Clever... You must admit, with this new norm, it has opened up so many things for the unsung heroes to indulge in. So, by default, they have or is it 'The Universe', has rewarded us for our efforts. Having said that, we should humble ourselves and thank them.. Stay strong and get that passport 🛂 ☮️
The question is, are they admitting this because they’re really fed up with eating the lies, or they’re just saying that ‘cause they’re looking to be bailed out?
Just like on "Everybody Hates Chris" the momma Rochelle (Tachina Arnold) would quit all her jobs and say " I don't need this my husband has 2 jobs" she didn't have to put up with their bullish 🙅🏽♀️😏
She wasn't independent though. She'd start jobs to help out. She was a housewife and her kids were all school age. She didn't have a baby daddy. These women are not that.
Correction: These two women don’t need a man, what they want is help, once a man gets them out of whatever financial bind their in they’re going back to the same bullshit that they’ve been doing for many years now.
Of course she wont, just listen to the catchphrase of the last lady. She said she'll Delegate the responsibility to the man..That doesn't sound like someone who's ready to be submissive. She just wants relief from those bills. That's conditional femininity.
I personally want to THANK feminism, it brought out women's true colors and freed men from that facade of traditionalism. Dress warm in those Amazon warehouses.
You reminded me of the Dos Equis commercial, all I could think of was his voice saying your quote "Dress warm in those Amazon Warehouse, my friend!" 🤣🤣😂
They are looking for a Man because majority of them are a half a paycheck away from being homeless. I know a lot of Black Women who use to weigh 140lbs and they didn't need a Man. Now they are old and majority of them weigh over 175 lbs.
Please..dont be fooled by them even Bw been telling them..just keep on being the most educated, independent, kweens, goddess ..Reality and the Wall are your best friends
This doesn't sound like they realize anything. The only thing they realize was they should've kept their mouth close and enjoy the free ride that they had all I hear from the ladies is I need help not a man
Notice how the woman in the blue plants said she wants to be a stay at home mom but says nothing about the quality of the children's lives themselves. All about "me."
@@demetriusevans4139shaddup. There is no such thing as white supremacy. White men are in the same goddamn boat WE are. Western Women have just gone amok.
Retired my 10 years ago at 30 . I can count on one hand how many times she pumped gas , took trash out or lifted a 24pack of water 😂. I can count on one hand how many times I cooked or cleaned the house in 10 years.
It’s amazing now….this “woke” culture has folks thinking and talking all kinds of ways. The soft life women are called weak and oppressed by the “strong independent” women….but behind the smoke and mirrors, crying at night alone…..they want that life more than anything.
When someone genuinely humbles themselves and admit they were wrong, we need to respect that. Because we all make mistakes. It is about learning from our mistakes
Why be a sucka and fix these serious irreversible mistakes when the guy is on the right track. Too many guys get screwed over financially fixing, very often expensive mistakes.
Women thought embracing feminism would allow them to have a career and also reap the benefits of the coverage of men. Can’t play both sides of the fence. Either we going to work together and build something great or stay alone and struggle. We all out here getting it in life. Let’s help one another
If you have a 4 year degree or higher, that *soft life* better not even be in your vocabulary. You chose degrees over potentially meeting Mr. Right. So you better make those degrees count.
Any agenda that is not natural, will not stand. It is natural for a man and a woman, to be together, and create families. Material things is not all that God has for us in existence.. It's not worth it ladies.
Times have changed you need two incomes to survive and invest i make 85k I’m ok by myself but if I had a woman making at least 50 I can work with that we can invest her salary and a quarter of mines and live how we want to live later no car note no nothing everything paid for cash
This is why I thank Jehovah every day for my husband and my life. He has never asked me for a dime, I pay zero bills and I have my own income. As long as dinner is ready and our home is spotless my time is spent however I please. These type men are very scarce today…And yes I definitely have haters and detractors, even very close family.
No, we are not scarce we are going overseas because most females of today in the US do not look at life the way that you do. We are tried! I for one went overseas and found my fiance who is in the same boat as you are. Does not have to work, can do as she please, can work a job if that is what she wants to do just along as I am taken care of at home. I take care of everything outside of the home and somethings in the home as well.
