How To Have Small Talk With Women

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ความคิดเห็น • 314

  • @samratwadhwa769
    @samratwadhwa769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    0:14 Keep it small
    0:46 Be direct
    1:18 Have strong eye contact
    3:21 Dont try to be funny
    4:17 Make her feel good
    5:00 Push
    Guys please like this video...
    and my comment😉

    • @Rippled1
      @Rippled1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No replies for a full year? Dw I got u bro

    • @MaraKaiSeok
      @MaraKaiSeok 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Rippled1 I second that

    • @IvanJoshua20
      @IvanJoshua20 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Man bro 3rd comment

    • @oblivionobliteration311
      @oblivionobliteration311 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      4th

    • @jxhn678
      @jxhn678 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      5th

  • @rossgeller6650
    @rossgeller6650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Summary guy..
    1_ Keep it small
    2_ Be direct
    3_ Have strong eye contact
    4_ Don't try to be funny
    5_ Make her feel good
    6_ push

    • @AK41L
      @AK41L 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Pls keep heading, thx

    • @breadiah
      @breadiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      “Make her feel good” ight bet

    • @Thedreamer20015
      @Thedreamer20015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol being funny is key and I’m funny as it is, I can’t help it and make her laugh. Girls are easy lol.

    • @casparps
      @casparps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pull, push*

    • @dentu3885
      @dentu3885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thx

  • @muntyal-bazaz2663
    @muntyal-bazaz2663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Jose has helped come along way went acting and talking with women and I’m still learning more. You can never be perfect, thanks Jose continue the brotherhood

    • @Thesinnerslament.
      @Thesinnerslament. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True bro that's so true even for me I've become a stud

    • @Atlasosa
      @Atlasosa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Thesinnerslament. fr? 😂

  • @agent-xx
    @agent-xx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Okay.. My turn to be the Summary Guy.
    #1: Keep it Small - 0:15
    #2: Be Direct - 0:47
    #3: Have Strong eye Contact - 1:20
    •• Jade black Ad ••
    #4: Don't try to be Funny - 3:20
    #5: Make her feel good - 4:14
    #6: Push - 5:00

  • @j.carlton
    @j.carlton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Jose is literally an inspiration to all of us

  • @xgaming9066
    @xgaming9066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    In the last 24 hour oru man has uploaded 3 videos . Your commitment is so good. keep up the good work mate

  • @ajaym6795
    @ajaym6795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    It's pretty annoying how you can't just be yourself any more. These sort of "steps for success" are everywhere. The tips themselves are helpful but if you follow them you're not being the real you. You need to be fake to attract fake people I guess. I watch these videos once in a while to be amused .... but I always end up feeling happier about being single.

    • @MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato
      @MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True

    • @jesseomongot
      @jesseomongot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're wrong

    • @ajaym6795
      @ajaym6795 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@jesseomongot you're definitely not right

    • @AshikodiPraise
      @AshikodiPraise 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very wrong...

    • @ajaym6795
      @ajaym6795 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@AshikodiPraise we know you are 🤣

  • @donaldward3226
    @donaldward3226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Jose made me into the attractive man I am today, his advice works and it can change your life, all you need to do is be willing to use his advice for self improvement. THANKS JOSE, keep up the great work!

    • @faisalsulaimon__
      @faisalsulaimon__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's great
      Like I started following his advice and now I can't believe my look and my style now
      Love you Jose ❤️

  • @N810garcia
    @N810garcia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    While women shouldn’t be your man focus as a growing and successful man, they are a byproduct of perseverance and hard work, I will always appreciate Jose on these videos. Keep in mind the simple and easy ways just to hold a girls attention. The rest is up to you. Love the last video too man. Keep up the good work guys!

    • @karlobabic8495
      @karlobabic8495 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, partly acctually. Thing is, if you hard work and get your shit together, when people see you how are they gonna know you did, but you have to show yourself, you gotta go out, engage in events & conversations.

  • @ItsJustAramis
    @ItsJustAramis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Brrro I've needed this for such a long time I've struggled with this, THANK YOU JOSE

  • @jaranis9273
    @jaranis9273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was attempting to do this in the past few days. Good thing this video came up coincidentally!

