The tantrum guy crying in the shower then rolling around on the floor was so funny. He knocks another woman up and he thinks “baby, don’t do this to us?” will work? 😂 I feel bad for her, but I appreciate her recording and sharing that with the world.
Charlotte, I wanna thank you for helping me bond with my dad. I grew up in a bad home and he was always away. He got me out of there when I needed him to, but we never really bonded. We don't talk much despite having a lot in common (social anxiety, lockdown, both of us being autistic, all that jazz). I started eating with him recently and I would play your videos while I eat. We started actively discussing stuff in your videos and then we started having active discussions about other things at other times. That only started because of your videos.
This is so wholesome! 😍 As this worked and you seem to have a lot in common, why not share other shows/channels that you enjoy with him and ask him what type of thing he likes to watch, so that you're both opening up to each other in a gentle, non-invasive way? Not everything will work, but things that are relatable and/or funny are often a hit when people have shared interests (things that match both of your senses of humour, for example), and will help you grow that parent-child relationship even stronger. Wishing you and your dad all the very best 💖👍
Totally spot on about the public proposal. My mother was a psychologist and she said for the better part of people doing public proposals is to trap that person into a committed yes.
I would hate a public proposal with a fire of a thousand suns. It would also tell me that he doesn't know me at all. Therefore it would be a resounding nope from me.
@@onerva0001 Surely if you don't want one you should not receive a public reposle. No argument there. My first husband gave a public proposal. He thought it was romantic I had my own thoughts but understood that he did it because he was trying to be romantic. He already knew what my answer would be, his motivation was entirely different. We're still friends the marriage lasted about 6 years.
Public proposals are only okay if it was already established beforehand that the couple will be getting married soon by both parties. The surprise should only be when and where. Not that it happens.
Then they grossly underestimate people like me who aren't swayed by peer pressure and dgaf if you're embarrassed or if I "should" feel embarassed....cuz I'm not!
I have SO much respect for that first woman. I think social media has kind of made people forget that real life isn't actually as dramatic as TV and cinema, and not everything has to be a big show for anyone and everyone watching. I'm with you Charlotte, I can't stand the idea of a public proposal (the one exception being my current partner, because as soon as we have the money for all that, I'm saying yes regardless of how he asks), and she handled it with so much class, and more importantly so much self-respect. What a queen.
ON. EVERYTHING. I'm so glad she recorded so she can't reasonably be smeared. Will she be smeared? Yes. Can those people justify this video REASONABLY? Absolutely not in any sense of that word 😂
@@oORiseAboveOo I want to see him pay 😊 My collegue had a cheating ex husband that gets around paying now by getting immigrant and unemployment benefits while resigning new jobs after two months (the gocernment does nothing and he gets more money with loans on a new account after they closed the first one because of his debt)
The fact that the grown a** man having the most pathetic temper tantrum is going to be a father is terrifying. Also if she was not already completely un-attracted to him for cheating, that would have finished the job.
I would've been afraid of tantrums. I think its a slippery slope of them putting hands on you. He's having the tantrum not because he was grieving a loss or asking forgiveness. He was having a tantrum because he could no longer gaslight his way. He knew his gig was up
@@bootsross At that point I'd call the cops just out of fear they may become belligerent and aggressive if I tried to kick them out (and to see if they can give them a mental health check)
The narcissistic man-child faking his "remorse" for getting another woman pregnant while being engaged had me crying I was laughing so hard! Yes, narcs are toddlers. They don't understand REAL emotions, so they FAKE them. They actually believe that going over the top like this makes it more real, LOL! So ridiculous, but I'm grateful for the much needed laughs. Thanks, Charlotte! 🤣
oh, I 100% believe the emotion behind his tantrum was real. And he could be feeling remorse. The same kinda remorse that kids feel when they do something they were told not to do and now they are gonna face the consequences of it, but with kids its acceptable. I had a grown man do this shit to me when I finally broke up with him because he pushed me to my limit after a year and change of him gas lighting and manipulating me. He also had these tantrums if I said no to having sex when I was pregnant with his child and having sex hurt so, so much. Its so disgusting.
The one about the dad giving advice when he cheated on the mom is so relatable for me. My dad ran away with my godmother when I was 3, decides to ignore the fact that I exist anymore (because i'm his only daughter) he has 2 other kids with this homewrecker and has a 20+ year marriage. Just this past year, this woman goes and cheats on him and takes him to the cleaners for his pension, house, everything. At 54 years old he had to go move back in with his mother. Everyone is saying I should feel sorry for him... but I don't. You threw me away for this woman and expect me to just welcome you back into my life? Expect me to give you a granddaughter (you have never even met your grandson ever) and life can be all hunky-dory? No. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
This is the exact way I feel about my mom, who assaulted me in several ways and almost killed me several times before 1yo. No. I don't want you around me. No, you will never see your grandchildren. You don't deserve them and we don't deserve you
Good for you!! Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise! For your own sake, I think you should forgive and let go (if you haven’t already), but that absolutely does not mean to let him into your life. No no no. Sometimes people need to learn hard lessons. Karma is real, and unfortunately sometimes we have to be the ones to deliver it. Wishing you and your family all the best 💜💜💜
When I was like 13 or 14, my father would ask me for dating advice when he was dating women online. If anything didn’t go his way, he’d blame me. I was like “Sir, I’m 13, and aren’t you the one who cheated on my mom which is why you’re in this position in the first place???? 🤨” It’s wild out there, ladies (and gentlemen).
Not that whole grown ass man reverting to a toddler... She was the one who got cheated on and HE has the nerve to cry? Entitled, childish, sad sad man. 🙄 Mad respect to the first woman too, she was so brave, calm and composed despite what she went through and she came out the other side as a baddie while he became an even bigger loser. 😌 Love your videos, Charlotte, keep slaying, Queen! 🧡
She's brave to post that! I'd be embarrassed to admit that I was engaged to this baby-man! She's doing the Lord's work though, giving other women a head's up about this guy and others like him who never grew up.
Did anyone read that he had gotten another woman pregnant? There was nothing funny here. This is disgusting. This man ruined 2 women’s future and that baby has an idiot for a father.
That first woman is a queen. I could never keep my cool like that. I mean I wouldn’t have publicly humiliated him, but I would’ve publicly shamed him to his family. 😂
My first husband cheated on me so many times, 42x in 18 months. So not only did I kick his sorry ass out very publicly, to Jojo’s ‘leave’ (I’m dating myself a bit). But I also cut off his left pant leg on every pair of pants, took his shoe laces, cut the tongues from his shoes, stole one sock out of every pair of socks, cut holes in his favorite ratty shirt, but I also posted to each of his family members the reason why it was done. His granny didn’t talk to him till our daughter was almost 10. None of his family liked him after that. In fact even his brother quit talking to him. I honestly didn’t want to break him from his family. That was never my intent, but they were done with him after that because he was just that horrible of a human. They finally talked to him again after he married the woman he cheated on me and on his other ex gf with. He still a cheater too. I tell his wife all the time she deserves better. She’s disabled and sick all the time and this man is still out here sticking things where they don’t belong.
@@erikarussell1142 GET OUT, right now - it's the end of youuu and meeee. It's too late and I can't wait for you to. be. gone cause I know, about her (who?!) and I wonder (WHY?!), how I bought alll the lies. 🤣🤣
That last one reminded me of the crying fit my ex-husband pulled the day I was moving back home...with our two-year-old son. I caught him cheating, he didn't even try to deny it. Four days later I packed up and moved home. He, his father, and one of our neighbors came over to help me pack the truck. He sat down in the now-empty living room, on the floor, and cried like a baby. I just looked at him and said: "You did this."
Exactly! You always have to tell them they did this, no one else. Specially when they say stuff like the guy in the video "I did nothing". If they repeat stuff enough they start to believe it as if its true... It's so sad to see a man across like a child when there's literally a child on the way...
I will die on the hill that public proposals are a manipulation tactic to get you to say yes. Especially if you have not discussed marriage before that.
Agree 1000% I think the ONLY way they're ever ok is if you have been discussing marriage, you're sure you're on the same page about it , and you know for sure the person would like a public proposal. Like, if my husband had proposed on the jumbo tron, I would have been fine with that, we were head over heels in love and had discussed a long future together and even children. But if my previous boyfriend had tried it, I think I would have literally run out of the building, lol
I hundred percent agree!! I can understand if the husband does something kind of like in the office where they tell her that he's going to propose somewhere and she's comfortable with that, but not where and when and so she gets to look forward to it, thats okay. However, unless it's a very specific exception public proposals are just awful. You're rolling the dice on whether your partner is at all OK with it, and for me personally, it would be causing me so much more stress.
