“If you have ever crossed me.. I just want you to know.. I forgive you and I love you. But will you sit at my table again? No. It’s no disrespect. Because if I let you sit at my table again after you done crossed me and hurt me that mean you gone do it again. And then I’m hurting myself. So I just want to let you know if you’re in my past.. I love you and I have nothing against you.” -Shekinah 2019.
This ain’t nothing new. I’ve been following Shekinah and she’s always like this, preaching positivity, uplifting and motivating people. She just keeps evolving💜
That's Right! Silence is golden. And our words are a gift to us for building people up, not putting one another down. Ain't no need in fighting fire with fire - that's just proof of lack of self-control. To entertain foolishness is to be foolish. Be kind and peaceable. Silently walk away and be in peace. Grace & Peace
She's one of the realest females out here and it's crazy to me that ppl on talking about her looks. Talking about they can't look at her, but can you look at yourself in the mirror is the question!
Issue or problem is with her and most women to get to that level of realness u have to go through so much hurt pain and life and men dont want all that.people have to protect their innocence and get with people who want to protect it and uphold u not tear u down in any way.plus u have to be aware of u and what u trying to get out the situation and does the other person want to give u that.in a relationship everybody gotta be on the sane page and people wanna drag u into they life and its full of crap and no truth and use and abuse.u run a check on your own relationship to c if u n or out.
@@bluekantrell9511 yes he is if he wasn't tiny wouldn't have came back to him women look at life from a self centered lense the only fucking argument y'all have is HE'S A CHEATER take the cheating part away What else can u say? 🤔
Dating is bad EVERYWHERE for most black women, regardless of age or socioeconomic status. It’s just the way things are in the present time. Love yourself... and stay away from other people’s no-good men!
I’ve always believed men Should lead.But in the same token I would not allow any man to take me into the hole, pour the dirt on me and call it a night. Nah 🙏🏽
The enemy’s job is to divide and conquer... there is nothing wrong with Shekinah speaking positive; the problem is with those who CRAVE the RAGE & negativity. #theLORDiscoming
(Starts at 8:28 )She said her man was barking up the wrong tree and one of the DJ's said well it's his tree dam, like he understood dude messing with another man. Wow!
Totally agree BUT the statistics don’t lie. There’s a higher number than average of homosexual males and single heterosexual females so that’s not an ideal ratio to find a mate... I’m sure there are exceptions though🤷🏽♀️
@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade ALOT OF BLACK BLACK WOMEN ARE MASCULINE, WE ARE THE ONLY RACE THAT GOT BLACK WOMEN THAT ACT LIKE MEN AND THAT'S WHY THEY ARE SINGLE
Ashok Hegde Gentrification is already happening and it seem as if individuals with low vibrations enjoy the ATL (GEORGIA) It’s not a place for the good at heart.
Ashok Hegde The uncivilized ghetto slum that is constantly selected to host world events and praised for being an international city. Lmao, sure we’ll go with that i guess
Exactly! I don’t understand why single hetero women (especially without children) live there🤷🏽♀️... the job market isn’t that great and housing is not as cheap as people claim especially in the actual city of Atlanta
Especially when us married women were barely staying married tho😩 why be married and in a city where "fake it til you make it" is universal in relationships...Chile
@Mr F n N we hoes cuz yall hoes so we all hoes!!!! And yes it's fun to me. I learned the games men play by watching men treat women like shit whether the women were good or bad. I am a child....a child of God!
@@lylecharles9029 I guess I'm a lost clueless individual (woman) whose been with dudes that play games all the time. I guess it's only right if men treat good and not so good women like hoes or whatever men want to call women.
Yesss...I love her energy real n what she said bout dating in Atlanta ...spot on its sooooo exhausting how many women wit their ish together struggle with this drought of un datable men🤦♀️😫
@SARA nobody thinks you are 24 cut it out sara....I agree that women should look to date older men though. That is the natural order of things. And there is no amount of "taking care of yourself" that's going to help a woman compete with younger women
She gotta date out her race. I am 45 and I ALWAYS get men trying to get at me. But then I break the bads news to them and say my dating days are over in a nice way...
Yes I say”the same, I’m single have no kids don’t owe anyone anythinggggggg. My mom pass six months ago, that love I have for my mother I don’t ever what to experience that again.
