I have never been physical to my children. I have respected their opinion. I have always listened to them. I have given them my time n attention. I never practiced I the evening to take care of them. I may not be successful economically but my children love me a lot.Alhamdolillah
you're fefinitely more successful than others because you have something that not even the billionaires have, and that is the love of your child. You're an amazing parent, Mashallah.
Respected Sir, I am student from INDIA. Sir your way of talking on each and every topic whether related to studies or to way of living or any issue is in such a greatful or realistic mode that I think no one can teach better than you sir. And sir I pray to GOD to get a Teacher like you as a consultant in my Post-graduation as currently I am doing my internship after MBBS. And finally sir I also pray to God for your good health and well being.
@@adnansaleem767 My wish is to meet with Dr Javed Iqwal sir , I wish If I could make it possible. Yes his way of talking is very nice ....salute you too sir 🕊️🕊️
@@letslearngrammarsayyad8036 Dear plzz watcch and subsccribe my English Literature channl launched for our younger. th-cam.com/video/R3FhXVmk1wY/w-d-xo.html
Mne kafi dant khae bachpan me aj doctor tw hun per confidence nhe mere me na descision le sakti hun... Deep down me aik darpook larki hun .... i agree with you 💯
Kaka Chunna Aj ap doctor hain apne Maa or bap ki duayo ki waja se hain ap ne kitni bhi mehnat ki ho gi lekin ap ki maa dosre room mai janamaz per beth ker Allaha se ager dua na kerti to Allaha pak kabhi bhi ap ko kamiyab na kerta
Absolutely sir you r wonderful person bht kuch sikhne k milta hy Mera beta 9sal k ho Chuka hy sir mgr AP k bht dair se join kia hy sir bht bari bari galtiyan kr di hyn me ne sir
A great message for parents..parenting is very difficult task...i watched all Doctor sahab videos..and apply it to my daughter parenting.....thanks Doctor sahab...you are very intelligent and kind person..
@@Ghazanfar704 je je mam apny bchy ko to pyaar krna e chahiye mgr agr koi stranger bhi ho to usky sath zyaada pyaar sa paish ana chahiye...ap boht achi hain inshAllah choti py next time reham krein ge dua e dua💓🌼
Yeah I also respect my child. He is 2.5 year old. He still tried to hit his 1 year old brother and sometimes me also. I still try to stop him in a nice way. He stops for time being but then later hits again. :/
I'm lucky.My mom love me too much.I'm living for her greatness otherwise I cann't survive in this world without father.Allah unhey slaamat rekhey.Ameen!
اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے بہت خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آ پ بہت اچھے طریقے سے سمجھاتے ہیں اللہ تعالی آپکو لمبی عمر اور صحت تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آپ نے ماں کو بچوں کے بارےمیں بہت اچھے طریقے سے سمجھایا ہے زبردست گفتگو کرتے ہیں
Sir, thank you. The concept that you’re speaking about is what i’ve thought for days now. Most parents ruin the professional lives of their children by not respecting them enough when they’re still young. I’m genuinely pleased to see how you address this complex situation.
Same happened in my childhood now I'm a 35 years old man having very low level of confidence because I always discouraged in my childhood. Now I'm facing a lot of difficulties in my practical life.
Everybody should see this video. This should also be taught in colleges and universities and in homes especially when people get married and when they have kids. . JazakALLAH Khair.
When I start to watch this convarsation I thought k kaash yeh video apnay bachay k bachpan main dakhi hoti but Alhamdulillah k aap nay yeh bhe bataya k what should we do now. So thankyou so much.
Dear sir, i can't tell u in words how helpfull ur lecture was. I asked sorry to my son and i felt so much better. Indeed every humanbeing deserve respect.
JazakAllah Sir... I treated my younger brothers like that.. But i realized i was totally wrong.. But now I Promised myself to give Respect my brothers.. Allah Bless You!
