You guys…your first podcast saved my marriage! I was so ready to pack and go,I had actually already called a broker to get me a house,thennnn I landed on your podcast. Thank you dear kitakas.
" ....you are the one woman, I felt saw me...I was on the floor, I did need my friend, you saw something, over time the world agrees with you, I promise you, the woman that saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses over that woman. " What a statement , what a love story. This blessed me in so many ways, and I can relate, may we learn to honour our loved ones ( those who saw us ) over their weaknesses and mistakes. Amen.
In most times we determine and rate people how they dress how they sleep and this is our canal minds which we've to get rid off. May God help us see beyond material things in our spouses
"Your partner is not the enemy, the enemy is the weakness in your partner. Separate your partner from weakness". Learning is taking place! Thank you the Kitakas
I asked God for a good marriage counselor who will show me; not what I wanted to hear but the truth. I also didn't want a third-party who I would be afraid of opening up to, and I told God, to counsel me by Himself. I have been diligently following each episode. Today is when I realize this must have been God's answer to me. May God impart more wisdom to the Kitakas... I have been blessed beyond what I envisioned or ever asked for. God bless you!
@@sarahnamwanje This is exactly my sentiment! It is just amazing how God in His great wisdom has a way of equipping us for every season of our lives. The Kitaka's were indeed meant to be here for us, in a time such as this. 💚💚
''Marriage can break simply because none of them is willing to break for it'' Very powerful statement .Thank you the Kitakas for this ministry, you are touching many peoples' marriages.
I know what it means to be silent in the same house ,mine was extreme end for good 8 months ,when I told God let you will be done in marriage even around me knew my marriage was over but I trust God and God turned things around and my marriage was restored ,it was a miracle ,thx once again for saving people's marriage.
This man affirmed you at the end, I could feel your apprehension Rukhshana. He is honored to do life with you, he is leading you as he lets Christ lead him. Let your heartstrings flow and receive from this cup greatly. You are doing an amazing thing showing us how marriage should glorify God, and we thank you ❤️❤️🌺🌺
How I ended up here last night at 23.00hrs! I was already in bed but for some reason I couldn't fall asleep. Anyway, I got up and picked up my phone, went to TH-cam to pass time till I get sleepy then I straight away came across this video! It addressed me in many ways and I feel the Holy Spirit led me here! There's so much I learnt from you both. Thank you🙏🏽
"You are the woman that I felt saw me...over time, the world agrees with you. And I promise you, the woman who saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses above that woman." Just wow! ❤🔥 If this is not a perfect example of how Christ loved the church!
Thank you Rachel (namesake) for writing the words for me... you know in these podcasts am helping Shana in crying...we always cry together and I miss the most important words. The more I play it again, the more I cry..... Thank you the Kitakas....it's not easy to do life with a spouse you just met and you have a responsibility of being one. But if that's the truth, am ready to walk the path well knowing that the grace is sufficient..in my weakness
Those last perfect words from a man to a woman he loves❤. It gives me tears. It reminds me of The Love of Christ for a mere being like me. Then reminded me in 2018 when I was going through hell and in a dream A man appeared to me and hug me so tightly and said to me I Love you, I accept who you are, I Love you both with your son and I don't care of your past. I cried tears of Joy and it began a journey of healing. I don't know if that Man was Jesus (he was so perfect) or my future husband 😊. Am still waiting and not losing hope. Kitakas you bless me. I can't wait to share and to re- listen these podcast with my husband in future. ❤❤❤
Man s weaknesses are just their weaknesses not their definition. I maintain the definition i have of my Husband and rebuke every other definition that comes to mind because of their short comings or weaknesses. The has delivered me! Glory
When you see people through the eyes of grace and love, it's difficult to perceive their weaknesses and define them by that. So the key is grace and love! -RK
Eehhh this was deep… I felt that Rukhshana and I face the same thing. The reconciliation of who I married and who I had as a friend is hard because my friend and my husband seem like two different people. Super glad to have watched this.
