I'm a single mother but I vowed I will never involve myself with someone's husband. I choose righteousness for the sake of my daughters and generations. Let me be viewed as a fool.
How i wish every girl could walk away from married men,,as young as i am and God having gotten me out of a very bad situation with a married man who lied to me but realized it when it was too late...i left him and erased him in our lives,i left him when my i was only 2months pregnant,gave birth to my beautiful baby girl,,I wish i could advise all young women! It is the worst choice you can ever make.
I relive my pain and the words from the mpango wa kando every day! She called me all manner of names.......she wanted me gone after years and years of trying to build my home. It wasn't just her, but the hubby who contributed to this situation. God is the judge and the revenger. May both PAY dearly!!! There is NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED. ADULTERY IS A SIN. My side chick hope you read this.........
You’re so so lucky! You are not with that foolish man no more! The foolish man is now with the foolish woman😂😂😂! They totally deserve each other! That foolish man was not worthy of the great you, you’re now on to better things i.e prosperity and peace! Take care of yourself and please heal so that you never ever get another man like that one, or even any other foolish person
Esther is a lady blessed by God with a lot of wisdom and willing to share with others be blessed my sister and we'll make the 🌍🌎 a better place may God help us 🙏🙏🛐🛐🔥🔥💕💕
I'm a single mother for some years now and I even hate that name "side chick" if as a lady you don't have any plans with that man or the man don't have future with you,, please leave that family and wait for your own man for the sake of your generation
Well stated kwanza mimi i hate with passion being an option to someone yaani this makes me feel so down I vowed never to date any married man am also a single mum of two
This is why you see many women are discouraging others to get married 😢but try to be leaders including PREACHING na MWANAMKE hafai kukua PASTOR 😢😢😢😢. we should respect our men
First, husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church. Man authority should be christlikeness, Husbands, are to love your wives in a way that you put her needs ahead of your own and you sacrificially love her and lead her as Jesus does the Church.
@@mww4491 men have failed badly although there are some women who are not good to husbands as well but it’s good to allow Christ to guide us as family.
Sure but imagine I'm convinced too that mwk are sent to punish people who don't keep God's command of no fornication, I mean even most christians bend this rule. How then can he let you enjoy such marriage? God is not mocked 🤔
Truest.. Anyone or anything that comes between a married couple becomes death to that marriage. Wa kiama keep preaching the gospel of Christ on marriage.
Beautiful and lovely to see you two present this show in form of a conversation. Well done and keep it up. I follow you both from the UK. God bless you.
Wakiama, I love you and your teachings. Hi masomo ya leo, it's a hard pill to swallow, but one thing I love is the true teaching you give us. One thing nimesoma, goat wife always be smart.
😢uuu .,....usiongee kuhusu mpango wa kando...wengi wife's tunalia coz men are Soo mad.Tumeyapitia mengi.God intervine for us,..but stick to ur home if Hana vita na wewe,.na usiongee sana...play cool.,..one dai atachoka an u shall see God's doing 😅😊
Genesis 16 8 And he said, "Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?" "I'm running away from my mistress Sarai," she answered. 9 Then the angel of the LORD told her, "Go back to your mistress and submit to her."
Correct christian marriage from my type of christianity is between one man and one woman.Its indissoluble.Cohabitation is not a marriage but what it is:a cohabitation.When you interfere with a marriage,you are 'death' even if you are finally taken as a second wife.Separation doesn't need to be physical.A side-chick and a second wife are both marriage breakers.I don't think some of you bloggers are the right persons to advise others on marriage.