Yeah, but on the other hand, private proposals don't really give you the option to get away from the other person if they react badly to rejection or if you take too long to answer 😅
I'm very glad my husband did not publicly propose. We were on a sofa in a cabin my parents had rented. It was almost midnight. We had been to a church service in which the pastor spoke about the importance of family. His family was in SoCal, and we were in Prescott, Arizona, so I apologized for him being left out of the service. He responded, "Well, do you want to change that?" I said, "Are you proposing?" And he said, "Yes. Do you want to marry me?" A week before Christmas we will have been married 30 years. I'm so thankful for this man! ❤
Mine was during a night we were sitting at the table taking shots here and there, and visiting with our grown children. I was wearing a bunny suit onesie with the hood up (so I had giant pink ears on my head) and all of a sudden my love comes out of the kitchen with his hand in his pocket, leans down for a kiss, and swiftly moved to one knee. I must’ve looked quizzical, because he giggled and then our oldest (his first marriage) pulled out her phone and started snapping all the pictures. Me wearing a bunny suit, us all gathered and having fun in our home. Giving my life all of the fulfillment. I was so spilled over with love and happiness all I did was cry and blubber. And put on the ring. Lol
Yup. Guy tried a similar thing on my mother, while ahe was still in college and before she met my dad, etc. They were long distance (he was military, got assigned way out of state) but THANK ANY GODS she found out about the other woman pretty much right after getting engaged. He didn’t deny it but justified himself saying ‘men have needs’ and that he totes wouldn’t cheat after they were married. 🤮🤮🤮 Needless to say, she permanently showed him the door.
the man throwing a full blown tantrum made me LAUGH SO HARD I CHOKED ON MY WATER LIKE THAT'S A FULL GROWN ADULT CRYING OVER THE CONSEQUENCES OF HIS OWN ACTIONS 😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂 it was the shower part for me. And then the cough/choke/gag 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she was so calm I would have been roasting his ass so hard. But she nailed it. "Don't touch my items!!!!"😂😂😂😂
I knew my ex cheated on me after I had been diagnosed with a rare blood infection that was only passed through body fluids. I came to terms with it quietly and on my own, but there was still that concern you have when that infection could kill someone with a weak immune system. I told him he'd have to get tested and to please tell his mistress as well... he INSTANTLY collapsed into a blubbering blob of patheticness (red flag) and denied, denied, denied, never mind that I just told him he could have killed me. I rolled my eyes at him and left. Long story short, he "dumped" me, but had another meltdown after I told him I already signed a lease on a new apartment 🤣
As for the first lady, a non-reaction can be a way more powerful reaction. They expect you to go crazy, so when you don't, it ends up messing with their head. Stay classy, be stoic, learn your lessons and move on. It's the difference between being a "petty queen" or being a "QUEEN". Your dignity will be your crown 👑
But what she did was not dignified, it was just desperate. You can say “No thanks, but I think your mistress wants to speak to you “ and give his phone back without screaming. You don’t have to suck it up, suffer in silence, continue sleeping with the pig and lie to everyone. Stop caring so much about what others think.
@@elainehelms4076 agreed. But it oftentimes takes us longer than others. Especially with childhood abandonment/codepency issues. It’s very real and very dominant. Takes a lifetime to untangle those dynamics. But you’re totally right.
It is bizarre how my heart was breaking during my investigation on my ex cheater, but i wound up laughing once I confronted him and he went through the ENTIRE list of cheater remorse from crying -blame game with a dramatic performance befitting a Spanish soap.
That grown man throwing a whole ass tantrum, saying "please don't do this to us" and "I didn't do nothing" like he isn't the one who impregnated someone other than his fiance 😮💨🥴
Tbh the biggest praise I have for the first woman keeping her cool, is not ruining the magic and happiness for the other park visitors - especially the children. I wouldn’t have blamed her if she hadn’t been able to keep her cool before dragging him away. But all the same, Queen 👸
Sometimes you need to do the breakup in public. She must have known he had the potential to act like that. I would have called the police after 10 minutes of this. Like, please get him out of here, I'll file the restraining order tomorrow.
The sound of him throwing that bawling fit would've become my ring/textones if I was her. My justification for it is: You played me, now I'll "play" you. I'll sit down now.
I’ve started responding to things with “Here. iPad. Cocomelon. iPad. Take it.” Even if it’s just my kid (he’s a teenager) telling a story about how a kid at school threw a child-like fit or if my husband tells me yet again how his co-workers threw a fit over being told to wash their hands or over being sent home for being sick (they have _paid_ sick days, yet they still come to work with a fever and dripping snot everywhere. Wtf?). I’ve been tempted to say it to my FIL’s face because lately he’s been going on a tirade because my son wears pink or paints his nails. Only reason I haven’t is because he wouldn’t get it, so instead we just say goodbye to MIL and leave.
@@Annie_Annie__ Yeah, you need to find an equivalent he understands. Y’know, like asking him if he needs his security blanket, or clucking your tongue and saying, “Someone needs a nap.” Possibly tell him if he doesn’t calm down he’s gonna have to go into time out. Jingle your keys in front of him and croon, “Look, buddy… shiiineey….” That’s Boomers/Gen X level patronizing, from a member of Gen X. Seeing as how he would likely not care that pink’s gender associations are a societal construct and it is arguably weird for anyone to paint their nails but hardly serious either way.
That dog vomiting cracked me up so bad! Kudos to your editor for the stuff they add to your videos! The combination of you and the little memes and stuff are perfection. ❤
I Stan a person being willing to stand their ground and say no a public proposal rather than feel compelled to say yes. Not dissing those who said yes because of that, but seriously that takes guts to say no and walk off knowing people may talking about you without knowing context.
To the man having a tantrum: to quote Charlotte 'how are you NOT EMBARRASSED??' ... The first lady seemed genuinely lovely and I hope she's living her best life now. Honestly if that happened to me I would probably freeze and have no idea what to do so kudos to her for being so composed
That absolute baby level temper tantrum was so HILARIOUS 😂 I could feel her cold disdain and amusement through the screen. I wish I could thank her for recording that for posterity 😊 Edit: 14:14 for the beginning of the hilarity 😂
I told my fiancé that if he did a big public proposal I would say no. I prefer private proposals that are intimate and that’s what he did. It was beautiful at a botanical gardens in the spring on our anniversary when the trees were full of flowers. On the bridge over the koi pond. There was one employee around taking her break in the Japanese garden about 100 ft away and she quickly took a picture when she saw he was proposing and came over to offer us the pictures she took. It was a beautiful day!
Congratulations!! 🍾🎉 Sounds like your hubby-to-be is amazing, and planned a perfect, memorable proposal. 🥰 Wishing you both a lifetime of love and bliss together! 💝
Yes! I don’t know if I would have said no necessarily if my husband proposed in a public setting but I very much would have been very uncomfortable and embarrassed. He actually did propose in our favorite place where we went on our first date (outdoors at a waterfall♥️). But afterwards he told me he initially planned on taking us somewhere nice but very public and I’m so thankful he chose the private intimate option in the end♥️
“Where’s the iPad?” Omg!!!!!! Charlotte that got me!!!! When my sisters get frustrated I do that to them and look for coco melon and it always seems to ease them out of it!!!! Love you!!!! 💙💙💙💙
I had to share what happened this past weekend. My husband and I went to Walmart. He was going down an aisle and I was trying to get his attention and I yelled "Hey". Four men around my husband and my husband all stopped with looks on their face of the" oh s*** what did I do". The power women have that they don't even know they have 😁 We all had a good laugh😂
LOL! I loved going shopping with my parents because they sometimes misbehaved in the store for fun. One of Dad's favorite moves was to sneak up on Mom and surprise her with a light swat on the butt. We were at a department store once, and I saw Dad in stealth mode, sneaking up... Oh CRAP! That's not my mom, but it's a woman who looks just like her from behind. I loudly yelled, "HEY DADDY!" just before he started his arm swing, the woman turned around, and I saw Dad's face go white. I saved him some embarrassment, and possibly an assault charge!
