hang out with me while I have anxiety & talk a lot | vlogmas day 16

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  • @HannahElise
    @HannahElise 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +233

    Watching this pub footage back is making me tear up all over again

    • @zoyamahil
      @zoyamahil 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      seeing both of u be so comfortable with each other made me tear up 🥹

    • @AsmaISSAAD-r1t
      @AsmaISSAAD-r1t 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Finally I was searching for your channel

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zoyamahil ur weird

    • @zoyamahil
      @zoyamahil 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alexandria65 *you’re 🥰🥰but also, uno reverse big dawg… sorry that i’m genuinely happy that two of my favourite youtubers are such good friends now.. like did you think you ate? 💀💀

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zoyamahil yeah totally lol

  • @woroodsaadeh
    @woroodsaadeh 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    You should 100% make a video about your travel experiences that weren't included in your vlogs! I would definitely sit through an hour of you talking. It feels like a Facetime with a best friend❤

  • @andrxeaa
    @andrxeaa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    “it’s never that serious” is my motto when i’m anxiouuus 😭😭

  • @viktoriabondar31
    @viktoriabondar31 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +112

    your vlogmas became my comfort tv show

  • @ashnashah2603
    @ashnashah2603 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +101

    your vlogs always feel like i’m on facetime with my best friend and i love it

  • @mael847
    @mael847 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +94

    Qotd:: you had mentioned in videos when you were in uni that you didn't have the best friendships in high school. Now all this time later you are roomies with your bestie going out with friends making u feel happy. How wud u reflect on this change, did u change or did the ppl u surround urself with change

    • @Khushi-eb8wz
      @Khushi-eb8wz 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      thats such a great question honestly i hope steph chooses this one (even over mine lol)

  • @CattrysseGenevieve
    @CattrysseGenevieve 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    You're not alone, and it's okay to feel this way. Take a deep breath, and remember that you are loved and supported. 🌼 We love you Steph

  • @andreeablaga109
    @andreeablaga109 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    I don't know how you can make me feel so seen and I think many of us feel this way but I really appreciate your way of making us feel understood. Thank you so much

  • @laurachristensen7915
    @laurachristensen7915 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I have anxiety before any event, even if I know it will be fun. There are lots of people who feel this way, you are not alone.

  • @renaeeex
    @renaeeex 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Steph 😭 You have no idea how comforting this was for me to watch. Thank you so much for sharing such vulnerable thoughts and moments where you're anxious-- I felt so seen. I always feel so ridiculous not wanting to go in a store when there's no one else inside. And I've never heard of anyone who would purposefully time that they would arrive at an event late, just to make sure all your friends are there before you!! I do that too, and I always feel ridiculous doing it. I really felt so seen watching this 🥹

  • @raya2533
    @raya2533 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    i love how vulnerable and honest about your anxiety, i relate a lot to the empty store situation. i avoid awkward interactions as much as i can

  • @melissasardjo2069
    @melissasardjo2069 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    28:12 I don't know why I got emotional hearing your stories. Maybe because it's so wholesome.

  • @lizrosas1327
    @lizrosas1327 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I would read a whole book about your stories from ur trip abroad 😭 watching ur videos from when u were studying aboard gave me such a bad case of fomo so much so that now I’m determined!!!! To study abroad when I go to college

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi Steph we all experience some sort of anxiety one way or the other, you are not alone. Thank you for everything you put into vlogmas !!

  • @Khushi-eb8wz
    @Khushi-eb8wz 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    this series might just make me a winter person. my qotd is: What’s a travel experience that didn’t go as planned but turned out to be unforgettable?

  • @lula.marina
    @lula.marina 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My favorite part of the day has come 🩷

  • @05spring
    @05spring 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i love when you walk downtown in your vlogs!!! Charleston is soooo beautiful i want to live there, so it’s so fun to see!

