@@billie-jv5ll She got upset because her daughter did that little snorkle/swim move, which is something she thinks only the younger contestants should do. Basically she doesn't think that move is age appropriate for her 8 year-old daughter, which I think is stupid and ridiculous.
So is any other sport. Lol & I be it’s worse then this shit. Be blessed you didn’t have to play a real sport competitively. They probably put you in these cause ya soft
i wish my mom was a pageant mom because i have a music gig coming up and i have to do it all myself now im more worked up about it than she is she just not that worked up she just takes it like blah
She WON second runner up! She did so good! She’s not a loser! She’s a winner! Poor girl! She obviously gets that mentality from her mother! Also what mom competes against her own daughter? She’s a winner and her mom should be saying so!
the parents introduce this mentality. They seem to think not winning a supreme title is losing- most likely because they want to win some of their money back
@@The1andonly_adri. this is my bestfriends mom. shes very loving and has raised all 3 of her kids very well. shes a great parent and has an amazing bond with all her kids i love her sm so dont judge someone based of what you see on tv bcuz shes the best she always puts her kids first
The end where she says “ if she can fit into it” left my jaw dropped that little girl is gonna have self esteem issues her entire life because of her mother
I would just like to point out that children, especially children Alyssa's age, grow. If she couldn't fit into it, that would just mean she had grown, but I get the very strong feeling that this mother would be telling her that she had gotten fat.
I don't think she means it that way. She means that she's grown. She probably bought her a long dress to pre-empt the fact that she will have to wear one for some of the age categories from now on and that will save money as they cost a few thousand dollars each.
I do pageants with my nephew who I raise as my son. I teach him that no matter what you win, all that matters is you having fun and learning. This woman is awful and her poor daughter deserves a hug.
Thank you for being a good human and so kind to your nephew. That is how pageantry should be, a fun, happy time for everyone involved, no matter whether you win ultimate or divisional titles or nothing at all.
Teaching this to him is good as these contests are not made to judge appearance but for children to have fun. But there are parents who take it seriously
what's wrong with just watching cartoons and play with some toys . the fact that you Didn't reach to be something , Doesn't mean you turn your child’s life to a living hell . that will effect her life forever
"That snorkel move was way to young for her; it's not something you should do in a swimsuit and heels." Um, actually I think that's exactly the kind of thing someone her age should be doing. Goofing off and having fun. I think the age inappropriate thing is the swimsuit and heels. How does the sentence "bathing beauties competition for 8-10 year old girls" not make these people cringe?
I feel like this girl honestly seems pretty normal, like just a kid who’s trying to please her mother. But her mother is just awful, and if this is truly how she always behaves then this poor girl is going to need a whole lot of therapy.
She hates these events and everything she has to do to participate. If you guys remember Isabella, she had so much fun and laughed when she messed and clapped for others. This girl is doing this all, because she thinks her mom wants her to. She is making winning equivalent to self worth. She said earlier she wanted a crown bigger than her mom's, and when she said she was a loser my heart broke. This is mean, man.
This show should be cancelled forever. You can see in the eyes of the girls that they're uncomfortable and don't want to do this. Let them play toys , watch TV and hang out with friends!
@@Turquoise4eva i’ve done pageants before they were great. don’t forget this is a “reality” TV show and if you know anything about reality TV it sure doesn’t hold up to its name because a lot of the stuff that is there is completely fake or mostly fake. Reality TV only shows the extreme not the reality
I had a friend who did pageants when we were kids and she turned into a mean girl in high school, and now she treats her 2 daughters like dolls. Not the best model for life
2:41 That's all I needed to see to know the relationship between these two. "You want to get smacked?" I'm so glad my mom never disciplined me like that. It was either time out or she took all of my toys away.
I’ve seen this whole episode and the mum has the poor child on a diet and gets mad when the grandma gives her a cookie or something like that. She’s a growing child! It’s horrendous to expect her to not outgrow clothing. Having an ED myself I’d be shocked if this poor little girl doesn’t have one now.
How is she putting all this pressure on this child, constantly reminding her that “she (mom) is the best and always will be” yet she looks like a blonde Rosie o donnel 🙃
Kicking a judge showed exactly how the child was being raised….no rules…no control and just plain rude! Pageants are ripe for sex offenders….these men see these girls made up to look like hookers….as a parent there is no way I would allow my child to be prey for these men!
