hang out with me while I have anxiety & talk a lot

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  • @HannahElise
    @HannahElise 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +219

    Watching this pub footage back is making me tear up all over again

    • @zoyamahil
      @zoyamahil 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      seeing both of u be so comfortable with each other made me tear up 🥹

    • @AsmaISSAAD-r1t
      @AsmaISSAAD-r1t 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Finally I was searching for your channel

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zoyamahil ur weird

    • @zoyamahil
      @zoyamahil 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alexandria65 *you’re 🥰🥰but also, uno reverse big dawg… sorry that i’m genuinely happy that two of my favourite youtubers are such good friends now.. like did you think you ate? 💀💀

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zoyamahil yeah totally lol

  • @woroodsaadeh
    @woroodsaadeh 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    You should 100% make a video about your travel experiences that weren't included in your vlogs! I would definitely sit through an hour of you talking. It feels like a Facetime with a best friend❤

  • @viktoriabondar31
    @viktoriabondar31 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +111

    your vlogmas became my comfort tv show

  • @andrxeaa
    @andrxeaa 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    “it’s never that serious” is my motto when i’m anxiouuus 😭😭

  • @ashnashah2603
    @ashnashah2603 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +98

    your vlogs always feel like i’m on facetime with my best friend and i love it

  • @mael847
    @mael847 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

    Qotd:: you had mentioned in videos when you were in uni that you didn't have the best friendships in high school. Now all this time later you are roomies with your bestie going out with friends making u feel happy. How wud u reflect on this change, did u change or did the ppl u surround urself with change

    • @Khushi-eb8wz
      @Khushi-eb8wz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      thats such a great question honestly i hope steph chooses this one (even over mine lol)

  • @CattrysseGenevieve
    @CattrysseGenevieve 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    You're not alone, and it's okay to feel this way. Take a deep breath, and remember that you are loved and supported. 🌼 We love you Steph

  • @andreeablaga109
    @andreeablaga109 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    I don't know how you can make me feel so seen and I think many of us feel this way but I really appreciate your way of making us feel understood. Thank you so much

  • @laurachristensen7915
    @laurachristensen7915 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I have anxiety before any event, even if I know it will be fun. There are lots of people who feel this way, you are not alone.

  • @raya2533
    @raya2533 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    i love how vulnerable and honest about your anxiety, i relate a lot to the empty store situation. i avoid awkward interactions as much as i can

  • @renaeeex
    @renaeeex 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Steph 😭 You have no idea how comforting this was for me to watch. Thank you so much for sharing such vulnerable thoughts and moments where you're anxious-- I felt so seen. I always feel so ridiculous not wanting to go in a store when there's no one else inside. And I've never heard of anyone who would purposefully time that they would arrive at an event late, just to make sure all your friends are there before you!! I do that too, and I always feel ridiculous doing it. I really felt so seen watching this 🥹

  • @lizrosas1327
    @lizrosas1327 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I would read a whole book about your stories from ur trip abroad 😭 watching ur videos from when u were studying aboard gave me such a bad case of fomo so much so that now I’m determined!!!! To study abroad when I go to college

  • @sristigupta277
    @sristigupta277 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    You have such a warm vibe about you!! Like sitting near a fireplace in a wintery cold day. 😊 living with a best friend is truly a blessed thing to experience lol and I’m living vicariously through you 😅

  • @lula.marina
    @lula.marina 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My favorite part of the day has come 🩷

  • @melissasardjo2069
    @melissasardjo2069 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    28:12 I don't know why I got emotional hearing your stories. Maybe because it's so wholesome.

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi Steph we all experience some sort of anxiety one way or the other, you are not alone. Thank you for everything you put into vlogmas !!