  • @emmalouisetav641
    @emmalouisetav641 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is so random and i never comment, but the way you were so happy talking about the dark verse series in the beginning made me so happy hahah. I haven't even read it, your excitement of it just reminded me of your old book videos 🥹

  • @sristigupta277
    @sristigupta277 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    You have such a warm vibe about you!! Like sitting near a fireplace in a wintery cold day. 😊 living with a best friend is truly a blessed thing to experience lol and I’m living vicariously through you 😅

  • @bringmethehorizonhoney
    @bringmethehorizonhoney 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Steph it sounds like you’re ambivert, wanting to stay home but having so much fun with people you like when you do go out! I discovered the term a little while ago and it’s the way I feel about myself too, the best mix of introvert and extrovert tendencies 😂

  • @Martinaa0000
    @Martinaa0000 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My favorite part of the day🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 thank you so much for being you!!! Been here ever since the beginning of 2021 and I’m staying as long as you are!!!❤️

  • @05spring
    @05spring 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    what i tell myself when i feel anxiety or have a upsetting day/week is………”there are people who would love to have your bad days.” i don’t remember who said that quote but it’s really helpful for me to remember i have it so much better than so many people
    the part of our brains that experiences anxiety is the same part that experiences gratitude and thankfulness so when i remember all that’s good my anxiety will ease ❤

  • @edenvanh
    @edenvanh 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    thank you steph for talking about your anxiety 🫶🏼 it makes me feel seen and not as alone with mine❤️ you are so strong and we love you so so much!

  • @SannaMarieHeldaas
    @SannaMarieHeldaas 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The highlight of my day❤️ Thank you so much for taking the time to make vlogmas for us🫶🏻

  • @nikidilk2317
    @nikidilk2317 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    the way i threw my exam notes away immediately after i saw you posted. NEW VIDEO YEY

  • @siri0746
    @siri0746 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I would love to hear more stories from traveling and living abroad! It seems like such a good time and is making me want to do it!

  • @elyseirwin2587
    @elyseirwin2587 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just found your channel as a recommendation for me and I absolutely love it. Just subscribed. Can’t wait to catch up on your vlogmas.

  • @sophiaromano7
    @sophiaromano7 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You really are such a light. Thank you Steph!!! Most favorite parts of my day by far are watching your videos❤️❤️

  • @confivera
    @confivera 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel you girl ❤ no matter where I go and don't know what to expect, i feel so sick and terrified and my whole body is shaking ❤

  • @giusyvampa3081
    @giusyvampa3081 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You talking about the hostel in Sorrento, Italy when I'm literally from there!! And it's such a small town too, I didn't know you visited omg

  • @corasophie1007
    @corasophie1007 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My fav part of the day 🫂❤️ thank you so much for doing vlogmas steph!! 🫶🏻

  • @naomipenner5230
    @naomipenner5230 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’ve been so anxious today and i just saw the title and was like steph gets it 💕

  • @swteph
    @swteph 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg! I thought my worlds collided when Hannah came onto the vlogs, but MADDIE too! This is what I’ve been waiting for! Xx

  • @wonderlandprose
    @wonderlandprose 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i know exactly what you mean about wanting to stay home but still wanting to connect with people. it’s always so much better once’s you’re out there with people you like. getting over the roadblock is hard but there’s such a beautiful outcome at the end🩷

  • @katrineserop5500
    @katrineserop5500 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve had a pretty anxious day myself, so this feels really comforting! Thanks!❤

  • @laurenw4554
    @laurenw4554 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Another day, another amazing vlogmas!

  • @sashabowerbank5445
    @sashabowerbank5445 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for the effort you are putting into vlogmas steph. I appreciate you!! ❤❤

  • @anh-thonguyen9737
    @anh-thonguyen9737 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    the minute steph puts out a vlog, im there ❤

  • @ana_cherries28
    @ana_cherries28 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    omg u sohuld definitely make a video with stories from your travels!!! i would LOVE to watch that 🩷

  • @gia2525
    @gia2525 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love fun traveling stories ! I visited one of my best friends in Corsica France a year ish ago and it was so not touristy, everyone was either French or European and on vacation and we met the most fun people to just hang out with in the towns at night and the beach!