What kinda mom is in a competition with her own daughter DUDE! It's so toxic because she wants all the attention but since she isn't young anymore she breaks her daughter down while living through her.
“The coaching I do with Alyssa is more….elegance.” Coming from the woman who put her pre-teen daughter in a swimsuit and heels. I don’t think that word means what you think it means…
“That move is too young” the girl was so happy to do the snorkel move, she’s 8!! Of course she wants to do what a kid does, they already have her in heels and a swimsuit on display for tons of people, is that not adult enough for her 8 year old? So ridiculous, everytime I watch this show all I can think is how exploitative and abusive these mothers are
The mother might want to take note of that drawing her daughter is doing. Sometimes truth lies in what comes out in times like that. That's how her daughter sees her. That's sad.
I’m glad that she didn’t say her daughter would stand out because she’s prettier than the other girls, I hate it when moms say all girls are beautiful but some are more beautiful than others. That completely contradicts the point.
Thomas D swift GOOD MORNING ☀️😃🌞 TO YOU. I AM WONDERING WHERE YOU ARE FROM AND WHAT IS YOUR JOB AND HOW OLD ARE YOU? I AM FROM INDIANA AND I AM A RETIRED NURSE AND I RETIRED JUNE 2010 AND I AM 70 YEARS OLD. PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTIONS AND PLEASE BE HONEST. EVERYTHING I TOLD YOU IS THE TRUTH. I DON’T LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS NOT HONEST. ALSO I AM A WIDOW SINCE JULY 2014 AND I HAVE ONE SON AND FOUR GRANDDAUGHTERS. TELL ME ABOUT YOU. THANK YOU 🙏
Why would u put a little girl thru this when they scream and cry, kick , whine every single time !! Hint: she isn’t just tired, she embarrassed at her obese momma standing behind the judges doing her dance routine or worse scream at you from back of the room while your on stage
"I won the plus-size division and you didn't!"
That's because she's not plus sized mom.
EXACTLY
No she won the plus sized AND overall
Wow! That's the most childest comment! Can't believe she talks to her daughter like that.
That mom standing up and yelling 'STOP!' was so uncalled for! All the attention turns to her, and it's humiliating.
why was she made anyway? she's like 8
@@billie-jv5ll She got upset because her daughter did that little snorkle/swim move, which is something she thinks only the younger contestants should do. Basically she doesn't think that move is age appropriate for her 8 year-old daughter, which I think is stupid and ridiculous.
he looks like so crazy Karen
@@californiacobra6422 yeah like SHES LIKE EIGHT YEARS OLD THE SNORKLE THING IS FUNNY
@@billie-jv5lldo you mean MAD ?
I was forced into this shit when I was 14. My aunt is a pageant mom, and had my cousin do it her whole life. It’s really damaging to children
So is any other sport. Lol & I be it’s worse then this shit. Be blessed you didn’t have to play a real sport competitively. They probably put you in these cause ya soft
@@TonyellevilleTemple I played real sports LOL. But real sports don’t criticize your skin color, your hair, your skin texture, etc.
@@TonyellevilleTemple real sports don’t make you wear bikinis to be judged in front of grown men and women. You clearly have an inflated ego. Check it
@@nicolew3391 exactly, i was in slavic modelling at 16 it’s messed up
@@iuliaElsaa it’s damaging and inherently pedophilic, IMO
Mom needs to tell her she is a winner. All the girls' are winners. All moms needs to tell them " Do your best and have fun"!
@Thomas D swift I am doing okay. How are you doing?
Thats true
Yeah Bc they didn’t tell me that growing up running track or at my brothers football. A loser is a loser!!!!
i wish my mom was a pageant mom because i have a music gig coming up and i have to do it all myself now im more worked up about it than she is she just not that worked up she just takes it like blah
I do pageants with my cousins and sister my mom couldn’t give a shit if we win or lost she just tells us to have fun
She WON second runner up! She did so good! She’s not a loser! She’s a winner! Poor girl! She obviously gets that mentality from her mother! Also what mom competes against her own daughter? She’s a winner and her mom should be saying so!
Right she needs encouragement and love I couldn’t believe she would do that
I definitely agree
Second runner up is third place. She literally didn’t win. She accepted decently enough for her age. It’s okay to lose doesn’t mean you’re a loser
the parents introduce this mentality. They seem to think not winning a supreme title is losing- most likely because they want to win some of their money back
THIS CHILD KICKED A JUDGE IN THE CHEST BECAUSE SHE GOT MAD!!!! UNBELIEVABLE
Gurl what r u talking about
@@caughtinalie3142 0:09 timestamp.
