It's even sadder that she's tilted by the fact he slept with her friend. It's like she thinks they're in some sort of commitment: 'like, you can't sleep with other girls; you can just chase me into futility'.
IKR !! and I'm sure she slept with someone else during that 7 yrs she was saying no. So I don't see why she is confused. Not like he was going to wait for her
She was never interested in him. She was never going to date him. She just like the idea of him being an option to her. She is only noticing him because she lost her option and she is probably very single and lonely right now. ( i am sure she dated other men during those 7 years)
@@jfyne03 No. HE should have heard and LISTENED to her when I am sure she has told him one good time the FIRST time that she wasn't interested in him. Believe me. The ready woman for you will make it so easy I mean give you the answer sheet of the test aka her heart easy for you to approach her, get to know her, build a friendship with her, date her, fall in love, get married and have some babies with her. But nope men like him LOVES chasing and makes it so uncomfortable and uneasy for the woman. If she hasn't given you, she's "interested into you" cues then that's as clear as DAY that she isn't the one. Rule number 1: NEVER chase and Rule number 2: FOLLOW RULE NUMBER 1 and that's with both men and women. Men like him gotta scale back and observe take your time scoping her out a bit and watch for her signal. Smiling, and a flirty and ear to ear smile with sparkle in her eyes. Don't bombard a woman that can't even get a chance to not even look back when you smile at her. Let her smile show-up first but as I said previously the woman for you will make it so simple and easy for you to approach her. But just take your time and observe, admire, and appreciate her beauty and give her her time to look back at that beautiful smile of yours, sorry, just thinking about how I picture me and my future hubby will meet for the first time but nonetheless just take your time and allow her her moment to receive it all in so that she makes it easy for your approach.
She got what she deserved cause she was toying with ol' boy and it blew up in her face. She was never attracted to him (7 years). Her ego is just bruised cause she lost a fan and she liked the attention. It boosted her self-esteem to keep being able to reject and watch him fawn over her. She doesn't really want him now. She just wants to repair her ego.
That's women for you. They have no interest in you when you're alone, but when you're desired by other women, then you become a lot more attractive to them.
@@Ejub.m do not accuse me of lying simply because I said my opinion. If that's your experience then too bad. There are millions of relationships between men and women some successful some not and this is a fact not an opinion
No she doesn't deserve him. And she is selfish for that. But also, homeboy is at fault; he should have left about 6 years and 6 months ago when he realized it was going nowhere. That's probably why he got frienzoned in the first place, no self-respect.
It's like a little kid with a ball. When one toddler has a ball and isn't playing with it, another toddler picks it up....now the other toddler wants the ball.
Puppies do this too and it's cute af when they do it. Her loss though, she had a good man who would've been with her 7+ years but hey she got options right?
This was GROWN advice from Steve. She laughed because she knew she really didn't have a right to be pissed off! Sometimes, honesty is your best friend. If you can't handle what happened with the friend, draw a line under it and move on.
I'm a millennial and this man Steve is spot on about us missing something given the rapid advancement we've made but there's hope if you want something more.
Kiana K Lol alright😂 Ik you probably won’t answer this, but why can’t they be compared? And don’t say because they are different, because most women say that too.
She played and played herself out of the game. It reminds me of the lyrics in the old tune :" Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn, say if your girl starts acting up, then you take a friend". She provided the friend and now she has the nerve to have an attitude after stringing him along for 7 years. He should have dropped her immediately after date #3.
They are not dating and they were never dating. He was in the friendzone. She never liked him but liked the fact that he liked her. She lost ego boost. that is all
Dating is my favorite thing to do in America stfu. It's not horrible it's the experience I've always dreamed of having and you Americans dont know how good you have it
It is inconceivable that I would pursue a woman that kept me in friend zone for 7 years and didn’t give me any dates. Maybe a few months of pursuing, if I felt like she was special. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Dude should have been dating and hooking up with other women during that 7 year period, not her friend. That’s lame asf.
