Poor Jinger. It was so obvious she wanted to cry talking about Jessa, but she kept smiling and repeating it was "exciting". It's okay and perfectly normal to be sad sometimes.
I’ve noticed that they all do that, it’s quite sad. They start being honest and feeling emotion but then quickly shut it down and end up putting on a fake smile with a stupid high pitched girly voice and say something positive. Gothard teachings are hard to catch but everywhere you look within this family
They have to cover emotions, and that is so fucking wrong. They're not allowed to show sadness or tears, cause everybody is pretending happiness in their cult. Also they are not allowed to complain about anything.
No, it's not that she doesn't trust her. Or him. It's not leaving a door open for any "oopsies". Jessa and Ben wanted to be chaperoned. So that they wouldn't make any mistakes. And believe me it's really hard, but it is so worth it at the end!
Courting seems like it does more harm than good. Your parents in your group chats, only side hugs? If you instil certain morals on your children and raise them right trust them to follow it. Cause how the hell are they gonna go from 3 second side hugs to a first kiss and sex on their honeymoon? So weird.
I agree. They really don't know the person well enough. You are always on your best behavior when courting with a chaperone. What if the person turns out to be abusive? A cheater? (Josh) or a loser like Derdick who avoids working?
I've always thought of Jinger to be the one who will get out of the family mould and find her own way. I hope at least one of them will have that chance.
Ur a hater. I've seen u post negative stuff of every single video. They are old enough to be what they wanna be if they didn't wana be how they were raised they would have changed that!
Why would you hope that at least one of the Dugger children will have a chance to get out of the family mold? Did you ever think that they enjoy and love their family and their upbringing? It is the same thing as saying I hope you can get away from the way your parents raised you and get away from your family and what they stand for! Your rude!! These people can follow in their parent's footsteps just like anyone else if they choose to or go a different route,they are not amish!
Arely Guzman How interesting that although you have accused (yes, accused!) a poster of being negative and hateful, it is YOU who are using the words "hater" and "shut up." If your mind were not slammed shut as tight as a steel trap, you would probably realize that the comment meant that the children appear to be programmed to think a certain way. Even the little ones parrot each other about courtship when it's doubtful that they really understand what they are saying. Also, the comment seems to have been intended to make the observation that the children don't seem to have the ability to think outside the Duggar box, so to speak, and that it would different to see one of them break outside of that mode of thinking. That's all. Perhaps you should try not to be so defensive.
I respect their beliefs and everything but is that bad if they went out alone to say dinner? I don't think temptation would get them. Would the parents be mad if the kids wanted to do more than side hug before marrying or getting engaged?
When your hormones are raging, your in love, and your alone. It takes everything in you to not do anything. Don't you think they would rather enjoy their time then worrying about controlling themselves? And Jessa and Ben set up these standards. They WANT to do this. Their parents are just keeping them accountable. Which is good!
***** It has nothing to do with morals. Not holding hands and everything seems stupid but things accelerate fast. You're not a terrible immoral person for kissing or hugging. They want to make sure they don't do that, because after they do that, they'll want to do the next step.
***** I may be wrong, but it doesn't seem like she thinks young people are less wise, just that they are hormonal. Young people are usually not as wise, but age alone is not a factor for deciding who is wiser. She doesn't appear to think young people can only behave around adults. Young people in love are going to experience temptation, and that is the problem. The temptation does not make them less wise. That is a separate issue. And even if you are wiser, that does not mean that you are right of necessity. Don't act as if everyone should follow you blindly because you know better from "personal experience" no one here knows anything of. Instead of suggesting that a person (who we know nothing of, since we are on the internet) should be listened to, you should listen to the actual argument. A 10 year old can make the same argument as a college professor, and obviously they are not on the same intellectual level. The argument is what is being debated, not the person who makes it.
I think Jana disagree with all this rules . Get married young, get babies soon , no education! I can't imagine how many diapers she changes her all life. 😪
I dont see any harm in them making sure their daughters have husband that will take care of them and provide. If a boy is willing to go through that just to date her he's going to treat her like gold.
Such pressure!! It almost seems like a done deal already...what if she decided he was great and all but she didn't want to court/marry him? There's so many people weighing in on this that it seems like she'd never be able to change her mind, even if she didn't feel fully comfortable with it. Obviously by now she's already married, and happily I'm assuming but here Jessa looks sooooo awkwarded out all the time lol.