Sasa sisi single mother tumezaa tutaa wapi vijana watuoe,na tena ulipatana na kijana anakupeleke mbio ili umuzalie mtoto wake pia,sasa inabindi tukubali wazee juu hawana haraka ya kuwazalia watoto,kwa hivyo wachaneni na sisi sio wote tunakubali kuaribu mbona za wenyewe ata sisi ni watu,ama munataka tutor wapi wanaume wakutuoa,lafu wanaume wengine kutoka inje uletwa na bibi zao
Niliolewa na kijana Hana chochote na nikaitikia shida ikatupiga nikaona niende Saudi ,,,after two years akaniambia anataka kwenda Qatar ni mlipie na nikaitikia but after amepata Kila kitu nimebakisha commission sister zake tukakosana nao after yeye kukuja kuambiwa instead aniulize pia yy alianza matusi and I was so ungry untill now should I forgive such a person mkikosana watu wao wanaingilia ukijiteatea pia mwenye amekuoa anakutukana am confused currently in Saudi sijawai weza kurudi nyumbani mpaka wa leo
My husband alikuwa anaruhusu wanifanyie Kila mockery mpaka kupost picture zake kwa status namengine mengi but nilishidwa kufumillia mengi. Nakaondoka ineeded peace
I'm a single xtian lady hoping to get married well. These married men nowdays hata hawana aibu they don't care they come at you with full knowledge you know they are married but they think all single wemen are desperate for them. You are very wrong 🗑️. To me is an offence 😠
Supposing you had a side chick,not because you do not love your wife,not because you intend to leave your wife of 20 plus years,The side chick knows your wife well and she makes sure that she had a kid with you..Then on your part you love children and you would do everything to protect that kid ..though not ready for a second wife..The wife comes to know about it ..and though she trusted you so much..agrees that the side chick should surrender the kid to her.. but the side chick says NO..WHAT DO YOU DO IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES ?
After 20 years who in the world wants to raise another person’s child? Women don’t do this! Ulilea watoto wako! Already after 20 years it means in your marriage you have properties under your name and that husband. Those are yours and your children & future generations! Let the side chick raise her child and don’t be bothered how she does it! Wewe usikue involved! Kaaa mbali and enjoy your life Please take care of yourself not another woman’s child or that husband! He can take care of himself ama who ever feels like it.
First off all lets be honest, a number of "marriages" are not marriages, they are "come we stay" so therefore " “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" DOES NOT apply. That is the first most important point!!!! Second, because people are doing "come we stay", even for 10+years and however many children, it is very fluid, when a side chick comes in, She is also looking for a come we stay with your come we stay! Your "come we stay" /husband can go ahead and "come we stay" with someone else! Why are we surprised!
Interesting 😊. The truth to this generation born from the 1970s needs to be told the truth!!! Their wives are NOT their mothers!! The mistakes their fathers made will cost them their marriages today!! If you are in a Christian marriage, the Bible does not expect a wife to stay when there is adultery. If the marriage survives, it’s a personal choice!! Another point, your husband maybe unfaithful while you’re still together and by an unfortunate circumstance, he gets a sickness. If he’s still in the marriage and you hadn’t left, be the Christian. If your are divorced. 1 Corinthians 7:15- you are not bound by such circumstances!!! God knows something about unfaithfulness. It’s deeper!!! When you save a marriage where it is clear adultery is the order of the day, live peacefully with the consequence of that SIN in your lineage to the 4th generation!!! Christian marriages are held to Biblical standards!!! Some of these marriages are kept selfishly because divorce has a stigma but the cost of staying is too much!!
I think it's hard for her to say that she doesn't support coz it's a man choice to have one,ata tukatae aje we can't control men and make them not to have sidechicks which hurts alot.But mm niliamua , sitajipa stress juu ya mtu mzima,I can also enjoy somewhere else if am not enough for him😅
Monica tuko same wasup group roho ngumu the math is not mathing hizi lessons za physics na chemistry double double lessons aii reke hareme tondu ma unbani wi ruo
Btwn the husband and the mpango wa Kando.. I think the husband is the one at the wrong... Most of us cames frm homes where greatgrandparent had three wives.. the mistake comes in when the intention of mpango wa kando is kuharibu ndoa
Umepewa advice hapo juu! Don’t be bothered, organize yourself and leave that foolish man to that foolish woman. Two fools deserve each other, they don’t deserve the great you! You’re gorgeous and wise because would you ever behave like that man? Would you ever behave like the side chick? I bet no! See you’re great and better and best life awaits you.