My husband and I love watching your videos, it's practically a ritual when I get off work to sit together, cuddle, and laugh with you- your reactions are awesome and the laughter my husband has makes me fall in love with him all over again, thank you so much for being a bright end to our day!
Honestly, if my partner decided that the best time to propose to me was in front of a stadium full of people and we had never discussed the possibility of marriage, I’d have walked out completely. Out of the stadium and out of their life. I don’t like being the center of attention, especially to that extent 😳😖
Yeah honestly I don't understand what.... What they don't get... Why the hell would you surprise ANYBODY with ANYTHING (other than a small gift MAYBE... MAYBE?)... Let alone a (supposed to be) LIFETIME of marriage 🤦♀️
*Keeping your cool is not smacking the ring out his hand and calling him a cheating scum. Dignity is saying, "As you were doing this...yes, folks, while he was proposing in front of you all, to me, his MISTRESS has been blowing up his phone! So no, I will not marry you, no matter how much I love you, because you are not to be trusted and I deserve so much more than that."*
Nah. She shouldn’t have taken the ring but I’m not doing all of that in front of thousands of people. I’d just open the messages, he hands me the ring, I hand him the phone and walk/run away.
@@redeye1016 it is possible to be composed while still angry, and some people are articulate in many situations. Just because _you_ couldn't stay relatively calm, doesn't mean everyone cannot.
Being petty and vindictive may seem satisfying but what the first lady did was realistically the best way to walk out with dignity and mental peace. Kudos to her for being so mature about it.
The best revenge is really not needing revenge, because NOTHING hurts as bad as someone not giving a shit. I learned that from a guy I dated when I was young. When we broke up, I wrote him a letter and he later explained why it was a bad move and how nothing itself would have been more hurtful, but he knew he had gotten to me. I learned at 16. I remember a guy breaking up with me in college, he came to my house and made his little speech and I just asked "was that all? You can go, I have stuff to do." He later told me how bad that hurt him..... point proven. I don't give a shit anymore about people who don't deserve anything from me. Its freeing, once I let you go, you're gone and I forget you.
Yeah, grudges and revenges take time and effort that some people just don't deserve. Better to just move on with your life and not waste another second on someone that doesn't deserve your time.
At the end of the day, narcissists win IF they break who you are fundamentally. She didn’t want a messy, embarrassing situation and learned from it. She won hands down.
Sorry but what a ton of bs, she wasted more time on him than necessary and on top of that had to pay for therapy. She was pathetic - and still lies to herself about how it was "self-preservation" and "acting from shadows" If she doesn't have a back bone to call him out publicly she should cut him off after the circus, she didn't She lost - and its still visible in her
16:15 I fully had a grown man break down in tears after I found out he cheated on me, then he had HIS MOM CALL ME to ask me to give him another chance. WE WERE IN OUR TWENTIES!!
"Can't find money for a lawyer but can find for audacity" 😂 and Charlotte making sounds of a Dj. God, Charlotte is the best. She ALWAYS finds a way to makes us laugh. ♥️😂
That guy throwing a tempertantrum was so over the top, he a bad actor too 😂 I feel sorry for his girlfriend, she stayed so chill she's obviously a cool person 😊❤
I just have to say that first woman had way more patience and restraint then I would’ve. First off, I would never cheat on my partner. Second, if I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me when I was proposing to her, I would have no problem publicly shaming her because she pretty much humiliated me in public. Also, I’ve been dumped by a girlfriend in high school in front of the whole class and people laughed at me so I’m no stranger to this. God bless that woman, I hope she’s found a better man. ❤
How cruel of people to laugh at you! No class in that class! May the Lord make your future bright and give you a treasure of a lady to be your beloved.
Was that guy for real, doing an immature toddler tantrum on the floor, sobbing fully clothed in the shower, calling to the ceiling on his knees?? Did he seriously try every classic cheesy movie trope as if someone died, this can’t be for real, there’s no way 😂
Once you lose respect for someone, it is nearly impossible for them to get it back, and absolutely it does affect the way that you see them and the way that you’re attracted to them. My ex was the exact type of guy that I like physically and after everything that went down between us and me, losing every ounce of respect that I had for him. I was never attracted to him, and never could look at him the same ever again.
He was love bombing her because he had been cheating on her, and he felt the big grandiose display of "love" would win her over and cover up his infidelity.
I am so proud of that first one for handling it the way she did, and keeping it real when telling the story. We all like to think we could dump his ass at that point, but like she said she invested in- and loved him devotedly for 2y at that point and JUST found out abt this cheating. I feel like it's good that she took the time to reassess everything, and all the love for her healing journey ❤
Men who do that "propose in very public area" are hoping to force you into agreeing to not embarrass either of you. It's sus as heck. I never told my parents that my ex cheated on me after 20 years of marriage; when they noticed his car was not parked at the house I just said we "decided to call it a day" and that's all they knew until they passed away. I was so embarrassed my mouth would not form the words...
I think knowing your future wife is key and some women do want a public proposal and to be the center of attention and that's cool as long as you know! If this starting happening to me... yea, I'd walk out too because I wouldn't want this at all. But its not fair to all women to say it means something bad. Consent is key. As for the cheating, any man can do that even if he gives you the proposal you want. I'm sorry your ex cheated on you - especially after 20 years... there are plenty of decent men out there. Early in my parents marriage, my dad cheated on my mom. She gave him some ultimatums and he got his absolute shit together and I'm so grateful for them both doing that. They've now been married 52 years and have a great life in their retirement and a very happy marriage, my dad is utterly devoted to her. I love my dad so much and I can't imagine him not being there everyday for me growing up.
I live in the south and my whole family is in Oregon. Well, my dad was dying of cancer. In 2020, my boyfriend surprised me with tickets home. He got to meet my dad for the first time. Unknown to me. He asked my dad for permission to marry me. The next day, we drove to the beach where he proposed as we were watching the waves of the ocean. We eloped that December in NYC in Central Park. Sadly , my dad passed in June of that year, but I know he was proud. Our anniversary is today!
13:30 “God. Instagram. Life.” Yup. Perfect sentiment. I have never understood people that bother looking through things and second guessing everything their SO does/ says because they don’t trust them. That’s a you problem till it ain’t. If they are doing something, it’ll come out soon enough without you losing sleep over it. They are sleeping just fine, why should you be doing the most?
Listening to Charlotte laugh, I have to wonder if Mike's ever in the other room, hearing Charlotte laugh & carry on, and if he busts out laughing at her laughing? 😂
Watching this a week after ending a long-term relationship (just fell out of love, no cheating) and while I'm feeling guilty as hell for hurting my ex in this way, I'm just glad that I didn't have to deal with any cheating. Thanks Charlotte for giving me thousands of videos to binge on to cheer me up.
Wow, harsh! But it might help her feel less guilt... Which of course she shouldn't. Because even though he hurts now, he definitely deserves real love, not guilty feeling fake and obligatory love for the next 30 years. She did a kind and loving thing by releasing him to find someone who'll have long term love for him. I'm sure they can now both find that now they are free.
My hoo-ha just made the windows shut down noise seeing that last guy thrown a temper tantrum like a damned toddler after CHEATING on his fiancé. The audacity is unreal. 😂 Can't cheaters just be upfront that they want to be with more than one person and not waste monogamous people's time?
My ex cheated on me after 4 years together. He broke my heart but i learned that being happy is the best revenge. I know someday i will find someone who really loves me. And until that i'm gonna live my life with my heart full of joy and hope, because no one deserves our tears.
"This absolutely cannot be my life right now" - the girl was giving a hilarious commentary to her ex-fiance's childish behaviour . Charlotte trying to help out with the ipad . 😂
The coco melon bit had me coughing laughing so hard; also, the coughing crying cutaway with the dog had me giggling so long. Charlotte we do not deserve you! PS: if you ever do a video on ableism and need a disabled guest hmu.
The woman who ditched the guy that threw a tantrum like a 6 year old really dodged a bullet. He wasn't crying about losing her, he was crying because he realise he fucked up his life 😂
I am so impressed that woman had the moxie to not only calmly dealt with her fianceé cheating and knocking up another woman, then turning into a 2 year old.... but then that she posted it on the internet! Ovaries of steel. My humblest condolences.... and high fives for being such a baws 😂
When I was cheated on, I didn’t give the ring 💍 back. I gave it along with several of his favorite things to the sweet homeless man who’s well known in the area. The cheater was never nice to him which should have been a huge red flag 🚩 9:37
In my country there is a law: presents made during engagement have to be returned if there is a break- up. So you have to return the ring. But I love what you did.
