Van Life: Three challenges / difficulties nobody tells you about (and how to deal with them)
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- Van Life, or full-time touring, isn't an endless image of Instagram Perfection. Sometimes it can be hard. In this video I go through the three main challenges and difficulties, and then three strategies to use in order to help combat them. Would I live any other way? Absolutely not!
What challenges and difficulties have van life or full time touring presented you? And what strategies have you come up with to overcome them? Let us know!
Challenges and difficulties, hmmmm, well, of course everyone that visits is an expert and tells you how to do something, or they don;t have the slightest clue what your life entails and give you all sorts of pointers, gifts or come out with comments that are downright rude or insulting, most of the time without their realising. How do I deal with it? Either make sure that I am 'out' or busy if I know they are coming (a safe backup is I tether 'little'un' one of my goats, just out of view and I know that if she hears me she will start screaming, so I can always say 'bye, got an emergency to deal with'
This winter was the weather challenge, with temperatures dropping nearly into the -30 centigrade, it got pretty cold. Draughtproofing and firewood were the main order of the day, the borehole pump freezing meant buying in water, which generally froze solid overnight, so it would be harvesting snow for drinking water, the main thing was that not living the 'normal' lifestyle with all its rules and constraints I simply split my day into six with short naps between each, that kept the stove going so we didn't freeze to death and, having layers of blankets and duvets and two large dogs on the bed as well, that made things a little more cozy.
As far as finding a spot to stay. It's been more a case of politely declining unsuitable spots, everyone want you to stay, but they don't understand that 'just 5km' off the main road, is a big detour for horse and caravan, I tend to suggest that maybe they come find me and stop by for the evening, then I get insight into where else may be a good place to stay.
And, finally, I splashed out on a small GPS tracker that gives your co-ordinates on google maps in a text message and my local police inspector has the number for it, (you simply call it, it rejects the call then sends a text) and, he checks up on me pretty much daily, and if i have a problem i can call him and he can find me instantly.
Oh we never see you you must come to camp quirky, LOL. no seriously its pricey but its all about the people for me anyway, just a chance to hang out for a weekend together.
You always have such great stories and insights to share. Thank you, I really hope our paths cross one day!
I am disappointed that I can not park my 21' trailer. I want to learn and I am pretty sure I could do it, but to strike off on my own scares me. I tell you pulling into gas stations with a trailer on terrifies me. I know I should just learn and do it but there is a part of me that does not want to be foolish. Oh well, there is my rant, I would prefer now a motor home that I can drive and all is behind me convenient.
I would urge anyone thinking of living the van life, to watch this video several times over. Seriously.... this video addresses the biggest issues with van life.
Speaking from experience, 2 years in a motorhome, what Andrew discusses here is pivotal to the whole concept of van/caravan/motorhome/nomadic living.
Click refresh, and watch this video again.... Best wishes to you Andrew......J
I can seek no further validation of this video than these words from a man who knows exactly what it is like. All the best mate, cheers!
Hi Andrew, you've just described my years living as a long distance lorry driver fairly accurately. I had almost exactly the same issues. Don't forget that you could take try taking refuge in a lorry park overnight if it all went pear shaped. They won't have anywhere to plug in to, but they do often have security, as well as canteens and hot showers. I enjoy your work, and thank you for making the extra effort in ensuring that your videos are always so informative.
I think commercial drivers have it much worse because they also have the legal breaks to consider too. When I am towing my Airstream I prefer to use lorry parks as I find commercial drivers more respectful of my privacy than if I went into the caravan parking area, but only if there is plenty of room. I am painfully aware of the lack of decent lorry parking facilities in the UK. Thanks for your support, and keep on truckin'! :@)
Wow. What an insightful dialogue into human behavior whether traveling or not. You have a talent for communicating feelings in a descriptive logical way. I really like it when you discuss living. Helps me more than you might think. You have empowered yourself to be you and not follow cultural norms. You are a role model. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you.
Wildflower wind I couldn’t have said it better and I totally agree
Very good words sir. 🙏😊
18 years plus years
van life for me now........
And still have the lonely thoughts
each day ...
And even More so
as I getting older each year.
Best wishes to you and beautiful doogle. 🐕😊👍🙏
Well, if there is one thing you can take away from this Darren... and that is that you are NOT alone!
Its odd that i find your videos is very relaxing and dougal is so peaceful.. So calming..
Not odd at all Michael... we don't DO stress! ;@)
How refreshing to have someone speak on this subject who is intelligent and articulate. Your video made good sense and covered important points to consider. Thank you
Thank you Kathryn!
Kathryn, well said.
Really appreciate the honesty. This is so helpful to hear.
Thanks Andrew, for a balanced view, from someone who is weighing up my options. Good luck in all that you do and please keep the videos coming.