_Do Not blame the child it’s the mothers horrible parenting.
Foreal that’s awful
@@The1andonly_adri. this is my bestfriends mom. shes very loving and has raised all 3 of her kids very well. shes a great parent and has an amazing bond with all her kids i love her sm so dont judge someone based of what you see on tv bcuz shes the best she always puts her kids first
That mother has more issues than National Geographic.
lol!! love it!
I swear you should have to earn a parenting license before having children. Poor kid.
Would never do this! It is so wrong!!!!
And the mother is going to have the chance to ruin another child.
@@carolleffingwell7428 excuse you shes a great mom if you knew her and saw her life now you would see how amazing their family is
This! My mom acts exactly like the mom in the video which caused me to grow up with low confidence, self esteem issues, and insecurities. And anxiety.
When she did the move and the mom shouted “STOP” honestly she looked so upset.
"i was only second runner-up, i'm a loser" -8 year old child
Awful!🥺😢
Time to kick some judges!
Poor kid. I hope she gets more comfortable with herself in the future
The end where she says “ if she can fit into it” left my jaw dropped that little girl is gonna have self esteem issues her entire life because of her mother
I would just like to point out that children, especially children Alyssa's age, grow. If she couldn't fit into it, that would just mean she had grown, but I get the very strong feeling that this mother would be telling her that she had gotten fat.
They are raising the school bully
I don't think she means it that way. She means that she's grown. She probably bought her a long dress to pre-empt the fact that she will have to wear one for some of the age categories from now on and that will save money as they cost a few thousand dollars each.
Right, and like her cow ass can talk.
She fine lol, she’s my sister
Why are 8-10 year old girls being judged in swim suits
RIGHT??!
Exactly.. kind of objectified
They’re not judging them on how they look in the swimsuit they are judged based on they’re confidence and elegance
@@dianaarzumanyan9526 bull 💩
@@dianaarzumanyan9526 so why in a swimsuit
Let's teach them that only looks matter. That won't cause any issues later in life at all... 🙄
I know right..😳
They don’t judge the girls off who looks the best Lol
Lol yeah considering they will probably end up looking like their mothers 🤷🏻♀️
@@PewPewmuddafukka lol
That's just life, not just the pageant world it's literally every day life 🙃
It's really telling how the mom is judging the grandma too... just cruel to both
I do pageants with my nephew who I raise as my son. I teach him that no matter what you win, all that matters is you having fun and learning. This woman is awful and her poor daughter deserves a hug.
What are some circuits you do with him? It’s hard for me to find pageants with boys divisions but I just started with my son.
@@SadiesAriel America's best pageant is great! They've been featured on Toddlers and Tiaras too!
You are an absolute angel.
Thank you for being a good human and so kind to your nephew. That is how pageantry should be, a fun, happy time for everyone involved, no matter whether you win ultimate or divisional titles or nothing at all.
Teaching this to him is good as these contests are not made to judge appearance but for children to have fun. But there are parents who take it seriously
Not even a minute in and “the rivalry with Alyssa started..” OMG WTF A RIVALRY WITH AN 8 YEAR OLD ?!?! Omg YOUR DAUGHTER.
what's wrong with just watching cartoons and play with some toys . the fact that you Didn't reach to be something , Doesn't mean you turn your child’s life to a living hell . that will effect her life forever
Really feel sorry for this kid. Mum is out of control.
that mom who freaked out over the snorkel move is such a neurotic narcissist i feel so bad for her child.
“I’m not abusing her” um? If you have to say that there’s something wrong 😆
“You wanna get smacked”
Me “you wanna go to jail”
A child should never have to regulate their mother’s emotions and feelings. Ridiculous
"That snorkel move was way to young for her; it's not something you should do in a swimsuit and heels."
Um, actually I think that's exactly the kind of thing someone her age should be doing. Goofing off and having fun. I think the age inappropriate thing is the swimsuit and heels.
How does the sentence "bathing beauties competition for 8-10 year old girls" not make these people cringe?
These"MOMS" are American ,says it all !!
I feel like this girl honestly seems pretty normal, like just a kid who’s trying to please her mother. But her mother is just awful, and if this is truly how she always behaves then this poor girl is going to need a whole lot of therapy.
