@@cheetahgirlfan32 ...Nope...😂 I've been seeing videos popping up of African American women traveling to different parts of Africa. They tend to have a lot of issues with those men. One said she had an issue with a cab driver and ended up getting beat up and other men just stood back and watched. I think she thought she could get away with not paying him and disrespecting him like she does African American men. It's messed up but she got what she had coming to her.
And that's it! That's what she's not saying. She also knew other guys would be at her. He tried to set a date and she never responded. She's lying like women do. She just now wants the men in her DMs
In general Modern Western Women have no interest in being a wife, just in having a large wedding!! Men have realized that and gone elsewhere to find feminine, fit, friendly women who know how to respect and take care of their Men. ✈️🇧🇷🇨🇴🇯🇵🇳🇬🇪🇹🇬🇭🇵🇭🇩🇴 🏃💨💨💨💨💨💨
She lacks genuine interest in him and no longer views him as a romantic partner. Although he extended an invitation to see her once, he shouldn't pursue it further. If she displays this level of immaturity, it's likely to escalate. By making him chase her, she seeks to undermine his confidence while retaining the power to reject him. It's a reflection of her ego. It's time for him to move on.
Yes he said I know you are busy so let me know when you are free and we can set something up... She did not get back to him so she rejected the cards he put down.
Lets slide down our Red pill lens a little bit. I understand her and I get him. At the end of the day A Man has to pursue the Woman but He should have balance not to simp. But most important she is still trying to see if she can find someone better therefore ultimately the guy did what was best, don't push if you are not the best option in her eyes.
she has some nerve shes a 4 in the face ,and her body yes shes in shape but way to diesel, dudes dont want no super swole female , ole ronda rousey strong jawline chick , no way #blessed
She lacks genuine interest in him and no longer views him as a romantic partner. Although he extended an invitation to see her once, he shouldn't pursue it further. If she displays this level of immaturity, it's likely to escalate. By making him chase her, she seeks to undermine his confidence while retaining the power to reject him. It's a reflection of her ego. It's time for him to move on.
She better go read up on Lisa Raye(Diamond) and Vivica Fox. These are older beautiful women that are out here struggling now because they didn't realize that one day it would be much younger versions of themselves coming up behind them like this woman. Now this woman is going to be dealing with the same thing in a few years. They don't learn.
Let's wait till she grows old and the attention from men dries up. Thats when she will come out of delulu land and realize the dudes who were applying pressure were just playing her game😂😂😂
This isn't about "simping", it is showing the fatal flaw in dating black women today. They have a good man in front of them who has been vetted and they still think they are above him. They use quantity of attention over the value of the person that is Infront of them. She is not wife material.
@@gnahore5810 because black women are the most "sassy" of all the women and the least chosen! They seem to think that their education will elevate them from an average 5 to an above average 8 or more! They need to look in the mirror and improve their appearance and also their manners 👍🏾
@@nicholasvictor8303 As a black man myself, I don't hesitate to call bs from black women. However in this case, there is nothing to single out black women. That's a women thing, not a black women thing
@@gnahore5810 I disagree to a point. In reference to the original comment I made my response. It's generally the BW that do this more often. Having dated a few non BW myself that would have been more successful than I was at the time didn't give off the same vibe but, this was my experience.
The guys in her DMs just want the buns. She's, like most women, mistaking that for actual relationship options. He's confident and knows he has better options which is making her frustrated. At the end of the day, if she can't be supportive and gentle, don't no man with options want her.
Why is she saying he needs to prove himself when SHE was the one going into a room hoping to not have a balloon popped on her. She’s trying to prove herself worthy enough to not be rejected. He gave YOU another chance with a new balloon. With that logic, you have to prove yourself worthy of him giving you a second chance…what is this logic women have?
@@desmondjefferson2127 I went through one myself. She did the gas lighting bs, talking about why I didn't message her, despite the last correspondence coming from me.
@@jetliwalker7738 In her defence, I think she's just being petty and reacting to how she was mistreated on the show. He panel were being very goofy lol.
@troysanders7775 If you are able to date other races of women you will quickly realize there is no point dating black women. You are not missing out anything dating black women, in fact dating black women is gonna be a LOSS for you compared to other races of women
Yeah bro, you damn if you do and you damn if you don’t working on weekends and the party to me that’s capping she just wants somebody to chase her, but guess what my guy from the motherland knows to tell her to kick rocks😂
She will not marry anyone, probably. She is too entitled to show interest for a guy. He showed up and she doesn't let him know she was interested. I'm like him nowadays. I'll never chase a woman anymore.