Cheers Simon! Good luck in your plan. But yes, it’s obviously not all Instagram Perfection.
Another *GREAT VIDEO* Andrew. The issues, examples, and solutions you cited are well structured in explaining three real-world downsides to van life. You noted some great tips for life in general: 'Focus on people who nourish you' -and- 'Be kind to yourself'.
Excellent video Andrew. Thanks for your honesty and tips.
Thanks Stephen!
Loved the opener about the trousers and the rest of the content. Thanks for the great video :)
Great video and is bang on the problems that can be encounted. In many ways this life was much easier in the 70s and 80's. Less people out there doing this life, less traffic etc. I think that TH-cam has in some ways had an impact as it is now so much easier to access information, how too etc. But it has also led to many more people living the life and by natural progression leads to much more impact on infrastructure. Tried most things over the years from full time wild camping to seasonal pitches. Have now found a balance whereby we work as wardens in the summer and find a nice winter pitch from which to explore and really get to know an area. The mental fatigue is one thing that really surprised us and had a great bearing upon the enjoyment, I aslo think this can be age related as the older we get the more security we seem to require. One thing that I think the newer generations are missing is the need to consider the get out options and the need to address pensions even at an early stage. Time flies and the years pass very quickly with this wonderful lifestyle.
Cheers! Yes, I was going to address this to the... more mature.... full-timer but decided not to, although as you say, the need for security (and fear of illness) does increase as you get older. Sounds like you have a cool plan though!
Thanks for your philosophy. "Invest time in people who feed your soul." Brilliant!
Dude, you are an international treasure of logic and wisdom.
Thanks for sharing these challenges in a honest and empowering way. None of us are guaranteed a life free of difficulties but it is said one becomes stronger and enlightened by finding constructive ways to manage through the rough patches.
Thanks for sharing this important message...
Cheers Anthony!
I'm so impressed with the content of this video. I have often thought about the worries and challenges that you have mentioned. Personally I think they would be to much for me and this is one reason why I haven't taken the leap into this lifestyle. I did wonder if it bothered others as it is never really mention ( I am a thinker and do get anxious). It's nice to see someone actually doing it but with the same worries and challenges. Well done and thank you. 👍👍😀
Thanks Jenn. As I mentioned, I wouldn't let it stop me, it just makes me more mindful to set up those strategies.
We are very adaptable as well and all them worries can become the norm as well,I speak from experience
Really good advice, thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Greetings from Macclesfield Andrew,I have to say,I found your video frank and honest and yet positive,I think with the passing years a lot of your solutions start to make a lot more sense,I know for myself turning 50 was a something of a pivotal time in my life as to how a wanted my life to go.
Thankyou again.
Tony
Cheers Tony, good luck in all you do.
The coffee sip reaction is The Best! 'Ah!' Love it! ☕
Having a dog really is good for your general health. A friend who will never disappoint.
Absolutely!
Dogs - mental health
Take that Instagram! Well done Andrew, and by the way, “discombobulated” would make an excellent caravan name.
:)
I am glad to see a new update to this series Andrew. Keep it up. Quite informative and what I love about this, it is very realistic. Some full-time channels make it appear like there are no problems with nomadic living.
Thank you. Yes, I wanted to air a few realities.
Thank you Andrew for making this video, this honesty and integrity is one of the reasons I have watched you’re channel for so long, best wishes always, Dean
Cheers Dean, and thanks for your support!
Woww, im only 7 minutes in and you are so full of wisdom! I've never really looked at this side of things, never have I heard anyone talk about them with this level of detail and authenticity.
Andrew i very mich agree about that you should be honest and not sugar coat that bad stuff over . Plus i get annoyed by forced positivity. I enjoy honesty most thats why i like these vids (and dougal of course) :)
Andrew Ditton i completely agree no point in being miserable and you get the balance just right :)
Andrew - van life or no van life - your advice about making time to focus on the people who nourish support and who are fully behind you. The people who make the effort for you, who come to visit YOU. This is the gem that would save so many of us from mental health breakdowns. Those of us who care. Those of us who naively believe other people care. These good people are the few and not the many. And it is only when you ask yourself - what is he or she bringing to MY life? that you can make that distinction. You are truly a good and caring and wise man. My hat is off to you. Thank you for opening up and sharing. Anne, from Ireland kiss kiss
Thanks Anne. Funnily enough I have just given up on someone who could not commit to a coffee this weekend... always in fear that he might lose out on a better offer if he actually said yes and not 'maybe'. UGH! All the best.
I'll agree about routine requiring less energy. A few times I've ended up having some funny meals when it turns out there is only a tiny corner store in the area. And I'm finally learning to travel slowly and have recharge time.
Yep! Moving on is tiring, and we quickly realise we need to slow down!
Very refreshing honesty, and I love the reinforcement about the many ‘false positivity’ videos out there. Keep up the good work. Integrity and honesty go a long way.