American Black women are lost. I do blame us males partially because we allowed them to be fooled by everything the white man threw and we did not.fight against it
@@melaninkween9401 Men of substance aren't looking forward to raising another man's burden. Stretch marks, C section scars, after baby pouches aren't attractive. Single mother's are bad with decision making. You need more reasons why?
@@QuickenDude09 I only had one child out of my body & I promise I've seen more stretch marks on the young women without children, my decision making is fine, I was licensed to do hair & obtained a degree, while working so who exactly are you talking about
Ryte i think its all on the bases of money to build up her image more and brand she changing her image so she can get more deals on the table not loud and rachett as she use to be i think someone has schooled her on the entertainment business on how to have ur image look like gold
Amen Shekinah!!!!!! Such growth and maturity on your behalf!!!! You are handling yourself with such class!!!!! Such an inspiration! That's right......Pray for those that cast stones as no weapon formed against you shall prosper!!!. Let go and let God!!! N keep killin em with kindness! I luv it!
You go girl .... let the world know what Jesus is doing in your life. Responding in love is always the key to get God's attention and making him happy.
You are what you’re attracted to. Water seeks its own level. On a consistent basis, if you continue to get the same outcome, then you may want to open up your options a bit more wider.... or the problem might be you. JS
I went to Atlanta and what I saw and what people tell me....I could not date in Atlanta either. I saw more gay men then straight looking men. And I wouldn't be a straight man living in Atlanta because.....baby..alot of those men fix themselves up really good.
@Glamorous Taee IT'S GOD'S WAY, AND SADLY THIS NEW GENERATION OF BLACK WOMEN ARE LOST AND CONFUSED AND THAT'S WHY 80% OF BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE RAISING CONFUSED KIDS ALONE, WATCHING LOVE AND HIP-HOP WHILE OTHER RACISTS ARE WINNING WITH MOM AND DAD IN THE HOUSE HOLD, FACTS
Big facts my own brother told me I will lose everything I got yesterday was my birthday he showed up and tried to kill my day it was sad but like you just said 10 times worse he’s been living in the streets for two years 🤦🏽♀️
My only advice is to tell the women who sit her chair they need to make better choices with the men they choose. All men are not the same. But that's too much like right for her to say that. Other than that everything else was beautiful.
@ Her her: What we should do is live abstinent and develop ourselves. I look at it this way... What many if not most women want is a real relationship or none at all, which makes all the sense in the world. And the mass problem on earth is unreal relationships. People lying in bed together but are not really together otherwise. Women most of all suffer from this because we are the direct source of love, nurturing and security, and there’s so many people out there wanting to horn in on that resource when they are indifferent and have no capacity to reciprocate it back. You follow me? As for instance, just recently, I met a guy who seemed nice and like he was interested in me, but every effort I made to connect with the man he was impervious to; absolutely unwilling to form a companionship with me. Whenever I invited him to my house for dinner, he showed up and wanted to hug and kiss, but when he leaves he wants nothing to do with me. He wants no part of me in his personal life, but just to come around casually for hits and and I gave up trying and backed away from him. And this went on for several months. Me trying to move slowly with this man and not rush into anything and build a companionship with him, and in all that time he was like a mannequin and don’t give a shit making no kind of attempt to be close to me, so why forgo that clear indication and let him touch my body? If two people are not truly close then don’t be close in flesh, exchanging body fluid. Understand what I’m saying? This is the very thing that need to stop everywhere and I why I backed away from him. Just stop dating because it’s a waste of time and understand the drill. The guy just wants to have intercourse, be fed food and then go off to himself indifferently until he wants more, which is really twisted mommy care. That’s all that really is. Coming around women for sacred maternal level care that’s rightfully due to children, but for them it’s cast in the wrong direction and readily available for their disposal. Fornicate the woman, eat up her food and enfold in her graces, then afterward she doesn’t exist until he needs it again. She never matters and it’s only about him. He’s the only one who counts. A man in that state is trapped in his early childhood and never grows up that way. In fact, a cab driver recently opened up to me and told me that he had a real nice girlfriend in his life and she was so good to him, and he let her go, just quit her out of left field, because his friends told him to. So you see? That woman wasted her time dating him because he’s not on that level yet. Not ready for the real thing with a woman. He’s not ready to be with a woman as a real eye to eye companion, but only with a woman as a child receiving care. And all of the care and attention that a mother has to offer her child. Which is why it’s twisted mommy care because he’s not a child and has no business using a woman like that. But that’s a higher truth that women have to awaken to because as long as women unwittingly give their good graces away men are going to take it and then cast it aside as nothing. You follow me? So until a man demonstrates and has demonstrated for a long time that he’s ready and really want a real relationship with you, make no mistake, he doesn’t. He’s just there for a baby feeding, for twisted mommy care. Depending on your desire and what you don’t know to serve his ends. So we should stop wasting our time dating. Just stop... And find something better to do with our life. Men need a lot of time to grow up.
