I have the 66+ but don’t make 100k, I only make $55,000, but my wife loves it. She tied me up quickly. I was 24, she was 22 and now 13 yrs later with 2 kids and $300k in net worth. Life is good
Props to you and your family. Same here, my wife and I have built something great together and are growing our net worth daily. Nothing like a strong, mature, lasting union.
I stopped applying my mascara to say this, building with a man is different from building up a guy. The man who has a vision, is self-motivated, and is committed to the vision that y'all create together is one you can build with. The guy you gotta "build up" doesn't possess those qualities; leave him where you find him.
I'm sorry sweetie but women don't build anything. You don't create anything other than chaos. A man that has vision and is self-motivated don't need you. He will achieve his goals without you. A woman's job is to support her man 💯 percent. Not when you feel like it. Make his life easier. It is in no way to make his life more difficult. Do this, and he will take care of the rest. Y'all always want to be partners and that doesn't work. All this talk about building together is code for, I want half. Keep the chaos and drama out of the house and give him space to do his job. My wife of 5yrs has never argued with me. Never not once. She has never disagreed or gone against me. Not once She gives me time and space to do my job which is to provide. She has never questioned my ability to do my job. The proof is in the pudding. And as a result, she has everything she could ever want.
@@hammertyme8392 Women don't build anything? Then you say you don't create anything other than chaos? So is that what your wife is doing? Your daughters creating chaos as well? How about your own mother? What kind of statement is that? Then you say "all of this talk about building together" is code for " I want half" Umm YOU DO REALIZE IT'S MEN THAT APPROACH WOMEN WITH THAT "TALK" of " WE GOTTA BUILD TOGETHER" because they want 50-50! Why do yall continue blaming women for something that you dudes keep preaching to women? I mean my god yall are so exhausting with the mental gymnastics and are always preaching some new "ish" that never seems to change the state of your communities.
@@hammertyme8392 Isn't that what most black women are doing anyways? How is that black men have the highest unemployment , lowest employment partipation, have the highest bastard breeding rates and cost society 50 billion annually? Like hello yall aren't building a damn thing collectively and are the true agents of chaos and destruction. Why is it that the minute too many of yall move into a neighborhood the home values go down? Why are firms like Goldman Sacs investing into black women but not YOU? Clearly they know you aren't worthy! The problem with most black women is that many haven't figured out what men of other groups at the top of the foodchain have! Now save that chest beating for your wife. Nobody is here for all of that.
@@The-Oneness11 My wife understands that her role is to support her man. Get on his program and follow his lead. Have trust in his ability. It is not to be a Boss Chic. A true lady understands that her power comes from her femininity.
@@prettiilexii672 She aint no real entrepreneur she just sell illegal edibles. She said she going to school to be an esthetician. She don't make 6 figures herself, probably 50k in ATL in her apartment with her daughter.
What she said about building with a man and then they leave you or left her is a lie. Lower class women like this are pathological liars. This is why Kendra didn't even waste her time-these people are not adults, they are children in grown peoples body-they can't have adult relationships because they are stupid. They come from lower stock.
@@thedopemom7697 How is it refreshing? Seeing woman with childish, delusional and unrealistic demands heading towards nothing? You calling this refreshing speaks volumes. I'm crying on the inside. hahahah !!!
I just don’t understand this “Six figure” non sense, you would do much better w/ a hard working man of character. That mindset is lost on me., I’m glad to be able to see value beyond the tangible and appreciate the value in a man’s heart and intentions.
I don't either. And given that it's repeated often in the same word order, it's like they were told to want this without even asking if they really need it. I missed that class cause my requirements aren't even remotely close to this.
How do women not understand that they can’t let Tyrone smash every few weeks, then want a focused, six-figure guy? No shame either way, live your life how you wish, you simply can’t do both.
I agree to an extent. Not every woman is clueless and ignorant and the same goes for men. I'm married, met my husband when we were in college. We've been together longer than married (24 yrs vs 12 yrs) but overall we wouldn't trade our marriage for the bullsh*! out here ever. We became FRIENDS first. I pray for my 16 yo son daily if this is what he has to look up to bc these are parents to kids my son's age. Sigh... smh
Realest comment I have seen in a while. Saddest thing, David is not generalizing - can go on Twitter and see women of all ages acting this exact way. Will literally brag about the deadbeat's d0ng then proceed to whine of why she is single. Literal insanity.
He told them they were dating but didn’t tell them they were NOT the only one he was dating. I had a friend that found out she was number 5 while at a hair salon. He was a popular Miami community penial business mogul. She said, “I don’t understand, he said I’m great in bed and loves my mentality.” Female simp🤦🏽♂️.
She comes off extremely immature and childish for a 40 year old. I live in Stone Mountain (outside of Atlanta) and have experienced southern charm, and she ain't it
@@kisha4040 this is what she really meant she left them because they was playing games they were no better than pookie And she's not upset because she's playing games too anything else u got to say Kisha?Now run U 👹 run bhh
She is energetic and funny.😄 I love her openness. If you are looking for a liar, I don't think she is it. I hope you find ,what you are looking for, Sis‼️
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Not to mention, how can you be 40 years old and not understand what the word settle means? She needs to date on her level, which is a level under what her so called requirements. What she’s offering at age 40 is a bad deal for a man with his shit together. She smokes weed a lot, puts sex on a pedestal and stubborn. That’s a 1 AM beat and skeet.
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 I’ll explain it to you in an analogy Rental cars aka hookups short term dating: if you are driving out of town you rent an enterprise car for the trip pay a small fee and put the miles on it and take it back to the rental car lot. You only want the car for a trip or two and don’t pay full price. Marriage long term value: If you want a car you pay full price and do the required maintenance work and keep the car for life essentially. That’s how men see most women one of two options: Childless young no really bad habits feminine gets marriage Everything else is a rental car.
Right lol what sane dating person would wait for a week without moving on?! This woman is delusional in every aspect and represents a good portion of black women 40+ unfortunately
I honestly don’t believe that marijuana is helping the black community. For medical reason yeah sure, but now all I see is over consumption of something that was supposed to be recreational.
The same people were smoking weed way before the stigma behind it got better there's plenty of functioning adults who use it as well but if it's not directly hurting you which it isn't why do you care? Don't give me that community nonsense either with all the toxic stuff constantly being pushed
If you’re in pain, yes. And even if you’re older, and retired, or near, why not? But if you’re young and on the grind? Probably not. When you’re in build phase of your life, you’ve got to be on point 👍🏾
She's cute. I was with her... ...until she stop texting the guy she was "interested in" for an entire week, then felt someway after he forgot about her. lol Most ladies wouldn't go for a man ghosting her for a week. All this because she wants to be chased...That is called playing games. The ole "pull-back" method, backfired on her.
I wasn’t playing games I was busy hell I have a business and I’m in school but I shouldn’t be the only one texting! I already had reached out to him from his interview so I felt like I had shown enough interest
@@perdybirdie Uh-huh! She tried it. Only with the "Good Ones" do they play those games. The ones they REALLY want, it's almost a compete role reversal at times.
@@shaylabaldwin4 Benjamin seemed like a nice guy. Have you all been in touch since? I thought he had the thing about children though. He was okay with your 13 yo?
40 year old single mother with a 13 year old daughter: You see my blunt earrings? Look at them curtains talking bout she like nice things. She want that 666 man to chase a weed head single mom who sound like a 16 year old.
Great and apropos analogy. She doesn't qualify for what she wants, and won't accept that she's getting the men at her level based on her mentality and the way she presents herself in the world.
All these women want the same type of men, smh as a woman if you have a career or a good job why do you need a man who makes 6 figures if you can take care of yourself and your kids.
Because she wants to make sure he is bringing to the table what she is bringing. Same reason when men say it! Most people don’t want to take money from their pockets to take care of a grown person. Relationships these days seem transactional.
@@kevinlee9929 that's how its supposed to be, why would she date him for free or spend her money on him when she can get m3n for free ? M3n aren't the prize which is why the body count is only for wom3n's bodies and this is what you get for shaming people. Now you're not worth publicly dating ,you'll get pumped and dumped and the next one is always available..
I am so sick of men and women saying they want these dumb catch phrases like the three sixes or a fit feminine and friendly woman.. it's so stupid. Be original, look deep within, assess your needs, get your mental health together, write down a list of your must-haves and make sure your must-haves are all qualities that are found within a person, and then write down the list of your preferences. People are so brainless these days, going by what these gurus say instead of going by what they really need
Women asking for the 3-6's.. Can men have 3-7's? Dress size 7 or under, under 7 body count, under 7 millimeters in nail length? Probably asking too much.