My take way ,a marriage can break because neither is willing to break for it .The little fox Pride that couldnspoil the vineyard ,thanks .i have subscribed immediately ,im so blessed
Have been putting pain on my husband heart because i don't respect him according to the way i have to And my problem is my husband is small sized and financially broke so it makes me sound very bad at him Am sorry my husband 😢😢 let me deal with it thanks for the messages
I know even good people can do damn 🙄 things, these don't define us. I have said several damn things to my husband, i look back to & wonder how I could stoop so low, i get goose bumps. May God give us grace to grow & live in the character of Christ.
With few minutes into the podcast I quickly subscribed and turned on the notification! I can’t afford to miss and upload! I’ve been so blessed by this podcast!! God bless you both!!
24:43 There is a PUREST form of a man, the SPIRIT! Separate the weakness of men from their true identity. War unto not fresh and blood... I am blessed. Thank you, thank you, thank you the Kitakas❤
I love love love your conversations...I have a request though...can you write subtitles so that I can understand the parts you speak in Luganda...Love from Kenya Thank you in advance😊
Mr Kitaka Honestly,you have made my evening I have watched this oba how many times,my marriage will grow sweet by ur melodic voices,u can't believe,I now talk lyk Shana😂🎉
I can only say see what the Lord can do when you surrender. You are such a blessing to this generation. I see we are almost reaching the topic of submission 😂😂. Eagerly waiting for the next episode❤
Thank you so the Kitakas. I like how Mr. Kitaka has explained how to know a person using David's relationship with God. I too is looking for a man with such level of understanding
This is answered prayer for me💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I asked God that you do more podcasts in a month after watching 06 and I found this🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you the Kitaka’s, God bless you more🙏🏽
too short but sweet😉😍. I never get enough of this always. i always have to repeat watching and listening like 2 times😂 , u guys bless my heart sooo much and i keep blushing from the start to the end🙂. am not yet married but u guys make marriage look so beautiful, easy and authentic🙌. a man who loves the lord is all that i need 🤩👃
Now Ladies, this is what the Bible meant to not be equally unyoked. God is the Foundation, the Bible is the standard. No compromise. The challenges are set in but you'd rather they are with being a God fearing wife and having a God fearing Husband. Meanwhile a book should be in session for the Kitakas cause I wrote alot for a 30min pod. God bless you both and all the marriages out there set to be delivered in Jesus name through your platform.
I love how Mr Kitaka is so touchy 😍.. He always stretches out his hand to touch RK... It's so romantic 💕😘... Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I am blessed through everything that you share.
Wow I love the Spiritual maturity Mr Kitaka has led his bride to surely like Christ cleansing the church to present her to himself, I pray God gives you an unction to raise more men unto a place of being spiritual leaders. God bless you
It doesn't matter the duration of the podcast. The unveiling of what lies underneath the decisions/reactions we make in every circumstance is golden. Thanking you for this podcast is not enough.... You are making that mark...
Am speechless, looks like i have homework to do. May God be my guide. God bless you the Kitakas, thank you for allowing God to let you be vulnerable to us.
This is such an intimate discussion.Big up to you Shana for actually allowing to share your world with us.I don't think I can bring people this upclose so help me God
Sending love from Kenya..I'm not married but following you is really preparing me for it. Keep loving, alil of your vernacular here and there that I don't understand but I'm glad I follow your teachings.
My councelors .....im learning from u people ....i pray God keeps you together not only for u but for me too....your my marriage role models .....love love you so much guys
Mr Kitaka is at another level of understanding.I see books in the background,he should share with us his favourite books,same as mrs kitaka coz she speaks with wisdom.
My husband is a curious soul and a natural seeker of all things knowledge so he reads quite a lot on faith, psychology, technology, global economics, finance, business and pretty much anything he needs to learn about. I am ashamed to say, I don’t read even a quarter of how much I ought to 😮! But I soldier on! -RK
Thank you for being candid and sharing your marriage with us. Thank you doing it with such purpose, this podcast gives us so much information for us looking to marry. Thank you for being purposeful!
