Vicky one thing I learnt in life is that " we teach people how to treat us"... By allowing such disrespect. You deserve better. Hope you realise soon. Stop allowing him to do this to you. Love alone is not enough. He needs to respect you. Love you
Mntase this is toxic. 1) He knew you wanted to go to the SAMAs, he knew you were gonna wear that dress and he used that to control you cause you're going without him. 2) he then disrespected you swore at you and said stuff to break your confidence and spirit. He's ALREADY abusing you mentally. You've now seen who he is. Don't ignore this truth. We love you💛
Vicky,this guy honestly doesnt wanna see you enjoy your life or doesnt want whatever good for you to happen. He might act like he wants the best for you but he doesn't. And luckily you saw this before the relationship got deeper. Honestly,your relationship is toxic and if you carry on,you'll get more emotionally hurt and it'll be harder for you to move on.
What a rude and ignorant person,Wow yet he wanted to be with you!!! He's a Emotional Abuser and I think it better you stay away from such a person!Mxm your next boyfriend better treat you good coz you really seem like a nice person.Have a great day dear!
Some men feed off of your insecurities/flaws by way of manipulation or charm. It should be clear to you that: 1. He doesn't respect you. 2. He doesn't care enough for you to respect you or treat you right. 3. If you can't play men at their own game then you should run, run as fast as you can baby girl cause you will find yourself back to square one a.k.a in his arms. Asking yourself the same questions - "does he really love me?" - while he knows he's got you wrapped around his finger. Leaving/ignoring them won't emotionally hurt them, it only bruises their ego.
Can u please update us on what happened behind this guy story once u have healed n in a better state.. Thank you for sharing with us Umgowoville wakho coz as women its something we go through alot n uv taught us better ways to handle it n thanks for sharing with us your journey to recovery much love ❤️
That’s what having strong feelings towards someone does, the ones that mind fuck you are the ones you like the most. It’s just doesn’t make sense. But mamela sana you’re beautiful and you know it so just learn how to control your emotions and feelings and move on. You should constantly remind yourself who you are and that you won’t allow just some douche make you feel any less about yourself!!! He’s definitely the one that’s bipolar!!
Leave this guy girl, we need you back and you need you back like yourself back.. Phela this channel is not his awa. You deserve better, get dressed go out uba nyise.. Block this dude
Narcissistic behavior. People like this have you thinking that something is wrong with you. You end up trying to make it work, calling them, when they are in the wrong. Babes leave never look back. My ex called the cops on me for no reason, mind you I live with my parents. Imagine the embarrassment.
You're so funny Vicky!😂😂 You're talking about something so serious but you make it seem so light. Yhuuu I can relate to manipulative boyfriends! Bayagowisa!! I'm dealing with the same thing right now. .😩😩
I am so sorry you went through that. I am so sorry babe , yhu my heart just broke. You did not deserve such no one does and you must wear that dress again.
I got so mad watching this as if you were my sister or close family. You definitely need a break from relationships to show these idiots that they will never have any sort of control over you. Take a long needed break in a different place with special people just like you did (or more) in the past 3 days you recorded. I swear, weeks or months later you will be healed and have the most Godsent guy you've ever thought of knocking at your doorstep to show you the love you've been missing. You don't deserve such a toxic person in your life but just good vibes and wine.
Leave and never look back babes, you are worth way more than a person insulting you like this, he didn't miss you, he was just lonely and needed service. Get out while you still can.
Uxolo Nono 🙁💔uyageza lento . Haii kaloku irude Engaka. Haii he's crazy 👀I feel like he was already seeing someone, that's why he became that rude . Ebefuna impama nono
This guy is definitely manipulative Vicky. I know how you feel mna I've experienced umntu andinyele and make plans and stand me up with no explanation and go MIA for days then come back texting say 'I miss you and you're quiet' like really nigga?! Then when I go off on his ass and azibone ujongene ne exit to my life abuze the question 'do you love me?' Yho Vicky phinde uzibone sowuzithoba ubuyele back to square one phinde akunyele kungekudalanga. Uthando luyasibhanxa but you will be okay, phuma kuye mntase.
watching this again 3 years later 😭🤣🤣❤️
Vicky one thing I learnt in life is that " we teach people how to treat us"...
By allowing such disrespect. You deserve better. Hope you realise soon. Stop allowing him to do this to you. Love alone is not enough. He needs to respect you.
Love you
I can’t believe my eyes!!! 😭❤️ I thought I’d never see these videos again in my life. 😭😭😭
This man seems like someone who can be abusive, physically!
i feel the same way, i even passed and read the screenshot she attached, that's not love.
Drop him!!!😐u can't afford to miss more opportunities, because of him. Opportunities are rare.💃Snatch it when u can.