I'm a physician in the United States. I do understand Urdu since I was raised in a Pakistani family. What you are saying is a message that parents need to hear and absorb. I was a victim of physical and emotional abuse my entire life by both my mother and father. And even now as an adult it still continues. It is a horrible and painful thing. Pride, ego, and narcissism are the root cause. Cultural justification enables it. We have to remind our parents what our prophet Muhammad peace be upon him would think if he observed the abuse. As a child and adult it makes it doubly difficult since in Islam we're supposed to respect and love our parents. I do hope God forgives victims of this abuse and holds them to a different standard regarding this commandment.
I'm a physician from NY. I also suffered verbal abuse. Our society is a sick society. We are the pioneer s to change that attitude. The best way to that is to give respect and love ❤️ but I agree it's very difficult.
beautiful lecture. my daughter is almost 3 and I'm definitely going to treat her as a future doctor/surgeon inshaa allah and give her the respect that she deserves just like a grown up
Aj ap ki ye bate sun Kar me bohat roi hu mun mene apni beti k sath bohat zulm Kiya tha mene na chahty Howe b apne hi logo ki waja se apni beti par hath Uthay tha lekin aj muje apne kiye par afsos howa k Jin logo ko razi karne k liye mene apni beti par hath uthaya tha wo to phr b razi na Howe lekin abi waqt h k me apni galti ko sudar lu me subha hi apni beti se sorry kahu gi or ap ki kahi Hoi bato par amal Karo gi InSha allah
Alhamdulillah k mein ny boht achi time per Dr Javid Iqbal Saab k valuable speach se mustafeed ho Raha ho , Alhamdulillah jazakAllah khair Dr saab boht boht pyare awr shukria ,🌹🤍💚🌺
I have always noticed that Javed bhai's live workshops in this kind of setting always bring out his best. He has the makings of an enigmatic and charismatic public speaker. May Allah bless him for his inestimable service to humanity . He'll go very very far inshaAllah.
Thank you sir for being a such a wonderful Person, and inspiring lots of soul we need more people like you in the world in order to make this world more beautiful and peaceful, lots of love and respect from India currently in America. I wish I can hug you, if you ever travel to USA in one of your seminars.
A.o.a ,. Now a days we really need people who can help us in different matters of life and you are one of them . MashAllah.. one positive thought can solve a problem and one positive person can make his impact on several persons which can lead us to a good society. JazakAllah sir really appreciate you .
Me too! I just remember how brave and loving i was around 6 but i don't remember what happened that made me such a looser, im just a fckn scared pussy, diagnosed with anxiety disorder with depression.
@@biologylecturesbyriffat Dear plzz watcch and subsccribe my English Literature channl launched for our younger. th-cam.com/video/R3FhXVmk1wY/w-d-xo.html
I wish sab parents ko hidayat de ki bacoho ko pyaar mohabbat se samjane ke samaj de ameen summa ameen subanallah allahu akbar jajak allahu khera ameen summa ameen
Well said it makes me cry I always scold my kids gusay mai. I just downloaded it mai roz suno gi. Bilkul thek kaha hai although it's bitter but its reality
Dr Javed. Apki guidelines true hen. Buht best . ALLAH kray k ap ko follow kr k Allah hmare bchu ki achi tarbiayat krwa den. Plz mbl usage pr bhi lecture den 3 years old plus bachu k lia.