What happened is she feels she hs a lot of options since the show and he's not a simp. He did his part by attempting to schedule a date. All that "apply pressure" nonsense is what she wants him to do to stroke her ego.
@shawnmorrissey1866 which is why alot (not all) but most of them chicks that say they are "single by choice", really aren't.... It's because of their behavior that they refuse to correct 🤷
Bottom line, she's saying she'd rather sleep and focus on multiple men than choose the one she thinks is best. Hold the line gentlemen. Know your worth. Drizzle drizzle.
Live your life, brother, and seek a woman who truly appreciates all you've achieved. Speaking from 44 years of marriage, there's nothing better than a genuine partner.
In this case the woman has a huge ego....cause in a men/women relationship.... Truth is the Man is responsible for the fk ups of the relationship. He is responsible for the success, a lot expected from him. So he has to be sure...he's got a good individual he's leading
Yea, and truth is he's already probably got 6 to 10 women in his own DM's if not a lot more because there are a hell of a lot of women out here looking for a man laser focused on his business and looking for 1 woman. She's too full of herself to see that now because she's getting approached daily at the supermarket and gas station because of how she looks. She's headed in a bad direction and doesn't even realize that.
He asked about FRIDAY, SATURDAY, AND SUNDAY, then left the ball in her court. He said to let him know, and she hasn't. She's not interested. Walk away.
He totally dodged a bullet. I will say he made a huge tactical error in general, you can't put the ball in her court that early. If she becomes free next weekend she will only reach back out if she has no other clear options and her interest level is 100 and she will only do as conversation starter. If someone else hits her up before the time they go in front of you. She doesn't know you she will not get back to you with their availability they don't work none of them.
So I found this out from a woman at work, a guy SHE LIKES asked her out. In her mind, she doesn’t want to seem like she has nothing going on in her life so she lies and says she has things on on Friday, so he asks about Saturday and she makes up a birthday (which is a lie), he then says “ok well some other time then” and leaves her alone. She pushed away a guys she likes with games, those games would only work on a literal loser simp who doesn’t take no for an answer. I had to specifically tell her that she blew the guy off and she was oblivious that she’d done that
@@j0fiz986 Great point 💯 He gave her two different dates and she albeit politely rejected both of them yet thinks he still a play, nope he's moved on. Most interested women would at least say they have to check their schedule for Saturday or Sunday if they say they can't they will nudge you toward a future weekend that might be better. Women having random unspoken other plans does not make men more interested for me it makes a little less.
@@1D4ever the general rule is this. If a person either cancels plans or turns down plans and doesn’t offer an alternative, it’s a blow off…move on. So a normal adult in her position would say “well I’m busy this weekend but I’m free next weekend”. This would ‘not’ be a blow off. Saying “I’m busy this weekend” is a blow off. It’s the language of a polite decline without directly saying “I’m not interested”. This girl in this video is farrrrr too low in looks and attitude to be playing games, she’s not even mid
When I got a girl's phone number when I was coming up, I called the girl one time expecting a conversation. If she didn't pick up the phone, I'd leave a voicemail explaining who I was and my phone number. After I leave the voicemail I'd proceed to delete the girl's phone number. Why? Because after the voicemail, the ball's in her court. If she's interested, she'll call me back. If she's not, she won't. Women should never want the kind of man who will pine after them. These are the same kind of dudes who will murder them after a breakup. Women should desire a man who is focused on kingdom-works.
Makes no sense. We reach out and reach out consistently, then we labeled as creeps, stalking and controlling. We don't reach out and try to be respectful then we ain't applying enough pressure. But we apply pressure we get blocked and ghosted and seen as weird. What? Come on ladies y'all tripping. And wonder why we just say eff it.
Mad respect to this brother! He handled it well. GTFO here with that "apply pressure" bullsh*t. We grown. Stop playing games. You either feeling me or you're not.
This woman has no interest in this man. He asked her to let him know when she is free she didn't let him know when she would be free, hence, lack of interest there. Secondly, she seems like she doesn't like people that will challenge her on her opinions. Bounce my brother, you are not losing anything.
I would’ve called out her “you need to apply pressure if you really want me” statement. The ultimate way to apply pressure is to ask for a marriage. She rejected that TWICE !! Why would we believe anything she says 💀 she’s too old to ask for simps
Always remember. If she has genuine raw attraction to you? All other options become invisible. You ask her out? And SHE WILL. Make time for you. That simple
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficerI’ll give you some advice never get married. If you decide to have kids have them with a woman that doesn’t have a bum mentality. She has to make good money and doesn’t think she deserves your resources just because she’s your child’s mother
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficerI’ll also chime in. Never chase a woman. What that man did in the video was put the ball in her court by saying. “When your schedule clears, hmu and let me know when you are free.” By him doing that, he’s testing her interest. She failed, so he didn’t pursue. I do it all the time. Never double text. Know your worth
@mr.johnson3889 Always think with your big head....always. Do things in order...stay lazer focused on the financial business of manhood First!(education/career) Take your time and be extra,extra careful when choosing your mate. No single mothers ever...under no circumstances. No smash n dash, no nothing. No children out of wedlock In this day and time, i suggest that when you're ready, i suggest a foreign wife with traditional values. This is the advice i give to my 26 yo grandson.