Lol. You're eliminating a good 75% of ALL women in every race with the lower than 7 body count one. Unless you get someone very young or with a very old school mentality. A lot of young women are having more sex than older men, women and younger ones put together.
Bit m3n will settle with someone like her because she's "lightskin" and some of you obviously like 30+ overweight nurses with long nails and heavy makeup . Obviously dust like you will settle anywhere and whoever is available at that time
@Jasmine Oliver You can want what you want but let’s be realistic. As a man I can’t attract every woman so I went all out focused on my school, business and physique and improved my social interactions. To improve my odds. As a woman you can’t attract EVERY MAN most ladies haven’t accepted this fact yet, m. You want 6-6-6 Does 6-6-6 want you? Can you attract 6-6-6? You keep making mistakes with homeless men (learning) and making babies with them. The all of a sudden you want a 6-6-6 man, but all the “experience” you have is with homeless men you can’t interact, relate and won’t feel comfortable or enjoy 6-6-6 company. As a 6-6-6 I take you out to my law firm retreat or get together and you’re in the midst of all these young super models/trophy wives and Trust fund babies will you HONESTLY 100% fit in? Will you enjoy it 100%? Or you’ll be missing the club in the hood, the company of certain kind of people, will you be 100% ok and fine with me treating you 100% respectfully 100% of the time, I met a lady who told me “you are too nice, you put me on a pedestal too much” many women usually say they don’t think they deserve it or they think I am only pretending. They want some toxicity they want some drama something to talk about and fight over or use against you. This woman basically said I want that street thug/homeless man cus the segz is good, but I want that 6-6-6 man money time and look for public image and perception And she don’t want to make kids for him. I will use myself as an example. I worked all my life to get my degrees, build my business, hit the gym etc. during this process I stayed single for my sanity and to avoid distraction. Now when I turn 30 or 40 as a man, will I be willing to get with a 40 year old woman with a 13 year old child who doesn’t want a kid. Meaning I won’t have kids to take over all the things I’ve worked for. I’ll be with a woman who is already passed her prime, and will be sharing her with a kid who isn’t mine and some homeless man or thug. So what’s in it for me as the man. She got all she wanted how about me I got nothing out of the arrangement instead I just risked half of everything I own to get 1/4 of her because 1/4 goes to the kid 1/4 goes to the homeless thug 1/4 goes to her business If you were the man would you take such a deal?? Why don’t I just go after a 21 year old Russian/Columbian/Brazilian model who is childless and willing to have my kids??? And is far more traditional than a 40+ year old American single mom ??? You do the maths yourself and see what option you’d rather go with if you were a man who’ve worked hard for his 6 figure income, his 6 pack abs and most of what he has. Would you risk it all for an old woman who was born pretty and didn’t have to work for it but the looks are fast fading due to age. And theirs an entire world with over 3.5b women from where you can get massive amounts of HOT young 20somethings by swiping, scrolling, clicking, ordering, paying, etc For refrence Chris Brown once hired out an entire hotel to house 12 bus load of girls they signed Non disclosure agreements at the door, they submitted their phones and got in spent the entire weekend there. A man with access to all that will leave it all for you??? A single mom passed 35??? Psttt! As a boy knew for a fact young super models weren’t going to just magically fall in love with me but grown 30 something year old women still believe despite their looks, their age, their kids, their attitudes Rich, handsome, hardworking, faithful men will fall in love with them SMH
@Jasmine Oliver in other words after they've done had sex with all the broke homeless Tyrones then they want to "learn and evolve" when they start getting lonely and old
@Jasmine Oliver well you can evolve but ya can't evolve from broke niggas to 6 figures they ain't gonna take you seriously and that sounds wayyy easier said then done ya better find someone that's 40k or 50k+ and if that works out stick with it and if it don't then move on and climb up or build with your partner that makes 50k
she seems cool as heck lol you can tell she's the type of person that would probably give you the shirt off her back but also give you the business if you tried to play her or disrespect her 😂🤣
*Sighs* blunt earrings. This a wrap off top. No decorum, no class. I don't care how acceptable weed may be, this is well below standard for a classy full grown woman. And it shows in her results. That's why she can only get men looking to live off her. It's not a lack of men. There are more Black men at every level of income than Black woman; they just don't want her. But her trash mentality can't see and accept that it's her that's the problem.
Yea I thought the same thing when I saw those earrings and people nowadays will cry and whine so loud about being labeled and stereotyped but will turn right around and conduct this foolishness gross.
@@deborahadams3745 No decorum, not decore. I'm not talking about the physical atmosphere; I'm talking about the way in which she conducts and presents HERSELF.
All you have to do is look at the red hair and the red eyebrows and see that she’s a woman who doesn’t respect herself. A 40 year old woman shouldn’t look like that. 🤢🤮
I notice that literally every single woman that comes on Kendra show, claims at one point in time to already have been in a relationship with this "ideal successful attractive alpha man" that she's desiring to date again .. It's so much 🧢 & delusion in that .. If you claim to have already have had this man before, then how could you let him go??🤔 .. I really think that women have a very hard time accepting the fact that you was just sleeping around with somebody that you liked a lot & yall was never really in a serious relationship .. If a woman likes you a lot & she gives you some 😽💦 ... She's gonna swear up & down that yall was in a relationship & that's just not the case a lot of the times 🤦🏾♂️
You never know though. There are women who may have had that man years earlier but weren’t ready for them or to settle down. Now when they’re ready they’re realizing maybe that catch they didn’t grab isn’t readily out there I’m abundance to them anymore.
@@ItsmeCR-g8j idk maybe 🤷🏾♂️ ..But from my experience when a woman really likes you then she REALLLLYYYY likes you lol .. Women are usually more ready for marriage & to settle down way before a man is .. I just think its because we live in such a modern day, promiscuous culture, where women are giving up sex to the men they like more easier then ever now & without these men ever truly having to be committed to them .. I'm speaking from experience because I'm older now & move more mature .. But when I was younger, I would have sex with a woman knowing damn well I didn't want nothing serious with her lol smh 🤦🏾♂️
Before you decide not to settl….excuse me….adjust your expectations, do the math… 20.0 - Million Black men 2.0 - Million black men ages 30 - 45 (about 10% of pop.) 100K - Earn $100K and up (5%) 14.5K - Men over 6ft tall ( 14.5%) 2,320 - Number of men that are larger than 6 inches (16%) Now start reducing that 2,320 number by the number of men that are straight. Then reduce that number by the men she’d find attractive and those that would find her attractive. Then reduce that number by the number of men that live near her or would be willing to travel. Then reduce that number by the number of men whose kid situation matches her preference. What you’re left with is probably 250 men in the ENTIRE country. Start being realistic and start doing it right now or be alone for the rest of your life
Very true. If she wasn't so ratchet she could get a non black man, but she's too deep in to even be a consideration at this point unfortunately. Maybe a ghetto lite Hispanic man with his own business making 6 figures would work for her though
As being born in '74 going thru the most seeing the last of hard working men & Black family. We are not on point. Every woman want the most of the best men. But never seems to understand what's really going on. I wish her the best.
🤔 Last of the Hard Working Men??? Men in 2022 work and earn more money than our grandfather's. It's modern women who've developed a taste for 6 figure lifestyles. Y'all can't afford it. Median income for BW in 2022 is $42,000. 🤣 Modern Black Women are liabilities. 1) Black Men can cook as well if not better 2) Black Men keep house as well if not better 3) Black Men parent as good if not better Black Men are as good as women. Black Women suck at being a woman and a man.
Men never stopped working hard lol The women just turned against all men with the feminist movement and continue to paint these horrible narratives that even men believe...
The three 6's... Lol. So I dated a guy like that. He happened to be a man of no color. Other than being 6'8", there was really nothing remarkable about him. He was just a "normal guy" as far as the way he carried himself and his lifestyle. He drove a regular truck, had a decent house, and didn't live above his means at all. He was very frugal, actually. The only thing he DID splurge on was his two kids. He took them on trips at LEAST twice a year. I admired (no, adored) that about him. He now lives in a million dollar home in another city. We broke up because I realized I wasn't being honest with myself about whether he was what I truly wanted. I enjoyed his company and his conversation, and thought he was a nice person. There were some red flags that popped up (which I initially ignored) that made me finally be honest with myself and move on, and allow him to move on. He was (I believe) in heavy denial about his sexuality. I couldn't deal with that and the potential drama that I knew would eventually come with it. Especially since he got offended, defensive, and standoffish when I brought it up. I'm much happier now with my blue-collar, $80K-$90K man. He makes me feel safe, hyper-feminine, and happy to be around him. That 6$-6'-6" ain't all that.