Thank you!
There is a great cartoonist called Emma who talks about ‘emotional labour’, the thinking, worrying, planning work that has often been placed on women and is largely overlooked by their often male partners. When you are on your own you carry two types of responsibilities, the physical and the emotional, alone. Anyone with even a modicum of emotional intelligence is going to find that hard sometimes. As much as we love our independent lives it is not a carefree utopia. Generally I think it is a good thing to have to think more about ‘how do I keep myself well’, and it’s something that our culture dissuades us from doing lest we replace consuming with valuing.
Wonderful insight, thank you.
Women ARE emotional labor MGTOW
“...lest we replace consuming with valuing,” seems like that is the challenge with affluent modern society dwellers. Very difficult indeed to break away from a shallow lifestyle and dig into what matters. Guess that’s why we value The Buddah so much. Be well! 😊💗🌺💗
SuperPurpleBoots beautiful insight and food for thought
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This is some of the best advice i have heard in many years. I see a lot of people extolling the virtues of camping out, surviving alone with a myriad of knives and fire lighting tools and shelters etc etc. thinking food and a good fire is all you need. Mental discipline and being able to deal with loneliness and isolation are two subjects that are the most likely cause for failure...or death in a survival scenario. This subject is the most valuable 'tool' for anyone these days. I remember once alone for weeks in Finland photographing the Stars and Planets through a very powerful telescope...and suddenly for no reason I felt so very very alone and almost hopeless....for no apparent reason. It brought home the reality that actually I was on an adventure and was actually letting go my 'hopelessness' and isolation and finally realised that we may surround ourselves with others but individually we all must also conquer our fears on our own terms, for failure to do so simply leads to a never ending cycle of self doubt and fear driven by the things we fail to see has been forced upon us through constant programming via the media and those around us who transmit their insecurities onto us. Well presented video Andrew good luck out there...and just do it !!
That's an amazing story, cheers! I know that there *are* people out there saying 'oh just grow a pair' but this is for the 90% of folk for whom these factors can be an issue. And like you, far from discouraging people, I want people to be aware of these issues before they leap off and just do it! All the best.
Andrew really enjoyed your honest insights on van life. I am going to retire next year planning on the van life. You have given food for thought regarding the truth of what can be. It is funny, I have been so excited about retiring, now that it is a closer reality, van life is becoming scarier to me. The three topics you discuss here are spot on, and exactly the things I think about. Thank you for also including the solutions to your challenges. You have confirmed my belief of what I'm getting in to, but you have also inspired me to carry on with my dreams of living free to travel and enjoy life. Excellent video! Thank you for sharing!
It sounds like my job here has been successful then Jody - to encourage people, but keeping their eyes wide open to both the ups and the downs. Good luck with your plans, and see you on the road :)
A very thought provoking film Andrew. We feel this should help anyone considering Van Life or help those starting out. J&P
Thanks J&P!
Very well thought out and meaningful. Thanks.
Excellent. Well done for taking the time to do this. Thanks...
I have often thought that the points you make would be real downers for me and thanks for being so honest about them. Must admit, when it was so cold and you were having problems with the van, I thought if that was me, I would have a "hotel fund" to rescue me during occasions like these! But at its best, a lovely way of life and you obviously enjoy it. Thanks for a fascinating video.
Thanks Susan. I was all set to go to a hotel that night, and I think if I'd not been able to leave that next day I would have checked in!
What a fantastic video, thank you some real food for thought there. Also must add loved the ‘B’ roll, the little touches that take a lot of time and effort but only last a few seconds on the screen. Superb. 👌👍
Awww, thank you! Nice to know it's noticed. As you know, it can take ages to source and edit :)
Another great video Andrew very thoughtful and helpful not only for van life but for the soul of being human and all that embraces and your relationship with dougal makes me smile even when I’m having a cloudy day long may you enjoy your adventures and dreams 😎
Thank you Andrew for all of your videos I've seen, and particularly your candour in them.
I don't yet own a campervan or motorhome, but have wanted one for a long time. As part of my research into owning one, I came across your channel and can't thank you enough for it's content. Unlike yourself, I don't expect to live in my van, so shouldn't face the challenges you detail in this video, though do understand what you talk of.
You're clearly an intelligent and honest person. I like that. Should you ever find yourself scuppered for whatever reason in South East Northumberland, I'd happily offer you and Dougal a place to stay. So long as Dougal doesn't terrorise my own wee dog. Keep up the good work, as I'm finding your videos very informative.👍
That's so kind, thank you Stu! Hope your search for a van bears fruit soon. Prices are expected to level out next year, so there is no huge rush on that front. But one thing the past 18 months has taught us is that we really do not know what is around the corner! All the best.