I'm sorry, did the full grown man having a toddler melt down after cheating and getting another woman pregnant really just say, "Don't do this to us!!!" ??????😮😳🤯💀😂🤣
Flashback trauma from the first queen story. I was holding my ex's phone when they went to check on our daughter's suicidal boyfriend. All these sexually intimate texts start showing up from the guy who was the BEST MAN at our wedding. Turns out they had been having an affair for years. Plus, other partners as well. Respect to her for giving the ring back. I'm way too petty. I kept the house, lol!
Loving the mermaid colours in your room really flatters your eyes!!! Keep em! The pink blinded your gorgeous hair gal! I'm rewatching your whole channel for the 3RD FREAKING TIME!!! Keep going for us all! Sending hugs from Scotland 🏴🎉
The first woman…I love how she DIDN’T let her emotions control her, but realized (how smart is this as a life tool!!) that she needed to respond to the situation rather than react. She kept her cool, got her emotions under control, then let her reasoning head take control. She is to be admired for handling this entire very sad and traumatizing situation like an intelligent person rather than an immature, emotion driven individual.
7:43 I don’t like public proposals either! My beau did a private one, but it was still super special and our dog was there 🥰 (It’s funny tho, we’ve been engaged for like 7-8 yrs now.. we bought a house together, have a kid, a dog, a gecko, road tripped across the USA in an RV together. I love him, he loves me, and neither one is pressuring the other to get married. Weddings are so expensive and stressful. I do want to have a party to celebrate us, but I’m not in a hurry… and it’ll definitely be a chill, 420 friendly vibe 😋
That girl talking about her dad giving her relationship advice even though he cheated on her mom, made me think about when my mom was giving me parenting advice even though she abandoned me and my sister when we were 2 and 5. Like, are you for real?
Parents think they have the right to give us advice no matter what. Just because you gave birth to me doesn't mean you can't still make garbage decisions.
@saracantrell7071 exactly! My mom is on her 4th marriage, she has 3 kids with 4 guys, and they weren't all 4 of her husbands. She lost custody of 3 out of 4 of us. She's a raging, angry alcoholic. She is so fake too. It actually made me so irritated when she was trying to give me advice.
Public Proposals are ONLY for after you already know the answer. If its coming as a surprise, you're pulling some shady shit lol. My husband did a public proposal but only because it had already been discussed. I knew I wanted to marry him and he knew and did too, so he did it as a gesture and it was so sweet
That first woman was a class act. I hope that guy lives the rest of his life regretting how he let her get away. Whoever she ends up marrying is going to be a lucky guy.
I really don't understand how people can cheat and cause so much pain to their partner. They don't care about the person they're with at all, if you're gonna cheat leave the person don't freaking hurt them like that man.
Absolutely hate public proposals, my EX fiancé (boyfriend of 6 years) did that and convinced his sister it was a good idea to do it at HER wedding, sharing the day with baby brother 🤮 was only engaged for 6 months and I left
Golly dang these make me appreciate my fiancé. He proposed on a mountain top and specifically waited until other hikers had moved on and we were the only ones up there. No secret photographer or anything. Just me and him on top of the world. He also doesn’t throw tantrums like an actual toddler so that’s nice, too.
The girl that gave the ring back showed so much class! She didn't feed into his shit show. She also dodged a big Bullitt, he would have never been faithful. So good for you girl!
The tantrum guy crying in the shower then rolling around on the floor was so funny. He knocks another woman up and he thinks “baby, don’t do this to us?” will work? 😂 I feel bad for her, but I appreciate her recording and sharing that with the world.
Good thing she's not marrying him anymore! He has some audacity to ask her to take him back after he knocked up another woman!
He's definitely confused about who is the one "doing this to us"
He should go be a father to his new baby. (As a partner to the mother, or not.)
"Don't touch my items" 😂😂
He got caught in the artificial rain for dramatic effect!
Charlotte, I wanna thank you for helping me bond with my dad.
I grew up in a bad home and he was always away. He got me out of there when I needed him to, but we never really bonded. We don't talk much despite having a lot in common (social anxiety, lockdown, both of us being autistic, all that jazz).
I started eating with him recently and I would play your videos while I eat. We started actively discussing stuff in your videos and then we started having active discussions about other things at other times. That only started because of your videos.
I'm glad you got your dad back 😊
That’s awesome, what a great idea to do together!
That’s so sweet
This is so wholesome! 😍 As this worked and you seem to have a lot in common, why not share other shows/channels that you enjoy with him and ask him what type of thing he likes to watch, so that you're both opening up to each other in a gentle, non-invasive way? Not everything will work, but things that are relatable and/or funny are often a hit when people have shared interests (things that match both of your senses of humour, for example), and will help you grow that parent-child relationship even stronger.
Wishing you and your dad all the very best 💖👍
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Totally spot on about the public proposal.
My mother was a psychologist and she said for the better part of people doing public proposals is to trap that person into a committed yes.
I would hate a public proposal with a fire of a thousand suns. It would also tell me that he doesn't know me at all. Therefore it would be a resounding nope from me.
@@onerva0001 Surely if you don't want one you should not receive a public reposle. No argument there.
My first husband gave a public proposal. He thought it was romantic I had my own thoughts but understood that he did it because he was trying to be romantic. He already knew what my answer would be, his motivation was entirely different.
We're still friends the marriage lasted about 6 years.
Public proposals are only okay if it was already established beforehand that the couple will be getting married soon by both parties. The surprise should only be when and where. Not that it happens.
Then they grossly underestimate people like me who aren't swayed by peer pressure and dgaf if you're embarrassed or if I "should" feel embarassed....cuz I'm not!
I have SO much respect for that first woman. I think social media has kind of made people forget that real life isn't actually as dramatic as TV and cinema, and not everything has to be a big show for anyone and everyone watching. I'm with you Charlotte, I can't stand the idea of a public proposal (the one exception being my current partner, because as soon as we have the money for all that, I'm saying yes regardless of how he asks), and she handled it with so much class, and more importantly so much self-respect. What a queen.
*watches a grown man throw a toddler-style tantrum*
*Charlotte pulls out an iPad*
"Cocomelon?"
That SENT me! Your reaction was everything lol
IM DYING
He becane a three year old
YEEEEESSSSSS
What an idiot!! When he was making a baby - he didn’t seem to care then!!!!
"Don't touch my items." Love it. I can confirm that they really do throw tantrums like that sometimes.
ON. EVERYTHING.
I'm so glad she recorded so she can't reasonably be smeared. Will she be smeared? Yes. Can those people justify this video REASONABLY? Absolutely not in any sense of that word 😂
Can confirm ☠️
Was he throwing a tantrum because she’s breaking up with him, or because he has to pay 18 years of child support?
Yes, men do throw tantrum exactly like that 30, 40, 50 year old and they throw tantrums. LOL!
@@oORiseAboveOo I want to see him pay 😊
My collegue had a cheating ex husband that gets around paying now by getting immigrant and unemployment benefits while resigning new jobs after two months (the gocernment does nothing and he gets more money with loans on a new account after they closed the first one because of his debt)
The fact that the grown a** man having the most pathetic temper tantrum is going to be a father is terrifying. Also if she was not already completely un-attracted to him for cheating, that would have finished the job.
I would've been afraid of tantrums. I think its a slippery slope of them putting hands on you. He's having the tantrum not because he was grieving a loss or asking forgiveness. He was having a tantrum because he could no longer gaslight his way. He knew his gig was up
@@bootsross
At that point I'd call the cops just out of fear they may become belligerent and aggressive if I tried to kick them out (and to see if they can give them a mental health check)
What you said! 😂😂
The narcissistic man-child faking his "remorse" for getting another woman pregnant while being engaged had me crying I was laughing so hard! Yes, narcs are toddlers. They don't understand REAL emotions, so they FAKE them. They actually believe that going over the top like this makes it more real, LOL! So ridiculous, but I'm grateful for the much needed laughs. Thanks, Charlotte! 🤣
Don't put toddlers on their level. They're better behaved
Yup! I’ve experienced the crocodile tears on their knees bulllllshit
That was so much. Just wow.
oh, I 100% believe the emotion behind his tantrum was real. And he could be feeling remorse. The same kinda remorse that kids feel when they do something they were told not to do and now they are gonna face the consequences of it, but with kids its acceptable. I had a grown man do this shit to me when I finally broke up with him because he pushed me to my limit after a year and change of him gas lighting and manipulating me. He also had these tantrums if I said no to having sex when I was pregnant with his child and having sex hurt so, so much. Its so disgusting.