  • @jazrodriguez2740
    @jazrodriguez2740 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Those anxieties about going out at talking and stuff are all so valid! Same here girl

  • @nargesreads
    @nargesreads 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I already know this is going to be the highlight of my night. Thank you so much for putting in the work for Vlogmas-I appreciate it more than you know! Ilysm ❤

  • @saigesaorise
    @saigesaorise 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I've been watching all your videos since 2021 ILYYYY x

  • @makaylafehr1404
    @makaylafehr1404 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wish you were a daily vlogger! I know how much work it is but you doing vlogmas just makes my day ❤

  • @lenapjanovic
    @lenapjanovic 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Steph I love you and this vlogmas so much! 🩷My question is: if you could create your own eras tour, what songs would Taylor sing for each era? So like what songs would you have wanted to be on the regular set

  • @nycity123
    @nycity123 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    would LOVEEE more travel stories!!! i’m studying abroad next year and i can’t wait to create my own memories and stories 🥹🥹🥹

    • @anadusao
      @anadusao 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you're going to have so much fun!!! where are you going to study abroad?

    • @nycity123
      @nycity123 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anadusao the netherlands!! I went a couple years ago and absolutely fell in love♥♥

  • @gigispiteri
    @gigispiteri 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i feel so incredibly seen by you, always

  • @odidibor2382
    @odidibor2382 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    steph id love to see whole video on ur journey abroad. like how u studied abroad and went backpacking. i’d love to know ur suggestions on where to visit, what things to avoid, and where u planning on going next!!!

  • @Anna_04_
    @Anna_04_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    YES STEPH WE WANT YOU TO GO ON AND ON AND ON ABOUT EVERY STORY YOU WANNA SHARE🥹😭❤ 29:01

  • @ShivangiNaithani
    @ShivangiNaithani 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph’s vlogs are like a warm cocoa latte ❤
    You have such a beautiful genuine energy about you Steph ❤god bless you!

  • @salmafilali98
    @salmafilali98 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It’s 6pm where I live been waiting the hole day for your vid love you❤ ❤

  • @aglae1866
    @aglae1866 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    heyy steph (from a french silent watcher), i love your vlogs so much, they're so comforting and they make me feel so seen. i also had an idea for question of the day: if you could have any song written about you, which one would you want it to be?

  • @NinaSimitopoulos
    @NinaSimitopoulos 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love the clips in the beginning of these videos ❤❤

  • @berfin9454
    @berfin9454 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ive been having the time of my life lately which made me miss these vlogs. ahhhh gonna catch up now cant wait

  • @meredithcameron8832
    @meredithcameron8832 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Going through the college process right now - what advice would you give your senior high school self and what would or wouldn’t you change about your college experience? I’ve been watching you for years and I love your vlogmas, it’s my favorite time of the year!

  • @jillm9165
    @jillm9165 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Meeting people in other countries really is one of the best parts of traveling!!! Every female solo traveler I’ve met is always the coolest girl ever

  • @isabellarussosavoldi1702
    @isabellarussosavoldi1702 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    steph vlogmas has been making my days so much better!!! question: what is your favorite Christmas tradition you did as a child?

  • @tanishashah6323
    @tanishashah6323 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph you will get through this, your a very strong person. And u motivate me to become like you, to be as strong as you, my vision board has a picture of you ❤️. Please take care

  • @lizziemcherring
    @lizziemcherring 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steph! I literally live in the neighborhood you were talking about in today’s vlog!! I was watching it in the living room and my brother and I just looked at each other like did she really just talk about our neighborhood in this video?! Anyway, I’ve lived in Charleston my whole life and it’s been really fun to watch you explore the city. Glad u love it as much as I do. It’s the best place to live, period.