Congratulations, ma'am. The fact that you recognize what you have makes your husband a lucky man. Guard what you have jealously as those haters will try every trick in the book to separate you from your man ( *crabs in a bucket mindset* ) from saying 'you can do better' , 'divorce him, get paid and live the hot girl summer' , 'men are oppressive and why are you his domestic slave' ... essentially anything that will make you question what you have and then sabotage your own relationship so that you can join those haters being single in the cold. All the best to you and your husband.
all these women say what they want, and they are tired of doing it by themselves they need of man for this and that. but they never say what they'll do for that man after he has done all they said they need him for.
Meanwhile I’m the 51 year old brotha who saved and invested enough to retire over four years ago. I’m not gonna work myself to death to keep a woman in comfort. She better fund her own damn “soft” life era. 😂
🤣🤣🤣 at this point BM do not care. Just remember all those times you said "I don't need no man".. Keep that same energy. BM are good and tired. And just because ya suffering don't mean BM are gonna bail yall out. Figure it out Ms I N D E P E N D E N T...
Lady Jus say you broke!!!! 5 words you broke!!! brothers Don't save no one but the person you see In the mirror and that envelope with your passport inside of it period .
Is it just me or can anyone else see the attempt to mask their masculine energy and insincerity? Of course they want somebody else to shoulder the real deal, but what the heck does he get in return? Nothing!!!! A used cat and foul attitude. NOPE
Nah I think they falling on hard times. Soft girl era is the same as feminism just under a different name. Same attitude will take place they wanna be taken care of but not help or support men. It's a little too late.
If you are doing it right it is actually easy because as women we are designed for nurture and care. Women usually do not like to set a proper routine and schedule and also don’t have the passion for making a good home but have a culture of selfishness. The love for this should have been taught at home when one was growing up. As an African and Arab woman myself I only look forward to having my own family because I grew up finding baking and cooking with my mom to be fun and we still as a maid to help clean up etc but everything was taken care of by my mom at home and when you love your family you just look forward to the fact that what you feed them feeds their souls in every way. You literally can create future leaders and a legacy while also taking care of yourself and still making time for the gym and being loving to your husband to motivate him to be his best and find his purpose by speaking life into him and believing in him which creates abundance. It is really just straightforward. Nothing complex or hard about that. It is in our nature
You all need to understand that this issue is not simple. Even if women see they have been dupe. Corporate America is intentionally not giving men, especially black men good job..So even if you want to stay home, a man who will take care of you will still struggle to get a good paying job.
Funny.. when men said the exact same thing they were "insecure", "intimidated", "oppressive", "narcissistic", "patriarchal", etc etc.. very interesting
Nope 👎🏾 you’re strong and independent boss b. Remember, we’re broke, dusty and lame. We’re taking our paltry 80k overseas for a better quality of life and woman. We’re out, you’re good on your own.
They think rhis is all in an effort to get them to change its not! Yea the occasional simptavious will be around but thats it. Most men not trying to be stuck with u . Spotlight is on u now
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If she doesn’t choose you in her prime don’t save her in her decline
Good one!
I like that!
👍🏿👍🏿
Words to live by.
Clever... You must admit, with this new norm, it has opened up so many things for the unsung heroes to indulge in. So, by default, they have or is it 'The Universe', has rewarded us for our efforts. Having said that, we should humble ourselves and thank them.. Stay strong and get that passport 🛂 ☮️
Translation: "I am drowning in debt and I need a "Beta Bailout" from Simpious Maximus". Don't fall for it, brothers. You'll lose half your stuff !!!
Preach!!!
I’m sure they are resourceful and they will work it out. Wish them the best of luck👍
🗣️ 🎙️ 🔊
and another 15% to a Lawyer, plus Child support
🎯
you been had, took, bamboozled, hoodwinked, run amuck led astray! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😭
Ajay lol
Can't tell THEM that though.
lol Malcom X was right though
The question is, are they admitting this because they’re really fed up with eating the lies, or they’re just saying that ‘cause they’re looking to be bailed out?
They are looking for a bailout.
Bail out.
Bailed out. All of those advanced degrees came with a ton of student loan debt.
Times are getting hard. They want it easy and such. Now it's not so easy.
Karens' are looking to social climb as well, but I'm told: "Love is love" 🤔🤔
Let's not forget that our mothers and even grandmothers had also sold us the same bill of goods.
