Ep. 5: Live In o Kasal Muna? | Budcast

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  • @thatschanelathena
    @thatschanelathena 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Topic suggestion:
    Nowadays, esp sa social media, bigdeal sa mga babae na dapat yung boyfriend nila is pinopost sila and hndi tinatago. Kayo ba, in your perspective as guys, mas okay ba sainyo yung lowkey relationship or public relationship? 😊

  • @pranke456
    @pranke456 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    swerte ni athenaaa, u can see how protective vern is in this episode. very family man na sya. truly, nag iiba talaga perspective mo sa life once na may anak kana. another great episode, keep it uppppp!

  • @queniemendoza8097
    @queniemendoza8097 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really appreciate how appreciative you are guys! Sobrang na appreciate ko kung gaano kayo kasaya na mabasa mga comments naming manonood. Sana hindi kayo magbabago kahit dumami pa ang inyong viewers and subscribers. More episodes!

  • @shhh3221
    @shhh3221 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    40:22 HAHAHAHA My lowkey still, vanmie heart lesgoooo!!! Still hope na may chance pa huhu pero support padin sa own paths and decisions niyo + sa mga priors na inuuna niyo for now 🥹💕👐🏻

  • @monskie_0
    @monskie_0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Medyo late ko na po napanood 'tong episode niyo pero share ko lang po yung opinion ko coming from a super conservative family and catholic religion, sa amin po kasal po muna talaga before live in. Pero for me naman po if nasa same page kayo and you both want to know each other, as what kuya Vern said "may mga ways" kung paano niyo makikilala ang isa't isa. If may times naman po na nag aaway kayo or misunderstanding, maganda if may communication at committed kayo sa isa't isa. Isa pa po if nakikita mo na talaga yung tao in the future i eembrace mo yung flaws ng partner mo kahit na anong mangyari.
    And upon hearing po sa mga opinions niyo, malaking advantage po talaga yung mag live in muna kasi mas nakikilala mo yung partner mo. Napaka hirap nga naman po na huli na yung lahat, na kasal na before mo pa malaman yung totoong ugali ng partner mo. Thankful and grateful po ako na yung parents ko sobrang secured ng samahan nila talagang nag adjust sila sa isa't isa para mag work yung relationship nila. Nakita ko naman po sakanilang dalawa kung paano sila as partners. Kung paano po nila inaayos yung mga inconvenience. Thankfully, hindi po sila umaabot sa pisikalan, more on usap po talaga sila tsaka pinapahupa po muna nila yung inis o galit na nag build up sakanila.
    Kuddos po sainyo 😊 sobrang dami pong learnings sa episode na 'to 🫶🏻

  • @dre9806
    @dre9806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    at this day and age, as a woman, i think agree ako na live in muna. iba kasi yung noon and ngayon eh, at this era. yung “tradition” like sa catholic na dapat kasal muna, doesn't mean naman na yun talaga gagawin. yung meaning ng tradition is “the transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation, or the fact of being passed on in this way.” sabi na it's being passed on. so syempre kasi nga dahil lang sa nakaraang panahon na dapat kasal muna, na pass down lang yung mindset na yun sa next generation. di naman ibig sabihin na kasi tradition na, at ginawa ng past generation, eh dapat gagawin mo rin. may choice ka pa rin gawing iba on your own way and gawin kung ano sa tingin mo ang tama para sa sarili mo. so i'd say na agree ako na live in, because if kinasal na kayo at dun mo pa lang kikilalanin yung partner mo, tas hindi pala kayo compatible or you don't work together as one, ang hirap na nun, naka commit na kayo under God kasi nga kinasal na kayo. so mali yun. nagkamali at nagkamali ka pa din. so might as well do the live in & see where it goes & if it works, then come together in the church to get married and commit to each other as well as to God. that your marriage will be tied to Him. na as husband and wife, yun na until eternity. tsaka, kahit naman kasal inuna or live in, both those situations merong naghihiwalay pa din. so diba? find an attainable way of deciding for yourselves as a couple kung ano yung best for both of you.

  • @jhaqknows5853
    @jhaqknows5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a woman perspective and was raised by strict parents, mas in favor padin talaga kasal muna since as woman kasi nasa amin kasi yung big risk sa live in kasi gaya nung sinabi ni allen na based dun sa naka date nya before na kaya ayaw ng live in is because pwede iwan anytime unlike kung kasal mas magiging option yung ayusin yung problem kesa maghiwalay kasi sacred sya or committed talaga and blessed by G

  • @maelsyt23
    @maelsyt23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Suggestion for d next episode!!! Is it posible "both should work or one stays home?" To earn for a living vs taking care of the kid(s) and housework?