This was unique, sacred, and superlative for me! Never heared such a discussion by anyone. Every single time, people talk only about the rights of parents, their honor, and respect. I'm obviously not against it, but not a single soul is bothered with the blatant & heinous mistakes the parents commit while upbringing their children. "Respecting the children" is completely taboo, alienated, and never heared of and even mocked up on in our society, no one can even think about respecting the children. Parents take their children for granted, they think they own their children, and so the child is denied his very existence, his fundamental rights. Parents think of themselves as some sort of diety that must be worshipped at any cost by their children. If refused, the entire life of the children is showered by curse, blasphemy, and all forms of negative feedback and haunting spells. Parents hijack their children's entire life & its decisions, and command the children to blindly carry out their commandments no matter how irrelevant & impractical & outdated they may be, they just don't care. Parents are so immersed in their own ego and holiness that they themselves can't distinguish whether they are sober or drunk. I can't articulate enough how endearing this discussion was to my heart, because the kind of miserable, depressed, anxious, and stressed life that I've been through so far.. so I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I pray that may Almighty grant you the best of rewards in this life and in hereafter (aameen, insha'Allah)! Jazak'Allah 👐️🤗️😇️
Aaj tak ka u tube pe guzara huwa meri behtarin waqt hai ye video, aaj se kousish korungi baaccho ke sath puri tehzib aur izzat se paish aawu. I love u both of u my kids, samma n angel .😘🥰
Ma Sha Allah Allah aap ko khub khub jazaye khair ataa kare Aameen Aulaad Allah ki Amanat hai walidain ke pas Allah sabhi walidain ko sahi tarbiyat karne ki taufiq de
Sir I am from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 You are very good person and good personality app bahut ache haii kitnaa achii xhiizz baatee Aise behhtreen loogg kii jaruurt haii India mee joo keval carrer kii hi nhii balqi zindagi ki bhii baate bass career pr focus na karaye
MAY Allah swt Bless you Dr saab . your today's video is right on the spot . Parents especially fathers are very hard full of themselves. they destroy life of their daughters in the name of Islam. plz make sure to uploaded full video.
Mene apki video dhekhi hu kafi aur apne baby jo 2yrs ki hai usko us hisab se treat kr rahi hu kafi farak dikha mujhr pata hi nhi tha ki baccho ko aisy bhi haindel kar saktay hai ❤thank you❤
Dr sahb I love you from the bottom of my heart ♥.... May Allah bless you with all his blessings.... You are a great person and human being.... H Jazakallah....
I wish my father could be like that..I got destroyed personality,career,qualifications and confidence because of my father's inferiorly scolding without any reason.
No words to say listings after your wording,it s magical to m, I m shocked to sayd oh may God and thanking to God also that he gave me a right way befour going wrong,and end of my wording thanku so mach 💐
Sir this is absolutely true,kaash ye baat sab mothers n fathers samajh jayein, sab mujhy kehtay hain k bachon k sath mother ka strict hona zaroori hai but mai un logon sy agree nahi krti,mother ka apnay bachon k sath soft hona boht zarrori hai
aslam o alikum sir . sir myra byta h 10 sall ka ho gya hr bat py ro prta h . smj nae ati kya krun . pyar sy b smja k dykha h ghusa b kr k . par choti choti bat py rony bath jata h . plz btayn m kya krun.
Assalam o alaikum sir App kay lectures sun kar buhat knowledge milti hai or sunney k bad waqay mind change ho jata hai jesay app kah rahey hain wesay hi karen gay InshAllah or mind relex hojata sab sun kar.. Allah Tallah apko lambi umer ata karen tandrusti wali or buhat khushiyan den Allah apni hifzo eman mai rakhen ameen 🌸
I have never been physical to my children.
I have respected their opinion.
I have always listened to them.
I have given them my time n attention.
I never practiced I the evening to take care of them.
I may not be successful economically but my children love me a lot.Alhamdolillah
U r successful, having a ton of cash doesn't make no one sucessful.
you're fefinitely more successful than others because you have something that not even the billionaires have, and that is the love of your child. You're an amazing parent, Mashallah.
You mean financially...
MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah 🌸
kash mara parents bhii aisa hota
Respected Sir, I am student from INDIA. Sir your way of talking on each and every topic whether related to studies or to way of living or any issue is in such a greatful or realistic mode that I think no one can teach better than you sir.
And sir I pray to GOD to get a Teacher like you as a consultant in my Post-graduation as currently I am doing my internship after MBBS.
And finally sir I also pray to God for your good health and well being.
Yes...way of topic is very nice .. I salute you sir gee.
@@adnansaleem767 My wish is to meet with Dr Javed Iqwal sir , I wish If I could make it possible.