Never feel bad for women.
Hard pass on all their foolishness. We'll take the younger woman that was smart enough to figure that out before she became a baby mama.
The fool that tries to save them will instantly regret it….🤦🏾♂️
@@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE Hard FACTS
Soft life era=chameleon
Lmao
Soft life = sit on their azz and not do 💩
Yep lol.
Yes ma'am you are correct
Yep…
White women: dont worry black women you got this! You dont need a man.
White women: well i have to go home to my husband... stay skrong gurl!
Karen: "The Black guy without arms tried to rape me"🤔🤔🤔
No cap
Maybe true years ago but they are going thru the same mess also
Bw look extra dumb these days
Both my coworkers are white and single moms..... One has a husband out of three 😂
They are strong and independent until it’s time to be responsible!
Just like on "Everybody Hates Chris" the momma Rochelle (Tachina Arnold) would quit all her jobs and say " I don't need this my husband has 2 jobs" she didn't have to put up with their bullish 🙅🏽♀️😏
She wasn't independent though. She'd start jobs to help out. She was a housewife and her kids were all school age.
She didn't have a baby daddy.
These women are not that.
None of these women on here have a husband or 90% are unmarried or divorced etc.
She was probably sent him to an early grave….hard pass
@@DominantBlackMaleLeader Right I don't want someone quitting jobs just because I have 2 of them.
No, no ladies don’t give up the dream! You don’t need no man. What happened to “I can do bad all by myself!” 😂
Correction: These two women don’t need a man, what they want is help, once a man gets them out of whatever financial bind their in they’re going back to the same bullshit that they’ve been doing for many years now.
You sad a word right here….😮💨
There is NO such thing as a strong and independent black woman.
Theres a reason they dont want you to date out...
Or get a passport and leave the country
@@patrickmccane3708Perhaps one day I will but for now I've already found the peace and love WITHIN
@@neon_one_neo3317Because that would imply something is VERY wrong with black WOMEN
There are strong and independent off my tax dollars
It’s too late now…….
To turn back now......
I call cap. They will not submit.
Of course she wont, just listen to the catchphrase of the last lady. She said she'll Delegate the responsibility to the man..That doesn't sound like someone who's ready to be submissive. She just wants relief from those bills. That's conditional femininity.
Only for Brad's n Chad's
Leave them for brad im good
@@menofyah7934, great observation 👍
Exactly bro it’s all 🧢, you would be a fool to sit her and take care a grown woman in 2024 lol you a fool if you do
The wall is undefeated 😭
I personally want to THANK feminism, it brought out women's true colors and freed men from that facade of traditionalism.
Dress warm in those Amazon warehouses.
You reminded me of the Dos Equis commercial, all I could think of was his voice saying your quote "Dress warm in those Amazon Warehouse, my friend!" 🤣🤣😂
Feminism also helped women avoid unhappy marriages and allowed them to have their own bank accounts.
No bro.. This is NOT their TRUE colors. These women have been TRICKED into being mean promiscuous combative creatures
🤣🤣
@@BallinNQnz Remind these women of that, so they can go back to it! 😩
Thinking you’re going to be a kept woman in your 30’s and/or as a single mother is pretty much just a dream these days.
It's the same as being sorry because you got caught not because you are remorseful. They just couldn't handle it so they need a savior
Captain $ave a 304..😂
They will not resPect you for saving them either
They are looking for a Man because majority of them are a half a paycheck away from being homeless. I know a lot of Black Women who use to weigh 140lbs and they didn't need a Man. Now they are old and majority of them weigh over 175 lbs.
I work part time for my hair, makeup and nails. My husband pays all of our bills. It’s such a blessing!
Hopefully you are extremely appreciative for what he does for you.
In my last relationship in the States I paid all the bills all she had to do was by groceries for two and she had a problem with that.
@@Nightrain349wow
Respect to you Sista!!
@@Nightrain349 I’m glad you dropped her. You aren’t a slave.
Please..dont be fooled by them even Bw been telling them..just keep on being the most educated, independent, kweens, goddess ..Reality and the Wall are your best friends
Does this same logic apply to Karens? Or are they innocent angelic women who aren't seeking financial security??