    • @MaraKaiSeok
      @MaraKaiSeok 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how'd it go? I hope it went well with who you were going for

  • @JeffAboularage
    @JeffAboularage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are seasoned for sure, Jose. New to the channel but your videos are gold. I keep tuning in.

  • @eddiez101
    @eddiez101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bro I just found ur channel , I’ve never had problems with any of these but your confidence hit hard bro subscribed

  • @Ednet34
    @Ednet34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i can tell from experience that it works.
    Especially the be direct.
    I realized when you are sitting to gether with a girl, you have a good/fun conversation and she stares at you without her saying anything and she keeps her eye contact when you look at her, she is most likely into you. Then you need to be direct if you want to got the next step.
    TELL Her, that you are really in the mood to make out with her. Dont ask her if she wants to but instead tell her what you would like to do in that moment. If she is not telling you that she doesnt want that or she tries to get some distance then go for the kiss. Either tell her to come closer to you or ttell her to close her eyes. From that point on, you can literally go as far as you want, but always make sure she is comfortable and her get opinion on that.

    • @JeffAboularage
      @JeffAboularage 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on!

    • @fritiofclarin3611
      @fritiofclarin3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      naw bro thats gonna put you in jail

    • @Ednet34
      @Ednet34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fritiofclarin3611 Didnt you read my comment?
      TELL HER before and wait for her reaction. If she comes closer, tells you that she wants that aswell or she smiles in a ver, positive way then go for it. If she doesnt wanr it, you can notice that right away.
      She will say, nah im sorry, create some distance or have a defending body language.

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

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  • @vicepresidentmikepence889
    @vicepresidentmikepence889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This video is relevant to me. I have NO CLUE how to talk to women

  • @akoredeegunjobi2497
    @akoredeegunjobi2497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "You're welcome."
    That was the best finish Jose has ever concluded a video with. So confident in himself he actually believes he's doing you a favour

  • @bones1active
    @bones1active 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just take an improv class! It’s the best way to talk to women and people in general. It teaches you to be on your feet 😊

  • @musamthombeni1003
    @musamthombeni1003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just what I needed at the right time.

  • @KLGND_RECORDS
    @KLGND_RECORDS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro I just moved to Florida and now I can run my game thanks to you 🙏🏼

  • @jwhoareyouu
    @jwhoareyouu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being funny is da way

  • @dewaldschuler9736
    @dewaldschuler9736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Never clicked a TMF video quicker, since I suck at small talk.

  • @MetalOverlord01
    @MetalOverlord01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jose is the type of Zuniga that's wakes you up and tell you, you need more sleep.

  • @joshlandon149
    @joshlandon149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love these videos, they are so helpful for my daily life! Also, I think there's something up with your mic

  • @AmalOzum
    @AmalOzum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Was Looking For Your Old Videos With This Same Niche... Then Baaaam💥 The Notification Pops Up. Bro You Are The Best ❤️💯

  • @helpmereach45ksubswithoutvideo
    @helpmereach45ksubswithoutvideo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Congrats to Everyone who is Early and Found this Comment 💫

  • @hundals2211
    @hundals2211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro I am really telling you that your advice really helped me
    You are just awesome
    Now I feel different vibe from my self like a gentleman

  • @UnknownNameUnknownNumber
    @UnknownNameUnknownNumber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Someone tell Jose that his recent videos has audio statics randomly in the middle of his videos.

  • @mahmoud083
    @mahmoud083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That phone throw was personal 🤣 3:26

  • @LyricalGoats
    @LyricalGoats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    To everyone who sees this comment,keep pushing in life and never give up. Can't wait to see you successful one day and may God bless you✌🏾

  • @nemxdddd
    @nemxdddd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honey, wake up Jose just uploaded a new video

  • @averageidiot6950
    @averageidiot6950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jose really making the videos on the topics I need help with💪🏽

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Use every source of good information that you find to better yourself. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @emmanuelalbright116
    @emmanuelalbright116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you dropped this exactly when I needed it most... Thanks brother

  • @Mackenziekumbatira
    @Mackenziekumbatira หลายเดือนก่อน

    the way he said your welcome at the end

  • @Matthew-wv5hf
    @Matthew-wv5hf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro is a legend mad respect 🙏

  • @speedsava4064
    @speedsava4064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this guy has helped me level up do much

  • @alexb4828
    @alexb4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed this so much right now, thanks man

  • @bigducknasty5694
    @bigducknasty5694 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big Bro, I tried out Lumin and man my skin looks so good and I feel so much better about myself 👌🏾👌🏾

  • @GoLion
    @GoLion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points. A sense of humor can work wonders BUT you have to know your audience. You have to know what kinda humor is safe and what isn't...and when the first impression counts, it's best to save it for later once you've felt her out.