Well that’s her fault! It’s funny how people never notice you when you trying to pursue them but when you get involved with someone else that’s when they start to notice you smh
As a man. I went through the same thing with a female I know for 4yrs. I constantly ask her out, she never actually say no, but really never said yes either. So one day I said to her. I going to stop asking you out, cause I keep hearing it's nothing. She have the nerve to ask me why? Very simple. I'm not getting any younger. Anyways after 2yrs I gave up. So I started dating. Her whole attitude change towards me. Like what you expect? I need a companion. They get what they deserve. I've tried long enough.
It's Simple: A man will treat how you allow him to. Meaning if you want to go out on a date. Tell him it's a requirement. If he can't then walk away. It's that simple. Why would you be making a deal with a guy who wants your cookie. That's all he wants. He needs to deserve it for him go get his hands on you. Treat yourself like an expensive jewellery, cannot be taken home or touched unless they can afford you. Not talking about money but talking about the respect they need to give you to even look their way.
I havent even finished watching the video but as soon as she said 7 years Im sleeping with everybody I want to since Im clearly pursuing you and you are still playing games. Turned 90 days into over 2000 days!
She's clearly stringing him along. She's giving him just enough hope that he will get with her someday. What will likely happen is she will find someone else, and dude will realize he wasted the better part of a decade pursuing her. It's best that he moves on and finds someone else because she plays too many games.
I love and agree wholeheartedly what uncle Steve is saying, but gotta give props to the girl. She didn’t argue. She thought about it and said “you’re right, Steve” that’s something to commend
Well, I would not want either of mine friends hooking up. As soon as they break up, get a sti, or become pregnant I would be in the middle of the drama. No one wants to choose sides, then I would end up loosing 2 friends as a result of a hookup.
“You gotta look in somebody eyes and you gotta feel summ, you can’t text that!” As a 20 year old millennial Steve is RIGHT! It just sort of clicked for me that meeting in person is still necessary!
@@pimphandstrong6620 @Wesley Gray thats b/c i court not go on dates. dating these days is overrated. people have more sexpectations than actual expectations, thats realistic. No sex reveals the true intentions of a person. sex is not love nor love is sex. its a expression of either how you love or how you lust in that person.
@Wesley Gray by having a relationship with God, he will teach you the ways of self sacrifice. its simple. if someone doesn't want to work out or solve problems, just stay single. if i do date i rather date in a Christian way, which is called courting. i date intentionally.
What happened to real dates? I remember my first date when I was 18. I held the door for her & she looked at me like I was crazy, she told me don’t. I tried to get to know her but she was reluctant. I asked her what movie would she like to see & she said o I’ve seen all these films. At the end of the date, she said try to be less predictable. 3 years later... She got knocked up by that typical bum ass dude with nothing going for himself & he’s a deadbeat daddy. She’s no longer with him cause he assaulted her. She text me saying she’s interested in talking to me again. Me: Told her I’m not interested. And people wanna know what happened to real dating. Just like Dave Chappelle said “Chivalry is dead & women killed it”
I'm impressed wit' Steve on this episode. Especially after hearin' some of the things that've come out of his mouth about men today datin' woman. Not to mention that book he wrote some years back.
Men go through this type of thing all the time. And its usually the good men that have to go through this. So when women see us treating another woman how they want to be treated they start to show themselves. A man shouldn't have to show himself to prove himself. If he's a good man then he's a good man. Dont try to get in his way with someone else and make him seem like the bad guy to a woman he gave his all too just because you want to come into the picture. Because how you get them is how you lose them. Women just need to learn to give a man a fair chance. Not every guy is worth a chase. And not every guy needs to be changed.
Why would a man go after a girl that rejected him for 7 YEARS ?!!?! I woulda been gone after the first rejection. There way better woman out there jus sayin 🤷🏼♂️
Women have a way of stringing good men along. They wait until he finds someone else, someone else shows interest in him, or when they hit the wall and their options are severely limited.