To be honest that was honestly just pathetic. Like if that happened to me I would’ve kicked him out right then and there.
The one about the dad giving advice when he cheated on the mom is so relatable for me.
My dad ran away with my godmother when I was 3, decides to ignore the fact that I exist anymore (because i'm his only daughter) he has 2 other kids with this homewrecker and has a 20+ year marriage. Just this past year, this woman goes and cheats on him and takes him to the cleaners for his pension, house, everything. At 54 years old he had to go move back in with his mother.
Everyone is saying I should feel sorry for him... but I don't. You threw me away for this woman and expect me to just welcome you back into my life? Expect me to give you a granddaughter (you have never even met your grandson ever) and life can be all hunky-dory? No.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Karma got him!
Stick to your boundaries ❤
This is the exact way I feel about my mom, who assaulted me in several ways and almost killed me several times before 1yo. No. I don't want you around me. No, you will never see your grandchildren. You don't deserve them and we don't deserve you
Good for you!! Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise! For your own sake, I think you should forgive and let go (if you haven’t already), but that absolutely does not mean to let him into your life. No no no. Sometimes people need to learn hard lessons. Karma is real, and unfortunately sometimes we have to be the ones to deliver it. Wishing you and your family all the best 💜💜💜
When I was like 13 or 14, my father would ask me for dating advice when he was dating women online. If anything didn’t go his way, he’d blame me. I was like “Sir, I’m 13, and aren’t you the one who cheated on my mom which is why you’re in this position in the first place???? 🤨” It’s wild out there, ladies (and gentlemen).
Not that whole grown ass man reverting to a toddler... She was the one who got cheated on and HE has the nerve to cry? Entitled, childish, sad sad man. 🙄 Mad respect to the first woman too, she was so brave, calm and composed despite what she went through and she came out the other side as a baddie while he became an even bigger loser. 😌 Love your videos, Charlotte, keep slaying, Queen! 🧡
My response was "omg a literal toddler eww" just as i saw that part lol 😅
The joke of a man bawling his eyes as if he was undergoing an exorcism had me laughing my a$$ off. Honestly, It was music to my ears .😂😂😂
She's brave to post that! I'd be embarrassed to admit that I was engaged to this baby-man! She's doing the Lord's work though, giving other women a head's up about this guy and others like him who never grew up.
For me it was him choking for a bit then doing his little foot flailings on the floor 😂😂
Exorcism 🤣🤣🤣 seriously. You want to know what kids are like? That was all of it 😂
Did anyone read that he had gotten another woman pregnant? There was nothing funny here. This is disgusting. This man ruined 2 women’s future and that baby has an idiot for a father.
There aren’t any tears!! His eyes are bone dry! 😂😂😂😂
That first woman is a queen. I could never keep my cool like that. I mean I wouldn’t have publicly humiliated him, but I would’ve publicly shamed him to his family. 😂
God, idk HOW she did it! Bless her! 😂 I would have lost my sh...
@@kristenwilliams3632lord would’ve had to help him after I was done 😂😅
My first husband cheated on me so many times, 42x in 18 months. So not only did I kick his sorry ass out very publicly, to Jojo’s ‘leave’ (I’m dating myself a bit). But I also cut off his left pant leg on every pair of pants, took his shoe laces, cut the tongues from his shoes, stole one sock out of every pair of socks, cut holes in his favorite ratty shirt, but I also posted to each of his family members the reason why it was done. His granny didn’t talk to him till our daughter was almost 10. None of his family liked him after that. In fact even his brother quit talking to him. I honestly didn’t want to break him from his family. That was never my intent, but they were done with him after that because he was just that horrible of a human. They finally talked to him again after he married the woman he cheated on me and on his other ex gf with. He still a cheater too. I tell his wife all the time she deserves better. She’s disabled and sick all the time and this man is still out here sticking things where they don’t belong.
FR, if it happened to me, I'd probably say "no" while chuckling like a d*ck who just told an inappropriate joke 😂
@@erikarussell1142 GET OUT, right now - it's the end of youuu and meeee. It's too late and I can't wait for you to. be. gone cause I know, about her (who?!) and I wonder (WHY?!), how I bought alll the lies. 🤣🤣
I love how she was throwing glitter everywhere but was careful to avoid the pet food bowls in the bathroom. Petty but not evil. ❤
I love when that last man was crying and he begs of his gf, “Babe, please!”, and she says, “Nah”, all blasé. She is done caring, Priceless.
i mean if you're going to cheat at least don't get the other woman pregnant. that's next level of complicated
That last one reminded me of the crying fit my ex-husband pulled the day I was moving back home...with our two-year-old son.
I caught him cheating, he didn't even try to deny it. Four days later I packed up and moved home.
He, his father, and one of our neighbors came over to help me pack the truck.
He sat down in the now-empty living room, on the floor, and cried like a baby.
I just looked at him and said: "You did this."
Awesome. If he cried like that guy, i would have thought he was pathetic and him trying to get me to feel bad wouldn't work.
Exactly! You always have to tell them they did this, no one else. Specially when they say stuff like the guy in the video "I did nothing". If they repeat stuff enough they start to believe it as if its true... It's so sad to see a man across like a child when there's literally a child on the way...
I will die on the hill that public proposals are a manipulation tactic to get you to say yes. Especially if you have not discussed marriage before that.
Agree 1000%
I think the ONLY way they're ever ok is if you have been discussing marriage, you're sure you're on the same page about it , and you know for sure the person would like a public proposal.
Like, if my husband had proposed on the jumbo tron, I would have been fine with that, we were head over heels in love and had discussed a long future together and even children.
But if my previous boyfriend had tried it, I think I would have literally run out of the building, lol
I hundred percent agree!! I can understand if the husband does something kind of like in the office where they tell her that he's going to propose somewhere and she's comfortable with that, but not where and when and so she gets to look forward to it, thats okay. However, unless it's a very specific exception public proposals are just awful. You're rolling the dice on whether your partner is at all OK with it, and for me personally, it would be causing me so much more stress.
My first marriage was a public proposal. And yes, I caved and said yes. I walked out after three years. Met the love of my life six months later.
Yeah, but on the other hand, private proposals don't really give you the option to get away from the other person if they react badly to rejection or if you take too long to answer 😅
@@heatherlowe7330that’s why you do them somewhere public but still private without making it a spectacle.
I'm very glad my husband did not publicly propose. We were on a sofa in a cabin my parents had rented. It was almost midnight. We had been to a church service in which the pastor spoke about the importance of family. His family was in SoCal, and we were in Prescott, Arizona, so I apologized for him being left out of the service. He responded, "Well, do you want to change that?"
I said, "Are you proposing?" And he said, "Yes. Do you want to marry me?"
A week before Christmas we will have been married 30 years. I'm so thankful for this man! ❤
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That’s a beautiful story. I wish you both a very happy Pearl Wedding Anniversary, when it comes.
i adore this
Cool. What advice to you have to women who can’t find a man and will never get to experience this bliss?
Mine was during a night we were sitting at the table taking shots here and there, and visiting with our grown children. I was wearing a bunny suit onesie with the hood up (so I had giant pink ears on my head) and all of a sudden my love comes out of the kitchen with his hand in his pocket, leans down for a kiss, and swiftly moved to one knee. I must’ve looked quizzical, because he giggled and then our oldest (his first marriage) pulled out her phone and started snapping all the pictures. Me wearing a bunny suit, us all gathered and having fun in our home. Giving my life all of the fulfillment. I was so spilled over with love and happiness all I did was cry and blubber. And put on the ring. Lol
That first lady deserves a round of applause. So much poise, so graceful, but also not a doormat in the slightest. Well done!
Yup. Guy tried a similar thing on my mother, while ahe was still in college and before she met my dad, etc. They were long distance (he was military, got assigned way out of state) but THANK ANY GODS she found out about the other woman pretty much right after getting engaged. He didn’t deny it but justified himself saying ‘men have needs’ and that he totes wouldn’t cheat after they were married.