She could say no and wait to see how the next guy is, which means staying in the house longer, being under her parents rules longer, taking care of the house and siblings longer. Or take the first good guy.
***** I agree - she has given birth to many kids but has been the parent to just a few (the first few oldest) - watching the episodes you see the older siblings parent the youngest with mom absent most of the time
Chazzwassah hahaha what?!?!?!?! Seriously?! It is not child abuse! Open your eyes! There are no bruises, scars or marks. Therefore it is not abuse. Period. Disciplining your child when they do wrong is not abuse. Do you have kids? If so, you must not discipline them. When they grow up and get into a whole bunch of trouble let me know how that worked out for u
My God, some of you people are judgmental! Some of you watch the show and like what you see, and others watch it and don't especially approve. But does that mean the latter group have to be labeled as "haters" (and what a juvenile-sounding term that is!)? Relax, take a chill pill and accept the comments for what they are: opinions and nothing more.
I’d kill myself if I had to grow up like that and “court” someone. So uncomfortable and weird honestly. I respect people’s beliefs but...wow very uncomfortable.
Happy 2018 Jinger is now Mrs Jeremy Vuolo having her first child with him this year. Joy now Mrs Austin Forstyh having her first child. Joe now Married to Kendra having their 1st child together both Joe & Joy got married last year Jana is the only adult sister living at home. Jinger is the first out of her sisters to live in a different state which is Texas.
I am just like uhhhhhh get married already I can't take it you guys looks so cute together uhhhhh I am super anxious and in the future I can't believe that Jill gets married first sorry sp
Absolutely 100% disgusting! Mooshelle can sit almost on top of her daughter's man.. Yet Jesse can't touch him? Gross! Most cringy thing I've seen in a long time! If jimboob and mooshelle can't trust their grown kids then they did a lousy job of raising those kids. Wait... That's a known fact! How can kids that are raised in a cult be "normal"???
I just totally adore them! They lifestyle is clearly the best! It is so nice to making sure their daughters have husband that will take care of them and provide. If a boy is willing to go through that just to date her he's going to treat her like gold😍🙏🌺
Their daughters would have been better served having parents that protected them against their molesting brother and to be encouraged to go out into the world with a marketable skill so that the girls are self sufficient and do not need a man for support.
Poor Jinger. It was so obvious she wanted to cry talking about Jessa, but she kept smiling and repeating it was "exciting". It's okay and perfectly normal to be sad sometimes.
I’ve noticed that they all do that, it’s quite sad. They start being honest and feeling emotion but then quickly shut it down and end up putting on a fake smile with a stupid high pitched girly voice and say something positive. Gothard teachings are hard to catch but everywhere you look within this family
They have to cover emotions, and that is so fucking wrong. They're not allowed to show sadness or tears, cause everybody is pretending happiness in their cult. Also they are not allowed to complain about anything.
Happy and Joyful, all the time….
I know I wouldn't be able to fully open up with somebody in front of my parents so this would not work at all for me
Jessa can marry this man but you don't allow her to sit beside him? Oh my word.
Yes, cause if she sits next to him in the truck, he obviously will attack her right in front of her mom.
What about sitting in the church??? To me is the same...how they can really meet when everyone is in the middle .So annoying.
No cuz they’ll be shoved on top of each other 😭😂
Cris Ford i don’t think they can sit next to each other in church either
@@cjpv1972 qajq
So Michelle doesn't trust Jessa who is 20 something to be alone with her boyfriend but has complete trust in her raising her younger siblings.
No, it's not that she doesn't trust her. Or him. It's not leaving a door open for any "oopsies". Jessa and Ben wanted to be chaperoned. So that they wouldn't make any mistakes. And believe me it's really hard, but it is so worth it at the end!
Carla best comment ever! 😁😂
*Jessa comes out in her dress* Ben: you look nice *scratches the back of his neck* THEY ARE SO CUTE!!!!!
Courting seems like it does more harm than good. Your parents in your group chats, only side hugs? If you instil certain morals on your children and raise them right trust them to follow it. Cause how the hell are they gonna go from 3 second side hugs to a first kiss and sex on their honeymoon? So weird.
+Rachel D. So true!
I agree. They really don't know the person well enough. You are always on your best behavior when courting with a chaperone. What if the person turns out to be abusive? A cheater? (Josh) or a loser like Derdick who avoids working?
No need to worry Rachel. They figured it out.
it’s more of a baby moon for this family.