What happened to real dates? The short answer is this, the definition of what counts as a real date and the rules and social obligations that you are expected to follow while on a real date changed over time, which is inevitable, seeing as dating is a social construct. 2:45- 2:55 If that bothers you, then simply changed your opinion about what does and does not count as a “real date” so that at least one of the social interactions in which you’ve engaged with a person to whom you are attracted counts as a real date. You can do that, since dating is a social construct. 2:55- 3:00 In the olden days, it was common for a young man to pick up his date and meet her at the front door. Many young women today would prefer to meet the guy at the restaurant, as having him pick you up would mean him knowing where you live. Young ladies of today would prefer to get to know a guy, make sure he doesn’t have a criminal record, before letting him know where you live. 3:00- 3:24 Just ask him out. Either he’s into you or he’s not. In the society in which we live, it is usually expected of the man to do the asking. However, I think that it should be more socially acceptable for the women to do the asking. For a woman, if you are hit on by a guy you don’t like, it can be scary, because you might fear him getting angry maybe even becoming violent if you reject him, maybe he does not take rejection well. Because men naturally have a higher sex drive than women, a man is far more likely than a woman to say yes to a proposition for sex. Even if a man is pursued by a woman he does not like, it is probably just annoying. If a woman is pursued by a man she does not like, it can be scary. That is why everyone would be happier if women pursuing men was normalized.
3:12-3:20...I'm going to give this one a throw but what if you asked him out for dinner? If you want to do that and you know he likes you, why don't you just ask him?
Maybe because society taught us all that men are suppose to be the ones in pursuit of a partner. Plus, some men can easily be intimidated of asking women out with the fear of rejection.
She did it to herself, if she liked him she should have went for it. She most likely was keeping him as a reserve in a glass box so she could date other guys and come back to him when she wants to.
But if he had hopes of ever being with her he should've thought about how awkward that would've made things if they did one they get together and he slept with her friend😣
While 7yrs is too long, the dude is not 100% correct in this situation either. She probably never thought he was serious because pursuing someone for 7yrs is not necessarily pursuing if you're just flirting and then going out on dates and sleeping around with other women which he obviously was doing in the first place in order for him to be so comfortable to sleep with her friend. Both of them were playing games. He liked the chase and she liked the attention.
I HATE that type of girl. Doesn’t really want the guy bad he’s not allowed to have anybody else either. I once had a friend exactly like that. Her best friend was interested in her at first but she kept pushing him away and even got together with another guy, so he moved on and actually started to show interest in me. We were flirting for some time which already made her jealous and then at a party he kissed me at which point all hell broke lose. She completely freaked out, asked how we could do this to her, I didn’t understand the world anymore. In the end it destroyed the connection between us cause he didn’t want to lose their friendship Make a move, otherwise stop playing with the guy!
Nothing new....she liked being chased by a guy but when he turned to some other girl than she wants to compete and get back his attention even though she doesn't like him....and I bet Steve knew that....I just wonder what was in his mind while listening her story....I'd love to know what was he thinking
I’ve chased a women before and won’t do that again! Lessons learned. I’ll ask straight up now. If I get a “no” I move on quickly! Sometimes it’s a good idea to date others because sometimes that women may comeback to you later and then it’s up to you what you want to do? Another thing, paying for dinners and expensive dates on a women that you may not see again isn’t worth it. All she is getting is a Hot Chocolate in the winter and Ice Cream in the summer. I’ve learned my lessons in the past.
She just like the fact that he’s chasing her. She never wanted him to begin with
^^true
delesia clark Facts
she want s him now things gone bad
As soon as he gets with someone she knows now she wants him lol
KayGod right. This man has been chasing her for 7 years and no play but as soon as he gets with her friends now she wants him. Girl bye.
She laughing it off but it really is sad. Stop keeping guys on a leash to make yourself feel better. Let that man persue a woman that truly wants him
AMEN! Friendzoned guys over the globe will shed a tear each and pray for you.
Exactlyyyy
It's even sadder that she's tilted by the fact he slept with her friend. It's like she thinks they're in some sort of commitment: 'like, you can't sleep with other girls; you can just chase me into futility'.
& women need to stop playing that game, keeping guys on a leash to make themselves feel better.
Its the mans fault. Never let a woman put you in the friend zone. Make her accept or reject you.
Damn. 7 years of pursuing, and you kept saying No. Now he's done something, now you noticed him. LOL. *smh*
^^^
Exactly smh
She got jealous because he gave her friend all the attention but she was jerking him around for 7 years.