  • @bringmethehorizonhoney
    @bringmethehorizonhoney 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Steph it sounds like you’re ambivert, wanting to stay home but having so much fun with people you like when you do go out! I discovered the term a little while ago and it’s the way I feel about myself too, the best mix of introvert and extrovert tendencies 😂

  • @05spring
    @05spring 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    what i tell myself when i feel anxiety or have a upsetting day/week is………”there are people who would love to have your bad days.” i don’t remember who said that quote but it’s really helpful for me to remember i have it so much better than so many people
    the part of our brains that experiences anxiety is the same part that experiences gratitude and thankfulness so when i remember all that’s good my anxiety will ease ❤

  • @Martinaa0000
    @Martinaa0000 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My favorite part of the day🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 thank you so much for being you!!! Been here ever since the beginning of 2021 and I’m staying as long as you are!!!❤️

  • @05spring
    @05spring 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i love when you walk downtown in your vlogs!!! Charleston is soooo beautiful i want to live there, so it’s so fun to see!

  • @Khushi-eb8wz
    @Khushi-eb8wz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    this series might just make me a winter person. my qotd is: What’s a travel experience that didn’t go as planned but turned out to be unforgettable?

  • @SannaMarieHeldaas
    @SannaMarieHeldaas 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The highlight of my day❤️ Thank you so much for taking the time to make vlogmas for us🫶🏻

  • @nikidilk2317
    @nikidilk2317 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    the way i threw my exam notes away immediately after i saw you posted. NEW VIDEO YEY

  • @sophiaromano7
    @sophiaromano7 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You really are such a light. Thank you Steph!!! Most favorite parts of my day by far are watching your videos❤️❤️

  • @corasophie1007
    @corasophie1007 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My fav part of the day 🫂❤️ thank you so much for doing vlogmas steph!! 🫶🏻

  • @confivera
    @confivera 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel you girl ❤ no matter where I go and don't know what to expect, i feel so sick and terrified and my whole body is shaking ❤

  • @laurenw4554
    @laurenw4554 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Another day, another amazing vlogmas!

  • @swteph
    @swteph 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg! I thought my worlds collided when Hannah came onto the vlogs, but MADDIE too! This is what I’ve been waiting for! Xx

  • @edenvanh
    @edenvanh 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank you steph for talking about your anxiety 🫶🏼 it makes me feel seen and not as alone with mine❤️ you are so strong and we love you so so much!

  • @justineregnier4685
    @justineregnier4685 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hello Steph!! 🤗🤗 I have a question for you : could you please make your top 10 favorite book series ever?? (Starting with the Addicted series obviously)
    Thank you so much for your videos, they are my safe place each night. I am French and so grateful to be able to watch you every single day 💜💜💜💜

  • @siri0746
    @siri0746 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I would love to hear more stories from traveling and living abroad! It seems like such a good time and is making me want to do it!

  • @saigesaorise
    @saigesaorise 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I've been watching all your videos since 2021 ILYYYY x

  • @wonderlandprose
    @wonderlandprose 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i know exactly what you mean about wanting to stay home but still wanting to connect with people. it’s always so much better once’s you’re out there with people you like. getting over the roadblock is hard but there’s such a beautiful outcome at the end🩷

  • @salmafilali98
    @salmafilali98 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It’s 6pm where I live been waiting the hole day for your vid love you❤ ❤

  • @katrineserop5500
    @katrineserop5500 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve had a pretty anxious day myself, so this feels really comforting! Thanks!❤

  • @naomipenner5230
    @naomipenner5230 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ve been so anxious today and i just saw the title and was like steph gets it 💕

  • @nycity123
    @nycity123 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    would LOVEEE more travel stories!!! i’m studying abroad next year and i can’t wait to create my own memories and stories 🥹🥹🥹

    • @anadusao
      @anadusao 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you're going to have so much fun!!! where are you going to study abroad?