She didn't like him. He's right in that if he asked her out and she didn't respond then he moves on and she should have given the courtesy of a response. That's what classy women do.
Fellas, if you suggest a time, date, and a place to take out a woman and she responds back with “I’m busy that day” and she doesn’t follow up with an alternative day then you never contact her again. You’ve already established that you want to take her out, it’s her job to get back to you. Never chase women, to try to lock down a date. This is a manipulative woman. A woman that truly likes you will make setting up a date easy as hell.
I disagree with you. It’s you suggest a time, date, and place to go on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and she says “I’m busy” without offering a LEGIT explanation, DO NOT talk to her at all. In other words, “I’m busy” should be along the lines of Parents are in town I’ll be at the hospital for a loved one Kids Those are acceptable “I’m busy” excuses. Saying I’m busy because of work, birthday parties (unless it’s parents or kids), are excuses to let me know you won’t receive another call from me, or any other kind of interaction at all. In my mind, I’m done!
So she wasnt available due to prior engagements, which is fine. He told her to let him know when she is free. If she wanted to, she would. Simple truth is she isnt interested and her lack of communication shows that
Ladies we are not listening. This man said I felt you were weighing your options and you said yeah I was weighing my options...dumb. It's a given why did you need to unnecessarily crush his ego. We ain't never goin learn. I would have said it seems there must have been a misunderstanding. We are here now. How about we go on that date?
She wanted every bit . I hate each moment she kept trying to shape the narrative of him being sassy once he understood he wasn’t simping and validating her “success”
This actually happened to me 4 weeks ago. I met this sista online, and we hit it off, but my schedule and her schedule just did not line up. So she was upset I was not doing enough. I told her that when she is free, I would clear my schedule, but she decided not to call me back, so I stopped calling her. And like this brotha I am not chasing no woman
Happened to me years ago when I was dating a woman. Our work schedules were different and she was upset that I got off work later than her, she was always trying to get me to leave work early to be with her and that just wasn’t happening. It lasted for a little while because she actually did like me and she made her after work schedule fit my evening schedule. But I blew her back out for a few months and left her.
Yes and no. It shows how superficial people can be when they THINK/FEEL they have options. Disqualifying for bracelets, height, attire, etc.. goes to show when people talk that moral spiritual shit, it's all BS
Ma man!!!... "apply pressure"!!?? what?! 🤣🤣🤣... if she doesn't show interest then we rightfully assume she ain't interested and we move on! No simping! Stay focused kings (and true queens)✊🏾😏
He's good. He asked her out... she said she was busy. He said call me when you are free... she never called... he moved on. They both don't seem bothered by it.
He's from Sudan. Men in Africa aren't known for simping. That's a western man thing.
At all!
@@cheetahgirlfan32 ...U from Africa?
I’m not but African men & Caribbean men are not the simp type lol
@@cheetahgirlfan32 ...Nope...😂 I've been seeing videos popping up of African American women traveling to different parts of Africa. They tend to have a lot of issues with those men. One said she had an issue with a cab driver and ended up getting beat up and other men just stood back and watched. I think she thought she could get away with not paying him and disrespecting him like she does African American men. It's messed up but she got what she had coming to her.
Except for that Yada dude on FB
She wasn't feeling him. She was on there to promote her brand. Stop the CAPP
I was thinking the same thing... she was being polite and/or she wanted first right of refusal
I agree, it was a business move, not a relationship one.
That's exactly what I thought. She kept mentioning her brand and how it took off.
She processes credit cards. Enough with the "my business is blowing up". Cap.
And that's it! That's what she's not saying. She also knew other guys would be at her. He tried to set a date and she never responded. She's lying like women do. She just now wants the men in her DMs
As an African man , if a lady shows less interest I move on. No mind games.
Smart man. That drama and arrogance is the BIGGEST turn-off.
She is angry he wasnt simping.
Then she said she was with a dude for 10yrs and not married even after he asked twice....she is the problem
Exactly. I think he hurt her feelings by not acting like she was the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Don’t chase fellas. He played it right
She is the problem. She is addicted to simps and the chase but isn’t ready to settle down. Smh.