I’ve only been traveling full time for 6 months so far but find your analysis very close to what mine would be. I’ve experienced the hopelessness one feels when plans have fallen through, you’re tired and you have to keep on because you can’t pull off. Oh my! You wonder why one earth anyone would choose to do that. But when you do stop, the next time you find yourself tucked in and safe, you do feel a sense of accomplishment, or at least of peace until the next time. You know there will be a next time because life happens, not everywhere you go will be what you needed to feel safe. Following my gut feelings when things seem off kilter has had consequences. But it’s all learning and it’s all living. Thanks for caring about your fellow roadies.
Thanks Linda! Succinctly put. You know what they say: 'Ships in harbour are safe, but that's not what ships are built for.' See you on the road :)
What a thought provoking and interesting video. I’m not a van lifer but am dipping a toe in the freelance pool and everything you discussed really resonated with me. I agree that ‘Instagram perfect’ isn’t good for anyone, particularly the young and impressionable.
Cheers Karen. As I hinted, a 'making money on the road' (based on freelancing) is a subject I'd like to cover soon.
A really great topic Andrew, very well thought out , explained and discussed. One of the best van life videos I have seen. Spot on, well done.
Glad it was helpful!
Brilliantly informative and thought provoking, thank you Andrew.
All very good points to consider. Thanks for sharing your insights and hard earned bits of wisdom Andrew. Daily walking is excellent exercise , takes no special equipment or skill set and can be done anywhere and by anyone bar physical infirmities of course. And for those of us that have beat the hell out of our bodies being way to athletic up to this point. Ahem. Bike riding is the option I've adopted. Amazing what less meat and rare alcohol can do for a body too. Always try to be good and kind oneself and recharge however you need to remain well physically, mentally and spiritually. Not always an easy task. Great info yet again Andrew. Happy Trails.
Thank you Annette :)
Thank you for being so honest Andrew
Wow! I really enjoyed watching your videoes but this one blew my socks off.
You have just voiced some of my concerns regarding van life, and some I would never have thought of.
The plant-based lifestyle appeared from nowhere on this video, and it is a lifestyle I adopted exactly two years ago.
My blood pressure dropped massively, cholesterol now H D L 1.4 L D L 1.2 TRIGLYCERIDES 1.2 The power of plants.
A truly thought-provoking video Andrew, I feel the best I have seen so far.
Cheers Frank!
I found an even better way to annoy the narrow-minded: kilts! 😄
I don’t live in a van full time, but all the things you mention resonate nonetheless. Thanks for this video.
Kilts you say? Hmmmm..... * strokes chin *.... :@)
So-called "utility kilts" are practical and, above all, the most comfortable thing to wear. E.g. www.amazon.co.uk/Tartanista-Cotton-Utility-Wilderness-Active/dp/B0042717HW/ or, much more posh, www.utilikilts.com (I don't get a commission for those)
Andrew! So love your candidness and your channel. You have really nailed the issues so clearly and honestly. Appreciate this video so much.
Thanks Rudi!
Andrew,just found your channel fantastic.
Very inspiring ,direct and sound advice .
Look forward to catching up with all your previous blogs cheers DT
Thank you, and welcome aboard!
Thank you so much...seen your posts several times and always been very educational.. however, I have just seen this one tonight regarding mental health & well-being and it has really moved me..
The loneliness of motorhome life can be really awful.. almost a contradiction of the freedom owned .
Following this video I have promised myself to stay in touch with my old friends more...
And embrace the people around me.. thanks so much...
As I say I have watched many of your videos..
If you don't mind me saying.. you're a good Man.. kind & thoughtful to others.. thanks very much
Wayne
Aww thanks Wayne, that is really kind of you to say. I do indeed have a burning desire to 'tell it like it is' to the everyday folk (like me!) who feel somewhat left behind by the 'happy jumpy skippy' brigade who are only showing what they think will earn views and revenue. All the best to you mate.
Your insight on passive-aggressive responses was very good! You have inspired me to reevaluate how I reply to my friends, I have said some of those very things, not realizing that I was shifting the responsibility of friendship-cultivation from myself and onto others. Thank you for changing my perspective.--Sean
No worries Sean. Folks don't mean to be unkind when they say such things, but a lot of the time it is just gloss with no substance underneath (just wanting to be SEEN to care without any effort). 'We'd love you to come over for dinner one evening, so what night would suit you best?' is a very different invitation to 'you must come around some time!'
Thanks very much Andrew... keep the energy coming... Bless you friend. You're a great guy...so many people get lost in the me me me world..
Really appreciate your thoughtfulness for the real people... thanks so much
Thanks Wayne! As you know, I like to keep it real for us everyday normal people. All the best my friend.
Excellent video !