Karen doesn’t have anything to do with this topic.
@@DrUmarJohnson1you always changing the topic. You be rambling like these women.
@@steadmoney3431Umar’s middle name is “Simp”😂
@@steadmoney3431if you think that’s really dr umar & not a troll I got news for you😆
The price has gone up. They are going to have to be PROVIDERS now. Bare minimum.
This doesn't sound like they realize anything. The only thing they realize was they should've kept their mouth close and enjoy the free ride that they had all I hear from the ladies is I need help not a man
You said it very well.
kevin stay catching W's, even in the afterlife!!!!
Man, if only he was here to witness his work be manifested. R.I.P. K.S.
Most if not all met their husbands in their twenties and ignored them or did not recognize them
Betty Freidman looks like the evil mirror version of Rodney Dangerfield wanting all of us to never get along.
It's Betty Friedan.
Notice how the woman in the blue plants said she wants to be a stay at home mom but says nothing about the quality of the children's lives themselves. All about "me."
Soft life era: the phone stopped ringing and I’m tired of paying all my own bills.
I know I speak for many of my brothers. We do not care what you want.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
💯
Real talk bro , I’m focus on me and me only . It’s 2024, I only need a woman for 1 thing these days 🤷🏾♂️
Man or Woman human beings evolved to be INTERdependent we need each other
No we don't need u in particular we can just choose another woman
@@abwexposed9890 im not a woman lol and you're absolutely wrong
@@TheraVoltCupping I don't have Nothing to prove to u so it don't matter what u think
@@abwexposed9890 yes it does thats why you replied
@@TheraVoltCupping no I responded because you said something stupid
Aka in between the lines I'm hitting the wall and I don't want to be 50 without someone
They're starting to realize it was wrong move, doesn't mean they've changed, it's too little, too late, SYSBM, ✈️✈️✈️
Guess what, nobody gives a damn ladies! 🤨
Keep in mind black women are used in the work place to keep educated back men, or black men with potential out the workplace.
Trueeee!!! 💯
Yep. The most useful tools for WS
Hired by who???
@@DrUmarJohnson1Wite folks hire them!!!!,….
@@demetriusevans4139shaddup. There is no such thing as white supremacy. White men are in the same goddamn boat WE are. Western Women have just gone amok.
Retired my 10 years ago at 30 . I can count on one hand how many times she pumped gas , took trash out or lifted a 24pack of water 😂. I can count on one hand how many times I cooked or cleaned the house in 10 years.
The wall is undefeated.
It’s amazing now….this “woke” culture has folks thinking and talking all kinds of ways. The soft life women are called weak and oppressed by the “strong independent” women….but behind the smoke and mirrors, crying at night alone…..they want that life more than anything.
They’re on their own on this one.
When someone genuinely humbles themselves and admit they were wrong, we need to respect that. Because we all make mistakes. It is about learning from our mistakes
Why be a sucka and fix these serious irreversible mistakes when the guy is on the right track. Too many guys get screwed over financially fixing, very often expensive mistakes.
@@dwaynehudspeth728well Put your caPe on & save them reformed 304’s
@@dwaynehudspeth728I can tell you green and soft asf if you believe they are genuine with that crap
Leave them to their financial debt. They wanted to be equal. Now they equal.
Also beware of this “soft life” line.
Glad no man is attached to them, next week they will flip the script...Nobody got time for that BS.
Women thought embracing feminism would allow them to have a career and also reap the benefits of the coverage of men. Can’t play both sides of the fence. Either we going to work together and build something great or stay alone and struggle. We all out here getting it in life. Let’s help one another
I feel you family but alot of them just don't care
So they lied on us, turned many against us, ran up dept and now looking g for help
It's hard out here without a man but glad I have my man 💖.
Yesssss
Yes mee
If you have a 4 year degree or higher, that *soft life* better not even be in your vocabulary. You chose degrees over potentially meeting Mr. Right. So you better make those degrees count.
The one in the blue doing all the talk doesn’t qualify for the “soft” life.
Any agenda that is not natural, will not stand. It is natural for a man and a woman, to be together, and create families. Material things is not all that God has for us in existence.. It's not worth it ladies.