    • @lizziemcherring
      @lizziemcherring 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also, yea it’s pronounced Eye-On lol but it doesn’t matter we knew what u were talking about

  • @meganmicha_
    @meganmicha_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    also was feeling very anxious over finals and sick, so this is exactly what i needed

  • @breacalico2439
    @breacalico2439 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What you talked about at the end sounds SO fun. I remember watching those vlogs when they were uploaded and wishing I could experience that. My social anxiety is so bad though especially with all the things in the world that happen to women, I get uncomfortable and on edge when I'm in an unfamiliar place. I also think the movie Taken traumatized me seeing it so young lol

  • @isabellasofia157
    @isabellasofia157 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my question of the day!!!: i really appreciate when you talk about your anxiety bc i relate so much. how do you approach taking cute pictures in public? i’ve always loved your instagram, but taking pictures gives me so much anxiety!

  • @justineregnier4685
    @justineregnier4685 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hello Steph!! 🤗🤗 I have a question for you : could you please make your top 10 favorite book series ever?? (Starting with the Addicted series obviously)
    Thank you so much for your videos, they are my safe place each night. I am French and so grateful to be able to watch you every single day 💜💜💜💜

  • @princessjessie2946
    @princessjessie2946 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your vlogmas is the biggest comfort to me. I’m so grateful you’re doing it

  • @sarilaa
    @sarilaa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your vlogmas is keeping me company through december, question for today is do you have a dream wedding inspo or plan on what aesthetics you want on your big day?

  • @Cmars_8739
    @Cmars_8739 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re the only person I’m following doing a daily vlogmas upload! So thankful for you!
    If you were to go on a trip to Ireland or Scotland if you absolutely had to choose only one? Planning a trip soon and can’t decide!

  • @laneysoundara
    @laneysoundara 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    u have the most aesthetic life everrr💗 question: do u ever miss doing cheer?

  • @iuliac3087
    @iuliac3087 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We love hearing you yapp for hours❤

  • @Hayleexoxo
    @Hayleexoxo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m normally a silent watcher, but I just wanted you to know that I haven’t been able to stop listening to Russel county line! I’m so glad that you introduced me to that song! ❤

  • @jules09kivi
    @jules09kivi 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i can't believe my question made it to the vlog! thanks Steph for the answers (and yes, i'd absolutely love to hear more of your travel stories) love you, really felt like i was talking to my best friend❤ i hope one day I can travel the world too and meet new, interesting people

  • @flossyjohnsonn
    @flossyjohnsonn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    also not me feeling so anxious today and i didn't want to go shopping with my friend today but im so glad i ended up going!!

  • @zulaikhamohammad7838
    @zulaikhamohammad7838 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    To catch up on previous vlogmas vids or watch this one, that is the question (silent commenter turning full time steph commenter here)

  • @tanishashah6323
    @tanishashah6323 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anytime I feel anxious I end up watching all your videos, and I feel as if I am hanging out with my friend

  • @andrxeaa
    @andrxeaa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you at the sweater store was so me, i always struggle so much with it, i just end up just walking around until i find the courage to go in.
    what i usually helps me is to think they won’t remember me like literally im just another customer

  • @julianapereira_2000
    @julianapereira_2000 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i’m at work but this was what i needed to have a break and eat something while watching the vlog

  • @pinja_amanda
    @pinja_amanda 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hiii Steph!!

  • @bianascimento426
    @bianascimento426 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    watching your vlogmas is getting me through finals season

  • @isabellesenff
    @isabellesenff 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    currently catching up on vlogmas vlogs BUT i just got back from studying abroad in sorrento, italy! your story had me dying😭

  • @DevonRivera-nm9zc
    @DevonRivera-nm9zc 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We love you 💚💚💚💚💚💚soaking up every second of this vlogmas you're my favorite 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sadie61909
    @sadie61909 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i also deal with a lot of anxiety and seeing you talk about it makes me feel less alone 🤍 thank you

  • @KaylanaDestiny
    @KaylanaDestiny 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These videos make me feel so seen. Thank you Steph

  • @aleeshajones3662
    @aleeshajones3662 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes please tell more stories about your travels!