IKR !! and I'm sure she slept with someone else during that 7 yrs she was saying no. So I don't see why she is confused. Not like he was going to wait for her
She was never interested in him. She was never going to date him. She just like the idea of him being an option to her. She is only noticing him because she lost her option and she is probably very single and lonely right now. ( i am sure she dated other men during those 7 years)
That’s her fault...7 years is ridiculous
unknown1238157 the guy should have been moved on lol
Yup been there before she kept giving positive signs and saying no, hell I left that relationship
Can't blame it all on one person when the guy utilized his time pursuing this woman. He should've moved on and she should've made things clear
@@jfyne03 No. HE should have heard and LISTENED to her when I am sure she has told him one good time the FIRST time that she wasn't interested in him. Believe me. The ready woman for you will make it so easy I mean give you the answer sheet of the test aka her heart easy for you to approach her, get to know her, build a friendship with her, date her, fall in love, get married and have some babies with her. But nope men like him LOVES chasing and makes it so uncomfortable and uneasy for the woman. If she hasn't given you, she's "interested into you" cues then that's as clear as DAY that she isn't the one. Rule number 1: NEVER chase and Rule number 2: FOLLOW RULE NUMBER 1 and that's with both men and women. Men like him gotta scale back and observe take your time scoping her out a bit and watch for her signal. Smiling, and a flirty and ear to ear smile with sparkle in her eyes. Don't bombard a woman that can't even get a chance to not even look back when you smile at her. Let her smile show-up first but as I said previously the woman for you will make it so simple and easy for you to approach her. But just take your time and observe, admire, and appreciate her beauty and give her her time to look back at that beautiful smile of yours, sorry, just thinking about how I picture me and my future hubby will meet for the first time but nonetheless just take your time and allow her her moment to receive it all in so that she makes it easy for your approach.
In 7 years most people get married and
start a family, Girl stop wasting his time✋🏼
He needs to stop wasting his own time.
They were waiting each other's time
Neither of which were genuine
And having children
she gotta pack up and go, and us fellas need to stop being delusional. Glad he made her jealous tho
She got what she deserved cause she was toying with ol' boy and it blew up in her face. She was never attracted to him (7 years). Her ego is just bruised cause she lost a fan and she liked the attention. It boosted her self-esteem to keep being able to reject and watch him fawn over her. She doesn't really want him now. She just wants to repair her ego.
Feminism BACKFIRED
Loved it. It truly backfired. She only became attracted to him because he gave her girlfriend the attention he was giving her. Serves her right!
U hit the nail on the head
Spot on!
Drop the mic.
7 years? She doesn't even really like him... she only started liking him when she found that other women like him.
Red pill truth: women dont want men that other women dont want.
That's women for you. They have no interest in you when you're alone, but when you're desired by other women, then you become a lot more attractive to them.
@@bruceleeroy8302 same with men, I guess it's human nature
@@anneistee7850 no men want women even when they are singel. Stop lying
@@Ejub.m do not accuse me of lying simply because I said my opinion. If that's your experience then too bad. There are millions of relationships between men and women some successful some not and this is a fact not an opinion
she is dead wrong. she denied him forever. he deserves to have all the fun he wants! you don’t deserve him.
FACTS !!! Btw ^^ HOME BOY A CREEP @lionelkennedy
No morals.
@@lionelkennedy1394 Hopefully she isn't in the same state as you
No she doesn't deserve him. And she is selfish for that. But also, homeboy is at fault; he should have left about 6 years and 6 months ago when he realized it was going nowhere. That's probably why he got frienzoned in the first place, no self-respect.
It's like a little kid with a ball. When one toddler has a ball and isn't playing with it, another toddler picks it up....now the other toddler wants the ball.
Stacy #TheFancyBogan exactly
@@Tan87ful yeah exactly women are little kids, "girls mature faster than boys" yeah up until the age of like 12 then they stop maturing.
Word
Puppies do this too and it's cute af when they do it. Her loss though, she had a good man who would've been with her 7+ years but hey she got options right?
Exactly!
Some immature bs!
“You gotta look into somebody’s eyes and feel it, you can’t text it”
-Steve Harvey-
Brilliant!!