Times have changed you need two incomes to survive and invest i make 85k I’m ok by myself but if I had a woman making at least 50 I can work with that we can invest her salary and a quarter of mines and live how we want to live later no car note no nothing everything paid for cash
Most likely by design. Nice to have that extra tax base. Thinking as a politician.
Most of them won’t see your vision king. They rather buy European labels worth nothing than invest.
@@10_door_tycoon holla @ me yea most women don’t see my vision smh
They don't really regret it. They want a BAILOUT.
This is why I thank Jehovah every day for my husband and my life. He has never asked me for a dime, I pay zero bills and I have my own income. As long as dinner is ready and our home is spotless my time is spent however I please. These type men are very scarce today…And yes I definitely have haters and detractors, even very close family.
No that’s a rare man. Many men will ask you to pay zero bills. BUT many men will NOT fund the lavish ridiculous lifestyles most BW desire
No, we are not scarce we are going overseas because most females of today in the US do not look at life the way that you do. We are tried! I for one went overseas and found my fiance who is in the same boat as you are. Does not have to work, can do as she please, can work a job if that is what she wants to do just along as I am taken care of at home. I take care of everything outside of the home and somethings in the home as well.
Wait . . . you're a JW but commenting on social media platforms?! That's rather 'worldly' 🤔
@@sirblack1619 have you always aspired to become a kept woman? Just curious.
Congratulations, ma'am.
The fact that you recognize what you have makes your husband a lucky man. Guard what you have jealously as those haters will try every trick in the book to separate you from your man ( *crabs in a bucket mindset* ) from saying 'you can do better' , 'divorce him, get paid and live the hot girl summer' , 'men are oppressive and why are you his domestic slave' ... essentially anything that will make you question what you have and then sabotage your own relationship so that you can join those haters being single in the cold.
All the best to you and your husband.
She looks used and abused HELL NO
Ran thru
The one thing all of these women have in common, now they won’t a in-house handyman, at his expense. None of them said anything about love.
Men , don't take the bait... Ask Questions about everything. And let's be Choosey with what type of Woman we deal with.😎
Too late....Most of us are in Brazil living it up. We refuse to settle.😮
Fellas dont get stuck with Keisha..you want to travel right? you want to see the world right? Do not do it
Her: I need help!!!
Me: Don't we all...
Well, i don't want to take on YOUR consequences. Bye now.
They are grown, they not changing, dont fall for the BS.
Only a soft man will listen to this & think she’s “a changed woman” & get Put in a blender….😮💨
Too Late!
Game Over 😂!
Enjoy!
😮 WHAT????. Now you realize!!!!...
all these women say what they want, and they are tired of doing it by themselves they need of man for this and that. but they never say what they'll do for that man after he has done all they said they need him for.
Facts!
You notice that too? All about their wants and needs but never about what she offers that man.
Leave him for pookie or Ray Ray
Say it again, say it again!....in Pinky's voice!!
They’re NOT even “Independent” though. 🤷🏾♂️😆
They’re PSUEDO-Independent….meaning they still rely on various MEN to sustain their lifestyles.
I.e. the govt.. which funds their false matriarchy thingamajig
A lot of women in their 40-50 have saved/invested nothing and are looking for the SSRP (sucker, simp retirement plan).
😂😂😂😂
Meanwhile I’m the 51 year old brotha who saved and invested enough to retire over four years ago. I’m not gonna work myself to death to keep a woman in comfort. She better fund her own damn “soft” life era. 😂
Are you kidding, most Americans let alone black people, don't even have a retirement plan.😂
No longer lucrative .. stock has plummeted every body has already hit sell and they still trying. It's over .. close up shop
& she will hate you for it, because all those dudes that used her in her youth was the ones she really wanted….😮💨
Family was better cause family was for everybody factz 🔥
Chameleons
Wolves in sheep’s clothing
Don’t fall for it
If their focus was just to not work and be pampered, nothing changed.
🤣🤣🤣 at this point BM do not care. Just remember all those times you said "I don't need no man".. Keep that same energy. BM are good and tired. And just because ya suffering don't mean BM are gonna bail yall out. Figure it out Ms I N D E P E N D E N T...
Exactly
Lady Jus say you broke!!!! 5 words you broke!!! brothers Don't save no one but the person you see In the mirror and that envelope with your passport inside of it period .