Bonnie Cotman I feel yah girl. I'm almost 25 and have never had a boyfriend. I have had sex before though. I was manipulated and I did not know better. one thing I learned is that people take advantage of easy going women. the whole time those guys I thought I was dating, were already in relationships or gay. some men look for women to screw over. I don't get it. like these men have no compassion for good women. I felt nothing emotionally coming from these people.
Bonnie Cotman I gave up sex 3 years ago and have never looked back. I got nothing out of it. no real pleasure, no satisfaction, love love and no emotion. sex without love drains your spirit I learned. women need to learn that sex is not love.
Her her Exactly... Everything you described is what I broke down for you... TWISTED MOMMY CARE. And the same thing that guy I mentioned approached me looking for. A one way care system where all the care is coming from me and all he’s doing is receiving it. A woman is bestowing her good graces upon a man and he’s companionably handicapped and impervious to her. And this is because he don’t need to feel anything for her to get the care because he’s in the baby matrix. So the solution is to stop giving it. In other words, men know that it’s wrong but will never face it until women close the gates. There’s still a lot of women out there feeding the males twisted mommy care, so when the number of celibates increase is when every man will know what time it is. That the gates are now officially closed. So be confident sis, that you’re doing the right thing to close your gate and stop the feeding.
This prove anyone can change, evolve, mature, become a better person become wiser with age, very proud of her and hope many others learn from this. HalleluYAH ‼️🙌🏿
She lost me when she said it's something wrong with him if he wants another man. Pansexual and bisexual men do exist. Not every straight woman is a ally.
You didn't get it... What was wrong with him, was him living a deceitful lie. A lying life not honoring his commitment. Their infidelity is what's wrong with them. They lack integrity and character. Not the "who" they were cheating with
@ Royal3880, If you think that theres nothing wrong with a grown man wanting another grown man, then you are indeed LOST. Theres no such thing as a Pansexual, Bi sexual, downlo, drag queen, cornsexual, breadsexual, or no other sexual. Theres only A man n A woman who is either Normal Or a Homosexual Period. The Devil is running Rampant, Spreading Lies And Confusion and Black people are So Confused Now that Is So Sad! I Will Pray for you and ALL who believe what Satan Has Stowed Upon You.
“If you have ever crossed me.. I just want you to know.. I forgive you and I love you. But will you sit at my table again? No. It’s no disrespect. Because if I let you sit at my table again after you done crossed me and hurt me that mean you gone do it again. And then I’m hurting myself. So I just want to let you know if you’re in my past.. I love you and I have nothing against you.” -Shekinah 2019.
Yes to all of this 👏👏👏👏
Fool Me ONCE" shame on you.
Fool Me twice shame on Me_
this spoke to me too
Corey Smith who said she was ugly lol
F A C T S!!!
She said it just right, I can forgive you, but you can Never sit at my table Ever again!
If they are changed, then not letting them sit at the table is unforgiveness. Forgive anyway, but if there is no repentance, then yes, set boundaries.
That part!
This ain’t nothing new. I’ve been following Shekinah and she’s always like this, preaching positivity, uplifting and motivating people. She just keeps evolving💜
@Cell Phone send me the link
Smh
She's really a jump off she's nothing u walk around the mall with
My grandmother always said. "If you ain't got nothing nice to say, Don't say nothing at all."🙏👵
That's Right! Silence is golden. And our words are a gift to us for building people up, not putting one another down. Ain't no need in fighting fire with fire - that's just proof of lack of self-control. To entertain foolishness is to be foolish.