She hates these events and everything she has to do to participate. If you guys remember Isabella, she had so much fun and laughed when she messed and clapped for others. This girl is doing this all, because she thinks her mom wants her to. She is making winning equivalent to self worth. She said earlier she wanted a crown bigger than her mom's, and when she said she was a loser my heart broke. This is mean, man.
These parents are so very wrong
This show should be cancelled forever. You can see in the eyes of the girls that they're uncomfortable and don't want to do this. Let them play toys , watch TV and hang out with friends!
It’s been cancelled for a while now
The pageants are what need to be canceled! Unfortunately canceling the show will not stop the foolery.
Reading into it way too much
@@Turquoise4eva i’ve done pageants before they were great. don’t forget this is a “reality” TV show and if you know anything about reality TV it sure doesn’t hold up to its name because a lot of the stuff that is there is completely fake or mostly fake. Reality TV only shows the extreme not the reality
I had a friend who did pageants when we were kids and she turned into a mean girl in high school, and now she treats her 2 daughters like dolls. Not the best model for life
2:41 That's all I needed to see to know the relationship between these two. "You want to get smacked?" I'm so glad my mom never disciplined me like that. It was either time out or she took all of my toys away.
Child pageants just don’t sit right with me… those poor kids
She kicked the judge in the chest wtf
It was probably the lower leg, that sounds more believable, but still no more acceptable.
Wait what? She kicked the judge in the chest? Oh hell to the nah. Also this competition between mom and daughter isn’t right. Or healthy.
I’ve seen this whole episode and the mum has the poor child on a diet and gets mad when the grandma gives her a cookie or something like that. She’s a growing child! It’s horrendous to expect her to not outgrow clothing. Having an ED myself I’d be shocked if this poor little girl doesn’t have one now.
it’s weird that they have swimwear categories for child pageants. like who is that for🤨
THANK YOU! It's got such a gross vibe
Oh even better…she’s pregnant and stressing herself out over something so ridiculous! She’s already stressing out her new kid while in the womb!
How is she putting all this pressure on this child, constantly reminding her that “she (mom) is the best and always will be” yet she looks like a blonde Rosie o donnel 🙃
Why put an 8-10 year old through this?
Through what? She clearly enjoys doing it.
The drawing had me rolling 🤣
Kicking a judge showed exactly how the child was being raised….no rules…no control and just plain rude! Pageants are ripe for sex offenders….these men see these girls made up to look like hookers….as a parent there is no way I would allow my child to be prey for these men!
This whole pageant thing is WRONG!!!
All of this drama is totally focused on parents.
Ridiculous …the poor kids are subjected to their moms wanting to be a beauty queen…GET A GRIP!!!!
I feel so bad for her I know she is spoilt but that is her mum's fault.
6:06 umm excuse me. she didn’t say “i won’t take them off” she said “i WOULD take them off but my mom told me to wear them.”
The mom screaming stop at the stage after it was already done had me 😂
That mom knows NOTHING ABOUT ELEGANCE!!! puhlease.🙄
What kinda mom is in a competition with her own daughter DUDE! It's so toxic because she wants all the attention but since she isn't young anymore she breaks her daughter down while living through her.
Wow that mom is a legend in her own mind.
Well said!
“The coaching I do with Alyssa is more….elegance.” Coming from the woman who put her pre-teen daughter in a swimsuit and heels. I don’t think that word means what you think it means…
why are you teaching your daughter to be fake and shallow? you should be teaching her to be kind and caring
this show is basically a bunch of Karen's trying to make money off their children
I agree with the Karen but not the money. This pageant cost a lot
So… we’re gonna forget the part where she ninja kicked someone in the chest lol. What.
Why do pageant mom's always look like this mom???? Ummm do you get paid in french fries and chocolate?
this episode is from 2009
Ugly inside and out? Yup. Sounds about right.
I was surprised to see the mom holding those cigarettes when she jumped up and yelled STOP!
I feel so bad for both children: mother and daughter
Old moms living vicariously through their daughters
Why is it bad to do the snorkeling face in heels?
This mom seems to be in competition with her daughter. Her mother is toxic to her self esteem.
“That move is too young” the girl was so happy to do the snorkel move, she’s 8!! Of course she wants to do what a kid does, they already have her in heels and a swimsuit on display for tons of people, is that not adult enough for her 8 year old? So ridiculous, everytime I watch this show all I can think is how exploitative and abusive these mothers are
That child so deserves a mother.