Yes his way of talking is very nice ....salute you too sir 🕊️🕊️
Adnan Salee
Sir, sometime punishment also necessary for better improvement and for keep stay away our children from wrong way or things. Isn,t it?
@@letslearngrammarsayyad8036 Dear plzz watcch and subsccribe my English Literature channl launched for our younger. th-cam.com/video/R3FhXVmk1wY/w-d-xo.html
I wish too my parents could understand this too... I am in serious depression due to them..
Kash wo betiyon ki trha hi apny beton se piyr krtay
Same😢
Tru
@@everydaybusiness8071 on my
Parents k jigr ka tukra hoty hn bety betiyon se muhbt ziyada zahir krna betiyon ko to chaly jana h maa bap ki qadar kijiye depression se bahr hn
I feel ya mate ❤️
Isiliye hamare pyaare, Respected Prophet mohammad saw ne kabhi apne chhoto par gussa nahi kiya hai
Mashallah ❤
Khuda pak humary buchoon ko farmabardar bnay aur humain apni ulaad ki sahi tarbyat karny ki toufeeq day ameen
Every marriend and unmarried person either male or female need to listen this legend person❤😭
Dil chuh Jane waney speech hai. Only if parents understood !
so hsjz
Literally cried listening this. My mother recently passed away . Please pray for her.
May Allah grant her Jannat ul firdous .
Ameen
May Allah swt ease your pain and grant you the strength to get through whatever hardships
you're going through
May Her soul rest in peace , Ameen ya Rub .
Rest in peace
@@connectingthedots1309 aameen
You aren't only doctor, you are a good Guider, Good Teacher, Good Lecturer, Good Philosopher, I'm big fan of you, your way of talk and teach.
Sir aff nai jo kaha woh sub mare sath i jata hai koi muj se pyar nahi karta hai na maa papa na bhan baiya
Don't forget to check my kids related things 😊
Omg. Why I didn't listened to the lectures before. From now on regularly INSHALLAH
Mne kafi dant khae bachpan me aj doctor tw hun per confidence nhe mere me na descision le sakti hun... Deep down me aik darpook larki hun ....
i agree with you 💯
Me be
Hi
Same thing which is happened to me 🙄😒
ap docter hein mjy apse bat krni hei zaruri
Kaka Chunna Aj ap doctor hain apne
Maa or bap ki duayo ki waja se hain ap ne kitni bhi mehnat ki ho gi lekin ap ki maa dosre room mai janamaz per beth ker Allaha se ager dua na kerti to Allaha pak kabhi bhi ap ko kamiyab na kerta
Your children are blessed, having Father like you.
Q ap ky parents kaisy hai
@@mehwishsultan1537 o hello
Magar aksar, charaagh talay andhera bhi hota hai
Absolutely sir you r wonderful person bht kuch sikhne k milta hy Mera beta 9sal k ho Chuka hy sir mgr AP k bht dair se join kia hy sir bht bari bari galtiyan kr di hyn me ne sir
I think same
Listening this and realising we have ruined generations of generations. I hope parents realise that self esteem is the most crucial element of life.
Don't forget to check my kids related things 😊
I am from India and I am your FAN. Aap bahut achchhe insan hai. Ishwar (Allah Tala) aapko baraqt de.
Same here
A great message for parents..parenting is very difficult task...i watched all Doctor sahab videos..and apply it to my daughter parenting.....thanks Doctor sahab...you are very intelligent and kind person..
The most worthy 8 minutes of my TH-cam history 💓
پتہ ہی نہیں چلا وقت کا 🌷🌷🌷🌼🌼🌼ڈاکٹر صاحب بوہت ہی اچھے انسان ہیں 🏵🏵🏵
g bilkul. meri to sir ny ankhen khol dee. men apne doll ko kch month say maar rahe hon....... mny kia krdia........... dua kejyga men esa na kron
@@Ghazanfar704 je je mam apny bchy ko to pyaar krna e chahiye mgr agr koi stranger bhi ho to usky sath zyaada pyaar sa paish ana chahiye...ap boht achi hain inshAllah choti py next time reham krein ge dua e dua💓🌼
Yes a worth watching
In la address and num send karayn or ye kahan say han
Plz Bro detail dejeye prof sab k..