Maybe it's the 90 yr rule...
😁😂😂 Yeass! Make em suffer ladies!! 😂
@@StrongnBeautiful Yeass! Don't put a ring on it ever that is what the ladies want!! 😂 Let them win the prize they want no marriage.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That why ur single lol
😂😂😂😂😂
Once a man sleeps with one of my friends, he is off limits and she had years to date him so now he is off limits. She just needs to move on
Thank you Steve for saying something nice about us Millennials. We get so much crap for everything in this world
Like foreal, I couldn't help but notice the compliment.
We do come with a bunch of crap tho, being materialistic/ cant live without wifi etc
@@NonanoN-er6de yeah but bottom line is deep down we're yearning for more, even in our silence.
@@valentineezegwu9668 yearning for more what?
@@NonanoN-er6de for more authenticity, simple
That beard is #BOSS !!!
Steve is rocking that beard
haha he is😂
Facts!
Every man should be rocking them, unless its a patchy mess.
That's a mustache.
@@chaosstorm8307 Are you blind?
You didnt want him girl and now yr friend have him you want girl go home 🤣🤣🤣
This was GROWN advice from Steve. She laughed because she knew she really didn't have a right to be pissed off! Sometimes, honesty is your best friend. If you can't handle what happened with the friend, draw a line under it and move on.
I'm a millennial and this man Steve is spot on about us missing something given the rapid advancement we've made but there's hope if you want something more.
Valentine Ezegwu agreed
what rapid advancement would that be? lol.
The problem is that he sleeping with her friend made him more attractive for her
women logic smh...
LadyD With all due respect, that’s what literally all women say. No exaggeration😂
@@lazerarray8037 it's what all women day. Most actually mean it too. You guys just dont want to believe it.
Kiana K you mean like how when women say “I’m fine” and totally mean it... right ok😂
@@lazerarray8037 um, it's not the same thing at all to be compared 🤦♀️.
Kiana K Lol alright😂 Ik you probably won’t answer this, but why can’t they be compared? And don’t say because they are different, because most women say that too.
She played and played herself out of the game. It reminds me of the lyrics in the old tune :" Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn, say if your girl starts acting up, then you take a friend". She provided the friend and now she has the nerve to have an attitude after stringing him along for 7 years. He should have dropped her immediately after date #3.
They are not dating and they were never dating. He was in the friendzone. She never liked him but liked the fact that he liked her. She lost ego boost. that is all
@@doloresdavidson-george5495 fax👏👏
Lol! Steve is just too funny, but he is right though.
OreoTime1 agreed lol
Nella J, thank you, dear.
OreoTime1 lol You’re welcome
Chivalry is alive and well. It's not a lost art. Women have to stop entertaining nonsense.
Amen 🙏
I swear.
She is beautiful
It is you women that are also fighting against chivalry. You ladies have to know exactly what you want.
Hey I’m a girl and I don’t know what the hell is she even thinking dragging him around for 7 years. Damn
Dating is horrible. I dont like it. Married people dont know how lucky they are!
Being married is not an achievement okay, especially when MONOGAMY IS NOT A NATURAL CONDITION with men.
you cant get married if you didnt start dating.... a man wont just come at front of your door asking you to marry him.
You mean all the married people who get divorced?
Bee Alexander for real 😭😭
Dating is my favorite thing to do in America stfu. It's not horrible it's the experience I've always dreamed of having and you Americans dont know how good you have it
Steve looks good like this
That beard is everything
Her friend told her about his beefcake lol
😁😂👌
Sandra Campbell haaaaaaaa!🤣🤣
yep
Ahahahahahaha
Good… she needs to knw about it
She just wants the attention. She used him to boost her ego. Guys never let this happen. Respect yourself.
I love the beard son
It is inconceivable that I would pursue a woman that kept me in friend zone for 7 years and didn’t give me any dates. Maybe a few months of pursuing, if I felt like she was special. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Dude should have been dating and hooking up with other women during that 7 year period, not her friend. That’s lame asf.