I have a sneaky feeling, you will look back some day and realise it was more than a fairytale. But yes, it's work except with Jesus you are confident you are no labouring in vain! -RK
You guys…your first podcast saved my marriage! I was so ready to pack and go,I had actually already called a broker to get me a house,thennnn I landed on your podcast. Thank you dear kitakas.
Wow! Glory to God.
We bless the Lord for that miracle. May God give you grace & establish you in your marriage.
Awww amen
@@annettewere4843 thank you. God is faithful
" ....you are the one woman, I felt saw me...I was on the floor, I did need my friend, you saw something, over time the world agrees with you, I promise you, the woman that saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses over that woman. " What a statement , what a love story. This blessed me in so many ways, and I can relate, may we learn to honour our loved ones ( those who saw us ) over their weaknesses and mistakes. Amen.
In most times we determine and rate people how they dress how they sleep and this is our canal minds which we've to get rid off.
May God help us see beyond material things in our spouses
🙌
"Your partner is not the enemy, the enemy is the weakness in your partner. Separate your partner from weakness". Learning is taking place! Thank you the Kitakas
I asked God for a good marriage counselor who will show me; not what I wanted to hear but the truth. I also didn't want a third-party who I would be afraid of opening up to, and I told God, to counsel me by Himself. I have been diligently following each episode. Today is when I realize this must have been God's answer to me. May God impart more wisdom to the Kitakas... I have been blessed beyond what I envisioned or ever asked for. God bless you!
Amen
@@sarahnamwanje This is exactly my sentiment! It is just amazing how God in His great wisdom has a way of equipping us for every season of our lives. The Kitaka's were indeed meant to be here for us, in a time such as this. 💚💚
Mr. Kitaka you carry a wisdom i honestly admire. I pray i get to meet you some day. Thanks any ways!
Naye these guys bring us back to earth regarding this marriage ministry. We need to share this content with as many people as possible . Wabula
''Marriage can break simply because none of them is willing to break for it'' Very powerful statement .Thank you the Kitakas for this ministry, you are touching many peoples' marriages.
I know what it means to be silent in the same house ,mine was extreme end for good 8 months ,when I told God let you will be done in marriage even around me knew my marriage was over but I trust God and God turned things around and my marriage was restored ,it was a miracle ,thx once again for saving people's marriage.
This man loves you from deep within. I love that you are giving God the glory in your marriage in a world where marriage is under threat.
Yooooo.... Shan, God got you a sword to prune you and get you closer to Himself. You're a blessed woman.
This is indeed true! -RK
This man affirmed you at the end, I could feel your apprehension Rukhshana. He is honored to do life with you, he is leading you as he lets Christ lead him. Let your heartstrings flow and receive from this cup greatly. You are doing an amazing thing showing us how marriage should glorify God, and we thank you ❤️❤️🌺🌺
That book on Honor by Ap.Moses Mukisa is such a blessing and life saver.
How I ended up here last night at 23.00hrs! I was already in bed but for some reason I couldn't fall asleep. Anyway, I got up and picked up my phone, went to TH-cam to pass time till I get sleepy then I straight away came across this video! It addressed me in many ways and I feel the Holy Spirit led me here! There's so much I learnt from you both. Thank you🙏🏽
We are glad you were led here :) Eugenia!
"You are the woman that I felt saw me...over time, the world agrees with you. And I promise you, the woman who saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses above that woman." Just wow! ❤🔥 If this is not a perfect example of how Christ loved the church!
Weee I am telling you I love these guys.
Thank you Rachel (namesake) for writing the words for me... you know in these podcasts am helping Shana in crying...we always cry together and I miss the most important words. The more I play it again, the more I cry.....
Thank you the Kitakas....it's not easy to do life with a spouse you just met and you have a responsibility of being one. But if that's the truth, am ready to walk the path well knowing that the grace is sufficient..in my weakness
Those last perfect words from a man to a woman he loves❤. It gives me tears. It reminds me of The Love of Christ for a mere being like me.