Parenting is most difficult task in life unfortunately our partners do not understand this
no and never.
Of course sir Than How to cure it??
Exactly
@@SamirAkram39 Dear plzz watcch and subsccribe my English Literature channl launched for our younger. th-cam.com/video/R3FhXVmk1wY/w-d-xo.html
Ji
My daughter is 2 years old... I really respect her a lot... I speak her like I am talking to a great leader
Good
Thats so good 👌🏼
G00d
Yeah I also respect my child. He is 2.5 year old. He still tried to hit his 1 year old brother and sometimes me also. I still try to stop him in a nice way. He stops for time being but then later hits again. :/
Good dear
I cried with heart, when learnt your dogma.Your are a saviour of our society. love u sir and respect.
میں آپ سب لوگوں کو قرآن پاک سننے کی دعوت دیتا ہوں۔ قبول کریں۔
I'm lucky.My mom love me too much.I'm living for her greatness otherwise I cann't survive in this world without father.Allah unhey slaamat rekhey.Ameen!
Your luckier that alot which have their father alive.
Ameen
Aneen
Ameen
اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے بہت خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آ پ بہت اچھے طریقے سے سمجھاتے ہیں اللہ تعالی آپکو لمبی عمر اور صحت تندرستی عطاء فرمائے آپ نے ماں کو بچوں کے بارےمیں بہت اچھے طریقے سے سمجھایا ہے زبردست گفتگو کرتے ہیں
Masha Allah
Aameen
Sir, thank you. The concept that you’re speaking about is what i’ve thought for days now. Most parents ruin the professional lives of their children by not respecting them enough when they’re still young. I’m genuinely pleased to see how you address this complex situation.
Don't forget to check my kids related things 😊
Same happened in my childhood now I'm a 35 years old man having very low level of confidence because I always discouraged in my childhood. Now I'm facing a lot of difficulties in my practical life.
Mashallah aap ne dil ko chune wali baat kahi,her baap ko Allah nek taufiq de Aameen ❤️
You brought tears in my eyes Sir. I salute you.
@@shaziarasheed9529 thanks 😊 brother
Thanks sir
thanks to u doctor just bcz of u i improve myself as a good mother. thank god k aaj ap jaise log hain jo behtareen tareeqay se counciling krte hain
Everybody should see this video. This should also be taught in colleges and universities and in homes especially when people get married and when they have kids. . JazakALLAH Khair.
In morning show also
When I start to watch this convarsation I thought k kaash yeh video apnay bachay k bachpan main dakhi hoti but Alhamdulillah k aap nay yeh bhe bataya k what should we do now. So thankyou so much.
Thank you so much bht acha guide krte hen ap Allah pak apko jazae kher de ameen 😊👍
Dear sir, i can't tell u in words how helpfull ur lecture was. I asked sorry to my son and i felt so much better. Indeed every humanbeing deserve respect.
شکریہ جناب جاوید اقبال صاحب،،، میں ہندوستان سے🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Great lesson for every parent..Jazak Allahu khair sir 👍
Don't forget to check my kids related things 😊
Mola apko salamat rakhey mojhe apke samjhane ka tareqa bhot achcha laga apki batey bhot achchi lagti h dil chahta h apki hi wedio dekhe jao
Kasam se in sahb ke batan dil me teer ki tarha chub rahi hn mujhe... Rona a raha he dard byan nai ho raha jo feel kar raha hu me abhi 😣😣😞😞😓
JazakAllah Sir... I treated my younger brothers like that.. But i realized i was totally wrong.. But now I Promised myself to give Respect my brothers.. Allah Bless You!