Lionel Kennedy agreed
I feel the same way
Hey Steve love ur beard man
Well that’s her fault! It’s funny how people never notice you when you trying to pursue them but when you get involved with someone else that’s when they start to notice you smh
Justin Cooke Agreed. The should have moved on after he decided to sleep with her friend. Why did he continue to pursue her after the fact?
Steve is always right on with his advice!!! Love you Steve!!
As a man. I went through the same thing with a female I know for 4yrs. I constantly ask her out, she never actually say no, but really never said yes either. So one day I said to her. I going to stop asking you out, cause I keep hearing it's nothing. She have the nerve to ask me why? Very simple. I'm not getting any younger. Anyways after 2yrs I gave up. So I started dating. Her whole attitude change towards me. Like what you expect? I need a companion. They get what they deserve. I've tried long enough.
when you say her whole attitude changed can you explain more what you mean?
Loving Steve with the beard
It's Simple:
A man will treat how you allow him to.
Meaning if you want to go out on a date. Tell him it's a requirement. If he can't then walk away. It's that simple.
Why would you be making a deal with a guy who wants your cookie. That's all he wants.
He needs to deserve it for him go get his hands on you.
Treat yourself like an expensive jewellery, cannot be taken home or touched unless they can afford you. Not talking about money but talking about the respect they need to give you to even look their way.
Do you tell him it’s a requirement or should he just know it?
Chivalry got severly injured by political correctness.
Just saying
Chivalry has nothing to do with men and women.
It's behavior and principle's for one's church and nationality.
Feminism killed chivalry
No guys just realized they don't want to live to that standard. Ain't nothing wrong with that
Don't know what you have till you lose it. She selfish though, she didnt want him and the minute someone else sees his value she "change her mind." 😞
“You can’t text that” 💯
7 years? I wont even wait 1, lol.
omar brignoni lol
😂😂
For real
Better yet, few months! Life is too short to be chasing a woman that long
something wrong with u. have some morals
I havent even finished watching the video but as soon as she said 7 years Im sleeping with everybody I want to since Im clearly pursuing you and you are still playing games. Turned 90 days into over 2000 days!
Awwww her pet ran away from home and got fed some moist canned food instead of the dry kibble he's used to getting.
Why is this funny though? 🤣😂
Mr Steve keep your beard like that I like it like that
Seven years of rejection, and he still wants her.
😂
She's clearly stringing him along. She's giving him just enough hope that he will get with her someday. What will likely happen is she will find someone else, and dude will realize he wasted the better part of a decade pursuing her. It's best that he moves on and finds someone else because she plays too many games.
I love and agree wholeheartedly what uncle Steve is saying, but gotta give props to the girl. She didn’t argue. She thought about it and said “you’re right, Steve” that’s something to commend
I hate when people try to keep their options open. Don't put people on a waitlist. Love them or leave them.
Well, I would not want either of mine friends hooking up. As soon as they break up, get a sti, or become pregnant I would be in the middle of the drama. No one wants to choose sides, then I would end up loosing 2 friends as a result of a hookup.
Hey Y'all agreed
“You gotta look in somebody eyes and you gotta feel summ, you can’t text that!” As a 20 year old millennial Steve is RIGHT! It just sort of clicked for me that meeting in person is still necessary!
Ur generation Z not a millenial
This female played her self "That ain't the 90 day rule, you crazy" lmao
Mr Steve you look so nice with beard look
Thank you for discussing the sacrifice of dating/courtship for technological advances
Steve you makes old looks fun
Brilliant answers Mr Harvey Greetings from Lusburg ( Sierra Leone ).
25 waiting till marriage, never been on a date.
Why?
_Because I know what I want in a woman._
But if u have no relationship experience how will u navigate urs. Women ur age expect u to have some sort of experience (not in the bedroom)
@@pimphandstrong6620 @Wesley Gray thats b/c i court not go on dates. dating these days is overrated. people have more sexpectations than actual expectations, thats realistic. No sex reveals the true intentions of a person. sex is not love nor love is sex. its a expression of either how you love or how you lust in that person.
@Wesley Gray by having a relationship with God, he will teach you the ways of self sacrifice. its simple. if someone doesn't want to work out or solve problems, just stay single. if i do date i rather date in a Christian way, which is called courting. i date intentionally.