  • @jnnvcnc8953
    @jnnvcnc8953 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yessss to live in muna!!! That is what my husband and I did and very smooth ng relationship namin after marriage kasi natest na namin everything nung live in palang kmi. Iba talaga pag nakasama mo na sa house yung partner mo. Especially if different yung way ng pagpapalaki sa inyo. #teamlivein 😂

  • @jasminefuertescereno
    @jasminefuertescereno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Next Episode: Parents disapprove of your relationship, Suko or Laban?
    Sana mapansin hehe

  • @alfrelinacapulco606
    @alfrelinacapulco606 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ify kuya gab, na sasad rin ako pag I'm seeing a complete and happy fam kasi my parents broke up when i was still in 9th grade tas nag abroad mom ko after tas si dad nag work sa ibang bayan so starts na hindi nadin kami nagsama completely until now (24 na ako) but still same din sa inyo ni kuya Jason na if magka family rin ako gusto ko rin nga happy fam para di na maulit. 💓 Sending love to all of you kuya from Cebu_ Aly💐

  • @kylamikaelaco17
    @kylamikaelaco17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Naniniwala ako na mas maganda na kasal talaga muna pero sa generation ngayon masasabi ko na mas okay din na mag live in, kasi dun nyo mas lalo makikilala ang isa't-isa and habang live in kayo makaka- encounter kayo ng different problems and makikita nyo kung pano nyo i-handle yung problems nyo as a partners. Btw, welcome back Gab, I know na hectic ang sched mo pero naka join ka pa rin. Congrats pala sa Sembreak🫶 Happy ako na complete na kayo😊 I enjoy watching this episode dahil super dami kong natutunan sa inyo kahit NBSB ako. hehe And para kay Justin di ko akalain na masasabi nya yung about sa religion kasi habang sumasagot kayong lahat iniisip ko na kung pano kapag different religion meron kayo.

  • @jasminefuertescereno
    @jasminefuertescereno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nakarelate ako sa sinabi ni justin. Kasal muna talaga dapat pero dahil gusto nyong makasama everyday ang isat isa naging live in na kayo. Nakatulong din yung live in samin dahil nakita talaga namin yung worst trait and ugali ng bawat isa. Fast forward, 6 yrs together and may baby na. Soon 💍

  • @FranAnguay
    @FranAnguay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ina admire ko talaga yong frienships nyo. Lulutuan kita lage Gab ❤️

  • @charm01314
    @charm01314 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super love this topic. Makikita mo talaga kung gano sila ka mature na mga lalaki.

  • @clarisse_cleng
    @clarisse_cleng 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally, here I am watched all the episodes of budcast❤️ Listening sa budcast while studying hit difference kasi hindi ka talaga aantukin🤣
    PS: RIVANATICS FAN HERE!✨

  • @novadajalos
    @novadajalos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes to livein👐 Gusto ko sinabi ni Jayson na Pag galing ka sa broken family inisip namin positive side parang mas inisip namin na kami yung mag break ng cycle.Kasi nang galing din ako sa broken family eh parents namin naghiwalay kaming mga anak ang pina ka apektado kaya nung nagkapamilya ako ayaw ko talaga yung maghiwalay kahit pinag cheatan na pinatawad ko parin kasi ayaw ko lumaki broken family yung anak ko. ayaw ko maramdaman nila naramdaman ko nung naging broken family kami napakasakit na mahirap dibaleng masaktan ako eh makakaya ko naman huwag lang anak ko yung masaktan mas masakit para sakin yun.
    Sana next time topic niyo
    Kung ang babae ay dumaan sa pagiging mistress tas alam nyo na i pu pursue niyo parin ba? Kasi yung mga kabet na babae ngayon masyado ng matapang😂

  • @Marjobtial
    @Marjobtial 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Medyo tricky yung topic ngayon.. pero as a babae agree ako sa mga sinabe nyo.. live in din ako as of now for almost 10yrs na with 2 kids. at niyaya na din ako mag pakasal pero sabi ko ayoko pa hindi dahil di ako sure sakanya, kundi dahil ayoko naman sumumpa sa harap ng simbahan at sa dyos tapos at the end mag hihiwalay din.. whats the point na mag susumpaan kayo diba? Kung di rin mapapanindigan hanggang dulo.. kaya mas maigi talaga na live in muna para magka kilala ng husto and tama si allen na lag tanggap mo na lahat ng flaws and imperfection ng partner mo then dun mo malalamn na sya na talaga gusto mo makasama habang buhay.. ang importante naman jan commited at faithful ka sa partner mo❤ .. gusto ko din point ni vern na iba ang perspective mo pag parent kana lalo if babae anak mo😅
    Hindi yung pagiging selfish kundi pagiging mapag mahal at protective na magulang ❤
    Salute ulit sa inyo❤🎉