  • @garima.taylorsversion
    @garima.taylorsversion 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi steph thank yiu so much for doing vlogmas love you !! ❤❤❤Thank for books, and tv shows and movies recs. I would love to know which show is your fav and what characters are your fav and which ones you hate

  • @charlottemlld
    @charlottemlld 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A little sick in bed today and this Vlogmas is so comforting to me ✨🤎

  • @avacainn
    @avacainn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    perfect way to start the day after a morning bike ride and making breakfast

  • @angelchoten1616
    @angelchoten1616 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thankyou steph for doing everything you do ❤
    Sending warm hugs.

  • @lucydiamond2518
    @lucydiamond2518 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im loving your vlogmas so much it cheers me uo so much everyday

  • @haley289
    @haley289 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i’m a silent watcher but i just wanted to say that i would totally be down to watch an entire video dedicated to your traveling stories bc i absolutely loved hearing those stories at the end!! also my qotd is what song do you think best describes how your 2024 went?

  • @zainalkatib454
    @zainalkatib454 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ahh I love your vlogs!! Question of the day: which book character that you think is loved by many that you hate/dislike? and what about them do you dislike the most

  • @leeanng14
    @leeanng14 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Steph! I have been a silent watcher since 2021 and I can't tell you how much of a comfort your videos have brought me these past years. I love to hear what you have to say about books so my question for you is if you could annotate and gift any book to your loved ones (Connor Cobalt style) which would it be and why?

  • @Ananya-kt3rb
    @Ananya-kt3rb 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i'm going to miss watching steph vlogs everyday after vlogmas

  • @raouana8604
    @raouana8604 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    omg I started the dark verse series because of you and seeing you getting the syndicater makes me so excited !! I still haven't read that last book but i hope i'll get your point of you on it !!

  • @trin158
    @trin158 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Question of the day: since you started journaling have you seen a difference in your life (small or big) since you started doing it? I started journaling because you inspired me to start doing it and I’m loving it

  • @nataliechiarot3444
    @nataliechiarot3444 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi steph!! just wanted to tell you i love the vlogmas, i look forward to watching it everyday, has really helped me get through exams. The Anxiety you feel when entering establishments with strangers is a feature of social anxiety, I have it and experience the same thing! What has really helped me is trying to acknowledge the way i’m feeling but reframe the thoughts and respond to what if’s like this, even if it is awkward, i will be okay and shopping in a store is normal! I just repeat that to myself and try to expose myself to those experiences, eventually you will retrain your thought patterns❤ i hope that helps!! My question of the day is; What has your tattoo experience been like? How many do you have? What are they? Are you planning on getting more? What tattoo trends are you a fan of?

  • @macamaure5702
    @macamaure5702 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i been WAITING the finale book of dark verse but i also feel like i have to re-read them again so i fully enjoy it😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @aileencaceres4518
    @aileencaceres4518 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hey steph! love your videos so much. Question of the day: your celebrity crushes through the years

  • @RoshiniPrabakaran
    @RoshiniPrabakaran 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I AM LOVING VLOGMASSS CANT BELIEVER ITS GONNA END SOON 😢😢 your the only youtuber i can watch their videos in normal speed

  • @aidelle5648
    @aidelle5648 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    finished finals n ive been rewatching ur vlogs n catching up on vlogmas. QOTD: ive been meaning to ask this, do u have a new jersey accent? also a silent viewer but ive been commenting on ur vids love u lotssss

  • @BellaLouise-is22is
    @BellaLouise-is22is 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Steph I’ve been watching you since this year and you’ve made my year so much better so thank you ily 💗
    Question of the day: what song would you use to describe this year in your life?

  • @mattieg6163
    @mattieg6163 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi!!! I am a silent watcher commenting for the first time. I love your videos so much and think you are doing such a great job on Vlogmas, thank you for doing it, it is so enjoyable to watch!! I have been watching your Vlogmas while decorating my room for Christmas. My question is: What aesthetics and like phases did you go through growing up to then get to the style you enjoy now?