Be kind and peaceable. Silently walk away and be in peace. Grace & Peace
Fuck that riggs fruity pebbles
Elliott Coleman 👏👏👏👏👏
@@keeshabrown7353 exactly peace and harmony🙏💓
She's one of the realest females out here and it's crazy to me that ppl on talking about her looks. Talking about they can't look at her, but can you look at yourself in the mirror is the question!
Queen Dawn 💜
Issue or problem is with her and most women to get to that level of realness u have to go through so much hurt pain and life and men dont want all that.people have to protect their innocence and get with people who want to protect it and uphold u not tear u down in any way.plus u have to be aware of u and what u trying to get out the situation and does the other person want to give u that.in a relationship everybody gotta be on the sane page and people wanna drag u into they life and its full of crap and no truth and use and abuse.u run a check on your own relationship to c if u n or out.
era blak tv Now men don’t want realness.. 😩🤦🏽♀️ Most men don’t know what they want.
@@privatelifejust_4me i luv real..welcome it..but who really gonna take her serious😄?
era blak tv The fact that your doubting her blessings say a lot about your character.
I just love her because she's so authentic!
Naturally Dope y'all black female raise boys to be gay and they grow up and come back and date you then y'all mad
She is
You must mean IGNORANT
Naturally Dope FACTS!!!!
When u say authentic u really mean ghetto
It is So Refreshing to see a Celebrity to GIVE GOD THE PRAISE & THE ACKNOWLEDGMENT IN THEIR LIFE!
LET GOD USE YOU SHEKINAH JO!
GOD BLESS!
The reason why dating in Atlanta is so bad is because immature adult black people have materialized dating soo much.
Stefan Moultrie bedeep bedeep bedeep that's all folks
@@chuckbasher3515 are you saying ol' girl looks like Porky?
And the man she want don't won't her she think because she's friends with tiny she deserves a T.I.
King Mussalini.
TI has money but he is NOT a catch as far as a “husband” period. Just Sayin....
@@bluekantrell9511 yes he is if he wasn't tiny wouldn't have came back to him women look at life from a self centered lense the only fucking argument y'all have is HE'S A CHEATER take the cheating part away What else can u say? 🤔
Dating is bad EVERYWHERE for most black women, regardless of age or socioeconomic status. It’s just the way things are in the present time. Love yourself... and stay away from other people’s no-good men!
Black women need to broaden their options as well... date quality men regardless of color
I’ve always believed men Should lead.But in the same token I would not allow any man to take me into the hole, pour the dirt on me and call it a night. Nah 🙏🏽
OKKKKKKKKKKKKKAY! I like this comment! So so very true
Toney Carson 💯
That makes sense! I know females that allows their partner to drive them into the hole to prove they are "ride or die." 🙄
@mssheltn1in Christian faith, men lead. The men are lead by God.
@Stock Starters ok satan
They need to keep Big Tigga as a host and send eveyone else on their way.
Levetta Butler young black female raise boys up to be gay then when they come date you y'all get mad...😞😕😖
@@theradiokid Exactly
Levetta Butler People can say what they want but Tigga has always been great at hosting.
I'm saying! Please V103. Put Tigger on the morning show AND keep him in the afternoon lol
Were the other host
This sister is sooooo dope!!!! I can never get enough of love for my sister's!!
True facts she always pulls me back in. ❤❤
You’re lost smfh
Single mother’s son?
Either you’re a pan sexual or a simp.
She’s annoying in my opinion
Shekinah done made the most of her friendship with Tiny. Glad to see her thrive.
Thrive? She need to slow down on the Popeyes
I love Shekinah energy she has really grown I always loved her
She said a word when she said the men you’re dating are jealous of you. I’ve experienced it more than once
Shekinah is improving in all facets of her life. Kudos to her...a diamond in the rough.
I love Shekinah she’s so genuine and real ❤️❤️❤️
The enemy’s job is to divide and conquer... there is nothing wrong with Shekinah speaking positive; the problem is with those who CRAVE the RAGE & negativity. #theLORDiscoming
Everybody wanna tell her to lose weight, dammit she is jus fine like she is. Let her live how she wants
But she looks like its not her normal weight and you can tell that she would look better smaller but hey she is still dope to me
Let her keep the weight....we’ll see how it goes....lol
Angela Milton she won’t be living very long with all of that weight.
i find it extremely funny how females try to tell men what is attractive in a woman! We decide that!
curtis freeman they need to bring the standard down
Damn shekinah started this whole interview off motivating asf damnn sis ✨💜💎😍💖💕❤💚💙💛💓💗😘
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(Starts at 8:28 )She said her man was barking up the wrong tree and one of the DJ's said well it's his tree dam, like he understood dude messing with another man. Wow!