I think she's lying dude didn't ask twice
In general Modern Western Women have no interest in being a wife, just in having a large wedding!! Men have realized that and gone elsewhere to find feminine, fit, friendly women who know how to respect and take care of their Men. ✈️🇧🇷🇨🇴🇯🇵🇳🇬🇪🇹🇬🇭🇵🇭🇩🇴 🏃💨💨💨💨💨💨
She’s waiting on the imaginary perfect guy that doesn’t want her.
😅
You just described 90% of western women.
They all are...........
facts
*** Doesn’t exist.
Always needing attention is a sign on weakness and insecurity.
Bar😊
Preach
WTF!! Just setting up a date is complicated with this woman. Imagine everyday life with her
Exactly.
Yeah .... 😂
Thinking about already gave me a headache 😂
Women always say they want loyal interest, but have no intention of doing the same.
She lacks genuine interest in him and no longer views him as a romantic partner. Although he extended an invitation to see her once, he shouldn't pursue it further. If she displays this level of immaturity, it's likely to escalate. By making him chase her, she seeks to undermine his confidence while retaining the power to reject him. It's a reflection of her ego. It's time for him to move on.
Good point.
Yeah, mature women don't contradict themselves! Unfortunately, this seems to be trending among them!
@@JoshuaRoseG516 Indeed
He dodged a bullet.
He dodged a MISSILE.
Facts
@@blackestknight1.0 True that: he dodged an ICBM...
I beg to differ. He knows exactly what he’s doing. He ain’t sticking around with that. Not that she’s terrible or anything.
Black men, GET YOUR MONEY UP so you don't have to waste time dating Black women 💯
This brother knows his place and would let nothing ruffle his feathers. Composure ✅. Don't fall for a verbal contest ever. King 👑👑
Great point.
That brother has a lot of patience. He saw the flags and decided not to pursue. Very smart.
Yes he said I know you are busy so let me know when you are free and we can set something up... She did not get back to him so she rejected the cards he put down.
He respectfully deconstructed her. The man refused to simp for her. This is masculinity at work
😂 thats your definition of masculinity 🤣
@@NmjVelezit's not the definition, it's part of the package.
Black men, GET YOUR MONEY UP so you don't have to waste time dating Black women 💯
@@NmjVelezyou sound super soft 😂😂😂😂
@@russelljohnson437 thank you!!
“Sassy” is a new term that a lot of internet women use to emasculate men when they don’t like what a man says.
Yep exactly 💯,
Right!
Facts
Facts
Just a shameful ploys usage for . Low end theory females
That man was on point with everything he said.
She wanted to be mad because he isnt a simple.
I’m a terrible judge of character. I watched the episode and thought she was cool. This broad is crazy
He has decided she’s not worth the hassle. That’s all.
His initial rejection was correct, later interaction proved it.
Typical modern day woman who thinks she has better options but in reality she’s just going to share another man.
@@dre22share would mean he would want to keep her outside of sex lol
Lets slide down our Red pill lens a little bit. I understand her and I get him. At the end of the day A Man has to pursue the Woman but He should have balance not to simp. But most important she is still trying to see if she can find someone better therefore ultimately the guy did what was best, don't push if you are not the best option in her eyes.
@@tryingmann3458 That’s most women. Social media has made it acceptable for women to date multiple men.
Cheers to the man from Sudan for having standards and integrity. The chase is dead. Stand by your values king.
Chasing her is only for her own self gratification and ego while she gains power during dating going into the relationship
She isn't attracted to the way he looks, that's the simple truth! She's looking for looks, she won't admit it but I believe so.
My point too
Do you think he likes her?Of course,he doesn't.When a man says Hit me up when you will have time., that's a turn off
She’s average herself
she has some nerve shes a 4 in the face ,and her body yes shes in shape but way to diesel, dudes dont want no super swole female , ole ronda rousey strong jawline chick , no way
#blessed
Proposed to twice but wants multiple men to still chase her and doesn't care to cater to a man? Mind games 101
She's garbage.
Exactly
She belongs to the streets
She lacks genuine interest in him and no longer views him as a romantic partner. Although he extended an invitation to see her once, he shouldn't pursue it further. If she displays this level of immaturity, it's likely to escalate. By making him chase her, she seeks to undermine his confidence while retaining the power to reject him. It's a reflection of her ego. It's time for him to move on.
She better go read up on Lisa Raye(Diamond) and Vivica Fox. These are older beautiful women that are out here struggling now because they didn't realize that one day it would be much younger versions of themselves coming up behind them like this woman. Now this woman is going to be dealing with the same thing in a few years. They don't learn.