@@quentingreen8310 good luck!!🤞🤞
@@pimphandstrong6620 he is stupid , just because a person wants to have sex with you doesn't mean that they only want sex and don't want love
What happened to real dates?
I remember my first date when I was 18. I held the door for her & she looked at me like I was crazy, she told me don’t. I tried to get to know her but she was reluctant. I asked her what movie would she like to see & she said o I’ve seen all these films. At the end of the date, she said try to be less predictable.
3 years later...
She got knocked up by that typical bum ass dude with nothing going for himself & he’s a deadbeat daddy. She’s no longer with him cause he assaulted her. She text me saying she’s interested in talking to me again.
Me: Told her I’m not interested. And people wanna know what happened to real dating. Just like Dave Chappelle said “Chivalry is dead & women killed it”
7 years!??? Seriously???? Ha ha ha that’s too long)) Leave him alone that’s for sure))
TIlak Sevak exactly lol
Girl in the 2nd seat at 3:50 is absolutely breath taking
For all the ladies, imagine that guy in the friend zone starts dating your best friend...
I'm impressed wit' Steve on this episode. Especially after hearin' some of the things that've come out of his mouth about men today datin' woman. Not to mention that book he wrote some years back.
Men go through this type of thing all the time. And its usually the good men that have to go through this. So when women see us treating another woman how they want to be treated they start to show themselves. A man shouldn't have to show himself to prove himself. If he's a good man then he's a good man. Dont try to get in his way with someone else and make him seem like the bad guy to a woman he gave his all too just because you want to come into the picture. Because how you get them is how you lose them. Women just need to learn to give a man a fair chance. Not every guy is worth a chase. And not every guy needs to be changed.
Dreams NVA agreed
LOL Beard Steve is the best version of Steve yet! Less chill than ever before!
Why would a man go after a girl that rejected him for 7 YEARS ?!!?! I woulda been gone after the first rejection. There way better woman out there jus sayin 🤷🏼♂️
Women have a way of stringing good men along. They wait until he finds someone else, someone else shows interest in him, or when they hit the wall and their options are severely limited.
It never fails, as soon as someone else shows interest, u decide u want him.
Thats her fault me personally i wouldn't have waited 7 yrs....either we dating or im movin on ✌
My man rode out the friend zone for 7 years. He's stronger than all of us.
“What happened to real dates?”, simple the previous dating culture got replaced with hook up culture.
Master Yoda and women caused it.
Aliyah is dazzling!! best of luck to her!
"I told him no for 7 years but I'm jealous that he got with someone else"
I really hope that dipshirt was planted in the audience.
What happened to real dates?
The short answer is this, the definition of what counts as a real date and the rules and social obligations that you are expected to follow while on a real date changed over time, which is inevitable, seeing as dating is a social construct.
2:45- 2:55
If that bothers you, then simply changed your opinion about what does and does not count as a “real date” so that at least one of the social interactions in which you’ve engaged with a person to whom you are attracted counts as a real date. You can do that, since dating is a social construct.
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In the olden days, it was common for a young man to pick up his date and meet her at the front door. Many young women today would prefer to meet the guy at the restaurant, as having him pick you up would mean him knowing where you live. Young ladies of today would prefer to get to know a guy, make sure he doesn’t have a criminal record, before letting him know where you live.
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Just ask him out. Either he’s into you or he’s not. In the society in which we live, it is usually expected of the man to do the asking. However, I think that it should be more socially acceptable for the women to do the asking.
For a woman, if you are hit on by a guy you don’t like, it can be scary, because you might fear him getting angry maybe even becoming violent if you reject him, maybe he does not take rejection well.
Because men naturally have a higher sex drive than women, a man is far more likely than a woman to say yes to a proposition for sex. Even if a man is pursued by a woman he does not like, it is probably just annoying. If a woman is pursued by a man she does not like, it can be scary. That is why everyone would be happier if women pursuing men was normalized.
Leave that man alone 😒
Lucero Idalid Cordoba why??
Good show Steve, the millennials are smart, and always underrated.
3:12-3:20...I'm going to give this one a throw but what if you asked him out for dinner? If you want to do that and you know he likes you, why don't you just ask him?