Barber/Hair Stylist hear more than a Therapist😔
I love Shekinah! Way to respond and release a Word to haters.
When it comes to dating, you attract the energy or vibe you’re putting out. Want better, level up in the ways needed in order to get better. ♥️
Totally agree BUT the statistics don’t lie. There’s a higher number than average of homosexual males and single heterosexual females so that’s not an ideal ratio to find a mate... I’m sure there are exceptions though🤷🏽♀️
Agreed.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT, IF YOU ARE A RATCHET BLACK WOMEN, YOU ARE GOING TO ATTRACT A RATCHET GETTO NIGGA
@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade ALOT OF BLACK BLACK WOMEN ARE MASCULINE, WE ARE THE ONLY RACE THAT GOT BLACK WOMEN THAT ACT LIKE MEN AND THAT'S WHY THEY ARE SINGLE
@@mariothomas2449 facts
Did y'all notice how quick Tigga kicked in and steered the conversation elsewhere when Shekinah brought up men on the downlow? I'm just saying LOL
I love her spirit!
Salute to her growth and maturity!! Solid interview! 💪🏿
I would go to ATL for a weekend but never move there
Ashok Hegde Gentrification is already happening and it seem as if individuals with low vibrations enjoy the ATL (GEORGIA) It’s not a place for the good at heart.
And where y’all from ????
Ashok Hegde The uncivilized ghetto slum that is constantly selected to host world events and praised for being an international city. Lmao, sure we’ll go with that i guess
Used to go to the A on the regular. But a year passed and it’s foolish AF. The traffic and falsehoods will where you out.
Exactly! I don’t understand why single hetero women (especially without children) live there🤷🏽♀️... the job market isn’t that great and housing is not as cheap as people claim especially in the actual city of Atlanta
Men can lead.. cuz im tired.. of doing everything..
Noticed how the two men jumped to defend the down low gay man in the story she shared about her client. 👀
I noticed that too, but maybe because they on live air🤔🤷🏽♀️
👀🤔💯😂
datgurlky1 at what point or time did they defend down low gay man as you stated stop making up shit
@ted bundy they should Thats Wat they come from in real life you to Sir..
@ted bundy ...💯
I've been in Metro ATL area for almost 10 years now and YES dating is horrible!
SSS 334 Why are you still there? I know there is more to you living there. But. Why is it too hard?
Especially when us married women were barely staying married tho😩 why be married and in a city where "fake it til you make it" is universal in relationships...Chile
@@conniemoore1786 I can respect this comment💯
@@MiSSPiNk747 How Do You Know Dating Is Terrible EVERYWHERE 🙄🤔Have You Been EVERYWHERE Dating?????
Not for men
Yessss! Men are the reason women play games! I totally agree!
Only a lost clueless individual would believe this.
@Mr F n N we hoes cuz yall hoes so we all hoes!!!! And yes it's fun to me. I learned the games men play by watching men treat women like shit whether the women were good or bad. I am a child....a child of God!
@@lylecharles9029 I guess I'm a lost clueless individual (woman) whose been with dudes that play games all the time. I guess it's only right if men treat good and not so good women like hoes or whatever men want to call women.
The Vibe in the Studio got real quiet when she told the story about the clients man creeping with another man .
her personality is so transparent and full of light!!!
I'm about to tell y'all folks about God & let God use me, I felt that 🤞🏾 AMEN🙏🏾
Amen.❤
Me to... AMEN!
Hating will not bring you any success 💯
I love her and will always support
Shay M. You can't support her if you sitting up there with a big wig on your head
@@alpoyeo7008 Well are you done or are you finished. Trolling huh grow up love you past due not cute 😘
Shay M. I don't see why you black females have such attitude... nobody can't say nothing to y'all...😎
I am so glad she said that men can be jealous too. This is so true.