He dodged a huge bullet (His gut feeling/intuition was correct when he popped the balloon originally)
💯
Let's wait till she grows old and the attention from men dries up. Thats when she will come out of delulu land and realize the dudes who were applying pressure were just playing her game😂😂😂
I agree!
And I thought they was all tripping at first. Of course she has to be the problem if she still single.
For sure. She’s seems very masculine 😂
This isn't about "simping", it is showing the fatal flaw in dating black women today. They have a good man in front of them who has been vetted and they still think they are above him. They use quantity of attention over the value of the person that is Infront of them. She is not wife material.
Why do you have to make it about black women ?
@@gnahore5810 because black women are the most "sassy" of all the women and the least chosen!
They seem to think that their education will elevate them from an average 5 to an above average 8 or more!
They need to look in the mirror and improve their appearance and also their manners 👍🏾
@@gnahore5810actually they make it about themselves.
@@nicholasvictor8303 As a black man myself, I don't hesitate to call bs from black women. However in this case, there is nothing to single out black women. That's a women thing, not a black women thing
@@gnahore5810 I disagree to a point. In reference to the original comment I made my response. It's generally the BW that do this more often. Having dated a few non BW myself that would have been more successful than I was at the time didn't give off the same vibe but, this was my experience.
The arrogance of this generation is interesting. It should be studied.
Facts .no capping
The guys in her DMs just want the buns. She's, like most women, mistaking that for actual relationship options. He's confident and knows he has better options which is making her frustrated.
At the end of the day, if she can't be supportive and gentle, don't no man with options want her.
Absolutely this guy is about business the dm are for smash and dash but they can't tell the difference.
True
Mistaking RELATIONSHIP WITH RELATIONS
"... a lot of guys applying pressure." She is going to fool around and find out.
She needs to stop saying “apply pressure” is she a parrot the guy ain’t simping
She really does she sounds like one of these young 304s running around out here. 🤮🤮
She's lucky he even retraced his balloon because none of the other men wanted her. Look at how she's carrying on, after all that 🙄
Why is she saying he needs to prove himself when SHE was the one going into a room hoping to not have a balloon popped on her. She’s trying to prove herself worthy enough to not be rejected. He gave YOU another chance with a new balloon. With that logic, you have to prove yourself worthy of him giving you a second chance…what is this logic women have?
Exactly 👍 you got it
Run my guy Run....no match here
Delusion
They don't have
The host was annoying, cheerleading the modern woman rhetoric as the hyena spoke.
There is s thin line between applying pressure and bothering. She wants to be damn near harassed to feel wanted. Get a therapist.
I think I had one do the same I ask twice, if your to busy, BYE!
@@desmondjefferson2127 I went through one myself. She did the gas lighting bs, talking about why I didn't message her, despite the last correspondence coming from me.
Ole boy is in a situation where he damned if he do, damned if he dont
You are so wright she got a big problem mentally.
@@jetliwalker7738 In her defence, I think she's just being petty and reacting to how she was mistreated on the show. He panel were being very goofy lol.
This girl got EVERY chance in life to get a man. She is the problem on why she can't get a guy. " NEEDED TO TRY HARDER" for what exactly?
These women today! Options, opinions, opinions. Social Media has ruined them.😮
The Bible says see that spirit test that spirit!!! Modern women do not like to be tested they think they have arrived!
When you’re a successful man, why would you want the headache ?
The man is from South Sudan, Africa and he's not a SIMP! Kudos to the brother!✊🏿✊🏿🤴🏿🤴🏿
Black men, GET YOUR MONEY UP so you don't have to waste time dating Black women 💯
My money is up and I date what women I choose, including black.
@troysanders7775 If you are able to date other races of women you will quickly realize there is no point dating black women. You are not missing out anything dating black women, in fact dating black women is gonna be a LOSS for you compared to other races of women
Blk men will have issue with any race of women we got issues too.
Don’t let her fool you. You’re good brah. Nobody’s seriously checking for her.
Its crazy how quickly attraction can fall when these women open their mouths
Truth!!!
I sometimes womder if there will ever be a cure for delusion? Its seriously eating up our world so fast.
Two proposals in 10 years and she still said no. 🚩
Bragging about turning down a proposal is like bragging about turning down a entry level job starting at $10 an hour
@@paulekezie465Respect ✌️
This is fucking nut.
Then wonder why no one wants her.
Exactly. The guy even waited 8 more years to propose again and she rejected him. She's definitely the problem
She never said she said no twice. Judging from her IG, she said yes the second time, but it didn't work out.
She’s busy, and then she expected him to apply pressure? I swear the short bus is beyond filled to capacity.