@16:00 she didn't text him for a week then got offended when he didn't chase her and forgot about her... she is playing childish games with a 40 yr old man. She learned the hard those tricks stop working after maybe 22 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are so right Kendra, been married for 30 years was there from the beginning. This 6 figure’s is good now. But while getting here was a difficult hike! I’m glad I’m not in dating era now…
Yeah, rich men want ghetto-fabulous women to take out to fancy restaurants and overseas vacations. OK!! "I need a man with focus" said the 40yr old with blunt earrings!
First of all, you can’t go into a relationship having the guy think you don’t need anything. That will make him too comfortable. It’s all about how you start off. The vibe she’s giving me is that she feels like she puts more into the relationship than she receives. She has to communicate to him what she wants.
Yeap that is what she said ..the sad part was when she said if she likes him more than she likes herself she is a good women 😔 sad she need to love herself first in order to give love
@@viviancanela3427 I definitely think you NEED to have self love before you can love someone else. Because without it you would project all the things you hate about yourself onto others
@@heavensent9772 Men do that to women which is why black women experience such horribly violent abuse at their hands. Women tend to internalize things which is why our bodies reflect the pain caused from outside us. 🤔
@@viviancanela3427 I said if I like him MORE than I like myself meaning I’m in love with me so much that I have to actually like you to even entertain the situation lol so how In the HELL did you get I need to love myself more from that statement? Please explain
@@heavensent9772 and your just agreeing and y’all both missed the whole point it’s sad! We need to listen more and judge less! God bless y’all though my black queens 👸🏽
@@real_abiola Listen here hyena, I'm that type of N she lookin for and don't want her... Prob the same for you as well, now go eat you some raw dead meat....
I didn't respond to a tinder message quick enough the same day and got blocked. Many chicks cut you off after a day. She went an entire week?!? She doesn't value a man's time.
@@orubek355 Hell yea. lol 2 days max. I've heard many say, " a no call no show gets you fired." So her waiting an entire week...she knew she was on bs. She wouldn't tolerate it if he did.
“If I like you and I’m into I DON’T require as much”. There it is. If any woman making demands than means she’s not into you or you’re not her first option. You’re the backup plan. ✌🏾
A lot of women tend to say that they take care of themselves but they don't disclosed that they are receiving government assistance, child support and sometimes alimony. Not saying that's her.
Exactly I'm impressed at all the black woman that have they own business.😏 I definitely wouldn't tell them all the income I have coming in though! Sheesh that's why she meeting leeches 🤦🏽♀️
@@idi.h5460 here we go. Another simpleton. I never said that receiving child support is a bad think. To paraphrase myself, that's probably how she is funding her business.
What 6, 6, 6 guy with 'no flaws' is going to want a 40 year old, that's a mom, with red eyebrows and blunt earrings. Don't these women have to realize that they need to be what the men want? It's really really that simple. Who's taking a grown women with blunt earrings seriously in their 40s?? C'mon She gonna go and say the guy with the 6's is 'cheating' when that's not what Kendra was even going to say. So you are knowing that those men will 'cheat' but still want them??? Then going to come on a show and complain about the reason why you're not in a relationship is because of the...men You didn't text Benjamin for a week. He didn't forget who you were. He saw that you didn't have any interest and he returned that energy. Let's be honest. Good job Benjamin! Then you come on the show and roast the person you're about to go out on a date with? If I was Benjamin, I wouldn't jack that
It seems like most women on Kendra’s show have expeditions that they don’t meet. A 6 man is looking for a woman with NO kids, fit, feminine and in her early 20s!
She seems like a nice chick with a lot of ratchetness going on....blunt earrings, cheap wifi, playing games, etc. I think she needs to temper her expectations, and find an average guy.
I love Shayla! Especially that accent. But her openness, realness & vulnerability. Plus the fact that she naturally smiles a lot. I think her & Benjamin make a cute couple but he seems a little high-strung whereas she seems laid back but you never know. I wish her the best.
Benjamin seems a little high-strung!? Or Is he just well put together and seems respectable and a professional? But you think he goes well with a lady who wears blunt earrings and can't even describe or know a lot about the business she's in!? Come on sis, stop the BS! .. But I do love her accent and she seems genuine, but they wouldn't make a good match because of the requirements Benjamin is looking for. Best of luck to both of em!!
@@bigmack7430 maybe you should find him and ask him instead of judging me for the type of earrings I wear. Also when could I not describe the type of business I am in? Then you went on to say I seem genuine your a walking contradiction sir…make it make sense and who’s to say he don’t smoke weed maybe that’s why he like me or maybe just maybe we made a connection and he actually like my personality?
@@shaylabaldwin4 No disrespect. I'm on the outside looking in and giving my observation as a respectable and responsible man. And I don't have to find him, if it is what you think it is, send me a copy of the wedding invitation in a few months. That way you can prove me wrong and everyone else too. I judge on results! And I'll be the first to apologize and say you were right... And watch the video of yourself with someone who is going to tell you the truth and not what you want to hear and I'm sure he/she will tell you , that you could have explained things a lot better than you did. But just my opinion at the end of the day Mamn! Honestly hope things work out.
She has hit da wall🧱her Wi-Fi is eating her edibles 🤦she wants da 666 man of her Dreams.😂😂eat more edibles and you will find that man in your Dreams🤤🤤🤯😤
Fellas I live in Atlanta. Every time I go out im constantly out number. Its not enough men in Atlanta smh she wont even get half of what she is asking for.
Lol I'm sure she toned it down for him, but no person seriously dating is going to wait for you after a week of no response. I would have moved on after 3 days no response.
Kendra G was SPOT TF ON about men with money! I make 200k a year, and before I did I met my ex she was there when a nigga didn't have much and stuck by my side through it all, honestly it's my fault we broke up, but I tell you what even after we broke up I got her a brand new car and paid the rent for her to have a condo for two years so she didn't have to pay a dime.....Kendra is EXACTLY on the money with that fr
I own my own gaming company...I do graphic design for major companies like, Rockstar, Bethesda, and others and I design their websites sometimes as well, I have also done work for the company gamestop as far as thier commercials or ads...didn't even go to college, I got disciplined and self taught myself day I graduated high-school in 2007 for 6 years straight, and built my reputation by working graphic design at, 5 years at Google, and then I did graphic design for a law firm before I took a leap of fate and started my own thing where I can keep 100 percent of my revenue...
Nobody wants to be with these ladies in a serious relationship after they admit giving up the cookies to Pookie last week . If anything dudes wanna grab the friends with benefits spot 🤷🏾♂️
If a man came on the show with this level of delusional demands the women would roast him! Instead we have all these women cheering on the delusion which doesn’t help her. She should look for a nice guy and be happy if he wants to settle down with her!
The whole Benjamin story is easy to see. He reached out to you, you decided to play games and not text back for a week, him being a grown man DELETED her number (not blocked like losers do), and moved on.
The fact that she said he didn't text back for a week is hilarious... As if she was the ONLY woman that reached out. She didn't meet him at the grocery store she met him on a dating platform with thousands of womem watching. Logic will tell you at least hundreds of women flooded his inbox (good looking guy with a good job) so why would he chase her lmao also she has tatts which he said he didn't want haha she seems like a dope woman but she clearly don't listen or respect boundaries to reach out to him with tattoos.
@@LordZevv She said SHE didn't text back for a week. Listening and comprehension are two very important skills. To my understanding, she said they have a date planned.
@@lwills8609 what I said applies because she also was taken aback that he didn't remember her. He also did not text her again in that week. Doesn't really matter who didn't text whom.The part about them having a date planned, I didn't hear that at all. I don't even know these people so I really don't care. Its all just entertaining to me at the end of the day.
Imagine me, as a six figure engineer, cuffing a 40-year old single mother who sells weed brownies and stays in toxic relationships for the D. This is pathetic. Kendra really the K.S 2.0. There needs to be a vetting process for getting on this show, otherwise the delusion of our women will continue to be on public display.
@@The-Oneness11 Just as women advocate not to look at men's potential when vetting, I am not interested in what she could do or be. Her age, child, and predisposition about dating for dick is much more concerning anyway.
If only I could turn back the hands of time, I know I would be in a better place today. I wish all of you that are looking for a relationship and/or marriage the very best.
Hobosexual dudes is her best bet. She got with a triple 6 dude that she by her own admission had to leave yet in the end she says she's also a "ride n die"? You can't make this sh.. ..... .. ..... ...it up, dammit now my wifi is cutting me o-
Sooo it's sad that I have to explain this. Being a black man moving through the corporate world things like these matters. Your partner is a representation of you. It's ok to say it's no big deal but you never know how you're perceived by the bosses. This man said he doesn't want a girl in tattoos but you have this woman on talking about 6ft and 6 inches and that's not more alarming. This new age is forcing men to want absolutely nothing for themselves.