Mntase this is toxic. 1) He knew you wanted to go to the SAMAs, he knew you were gonna wear that dress and he used that to control you cause you're going without him. 2) he then disrespected you swore at you and said stuff to break your confidence and spirit. He's ALREADY abusing you mentally. You've now seen who he is. Don't ignore this truth.
We love you💛
Vicky,this guy honestly doesnt wanna see you enjoy your life or doesnt want whatever good for you to happen. He might act like he wants the best for you but he doesn't. And luckily you saw this before the relationship got deeper. Honestly,your relationship is toxic and if you carry on,you'll get more emotionally hurt and it'll be harder for you to move on.
"Ndim u haha 😂😂"
What a rude and ignorant person,Wow yet he wanted to be with you!!! He's a Emotional Abuser and I think it better you stay away from such a person!Mxm your next boyfriend better treat you good coz you really seem like a nice person.Have a great day dear!
I feel like he doesn't care about you. He just likes the fact of being with you
He says you're bipolar but it seems like he's the one with bipolar... akayofa!
Can I please see the dress
My favourite TH-camr in South Africa. Love your realness. Btw, shiya lanonsense yendoda.
Some men feed off of your insecurities/flaws by way of manipulation or charm. It should be clear to you that: 1. He doesn't respect you. 2. He doesn't care enough for you to respect you or treat you right. 3. If you can't play men at their own game then you should run, run as fast as you can baby girl cause you will find yourself back to square one a.k.a in his arms. Asking yourself the same questions - "does he really love me?" - while he knows he's got you wrapped around his finger. Leaving/ignoring them won't emotionally hurt them, it only bruises their ego.
I'm not even done watching but still... I know... At the end... Oksalayo... Lit content.
thank you Vicky....this means a lot to us like nje I needed this you know
Can u please update us on what happened behind this guy story once u have healed n in a better state.. Thank you for sharing with us Umgowoville wakho coz as women its something we go through alot n uv taught us better ways to handle it n thanks for sharing with us your journey to recovery much love ❤️
This is the definition of emotional abuse. Once he starts calling you names and making u seem like you’re crazy, drop him like a hot cake!
Guys who are trash want to make you feel like trash so they can make you feel like you're on their level
Yhu! Vicky leave him. He is very abusive emotionally. Don't stay with him, he'll ruin your self esteem
She's gonna be broken by the time he's done with her.
True. Eish
He makes me sooo mad.. I can only imagine how you feel 😩😩😩😩😩
That’s what having strong feelings towards someone does, the ones that mind fuck you are the ones you like the most. It’s just doesn’t make sense.
But mamela sana you’re beautiful and you know it so just learn how to control your emotions and feelings and move on. You should constantly remind yourself who you are and that you won’t allow just some douche make you feel any less about yourself!!!
He’s definitely the one that’s bipolar!!
Leave this guy girl, we need you back and you need you back like yourself back.. Phela this channel is not his awa. You deserve better, get dressed go out uba nyise.. Block this dude
Haybo Vicky... This guy is so disrepectful. Theres nothing to think about here. You too pretty to be gowing over such.
Durban july babes izoyinxiba khona😊 uyeke eligeza 🚮
Narcissistic behavior. People like this have you thinking that something is wrong with you. You end up trying to make it work, calling them, when they are in the wrong. Babes leave never look back. My ex called the cops on me for no reason, mind you I live with my parents. Imagine the embarrassment.
The way I will learn this language just cause of her any one to help am from Namibia please 😭😭
Favorite youtuber❤️❤️
One person that will make you drop everything just to watch her fight with a kettle ngu Vicky sana!! 🤣🤣😂😂🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bright side, he gave you content😁
Vicky ujola wedwa sisi phuma kulona before he damages you any further
This guy is so disrepectful shame yho. You're too pretty for this yhuu Vicky 😂😂😂
Narcissistic 🙆🙆, baleka sis those people are dangerous. Emotional blackmail I can't 😭😭
A daily dosage of Vicky!! Sendikhona!! ❤️👏🏾
Me going back to watch your old videos for the 100th time and still enjoying them .
Love you sis!!😍😭
You're so funny Vicky!😂😂 You're talking about something so serious but you make it seem so light. Yhuuu I can relate to manipulative boyfriends! Bayagowisa!! I'm dealing with the same thing right now. .😩😩
I am so sorry you went through that. I am so sorry babe , yhu my heart just broke. You did not deserve such no one does and you must wear that dress again.
