you think you don't have to be, Over confidence can lead to slacking because you think you already have it in the bag. good realization. Its never a done deal until contract is signed.
I keep getting interviews that go great but then still don't get picked. its been like 6 months and everything has gotten so bad for me that im sleeping on my friends couch now
I have been getting rejected left and right from Walmart,Target,Express,Office Jobs. This video made me feel so much better I was ready to give up. I have another interview tomorrow I was not even going to call and schedule the interview but I am glad I did.
Yes good for you. I also have a podcast with episodes that will help you further you can sign up for it here. nataliefisher.lpages.co/podcast-roadmap/
Nowadays I am facing the samething, I don't know why they are rejecting...??
Sorry but when you face 20 rejections after interviews, you can't just pick yourself up and tell yourself something. The job search is making me feel like I truly have no value and at times has made me feel suicidal.
Your right you want to understand why you keep getting 20 rejections. I have a series that answers this for you sign up for the 8 Reasons why you keep getting interviews but no offers here nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop It is a Completely FREE workshop Series
Take a break and get yourself right mentally and when you are ready, start searching again.
Your health is more important than a job.
The most frustrating part about this process for me has been when I get rejected that I don’t get any actionable feedback. I have had a lot of interviews where I make it to the final round, but they choose someone that has more experience. In my eyes, in those interviews they all went very well, I felt confident in answering all of their hard hitting questions and it becomes more of a conversation. How do I know where I can improve if I’ve practiced time and time again and each interview goes well but I’m passed up because of my lack of experience?
I already have a year of experience and I’m applying to entry-level roles but for sought after company’s. Any advice would help, thank you.
Hate to say it but you might have to lie and tell them you know how to do it or about your experience too. It might get your foot in the door
Yes, lie and add make up experiences in your resume, I did it and worked in the past
I have tried everything and I still have more to work on. I just graduated three months ago and have a masters degree and i cant get a job in my field. I am working on more example questions, preparing to not be nervous, I answer clear and try to give in depth to my answers. I have gotten feedback and I have took their feedback on. I've picked myself up rejection after rejection and I'm here watching more TH-cam videos crying and laughing at myself. Just gotta pick myself up but the idea of going travelling for one year is honestly becoming more desirable by the day 😂
What means failure? It's when you do something wrong. What can be wrong in preparing for a job or interview. More precisely what do you do wrong. What can you do wrong ?
Hi Natalie, how are you doing? I myself have been in a few interview positions for good jobs, as my skills and abilites are equal to or somewhat surpass the job requirements. Anyhow, yes I'm aware that not all interviews go well, as i see your reason for saying that why it's not good to fall into self pity when we strike out. You say that we have to learn from the failures at interviews, but that's the thing, they don't tell you anything. All they say is what they ask you, you give them the proper answers that are related to what they are asking. In the end they would say thank you for coming and we will stay in touch with you or send you an email. But they either ghost you afterwards or when they reject you, there's no explanation for why they decided to.
I agree. It;s even worse in Europe they just hardly ever say anything specific. Only pre-determined templates like "the team liked you but we went for a candidate who was a a better fit". I also found out by "insider" person from one company that they actually lie in rejection emails/calls and they sugarcoat everything, you won't hear the real reason for sure. In my opinion this should change, we need to change the laws so the companies can feel safer to provide contsructive feedback.
Hi CM. Badillo, thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :)
nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/
Thank you and have a great day!
Thank you I needed this, I gave so many powerful interviews and not gotten the job yet. This encouraged me to keep attempting and not give up.
I got 3 email rejections this past summer... the job did not say as 3 to 5 years experience, but that was what they were looking for and hired people who had that unspoken requirement.
Watching your video is like having a good conversation with my teacher it is really helpful and help putting my mind at ease after my recent rejection. Thank you!
That's great!
You’re the most authentic and fairest of all .
I dud well at an interview got rejected , realized they had hired a internal staff.
I had the interview today and it went a bit abruptly, the results are not yet announced but I think I failed in expressing myself
I had an interview but not any job offers for the last 7 years and really motivated after watching your video.
Glad to hear that. I also just put together a workshop that will help you, you can access it here. nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop
Wow! Thank you ! You’re just what I needed after a major job interview that I felt like a failure. You have healed my heart!!
Great video. I just had an interview and the HR person didn't believe me even though I only told her the truth. I just don't display my life all over the Internet. Apparently that can hurt credibility. I don't have anything to hide, I just don't want the stalkers, honestly.
Neither do I...I don't do linkedin nor use my real full name for facebook....all private
I don't know anymore what these stupid employers want. They never provide any feedback and if you ask for it, they never respond.