Women don’t care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and f*¢k the winners. She has a toxic side dude she can call up any time but she needs a 6-6-6 to come into this mess and clean it up. Naw!
SMH you probably one of those type that watches divorce court all the time anyway why you click so fast it's the same thing you already know what they about to say do you click fast for Jesus Christ you need to click fast for Jesus Christ do you click fast to read the Bible I command you to read the story of Jeremiah and get back with me and I'll leave you further instructions
@@icantdealwithyall41 Leave further instructions for yourself. North, south, east, and west. Earth, air, fire, and water. Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. You cherry pick which part of Christ’s teachings you wish to follow, heretic. Don’t come for Catholics, unless they send for you.
@@icantdealwithyall41 What’s with the harshness to someone you don’t don’t. Going off the 3 comments you made and the time this video was posted, you were here just as fast and already had a lot to say. We’re chastising ppl who’re doing the exact same thing as you. 🤔
Not very many men stay after you’ve built them up, I’ve been there, walked and struggled with a man and he cheated on me as soon as he got that first pay check and it got even worse when the beemer came through. So PLEASE don’t try and build men as some sort of ride or die guarantee ladies. Life has no formula
Men should absolutely not need a woman to build them up and for the reason you mentioned, it's not wise for a woman to spend their time building up a man. That said, as a man well on his way, I don't need any help building myself. What I need is a partner who is doing her thing, but is working with me towards a possible future. I am not a lottery ticket and neither is she. If you are a good stable partner and your man has sense he will recognize that. If your man NEEDS you to build him up, then he is probably too weak for you and you should move on to a man that can better match your energy. What gets weird is that women who wouldn't date you before, are now interested because your hard work is paying off. This is the situation that men start to get into. Women who only want to date winners because they want to get a slice or half in a divorce. This is the concern smart men with assets are concerned about. Yet, men pursue success in large part because women desire it. So it's a bit of a paradox. That said, if you want to be taken seriously you don't need to build him, but show that you are there to contribute and not just receive. Trust me. Smart men understand that these ladies are rare.
@@Sunshine44488 I am one and know many. I also know statistics like woman initiating 80% of all divorces. So let’s not lie on most men because of personal stories. I mean if you have any statistics backing your claim up tell us.
Grown middle aged woman be like: I brush my teeth, and wash my face, and put on clothes, and do basic adult stuff like go to work and pay rent; I'm a bad b_tch. LOL, you're an adult doing what billions of adults through the history of time do. Congratulations for accomplishing the basics of life that make you stand out from no one.
Listen to what she said “I don’t require much from people I like”…that goes for many women. Most women will not care about what you make unless they’re not attracted to you.
Shayla seems to be eating all those treats she’s making…she seems high.
Seems? This girl is zooted lol
This was funny
That is what I was thinking.
LOL 😆
Guarantee she's eating up all the profit
I have the 66+ but don’t make 100k, I only make $55,000, but my wife loves it. She tied me up quickly. I was 24, she was 22 and now 13 yrs later with 2 kids and $300k in net worth. Life is good
Dats what up
All blessings to you two!
Don’t say only make 55k you earned that you make decent money
Props to you and your family. Same here, my wife and I have built something great together and are growing our net worth daily. Nothing like a strong, mature, lasting union.
I like the fact you said 300k net worth. It's great to have assets
I stopped applying my mascara to say this, building with a man is different from building up a guy. The man who has a vision, is self-motivated, and is committed to the vision that y'all create together is one you can build with. The guy you gotta "build up" doesn't possess those qualities; leave him where you find him.
I'm sorry sweetie but women don't build anything. You don't create anything other than chaos.
A man that has vision and is self-motivated don't need you. He will achieve his goals without you.
A woman's job is to support her man 💯 percent. Not when you feel like it. Make his life easier. It is in no way to make his life more difficult.
Do this, and he will take care of the rest.
Y'all always want to be partners and that doesn't work. All this talk about building together is code for, I want half.
Keep the chaos and drama out of the house and give him space to do his job.
My wife of 5yrs has never argued with me. Never not once. She has never disagreed or gone against me. Not once
She gives me time and space to do my job which is to provide. She has never questioned my ability to do my job. The proof is in the pudding. And as a result, she has everything she could ever want.
@@hammertyme8392 Women don't build anything? Then you say you don't create anything other than chaos? So is that what your wife is doing? Your daughters creating chaos as well? How about your own mother?
What kind of statement is that?
Then you say "all of this talk about building together" is code for " I want half" Umm YOU DO REALIZE IT'S MEN THAT APPROACH WOMEN WITH THAT "TALK" of " WE GOTTA BUILD TOGETHER" because they want 50-50!
Why do yall continue blaming women for something that you dudes keep preaching to women?
I mean my god yall are so exhausting with the mental gymnastics and are always preaching some new "ish" that never seems to change the state of your communities.
@@hammertyme8392 Isn't that what most black women are doing anyways? How is that black men have the highest unemployment , lowest employment partipation, have the highest bastard breeding rates and cost society 50 billion annually? Like hello yall aren't building a damn thing collectively and are the true agents of chaos and destruction. Why is it that the minute too many of yall move into a neighborhood the home values go down? Why are firms like Goldman Sacs investing into black women but not YOU? Clearly they know you aren't worthy! The problem with most black women is that many haven't figured out what men of other groups at the top of the foodchain have! Now save that chest beating for your wife. Nobody is here for all of that.
@@hammertyme8392 So does your wife cause chaos since we don't create anything except chaos?
@@The-Oneness11
My wife understands that her role is to support her man. Get on his program and follow his lead. Have trust in his ability.
It is not to be a Boss Chic.
A true lady understands that her power comes from her femininity.
The live chat was too funny for this one. This girl really has blunt earrings
Shorty ain't even got good Wi-Fi. Isn't that standard nowadays?
Those earrings and red hair at 40 yo is a red flag! 😲😯
@@prettiilexii672 She aint no real entrepreneur she just sell illegal edibles. She said she going to school to be an esthetician. She don't make 6 figures herself, probably 50k in ATL in her apartment with her daughter.
HAHAHA, I just noticed her blunt earrings.
@@alp.9672 a street hustler is still a entrepreneur. Definition of a entrepreneur doesn't say legal 😂😂😂😂
This show is quite refreshing. It’s authentic and funny.
Ms. Kendra, great work!
What she said about building with a man and then they leave you or left her is a lie. Lower class women like this are pathological liars. This is why Kendra didn't even waste her time-these people are not adults, they are children in grown peoples body-they can't have adult relationships because they are stupid. They come from lower stock.
Refreshing isn't the word I would use.
@@Yobachi2007 exactly lol
@@Yobachi2007 I’m speaking for myself, not you 🤷🏿♀️
@@thedopemom7697 How is it refreshing? Seeing woman with childish, delusional and unrealistic demands heading towards nothing? You calling this refreshing speaks volumes. I'm crying on the inside. hahahah !!!
Kendra G has the best comedy show on TH-cam right now.
THE BEST!!
I just don’t understand this “Six figure” non sense, you would do much better w/ a hard working man of character. That mindset is lost on me., I’m glad to be able to see value beyond the tangible and appreciate the value in a man’s heart and intentions.
I don't either. And given that it's repeated often in the same word order, it's like they were told to want this without even asking if they really need it. I missed that class cause my requirements aren't even remotely close to this.
Can't make this shit up. Smdh!! Want a six figure ninja but don't hve 6 figure wifi. Jesus take the wheel🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
I would bet you are married?
These boards are stupid 🙄
They ent realistic period
"if he's toxic, why did u sleep with him"
"because the sex is good"
yup wrap it up right there folks, nothing else to see here
SMH she’s a mess
But I'm thinking she was still attracted to the toxicity....That had to come before she knew the sex would be good, right?
right
I am not taking any woman with blunt earrings to my corporate company dinners with me.
i knew it was edibles. she high AF lol
How do women not understand that they can’t let Tyrone smash every few weeks, then want a focused, six-figure guy? No shame either way, live your life how you wish, you simply can’t do both.
I agree to an extent. Not every woman is clueless and ignorant and the same goes for men. I'm married, met my husband when we were in college. We've been together longer than married (24 yrs vs 12 yrs) but overall we wouldn't trade our marriage for the bullsh*! out here ever. We became FRIENDS first. I pray for my 16 yo son daily if this is what he has to look up to bc these are parents to kids my son's age. Sigh... smh
@@JM-qg9bo ?? ...I think you meant to reply to another comment...