Then reminded me in 2018 when I was going through hell and in a dream A man appeared to me and hug me so tightly and said to me I Love you, I accept who you are, I Love you both with your son and I don't care of your past. I cried tears of Joy and it began a journey of healing.
I don't know if that Man was Jesus (he was so perfect) or my future husband 😊.
Am still waiting and not losing hope.
Kitakas you bless me. I can't wait to share and to re- listen these podcast with my husband in future.
❤❤❤
Man s weaknesses are just their weaknesses not their definition. I maintain the definition i have of my Husband and rebuke every other definition that comes to mind because of their short comings or weaknesses. The has delivered me! Glory
When you see people through the eyes of grace and love, it's difficult to perceive their weaknesses and define them by that. So the key is grace and love! -RK
It is Shana's deep breaths for me when Mr kitaka is talking 😊😊😊
Because through her husband's talking,the Holy spirit is ministering
This is a free therapy session. Thank you, the Kitakas.
It’s always a pleasure! -RK
You can't fail to understand mwami Kitaka, he is so clear, drives his points home, it's amazing
1year later and am still being blessed 🙌, the Spirit of the Lord will lead and prepare you for what you ask for before you receive it. Woooo
A true definition of marriage as in Ephesians 5.
Wonderful man, keep it up sanctifying your wife you'll surely enjoy life together.
Wow! Not glorifying the weaknesses of our spouse and knowing that it is by the grace of God. I have learnt alot.
I love the way Mr. Kitaka always holds Rukh's hands eeeeh ummm only God knows how i feel
I really needed to watch this 😢. I love love Christian couples ❤ May God keep using you mightly 🙏
Eehhh this was deep… I felt that Rukhshana and I face the same thing. The reconciliation of who I married and who I had as a friend is hard because my friend and my husband seem like two different people.
Super glad to have watched this.
Thank you so much the Kitakas, there is a way am changing everyday after watching your podcasts 🙏🙏
My take way ,a marriage can break because neither is willing to break for it .The little fox Pride that couldnspoil the vineyard ,thanks .i have subscribed immediately ,im so blessed
Have been putting pain on my husband heart because i don't respect him according to the way i have to
And my problem is my husband is small sized and financially broke so it makes me sound very bad at him
Am sorry my husband 😢😢 let me deal with it thanks for the messages
Kili wano..."who said am Settling" the Kitaakas I love love love while learning. God bless your beautiful marriage. Amen.
😂😂😂
Watching this in 2024
It's such a blessing
Mee tooo
The timing is always perfect! -RK
Mr. Kitaka i am extremely proud of you and your lovely wife. This is what the world needs.
If only I could meet you Mr and Mrs Kitaka for me to say thank you and ask you more
Blessings
Men’s weakness ain’t their definition 👏🏽👏🏽u guys are blessed and a blessing 👏🏽
Came back to give my appreciation for this seed. Thank you so much guys
The words we speak can only be forgiven and never forgotten.... I have learned to use them carefully..
That's very wise. “When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent” ( Proverbs 10:19 ). -RK
I know even good people can do damn 🙄 things, these don't define us. I have said several damn things to my husband, i look back to & wonder how I could stoop so low, i get goose bumps. May God give us grace to grow & live in the character of Christ.
WOW , glad am getting to learn all this before i get married ...i can only be better .Thankyou Thank you
With few minutes into the podcast I quickly subscribed and turned on the notification! I can’t afford to miss and upload! I’ve been so blessed by this podcast!! God bless you both!!
Welcome aboard! And thank you.
Ehhh but Mr. Kitaka always has the perfect words to make his wife feel so special! 🥰🥰 God bless you both! ❤
That he really does 😊! -RK
24:43 There is a PUREST form of a man, the SPIRIT! Separate the weakness of men from their true identity. War unto not fresh and blood... I am blessed. Thank you, thank you, thank you the Kitakas❤
I love love love your conversations...I have a request though...can you write subtitles so that I can understand the parts you speak in Luganda...Love from Kenya Thank you in advance😊
Let's work on that Linda. -RK
This is deep stuff, real discipleship. I have watched like six episodes of " The Kitaka's" in the last 2 days. God loves this.