    • @nycity123
      @nycity123 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anadusao the netherlands!! I went a couple years ago and absolutely fell in love♥♥

  • @ana_cherries28
    @ana_cherries28 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    omg u sohuld definitely make a video with stories from your travels!!! i would LOVE to watch that 🩷

  • @zulaikhamohammad7838
    @zulaikhamohammad7838 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    To catch up on previous vlogmas vids or watch this one, that is the question (silent commenter turning full time steph commenter here)

  • @NinaSimitopoulos
    @NinaSimitopoulos 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love the clips in the beginning of these videos ❤❤

  • @sashabowerbank5445
    @sashabowerbank5445 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for the effort you are putting into vlogmas steph. I appreciate you!! ❤❤

  • @anh-thonguyen9737
    @anh-thonguyen9737 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    the minute steph puts out a vlog, im there ❤

  • @Anna_04_
    @Anna_04_ 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    YES STEPH WE WANT YOU TO GO ON AND ON AND ON ABOUT EVERY STORY YOU WANNA SHARE🥹😭❤ 29:01

  • @isabellarussosavoldi1702
    @isabellarussosavoldi1702 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    steph vlogmas has been making my days so much better!!! question: what is your favorite Christmas tradition you did as a child?

  • @emmalouisetav641
    @emmalouisetav641 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is so random and i never comment, but the way you were so happy talking about the dark verse series in the beginning made me so happy hahah. I haven't even read it, your excitement of it just reminded me of your old book videos 🥹

  • @nargesreads
    @nargesreads 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I already know this is going to be the highlight of my night. Thank you so much for putting in the work for Vlogmas-I appreciate it more than you know! Ilysm ❤

  • @makaylafehr1404
    @makaylafehr1404 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wish you were a daily vlogger! I know how much work it is but you doing vlogmas just makes my day ❤

  • @giusyvampa3081
    @giusyvampa3081 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You talking about the hostel in Sorrento, Italy when I'm literally from there!! And it's such a small town too, I didn't know you visited omg

  • @jazrodriguez2740
    @jazrodriguez2740 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Those anxieties about going out at talking and stuff are all so valid! Same here girl

  • @jillm9165
    @jillm9165 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Meeting people in other countries really is one of the best parts of traveling!!! Every female solo traveler I’ve met is always the coolest girl ever

  • @aglae1866
    @aglae1866 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    heyy steph (from a french silent watcher), i love your vlogs so much, they're so comforting and they make me feel so seen. i also had an idea for question of the day: if you could have any song written about you, which one would you want it to be?

  • @gia2525
    @gia2525 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love fun traveling stories ! I visited one of my best friends in Corsica France a year ish ago and it was so not touristy, everyone was either French or European and on vacation and we met the most fun people to just hang out with in the towns at night and the beach!

  • @gigispiteri
    @gigispiteri 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i feel so incredibly seen by you, always

  • @odidibor2382
    @odidibor2382 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    steph id love to see whole video on ur journey abroad. like how u studied abroad and went backpacking. i’d love to know ur suggestions on where to visit, what things to avoid, and where u planning on going next!!!

  • @lenapjanovic
    @lenapjanovic 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Steph I love you and this vlogmas so much! 🩷My question is: if you could create your own eras tour, what songs would Taylor sing for each era? So like what songs would you have wanted to be on the regular set

  • @ShivangiNaithani
    @ShivangiNaithani 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph’s vlogs are like a warm cocoa latte ❤
    You have such a beautiful genuine energy about you Steph ❤god bless you!

  • @iuliac3087
    @iuliac3087 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We love hearing you yapp for hours❤

  • @lizziemcherring
    @lizziemcherring 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph! I literally live in the neighborhood you were talking about in today’s vlog!! I was watching it in the living room and my brother and I just looked at each other like did she really just talk about our neighborhood in this video?! Anyway, I’ve lived in Charleston my whole life and it’s been really fun to watch you explore the city. Glad u love it as much as I do. It’s the best place to live, period.

    • @lizziemcherring
      @lizziemcherring 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also, yea it’s pronounced Eye-On lol but it doesn’t matter we knew what u were talking about

  • @tanishashah6323
    @tanishashah6323 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph you will get through this, your a very strong person. And u motivate me to become like you, to be as strong as you, my vision board has a picture of you ❤️. Please take care

  • @isabellasofia157
    @isabellasofia157 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my question of the day!!!: i really appreciate when you talk about your anxiety bc i relate so much. how do you approach taking cute pictures in public? i’ve always loved your instagram, but taking pictures gives me so much anxiety!