Don’t look back, do what’s best for you pls
I got so mad watching this as if you were my sister or close family. You definitely need a break from relationships to show these idiots that they will never have any sort of control over you. Take a long needed break in a different place with special people just like you did (or more) in the past 3 days you recorded. I swear, weeks or months later you will be healed and have the most Godsent guy you've ever thought of knocking at your doorstep to show you the love you've been missing. You don't deserve such a toxic person in your life but just good vibes and wine.
I miss these story times more than anything
"Ndimis'bhanxa, ndim uhaha"...Lool uyandigqiba shame V.. Am glad you found new love though babe
New subbie/member of the notification gang 🔔 😍
SHE'S SO REAL!
Sis you are strong 😭
i wish i can bump into you and give you a big hug and kiss.....you deserve it.
jonga his bitter about himself😂😂😂😂😂 ngxaki umhle kakhulu. and jonga cute girls like you go through that challenge and sadly some even get killed 😭😭
Andisamcaphukeli lomfana ngase ndimgombe sana yeses PHYSCO Le Vicky
😂😂😂. Hayibooo "fucken Apron" damn he is rude
Yhu A.A girl he does not deserve you! So much disrespect!
Leave and never look back babes, you are worth way more than a person insulting you like this, he didn't miss you, he was just lonely and needed service. Get out while you still can.
Uxolo Nono 🙁💔uyageza lento . Haii kaloku irude Engaka. Haii he's crazy 👀I feel like he was already seeing someone, that's why he became that rude . Ebefuna impama nono
Hey vicky babe u look much better today umgowo unciphile😍😍😍
semhle ngeloxesha Vicky for you to be treated like this
Uyakunyela rhaa lomnqundu yazi he was lucky to have you
Guys like that don't deserve u sis!!!👀
Ngxese girl, I'm so sorry. Yinja lento man rhaaaa!
English please or add subtitles. Cause I'm dying to know what you saying gurl
Yhuuuu imbi imbi, xolo baby ube right 💜
😂😂😂😂Vicky’s expressions kill me maarn
Tshini bawo isile le ndoda...yhini uthi umzama ageze!
Its gonna be ok baby you are too beautiful for this nonsense 😘
Durban July babes!!!! Si nyise mtase
"I looked edible, ingathii ebefuna ukunduhlafuna" 😂😂😭😭
Fave! ❤😍 Love you ugowa unjalo. 😘
Hope uyishile esosibhanxa, rhaa uyakuqhela😠. Sorry stay strong my dear💪
Sihamba sijola mntase it's real 💯
Queen of storytimes
Still learning the language but all I can say is it starts like this emotional manipulation
"ndim' uhaha" 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's like when you plan to listen and be very concerned then she says that and you burst out laughing as if you're inconsiderate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You’re too pretty to be stressing about this guy! Myeke mntase! Umhle gqit!
I love your energy💓
I story sana usibalisa kamandi ❤
"abuy' uSwine"..😂😂😂
Hay hay veee yeka leShiitinja ingenambuleloo😏
Yhu ukugezele lomfana. Baleka mntase!
“iyatshisa njeng ezndaba”💀
I love your story times mntase
Vicky run for the hills sana because those things he said about the dress are red flags
Guys,Vicky is real AF
Content❤️❤️❤️
Here for it
Haibo this guy😭💔💔🙁
vicky thanks💕so many videos in a day we are so lucky
"I looked edible" 😂
Waiting for today's video kaloku girl
U catchile sisi😂😂😂
Mgowo....yuuuuuuh hai mntase leave him 🤞
This guy is definitely manipulative Vicky. I know how you feel mna I've experienced umntu andinyele and make plans and stand me up with no explanation and go MIA for days then come back texting say 'I miss you and you're quiet' like really nigga?! Then when I go off on his ass and azibone ujongene ne exit to my life abuze the question 'do you love me?' Yho Vicky phinde uzibone sowuzithoba ubuyele back to square one phinde akunyele kungekudalanga. Uthando luyasibhanxa but you will be okay, phuma kuye mntase.
U are better today boo. Offloading helps . Be well
“Yho heeee”😭
Unomona lona and so insecure😂😂😂😂 jonga I have an ex like that
Yuh hayini this guy!
that ndim uHaha part sent me😂
Wow’n!! Guy is disrespectful !!
He's toxic mntase myeke, umhle gqithi for obobubhanxa 😑
STHANDWA Sam ❤️
Pls bring back the other story times
The first time you bought your wigs online were you not afraid that its a scam
This south african TH-cam's never greet us, they just start telling us their story .
Xhosa ppl dnt believe in greetings nje in general
Akasendidike lo mfana, ndase ndanomsindo ingathi ndim. He is sooo manipulative yhu, awusemhle ngelo xesha.
Consistency😍😍
That one is sick. I know that behavior v.well
You are so entertaining