  • @Cisel17
    @Cisel17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me live in muna para makilala mo talaga ang ugali ng makakasama mo bago mo pakasalanan para hindi ka magsisisi sa bangdang huli😊

  • @hairramanan6867
    @hairramanan6867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Suggestion po sa next podcast :
    MAHAL MO OR MAHAL KA ???

  • @RobynBear-pj8gs
    @RobynBear-pj8gs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Suggestion for next episode: EX ng TROPA, YAY or NAY?

  • @icognitom0d3
    @icognitom0d3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Signs of true love?

  • @beannemaedeclaro
    @beannemaedeclaro 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lagi ako nanonood ng Podcast nyo. Pero para sa akin, as a Christian syempre kasal muna 🤗 kanya kanya naman tayong opinion.

  • @maelsyt23
    @maelsyt23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How about few days few months few years after kasal nghiwalay? Yon is sobrang sakit as in masakit at sayang na sayang. Traditionally ang wedding ay nasa bible sex after marriage holy and sacred--dapat basbas ng Diyos at mga magulang ang pag aasawa. At may security na ang marriage Noong unang panahon madalang ang hiwalayan.This generation I think live in first for marriage--first get to know more, (understanding, and patience). Learn to twist the incompatibility to compatibility at hanggang saan ang pgmamahalan until decided na both decided na magpa kasal. However, thru that period of being together or living together there might have disagreement -----di pgkaintindihan til giniv up nila ang relationship. So theyre not meant to be. Of course ang kasal bunga ng true love at blessing para s mga anak. Build good and happy foundation for d whole fam. Other reason sa iba live in muna dahil may baby na at not enough pa budget mgipon first pRa sa kasal. Pero para sa mga anak ko kasal muna. Basbas ng Diyos at ibless ko sila dahil ready na at nasa tamang edad na both🎉🎉🎉hoping🙏

  • @novadajalos
    @novadajalos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ANG POGI SM NI SEVI!!❤

  • @gelsevilla
    @gelsevilla 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nakakatawa yung "tang*na mabaho pero mahal ko to eh" parang ang saya maging tropa ni allen ang funny 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Cisel17
    @Cisel17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anong mas masakit best friend break up or relationship break up?

  • @lesliejagorin1872
    @lesliejagorin1872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Next episode :
    Paano kung may anak na yung girl na gusto / mahal mo? Pursue mo ba o Hindi?

  • @thatschanelathena
    @thatschanelathena 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice!!! Buti nag upload ng podcast. Hinihintay ko talaga to every wednesday. It’s so good to hear your perspective, as men, about this. More more more podcast pa pls 💘

  • @maelsyt23
    @maelsyt23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Si Mr Third po Ilongo po ba? Ang sarap pakinggan ang tune ng boses niya nakakaiba sa lahat.

    • @3rdteruel
      @3rdteruel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes po. BACOLOD represent hahaha 👋

    • @maelsyt23
      @maelsyt23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh Bacolod city of smiles😊good luck po sa inyong lahat!!

  • @fattyvlogs1649
    @fattyvlogs1649 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Salamat naman at ng upload kyo 😊 complete

  • @chayvlogs1699
    @chayvlogs1699 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am in favor of marriage rather than live-in. What's the point of live-in? para makilala ang isat-isa and all? why not gawin nyo in marriage life.
    so what if both of you didn't work out as live-in partner and nagka-anak? Tapos after ng matagal na pag-sasama sasabihin nyo na lang di pala tayo compatible, di kita nakikita sa future, di ko gusto ugali mo and etc. Those are alibi's. At the end of the day ang kawawa yong bata.
    I think maging responsible partners na lang. You have to accept na may differences talaga pag nag sama na sa isang bubong. You must deal with it.

    • @Uvamm3
      @Uvamm3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if naging toxic na marriage nila pero pilit na lang pagsasama nila because of child mag suffer pa din yung bata either married or live in tapos ang Hirap p mag annull sa pinas ..

  • @justinmontalban
    @justinmontalban 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #TeamLiveIn and #TeamKasal! Wuhoooo basta #happyTogether 🙌🙏🤣

    • @jamessilvestre5423
      @jamessilvestre5423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Two thumbs up sayo bro!