I think you should focus your marketing match on college students who need that high threshold for many no's. I am extremely confident, but the interview process can rock just about anyone. Can you imagine if your only 20 years old and going through this for the first time? Your expert insight could change lives, Natalie!
I have helped many college students, so you're totally spot on as well. A lot of new graduates do need help with this
I try to be honest in job interviews. However, I get nervous and have jumbled up sentences.
I'm glad I'm not the only one
@Juan José it's called social anxiety disorder perhaps. nothing to do with lying..
Happened to me recently. I admitted to the recruiter. She was fine with it. But not me? This was a 15 minute phone 📱 interview just to get to know my job background?
The $100 value example really made this message stick with me! Thank you for this video and the wisdom. ☺️
So glad! thanks for sharing your insights
One thing I would wish to express here is, no problem if you reject the candidate, but give them a constructive feedback that they could work upon.
Just sending text stating you didn't get through doesn't make any sense. The candidate has taken so much of this time to answer your questions, do an assignment and much more.
It is really rude being blunt to them...
hi Nadeem, I feel you on this, and recorded a podcast to address this issue. nataliefisher.ca/feedback-not-available/
Success isn't guaranteed.
It just might not be meant to happen.
It isn't just what we do, you need luck as well.
I had a great interview 2 weeks back and I was pretty sure I will get the job, but I received a rejection email today and I am just thinking about what doesn't go well, It's hard sometimes to learn what was wrong because nothing was actually wrong, I gave my 100%. But as you said, success is built on a pile of failures.
Thank you so much Natalie. I was watching this after multiple interview failures. My anxiety shot up super high. You helped me calm it a lil bit.
Keep looking for answers to relieve your anxiety my podcast can also be a huge help to you. Keep putting good inputs into your brain and you will start to feel better and better. Keep up the good work my friend.
This is the most valuable video on this topic I have seen! “Your tolerance to failure is what’s going to get you the result”! This is exactly what I needed to hear! I have been on 10+ job interviews with multiple companies and cannot get past the second interview. It’s very discouraging and it feels impossible to land a job. I feel as though either I am Never going to land a job or I have to take a very low paying job to even get my foot in the door. These companies are looking for specific skills and each one is significantly different. If I do fit the description they give it to an internal employee. How does one find that one in a lifetime opportunity where you can check all the boxes and get hired. It’s super frustrating. Thank you so much for this video!
OMG! Natalie Fisher you have what it takes to succeed as the premier interview coach for 2020! Your sensitive mix between psychology and
process are spot on! You convey your points with great empathy, while not compromising your message's intent. I absolutely loved your style and the way you connect with your audience. I think offering many free videos and insight is just the way to increase quota for many one-on-one consultations !
Thank you for your awesome comment!
I’ve done 3 interviews in the past month, one disappeared even though I had 2 interviews with them and both went very good, 1 was amazing and they told me I was super impressive with my track record and told me I would not be happy there and rejected me, the last one yesterday told me that they were pleased to meet me, that my work is excellent and I presented it very well, that they would love to work together but they choose to move on with another candidate. I’m seriously analysing everything as I think there must be something I do wrong, but not sure what
The real reason fake job interviews are set up is because the role has been already promised to an internal staff member. Group interviews are a red flag avoid at all costs trust me if you go for an interview and 5-10 people are also sitting waiting around to be interviewed for the same job walk out do not waste your time trust me it’s happened to me twice for government jobs when I used to live in New Zealand. Especially group interviews as what they’re doing is eliminating large numbers of applicants in one swift and most of the time 3-5 people in the group work at the company already and are just pretending to apply for the role to give you the real applicant a sense it’s legit.
I had a great interview, the interviewer (who would be my boss) even mentioned that the interview went great and I am indeed fit for the position based on my resume and the interview, but he had to wait and go through the hiring process & get back to me soon…. 3 hours later I received an email saying they won’t go through with my application ! I felt like $hit honestly. I was really disappointed by the outcome.
Same happened to me 1 week later after the interview. I feel disappointed but it is what it is
Ive been in 5 superdays with 0 offers.
I was super confident going into interviews but the fact that I never close just frustrates me....
Check out the episode on confirmation bias. I totally get it that it is frustrating, These 2 actually will be good resources to direct you to 1) nataliefisher.ca/intentional-self-confidence/ 2 ) nataliefisher.ca/confirmation-bias/
Thank you this. Really struggling especially after you put in so much preparation for each.
IF you're still in this place check out the workshop nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop
It's definitely frustrating ,bc my current job, I'm unhappy in have been for awhile, I'm young but live by myself, so I can't just jump out of a job, I have to find one first.
I get lots of interviews but no job offers. I just dont interview well plus employers are skeptical because most of my jobs only lasted two years.