God bless Shakonna she is trying hard God while giving you all the praise
Yesss...I love her energy real n what she said bout dating in Atlanta ...spot on its sooooo exhausting how many women wit their ish together struggle with this drought of un datable men🤦♀️😫
If what I hear is true, I'd be very afraid to date in Atlanta.
Be very afraid!!!
letcam it's true
letcam Only people you would a decent shot with are Latinos, if they spoke a little English
@@cecegiles7753 Sad situation 👎
7:09 really touched me and made me look at things positively. THANK YOU SHEKINAH.
I’m loving this energy!! It’s contagious ❤️
Shekinah Jo 🗣 🥰
dating is bad for all women over the age of 30
@SARA nobody thinks you are 24 cut it out sara....I agree that women should look to date older men though. That is the natural order of things. And there is no amount of "taking care of yourself" that's going to help a woman compete with younger women
@SARA sara people who have told you that you look 25 are being nice to you and are trying to flatter you.
@SARA I don't care what a woman looks like for age....over 30 is over 30...you put makeup on a pig it's still a pig.
@SARA ahhh yes....the old but faithful "who hurt you". It never fails.
@Amanda Francis do they want a relationship with you or to have sex with you?
They was low key throwing shots but shekinah was curving they ass every time with positive energy. Love it sis. You rock 💃
She is so so so on point!
When women hit the wall and their options are low they hit u with the "I'm focus on my career and my kids". Lls
She gotta date out her race. I am 45 and I ALWAYS get men trying to get at me. But then I break the bads news to them and say my dating days are over in a nice way...
@SARA maybe you should ask for a complete definition of the word.
lyle charles let that women be delisional
Good vibes and energy. Im loving it and look forward to hearing her testimony.
Living for her honesty and confidence!!!
Love shekinah raw and uncut👏
SHE WILL NEVER GET MARRIED
@@mariothomas2449 you know her future
@@spicycreole1714 shes to masculine
@@mariothomas2449 someone will love it😀
@@spicycreole1714 real men love submissive feminine WOMEN, no Norbet, lol
"It's SOMEBODY for EVERYBODY" 😉
Yes I say”the same, I’m single have no kids don’t owe anyone anythinggggggg. My mom pass six months ago, that love I have for my mother I don’t ever what to experience that again.
No wonder these young men aren’t marrying. This woman is insane!
American Black women are lost. I do blame us males partially because we allowed them to be fooled by everything the white man threw and we did not.fight against it
If you don't have haters in America then you ain't living right
Don't be a Single (Never Married) Mother. There I just solved it for you. Dating gets much easier from there.
Why Not?
@@melaninkween9401 Men of substance aren't looking forward to raising another man's burden. Stretch marks, C section scars, after baby pouches aren't attractive. Single mother's are bad with decision making. You need more reasons why?
@@QuickenDude09 I only had one child out of my body & I promise I've seen more stretch marks on the young women without children, my decision making is fine, I was licensed to do hair & obtained a degree, while working so who exactly are you talking about
Broke little boys pretending to be MEN but can't even take care of themselves is unattractive,there's no reason to settle just to say u married
@@melaninkween9401 not obligated to take care of your kids
Meh. I prefer nappy. Overcurly suggests that it's not supposed to be that way.
Love y’all
We need Big Tig. on The Morning Show permanently
The only thing good about Atlanta is maybe the weather!!!!!
Amen I'm so happy for her growth!
Great interview
Actions speak louder than words. If you on a positive level why put yourself in situation for money i.e. Live and hip hop
Ryte i think its all on the bases of money to build up her image more and brand she changing her image so she can get more deals on the table not loud and rachett as she use to be i think someone has schooled her on the entertainment business on how to have ur image look like gold
Amen Shekinah!!!!!! Such growth and maturity on your behalf!!!! You are handling yourself with such class!!!!! Such an inspiration! That's right......Pray for those that cast stones as no weapon formed against you shall prosper!!!. Let go and let God!!! N keep killin em with kindness! I luv it!
Shekinah Jo is such a Gemini!!! LMBOOOO!!!! Truly like a box of chocolate-never know what you're gonna get.
I loved this interview. Keeping your head up Shekinah. Your name says it all.. I hope you get your own show one day.
The Realist! Maturity!
The Level of U The Bomb!
