Saying “NO” To Your Child: Ep 14 Soul Reflections: BK Shivani (English Subtitles)

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    "Let children learn to hear a NO from parents", requests BK Shivani. By giving them everything they desire, parents block the sanskar of adaptability. Children need to adapt and learn to be happy and stable when they do not get what they want. Empowering children with the right sanskars helps them to overcome any adversity.
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  • @jyotis9682
    @jyotis9682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Im in love and obsessed with her... couldn’t stop myself listening her. All day all night... always listening her voice a real-time pure soul

    • @koridisha444Tarot
      @koridisha444Tarot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here dear

    • @PreetiWalia-df7hq
      @PreetiWalia-df7hq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Likewise, I listen to her whenever I get time in my day

  • @jayaghoorah9515
    @jayaghoorah9515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I was labeled a bad mother because I brought up my children the ways shivani has been discussing. I did not care what people said because I wanted to bring up responsible ,independent human beings. I was successful!!!

    • @jignamehta1128
      @jignamehta1128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well done.
      Always stay blessed.

    • @gayatreebehera7654
      @gayatreebehera7654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great mam....well done mam

    • @fetrafetra3979
      @fetrafetra3979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's great to hear. Well done!

    • @SkyBlue-gn8gq
      @SkyBlue-gn8gq ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful job keep doing once they are grown up they will appreciate 🎉❤😊

  • @kusumbhatia4581
    @kusumbhatia4581 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti,pahle jo baate normal way mai seekh jate thee aaj sub parents ke liye wo sub mushkil ho gaya hai butcho ko sikhana.

  • @nehajain8351
    @nehajain8351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti

  • @pujastudios7710
    @pujastudios7710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    om shanti good morning thank you

  • @taniya-vaishnavisvlog1
    @taniya-vaishnavisvlog1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bk shivani didi apki har ek baat m mehsus kri hu kitni saach h ....apki yh baat ekdm sach h ...

  • @seemakrishna5918
    @seemakrishna5918 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Om shanti
    Pahle me sochati thi ki me bacchon ke saath bahut strict hu. But after watching this video I am relax. I did everything right with my kids.thank you so much didi.

  • @winnersneverquits2570
    @winnersneverquits2570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti m angel 🧚🏻‍♀️
    Thank you sir being here for us 🙏🏻

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @nitinprakash4207
    @nitinprakash4207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti, thanks to both of you🙏❤

  • @82432818
    @82432818 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OM SHANTI DIVINE SISTER

  • @ravinderbindu6452
    @ravinderbindu6452 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti di mann ko bht shanti milti ha

  • @laxmisahu6574
    @laxmisahu6574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good afternoon didi shivani. Om shanti.

  • @vandanaavhad4218
    @vandanaavhad4218 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    om shanti didi

  • @ritachaubey1980
    @ritachaubey1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanku so much my angel for this excellent idea 🙏🙏om shanti.

  • @supriyamohapatra5183
    @supriyamohapatra5183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On shanti didi and Bhai

  • @poritoshkshatriya9334
    @poritoshkshatriya9334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    om shanti Didi

  • @nirojnalineemohapatra1525
    @nirojnalineemohapatra1525 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is amazing and beautiful mind as well

  • @shvetagupta6233
    @shvetagupta6233 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very beautiful topic

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OM NAMAH SHIVAY. OLD IS GOLD BY TASTES AND QUALITIES EXPERIENCED IN A MOTIVATIONAL CONCEPTS EMPHASISED ON SAYING NO TO YOUR CHILD DISCUSSED AND ANALYSED BY BK SHIVANI A GREAT MOTIVATOR SUPPORTED BY SURESH OBEROI IN VIDEO STATUS OF 4 YEARS AGO. I AM AN INVINCIBLE SOUL. I AM A DOMINION OF PURE HOLISTIC AND ENLIGHTENED SOULS.