Have you looked at the workshop nataliefisher.ca/8-reasons-you-get-interviews-no-offers-workshop
i get a LOT of good interviews. i go through rounds and rounds and rounds and after over a year, i still have not landed the job and i don't get it. this am i found out i didn't get a job that i thought i had in the bag bc all the interviews seemed great. but today i heard back no. they are not hiring me. i was shocked. and i feel defeated. it has never been this hard for me. and i am worried about money life future. why can't i land any of these jobs?? i mean, lots of interviews is good. but it feels bad bc i haven't gotten the jobs. :( thank you for your video.
yeah, i just got rejected from McDonalds, the employers at my school said i'd 100% land the job because they support helping growth for teens. The interview went well and i spoke clearly. The only reply i got was that " Unfortunately, we are unable to offer you a role at this time. I'm sorry it didn't work out for now, but please stay in touch with us as we are constantly hiring.
I wish you the best of luck in your job search."
I’m in the same boat 70 applications barely 5 interviews all unsuccessful:/
Great and positive advise Natalie! But we also have to be brutally honest here to. Sometimes employers just don't want to make a job offer based off what a hopeful employee may look like. I have personally fell victim to this, despite a great resume and good experience in the field too which i was applying for.
This video was a great detailed way of simplifying the process. A lot of the time some people just don’t like you. For many reasons. Most of the time it’s the 2 reasons you have provided. Good thing is you provided solutions. Most talk at people, but you spoke TO people. You are teaching us•-> 1. BE OBJECTIVE! 2. BE POSITIVE 3. BE HONEST (to update for next time with valuable data) 4. BE ADAPTABLE (mixing to the next with a learning op vs. rejection). Great video 💐🥂
I like your channel! Your content is very useful, you deserve more subscribers!
Thank you! Appreciate you being here and for your comment!
I printed out 10 resumes, and will go back to McDonald's if I can't get a new job after I run out of 10 resumes. I worked for McDonald's for years so....I guess the my choices over the years doomed me into McDonald's forever so to speak. At least it's a place where I'm welcomed.
Graduated a year ago. Still nothing. Almost no job experience. Imma try freelancing.
Hi J.F., thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :)
nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/
Thank you and have a great day!
Failure tolerance! I have learned about this in the last few years and wish I was told taught it at a young age. I was raised to be a winner, second place is the first lesser, failure is not an option. My inability to win and succeed at at almost everything has tattooed my lack of worth all over me.
I am grateful that I came across your video and watched this. The advice here is very helpful, I will not give up in finding a job.
You got this!
I had two interviews in the same day 3 hours a part, one of them was online and the other one was face to face. I got rejected by the 1st one (the online) and have been told that they are happy for me to reapply. However, I accepted by the 2nd one (face to face) ☺. Based on my exprience, my advice is do not limit your self in one option, always think "what if" and expand your apportunity by applying multiple jobs you don't lose anything 🙂
I really want to thank you, I got a rejection 2 days ago, and I felt too bad, it was my dream company. I applied for an apprentice role, I did really well in the first interview, and just the next day, they invited me to a second interview, as far as I understand I did really well in the second interview. in the second interview, they mentioned it was not a technical interview and they just wanted to make sure I was the best fit, however, they got engineering drawings with them to ask me about my understanding of it and if I did have any questions, I answered one question wrong, the rest of the interview was really good. but 2 days later i got this disappointing call letting me they proceed with another candidate. and the only question I kept asking my self was:" why wasn't I their best fit?" :( Your video really helped a lot. Thanks again!
I got a rejection email last night. Only reason which mentioned was "we had 250+ applicants this time and quality of applicants were very high". It was one of my favorite job but unfortunately I didn't select.. I am rejected many times now by different firms although I do have required qualifications.. I don't know what should I do. What is missing in me... It hurts 💔
Hi Jawad thanks for the comment! I hear you and I can help you! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :)
nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/
Thank you and have a great day!
From August 2021 to January 2022 I have been on 10 job interviews no luck up to now still unemployed.
9:15 One problem, though, is that sometimes you can just get used to failure at interviews and make it the status quo. This means that after another interview failure - you brush it off, as if it means nothing - thinking: 'It is just another failed interview.' So you don't really get emotional because that is what you expected.
There is a song called All We Are - by Matt Nathanson - with the lyrics: "It's hard to change the way you lose, if you think you've never won." which I relate to, in this specific manner.
This is a great video!
I have learned a lot about myself after 4 interviews and only one call back that is scheduled a few weeks out.
I am improving my resume and honing my interview skills. I am learning to be LESS candid and more discreet.
Not everyone appreciates how amazing i am ! 😊 that's their loss, not mine.