Keep Big Tig -- he’s always been a good interviewer and let’s it flow!
where they leading at?? lol exactly...and "over-curly" love it!
Y’all these reason we play em 💯 I felt that
Shekinah don’t play I love her she got her shit together
Much love and respect for Shekinah!!! Excellent my sister, expect big things to happen in every area of your life.
You go girl .... let the world know what Jesus is doing in your life. Responding in love is always the key to get God's attention and making him happy.
I love shekinah Jo.
I love hicks edge control lol
You are what you’re attracted to. Water seeks its own level. On a consistent basis, if you continue to get the same outcome, then you may want to open up your options a bit more wider.... or the problem might be you. JS
Darken J Well that could explain why every time I wear fishnets and dark dramatic lipstick💋💄 guys either want head or Penetration 🍆
She need counselling and a relationship with her dad.
She definitely was the first woman to make their own edge control.
Yes! I am focusing on my bag, too!
Great interview! Smart young lady
I went to Atlanta and what I saw and what people tell me....I could not date in Atlanta either. I saw more gay men then straight looking men. And I wouldn't be a straight man living in Atlanta because.....baby..alot of those men fix themselves up really good.
Facts and more facts
I'm so look happy for you Shekinah Jo!!! You came a long way u inspire me.
I really think the dating scene is very similar in other cities. I don’t live in Atlanta and I can say the same.
Shekinah done had them braces on for 10 years now. 😁
So what
Dropping jewels!! Grown women stuff!!
SHE WILL NEVER GET MARRIED
@Glamorous Taee IT'S GOD'S WAY, AND SADLY THIS NEW GENERATION OF BLACK WOMEN ARE LOST AND CONFUSED AND THAT'S WHY 80% OF BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE RAISING CONFUSED KIDS ALONE, WATCHING LOVE AND HIP-HOP WHILE OTHER RACISTS ARE WINNING WITH MOM AND DAD IN THE HOUSE HOLD, FACTS
I'm with Tyga "edge control" is glorified baby hair gel. Love sis' grind and energy.
I have the same views when it comes to dating..it’s pointless these days
Amen keep it up big sis
Amazing interview!
I got chills!!! THIS is how it’s done. Class act! And remember the negative energy you push onto someone else WILL come back on you 10 times worse.
Big facts my own brother told me I will lose everything I got yesterday was my birthday he showed up and tried to kill my day it was sad but like you just said 10 times worse he’s been living in the streets for two years 🤦🏽♀️
Luv me some shekinah..
She’s so pretty..
She funny as all get out too🤣
Shekinah is real she said I don't do lace fronts note to all stylist if you dont know how to do something be honest about it
Women worried about men being on the dl but no mentions of the women being on the dl😒😒😒
T J On the DL with what??.eating pussycat
My only advice is to tell the women who sit her chair they need to make better choices with the men they choose. All men are not the same. But that's too much like right for her to say that. Other than that everything else was beautiful.
WOW, I WAS VIEW #800 :-) AND THE 112TH LIKE :-) I LOVE ME SOME SHEKINAH JO BABY :-) WISH I COULD MEET HER. FLORIDA GAL HERE :-)
Dating everywhere in the world is bad and why everyone should stop doing it.
Bonnie Cotman what should we do?
@ Her her: What we should do is live abstinent and develop ourselves.
I look at it this way... What many if not most women want is a real relationship or none at all, which makes all the sense in the world. And the mass problem on earth is unreal relationships. People lying in bed together but are not really together otherwise. Women most of all suffer from this because we are the direct source of love, nurturing and security, and there’s so many people out there wanting to horn in on that resource when they are indifferent and have no capacity to reciprocate it back. You follow me?
As for instance, just recently, I met a guy who seemed nice and like he was interested in me, but every effort I made to connect with the man he was impervious to; absolutely unwilling to form a companionship with me. Whenever I invited him to my house for dinner, he showed up and wanted to hug and kiss, but when he leaves he wants nothing to do with me. He wants no part of me in his personal life, but just to come around casually for hits and and I gave up trying and backed away from him.
And this went on for several months. Me trying to move slowly with this man and not rush into anything and build a companionship with him, and in all that time he was like a mannequin and don’t give a shit making no kind of attempt to be close to me, so why forgo that clear indication and let him touch my body? If two people are not truly close then don’t be close in flesh, exchanging body fluid. Understand what I’m saying? This is the very thing that need to stop everywhere and I why I backed away from him.