I never really thought about “You must …” but you nailed it for what it is
I remember a friend of my mom’s would try to give her helpful advice by saying “You should…” and my mom got fed up with it and finally said “stop shoulding on me!” - can’t think of that without laughing
Also hate jogging, but love swimming and jumping rope (really fast, like a boxer), I agree it is important to find something you like doing 🇨🇦
Brilliantly informative. Thank you
Great video Simon. When I was full timing, one of the things I used to do was go somewhere familiar. Sainsbury’s funny enough was the place I went to. Just walking round settled my nerves.
Andrew.. perhaps I should reduce my alcohol intake. Sorry.
Cheers Ian! *hic!* Interesting to read about your Sainsbury's thing... yes, that makes complete sense to me!
Excellent video Andrew. Thank you :-) You are indeed right; seeing the life through the 'Instagram lens' is one thing, the realities of course are always far more complex. It's great that you publish these really insightful videos so that all interested in the life (full-time or part-time) see the effort and thought that goes into it. It's wonderful to see and understand how you push through all of the challenges to live life on your own terms, following your dream way of living.
Because I still work I can't quite go full-time myself just yet but I do at least get to go to my seasonal spot at Camping In The Forest, Loch Lomond every other weekend between March & October. I love that place!
So, carry on being kind too yourself, knowing that we in your (online) community are truly valuing what you bring to us via your videos and blog. (And there's always a safe place for you here in Edinburgh if ever you get stuck! Do come and visit at Loch Lomond sometime if you've never been. I'll take you and Dougal canoeing around the islands, you'll love it! G)
Thank you Gerry!
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing this. I fell in love with the freedom but never thought of its consequences. I personally love to be alone and find a great friend in me but when you talked about fear and insecurity you got me. I didn’t realize what routine does and I particularly hate it. I’m the end it relaxes you and gives you security, tranquility. Your food looks great always and I enjoy your videos to the fullest. Thanks a million for being you 😊
Aww thank you! And yes, for all its drudgery, there *is* an element of comfort to a routine.
@@@Almouna Saddiyeh I agree.
Great video Andrew. It's very refreshing to listen to your open and very honest views on van life and to hear about the minor negatives that you encounter. It's made me think a little more about what I want in life. Not sure if I could give up meat, fish and the odd beer or glass of wine though!!!! Keep up your great work, love following you and Dougle, especially when you take yourselves off for a good ride on that lovely Triumph!!!
It's whatever works for you, Rob! Hoping to get more motorcycle camping in this year :)
Thank you Andrew for this honest and very beneficial wisdom.... A really valid and not often discussed conversation. I was so pleased to see a vid from you in my subs this morning and sat with coffee to listen. I was so taken by the sincere and kind words that the coffee went cold, so off to the microwave I shuffled, pondering the issues. A rare but oh so valid pause for thought.... the other side of van life...Thank you again,
Just to say yet another informative and well constructed video. Made me open my eyes and be realistic about 'life on the open road' being all whistles and bells. It's just not as easy as I first persevered, so it will now remain on the back burners as a one day, dream.
I will keep following you on TH-cam with enthusiasm, interest and wishing all the luck and best wishes for your future adventures, Thank you.
Cheers Gary!
Excellent video Andrew. We have only been doing full time van life since the 12 January. As highlighted in your vlog we have hit our first major issue. We had to return back to pur home town so I could have an operation. It was keyhole so would be up and about quickly and as I care for Tina, perfect. Unfortunately it changed on the table and they had to do full surgery with overnight stay. I have since had a few complications. What we have found is that our family have stepped up. Particularly the son and his family who bought our house. It has been challenging for Tina but we return to our caravan on Saturday. And we are looking forward to it so much. It is our home! Have to get over the issue of emptying the toilet cassette as neither of us can lift a load, individually. But together we might get somewhere. Well done for this informative vlog and like you, we would change our life now. Oh, and it's been interesting on how many of our friends have said how chilled and relaxed we both look!
Glad to hear you have managed to overcome that now John, I'm hoping the 'little and often' trick worked for the cassette. Indeed, I think a lot of folks may think that us full-timers are lone nomads, but I often feel that the most important part of full-timing is indeed that support network - which I think you might just agree with! Hope you're soon fully recovered.
Thank you Andrew for your realistic observations and advice . I like your style
Thank you for your powerful and precious truthtelling!
Enjoyed this Andrew. I took early retirement from my public corporation job several years ago & 3 years ago retired to France that is compliquée. So important to have dreams & honour them.
Thanks for a very inspiring video! I have also felt the things you are talking about. Especially the safety part. I am always on alert when I have parked on a spot that feels a bit risky, and when I hear cars/people arrive I hope that it's nothing more than bypassers. So far everything has worked out ok. I usually always park in the woods or in another traffic free place, not so much on campsites. Don't exactly know the rules where you live, but in Sweden we have "right of public access" and can therefore park and stay over night basically where you want if it does not interfere being to close to anyones house or if a sign or rule in that specific area tells so.