I really needed this advice today. After 5 weeks that included a giant application and 4 interviews I just heard back that I won't be moving on to the final round which is a writing assignment. I feel like I've come so far and spent probably 20-30 hours of interview prep that to not be able to be given the assignment feels like a kick in the you know what. That said i am going to ask to be allowed to take it when i send them the customary email you send after a rejection. The worst thing they can say is no.
I've changed careers twice now and I failed sooo many interviews when making those career changes and each failed interview 1000% made me better even tho I felt like shit after the interview (knowing i messde up) or receving the declined feedback thinking the interview went well.. I tried changing my CV so the interviewer could talk about specific things, I learnt about more things I could talk about and how to structure my answers and how to communicate with the interview...
Ive given up and decided im unemployable been looking for 6 months over a hundred rejections
last 10 months 20 interviews yet no offer .. I am losing my self as a whole person since my skillset are in high demands but hiring managers want a person who can train their 10-20 years experienced IT guys . Very tough to crack the selfish mindset.. BTW I only get technical interviews since trend has been changed from hiring managers no longer waste their time on asking HR typical questions
I hope you can answer this because I’m unsure what the issue is for me... I’ve had two recent companies that I went through multiple interviews with, final interview I was told that no one else was a better fit, they loved me, they looked forward to having me on their team, even asked how soon I could start and said they’d indicate to HR to send paperwork over. Both times, NO OFFER. The first job ghosted me. The second job sent me a rejection letter less than 24 hours after. That second job, I was even told by the head of the department how direly they need a bilingual person and that I’m the only candidate who is bilingual in the two languages they need. So... What gives? I am feeling incredibly defeated right now and like there’s no point anymore. :(
PS: in all my past years, if I made it to the interview stage, I always knew right away if I would be offered a job. There was a couple of jobs that threw curveball questions at me that were not in the job description or things a recruiter misled me on, those I totally failed on and me & the person interviewing me acknowledged it. However I’ve never in my life been told I’m the best candidate and that a company loves me *unless* they’re offering me a position. That just doesn’t happen. I don’t know what’s in the air ever since Covid but companies aren’t being very clear and things are awful.
Hi ShamShim, thanks for the comment! I hear you! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :)
nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/
Thank you and have a great day!
I used to have this approach when I was younger (able to shake off rejection very easily) ..... This video has reminded me of that time.... I certainly was making the failure about me recently...... Much needed reminder!!!
YES for sure and here is another resource for rejection that is more recent! nataliefisher.ca/becomerejectionproof/
I gave a thumbs up for your video because you shared what I already believed to be true. Sometimes, validation is necessary and motivating. Thank you.
You're welcome!
Time to move on these people don't deserve nothing
🤔
I get interviews and thats great. I have 10plus yrs of billing experience. but bc its not exactly what these companies want i get rejected.
Hi C, thanks for the comment! You see I have a six-month coaching program and that is the way that my clients work with me, if you're interested in applying you can check out the application here :)
nataliefisher.ca/schedulecall/
Thank you and have a great day!
Natalie this is an eye opener video. thank you so much for sharing this. so true and relatable :)
I've had times where I feel I answered what the panelists are expecting to hear and they don't hire me...Other times I know that I did poorly, like last time, in which the interviewers were kinda unmotivated to interview me, so I lost motivation during the interview as well. Also, their questions were the same question presented in a different manner, so it was really difficult yo answer differently. I felt so bad after that that I was depressed for 3 days. Thank you for this video. It helped me yo feel better about that embarrassing experience
Decided to apply for an apprenticeship since i had no luck getting internships prior. I have my orientation on Tuesday
I know what not to do in job interviews but when the time comes I always do it. It's definitely my poor answers making them think I don't know what I am talking about. How can I stop this?
Gees this makes me feel alot better 3rejections so far and I have 2 more interviews on Monday fingers 🤞
At what point should you just accept your current status in economy? I have a job currently, but it's a nowhere job at nowhere pay. Been rejected so many times, I'm now declining interviews because I'm sacrificing too much PTO to attend. Former co-workers got offers after their first try, but not me. So frustrating! At what point are you doing more harm than good by interviewing, and getting rejected, so much?
Great content! I just failed in a final interview and now invited to reapply and again up for final interview. Im hoping for the best
thank you for this your message motivates me to get back... it was suck at because I failed at the final interview it hunts me a lot...
Fantastic video! Thanks for the motivation you've given many through these simple tips
Thanks for the videos, this just confirms my own logic.
Great :D
You’re so positive! Thanks for these tips 💖
This really cheered me up, thank you so much!
I'm so glad!
@@NatalieFisher I reapplied and got the job!
Just awsm mam today i got rejected and really feel what you are saying is the ultimate truth.👍
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Nobody wants to fail.
I would rather succeed first time than constantly fail.
If you fail first time, you don't need to learn anything.