  • @jaimescafegarage4111
    @jaimescafegarage4111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bros just be direct and confident! They fucking love that shit

  • @JackGraySI
    @JackGraySI 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jose you’ve helped me come along in my manhood thank you bri

  • @sudathwijesinghe6440
    @sudathwijesinghe6440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Every time eye contacts come.Jade black is there 😂

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big brother Jose! Thanks for the videos bro

  • @HyLowz
    @HyLowz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your audio is messed up in video Jose! Letting you know so you can fix for future videos

  • @rydox6122
    @rydox6122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn this man actually knows the best tips😂it actually worked🙌

    • @aa9ushh
      @aa9ushh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      in 24 mins dude lol

    • @Vishivishnu03
      @Vishivishnu03 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can I know how it went bruhh 🙂😂??

  • @terminator_x.24
    @terminator_x.24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jose knows what we want

  • @cedriclavie6237
    @cedriclavie6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️ probably the best TH-camr

  • @shalevottolenghi1597
    @shalevottolenghi1597 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The more videos like this I watch the more confused I get. Usually I have more confidence texting a girl than talking to her face to face. But the girl I'm talking about right now doesn't seem to be into texting, she's more into talking and it confuses me when she's not answering because I'm starting to think that maybe she's not interested in talking to me. Then I remember how every time we have a small talk everything goes smoothly and she seems to like talking to me. This whole thing confuses me sm

  • @nastynate3764
    @nastynate3764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His necklace is caught on his mic or jacket the whole time lol.Note to self have necklace caught on jacket or mic to look more confident lol.But all jokes aside love the advice as always thanks Jose.

  • @Krelian4400
    @Krelian4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The difference between effective small talk and ineffective small talk is your looks. I have seen guys of every personality type pull - as long as they are good looking. You can even act needy and try hard, it will work if you are good looking.

  • @heetdave_7
    @heetdave_7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's Buzzing in video, i thought i have any problem in my pods 😂

  • @rikiahmed4641
    @rikiahmed4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bapree bro....loved it

  • @wvmy
    @wvmy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo bro that microphone going crazy today

  • @lionheartpoeticmusic
    @lionheartpoeticmusic ปีที่แล้ว

    great content man, love what you do

  • @callumhigham8404
    @callumhigham8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight to the point and simple I like it

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try something else as well. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @_curledupdog_2677
    @_curledupdog_2677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx bro this is probably one of the best videos you’ve made. Keep up the good work.

  • @insanemaori
    @insanemaori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    solid advice that never fails. You don't need to treat them mean to keep them keen. Make them feel good, give them a rush of dopamine and oxytocin the feel good hormones, then once they get a hit its like a drug, then when you leave, they will be constantly thinking about you wondering what you done to them. Wanting that "hit" again. But be careful depending on the girl some can get pretty crazy and obsessed so if you not ready to commit or got a wife and kids back home use with caution

  • @babatunde8903
    @babatunde8903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That necklace keeps fucking his audio up 😂

  • @qalinle1231
    @qalinle1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im learning so many things from you thanks jose

  • @Anonymite-1
    @Anonymite-1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being funny in small talk is the easiest way to get friend zoned

    • @galoaxy
      @galoaxy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just made every girl in my school laugh... am i cooked!

  • @aryamondas6112
    @aryamondas6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Having strong eye contact is the hardest thing to do
    Change my mind

  • @karimblali5316
    @karimblali5316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey man, great video, just wanted to tell you that your micro bugged at 2 mins, the sound is a bit weak. Just wanted to let you know.