  • @pradiprangholiya712
    @pradiprangholiya712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well said and explained 👌

  • @saumyapandey6154
    @saumyapandey6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always used to think why my mother didn't give me this thing or that thing while other parents were so benign for their children. But now, being a grown up, when I interact with those children versus me, I can clearly understand how important was that value which my mother instilled in me of hearing a NO so that I can adapt to any situation whatsover around me and still stay happy always. Thank you Mummy for making me what I am today and Thanks to you too sister for making me understand the logic behind constrained parenting versus comfort parenting.

  • @chaganbhainagani9655
    @chaganbhainagani9655 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OM SHANTY OM JAY baba.

  • @vibhakalaskar8390
    @vibhakalaskar8390 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice
    Didi & sir ....om Shanti

  • @Admeh776
    @Admeh776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    No topic was very vibrantly went in may mind...it is also impact on my mind,my thought,my self...superb,superb,superb..🙏🙏🙏

  • @bulbulkhoiwal8475
    @bulbulkhoiwal8475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very beautiful video thank you so much Didi

  • @dr.yogendri673
    @dr.yogendri673 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanti ..useful advise...

  • @simdevdhar6886
    @simdevdhar6886 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Suresh ji is very sweet..🙏 beautiful conversation

  • @ektaektaverma6822
    @ektaektaverma6822 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanti di very nice explain

  • @nirmalkhatker6374
    @nirmalkhatker6374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    om shanti bahi ji

  • @vivekkumarsingh9741
    @vivekkumarsingh9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti 🙏

  • @priscilla2062
    @priscilla2062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a mother who most things let my children get their way, and I never force them to eat what they do not want. Also because I would hate to be forced to eat what I don't want. However, they go to school and there, is a different story, they have to adapt to other people's way. I have been brought up with lots of "NO" just for the sake of "NO". It made me a pleaser to others and scared of upsetting others. Not healthy at all. I adore sister Shivani, but I need more clarifying on this subject.

  • @madhuraapatil1794
    @madhuraapatil1794 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent thoughts ...!!

  • @hcsanjaysarsiya9136
    @hcsanjaysarsiya9136 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanti Didi

  • @pallavichavan3602
    @pallavichavan3602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks mam n sir....

  • @latakhatnanikoneru8186
    @latakhatnanikoneru8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u Om shanti sister very nice episode... This I m listening since 3 yrs I was pregnant n it helped me alot
    I have one request kindly start some awakening programme regarding raising kids from toddler to Teenage...it's a dire need of an hr ... Where everything all teaching is online n no interaction with other souls...

  • @nishudhiman9035
    @nishudhiman9035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti om 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Om shanti didi

  • @himanshisaini1770
    @himanshisaini1770 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are really inspiring...

  • @eshitabhatia9723
    @eshitabhatia9723 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U r tiooooo gooood.... Nd u explain eveything in succh easyyyy words...
    I mean u r a blessing to us

  • @lucerolaura89
    @lucerolaura89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautifully explained. I love this👩‍👦‍👦💞🙏

  • @vasu_makes_lives_better
    @vasu_makes_lives_better ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏

  • @sheela4724
    @sheela4724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U are very right

  • @aditishrivastav9273
    @aditishrivastav9273 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shantiii

  • @oneplus113T
    @oneplus113T 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom watches this and because of her I watch it too

  • @sanjaygomase4967
    @sanjaygomase4967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ओम शांति दी
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @rajeshparekh426
    @rajeshparekh426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🕉️ 🙏 Shanti

  • @neelimaavilala4398
    @neelimaavilala4398 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanthi sister... We need all your programs in English didi.. because of language i am missing many many important things... Please do in English also didi

  • @harishuuniyal
    @harishuuniyal 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Run time 5:04 to 5:06 word said buckles up, which as per sister Shivani is "weakining of immunity system" however it does not have the same

  • @vaishnomodanwal8162
    @vaishnomodanwal8162 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @talatparveen2183
    @talatparveen2183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my dear sister very beautiful

  • @AshaDevi-cs4sc
    @AshaDevi-cs4sc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice.

