I definitely have #4, maybe #1, but struggle with the rest. I also struggle with knowing what someone needs from me. I too often end up in long term situations where the person just seems to want to be miserable, so of course I start to FASS with serious pressure. I'm not sure if I have these people in my life, but I would love to have these qualities.
Good comments here Jill. I could write a few posts out of these. I think its important to realise that their life is not your responsibility. Victims will want you to take responsibility, but you have to pushing it back to them. Their response is their responsibility. Well done
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I definitely have #4, maybe #1, but struggle with the rest. I also struggle with knowing what someone needs from me. I too often end up in long term situations where the person just seems to want to be miserable, so of course I start to FASS with serious pressure. I'm not sure if I have these people in my life, but I would love to have these qualities.
Good comments here Jill. I could write a few posts out of these. I think its important to realise that their life is not your responsibility. Victims will want you to take responsibility, but you have to pushing it back to them. Their response is their responsibility. Well done