@@huldahnjeri5146 I will answer the why, starting from head fake hair,artificial makeup with funny colors,fake nails,then you start imagining fake teeth too and you end up kissing Kinguru.
To me I don't think kuvaa wigs make up artificial nails na etc ati ni Vibaya...men who say this ni bills hua hawapendi kulipa...na pia ni immaturity na foolishness
I'm a single mother but I vowed I will never involve myself with someone's husband. I choose righteousness for the sake of my daughters and generations. Let me be viewed as a fool.
Your not a fool that's is the way even me i cant dare coz vile niliharibiwa kwangu siwezi haribu kwingine
You are blessed
I agree 💯
As I single mom, I never involve myself with a married man. Let me just patiently wait for the man destined for me
Wakiama full of wisdom
Your lipstick is always on point💯
How i wish every girl could walk away from married men,,as young as i am and God having gotten me out of a very bad situation with a married man who lied to me but realized it when it was too late...i left him and erased him in our lives,i left him when my i was only 2months pregnant,gave birth to my beautiful baby girl,,I wish i could advise all young women! It is the worst choice you can ever make.
I relive my pain and the words from the mpango wa kando every day! She called me all manner of names.......she wanted me gone after years and years of trying to build my home. It wasn't just her, but the hubby who contributed to this situation. God is the judge and the revenger. May both PAY dearly!!! There is NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED. ADULTERY IS A SIN. My side chick hope you read this.........
You’re so so lucky! You are not with that foolish man no more! The foolish man is now with the foolish woman😂😂😂! They totally deserve each other! That foolish man was not worthy of the great you, you’re now on to better things i.e prosperity and peace! Take care of yourself and please heal so that you never ever get another man like that one, or even any other foolish person
@@Njitagwo_Shiro why do you call her ex foolish. so David went up there with his two wives. Ahinoam and Abigail the widow of Nabal.
And so is fornication
Hii ndio gospel nataka kuskia kila wakati 🎉🎉🎉🎉my namesake your are best
Esther is a lady blessed by God with a lot of wisdom and willing to share with others be blessed my sister and we'll make the 🌍🌎 a better place may God help us 🙏🙏🛐🛐🔥🔥💕💕
Andu acio ni arume tu....rugano rwakwa ni ruraihu muno rwa ruo na thiina,no uira wama,ahunjia aria matari akuure,matihunjagia ma,ona ni arata aa atumia oo acio mathukagia micie yene,,ni matuku ma muico andu aitu,mehia maraahakwo maguta magathogorwo ringi.....wui ..ni matua maatuire ma guthukia kwene
Evilness is all over but God is coming to avenge for those who are oppressed
NGAI ombi-ire Adam mutumira noo tiatumia
I'm a single mother for some years now and I even hate that name "side chick" if as a lady you don't have any plans with that man or the man don't have future with you,, please leave that family and wait for your own man for the sake of your generation
Well stated kwanza mimi i hate with passion being an option to someone yaani this makes me feel so down I vowed never to date any married man am also a single mum of two
Siwezi juu miaka yangu inasonga na Niko na mtoto Moja na sio kupenda kwangu itabindi juu sitaki menopause inipate
Devil hates marriage because he knows God ordained marriage
This is why you see many women are discouraging others to get married 😢but try to be leaders including PREACHING na MWANAMKE hafai kukua PASTOR 😢😢😢😢. we should respect our men
@@queenmwangui411 Bible says so we need to respect men as leaders
First, husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church. Man authority should be christlikeness, Husbands, are to love your wives in a way that you put her needs ahead of your own and you sacrificially love her and lead her as Jesus does the Church.
@@mww4491 men have failed badly although there are some women who are not good to husbands as well but it’s good to allow Christ to guide us as family.