Maybe because society taught us all that men are suppose to be the ones in pursuit of a partner. Plus, some men can easily be intimidated of asking women out with the fear of rejection.
So true internet can be good but for love it's not.
He's dumb for pursuing so long but he damn sure could have found someone other than her friend
Patrice Harrell exactly
I love Steve's advice 💖 Spot on
Uh, Yuck. Ya girl slept with him, NOW you want him after 7 years?!
She gives me, the best friend who will sleep with your man type.
Steve is a wise man
Bruh been pursuing her for 7yrs now hitting on her friends on an outing should tell u that he just wants her into his love trailer trust me.
Hey Steve, all the way from Nigeria I am always happy watching your TH-cam videos. I really appreciate you .
Dayum, Steve looking like Uncle Phil XD
Steve tells it like it is!
7 years?
He the damn fool and she crazy
1:28 that “huh?” from Steve 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I couldn’t help but crack up at that
Actually, what happened to Steve's "mustache only style"?
He got tired of everybody callin' him Mr. Potato Head.
Millennials know how to push up 💚
How is it her fault? She told him no for 7 YEARS - dude should have taken the no, respected her no, and moved on!
YumYumOrYuck exactly. Thank you!!! Why would he stay around so long, still pursuing her after she rejected him so many times??
Then she shouldn't be upset that he slept with her friend. They were never serious in the first place.
This is typical. Want someone once they've moved on.
Play hard to get too long and you don't get got
😂😂😂
I hope he is moved on and found someone that loved him back. 7 years, mxm, I'm glad he moved on. She shouldn't play with someone's feelings like that.
He looks like TD Jakes now....and I'm confused lol
Ashley Braxton 😂😂😂
I am done!
Y’all killed it
She did it to herself, if she liked him she should have went for it. She most likely was keeping him as a reserve in a glass box so she could date other guys and come back to him when she wants to.
yep on point, because he was not going anywhere. He has always been there for her.
I wouldn't give him nothin. Save yourself for your husband honey, and this guyis not that guy!
Ok Ms Lisa, I see you a grown woman 😉 *snap snap*
Agreed 💯👏🏽
Sounds like every bitter females response ...😂😂😂
Love the bread on Steve. Very nice.
But if he had hopes of ever being with her he should've thought about how awkward that would've made things if they did one they get together and he slept with her friend😣
While 7yrs is too long, the dude is not 100% correct in this situation either. She probably never thought he was serious because pursuing someone for 7yrs is not necessarily pursuing if you're just flirting and then going out on dates and sleeping around with other women which he obviously was doing in the first place in order for him to be so comfortable to sleep with her friend. Both of them were playing games. He liked the chase and she liked the attention.
Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
Wtf ! Steave with a beard !
I HATE that type of girl. Doesn’t really want the guy bad he’s not allowed to have anybody else either.
I once had a friend exactly like that. Her best friend was interested in her at first but she kept pushing him away and even got together with another guy, so he moved on and actually started to show interest in me. We were flirting for some time which already made her jealous and then at a party he kissed me at which point all hell broke lose. She completely freaked out, asked how we could do this to her, I didn’t understand the world anymore. In the end it destroyed the connection between us cause he didn’t want to lose their friendship
Make a move, otherwise stop playing with the guy!
Women are actually the problem in these scenarios. The same thing I've been saying for years.
7 years that dude was persistent gotta give him that. She just misses attention who would have thought 😂😂😂.
Nothing new....she liked being chased by a guy but when he turned to some other girl than she wants to compete and get back his attention even though she doesn't like him....and I bet Steve knew that....I just wonder what was in his mind while listening her story....I'd love to know what was he thinking
I’ve chased a women before and won’t do that again! Lessons learned. I’ll ask straight up now. If I get a “no” I move on quickly! Sometimes it’s a good idea to date others because sometimes that women may comeback to you later and then it’s up to you what you want to do?
Another thing, paying for dinners and expensive dates on a women that you may not see again isn’t worth it. All she is getting is a Hot Chocolate in the winter and Ice Cream in the summer. I’ve learned my lessons in the past.