Just stop dating because it’s a waste of time and understand the drill. The guy just wants to have intercourse, be fed food and then go off to himself indifferently until he wants more, which is really twisted mommy care. That’s all that really is. Coming around women for sacred maternal level care that’s rightfully due to children, but for them it’s cast in the wrong direction and readily available for their disposal. Fornicate the woman, eat up her food and enfold in her graces, then afterward she doesn’t exist until he needs it again. She never matters and it’s only about him. He’s the only one who counts. A man in that state is trapped in his early childhood and never grows up that way.
In fact, a cab driver recently opened up to me and told me that he had a real nice girlfriend in his life and she was so good to him, and he let her go, just quit her out of left field, because his friends told him to. So you see? That woman wasted her time dating him because he’s not on that level yet. Not ready for the real thing with a woman.
He’s not ready to be with a woman as a real eye to eye companion, but only with a woman as a child receiving care. And all of the care and attention that a mother has to offer her child. Which is why it’s twisted mommy care because he’s not a child and has no business using a woman like that. But that’s a higher truth that women have to awaken to because as long as women unwittingly give their good graces away men are going to take it and then cast it aside as nothing. You follow me?
So until a man demonstrates and has demonstrated for a long time that he’s ready and really want a real relationship with you, make no mistake, he doesn’t. He’s just there for a baby feeding, for twisted mommy care. Depending on your desire and what you don’t know to serve his ends. So we should stop wasting our time dating. Just stop... And find something better to do with our life. Men need a lot of time to grow up.
Bonnie Cotman I feel yah girl. I'm almost 25 and have never had a boyfriend. I have had sex before though. I was manipulated and I did not know better. one thing I learned is that people take advantage of easy going women. the whole time those guys I thought I was dating, were already in relationships or gay. some men look for women to screw over. I don't get it. like these men have no compassion for good women. I felt nothing emotionally coming from these people.
Bonnie Cotman I gave up sex 3 years ago and have never looked back. I got nothing out of it. no real pleasure, no satisfaction, love love and no emotion. sex without love drains your spirit I learned. women need to learn that sex is not love.
Her her Exactly... Everything you described is what I broke down for you... TWISTED MOMMY CARE. And the same thing that guy I mentioned approached me looking for. A one way care system where all the care is coming from me and all he’s doing is receiving it. A woman is bestowing her good graces upon a man and he’s companionably handicapped and impervious to her. And this is because he don’t need to feel anything for her to get the care because he’s in the baby matrix. So the solution is to stop giving it.
In other words, men know that it’s wrong but will never face it until women close the gates. There’s still a lot of women out there feeding the males twisted mommy care, so when the number of celibates increase is when every man will know what time it is. That the gates are now officially closed. So be confident sis, that you’re doing the right thing to close your gate and stop the feeding.
This prove anyone can change, evolve, mature, become a better person become wiser with age, very proud of her and hope many others learn from this. HalleluYAH ‼️🙌🏿
I completely agree with her
She a hair stylist so she hears one side of the story, what story yal think the barber hears smh???
ONE OF THE GOT DAMN INTERVIEWS EVER!!!!!! GROW UP DONT SHOW UP!!!!! Unless it Love......Period
She lost me when she said it's something wrong with him if he wants another man. Pansexual and bisexual men do exist. Not every straight woman is a ally.
You didn't get it... What was wrong with him, was him living a deceitful lie. A lying life not honoring his commitment. Their infidelity is what's wrong with them. They lack integrity and character. Not the "who" they were cheating with
@ Royal3880, If you think that theres nothing wrong with a grown man wanting another grown man, then you are indeed LOST. Theres no such thing as a Pansexual, Bi sexual, downlo, drag queen, cornsexual, breadsexual, or no other sexual. Theres only A man n A woman who is either Normal Or a Homosexual Period. The Devil is running Rampant, Spreading Lies And Confusion and Black people are So Confused Now that Is So Sad! I Will Pray for you and ALL who believe what Satan Has Stowed Upon You.
Logical One pray for yourself. I'm good, but Thanks anyways.
royal3880 She's talking about him fucking his wife and then secretly fucking a man in the ass every weekend.. that's disrespectful