  • @PinkHippo-ow9kz
    @PinkHippo-ow9kz 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Question of the day- what are your favorite Christmas memories or moments?
    I know the question is not as specific or niche but I thought it would be festive 🎄😄
    I love your videos Steph!

  • @elyseirwin2587
    @elyseirwin2587 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just found your channel as a recommendation for me and I absolutely love it. Just subscribed. Can’t wait to catch up on your vlogmas.

  • @breacalico2439
    @breacalico2439 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What you talked about at the end sounds SO fun. I remember watching those vlogs when they were uploaded and wishing I could experience that. My social anxiety is so bad though especially with all the things in the world that happen to women, I get uncomfortable and on edge when I'm in an unfamiliar place. I also think the movie Taken traumatized me seeing it so young lol

  • @nouspls98
    @nouspls98 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Nooo there's people seating at my bench, don't they know it's mine", never in my life have I related more to a sentence haha

  • @meganmicha_
    @meganmicha_ 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    also was feeling very anxious over finals and sick, so this is exactly what i needed

  • @meredithcameron8832
    @meredithcameron8832 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Going through the college process right now - what advice would you give your senior high school self and what would or wouldn’t you change about your college experience? I’ve been watching you for years and I love your vlogmas, it’s my favorite time of the year!

  • @Hayleexoxo
    @Hayleexoxo 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m normally a silent watcher, but I just wanted you to know that I haven’t been able to stop listening to Russel county line! I’m so glad that you introduced me to that song! ❤

  • @DevonRivera-nm9zc
    @DevonRivera-nm9zc 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We love you 💚💚💚💚💚💚soaking up every second of this vlogmas you're my favorite 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @garima.taylorsversion
    @garima.taylorsversion 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi steph thank yiu so much for doing vlogmas love you !! ❤❤❤Thank for books, and tv shows and movies recs. I would love to know which show is your fav and what characters are your fav and which ones you hate

  • @aleeshajones3662
    @aleeshajones3662 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes please tell more stories about your travels!

  • @andrxeaa
    @andrxeaa 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you at the sweater store was so me, i always struggle so much with it, i just end up just walking around until i find the courage to go in.
    what i usually helps me is to think they won’t remember me like literally im just another customer

  • @berfin9454
    @berfin9454 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ive been having the time of my life lately which made me miss these vlogs. ahhhh gonna catch up now cant wait

  • @princessjessie2946
    @princessjessie2946 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your vlogmas is the biggest comfort to me. I’m so grateful you’re doing it

  • @tanishashah6323
    @tanishashah6323 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anytime I feel anxious I end up watching all your videos, and I feel as if I am hanging out with my friend

  • @sarilaa
    @sarilaa 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your vlogmas is keeping me company through december, question for today is do you have a dream wedding inspo or plan on what aesthetics you want on your big day?

  • @charlottemlld
    @charlottemlld 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A little sick in bed today and this Vlogmas is so comforting to me ✨🤎

  • @Cmars_8739
    @Cmars_8739 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re the only person I’m following doing a daily vlogmas upload! So thankful for you!
    If you were to go on a trip to Ireland or Scotland if you absolutely had to choose only one? Planning a trip soon and can’t decide!

  • @KaylanaDestiny
    @KaylanaDestiny 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These videos make me feel so seen. Thank you Steph

  • @isabellesenff
    @isabellesenff 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    currently catching up on vlogmas vlogs BUT i just got back from studying abroad in sorrento, italy! your story had me dying😭

  • @angelchoten1616
    @angelchoten1616 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thankyou steph for doing everything you do ❤
    Sending warm hugs.

  • @bianascimento426
    @bianascimento426 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    watching your vlogmas is getting me through finals season

  • @avacainn
    @avacainn 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    perfect way to start the day after a morning bike ride and making breakfast

  • @macamaure5702
    @macamaure5702 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i been WAITING the finale book of dark verse but i also feel like i have to re-read them again so i fully enjoy it😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @pinja_amanda
    @pinja_amanda 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hiii Steph!!