Yeah bro, you damn if you do and you damn if you don’t working on weekends and the party to me that’s capping she just wants somebody to chase her, but guess what my guy from the motherland knows to tell her to kick rocks😂
haha. damn!
She is a beautiful goofy. She has to many options!!
Crying 😂😂😂😂
304s damn
She will not marry anyone, probably. She is too entitled to show interest for a guy. He showed up and she doesn't let him know she was interested. I'm like him nowadays. I'll never chase a woman anymore.
They honestly think they are the prize...
It’s crazy. Social media reveals how they destroy their own chances.
How does a successful man have to prove himself to a 5?
Exactly! That's cray cray!
She is a LA 3.
5s in the west think they are 10s and don’t want to settle for less. She won’t believe she is a 5 until she ages out to a 1.
Maybe 1% of women in the USA rate themselves accurately, she thinks she is an 8 when she is average at best.
To any woman regardless of her looks.
She’s wack she just used the show for some Clout 💯
She a chameleon for real, on the show she came off respectful and level-headed..but that attitude is crazy
What happened is she feels she hs a lot of options since the show and he's not a simp. He did his part by attempting to schedule a date. All that "apply pressure" nonsense is what she wants him to do to stroke her ego.
She also fails to realize his options have probably increased as well
She got the attention because she was very polite and nice to everyone on the episode here she sounds like just another modern 304.
@@1D4everfacts! We now see her true colors
When men get to truly know her, they run.........
@shawnmorrissey1866 which is why alot (not all) but most of them chicks that say they are "single by choice", really aren't.... It's because of their behavior that they refuse to correct 🤷
Bottom line, she's saying she'd rather sleep and focus on multiple men than choose the one she thinks is best. Hold the line gentlemen. Know your worth. Drizzle drizzle.
🌧🌧
1000 percent correct
This guy is a complete class act. Kudos to you sir!!!
The date was over before it began 🤡
He handled it like a G.. ✊🏾
She's full of herself
Facts.
And sh^t.....
I bet that she and the Cheescake Factory are besties.
many women who workout tend to be huge narcissists. that whole bs about her family health was lame.
It's them dms working on her
Live your life, brother, and seek a woman who truly appreciates all you've achieved. Speaking from 44 years of marriage, there's nothing better than a genuine partner.
man..ego can ruin so much these days. folks be blocking they own blessings and that goes for men and women.
In this case the woman has a huge ego....cause in a men/women relationship....
Truth is the Man is responsible for the fk ups of the relationship.
He is responsible for the success, a lot expected from him.
So he has to be sure...he's got a good individual he's leading
Yeah! He has good instincts and avoided a combative woman.
Yea, and truth is he's already probably got 6 to 10 women in his own DM's if not a lot more because there are a hell of a lot of women out here looking for a man laser focused on his business and looking for 1 woman. She's too full of herself to see that now because she's getting approached daily at the supermarket and gas station because of how she looks. She's headed in a bad direction and doesn't even realize that.
Exactly...you can see the brown in her eyes she's so full of crap 🤢
He asked about FRIDAY, SATURDAY, AND SUNDAY, then left the ball in her court. He said to let him know, and she hasn't. She's not interested. Walk away.
He totally dodged a bullet. I will say he made a huge tactical error in general, you can't put the ball in her court that early. If she becomes free next weekend she will only reach back out if she has no other clear options and her interest level is 100 and she will only do as conversation starter. If someone else hits her up before the time they go in front of you. She doesn't know you she will not get back to you with their availability they don't work none of them.
So I found this out from a woman at work, a guy SHE LIKES asked her out. In her mind, she doesn’t want to seem like she has nothing going on in her life so she lies and says she has things on on Friday, so he asks about Saturday and she makes up a birthday (which is a lie), he then says “ok well some other time then” and leaves her alone. She pushed away a guys she likes with games, those games would only work on a literal loser simp who doesn’t take no for an answer. I had to specifically tell her that she blew the guy off and she was oblivious that she’d done that
@@j0fiz986 Great point 💯 He gave her two different dates and she albeit politely rejected both of them yet thinks he still a play, nope he's moved on. Most interested women would at least say they have to check their schedule for Saturday or Sunday if they say they can't they will nudge you toward a future weekend that might be better. Women having random unspoken other plans does not make men more interested for me it makes a little less.
@@1D4ever the general rule is this. If a person either cancels plans or turns down plans and doesn’t offer an alternative, it’s a blow off…move on.
So a normal adult in her position would say “well I’m busy this weekend but I’m free next weekend”. This would ‘not’ be a blow off.
Saying “I’m busy this weekend” is a blow off. It’s the language of a polite decline without directly saying “I’m not interested”.