@@StandingPeacefully I think he did to. What he said had absolutely nothing to do with your comment
Realest comment I have seen in a while. Saddest thing, David is not generalizing - can go on Twitter and see women of all ages acting this exact way. Will literally brag about the deadbeat's d0ng then proceed to whine of why she is single. Literal insanity.
Dating and Sleepy with a 6 figure guy is different things. Alot of women get that confused.
He told them they were dating but didn’t tell them they were NOT the only one he was dating. I had a friend that found out she was number 5 while at a hair salon. He was a popular Miami community penial business mogul. She said, “I don’t understand, he said I’m great in bed and loves my mentality.” Female simp🤦🏽♂️.
Agreed…
She comes off extremely immature and childish for a 40 year old. I live in Stone Mountain (outside of Atlanta) and have experienced southern charm, and she ain't it
A middle aged single mother with Kool-aid red hair looking for a top tier man. What could go wrong?
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Everything and you forgot the red painting eyebrows, darling!🙄😂🤭😳🧐
She said she dated top tier men but she left them because they were no better
🤣 I legit did that In middle school b/c my parents wouldn’t let me dye my hair…
@@kisha4040 this is what she really meant she left them because they was playing games they were no better than pookie And she's not upset because she's playing games too anything else u got to say Kisha?Now run U 👹 run bhh
She is energetic and funny.😄 I love her openness. If you are looking for a liar, I don't think she is it. I hope you find ,what you are looking for, Sis‼️
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Not to mention, how can you be 40 years old and not understand what the word settle means? She needs to date on her level, which is a level under what her so called requirements. What she’s offering at age 40 is a bad deal for a man with his shit together. She smokes weed a lot, puts sex on a pedestal and stubborn. That’s a 1 AM beat and skeet.
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She's hood and promotes hood and stripper culture (see her Insta). A typical hood fellas is all she gets. That's her level.
This comment needs more appreciation 🏆
If you don't want her why use her body then?
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7
I’ll explain it to you in an analogy
Rental cars aka hookups short term dating: if you are driving out of town you rent an enterprise car for the trip pay a small fee and put the miles on it and take it back to the rental car lot. You only want the car for a trip or two and don’t pay full price.
Marriage long term value: If you want a car you pay full price and do the required maintenance work and keep the car for life essentially.
That’s how men see most women one of two options: Childless young no really bad habits feminine gets marriage
Everything else is a rental car.
I think Shayla and her Wi-Fi using too much of her product ☺️😉
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She need a man with 6 figures to pay that Wi-Fi bill 😂🤦🏽♂️😒
😂😂 She said she didn’t text Benjamin back for a week!? She thought he was waiting?
Right! Very telling.
😂😂😂😂ain’t got time for waiting games
Right lol what sane dating person would wait for a week without moving on?! This woman is delusional in every aspect and represents a good portion of black women 40+ unfortunately
at least she texted back. A woman 20 years younger would have ghosted him
Exactly. He deleted her number and moved on.
I honestly don’t believe that marijuana is helping the black community. For medical reason yeah sure, but now all I see is over consumption of something that was supposed to be recreational.
The same people were smoking weed way before the stigma behind it got better there's plenty of functioning adults who use it as well but if it's not directly hurting you which it isn't why do you care? Don't give me that community nonsense either with all the toxic stuff constantly being pushed
Lets be honest there's always been over consumption it's just been made legal in some states.
If you’re in pain, yes. And even if you’re older, and retired, or near, why not?
But if you’re young and on the grind?
Probably not. When you’re in build phase of your life, you’ve got to be on point 👍🏾
The edibles work for my nerve damage chronic fatigue and pain. I think there are benefits as long as you take in moderation..
In general, weed was never good for community. Watch any rap video
She's cute. I was with her...
...until she stop texting the guy she was "interested in" for an entire week, then felt someway after he forgot about her. lol Most ladies wouldn't go for a man ghosting her for a week. All this because she wants to be chased...That is called playing games. The ole "pull-back" method, backfired on her.
Right lol at 40 stop with these Childish games. It's annoying and stupid
I wasn’t playing games I was busy hell I have a business and I’m in school but I shouldn’t be the only one texting! I already had reached out to him from his interview so I felt like I had shown enough interest
@@perdybirdie Uh-huh! She tried it. Only with the "Good Ones" do they play those games. The ones they REALLY want, it's almost a compete role reversal at times.
@@shaylabaldwin4 I notice they aren't listening to a word you're saying yet you've explained yourself fairly well.
@@shaylabaldwin4 Benjamin seemed like a nice guy. Have you all been in touch since? I thought he had the thing about children though. He was okay with your 13 yo?
40 year old single mother with a 13 year old daughter: You see my blunt earrings? Look at them curtains talking bout she like nice things. She want that 666 man to chase a weed head single mom who sound like a 16 year old.
And the pink room is throwing me
🤦🏾♂️ I just couldn’t with this one
Who has a toxic, side dude for random d!¢k appointments
Lmao
And don't forget that sh*tty Wi-Fi 😭
Ah yes another lady shopping at Neiman Marcus with EBT card.
And again, “what kind a man are you looking for”, she exposes the men she’s been choosing
Not with ent car
Great and apropos analogy. She doesn't qualify for what she wants, and won't accept that she's getting the men at her level based on her mentality and the way she presents herself in the world.
@Stefan / Educated Tyrone nothing but the truth fam dust will attract more dust the men she deals with proves it.
the men she's been choosing? you mean the men who actually think she's a catch. She has no choice but to choose those men
Please pin this comment lol 🤣🤣🤣 this is the comment of the decade.
All these women want the same type of men, smh as a woman if you have a career or a good job why do you need a man who makes 6 figures if you can take care of yourself and your kids.
ego
Because she wants to make sure he is bringing to the table what she is bringing. Same reason when men say it! Most people don’t want to take money from their pockets to take care of a grown person. Relationships these days seem transactional.
@@ettacallum4325 lol she's not bringing anything to the table and but embarrassment when she is seen with that person.
Because she's going to expect him to cover the expenses while she saves her's lol
@@kevinlee9929 that's how its supposed to be, why would she date him for free or spend her money on him when she can get m3n for free ? M3n aren't the prize which is why the body count is only for wom3n's bodies and this is what you get for shaming people. Now you're not worth publicly dating ,you'll get pumped and dumped and the next one is always available..
I am so sick of men and women saying they want these dumb catch phrases like the three sixes or a fit feminine and friendly woman.. it's so stupid. Be original, look deep within, assess your needs, get your mental health together, write down a list of your must-haves and make sure your must-haves are all qualities that are found within a person, and then write down the list of your preferences. People are so brainless these days, going by what these gurus say instead of going by what they really need
I totally understand. Thank you for staying this!
Women asking for the 3-6's..
Can men have 3-7's? Dress size 7 or under, under 7 body count, under 7 millimeters in nail length?
Probably asking too much.
Lol. You're eliminating a good 75% of ALL women in every race with the lower than 7 body count one. Unless you get someone very young or with a very old school mentality. A lot of young women are having more sex than older men, women and younger ones put together.
You're on to something buddy!!
Bit m3n will settle with someone like her because she's "lightskin" and some of you obviously like 30+ overweight nurses with long nails and heavy makeup . Obviously dust like you will settle anywhere and whoever is available at that time
@@shaungarrett5291 you took the words right out of my mouth.
You get props for that one. We need to stay on code.
One minute she's entertaining homeless and dusty dudes but now demands all 3 sixes.
Who said I was entertaining homeless men.
@Jasmine Oliver
You can want what you want but let’s be realistic.
As a man I can’t attract every woman so I went all out focused on my school, business and physique and improved my social interactions. To improve my odds.
As a woman you can’t attract EVERY MAN most ladies haven’t accepted this fact yet, m.
You want 6-6-6
Does 6-6-6 want you?
Can you attract 6-6-6?
You keep making mistakes with homeless men (learning) and making babies with them.
The all of a sudden you want a 6-6-6 man, but all the “experience” you have is with homeless men you can’t interact, relate and won’t feel comfortable or enjoy 6-6-6 company.
As a 6-6-6 I take you out to my law firm retreat or get together and you’re in the midst of all these young super models/trophy wives and Trust fund babies will you HONESTLY 100% fit in? Will you enjoy it 100%? Or you’ll be missing the club in the hood, the company of certain kind of people, will you be 100% ok and fine with me treating you 100% respectfully 100% of the time, I met a lady who told me “you are too nice, you put me on a pedestal too much” many women usually say they don’t think they deserve it or they think I am only pretending. They want some toxicity they want some drama something to talk about and fight over or use against you.
This woman basically said I want that street thug/homeless man cus the segz is good, but I want that 6-6-6 man money time and look for public image and perception
And she don’t want to make kids for him.