🤮🤮🤮
Needless to say, she permanently showed him the door.
the man throwing a full blown tantrum made me LAUGH SO HARD I CHOKED ON MY WATER LIKE THAT'S A FULL GROWN ADULT CRYING OVER THE CONSEQUENCES OF HIS OWN ACTIONS 😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂 it was the shower part for me. And then the cough/choke/gag 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she was so calm
I would have been roasting his ass so hard. But she nailed it. "Don't touch my items!!!!"😂😂😂😂
I knew my ex cheated on me after I had been diagnosed with a rare blood infection that was only passed through body fluids. I came to terms with it quietly and on my own, but there was still that concern you have when that infection could kill someone with a weak immune system. I told him he'd have to get tested and to please tell his mistress as well... he INSTANTLY collapsed into a blubbering blob of patheticness (red flag) and denied, denied, denied, never mind that I just told him he could have killed me. I rolled my eyes at him and left. Long story short, he "dumped" me, but had another meltdown after I told him I already signed a lease on a new apartment 🤣
I pray you've made a full recovery and that God blesses you with a trustworthy spouse.
@@graceyjewels7148Amen, lady!
As for the first lady, a non-reaction can be a way more powerful reaction. They expect you to go crazy, so when you don't, it ends up messing with their head. Stay classy, be stoic, learn your lessons and move on. It's the difference between being a "petty queen" or being a "QUEEN". Your dignity will be your crown 👑
It feels weirdly good to be that calm in those situations. Doesn’t even give him a chance to go tell everyone how “crazy” you are.
But what she did was not dignified, it was just desperate. You can say “No thanks, but I think your mistress wants to speak to you “ and give his phone back without screaming. You don’t have to suck it up, suffer in silence, continue sleeping with the pig and lie to everyone. Stop caring so much about what others think.
@@elainehelms4076 agreed. But it oftentimes takes us longer than others. Especially with childhood abandonment/codepency issues. It’s very real and very dominant. Takes a lifetime to untangle those dynamics. But you’re totally right.
Being a mum of a toddler it cracks me up every time Charlotte gets the iPad out for these adult tantrums 😂
Lmao same!
"Don't touch my items" is my new favorite catch phrase.
It is bizarre how my heart was breaking during my investigation on my ex cheater, but i wound up laughing once I confronted him and he went through the ENTIRE list of cheater remorse from crying -blame game with a dramatic performance befitting a Spanish soap.
Did he “cried in Spanish?”😂
That grown man throwing a whole ass tantrum, saying "please don't do this to us" and "I didn't do nothing" like he isn't the one who impregnated someone other than his fiance 😮💨🥴
He just has that water running so it looks like he's crying
Tbh the biggest praise I have for the first woman keeping her cool, is not ruining the magic and happiness for the other park visitors - especially the children.
I wouldn’t have blamed her if she hadn’t been able to keep her cool before dragging him away. But all the same, Queen 👸
That's a good point. I didn't think about the poor kids she could have possibly traumatized.
Charlotte's ENTIRE reaction to the temper tantrum was so on point! 😂❤ From the tablet to her face, everything was gold! 😂😂
Sometimes you need to do the breakup in public. She must have known he had the potential to act like that. I would have called the police after 10 minutes of this. Like, please get him out of here, I'll file the restraining order tomorrow.
The sound of him throwing that bawling fit would've become my ring/textones if I was her. My justification for it is: You played me, now I'll "play" you.
I'll sit down now.
@@dainastone7021 No justification needed - that is a genius idea!! 😎👍
I’ve started responding to things with “Here. iPad. Cocomelon. iPad. Take it.”
Even if it’s just my kid (he’s a teenager) telling a story about how a kid at school threw a child-like fit or if my husband tells me yet again how his co-workers threw a fit over being told to wash their hands or over being sent home for being sick (they have _paid_ sick days, yet they still come to work with a fever and dripping snot everywhere. Wtf?).
I’ve been tempted to say it to my FIL’s face because lately he’s been going on a tirade because my son wears pink or paints his nails.
Only reason I haven’t is because he wouldn’t get it, so instead we just say goodbye to MIL and leave.
@@Annie_Annie__ Yeah, you need to find an equivalent he understands. Y’know, like asking him if he needs his security blanket, or clucking your tongue and saying, “Someone needs a nap.” Possibly tell him if he doesn’t calm down he’s gonna have to go into time out. Jingle your keys in front of him and croon, “Look, buddy… shiiineey….”
That’s Boomers/Gen X level patronizing, from a member of Gen X. Seeing as how he would likely not care that pink’s gender associations are a societal construct and it is arguably weird for anyone to paint their nails but hardly serious either way.
That dog vomiting cracked me up so bad! Kudos to your editor for the stuff they add to your videos! The combination of you and the little memes and stuff are perfection. ❤
Same here!! 😂😂😂
I Stan a person being willing to stand their ground and say no a public proposal rather than feel compelled to say yes. Not dissing those who said yes because of that, but seriously that takes guts to say no and walk off knowing people may talking about you without knowing context.
To the man having a tantrum: to quote Charlotte 'how are you NOT EMBARRASSED??' ...
The first lady seemed genuinely lovely and I hope she's living her best life now. Honestly if that happened to me I would probably freeze and have no idea what to do so kudos to her for being so composed
That absolute baby level temper tantrum was so HILARIOUS 😂 I could feel her cold disdain and amusement through the screen. I wish I could thank her for recording that for posterity 😊
Edit: 14:14 for the beginning of the hilarity 😂
These boys don't know who they're playing with
I was dying! Absolutely hilarious and Charlotte just made it funnier! Sending love your way
You know he was in the shower to make it look like he was crying because there were no tears 😂
Shoot, I wouldn’t have stayed that long…. I would’ve yeeted out of there pretty quickly after the shower, temper tantrum and then on the floor….
It was bad enough and then the literal laying down KICKING ON THE FLOOR thing made me almost gag. 🤢👎
I told my fiancé that if he did a big public proposal I would say no. I prefer private proposals that are intimate and that’s what he did. It was beautiful at a botanical gardens in the spring on our anniversary when the trees were full of flowers. On the bridge over the koi pond. There was one employee around taking her break in the Japanese garden about 100 ft away and she quickly took a picture when she saw he was proposing and came over to offer us the pictures she took. It was a beautiful day!
That's so sweet that she took a picture for you both!
So sweet!
❤❤❤ How dreamy! A picture too? I hope you’re both doing amazing
Congratulations!! 🍾🎉 Sounds like your hubby-to-be is amazing, and planned a perfect, memorable proposal. 🥰 Wishing you both a lifetime of love and bliss together! 💝
Yes! I don’t know if I would have said no necessarily if my husband proposed in a public setting but I very much would have been very uncomfortable and embarrassed. He actually did propose in our favorite place where we went on our first date (outdoors at a waterfall♥️). But afterwards he told me he initially planned on taking us somewhere nice but very public and I’m so thankful he chose the private intimate option in the end♥️
“Where’s the iPad?” Omg!!!!!! Charlotte that got me!!!! When my sisters get frustrated I do that to them and look for coco melon and it always seems to ease them out of it!!!! Love you!!!! 💙💙💙💙
Its the clamness of her "start making your arrangements "
Like he needs to prepare for a funeral 😂😂
once you see a grown man throw a toddler tantrum you really can't unsee it. The engagement would be off for that alone
To the guy crying in the bathtub, asking his gf not to leave and to "not do this to us". Dude, you did this to "us", so there's just you and her.
I had to share what happened this past weekend. My husband and I went to Walmart. He was going down an aisle and I was trying to get his attention and I yelled "Hey".
Four men around my husband and my husband all stopped with looks on their face of the" oh s*** what did I do".
The power women have that they don't even know they have 😁
We all had a good laugh😂
LOL! I loved going shopping with my parents because they sometimes misbehaved in the store for fun. One of Dad's favorite moves was to sneak up on Mom and surprise her with a light swat on the butt. We were at a department store once, and I saw Dad in stealth mode, sneaking up... Oh CRAP! That's not my mom, but it's a woman who looks just like her from behind. I loudly yelled, "HEY DADDY!" just before he started his arm swing, the woman turned around, and I saw Dad's face go white.
I saved him some embarrassment, and possibly an assault charge!
@@LazyIRanch😂😂😂my animals are looking at me like I’m crazy, LMAO
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I almost choked on a cherry!