  • @maficofps3618
    @maficofps3618 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    that’s a nice ass sweater bro, the tank goes hard with it too

  • @unlimited8793
    @unlimited8793 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much I followed everything you said now I used these skills in school and It worked she couldn't keep eye contact with me while I was talking to her

  • @frankuchechukwunkemcho8371
    @frankuchechukwunkemcho8371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been following Jose instructions for 4years now
    And he has made me soo unique in Fashion
    But you wouldn't have cut your hair bro🙄

  • @InCognito-vx8gi
    @InCognito-vx8gi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1. be attractive
    2. don't be unattractive
    3. display you have money
    In that order.

  • @cristyoutube212
    @cristyoutube212 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:19 am I the only one hearing that?😂

  • @jonassaddiq
    @jonassaddiq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the color grade bro!

  • @dolumdoli7621
    @dolumdoli7621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tnx but I'll go for arranged marriage

  • @Renz18ps
    @Renz18ps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jose zuniga vs alex costa who wins?

  • @mxolisimxova8243
    @mxolisimxova8243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spirit brother🏋🏽‍♂️🔥

  • @nicksayan8631
    @nicksayan8631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jose is the man we aspire to be

  • @eliasjakemoran6434
    @eliasjakemoran6434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Instructions unclear, female candidate is now alerting multiple local law enforcement agencies

  • @blackdalia11
    @blackdalia11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those glasses are elegant

  • @bigvic950
    @bigvic950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mic is scratchy brah

  • @okatampofo822
    @okatampofo822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I texted you on messages but didn't get a response

  • @dwe9935
    @dwe9935 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am gonna give a small personal tip o'er here like sometimes acting like a shy guy works out...u should be confident how u act but that can be a lil shy and honestly most girls love a guy how's shy and cute but masculine rather than always dominant and acting chad

  • @suprarace
    @suprarace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you talk to women make sure you chain isn’t caught up in your hoodie!

  • @PROKER-wo4er
    @PROKER-wo4er หลายเดือนก่อน

    dam bro crazy tips thanks

  • @simba_te669
    @simba_te669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apparently affordable is $75 for one pair of glasses

  • @Julian_47
    @Julian_47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro I swear every time I click on a TMF video I think okay 1 more then I realize it's been 2 hours

  • @MontoYaJosue
    @MontoYaJosue 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just the video i needed!!!

  • @CaptainCrimsonCommenter
    @CaptainCrimsonCommenter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jose’s necklace got caught on his lapel mic but, who’s gonna notice that…
    (Edit)
    The endings are still perfectly made for this kinda content 👌

  • @arm3199
    @arm3199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo after the push! Whats the next part to be done? Just always apply the push & pull all day long?

  • @brightbayensi7561
    @brightbayensi7561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice teaching bro 😎

  • @claritychronicles1
    @claritychronicles1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro tell your editor to boost your voice in videos, cant hear you properly even after full volume

  • @alwintitus5048
    @alwintitus5048 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice vid jose.. can u do something to improve sound quality.

  • @alexgindea9715
    @alexgindea9715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was literally watching some fight and then find myself here. I am wondering why so many people can't talk to the opposite sex this days (myself too sometimes) and then I remember that you can just find everything online, no need for the actual work...

  • @spicer6666
    @spicer6666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honestly don’t like wearing sun glasses while talking to a women for the first time it’s better to have eye contact on the first conversation more man to women when you can hold eye contact also builds connection

  • @aryanalakhramsing
    @aryanalakhramsing 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All these guys pushing Tate as if he's the real alpha, he's doing good stuff, but I prefer Jose. Mans been in the game since way back.

  • @dnamezred
    @dnamezred 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, why is the volume so low?

  • @purefaiith
    @purefaiith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can someone tell me what happened to the face scrub on he grooming?

  • @K__kelly
    @K__kelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jose please do a video to teach guys how to pose in pictures 🙏🙏

  • @repost6029
    @repost6029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Check your mic Jose

  • @Albert-777
    @Albert-777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks buddy 👍🏼

  • @musasihlangu6458
    @musasihlangu6458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jose is back again

  • @TejDhr
    @TejDhr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:54 guys he is 100% ryt here cause I have personally been friend zoned by every girl ove talked to so far in life 😭

  • @olayemi797
    @olayemi797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is the GOAT no cap

  • @ghostridda
    @ghostridda 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is meant for people who don't know small talk and the part you said "to be direct" was too vague. Please be more specific in terms of "what not to do" when being direct

  • @thabaningidi6542
    @thabaningidi6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jose can make one about life after matric