Sure but imagine I'm convinced too that mwk are sent to punish people who don't keep God's command of no fornication, I mean even most christians bend this rule. How then can he let you enjoy such marriage? God is not mocked 🤔
Its true what wa kiama us saying. When you pass the taste you and your children will be blessed always in Jesus mighty name. Amen
I just love wakiama... thanks kagoni for the show
@ Wakiama n Monica.Kindly note:
Sarah had told Abraham to sleep with Hagar but she still told him to send her away.
No no no to two wives period.😢😮😠
You realize that is the preserve of men though 🤔. Akitaka hugwes mzuia
❤❤❤TEAM USA 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸WELL DONE ALOT OF WISDOM 🎉🎉🎉🙏🏽✅✅✅ASANTE SANA PRO.3:5
Hakuna side chick mzuri kindly respect God as a young girl n God will bless you
Truest..
Anyone or anything that comes between a married couple becomes death to that marriage.
Wa kiama keep preaching the gospel of Christ on marriage.
WaKiama siku hizi tuna Wacha......I will forgive while in America Mami......I agree with Kagoni...
I remember a lady who was interviewed in another channel was told by the sidechick kojoa ulale. What a witch!
Normally its not easy i have gone through it but wee its only God who intervined
Beautiful and lovely to see you two present this show in form of a conversation. Well done and keep it up. I follow you both from the UK. God bless you.
Superb show Monica/ Wakiama. Lots of wisdom society can gain from, congrats.
This is so true,am a witness,I love it❤
Words of wisdom thank you
Wakiama, I love you and your teachings. Hi masomo ya leo, it's a hard pill to swallow, but one thing I love is the true teaching you give us.
One thing nimesoma, goat wife always be smart.
Hizi story za side chicks makes kagoni mad
sana
Labda kagoni Ako na sidechick
😢uuu .,....usiongee kuhusu mpango wa kando...wengi wife's tunalia coz men are Soo mad.Tumeyapitia mengi.God intervine for us,..but stick to ur home if Hana vita na wewe,.na usiongee sana...play cool.,..one dai atachoka an u shall see God's doing 😅😊
stick but plan well ukipata pesa go and start allover again n all will be ok
My fav counsellor
Best lesson learned... Thank you
I love wa Kiama she is the best ❤❤
God bless you mama umenitoa bali
Mpango wa kando ahikagio ni wallet ti muthuri,bona maskini wametulia kwa boma?
Money 💵 is power ,it attracts all the forces
Guturi kidu takiu kiumbani kiumbanaga na ikunia
😂😂😂
Love your teachings
Genesis 16
8 And he said, "Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?" "I'm running away from my mistress Sarai," she answered.
9 Then the angel of the LORD told her, "Go back to your mistress and submit to her."
She was told to go back to her status as a servant. Kwa sabau alikuwa ameanza kiburi na madharau to Sarah, the Lady of the house.
Hmmm hmmm please U got it all wrong.... Talk to ur husband the men are the ones that are wrong... 😊
thanks for the lessons, learning alot.
Jane kingori🎉🎉🎉🎉
Correct christian marriage from my type of christianity is between one man and one woman.Its indissoluble.Cohabitation is not a marriage but what it is:a cohabitation.When you interfere with a marriage,you are 'death' even if you are finally taken as a second wife.Separation doesn't need to be physical.A side-chick and a second wife are both marriage breakers.I don't think some of you bloggers are the right persons to advise others on marriage.
Very informative
Wanawake mchunge hao marafiki wenu wengi wana changed wana kuwa sidechick 😅😅
True I know one who has done that to her best friend.
Juu nyie ni hand begi mu snatchiwe or what's your role 🙋♀️
Sidechic wa kwangu ako na 2 kids na bwana alipass unashangaaa yaaani a widow can ruin someone's marriage
Wakiama you look soo beautiful 🎉😊
Am going thru this now yaani this can mke 1 sink into depression sijui what to do...