@@lillylazer429 That's not nice!
"He's a good guy," she said quietly and continued smiling."
Jessa is absolutely beautiful
Jessa: Peace out I'm gittin hitched have fun raising everyone without me!
Her smile when she's around or is talking about him! :)
she loves his totem pole so much
So stupid. Did Michelle really have to sit between them?
Jeremy Krause I believe in chaperone but she could have sat in the back seat
Kelly McFalls lol in the box
I've always thought of Jinger to be the one who will get out of the family mould and find her own way. I hope at least one of them will have that chance.
Ur a hater.
I've seen u post negative stuff of every single video.
They are old enough to be what they wanna be if they didn't wana be how they were raised they would have changed that!
If u don't like them then shut up
Shut up!!! Stop being a jerk. If u don't like them then don't watch.!
Why would you hope that at least one of the Dugger children will have a chance to get out of the family mold? Did you ever think that they enjoy and love their family and their upbringing? It is the same thing as saying I hope you can get away from the way your parents raised you and get away from your family and what they stand for! Your rude!! These people can follow in their parent's footsteps just like anyone else if they choose to or go a different route,they are not amish!
Arely Guzman How interesting that although you have accused (yes, accused!) a poster of being negative and hateful, it is YOU who are using the words "hater" and "shut up." If your mind were not slammed shut as tight as a steel trap, you would probably realize that the comment meant that the children appear to be programmed to think a certain way. Even the little ones parrot each other about courtship when it's doubtful that they really understand what they are saying. Also, the comment seems to have been intended to make the observation that the children don't seem to have the ability to think outside the Duggar box, so to speak, and that it would different to see one of them break outside of that mode of thinking. That's all. Perhaps you should try not to be so defensive.
I cant believe Michelle didnt ween her way into going to dinner with them.
Living in a prison and only marrige and baby s are allowed. Sad
a) Johannah seems a little obsessed with Ben 😂
b) all the Seewald kids have huge eyes
Jessa came out in the first dress and her sisters were like mmm girl your knee👀
jessa is absolutely gorgeous
I respect their beliefs and everything but is that bad if they went out alone to say dinner? I don't think temptation would get them. Would the parents be mad if the kids wanted to do more than side hug before marrying or getting engaged?
When your hormones are raging, your in love, and your alone. It takes everything in you to not do anything. Don't you think they would rather enjoy their time then worrying about controlling themselves? And Jessa and Ben set up these standards. They WANT to do this. Their parents are just keeping them accountable. Which is good!
+GrumpyMom you are very naive
Wrong. Again.. age doesn't matter its the wisdom and maturity that you possess *****
***** It has nothing to do with morals. Not holding hands and everything seems stupid but things accelerate fast. You're not a terrible immoral person for kissing or hugging. They want to make sure they don't do that, because after they do that, they'll want to do the next step.
***** I may be wrong, but it doesn't seem like she thinks young people are less wise, just that they are hormonal. Young people are usually not as wise, but age alone is not a factor for deciding who is wiser. She doesn't appear to think young people can only behave around adults. Young people in love are going to experience temptation, and that is the problem. The temptation does not make them less wise. That is a separate issue. And even if you are wiser, that does not mean that you are right of necessity. Don't act as if everyone should follow you blindly because you know better from "personal experience" no one here knows anything of. Instead of suggesting that a person (who we know nothing of, since we are on the internet) should be listened to, you should listen to the actual argument. A 10 year old can make the same argument as a college professor, and obviously they are not on the same intellectual level. The argument is what is being debated, not the person who makes it.
I think Jana disagree with all this rules . Get married young, get babies soon , no education! I can't imagine how many diapers she changes her all life. 😪
Don’t you think if the knew Michelle flew out there to get to know them better they could have at least taken her out for dinner??? That’s so odd!
Dude should have rented a damn car.
I dont see any harm in them making sure their daughters have husband that will take care of them and provide. If a boy is willing to go through that just to date her he's going to treat her like gold.
Yeah right, Ben has no job and Derrick is bigot bully and Jim Bob and Michelle spread hate.
Works for them because of their ENORMOUS FAMILY SUPPORT. Lots of people to lean on.
Yeah, right parents who condone child abuse and condone sexual abuse.