That's hilarious. I'm going to remember that for the future.
My husband and I love watching your videos, it's practically a ritual when I get off work to sit together, cuddle, and laugh with you- your reactions are awesome and the laughter my husband has makes me fall in love with him all over again, thank you so much for being a bright end to our day!
My favorite is the glitter. It will never go away. Months later he will be finding glitter no matter how much he cleans. Love it. 👌
I liked it except for the pet in the house...not good for that baby who's innocent
That was genius. I was impressed 👏👏👏
I love how the dude had to sit in the shower while crying, a good shield for when you can't get those actual tears going 🎉
Honestly, if my partner decided that the best time to propose to me was in front of a stadium full of people and we had never discussed the possibility of marriage, I’d have walked out completely. Out of the stadium and out of their life. I don’t like being the center of attention, especially to that extent 😳😖
Yeah the pressure and gaslighting goes crazyyyyyy
And you would think they’d know at least that about you if they wanted to marry you, right?
"I have to go to the restroom, bye, baby." *drops his phone in the trash and disappears into the nether 😅
@@SUGAs_Shadow85 I would be *SO* tempted to drop the phone in the toilet 🤣
Yeah honestly I don't understand what.... What they don't get... Why the hell would you surprise ANYBODY with ANYTHING (other than a small gift MAYBE... MAYBE?)... Let alone a (supposed to be) LIFETIME of marriage 🤦♀️
The **whorfing** dog in the lake had me DYING every time!!! 🤣🤣
11:43 omg the way Charlotte's hair is dancing with her has me vibing to the music on a whole new level of happy
“Don’t touch my items” omg she killed me! What a queen live for how close she had the camera to him 🤣🤣🤣
*Keeping your cool is not smacking the ring out his hand and calling him a cheating scum. Dignity is saying, "As you were doing this...yes, folks, while he was proposing in front of you all, to me, his MISTRESS has been blowing up his phone! So no, I will not marry you, no matter how much I love you, because you are not to be trusted and I deserve so much more than that."*
I wouldn’t do that. You can’t be that composed and articulate when your heart is breaking and you’re in total shock. She would have just froze
Nah. She shouldn’t have taken the ring but I’m not doing all of that in front of thousands of people. I’d just open the messages, he hands me the ring, I hand him the phone and walk/run away.
@@redeye1016 it is possible to be composed while still angry, and some people are articulate in many situations. Just because _you_ couldn't stay relatively calm, doesn't mean everyone cannot.
@@mandeanraje2300 Truth shouldn't matter regardless of how many people view/hear it. Put the 'blame' where it rightly belongs.
Nobody cares what you would do. This isn’t even remotely about you.
Charlotte getting the iPad for the dude acting like a toddler throwing a tantrum 😂 I can’t
Being petty and vindictive may seem satisfying but what the first lady did was realistically the best way to walk out with dignity and mental peace. Kudos to her for being so mature about it.
The best revenge is really not needing revenge, because NOTHING hurts as bad as someone not giving a shit. I learned that from a guy I dated when I was young. When we broke up, I wrote him a letter and he later explained why it was a bad move and how nothing itself would have been more hurtful, but he knew he had gotten to me. I learned at 16. I remember a guy breaking up with me in college, he came to my house and made his little speech and I just asked "was that all? You can go, I have stuff to do." He later told me how bad that hurt him..... point proven. I don't give a shit anymore about people who don't deserve anything from me. Its freeing, once I let you go, you're gone and I forget you.
Yeah, grudges and revenges take time and effort that some people just don't deserve. Better to just move on with your life and not waste another second on someone that doesn't deserve your time.
At the end of the day, narcissists win IF they break who you are fundamentally. She didn’t want a messy, embarrassing situation and learned from it. She won hands down.
Sorry but what a ton of bs, she wasted more time on him than necessary and on top of that had to pay for therapy.
She was pathetic - and still lies to herself about how it was "self-preservation" and "acting from shadows"
If she doesn't have a back bone to call him out publicly she should cut him off after the circus, she didn't
She lost - and its still visible in her
@@morganablackwater2017100%
“This cannot be my life. This absolutely cannot be my life rn” 😅😂
16:15 I fully had a grown man break down in tears after I found out he cheated on me, then he had HIS MOM CALL ME to ask me to give him another chance. WE WERE IN OUR TWENTIES!!
"Can't find money for a lawyer but can find for audacity" 😂 and Charlotte making sounds of a Dj. God, Charlotte is the best. She ALWAYS finds a way to makes us laugh. ♥️😂
That guy throwing a tempertantrum was so over the top, he a bad actor too 😂
I feel sorry for his girlfriend, she stayed so chill she's obviously a cool person 😊❤
I just have to say that first woman had way more patience and restraint then I would’ve. First off, I would never cheat on my partner. Second, if I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me when I was proposing to her, I would have no problem publicly shaming her because she pretty much humiliated me in public. Also, I’ve been dumped by a girlfriend in high school in front of the whole class and people laughed at me so I’m no stranger to this. God bless that woman, I hope she’s found a better man. ❤
How cruel of people to laugh at you! No class in that class! May the Lord make your future bright and give you a treasure of a lady to be your beloved.
Was that guy for real, doing an immature toddler tantrum on the floor, sobbing fully clothed in the shower, calling to the ceiling on his knees?? Did he seriously try every classic cheesy movie trope as if someone died, this can’t be for real, there’s no way 😂
Charlotter with the stank face and the i-pad going *Cocomelon~Shhhhh~Cocomelon!* HAD ME CRYING!
Once you lose respect for someone, it is nearly impossible for them to get it back, and absolutely it does affect the way that you see them and the way that you’re attracted to them. My ex was the exact type of guy that I like physically and after everything that went down between us and me, losing every ounce of respect that I had for him. I was never attracted to him, and never could look at him the same ever again.
He was love bombing her because he had been cheating on her, and he felt the big grandiose display of "love" would win her over and cover up his infidelity.
14:50 OMG, that tantrum looked like something a two-year-old would have! 😂
Fr wtf- someone needs to sit his ass in time out with how he’s actin’.
coco melon 😂
@@hannaparsons6798for real! 😂
That's an insult to 2-year-olds tbh
I am so proud of that first one for handling it the way she did, and keeping it real when telling the story. We all like to think we could dump his ass at that point, but like she said she invested in- and loved him devotedly for 2y at that point and JUST found out abt this cheating. I feel like it's good that she took the time to reassess everything, and all the love for her healing journey ❤
The dog hacking with this video is the best pairing ever.
Men who do that "propose in very public area" are hoping to force you into agreeing to not embarrass either of you. It's sus as heck. I never told my parents that my ex cheated on me after 20 years of marriage; when they noticed his car was not parked at the house I just said we "decided to call it a day" and that's all they knew until they passed away. I was so embarrassed my mouth would not form the words...
It’s still a them problem. You are never the issue. Even if you were a horrible gf/wife/partner. You end sht, then proceed.
What a slimy person. I'm sorry that happened to you. You're better off ❤
you aren’t the one who should be embarrassed. i’m glad your parents can see the truth now
@@melanie_meanders absolutely 1000%. How is HE not embarrassed?! Shame on all of him.
I think knowing your future wife is key and some women do want a public proposal and to be the center of attention and that's cool as long as you know! If this starting happening to me... yea, I'd walk out too because I wouldn't want this at all. But its not fair to all women to say it means something bad. Consent is key. As for the cheating, any man can do that even if he gives you the proposal you want. I'm sorry your ex cheated on you - especially after 20 years... there are plenty of decent men out there. Early in my parents marriage, my dad cheated on my mom. She gave him some ultimatums and he got his absolute shit together and I'm so grateful for them both doing that. They've now been married 52 years and have a great life in their retirement and a very happy marriage, my dad is utterly devoted to her. I love my dad so much and I can't imagine him not being there everyday for me growing up.
The only thing that can elevate a day off to the next level: a video from Charlotte 🥰
I totally agree!!! Best wake ups every day!!!
I live in the south and my whole family is in Oregon. Well, my dad was dying of cancer. In 2020, my boyfriend surprised me with tickets home. He got to meet my dad for the first time. Unknown to me. He asked my dad for permission to marry me. The next day, we drove to the beach where he proposed as we were watching the waves of the ocean. We eloped that December in NYC in Central Park. Sadly , my dad passed in June of that year, but I know he was proud. Our anniversary is today!