  • @flossyjohnsonn
    @flossyjohnsonn 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    also not me feeling so anxious today and i didn't want to go shopping with my friend today but im so glad i ended up going!!

  • @RoshiniPrabakaran
    @RoshiniPrabakaran 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I AM LOVING VLOGMASSS CANT BELIEVER ITS GONNA END SOON 😢😢 your the only youtuber i can watch their videos in normal speed

  • @sadie61909
    @sadie61909 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i also deal with a lot of anxiety and seeing you talk about it makes me feel less alone 🤍 thank you

  • @jules09kivi
    @jules09kivi 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i can't believe my question made it to the vlog! thanks Steph for the answers (and yes, i'd absolutely love to hear more of your travel stories) love you, really felt like i was talking to my best friend❤ i hope one day I can travel the world too and meet new, interesting people

  • @isa_sahium
    @isa_sahium 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Here's a must-watch for you, Steph!
    I've got the perfect TV series to binge-watch: The Buccaneers on Apple TV. It's got all the makings of a perfect show: Bridgerton-esque vibes, plenty of romantic tropes, and a strong focus on female friendship. And the cherry on top? Taylor Swift and Gracie Abrams on the soundtrack!
    I'm convinced you and Kyleigh will absolutely love it.

  • @alex_lukovic
    @alex_lukovic 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I swear when I saw Maddie Cidlik at the bar with you I started screaming! I was wondering will you two ran into each other since she moved to Charleston. I love your vlogs so so much!

  • @zainalkatib454
    @zainalkatib454 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ahh I love your vlogs!! Question of the day: which book character that you think is loved by many that you hate/dislike? and what about them do you dislike the most

  • @nataliechiarot3444
    @nataliechiarot3444 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi steph!! just wanted to tell you i love the vlogmas, i look forward to watching it everyday, has really helped me get through exams. The Anxiety you feel when entering establishments with strangers is a feature of social anxiety, I have it and experience the same thing! What has really helped me is trying to acknowledge the way i’m feeling but reframe the thoughts and respond to what if’s like this, even if it is awkward, i will be okay and shopping in a store is normal! I just repeat that to myself and try to expose myself to those experiences, eventually you will retrain your thought patterns❤ i hope that helps!! My question of the day is; What has your tattoo experience been like? How many do you have? What are they? Are you planning on getting more? What tattoo trends are you a fan of?

  • @julianapereira_2000
    @julianapereira_2000 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i’m at work but this was what i needed to have a break and eat something while watching the vlog

  • @Caatje-op3jy
    @Caatje-op3jy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It sounds like maybe social anxiety and/or neurodivergence, possibly autism. I'm a self-diagnosed autistic person and I really relate with Steph's experiences that she describes in this video ❤

  • @lucydiamond2518
    @lucydiamond2518 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im loving your vlogmas so much it cheers me uo so much everyday

  • @aileencaceres4518
    @aileencaceres4518 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hey steph! love your videos so much. Question of the day: your celebrity crushes through the years

  • @Ananya-kt3rb
    @Ananya-kt3rb 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i'm going to miss watching steph vlogs everyday after vlogmas

  • @leeanng14
    @leeanng14 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Steph! I have been a silent watcher since 2021 and I can't tell you how much of a comfort your videos have brought me these past years. I love to hear what you have to say about books so my question for you is if you could annotate and gift any book to your loved ones (Connor Cobalt style) which would it be and why?

  • @BellaLouise-is22is
    @BellaLouise-is22is 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Steph I’ve been watching you since this year and you’ve made my year so much better so thank you ily 💗
    Question of the day: what song would you use to describe this year in your life?

  • @haley289
    @haley289 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i’m a silent watcher but i just wanted to say that i would totally be down to watch an entire video dedicated to your traveling stories bc i absolutely loved hearing those stories at the end!! also my qotd is what song do you think best describes how your 2024 went?