I will use myself as an example. I worked all my life to get my degrees, build my business, hit the gym etc. during this process I stayed single for my sanity and to avoid distraction.
Now when I turn 30 or 40 as a man, will I be willing to get with a 40 year old woman with a 13 year old child who doesn’t want a kid.
Meaning I won’t have kids to take over all the things I’ve worked for. I’ll be with a woman who is already passed her prime, and will be sharing her with a kid who isn’t mine and some homeless man or thug.
So what’s in it for me as the man.
She got all she wanted how about me I got nothing out of the arrangement instead I just risked half of everything I own to get 1/4 of her because 1/4 goes to the kid 1/4 goes to the homeless thug 1/4 goes to her business
If you were the man would you take such a deal??
Why don’t I just go after a 21 year old Russian/Columbian/Brazilian model who is childless and willing to have my kids??? And is far more traditional than a 40+ year old American single mom ???
You do the maths yourself and see what option you’d rather go with if you were a man who’ve worked hard for his 6 figure income, his 6 pack abs and most of what he has.
Would you risk it all for an old woman who was born pretty and didn’t have to work for it but the looks are fast fading due to age. And theirs an entire world with over 3.5b women from where you can get massive amounts of HOT young 20somethings by swiping, scrolling, clicking, ordering, paying, etc
For refrence Chris Brown once hired out an entire hotel to house 12 bus load of girls they signed Non disclosure agreements at the door, they submitted their phones and got in spent the entire weekend there.
A man with access to all that will leave it all for you??? A single mom passed 35??? Psttt!
As a boy knew for a fact young super models weren’t going to just magically fall in love with me but grown 30 something year old women still believe despite their looks, their age, their kids, their attitudes Rich, handsome, hardworking, faithful men will fall in love with them SMH
@Jasmine Oliver in other words after they've done had sex with all the broke homeless Tyrones then they want to "learn and evolve" when they start getting lonely and old
Facts
@Jasmine Oliver well you can evolve but ya can't evolve from broke niggas to 6 figures they ain't gonna take you seriously and that sounds wayyy easier said then done ya better find someone that's 40k or 50k+ and if that works out stick with it and if it don't then move on and climb up or build with your partner that makes 50k
she seems cool as heck lol you can tell she's the type of person that would probably give you the shirt off her back but also give you the business if you tried to play her or disrespect her 😂🤣
😅😅🤣You described her perfectly.
Lol... if you want some of those edibles say that
@@JM-qg9bo I'll leave the edibles to you hun, it's actually not my thing. Be blessed tho luv 👋🏾😊
@@eugenecaldwell9619 This was a pretty accurate assumption of me and I appreciate the positive feedback y’all
I actually think she's a cool woman to be with. She is different from the women usually come on here.
*Sighs* blunt earrings. This a wrap off top. No decorum, no class. I don't care how acceptable weed may be, this is well below standard for a classy full grown woman. And it shows in her results. That's why she can only get men looking to live off her. It's not a lack of men. There are more Black men at every level of income than Black woman; they just don't want her. But her trash mentality can't see and accept that it's her that's the problem.
Yea I thought the same thing when I saw those earrings and people nowadays will cry and whine so loud about being labeled and stereotyped but will turn right around and conduct this foolishness gross.
That’s her daughter room
@@deborahadams3745 No decorum, not decore. I'm not talking about the physical atmosphere; I'm talking about the way in which she conducts and presents HERSELF.
All you have to do is look at the red hair and the red eyebrows and see that she’s a woman who doesn’t respect herself. A 40 year old woman shouldn’t look like that. 🤢🤮
THANK YOU!!!
Her wifi smoked a blunt.
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I notice that literally every single woman that comes on Kendra show, claims at one point in time to already have been in a relationship with this "ideal successful attractive alpha man" that she's desiring to date again .. It's so much 🧢 & delusion in that .. If you claim to have already have had this man before, then how could you let him go??🤔 .. I really think that women have a very hard time accepting the fact that you was just sleeping around with somebody that you liked a lot & yall was never really in a serious relationship .. If a woman likes you a lot & she gives you some 😽💦 ... She's gonna swear up & down that yall was in a relationship & that's just not the case a lot of the times 🤦🏾♂️
You never know though. There are women who may have had that man years earlier but weren’t ready for them or to settle down. Now when they’re ready they’re realizing maybe that catch they didn’t grab isn’t readily out there I’m abundance to them anymore.
Their lying
@@ItsmeCR-g8j idk maybe 🤷🏾♂️ ..But from my experience when a woman really likes you then she REALLLLYYYY likes you lol .. Women are usually more ready for marriage & to settle down way before a man is .. I just think its because we live in such a modern day, promiscuous culture, where women are giving up sex to the men they like more easier then ever now & without these men ever truly having to be committed to them .. I'm speaking from experience because I'm older now & move more mature .. But when I was younger, I would have sex with a woman knowing damn well I didn't want nothing serious with her lol smh 🤦🏾♂️
Having sex is considered relationship when it is with a desirable man.
@@ItsmeCR-g8j
True! OR they were in a Situationship with said guy that she classified as a real relationship
Before you decide not to settl….excuse me….adjust your expectations, do the math…
20.0 - Million Black men
2.0 - Million black men ages 30 - 45 (about 10% of pop.)
100K - Earn $100K and up (5%)
14.5K - Men over 6ft tall ( 14.5%)
2,320 - Number of men that are larger than 6 inches (16%)
Now start reducing that 2,320 number by the number of men that are straight. Then reduce that number by the men she’d find attractive and those that would find her attractive. Then reduce that number by the number of men that live near her or would be willing to travel. Then reduce that number by the number of men whose kid situation matches her preference. What you’re left with is probably 250 men in the ENTIRE country. Start being realistic and start doing it right now or be alone for the rest of your life
Very true. If she wasn't so ratchet she could get a non black man, but she's too deep in to even be a consideration at this point unfortunately. Maybe a ghetto lite Hispanic man with his own business making 6 figures would work for her though
Statistics are hard for most women.
Maybe use realistic instead of settle. Settle may be the right word but it doesn't sit well with most people
She is looking for a 1% man, but she has no qualities of what he would want. That's their major problem, they don't think about what the man wants.
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 Compromise is a good thing. 😄
As being born in '74 going thru the most seeing the last of hard working men & Black family. We are not on point. Every woman want the most of the best men. But never seems to understand what's really going on. I wish her the best.
🤔 Last of the Hard Working Men??? Men in 2022 work and earn more money than our grandfather's. It's modern women who've developed a taste for 6 figure lifestyles. Y'all can't afford it. Median income for BW in 2022 is $42,000.
🤣 Modern Black Women are liabilities.
1) Black Men can cook as well if not better
2) Black Men keep house as well if not better
3) Black Men parent as good if not better
Black Men are as good as women. Black Women suck at being a woman and a man.
Wish her the best. I don’t.
Men never stopped working hard lol The women just turned against all men with the feminist movement and continue to paint these horrible narratives that even men believe...
@@aguythatsrandom ok
Let me be clear. Two parent home takes hard work... not just hard working on a job.
The three 6's... Lol. So I dated a guy like that. He happened to be a man of no color. Other than being 6'8", there was really nothing remarkable about him. He was just a "normal guy" as far as the way he carried himself and his lifestyle. He drove a regular truck, had a decent house, and didn't live above his means at all. He was very frugal, actually. The only thing he DID splurge on was his two kids. He took them on trips at LEAST twice a year. I admired (no, adored) that about him. He now lives in a million dollar home in another city.
We broke up because I realized I wasn't being honest with myself about whether he was what I truly wanted. I enjoyed his company and his conversation, and thought he was a nice person. There were some red flags that popped up (which I initially ignored) that made me finally be honest with myself and move on, and allow him to move on. He was (I believe) in heavy denial about his sexuality. I couldn't deal with that and the potential drama that I knew would eventually come with it. Especially since he got offended, defensive, and standoffish when I brought it up.
I'm much happier now with my blue-collar, $80K-$90K man. He makes me feel safe, hyper-feminine, and happy to be around him. That 6$-6'-6" ain't all that.
@16:00 she didn't text him for a week then got offended when he didn't chase her and forgot about her... she is playing childish games with a 40 yr old man. She learned the hard those tricks stop working after maybe 22 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't know what she was thinking lol
He’s really not her type she just ran out of options. Losers are her main dish.
After he sees this I doubt the date will happen lol
You are so right Kendra, been married for 30 years was there from the beginning. This 6 figure’s is good now. But while getting here was a difficult hike! I’m glad I’m not in dating era now…
Yeah, rich men want ghetto-fabulous women to take out to fancy restaurants and overseas vacations. OK!! "I need a man with focus" said the 40yr old with blunt earrings!