Take heart my dear we are here too
You r not alone we r in this together
Sasa sisi single mother tumezaa tutaa wapi vijana watuoe,na tena ulipatana na kijana anakupeleke mbio ili umuzalie mtoto wake pia,sasa inabindi tukubali wazee juu hawana haraka ya kuwazalia watoto,kwa hivyo wachaneni na sisi sio wote tunakubali kuaribu mbona za wenyewe ata sisi ni watu,ama munataka tutor wapi wanaume wakutuoa,lafu wanaume wengine kutoka inje uletwa na bibi zao
There single men out there
Malipo ni hapa duniani
Niliolewa na kijana Hana chochote na nikaitikia shida ikatupiga nikaona niende Saudi ,,,after two years akaniambia anataka kwenda Qatar ni mlipie na nikaitikia but after amepata Kila kitu nimebakisha commission sister zake tukakosana nao after yeye kukuja kuambiwa instead aniulize pia yy alianza matusi and I was so ungry untill now should I forgive such a person mkikosana watu wao wanaingilia ukijiteatea pia mwenye amekuoa anakutukana am confused currently in Saudi sijawai weza kurudi nyumbani mpaka wa leo
Na alienda qatar? Muja communicate for how long🤔 muko na watoi if yes is he responsible ?
But pia akiweka family yake mbele mwache aoe hao sister zake juu ukirudi atakula pesa yako then wakutende wacha tu.
Focus on your job dear utapata wako mwenye atakuelewa
Hii nimeipitia siongei saana, unaweza jiua
what a nice topic so educational
tutungate ningi ahona amuirie aaaiiii wakiama nawe ugutuonia uhoro
I wish I could tag someone
Hata Mimi nitaachia class 6.Hii darasa imetushinda😅😅😅
Learnt alot from you wakiama
Hmm some men will never tell you they have a wife until You probably get pregnant. So what about that....?!...
😅let me tell u Madam Wakiama,hapa inje goat wife wamekionanga
Wakiama usiseme usuri wa sidech they're devo
Some comes back empty handed......they hate their wives
This lady speaks exctly like my father maybe she is his sister muulize kama anajua babake
I wish naweza peana my stroi
me too.....
My husband alikuwa anaruhusu wanifanyie Kila mockery mpaka kupost picture zake kwa status namengine mengi but nilishidwa kufumillia mengi. Nakaondoka ineeded peace
Hugs dear
@@ruthwaweru1284 thanks alot
Pole❤
I'm a single xtian lady hoping to get married well. These married men nowdays hata hawana aibu they don't care they come at you with full knowledge you know they are married but they think all single wemen are desperate for them. You are very wrong 🗑️. To me is an offence 😠
Supposing you had a side chick,not because you do not love your wife,not because you intend to leave your wife of 20 plus years,The side chick knows your wife well and she makes sure that she had a kid with you..Then on your part you love children and you would do everything to protect that kid ..though not ready for a second wife..The wife comes to know about it ..and though she trusted you so much..agrees that the side chick should surrender the kid to her.. but the side chick says NO..WHAT DO YOU DO IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES ?
After 20 years who in the world wants to raise another person’s child? Women don’t do this! Ulilea watoto wako! Already after 20 years it means in your marriage you have properties under your name and that husband. Those are yours and your children & future generations!
Let the side chick raise her child and don’t be bothered how she does it! Wewe usikue involved! Kaaa mbali and enjoy your life
Please take care of yourself not another woman’s child or that husband! He can take care of himself ama who ever feels like it.
Guys let’s respect our marriage
First off all lets be honest, a number of "marriages" are not marriages, they are "come we stay" so therefore " “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" DOES NOT apply. That is the first most important point!!!! Second, because people are doing "come we stay", even for 10+years and however many children, it is very fluid, when a side chick comes in, She is also looking for a come we stay with your come we stay! Your "come we stay" /husband can go ahead and "come we stay" with someone else! Why are we surprised!
I still remain his wife even if it’s come we stay.
What makes a marriage of not two people agreeing to be together?