My thoughts about getting out more. Have you tried Geocaching? As you travel around alot and want places to stop at and move around a bit, this is a perfect solution because you always have a goal to get to and it makes it so much easier. It can be alot of fun also because you never now what you will find on that particular spot.
Interesting you have the same feelings too Daniel. I would love to visit Sweden some day. I love the idea about Geocaching. I used to follow a friend in the UK who visited 'trig points' that are used for the mapping system... I'll look into it, thank you!
Fabulous vid Andrew. I can only echo others’ comments - your honesty, thoughtfulness and genuine advice really shines through. Raising people’s awareness of mental health challenges and strategies to deal with them in your lifestyle choices is really valuable. It’s tempting to look at things through rose tinted spectacles and I’m sure you help people to see things more objectively. Great vlog!
Andrew, this really helped me. I have been living in my van for 6 months and travelling Europe for 3. For the past 2 weeks I have felt stressed and anxious with spots of feeling homesick. Everything you said really hit home and highlights to me that I am not the only one. Cheers dude, I just subscribed :)
Thanks Andrew, and welcome aboard!
I completely agree Andrew and I'm so pleased you've highlighted these issues. I think it's harder as a solo caravanner and even when I'm on holiday in my van I sometimes feel lonely, particularly when things go wrong and there's nobody to help me. Without social media and the internet I probably wouldn't have stuck with it but knowing there's always a friend at the end of the 'line' gets me though the tricky times. Plus a walk with my lovely dog in our beautiful diverse countryside and possibly a glass or two at the end of it helps too! You're spot on about the routine too as much as my 9-5 can be tiring and time-consuming, it keeps me on track and gives me a focus, which must be very hard to do in your situation.
Another excellent and astute video - thanks Andrew.
Thanks Catherine, I thought you'd be one of those for whom this would resonate. :)
This video popped up to view after watching your most recent one from Birmingham caravan n campervan show. I understand u and what u say makes total sense. Just love watching n listening to your videos. Your honesty n humour is just brilliant. U should do podcasts Andrew as your voice is soothing too. Tnks for sharing. Keep well.
Awesome, thank you!
Very interesting and informative to us as we are considering a life on the road but keeping somewhere (downsizing) to come back too when needs must. Thank you .😊
Nicely said Andrew. I think what you summarised is applicable to to living life whatever your situation - either 'Normal' or Nomadic. It's identifying the potential holes and working out systems to combat them. Putting aside time for, and identifying the true, friendships is the biggie.
Love your identification and labelling of the passive aggressive tendencies of some. "You must ..."
Hello,
I just need to say that your advice was incredibly important for me. I discovered vanlife very recently and I´m still watching videos on youtube trying to find out the PROS and CONS, and it´s so hard to find someone who speaks about the bad situations so properly.
Thank you so much,you did help a lot.
Thank you for your message. It's mainly about giving the WHOLE story, not just one side!
Love the honesty, love the "solutions" offered, love the dog, unfazed by the trews! ;) On the brink of living on the cut / narrowboat, so this is super-well-timed. Thanks! X
What a fabulously well balanced video. Thank you so much. Well balanced in what way? Here are some challenges you may encounter here are some coping strategies. Brilliant. 🙏🏻 👏🏻Love to Dougal. 🐾🐾
Thank you. Some less kind folks don't see that, so I appreciate your message.
Andrew Ditton probably folks that could not string a sentence together correctly never mind a whole video! You had a theme, introduction, conclusion etc. Love to see the haters pull a video off with the consistency you do!
I remember that night in Scotland video when you had nowhere to go in the snow, really felt for you 😢
Thank you!
Thought provoking and wonderful.
Cheers Simon!
Awesome video Andrew. I am currently converting a minibus into a camper van, with a view to going full time with my girlfriend next year. It’s so good to hear the reality of full timing, good and bad, so that I can prepare properly for my new life and put in place support networks/solutions to tackle the challenges. Thank you so much!!!
Cheers Sheldon, and good luck with your project!
He, who is free by own choice, said: "... you need to focus on the people who nourish you. The people who support you! The people who don't challenge what you're doing; the people who is fully behind you. They're the real friends and they are the ones who you need to invest the time in!".
I might be a little bit on the wine side now, but you touched something that's really important to me. Nice to hear it out loud. Cheers
Thanks for the good advice! it’s good to know the down side as well as the up side it’s just another way of telling you to expect some challenging times in van life from time to time thank you Andrew🤔
Wow, such a great video, I'm so glad I found this one. You talk so much sense Andrew, a BIG thank you for this one,,,,
You're very welcome Roland, thanks for watching!
Thanks Andrew for your honesty and realistic approach to the subject. I am sure Dougal helps when things get a bit difficult and he also gets you out of the van. Of course if he could throw the ball and you fetched it that would increase your fitness. Just joking.