I didn't even see those....
40 is not old. But I guess it is when y'all like teenager's
Lmaooo
First of all, you can’t go into a relationship having the guy think you don’t need anything. That will make him too comfortable. It’s all about how you start off. The vibe she’s giving me is that she feels like she puts more into the relationship than she receives. She has to communicate to him what she wants.
Yeap that is what she said ..the sad part was when she said if she likes him more than she likes herself she is a good women 😔 sad she need to love herself first in order to give love
@@viviancanela3427 I definitely think you NEED to have self love before you can love someone else. Because without it you would project all the things you hate about yourself onto others
@@heavensent9772 Men do that to women which is why black women experience such horribly violent abuse at their hands. Women tend to internalize things which is why our bodies reflect the pain caused from outside us. 🤔
@@viviancanela3427 I said if I like him MORE than I like myself meaning I’m in love with me so much that I have to actually like you to even entertain the situation lol so how In the HELL did you get I need to love myself more from that statement? Please explain
@@heavensent9772 and your just agreeing and y’all both missed the whole point it’s sad! We need to listen more and judge less! God bless y’all though my black queens 👸🏽
Even if I worked at Burger King I still wouldn’t want her.
What makes y'all think she would want you?
@@kisha4040 mam she is wat u call a stank hx
@@kisha4040 Dear lord! Why do so many people (like yourself) struggle with reading comprehension?
@@kisha4040 even if she didn't want any of them, they'd still not want her. Her wants are irrelevant to them wanting her.
@@kisha4040 she literally told us what her standards were. It was not impressive. Lazy, broke, homeless. Not much of a bar
“I didn’t txt him back for like a week and when I did, he asked who this?’” Lmao you Gotdamn right. Bro wasn’t waiting around on yo ass
I'll give this broad $66.60 for some better curtains.
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That’s the cost of one short curtain rod. I can already tell you don’t even have curtains up. Do you at least have windows where you live?
@@real_abiola Listen here hyena, I'm that type of N she lookin for and don't want her... Prob the same for you as well, now go eat you some raw dead meat....
who wants to settle for her, women got it twisted.
You go 7 days w/o texting or talking to someone, it's a done deal! What she thought?
Exactly.. 🤦🏾♀️
I didn't respond to a tinder message quick enough the same day and got blocked. Many chicks cut you off after a day. She went an entire week?!? She doesn't value a man's time.
@@jesterarts734 After only a day? They're very quick.
@@orubek355 Hell yea. lol 2 days max. I've heard many say, " a no call no show gets you fired." So her waiting an entire week...she knew she was on bs. She wouldn't tolerate it if he did.
Facts
😂😂 I needed this laugh 40 single mother that wants the 3 6s. I want the singer normani but I know my lane 🤣 the delusion of y'all modern women
“If I like you and I’m into I DON’T require as much”. There it is. If any woman making demands than means she’s not into you or you’re not her first option. You’re the backup plan. ✌🏾
She said 6inches then said average…. Well 6inches ain’t average 😂😂😂
A lot of women tend to say that they take care of themselves but they don't disclosed that they are receiving government assistance, child support and sometimes alimony. Not saying that's her.
Why wouldn’t a woman receive child support lol tf
Exactly I'm impressed at all the black woman that have they own business.😏 I definitely wouldn't tell them all the income I have coming in though! Sheesh that's why she meeting leeches 🤦🏽♀️
@@reddb-1fba540 yep. Probably a leach herself. Think. How is she funding this thc business? I didn't hear her say she has another job.
@@idi.h5460 here we go. Another simpleton. I never said that receiving child support is a bad think. To paraphrase myself, that's probably how she is funding her business.
The government ain't paying that much and as a former social worker I can assure you that lots of Black men receive various government benefits 😏👀👀👀
'I want 666 and I ain't talking about the devil' I burst out laughing 🤣 🤣🤣🤣. Thanks for the laugh sis. Hope you find all that you are seeking
I love her. I hope she finds someone good for her 🖤🖤🖤
Goofy dejour, this is you Maam, so that's what's gonna show up at your door. The ear rings speak volumes about you! IJS😖
What 6, 6, 6 guy with 'no flaws' is going to want a 40 year old, that's a mom, with red eyebrows and blunt earrings. Don't these women have to realize that they need to be what the men want? It's really really that simple. Who's taking a grown women with blunt earrings seriously in their 40s?? C'mon
She gonna go and say the guy with the 6's is 'cheating' when that's not what Kendra was even going to say. So you are knowing that those men will 'cheat' but still want them??? Then going to come on a show and complain about the reason why you're not in a relationship is because of the...men
You didn't text Benjamin for a week. He didn't forget who you were. He saw that you didn't have any interest and he returned that energy. Let's be honest. Good job Benjamin! Then you come on the show and roast the person you're about to go out on a date with? If I was Benjamin, I wouldn't jack that
It seems like most women on Kendra’s show have expeditions that they don’t meet. A 6 man is looking for a woman with NO kids, fit, feminine and in her early 20s!
Your pathetic
Its the blunt earrings for me lol
I just saw that cause of your comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿♂️🔥
She seems like a nice chick with a lot of ratchetness going on....blunt earrings, cheap wifi, playing games, etc. I think she needs to temper her expectations, and find an average guy.
Agreed 100% #equallyyoked
She need to be with dude who was breaking her spine. She sounds very childish.
I love Shayla! Especially that accent. But her openness, realness & vulnerability. Plus the fact that she naturally smiles a lot. I think her & Benjamin make a cute couple but he seems a little high-strung whereas she seems laid back but you never know. I wish her the best.
Benjamin seems a little high-strung!? Or Is he just well put together and seems respectable and a professional? But you think he goes well with a lady who wears blunt earrings and can't even describe or know a lot about the business she's in!? Come on sis, stop the BS! ..
But I do love her accent and she seems genuine, but they wouldn't make a good match because of the requirements Benjamin is looking for. Best of luck to both of em!!
@@bigmack7430 maybe you should find him and ask him instead of judging me for the type of earrings I wear. Also when could I not describe the type of business I am in? Then you went on to say I seem genuine your a walking contradiction sir…make it make sense and who’s to say he don’t smoke weed maybe that’s why he like me or maybe just maybe we made a connection and he actually like my personality?
She smiling cus she high!
@@shaylabaldwin4 No disrespect. I'm on the outside looking in and giving my observation as a respectable and responsible man. And I don't have to find him, if it is what you think it is, send me a copy of the wedding invitation in a few months. That way you can prove me wrong and everyone else too. I judge on results! And I'll be the first to apologize and say you were right... And watch the video of yourself with someone who is going to tell you the truth and not what you want to hear and I'm sure he/she will tell you , that you could have explained things a lot better than you did. But just my opinion at the end of the day Mamn! Honestly hope things work out.
She smiles a lot because she’s high right now LOL
She has hit da wall🧱her Wi-Fi is eating her edibles 🤦she wants da 666 man of her Dreams.😂😂eat more edibles and you will find that man in your Dreams🤤🤤🤯😤
Guys make sure you are paying attention. Listen to this. She’s waiting for you.
She needs to buy a nice dog 😃
And a cat
That weed done fried her brain…. 😂😂😂😂
I think after Benjamin sees this the chatting will stop. She doesn't seem his type.
If a woman wants the three 6’s, she needs to have three 0’s: 0 kids, size 0 dress and 0 bodies
She's not old looking. But she has the features of a grandmother. It's hard to explain she has an old young face.
You need help ASAP!
@@Scorpiehibiscus what evey you say. But she still has a old young face!
Fellas I live in Atlanta. Every time I go out im constantly out number. Its not enough men in Atlanta smh she wont even get half of what she is asking for.
Fellas. You don't have to be 6 figures to get this woman.
Bra u hit that on the nail bra bra💪💪💪💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥stank as bhhh
I can bet Pookie making 24k at the post office was at her crib hitting it from the back last week. 6 figures my 🦶
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Bro, she only qualifies for a 4 digit man.....lol
Benjamin was too good for her 💯💯😭😭
I wasn't ready for that "draw him" joke. Facts!
The audacity that's all.
She seems like the complete opposite of the woman Benjamin was describing I’m assuming he didn’t see her blunt earrings.
Lol I'm sure she toned it down for him, but no person seriously dating is going to wait for you after a week of no response. I would have moved on after 3 days no response.
She is a good one, most normal woman on the show in a long time.