    • @justinmontalban
      @justinmontalban 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jamessilvestre5423 appreciate brother! Ikakasal na ba? Ahhaha

    • @jamessilvestre5423
      @jamessilvestre5423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@justinmontalban naman! Kaya kasalan muna brother!

    • @justinmontalban
      @justinmontalban 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamessilvestre5423 lets go!❤️🙏 congrats brother

  • @michellemercado7012
    @michellemercado7012 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ako bilang may young adults n anak ages 24,22 pinagbawalan k muna silang mag boyfriend habang nag aaral sila ngayon n free n sila sila naman ang may ayaw injoy daw silang singel life as they say there are young professionals

  • @jonjones8827
    @jonjones8827 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Para sakin, kung ginagawa niyo na din naman na ng partner mo, parang ang hypocritical lang and walang sense na sabihin mong against ka sa pag live in. At that point, bakit ka pa maghihintay na ikasal bago kayo magsama sa isang bahay? In the first place, kaya lang naman naging prevalent yung ganung practice ay dahil sa religious reasons dahil dati madami pang naniniwala sa marriage before sex or gusto lang nila imaintain yung image na wala pa silang ginagawa. Wala namang ibang argument against living-in other than religious/traditional beliefs. Pero kung yun lang din naman ang rason mo, edi dapat panindigan mo na din yung pinaka foundation ng nabuong tradition na yun, which is marriage before sex. Kung di mo mapanindigan yun, wag ka na magpaka hypocrite and just do the most logical thing to do para sa future niyo ng partner niyo

  • @marjanaalih8511
    @marjanaalih8511 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    45:54 chaotic duo talaga 'tong Allen at Justin. Hahahahaha

  • @Marjobtial
    @Marjobtial 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Done following all 6❤

  • @SmayL23
    @SmayL23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IBA TALAGA ANG VERN ONG!!!

  • @chaseygabrielleciudad6791
    @chaseygabrielleciudad6791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    new setting naman mga buds!!!!

  • @gelsevilla
    @gelsevilla 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sana kahit dumami na ang subs. At views nyo mag shout out padin kayo ng mga comment ang saya kasi sa feeling na mapili ang comment namin.. btw ngayon ko lang na noticed ang amo pala ng mukha ni jason yung parang walang ginagawang kalokohan😁✌️❤ #Happy2k+subs🎉

  • @FranAnguay
    @FranAnguay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ilonggo ba si Third?

  • @lesliejagorin1872
    @lesliejagorin1872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Next episode
    Nag mamatter ba sayo ang estado sa buhay Pag dating sa love ?
    Yes or no?

  • @marjanaalih8511
    @marjanaalih8511 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Possible bang magkagusto kayo sa ex ng friend niyo?

  • @lesliejagorin1872
    @lesliejagorin1872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Next episode
    Paano kung malaman niyo ng barkada mo na iisa lang ang pinopormahan niyo?

  • @SmayL23
    @SmayL23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SANA KASAMA ANG IBANG GISAP FAM SA SUSUNOD!!!

  • @camilajaynne4770
    @camilajaynne4770 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oks lang ket anong giveaway basta ang mag aabot saken si justin HAHAHAH

  • @chingguerrero6037
    @chingguerrero6037 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Para sa akin kasal muna KC sa eglesia ni kristo d pwde magsama pag dpa kasal bawal KC un sa eglesia ni kristo. Kya kasal mna para sa akin Lalo nat may anak akong babae ❤

  • @mishadelacerna
    @mishadelacerna 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kay vern is anak muna hehehe

  • @Caizz_
    @Caizz_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Si gab may secret yan🫢🫢

  • @charlynsoriano9090
    @charlynsoriano9090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May panibagong upload na naman sa birthday kopa. Late kona napanuod sobrang busy kasi sa School 🥹 Kuya Vern pa shoutout plssss birthday ko kasi kahapon eh (May08)

  • @KingNolreyelHernandez-z4r
    @KingNolreyelHernandez-z4r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kawawa si Vern, hahaha

  • @asdfghjkklzm
    @asdfghjkklzm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ramdam mong good listener si gab HAHAHAHAHA hinahayaan niya magsalita and masabi lahat ng thoughts bago siya magbigay ng insights niya e.

  • @SmayL23
    @SmayL23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GISAP FAAMMMM!!!!

  • @janinebaltazar6950
    @janinebaltazar6950 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pakilala nyo naman sana sarili nyo hahahahaha