So truthful, so painful.. And at the same time so deeply profound 😔
More grace to you both. The Kitakas you are, forever in Jesus name. Amen
I dont really know how I landed this amazing podcast.
But I really love them both.
Olwalero mubadde mu kiboko. But we are learning.
Mr Kitaka
Honestly,you have made my evening
I have watched this oba how many times,my marriage will grow sweet by ur melodic voices,u can't believe,I now talk lyk Shana😂🎉
Amen to a beautiful marriage! But this talking like me I need more clarity on 😂😂. -RK
I can only say see what the Lord can do when you surrender. You are such a blessing to this generation. I see we are almost reaching the topic of submission 😂😂. Eagerly waiting for the next episode❤
Thank you so the Kitakas. I like how Mr. Kitaka has explained how to know a person using David's relationship with God. I too is looking for a man with such level of understanding
May the Lord prepare you a man such as that!
This is answered prayer for me💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
I asked God that you do more podcasts in a month after watching 06 and I found this🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you the Kitaka’s, God bless you more🙏🏽
👐
You guys embody a love that I believe in. A love that sees deeper and seeks to know the soul of a person. Lovely..
I feel the Holy Spirit in this channel.
Continue with the great work.
Amen.
too short but sweet😉😍. I never get enough of this always. i always have to repeat watching and listening like 2 times😂 , u guys bless my heart sooo much and i keep blushing from the start to the end🙂. am not yet married but u guys make marriage look so beautiful, easy and authentic🙌. a man who loves the lord is all that i need 🤩👃
I couldn't agree more Sarah. A man who loves and is submitted to God will help make marriage worthwhile even with all its struggles. -RK
Yeees, may God fulfill your heart's desire, it is noble.
@@thekitakas ❤
Separate your partner from weakness! There's purity in every man! And that's the truth in a man
Expeditious Shana. I am your no.2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci beaucoup !!!
Shana brown looks very lovely on you.❤Blessed couple.Thanks for being raw and same time giving marriages lessons.
You are so welcome! RK
Thank you for the ministry to add value to marriages. This is purpose! May God grant you more wisdom beyond your years.
Amen! -RK
This has the GLORY of TMH all over it. May the two of you be increased. ✨🙌🏿☺️
Now Ladies, this is what the Bible meant to not be equally unyoked.
God is the Foundation, the Bible is the standard.
No compromise.
The challenges are set in but you'd rather they are with being a God fearing wife and having a God fearing Husband.
Meanwhile a book should be in session for the Kitakas cause I wrote alot for a 30min pod.
God bless you both and all the marriages out there set to be delivered in Jesus name through your platform.
Amen to the marriages set to be delivered...and as for the book :) you may be prophetically speaking!
I love how Mr Kitaka is so touchy 😍.. He always stretches out his hand to touch RK... It's so romantic 💕😘... Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I am blessed through everything that you share.
He is like my husband touching touching all the tym but now am used to😅😅
Wow I love the Spiritual maturity Mr Kitaka has led his bride to surely like Christ cleansing the church to present her to himself, I pray God gives you an unction to raise more men unto a place of being spiritual leaders. God bless you
This is wisdom overload
It doesn't matter the duration of the podcast. The unveiling of what lies underneath the decisions/reactions we make in every circumstance is golden. Thanking you for this podcast is not enough.... You are making that mark...
Am speechless, looks like i have homework to do. May God be my guide. God bless you the Kitakas, thank you for allowing God to let you be vulnerable to us.
You are very welcome. -RK
I have loved that first part, praying together 😊
This is such an intimate discussion.Big up to you Shana for actually allowing to share your world with us.I don't think I can bring people this upclose so help me God
🙏 It is He that works in us both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Phil 2:13). - RK
Oba, who broke/gave up and started a conversation after the lusirika 🤔🤔😜🤪. Anyway, I have been blessed, thank you. Stay blessed.