  • @sonamverma2205
    @sonamverma2205 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om santi

  • @sumansaini23
    @sumansaini23 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss you sister Shivani

  • @nilamsehgal2955
    @nilamsehgal2955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister Shivani.. I also wanted to change habit of my child of watching Mobile during Eating food, if I get strict, her grandmother will allow her to same, what should I do....

  • @ankushmanhas5194
    @ankushmanhas5194 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best

  • @jyotikadarsh4056
    @jyotikadarsh4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great

  • @khushithediylover5808
    @khushithediylover5808 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice topic 🙏🙏🙏🙏om santi

  • @prasantapal5164
    @prasantapal5164 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    very nice

  • @HardeepKaur-eh2zl
    @HardeepKaur-eh2zl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    V nice

  • @Admeh776
    @Admeh776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have one more question Jo bacche sucide Kar dete hai gusse me,pagal ban jate hai to vo dar bhi sun sun ke hame strict hone Nahi deta...pls pls give me answer di...I love u..

  • @vikaskumar-uf8kz
    @vikaskumar-uf8kz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very very true..Om shanti :)

  • @sonarout754
    @sonarout754 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omm santi meri pyari maa

    • @kaveribehera
      @kaveribehera 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sona Rout 6th

    • @patel2711
      @patel2711 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @saleemtobe-fit1533
    @saleemtobe-fit1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very very important topic
    I from Pakistan 🇵🇰✅🏋️🌹
    I appreciate you and your Team
    Keep it up 🌹🧘🧘🌹

  • @lakshyasharma2939
    @lakshyasharma2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice👍

  • @pradipchoudhary1500
    @pradipchoudhary1500 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    u r great Didi

  • @rukmaniagarwal6196
    @rukmaniagarwal6196 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soul reflection is a very knowledgeful, om shanti

  • @kesarthapa6504
    @kesarthapa6504 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    om santi!

  • @beastarpit8516
    @beastarpit8516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice mam

  • @PadmineeRinkiz
    @PadmineeRinkiz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good information di....om shanti

  • @sudhaverma6390
    @sudhaverma6390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice didi 👍👍💐💐

  • @sharyumore6432
    @sharyumore6432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti Didi.

  • @sonamverma2205
    @sonamverma2205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is learning programme for life and how to manage our life?

  • @dr.nitindutt8197
    @dr.nitindutt8197 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video

  • @TheMemi2007
    @TheMemi2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that's so true 👍

  • @dayanand8919
    @dayanand8919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From when the parents stopped the Upnayan sanskar to be performed on their own precious children .
    I am very much interested to see that All the Vedic Sanatan Dharma Faith followers, follow the Sixteen sacrements, well 13 1/3 is consecrated by the parents, 13 , 14 , 15 done by the precious grown-up children, and the 16th could be performed by the precious son's or Daughters. How is that ! SHIVOHAM.

  • @jyotipushkarna8425
    @jyotipushkarna8425 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @Tejashwini135
    @Tejashwini135 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice example to say NO . thanks very very very much Didi Thank you Om shanti

  • @aakashratwani2
    @aakashratwani2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice

  • @rajeshwarprasad2249
    @rajeshwarprasad2249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OM SHANTI DIDI JI

  • @romadawani2207
    @romadawani2207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Didi in one video you said that respect children's feeling. This video is contradicting with that.

  • @nayanamelvanki2685
    @nayanamelvanki2685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My life is now a festival. I enjoy every second of my life. I live every second of my life consciously.