@@Shirocaro no marriage ain't come we stay... It's either customary or religious marriage... Hiyo come we stay means fornication
Interesting 😊. The truth to this generation born from the 1970s needs to be told the truth!!! Their wives are NOT their mothers!! The mistakes their fathers made will cost them their marriages today!! If you are in a Christian marriage, the Bible does not expect a wife to stay when there is adultery. If the marriage survives, it’s a personal choice!! Another point, your husband maybe unfaithful while you’re still together and by an unfortunate circumstance, he gets a sickness. If he’s still in the marriage and you hadn’t left, be the Christian. If your are divorced. 1 Corinthians 7:15- you are not bound by such circumstances!!! God knows something about unfaithfulness. It’s deeper!!! When you save a marriage where it is clear adultery is the order of the day, live peacefully with the consequence of that SIN in your lineage to the 4th generation!!! Christian marriages are held to Biblical standards!!! Some of these marriages are kept selfishly because divorce has a stigma but the cost of staying is too much!!
With The Jovial Marriage Counselor ❤❤❤❤
Wee wakiama Kai uraria ciakwa? Muthuri eeraga muhik n ndaregire guciira kahii.i
Wa Kiama, pliz take a stand on this side chick issue. Do you support infidelity in marriage or not.
I think it's hard for her to say that she doesn't support coz it's a man choice to have one,ata tukatae aje we can't control men and make them not to have sidechicks which hurts alot.But mm niliamua , sitajipa stress juu ya mtu mzima,I can also enjoy somewhere else if am not enough for him😅
She mentioned both xtian and African side. Let's face it,not everyone will follow the bible which is a foreign concept 🤔
Monicah eti tuachie class 6😂😂😂
nii onanii reka nemwo nguga ta wakagoni. Ndekwiyuruuuuuria riria atangihota kuhe ikeno niguo aranjokerera ati ndimuhiuhirie. Nii ninguremwo.
Monica tuko same wasup group roho ngumu the math is not mathing hizi lessons za physics na chemistry double double lessons aii reke hareme tondu ma unbani wi ruo
niu kubuo ndikubika tudu diweiru muru😢
Btwn the husband and the mpango wa Kando.. I think the husband is the one at the wrong... Most of us cames frm homes where greatgrandparent had three wives.. the mistake comes in when the intention of mpango wa kando is kuharibu ndoa
You both are on the wrong. Where is your wisdom as a lady? Whether you came from a polygamy background, but what's the Bible teaching?
Nie reke thikiririe tu
Am the wife
😅😅😅
Na teacher Stano aroigire eri niega gwa kameme
Ucio ni muguruki anatumia hao wanawake vibaya mtu anapokea mshahara ya wanawake
Na ati ni muhunjia kokoi
What if a man is showing the txt to her wife za side check kuniheart nitafanya nini
Soma tu ukicheka usimuoneshe ubaya bt ujipange pole pole umuwachie huyo anaona mzuri.
Only God knows.
just ignore wakati utajipanga utoke bila kumwabia ajue ulikuwa unaumia dont let him know its bothering you play cool
Umepewa advice hapo juu! Don’t be bothered, organize yourself and leave that foolish man to that foolish woman. Two fools deserve each other, they don’t deserve the great you! You’re gorgeous and wise because would you ever behave like that man? Would you ever behave like the side chick? I bet no! See you’re great and better and best life awaits you.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
Monica, Wa Kiama will kill you some day wirh her humour
,,😂😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰
Does a woman wearing fake hair really look good or she just feels good? Weave, not my thing
Why would what/how a woman wears her hair bother you?
Let women be.
It's how a person feels that matters most.. not what strangers think or look at her.
@@huldahnjeri5146 I will answer the why, starting from head fake hair,artificial makeup with funny colors,fake nails,then you start imagining fake teeth too and you end up kissing Kinguru.
@@patriciamaina2766 so then the goat wife shouldn’t change her style of dressing if she feels good"
To me I don't think kuvaa wigs make up artificial nails na etc ati ni Vibaya...men who say this ni bills hua hawapendi kulipa...na pia ni immaturity na foolishness