13:30 “God. Instagram. Life.” Yup. Perfect sentiment. I have never understood people that bother looking through things and second guessing everything their SO does/ says because they don’t trust them. That’s a you problem till it ain’t. If they are doing something, it’ll come out soon enough without you losing sleep over it. They are sleeping just fine, why should you be doing the most?
Tiffany, what a classy girl! So strong, so resilient, I bow down.
Listening to Charlotte laugh, I have to wonder if Mike's ever in the other room, hearing Charlotte laugh & carry on, and if he busts out laughing at her laughing? 😂
Or when she’s yelling “HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED?” or about the audacity. He’s like “ohh I’m gonna get some GOOD stories later.”
@@shosho089 LOL 😂 those are some good ones!!
Watching this a week after ending a long-term relationship (just fell out of love, no cheating) and while I'm feeling guilty as hell for hurting my ex in this way, I'm just glad that I didn't have to deal with any cheating.
Thanks Charlotte for giving me thousands of videos to binge on to cheer me up.
That you know of
Wow, harsh! But it might help her feel less guilt... Which of course she shouldn't. Because even though he hurts now, he definitely deserves real love, not guilty feeling fake and obligatory love for the next 30 years. She did a kind and loving thing by releasing him to find someone who'll have long term love for him. I'm sure they can now both find that now they are free.
It's gonna be okay, just give yourself some time for mourning after the relationship.
listen to "cuckoo" by netta
My hoo-ha just made the windows shut down noise seeing that last guy thrown a temper tantrum like a damned toddler after CHEATING on his fiancé. The audacity is unreal. 😂 Can't cheaters just be upfront that they want to be with more than one person and not waste monogamous people's time?
WINDOWS SHUT DOWN NOISE I'M CACKLING XD XD
16:45 her “wait” moment 🤣🤣❤️
“I can’t unnceee that fast”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that took me alll the way out🤣🤣🤣
My ex cheated on me after 4 years together. He broke my heart but i learned that being happy is the best revenge. I know someday i will find someone who really loves me. And until that i'm gonna live my life with my heart full of joy and hope, because no one deserves our tears.
"This absolutely cannot be my life right now" - the girl was giving a hilarious commentary to her ex-fiance's childish behaviour . Charlotte trying to help out with the ipad . 😂
The coco melon bit had me coughing laughing so hard; also, the coughing crying cutaway with the dog had me giggling so long. Charlotte we do not deserve you! PS: if you ever do a video on ableism and need a disabled guest hmu.
The “WE RIDE AT DAAAAAWN” took me oooout 😂
The first girl is so mature, hope she eventually finds someone who deserves her ❤️
That guy crying on the floor and bathtub is me when I find out my wife ate the last blueberry muffin.
At least yours is justified! 😉😂🤣 I mean, who doesn’t at least offer to split it with their soulmate?!😉
That’s logical. Blueberry muffins are top tier!!
Thank you
Holy sh** the dog yacking had my dying!!! The timing!! Vanessa deserves raise (again)!😂😂😂
The woman who ditched the guy that threw a tantrum like a 6 year old really dodged a bullet. He wasn't crying about losing her, he was crying because he realise he fucked up his life 😂
The editing in your videos crack me up. I love it 😂
I am so impressed that woman had the moxie to not only calmly dealt with her fianceé cheating and knocking up another woman, then turning into a 2 year old.... but then that she posted it on the internet! Ovaries of steel. My humblest condolences.... and high fives for being such a baws 😂
When I was cheated on, I didn’t give the ring 💍 back. I gave it along with several of his favorite things to the sweet homeless man who’s well known in the area. The cheater was never nice to him which should have been a huge red flag 🚩 9:37
That's awesome 😂❤
Yeah people definitely forget to watch how ur partner treats others not just family
In my country there is a law: presents made during engagement have to be returned if there is a break- up. So you have to return the ring. But I love what you did.
@@Minnie23_420very good point.
Sweet Justice and what a nice life giving gift to that humble man.
I'm sorry, did the full grown man having a toddler melt down after cheating and getting another woman pregnant really just say, "Don't do this to us!!!" ??????😮😳🤯💀😂🤣
🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
It was the "I didn't do nothing" for me. 😂 I'm pretty sure getting someone else pregnant counts as doing something.
And he said, "I didn't do nothing" too! 🤣😂🤣
I could never be attracted to him again!
Gaslighting 101
... also stupidity 😅
Flashback trauma from the first queen story. I was holding my ex's phone when they went to check on our daughter's suicidal boyfriend.
All these sexually intimate texts start showing up from the guy who was the BEST MAN at our wedding. Turns out they had been having an affair for years. Plus, other partners as well.
Respect to her for giving the ring back. I'm way too petty. I kept the house, lol!
As you should!
You give the ring back if you don't get married....
What a kick in the gut. Sorry that happened.
Loving the mermaid colours in your room really flatters your eyes!!! Keep em! The pink blinded your gorgeous hair gal! I'm rewatching your whole channel for the 3RD FREAKING TIME!!! Keep going for us all! Sending hugs from Scotland 🏴🎉
15:34 Aw, how cute! He’s method acting. Preparing for the baby 🙏
Tiffany is a good person. I hope she ends up with the kind of man she deserves.
The dog had me dying EVERY FRICKIN’ TIME!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
The first woman…I love how she DIDN’T let her emotions control her, but realized (how smart is this as a life tool!!) that she needed to respond to the situation rather than react. She kept her cool, got her emotions under control, then let her reasoning head take control. She is to be admired for handling this entire very sad and traumatizing situation like an intelligent person rather than an immature, emotion driven individual.
7:43 I don’t like public proposals either! My beau did a private one, but it was still super special and our dog was there 🥰
(It’s funny tho, we’ve been engaged for like 7-8 yrs now.. we bought a house together, have a kid, a dog, a gecko, road tripped across the USA in an RV together.
I love him, he loves me, and neither one is pressuring the other to get married. Weddings are so expensive and stressful. I do want to have a party to celebrate us, but I’m not in a hurry… and it’ll definitely be a chill, 420 friendly vibe 😋
Another great video from Charlotte and her crew - but the gagging dog put me over the top! (It's a keeper)
It got me both times! 😂
That girl talking about her dad giving her relationship advice even though he cheated on her mom, made me think about when my mom was giving me parenting advice even though she abandoned me and my sister when we were 2 and 5. Like, are you for real?
Parents think they have the right to give us advice no matter what. Just because you gave birth to me doesn't mean you can't still make garbage decisions.
@saracantrell7071 exactly! My mom is on her 4th marriage, she has 3 kids with 4 guys, and they weren't all 4 of her husbands. She lost custody of 3 out of 4 of us. She's a raging, angry alcoholic. She is so fake too. It actually made me so irritated when she was trying to give me advice.
Public Proposals are ONLY for after you already know the answer. If its coming as a surprise, you're pulling some shady shit lol. My husband did a public proposal but only because it had already been discussed. I knew I wanted to marry him and he knew and did too, so he did it as a gesture and it was so sweet
That first woman was a class act. I hope that guy lives the rest of his life regretting how he let her get away. Whoever she ends up marrying is going to be a lucky guy.
I appreciate you and your energy so much. Love to hear more of your personality showing. You are amazing Queen
I really don't understand how people can cheat and cause so much pain to their partner. They don't care about the person they're with at all, if you're gonna cheat leave the person don't freaking hurt them like that man.
Absolutely hate public proposals, my EX fiancé (boyfriend of 6 years) did that and convinced his sister it was a good idea to do it at HER wedding, sharing the day with baby brother 🤮 was only engaged for 6 months and I left
Golly dang these make me appreciate my fiancé. He proposed on a mountain top and specifically waited until other hikers had moved on and we were the only ones up there. No secret photographer or anything. Just me and him on top of the world.
He also doesn’t throw tantrums like an actual toddler so that’s nice, too.
The girl that gave the ring back showed so much class! She didn't feed into his shit show. She also dodged a big Bullitt, he would have never been faithful. So good for you girl!
Should have sold it to pay for her tharapy
BAHAHAHA LOVE THE ONE THATS HAVING A TANTRUM 😭 AND CHARLOTTEs like “COCOMELON”
omg the last dude who threw a LITTERAL temper tantrum like a spoiled kid XD
If anything a tantrum like that would solidify the decision to kick him out