  • @kritikahazra1634
    @kritikahazra1634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanx Sister ...it wl surely help me to rear up my child

  • @shardagabhale5230
    @shardagabhale5230 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏❤️🙏🎉♥️👍🔥 ओम् शांती 🙏❤️🙏 सुप्रभात 🙏❤️🙏 आप दोनोको और सभी दीदी दादी भाई लोक को बहुत बहुत शुभकामना ए और बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद नमस्कार दंडवत कृतज्ञता 🎉🌹💐🌹🍓🍒💐🙏🙏🙏👍

  • @vijaybunkar840
    @vijaybunkar840 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video Didi thanks

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omsanthi no desire about food, drink, sex, friends and ony concentrate about understanding myself and others apply my toughts without expecting any how can i reach this level through meditation?

  • @MithleshKumar-hk9cu
    @MithleshKumar-hk9cu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti didi. Tell us about illuminati

  • @AdityaSingh-po8lp
    @AdityaSingh-po8lp 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam u r voice is so good

  • @eshitabhatia9723
    @eshitabhatia9723 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its not about just the clean envt... But also insecure envt.. Where child trafficking is happening... I have seen parents of 12th class holding hands of their kids while crossing roads etc.. Becoz they r so insecure.. Now cn somebody answer to my such basic questions...
    Pehle aisa nai tha..
    Our pare ta were lot carefree than we are..

  • @manyaslifetaeyung1911
    @manyaslifetaeyung1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I say no with reason to my kid

  • @BabitaanushkaGupta
    @BabitaanushkaGupta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍🏻👍🏻🙏🙏

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omsanthi why i was failed in my life because of fear, igo and desires without increasing quality. Of presence of mind..... I got answer from you that if we find solutions of above thoughts actualy there is no questioning about failure or sucess ..... Because we living in the present.... But sister practical ithna easy nahi he.... Bahuth practice karna padtha he....

  • @deepaligulati500
    @deepaligulati500 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏💐🌈

  • @dhirendraagarwal4612
    @dhirendraagarwal4612 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy gud morng ji🌹💕🙏

  • @gameplayer6638
    @gameplayer6638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom always hurt my feeling by saying no 😖 iam so sad nowadays

  • @waheguru7598
    @waheguru7598 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hlo shivani di...main daily 4 baje uthti hun..something I do meditation nd exercise but mujhe gusa phir bhi aa jata h Jab aata hain main ghar walo pe nikalti hun plz di batana main kya krun?????

    • @vitthaldeval8145
      @vitthaldeval8145 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      parveen gill ap mt socho karo jb apko gussa aaye to ap apna mind kisi or p ya kuch or soch liya karo

    • @shilpasharma8015
      @shilpasharma8015 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same my problem

  • @funtechandmagic7757
    @funtechandmagic7757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    om shanti sister, sister mera beta 12yrs Ka hai . 6th class man hai bet Kay study mai bilkul bhi interest Nahi pyar se gusse Se emotionaly sab Kar k Dekh Liya but wo kuch Nahi samajhta. Mai single parent hu. Samajh nahi aata kaise uska interest developed karu. Baki Sab Baato mai sahi hai. But usko apna Insult bhi feel Nani hota ki classmates k aage Insult hogi

    • @geetanjalikanwar8963
      @geetanjalikanwar8963 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes di,i also want to know, same problems I'm facing, Pls answer this question Di

    • @radhagoel559
      @radhagoel559 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      मैं भी इसी समस्या से परेशान हूं प्लीज आप इस बात का जवाब दीजिए दी।

    • @kalyanimhnty4956
      @kalyanimhnty4956 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Khane pe bacha pareshan karne se mein darse kuch bol nahin pati hun.kya karun kaise chudaoon o adaten

  • @sunitamahale9224
    @sunitamahale9224 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    omm Santi🙏🙏🌹

  • @yuanaparekh6667
    @yuanaparekh6667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Which book do u refer?

  • @poonamarora6553
    @poonamarora6553 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bacha yadi jid karta hai or baat Nahi mane to kya karna chaiye plz Didi answer de