I think it is Mr. Kitaka, headship applies here😊. 'Daniel purposes in his heart.' So you cannot have it both ways.
I am really being blessed 🥰. Marriage is ministry.
First time here but l must say l am loving it
Wow, I like the way this ended . Thank you
Down to earth couple,thank you for sharing your life
Thanks for being open.
Have come to maintain my prayer after this insight.
This is wisdom
Woooow nze leero am speechless bantu bange. The ending got me oba how....
Sending love from Kenya..I'm not married but following you is really preparing me for it. Keep loving, alil of your vernacular here and there that I don't understand but I'm glad I follow your teachings.
Am blessed beyond measure. Thank you the Kitakas❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 sending love. Many many returns ❤❤❤
Amazing God bless you
Such encouragement 🙌 I am edified and encouraged! What a blessing you are to this generation. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably 💜
My councelors .....im learning from u people ....i pray God keeps you together not only for u but for me too....your my marriage role models .....love love you so much guys
Such a nice prayer
May God continue bless you more
Banange tuwebwa omukisa in these videos they have added value in my life be blessed ba dia
That "Standing in the Gap point" is brilliantly put. Well done to the Kitakas, May you continue to inspire many marriages.
Am first here today. Thanks for always blessing me with so much wisdom the Kitakas❤❤
Me too❤
Here taking notes ❤
@@charityngabirano-fz2pd Mrs. JM omu bwati... glad to know you also tap from the well of wisdom of the Kitakas. How is outside countries?
Thank you guys for those smiles on your faces.
But this is history. Where the videos of now.
Hey Idah, you are watching Ep 7, we are at Ep39. All episodes are in the same place. -RK
@@thekitakasthanks for the feedback I will get there.
I like the honest conversation ❤
Thanks so much for this am always waiting for the new podcasts
They are of help
Many thanks
I have been blessed beyond measure. Thank you the Kitakas.
Our pleasure!
It was a blessing listening to you guys may God continue to use you
❤wow this is too good,thank the Kitakas.
Thank you for the message we need to look at how God has been graceful to us and we give that to our friends. Neighbors.
Another is needed
...being completely humble and gentle; being patient, and bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2
Thanks!
Thank you Anthony! -RK
Mr kitaka you are a very good listener
U guys r the best....ur real
Honestly am blown out with this, blessings 🙏🙏🙏 a lot unsaid
Wow thank you guys
I dont have the exact words to describe this video. Thank you so much for sharing your hearts ❤❤ I have been extremely blessed
We are so glad! -RK
Mr Kitaka is at another level of understanding.I see books in the background,he should share with us his favourite books,same as mrs kitaka coz she speaks with wisdom.
My husband is a curious soul and a natural seeker of all things knowledge so he reads quite a lot on faith, psychology, technology, global economics, finance, business and pretty much anything he needs to learn about. I am ashamed to say, I don’t read even a quarter of how much I ought to 😮! But I soldier on! -RK
@@thekitakas i knew it. Waiting for that edition
Thank you for being candid and sharing your marriage with us. Thank you doing it with such purpose, this podcast gives us so much information for us looking to marry. Thank you for being purposeful!
You are so welcome!
I love these people mbwenu
Thank you for letting us in your space. Am learning so much
Wow. Thank you so much! I believe we all need to have such honest conversations with our spouses
Wow..this is so beautiful❤
Best TH-cam channel! May God continue to grant you grace. You are a blessing❤
Thanks Ronah. Amen to more grace! -RK
I appreciate the rawness and honesty that you've shared. Personally Marriage is a fairytale but eehhh....real work
I have a sneaky feeling, you will look back some day and realise it was more than a fairytale. But yes, it's work except with Jesus you are confident you are no labouring in vain! -RK
Wow great episode..
These podcasts have really helped me build my relationship with God.
It is a joy to hear that Abigail. We pray that you will grow deeper in Him. -RK