Would pay good money to watch that LOL
weebolddavy Me too!
Ha ha! Don't give him ideas! I wouldn't be chasing it very far.... :@)
I've been doing vanlife off and on since the 70's. More now than before thanks to injuries in trucking that have made working next to impossible. There are ups and downs. Mine lately are repair expenses on a disability income. Very difficult and draining. But I manage and man it's worth it! To be out there every day seeing new places and meeting new friends. I think it's a great way to retire. 😊😎
This is a marvelous video covering very important issues that need to be considered before making the big break!
I've moved around the country alot using just the car and not knowing where to go at times..seeking a new place to live.. it's a real challenge when there's no one to talk to about your situation
I still would like to be mobile.. not stuck in the same place all the time But there's so many challenges as you say
Good planning is definitely key
Thank you very much for this video
Thank you, glad you found it truthful.
Hope you are still enjoying your adventuruos life!
If you should be coming through beautiful Gloucestershire anytime you could call in for a coffee and meal and chat
Great piece, my wife and I's main issue was mail, having to get a P O box, taxing and insuring the vehicle, but loved it
Andrew....I find you voice so soothing. Thanks for your honesty and for sharing your thoughts and feeling so eloquently. Wishing you good weather and lots of wonderful adventures...from a new fan in Canada.
Aww, thanks Christina! :)
You're great! Thank you so much for sharing all of this info! You're doggo is super cute! :DD
Hi Andrew, I really like what your doing and saying, appreciate your frankness which I am missing in most of the "blinky" blocks, are just not really honest,
Watching your last trip in the snow and trouble with the van I really admired you how brave you were, not many would be and on top being honest about it!
Thank you for being who you are, haven't missed one video and will continue not to,
cheers and warmest regards
Thomas
Thank you Thomas!
Having spent a large part of my working life traveling the points about loneliness and the quality of friends are spot on. Great vid Mr D.
I certainly know that Andrew.. will be tuning in late tonight... stay safe and warm friend
I'll take honesty and integrity over forced positivity any day. You're probably right in saying that people don't want to tune in to hear a bunch of depressing stuff, but life isn't all up and I suspect many of the people who subscribe to your channel are also of the thoughtful type (though not all, apparently, based on reading some comments), and the emotional connection through shared suffering is probably much stronger than that achieved merely through shared enjoyment. For coping strategies, I too have heard that getting outdoors every day is a good way of maintaining a positive state of mind. In the past, I've found that overwork has led to depression due to not being able to let off steam by being active, so since then I've always made time for sporty things. One challenge as we all get older is not to feel that we are on the downslope of everything that we have become good at in our youth. Relatively young people have told me: there's no point in taking up something new now because you'll never be any good at it. I find fault with that as for the most part, it's not the absolute achievement that matters, but just to feel that you are improving. This can be anything - sports, games, playing a musical instrument, drone flying, photography (to pick a couple of completely random things out of the hat), plumbing, knitting, pottery, painting or whatever. Anything that isn't trivial. On the keeping fit front, running isn't for everyone and it can take a long time to get to the point where it is enjoyable. I got into running in my twenties and it still took many, many months to become something I didn't dread. Eventually, it became a very positive force in my life. I mainly use cycling these days to keep active. It has the advantage that you also get to go places, though I'm not sure that a bicycle would be as practical as a motorbike for Dougal in his rucksack :-) Keep up the good work, Andrew. You are an inspiration to us all.
Thanks Ken! YES to the getting out for an hour a day. And YES to developing a passion for something, be it knitting or rugby. But your point about being 'too old' compared to youngsters raises a far deeper issue - comparison. It does us all such harm. And so we go full circle back to the Instagram perspective and people comparing their lives, leading to sad thoughts....Thanks for you support, I truly appreciate it.
Agreed, re comparison. This stuff is complicated. There's no absolute scale to measure one person's life against another. We all have different abilities, desires, hopes and fears. One person's "perfect life" is another person's nightmare. Yet at the same time, we can't help but wonder about the paths not taken. When someone posts pictures of their achievements, are they doing it to boast or because they think their friends/followers will be interested? What about when they post pictures of their kid's achievement? It's not _their_ achievement, after all. They are probably posting it for their family and the subset of their friends who know their kids and will be interested, and the majority of the others will be indifferent, but there's always a small minority who will be offended or upset. What about the couple who couldn't have kids or just lost a child to cancer? Surely we can't censor everything to avoid accidentally upsetting a few people. Facebook apparently does allow posting to "all friends except..." but who has the time for that? And there are other minefields down that path: "Did you see Johnny's post about...?" "No. ???" It's _complicated_.