I'm a physician in the United States. I do understand Urdu since I was raised in a Pakistani family. What you are saying is a message that parents need to hear and absorb. I was a victim of physical and emotional abuse my entire life by both my mother and father. And even now as an adult it still continues. It is a horrible and painful thing. Pride, ego, and narcissism are the root cause. Cultural justification enables it. We have to remind our parents what our prophet Muhammad peace be upon him would think if he observed the abuse. As a child and adult it makes it doubly difficult since in Islam we're supposed to respect and love our parents. I do hope God forgives victims of this abuse and holds them to a different standard regarding this commandment.
I'm a physician from NY. I also suffered verbal abuse. Our society is a sick society. We are the pioneer s to change that attitude.
The best way to that is to give respect and love ❤️ but I agree it's very difficult.
beautiful lecture. my daughter is almost 3 and I'm definitely going to treat her as a future doctor/surgeon inshaa allah and give her the respect that she deserves just like a grown up
Nice sir👌👌👌
Don't forget to check my kids related things 😊
👍🏼 great
Let her decide for herself
Pain of being compared with a child who is 10 years younger than you by parents....💔
I wish my husband could understand this too
Thank you so much sir may Allah bless you
Professor Sahab Allah Aapko Lmbi & Healthy, Happy Life Ata Frmayen
My hasband be always glad to see u when u talk about parenting. Plz more more and more work do it
Olaad bahoot bari namat hai Allah hamy qadar de iski Ameen😢
Blkul sae kah aaammmeen
Aj ap ki ye bate sun Kar me bohat roi hu mun mene apni beti k sath bohat zulm Kiya tha mene na chahty Howe b apne hi logo ki waja se apni beti par hath Uthay tha lekin aj muje apne kiye par afsos howa k Jin logo ko razi karne k liye mene apni beti par hath uthaya tha wo to phr b razi na Howe lekin abi waqt h k me apni galti ko sudar lu me subha hi apni beti se sorry kahu gi or ap ki kahi Hoi bato par amal Karo gi InSha allah
Alhamdulillah k mein ny boht achi time per Dr Javid Iqbal Saab k valuable speach se mustafeed ho Raha ho , Alhamdulillah jazakAllah khair Dr saab boht boht pyare awr shukria ,🌹🤍💚🌺
Sometimes I think what kind of blessing in surrounding us ....when I look at u ...ur wording ...I think u r such a big blessing for generation...
I have always noticed that Javed bhai's live workshops in this kind of setting always bring out his best. He has the makings of an enigmatic and charismatic public speaker. May Allah bless him for his inestimable service to humanity . He'll go very very far inshaAllah.
Thank you sir for being a such a wonderful Person, and inspiring lots of soul we need more people like you in the world in order to make this world more beautiful and peaceful, lots of love and respect from India currently in America.
I wish I can hug you, if you ever travel to USA in one of your seminars.
😭 sach kaha mae ne aese zaheen bache dekhen hai jin ki parents ki mar peet ne unke confident ko khtm kr diya
jazaka Allah sir
bahot acha smjhaya
Omg......Ya Allah ...He is an eye opener trust me! Bless you sir❤❤❤
A.o.a ,. Now a days we really need people who can help us in different matters of life and you are one of them . MashAllah.. one positive thought can solve a problem and one positive person can make his impact on several persons which can lead us to a good society. JazakAllah sir really appreciate you .
After watching this I want to cry at the top of my lungs .
Me too! I just remember how brave and loving i was around 6 but i don't remember what happened that made me such a looser, im just a fckn scared pussy, diagnosed with anxiety disorder with depression.
@Ahmer hassan depression se insan nikal ata hy
@@biologylecturesbyriffat Dear plzz watcch and subsccribe my English Literature channl launched for our younger. th-cam.com/video/R3FhXVmk1wY/w-d-xo.html
Me too 😭
But why ?
Love and Respect from Kathmandu Nepal.
This is such a EYE Opening talk.
I wish sab parents ko hidayat de ki bacoho ko pyaar mohabbat se samjane ke samaj de ameen summa ameen subanallah allahu akbar jajak allahu khera ameen summa ameen
Respect , A Great Way to Build Good, Beautiful Manners in Our Society.When Children happy, Nations & Countries Happy too.Very Good Topic. Thanks.