19 Kids Counting is a great TV show & missing watching that tv show
Shes supposed to get married to him but cant sit next to him
Such pressure!! It almost seems like a done deal already...what if she decided he was great and all but she didn't want to court/marry him? There's so many people weighing in on this that it seems like she'd never be able to change her mind, even if she didn't feel fully comfortable with it. Obviously by now she's already married, and happily I'm assuming but here Jessa looks sooooo awkwarded out all the time lol.
+Peter Pringle Too aggressive. You must be a gentleman about these things.
I think she’s awkward because she’s got her whole family there and they are always chaperoned.
She could say no and wait to see how the next guy is, which means staying in the house longer, being under her parents rules longer, taking care of the house and siblings longer. Or take the first good guy.
How more ridiculous can courting get Michelle sitting in between them thats just dumb
All the girls are absolutely gorgeous and nice!!
surely by michelle's thinking if there's room for her in the middle then jessa and ben wouldnt have been 'shoved on top of each other'
When Jessa and Ben where correcting was it just me or where they acting like they where uncomfortable with jessa parents watching them?
So many side hugs 4,59
The duggar mom is very nice.
***** I agree - she has given birth to many kids but has been the parent to just a few (the first few oldest) - watching the episodes you see the older siblings parent the youngest with mom absent most of the time
Um. No. She's not. They follow the Pearl Method of "Discipline". aka - child abuse. Don't believe everything you see on a "reality" show.
Chazzwassah hahaha what?!?!?!?! Seriously?! It is not child abuse! Open your eyes! There are no bruises, scars or marks. Therefore it is not abuse. Period. Disciplining your child when they do wrong is not abuse. Do you have kids? If so, you must not discipline them. When they grow up and get into a whole bunch of trouble let me know how that worked out for u
***** sure u are...
@@Chazzwassah Exactly. The show is sugar coated.
My God, some of you people are judgmental! Some of you watch the show and like what you see, and others watch it and don't especially approve. But does that mean the latter group have to be labeled as "haters" (and what a juvenile-sounding term that is!)? Relax, take a chill pill and accept the comments for what they are: opinions and nothing more.
WHERE IS PART 3/6???
Being suck in the seat that close to Michelle sounds like a nightmare
I’d kill myself if I had to grow up like that and “court” someone. So uncomfortable and weird honestly. I respect people’s beliefs but...wow very uncomfortable.
K pal no it’s not uncomfortable it’s just a little different than most people but it’s their way of life to live just like you!!
Happy 2018 Jinger is now Mrs Jeremy Vuolo having her first child with him this year. Joy now Mrs Austin Forstyh having her first child. Joe now Married to Kendra having their 1st child together both Joe & Joy got married last year Jana is the only adult sister living at home. Jinger is the first out of her sisters to live in a different state which is Texas.
I'm so offended by this horrible family. GO AWAY FOREVER!
Leticia Gormley if you're so offended, don't watch it's simple.
I am just like uhhhhhh get married already I can't take it you guys looks so cute together uhhhhh I am super anxious and in the future I can't believe that Jill gets married first sorry sp
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i love this very the best and sad episod typo
Thank you xx
Ben could not borrow a family van?
Awkward sums up this video
bens sisters are gorgeous..he is handsome.Good looking family
ewwwwwww
i wanna buy some of that cologne. my heart
Whoooooo yeahhhhhhhh hahahahaha xoxoxoxoxo loll
yuck why would your mum sit in the middle of you and your boyfriend
+Amanda Somma no one has their mum as a body gard when they date
Absolutely 100% disgusting! Mooshelle can sit almost on top of her daughter's man.. Yet Jesse can't touch him? Gross! Most cringy thing I've seen in a long time! If jimboob and mooshelle can't trust their grown kids then they did a lousy job of raising those kids. Wait... That's a known fact! How can kids that are raised in a cult be "normal"???
Seriously 🤷♂️
Michelle should have spent less time babysitting Jesse and more time babysitting Josh
I just totally adore them! They lifestyle is clearly the best! It is so nice to making sure their daughters have husband that will take care of them and provide. If a boy is willing to go through that just to date her he's going to treat her like gold😍🙏🌺
Their daughters would have been better served having parents that protected them against their molesting brother and to be encouraged to go out into the world with a marketable skill so that the girls are self sufficient and do not need a man for support.
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Neddy Constant 😒
Neddy Constant ..
Mbn uno we nc
Weird sick fam
zinc in oooo hmm
Lol
Ukgb
Curious how many of her brothers used their fingers on her. The smells give it away.