@BillyAlabama she does have a mother
@@samanthamartin9254if you consider this pig a mom, jfc…
THE DRAWING😭 HAHHA
"bathing beauties 8-10 year olds" WTF
These parents don't deserve children if they just want to make them self conscious.
These mothers are OUT OF CONTROL!! This mother especially.
The mother might want to take note of that drawing her daughter is doing. Sometimes truth lies in what comes out in times like that. That's how her daughter sees her. That's sad.
Shame on mom!!!
I’m glad that she didn’t say her daughter would stand out because she’s prettier than the other girls, I hate it when moms say all girls are beautiful but some are more beautiful than others. That completely contradicts the point.
Girl why did she scream stop . If I was her child I would be very embarrassed
her mom ruined it, making her wear heels,she’s a kid
This little boy always reminds me of Paisley the toddlers & tiara girl 😂
What is up with weird walks and actions they do. It's so strange and unnatural. Smh
What in the world… this mom🤦🏼♀️
I thought Alyssa was going to kick the cameraman in the chest
With the mentality that everyone is a winner then no one will try.
This is sick behavior.
I don’t believe in putting your young daughters in beauty pageants. Takes their confidence away 🙏❤️☮️🤗🇺🇸🤔😇😢
Thomas D swift I am doing great 👍 How about you?
Thomas D swift Thank You 🙏 You are very kind. Have a wonderful night 🙏❤️☮️🤗🇺🇸
Thomas D swift GOOD MORNING ☀️😃🌞 TO YOU. I AM WONDERING WHERE YOU ARE FROM AND WHAT IS YOUR JOB AND HOW OLD ARE YOU? I AM FROM INDIANA AND I AM A RETIRED NURSE AND I RETIRED JUNE 2010 AND I AM 70 YEARS OLD. PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTIONS AND PLEASE BE HONEST. EVERYTHING I TOLD YOU IS THE TRUTH. I DON’T LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS NOT HONEST. ALSO I AM A WIDOW SINCE JULY 2014 AND I HAVE ONE SON AND FOUR GRANDDAUGHTERS. TELL ME ABOUT YOU. THANK YOU 🙏
Thomas D swift I JUST SEEN WHERE YOU ARE A PLAYER AND I DON’T NEED TO TALK TO ANYONE LIKE THAT. GOOD BYE 👋
Thomas D swift Just forget it. Have a wonderful life. 🙏☮️🇺🇸
The child telling people to get away, kicking adults. That child wouldn't be going to any pageant, so wouldn't be going anywhere
This girl is crazy kicking the judge in the chest spoiled
OMG! Sue said I got second now I'm a loser!😂
8:13 that look was personal
Hahahahahah
Just because these kids have to look pretty everyday doesn’t mean that these kids and their parents have to be brats😂
Why would u put a little girl thru this when they scream and cry, kick , whine every single time !! Hint: she isn’t just tired, she embarrassed at her obese momma standing behind the judges doing her dance routine or worse scream at you from back of the room while your on stage
You could literally clone these pageant moms....
How anyone thinks sexualing young kids I will never understand.
For the mum to have to ask the other parents to validate that she isnt abusing her daughter says it all 😢
That poor girl. Her mom is unhinged.
Plus size division ???🤔uh no!
You mad?
@@deannadanielle arent you ? Its messed up that they would have a plus size division I feel bad for those kids that they are labeled like that
@@adriannaleachman2801 it’s for adults lmao
I didn't know K Mart is still open having Pagents!!!!!
She kicked the judge in the chest , oh heck no !!! I would of wore her tale out!!!!!
Terrible parents. What a horror....😱
Oops I meant these pageants are so very wrong
I liked your first comment better! In fact I like and agree with both.
Mom won a beauty pageant? Was she the only contestant? Just sayin'...
Poor child
She’s rubbing in a 10 year olds face that she won, no comparison. She’s 10 and ur like 46
And ugly. I seen plenty of attractive bigger women and she is not one of them
Great beautiful video
Her mom is unbelievable
I went to highschool and played softball with her lmao. 😂 this just popped up on my fyp
Tlc: Hello, I like Money.
Me: Tlc, why did you broadcast a daughter who's having issues with her mother and put it into the internet?
Tlc: Money.
This kid better get used to losing.
They are raising the school bully
Her mom needs to make her feel more special. She is always going to act like that if her mother does give her positive feedback.