One of the best conversation I have listened to for development of my child....Thanks
Right
apki batay mujay buhat achi lagi me in p amal kro ge. INSHALLAH
i wish my parents could understand this too! (no offence, i love them)
Same 🙄
Same here i wanna share the link to mama but i'm scared
@@laibabatool3864 u shouldn't be. Even I did it
@@laibabatool3864 bs mama k mobile sy Javed iqbal channel subscribe krdo😁
@@maliksaifurrehman5680 haan nice idea 🤓😂
hm pe jo gzrni thi gzr gai...mgr i hope jo kch sal bachy hain graduation tk mere prnts bhi ye bty apna lain ameen🥺🥺
Wah sir kia bat hai apki bht Kuch sikhny ko milta hai mery b 2 bachy Hain ab mein b apny bachon ki respect kru gi ❤❤❤❤
Main b karon gi
In sha Allah
Jazakallah Very good video . Children learn when they're brought up with respect love and affection.Parents need to understand this.🇵🇰
Well said it makes me cry I always scold my kids gusay mai. I just downloaded it mai roz suno gi. Bilkul thek kaha hai although it's bitter but its reality
Allah apko toofeeq dey ajar b
Goog thought
Main khud gusy me apni beti ko marti 😢
at least you are correcting yourself
Mri beti abii 7 maaah ki ,,m b gussy my bhht marti hnnn😥
I wish every parents should learn what he said
Aameen
Same
Agree
کاش
Exactly
Sb k parents ap jese hone chahiye sir.. salute 👏
Dr Javed. Apki guidelines true hen. Buht best . ALLAH kray k ap ko follow kr k Allah hmare bchu ki achi tarbiayat krwa den. Plz mbl usage pr bhi lecture den 3 years old plus bachu k lia.
This was unique, sacred, and superlative for me! Never heared such a discussion by anyone. Every single time, people talk only about the rights of parents, their honor, and respect. I'm obviously not against it, but not a single soul is bothered with the blatant & heinous mistakes the parents commit while upbringing their children.
"Respecting the children" is completely taboo, alienated, and never heared of and even mocked up on in our society, no one can even think about respecting the children. Parents take their children for granted, they think they own their children, and so the child is denied his very existence, his fundamental rights.
Parents think of themselves as some sort of diety that must be worshipped at any cost by their children. If refused, the entire life of the children is showered by curse, blasphemy, and all forms of negative feedback and haunting spells. Parents hijack their children's entire life & its decisions, and command the children to blindly carry out their commandments no matter how irrelevant & impractical & outdated they may be, they just don't care. Parents are so immersed in their own ego and holiness that they themselves can't distinguish whether they are sober or drunk.
I can't articulate enough how endearing this discussion was to my heart, because the kind of miserable, depressed, anxious, and stressed life that I've been through so far.. so I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I pray that may Almighty grant you the best of rewards in this life and in hereafter (aameen, insha'Allah)! Jazak'Allah 👐️🤗️😇️
I cried a lot after listining yr lecture..so heart touching conversation
Me too
Really
You are wonderful Dr I saw a lot of people seminars . But you're great .I wish your advice continued.🙏🙏
Allah AP ko lambi Zindagi dy or hamy Amal kerny ki tofiq ata feemae
Aaj tak ka u tube pe guzara huwa meri behtarin waqt hai ye video, aaj se kousish korungi baaccho ke sath puri tehzib aur izzat se paish aawu. I love u both of u my kids, samma n angel .😘🥰
Sir! yeah ilfaz kash hum sub apnee life mai implement kerein!!
Very well explained. Nobody gave an example like that.
A great massage for parents ❣️
Good evening
@@mdshahjaha6742 good morning
@@joshua4220 good night
Allah aap ko behtareen jaza de... Dunya o akhirat ki tamam khushiyaan de..