Phil, to be honest, it's over. Most of the men are gone and/or are leaving ✈️✈️.
It is the way.
My pen won't sign their paper 😂😂 Glad I'm not American 😂
There’s no other choice for men
It is
Where you're going women are becoming westernized at warp speed
The man pays all the bills, but what's he getting in return? just sayin
NAH. What are they talking about. They better get back on that "capitalist" treadmill and go SLAY THE DAY.
"Soft life." Yeah, right.
We need more feminine women out here.
Feminism freed men its a wrap
Naw… you made your bed, lie comfortably in it.
Thank God I got my passport renewed already 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am visiting Cebu in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Sounds like a personal problem and I personally dc
Is it just me or can anyone else see the attempt to mask their masculine energy and insincerity? Of course they want somebody else to shoulder the real deal, but what the heck does he get in return? Nothing!!!! A used cat and foul attitude. NOPE
Right! Used cat, passive aggressive attitude and sassy! No thanks!
They say they need help, this is why they need to become helpers like in Gen 2:18-24 in order to get help.
2:07 “Danger Zone!”
RIP KS
WHAT KIND OF MEN SAID THEY WERE STRONG AND INDEPENDANT???? I HAVE NEVER IN ALL MY YEARS HEARD A MAN SAY THAT. I COULD BE WRONG. BUT NEVER HEARD IT.
I am a woman and I approve this message!
You doomed! I'm glad.
She likely would not have chosen you in her 20s.
Do not save her now. Focus on yourself and women who will get on YOUR program.
That tells me that these women don't want to be a responsible adult. They want the benefits of being an adult but not the responsibility.😒
Women are like small children😮💨
Do not be her comfort animal, keep your hand on your wallet and enjoy life fellas..
Men, don't waste your time it's to late 😂😂😂
Nah I think they falling on hard times. Soft girl era is the same as feminism just under a different name. Same attitude will take place they wanna be taken care of but not help or support men. It's a little too late.
And then divorce a man take everything he's got and put him on child support.
They want to delegate the "responsibilities" to a man. (But what about the "Rights"?)
Being a stay at home mom is not a soft life. Staying at home with kiddos, if u are doing it right, is hard work.
Exactly. They not cut out for either.
If you are doing it right it is actually easy because as women we are designed for nurture and care. Women usually do not like to set a proper routine and schedule and also don’t have the passion for making a good home but have a culture of selfishness.
The love for this should have been taught at home when one was growing up.
As an African and Arab woman myself I only look forward to having my own family because I grew up finding baking and cooking with my mom to be fun and we still as a maid to help clean up etc but everything was taken care of by my mom at home and when you love your family you just look forward to the fact that what you feed them feeds their souls in every way.
You literally can create future leaders and a legacy while also taking care of yourself and still making time for the gym and being loving to your husband to motivate him to be his best and find his purpose by speaking life into him and believing in him which creates abundance. It is really just straightforward.
Nothing complex or hard about that.
It is in our nature
Sorry but it’s still softer than working everyday. Most women want to be stay at home wives because it’s easier than working.
You all need to understand that this issue is not simple.
Even if women see they have been dupe.
Corporate America is intentionally not giving men, especially black men good job..So even if you want to stay home, a man who will take care of you will still struggle to get a good paying job.
Dont help them nope stay strong and independent
Funny.. when men said the exact same thing they were "insecure", "intimidated", "oppressive", "narcissistic", "patriarchal", etc etc.. very interesting
BYE FELICIA 💀
Becareful what you buy because you will have to pay for it!
Nope 👎🏾 you’re strong and independent boss b. Remember, we’re broke, dusty and lame. We’re taking our paltry 80k overseas for a better quality of life and woman. We’re out, you’re good on your own.
Even bros at 40K would rather be single than deal with this headache.
Ya'll had it. Ya'll got it. And ya'll still kept it up until now. We can go on from here.
Betty Friedan not freeman😅😅😅 Come on now, Google won't you.
They think rhis is all in an effort to get them to change its not! Yea the occasional simptavious will be around but thats it. Most men not trying to be stuck with u . Spotlight is on u now
Yall boys falling for this....
Boys??? Maybe! But men??? Hell naw!
Nah
The single moms raised ones probably but the rest of us nah