This girl in this video is farrrrr too low in looks and attitude to be playing games, she’s not even mid
When I got a girl's phone number when I was coming up, I called the girl one time expecting a conversation. If she didn't pick up the phone, I'd leave a voicemail explaining who I was and my phone number. After I leave the voicemail I'd proceed to delete the girl's phone number. Why? Because after the voicemail, the ball's in her court. If she's interested, she'll call me back. If she's not, she won't.
Women should never want the kind of man who will pine after them. These are the same kind of dudes who will murder them after a breakup. Women should desire a man who is focused on kingdom-works.
Makes no sense. We reach out and reach out consistently, then we labeled as creeps, stalking and controlling. We don't reach out and try to be respectful then we ain't applying enough pressure. But we apply pressure we get blocked and ghosted and seen as weird. What? Come on ladies y'all tripping. And wonder why we just say eff it.
Wise man right there. His silence says he knew enough to know better. Glass legs holding her up until reality breaks them.
Mad respect to this brother! He handled it well. GTFO here with that "apply pressure" bullsh*t. We grown. Stop playing games. You either feeling me or you're not.
Yep!!!!!
Pressure? She’s either into it, or she isn’t…
💯
Never negotiate attraction. She should apply pressure between her lips and keep her mouth shut
Facts she was never interested in the beginning. She used the show for clout and attention from other men
@@BDAthleticInsider Which kinda backfired… He was the only one interested… I think he saw her as low hanging fruit…
ABSOLUTELY! He handled it exactly as he should.
She thought she could do better than him . She wants him to chase her no way .
35 to 1. Always remember that. 35 women to one man. Don't accept anything. There is too many.
🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for this 😊😊😊 and I’m out here still single smh. Let me get offline and get into it!!!
He’s an analyst. She’s loan officer. They are not the same.
Women think they're the same. She could be a waitress and be dating a banker but she would always think they're on the same level.
She tried, open mall businesses vs global business!
Lmfaooo not even close
@@Jbquinn💀
He really operates in high finance…she’s selling credit card processing and cash advances to businesses
This woman has no interest in this man. He asked her to let him know when she is free she didn't let him know when she would be free, hence, lack of interest there. Secondly, she seems like she doesn't like people that will challenge her on her opinions. Bounce my brother, you are not losing anything.
She not interested and him and her excuse is hes not applying pressure. So everytime he ask her out she busy. Play games with your kids you grown.
I would’ve called out her “you need to apply pressure if you really want me” statement. The ultimate way to apply pressure is to ask for a marriage. She rejected that TWICE !! Why would we believe anything she says 💀 she’s too old to ask for simps
Always remember. If she has genuine raw attraction to you? All other options become invisible. You ask her out? And SHE WILL. Make time for you. That simple
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Exactly!!!! If she truly liked him, she would have made room for him, even a coffee date. She made no plans. That's on her, not him.
@@shawnmorrissey1866 Yup. With these girls the behavior is the message. Always. Don't listen to what they say - watch what they do & don't do.
Women will leave work early just to have a conversation if she like you for real
Her best chance at marriage was the man that proposed not once but twice..
Without question
My brother dodged a bazooka…..
She wants a grown and successful man to chase her without reciprocating that same energy,Not going to happen.
She's gonna stay single after giving up the cheeks to the DM divers
😂😂😂
She got those w ide h ips
DM divers really just tryna smash and say oh nobody wanted you I got you lolol
Don't save her
😂 my man. They gone be swimming in her guts
You have to test these heffas. She's easily distracted...let her walk
I’m 26 no kids, give us someFree Game OG 🔥😂
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficerI’ll give you some advice never get married. If you decide to have kids have them with a woman that doesn’t have a bum mentality. She has to make good money and doesn’t think she deserves your resources just because she’s your child’s mother
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficerI’ll also chime in. Never chase a woman. What that man did in the video was put the ball in her court by saying. “When your schedule clears, hmu and let me know when you are free.” By him doing that, he’s testing her interest. She failed, so he didn’t pursue. I do it all the time. Never double text. Know your worth
@mr.johnson3889 Always think with your big head....always.
Do things in order...stay lazer focused on the financial business of manhood First!(education/career)
Take your time and be extra,extra careful when choosing your mate.
No single mothers ever...under no circumstances. No smash n dash, no nothing.
No children out of wedlock
In this day and time, i suggest that when you're ready, i suggest a foreign wife with traditional values.
This is the advice i give to my 26 yo grandson.
Heffas!! 😂😂😂😂 Back in my day we called them "Scallywags"!!!