Ma Sha Allah
Allah aap ko khub khub jazaye khair ataa kare Aameen Aulaad Allah ki Amanat hai walidain ke pas Allah sabhi walidain ko sahi tarbiyat karne ki taufiq de
Sir I am from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
You are very good person and good personality app bahut ache haii kitnaa achii xhiizz baatee
Aise behhtreen loogg kii jaruurt haii India mee
joo keval carrer kii hi nhii balqi zindagi ki bhii baate bass career pr focus na karaye
Much needed advice to all the parents. Dr sahab is doing highly appreciable job!
Thank u so much for opening our eyes thru ur conversation. Hope this will help us to deal with our children
Beautiful sir me 1st time apki videos dekra ho meri bhoot help hui Allah apko Jaza e khir ata kary zindagi apko ameen
Dr Javed iqbal sahab bohat shukriya apka Allah jaza e Khair De aapko 🤲🏻🙏🏻👍🏻❤
MAY Allah swt Bless you Dr saab . your today's video is right on the spot . Parents especially fathers are very hard full of themselves. they destroy life of their daughters in the name of Islam. plz make sure to uploaded full video.
absolutely true! i totally agree with you sir 👍🏻 we need more people like you. May Allah bless you sir. ❣️
Great....I have no words but i got tears in my eyes after listening this lecture...
Same here
Same here 😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏
V well-done Dr sahib Allah AP ko jza day ,slamat rhain 😢😢😢
Mene apki video dhekhi hu kafi aur apne baby jo 2yrs ki hai usko us hisab se treat kr rahi hu kafi farak dikha mujhr pata hi nhi tha ki baccho ko aisy bhi haindel kar saktay hai ❤thank you❤
Allah aap ko apne khaas hifz o aamaan mein rakhay aameen..... ❤
Genious in all trade respected sir.... God bless u amin
So motivational, ap great hy sir, bohat ache se samjhate hy❤️
allah ap ko izat or zindagi da ap ny hamy apny bachoo ke tarbeyat kaliya bedar keya thak you soo much
Jazakallah sir, bht bara bojh halka ho gya hai or ek rasta dikha dia ap ne, Allah bless u
Sir you are big asset of our country i listen your daily lecture and share to my family members
Yes he is a great man
Dr sahb I love you from the bottom of my heart ♥.... May Allah bless you with all his blessings.... You are a great person and human being.... H
Jazakallah....
I wish my father could be like that..I got destroyed personality,career,qualifications and confidence because of my father's inferiorly scolding without any reason.
@Achi Baat Acha Khana yes no doubt
@Achi Baat Acha Khana definitely. Now i know how to deal children how to develop them inshallah my kids will get better father
My dear, if you want to be successful in life, then learn to tolerate adults
I understand
Sad😔🙁😢
No words to say listings after your wording,it s magical to m,
I m shocked to sayd oh may God and thanking to God also that he gave me a right way befour going wrong,and end of my wording thanku so mach 💐
Sir this is absolutely true,kaash ye baat sab mothers n fathers samajh jayein, sab mujhy kehtay hain k bachon k sath mother ka strict hona zaroori hai but mai un logon sy agree nahi krti,mother ka apnay bachon k sath soft hona boht zarrori hai
aslam o alikum sir . sir myra byta h 10 sall ka ho gya hr bat py ro prta h . smj nae ati kya krun . pyar sy b smja k dykha h ghusa b kr k . par choti choti bat py rony bath jata h . plz btayn m kya krun.
I am speechless to say that you are such a good person May Allah bless you 😇😇
Aaaammmeen
Allah apko salamat rhake sir good job 👍
My Sister was your student in Bahawalpur medical college...much respect!
Hi
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Assalam o alaikum sir App kay lectures sun kar buhat knowledge milti hai or sunney k bad waqay mind change ho jata hai jesay app kah rahey hain wesay hi karen gay InshAllah or mind relex hojata sab sun kar..
Allah Tallah apko lambi umer ata karen tandrusti wali or buhat khushiyan den Allah apni hifzo eman mai rakhen ameen 🌸
The worst is when parents disrespect you infront of others it hurts💔