These days I usually just send holiday snaps to a few close friends via WhatsApp. It's secure and I can say what I want and know the message will be taken the right way because it was crafted for an individual. Social media risks being journalism done by people with no training and no editorial standards (with many notable exceptions like yourself, of course). There's a reason that editorial standards exist - they keep circulation up and lawsuits down.
The world is changing though. More and more it's OK to be different and things like "mental health issues"* are being more widely recognised as commonplace and socially acceptable. Perhaps this growing acceptance will change behaviour so that people start sharing the bad with the good. Just as you did in your video.
Take care.
* - labelling certain behaviours as normal and others as deviant is probably part of the problem.
Hi Andrew, terrific video. Inspirational advice for living on the road or in a property.
Thanks so much, Andrew! I'm contemplating the van life, doing a lot of research. Yours is the first video I've seen that addressed these issues and certainly gave me something to think about. Great info. I'm a new subscriber now!
Welcome aboard Deb! Good luck in your mission :)
Hi Andrew. I am currently nearly 6 months into a tour or Europe and Scandinavia on a motorbike, predominantly camping and have to date covered just over 19,000 miles. I can’t agree more with your “three challenges”. I have experience those exact same issues, the greatest one being the constant searching for somewhere to pitch the tent, stopping by the side of the road, for instance to sleep, is not an option obviously. Sometimes the days just seem like a chase to find somewhere, especially now as all year round campsites are few and far between in Europe. The added issue is the weather, motorbikes are definitely a summer sport!! Also another constant worry is the fear of being knocked off the bike and any resultant injuries along with the fear of the bike being stolen playing on my mind. Before watching your video I couldn’t put a finger on how and what I was feeling but I know understand that it is the emotional draining, not only of the things I’ve mentioned but also the trying to explain/justify to people (some friends included) what I’m doing and also explaining it to people I’m meeting along the way. Although I do enjoy talking to people about it, initially, it’s just the endless questions (how, why, can they do it, etc etc). Watching your video has helped to understand it’s not just me!! However, would I give up this lifestyle........NO ! ( I may change the mode of transport though!!)
Nice one Darren, and I'm in awe of your trip. I just about managed Ireland on the Thruxton this year so big respect. The other thing about 'taking the slow road' is the assault on your senses (all that beauty!) which can cause sensory overload, and you need the time to process it before becoming overwhelmed by it all. Travel is the best Life Education, is it not? All the best!
Awesome channel that I’ve just found here, after a good while watching the vanlife stuff on TH-cam. I sense that this will one of the most sensible and useful to follow on the matter. So glad 👍
Thanks Carlos, just trying to keep it real!
Thanks Andrew. Here we go, long time video watcher first time commenter here. Just wanted to say thank you for what you do. I’m converting a Crafter to a camper van at the moment and to be honest I’ve had a bit of a tendency to be a bit “sniffy” about caravans and people who buy conversions rather than do it themselves. I don’t know where this came from but it is a prejudice I started with. Your videos have gone a long way towards opening my eyes. Nice one!
Thanks Dave, and kudos for admitting to a bit of sniffiness! I noticed a wee bit of prejudice when I took out the Sun Living, with one commentator saying that folks who bought a van out of the box should be sectioned!!!! A bit harsh on people without the time/skills/space to do it themselves! But yes, we all have our own needs, and it's all down to respecting those differences. Good luck with the Crafter Project!
Bravo Andrew 👏👏👏 encore une excellente video , merci merci . Authentique, vraie , pleine de bons conseils , un vrai plaisir de t’ecouter. I love your videos ,I can’t wait for the next one .... all the best , happiness, good health and freedom to you Andrew , God bless you ...
Philippe from France
Merci bien mon ami...
Not just good advice and warning for van life, good advice for life. We are not yet full time, and may never be, but love the advantages you point out and we are hoping to be out touring far more often in a few more months. We rented a motorhome recently for a one week trip and found some real challenges and some real advantages. One thing, it convinced us getting an Airstream will fit our wants better than a big box trailer or motorhome. I think you hit it spot on when you said many want to have the freedom you enjoy without paying the price. Everything in life comes with a price. Thank you for pointing out some of the prices you pay and how you pay them as they will help us as we look for what we are wanting from here on in life.
Thank you! And how exciting that you'll be getting an Airstream... :@)
Hi Andrew hope you keeping Ok excellent video about full time van life I think people don't realise that van isn't that easy u need to sit down and your home work and research and sort some income before thinking of van life .great video all the best
Kev
Cheers Kev!
Thank you Andrew, a very practical and useful video. One I’m sure I’ll return to again and again.
This is all so true. I specially related to the part where you said people want to know how they can have what they see you have, but without putting in all the effort and personal cost that you went through. I lived in Mexico for several years and I soon learned not to tell holidaying Brits that I lived there. The questions were endless - and predictable. Ultimately, if you want to do it, you have to pay the cost.