Really 🤣
Kendra G was SPOT TF ON about men with money! I make 200k a year, and before I did I met my ex she was there when a nigga didn't have much and stuck by my side through it all, honestly it's my fault we broke up, but I tell you what even after we broke up I got her a brand new car and paid the rent for her to have a condo for two years so she didn't have to pay a dime.....Kendra is EXACTLY on the money with that fr
What do you do?
I own my own gaming company...I do graphic design for major companies like, Rockstar, Bethesda, and others and I design their websites sometimes as well, I have also done work for the company gamestop as far as thier commercials or ads...didn't even go to college, I got disciplined and self taught myself day I graduated high-school in 2007 for 6 years straight, and built my reputation by working graphic design at, 5 years at Google, and then I did graphic design for a law firm before I took a leap of fate and started my own thing where I can keep 100 percent of my revenue...
@@KingNez89 nice
@@Jt-kl1yy thanks bro
@@KingNez89 Congratulations on your success
I love when she asked women have you ever dated this man you talking about. Excuses Excuses Excuses
Nobody wants to be with these ladies in a serious relationship after they admit giving up the cookies to Pookie last week . If anything dudes wanna grab the friends with benefits spot 🤷🏾♂️
I like Shayla .... She seems like a sweetheart
If a man came on the show with this level of delusional demands the women would roast him! Instead we have all these women cheering on the delusion which doesn’t help her. She should look for a nice guy and be happy if he wants to settle down with her!
Well said on the soliloquy of settling.
The whole Benjamin story is easy to see. He reached out to you, you decided to play games and not text back for a week, him being a grown man DELETED her number (not blocked like losers do), and moved on.
The fact that she said he didn't text back for a week is hilarious... As if she was the ONLY woman that reached out. She didn't meet him at the grocery store she met him on a dating platform with thousands of womem watching. Logic will tell you at least hundreds of women flooded his inbox (good looking guy with a good job) so why would he chase her lmao also she has tatts which he said he didn't want haha she seems like a dope woman but she clearly don't listen or respect boundaries to reach out to him with tattoos.
@@LordZevv She said SHE didn't text back for a week. Listening and comprehension are two very important skills. To my understanding, she said they have a date planned.
@@lwills8609 what I said applies because she also was taken aback that he didn't remember her. He also did not text her again in that week. Doesn't really matter who didn't text whom.The part about them having a date planned, I didn't hear that at all. I don't even know these people so I really don't care. Its all just entertaining to me at the end of the day.
3 6’s she wants the devil
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Exactly!! These dudes better proceed with caution.
She slept with her weed man for a dime bag.....He's married/ got a main chick at home 🏡
Look at that room......🤯 and I'm going to leave it at that.
Imagine me, as a six figure engineer, cuffing a 40-year old single mother who sells weed brownies and stays in toxic relationships for the D. This is pathetic. Kendra really the K.S 2.0. There needs to be a vetting process for getting on this show, otherwise the delusion of our women will continue to be on public display.
She could get a six figure marijuana dispensary owner. They can do business together.
@@The-Oneness11 Just as women advocate not to look at men's potential when vetting, I am not interested in what she could do or be. Her age, child, and predisposition about dating for dick is much more concerning anyway.
@@The-Oneness11 good idea but many of these women can't think that far 😂
Well she didnt come here screaming your name lol
@@intello8953 Woman think farther than men realize.
Benjamin wasn’t trying to take the woman with the blunt earrings to the office party lol
If only I could turn back the hands of time, I know I would be in a better place today. I wish all of you that are looking for a relationship and/or marriage the very best.
Hey dear. I can only imagine what you are referring to. I hope you're doing all right though.
God bless.
Ehhh. People in their 40s don’t have time to “build” with anyone.
Hobosexual dudes is her best bet. She got with a triple 6 dude that she by her own admission had to leave yet in the end she says she's also a "ride n die"?
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15:45 "can't take you to my office party with a back tattoo". Bruh stuck in the 80s 😂
Right I work in Corporate America with Attorneys that have full arm tattoo sleeves.
@@MCthespeaker exactly. I work in IT so more lax for sure, but my fiancé is a Physician and pretty much all her coworkers have tattoos.
Sooo it's sad that I have to explain this. Being a black man moving through the corporate world things like these matters. Your partner is a representation of you. It's ok to say it's no big deal but you never know how you're perceived by the bosses. This man said he doesn't want a girl in tattoos but you have this woman on talking about 6ft and 6 inches and that's not more alarming. This new age is forcing men to want absolutely nothing for themselves.
Women don’t care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and f*¢k the winners. She has a toxic side dude she can call up any time but she needs a 6-6-6 to come into this mess and clean it up. Naw!
Facts
What’s wrong with waiting at the finish line
Shayla, I love the pink bed/room!!! It's givingg!!! #LOVEITTTTTT
Damn man! These women are beyond lost and repairable. It’s so discouraging. SYSBM 😂
You can’t make this shit up 🗣
Clicked as fast as I could! 💖
SMH you probably one of those type that watches divorce court all the time anyway why you click so fast it's the same thing you already know what they about to say do you click fast for Jesus Christ you need to click fast for Jesus Christ do you click fast to read the Bible I command you to read the story of Jeremiah and get back with me and I'll leave you further instructions
@@icantdealwithyall41 Leave further instructions for yourself. North, south, east, and west. Earth, air, fire, and water. Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. You cherry pick which part of Christ’s teachings you wish to follow, heretic. Don’t come for Catholics, unless they send for you.
@@icantdealwithyall41 What’s with the harshness to someone you don’t don’t. Going off the 3 comments you made and the time this video was posted, you were here just as fast and already had a lot to say.
We’re chastising ppl who’re doing the exact same thing as you. 🤔
@@ItsmeCR-g8j oh yeah one more thing Kevin Samuels would have called her a homewrecker does your shoe fit ✌️😚
Don't be the man a women settle for, there will always be contempt towards you.
Pineapples!! 🤣🤣
LULZ, like 20 seconds in 😂
🤣😭 for real
It wasn't frozen shella was high she nodded out🤣🤣
Not very many men stay after you’ve built them up, I’ve been there, walked and struggled with a man and he cheated on me as soon as he got that first pay check and it got even worse when the beemer came through. So PLEASE don’t try and build men as some sort of ride or die guarantee ladies. Life has no formula
women don't build men lol
Men should absolutely not need a woman to build them up and for the reason you mentioned, it's not wise for a woman to spend their time building up a man. That said, as a man well on his way, I don't need any help building myself. What I need is a partner who is doing her thing, but is working with me towards a possible future. I am not a lottery ticket and neither is she. If you are a good stable partner and your man has sense he will recognize that. If your man NEEDS you to build him up, then he is probably too weak for you and you should move on to a man that can better match your energy.
What gets weird is that women who wouldn't date you before, are now interested because your hard work is paying off. This is the situation that men start to get into. Women who only want to date winners because they want to get a slice or half in a divorce. This is the concern smart men with assets are concerned about. Yet, men pursue success in large part because women desire it. So it's a bit of a paradox. That said, if you want to be taken seriously you don't need to build him, but show that you are there to contribute and not just receive. Trust me. Smart men understand that these ladies are rare.
Most men do, try not to speak for men when you’re not one. That’s like me speaking on women
@@peanutawesome1 Do you know most men?
@@Sunshine44488 I am one and know many. I also know statistics like woman initiating 80% of all divorces. So let’s not lie on most men because of personal stories. I mean if you have any statistics backing your claim up tell us.
These women aren’t even fours, yet they want three six’s…… 🤷🏻♂️🙄🤦🏻♂️
“I take care of myself.” Why do so many women act like this is some sort of major life achievement? 🤔🤷🏻♂️🙄🤦🏻♂️
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Lol because most people over 30 don't take care of themselves. Many give up on their bodies altogether.
Grown middle aged woman be like: I brush my teeth, and wash my face, and put on clothes, and do basic adult stuff like go to work and pay rent; I'm a bad b_tch.
LOL, you're an adult doing what billions of adults through the history of time do. Congratulations for accomplishing the basics of life that make you stand out from no one.
@@leadrecruiter - She was talking about taking care of herself financially not her body or her makeup.
@@Yobachi2007 - “I pay my own bills.” = “I’M A BOSS!!!” 🤷🏻♂️🙄🤦🏻♂️😂
Listen to what she said “I don’t require much from people I like”…that goes for many women. Most women will not care about what you make unless they’re not attracted to you.
Nor true. Every woman isn't interested in broke dude thar are " ok looking". For me looks and economics go hand in hand.
She's slow, stop all that smoking
40 in the dating scene? Online at that? Good luck 😭😭😭
Kendra,
I think you should have a version of the show for the top tier of the community.
Top tier don't need help with finding mates.
@@stoegerstewie8351 - then why have NFL players been on this show.
Benjamin forgot who she was lol! 😂