The new word to shame bully and coerce men. ‘Sassy’ as soon as she said that I knew where this was headed
He is a successful man. He does not need to apply much pressure. Telling him about the other guy is a sure red flag.
DM's are destroying women lol. 😂😂😂😂😂
Her: "Come crawling and begging to win me over!"
Him: I realize that you aren't worth all that!"
She didn't like him. He's right in that if he asked her out and she didn't respond then he moves on and she should have given the courtesy of a response. That's what classy women do.
This is a well spoken MAN ,, and she is a fool 😢
Hardcore career woman. Run!!!!!
This is not a family oriented woman.
Yup. She gave off very strong 'bloke with vagina' vibes. Hard pass.
Mad respect for this Sudanese brother..👏👏👏
The pettiness would have built up over a period of time. I wish them both all the best!
Brother you dodged the Bullet TWICE. Thank God.
Zero tolerance for uptight smart mouth women thinking they’re worth more than they are!
Fellas, if you suggest a time, date, and a place to take out a woman and she responds back with “I’m busy that day” and she doesn’t follow up with an alternative day then you never contact her again. You’ve already established that you want to take her out, it’s her job to get back to you. Never chase women, to try to lock down a date. This is a manipulative woman. A woman that truly likes you will make setting up a date easy as hell.
I disagree with you. It’s you suggest a time, date, and place to go on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and she says “I’m busy” without offering a LEGIT explanation, DO NOT talk to her at all. In other words, “I’m busy” should be along the lines of
Parents are in town
I’ll be at the hospital for a loved one
Kids
Those are acceptable “I’m busy” excuses. Saying I’m busy because of work, birthday parties (unless it’s parents or kids), are excuses to let me know you won’t receive another call from me, or any other kind of interaction at all. In my mind, I’m done!
Facts.
Modern girl was in a 10 years relationship a load of bad attitude but my guy dodged a bullet.
Put nothing in with her, she's not worth your time!!!! You're the prize, not her!!!
All of a sudden we ain't in school to be doing no test, but wait for him to apply pressure isn't her way of testing him?
Exactly 👏🏾💯
Well said.....never thought of it that way
So she wasnt available due to prior engagements, which is fine. He told her to let him know when she is free. If she wanted to, she would. Simple truth is she isnt interested and her lack of communication shows that
He said "No Diddy" 😂😂😂
Ladies we are not listening. This man said I felt you were weighing your options and you said yeah I was weighing my options...dumb. It's a given why did you need to unnecessarily crush his ego. We ain't never goin learn. I would have said it seems there must have been a misunderstanding. We are here now. How about we go on that date?
She just wanted the opportunity to turn him down...
She wanted every bit . I hate each moment she kept trying to shape the narrative of him being sassy once he understood he wasn’t simping and validating her “success”
Now you see why them other brothers popped their balloons.🤦🏾♂️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She should be reaching out to him too
Interesting enough this video was fed to me after watching a Morgan Freeman clip from 12 yrs ago titled “Don’t chase women”.
This actually happened to me 4 weeks ago. I met this sista online, and we hit it off, but my schedule and her schedule just did not line up. So she was upset I was not doing enough. I told her that when she is free, I would clear my schedule, but she decided not to call me back, so I stopped calling her. And like this brotha I am not chasing no woman
Happened to me years ago when I was dating a woman. Our work schedules were different and she was upset that I got off work later than her, she was always trying to get me to leave work early to be with her and that just wasn’t happening. It lasted for a little while because she actually did like me and she made her after work schedule fit my evening schedule. But I blew her back out for a few months and left her.
These balloon shows are so dumb.
Facts!!!!!!!!
Its entertainment purposes bro
@@randomlyentertaining9548 Suuuuper low grade entertainment…The response vids looking at the foolishness from them is the most entertaining part.
Yes and no. It shows how superficial people can be when they THINK/FEEL they have options.
Disqualifying for bracelets, height, attire, etc.. goes to show when people talk that moral spiritual shit, it's all BS
@@jestaboss True. It puts the sheer audacity on view…
Ma man!!!... "apply pressure"!!?? what?! 🤣🤣🤣... if she doesn't show interest then we rightfully assume she ain't interested and we move on! No simping! Stay focused kings (and true queens)✊🏾😏
He's good. He asked her out... she said she was busy. He said call me when you are free... she never called... he moved on.
They both don't seem bothered by it.
She's sounds very manly too
😆😅🤣😂. HE'S A SHAPESHIFTER .....
She want a simp with money to spoil her and when a bigger simp applies more pressure she will leave him rinse/repeat
This guy is very very smart. Must be a Sigma 😂😂
He's right. Aint nobody begging you to go out with me. Deal with them DM's then and you will be back on the show in 8 months