Unscripted E07: 7 days of silence // Overcoming pride in our marriage

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  • @babeskjo
    @babeskjo ปีที่แล้ว +76

    You guys…your first podcast saved my marriage! I was so ready to pack and go,I had actually already called a broker to get me a house,thennnn I landed on your podcast. Thank you dear kitakas.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow! Glory to God.

    • @annettewere4843
      @annettewere4843 ปีที่แล้ว

      We bless the Lord for that miracle. May God give you grace & establish you in your marriage.

    • @politeayikiriza4605
      @politeayikiriza4605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww amen

    • @babeskjo
      @babeskjo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annettewere4843 thank you. God is faithful

    • @marthangala7941
      @marthangala7941 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @natashakimberly2131
    @natashakimberly2131 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Your partner is not the enemy, the enemy is the weakness in your partner. Separate your partner from weakness". Learning is taking place! Thank you the Kitakas

  • @markgordonm
    @markgordonm ปีที่แล้ว +19

    " ....you are the one woman, I felt saw me...I was on the floor, I did need my friend, you saw something, over time the world agrees with you, I promise you, the woman that saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses over that woman. " What a statement , what a love story. This blessed me in so many ways, and I can relate, may we learn to honour our loved ones ( those who saw us ) over their weaknesses and mistakes. Amen.

    • @estarallen8575
      @estarallen8575 ปีที่แล้ว

      In most times we determine and rate people how they dress how they sleep and this is our canal minds which we've to get rid off.
      May God help us see beyond material things in our spouses

    • @comfortgrace1023
      @comfortgrace1023 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙌

  • @lilliannamugenyi1695
    @lilliannamugenyi1695 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I asked God for a good marriage counselor who will show me; not what I wanted to hear but the truth. I also didn't want a third-party who I would be afraid of opening up to, and I told God, to counsel me by Himself. I have been diligently following each episode. Today is when I realize this must have been God's answer to me. May God impart more wisdom to the Kitakas... I have been blessed beyond what I envisioned or ever asked for. God bless you!

    • @sarahnamwanje
      @sarahnamwanje ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @rachellorna5109
      @rachellorna5109 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sarahnamwanje This is exactly my sentiment! It is just amazing how God in His great wisdom has a way of equipping us for every season of our lives. The Kitaka's were indeed meant to be here for us, in a time such as this. 💚💚

    • @charlesisabirye9128
      @charlesisabirye9128 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mr. Kitaka you carry a wisdom i honestly admire. I pray i get to meet you some day. Thanks any ways!

  • @dortush
    @dortush ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is Shana's deep breaths for me when Mr kitaka is talking 😊😊😊

    • @liliannabirye3951
      @liliannabirye3951 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because through her husband's talking,the Holy spirit is ministering

  • @victoriabyoona4445
    @victoriabyoona4445 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    ''Marriage can break simply because none of them is willing to break for it'' Very powerful statement .Thank you the Kitakas for this ministry, you are touching many peoples' marriages.

  • @annetatim9243
    @annetatim9243 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is answered prayer for me💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
    I asked God that you do more podcasts in a month after watching 06 and I found this🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you the Kitaka’s, God bless you more🙏🏽

  • @ninsiimajosephine5881
    @ninsiimajosephine5881 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can only say see what the Lord can do when you surrender. You are such a blessing to this generation. I see we are almost reaching the topic of submission 😂😂. Eagerly waiting for the next episode❤

  • @julietkentaro7802
    @julietkentaro7802 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If only I could meet you Mr and Mrs Kitaka for me to say thank you and ask you more
    Blessings

  • @leodinaaero9333
    @leodinaaero9333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys embody a love that I believe in. A love that sees deeper and seeks to know the soul of a person. Lovely..

  • @mercykakama
    @mercykakama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was a blessing listening to you guys may God continue to use you

  • @Linda-ro1rl
    @Linda-ro1rl ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love love love your conversations...I have a request though...can you write subtitles so that I can understand the parts you speak in Luganda...Love from Kenya Thank you in advance😊

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's work on that Linda. -RK

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such encouragement 🙌 I am edified and encouraged! What a blessing you are to this generation. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably 💜

  • @sarahsinger07
    @sarahsinger07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has the GLORY of TMH all over it. May the two of you be increased. ✨🙌🏿☺️

  • @mugishagenchanger
    @mugishagenchanger ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yooooo.... Shan, God got you a sword to prune you and get you closer to Himself. You're a blessed woman.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      This is indeed true! -RK

  • @Beneth91
    @Beneth91 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so the Kitakas. I like how Mr. Kitaka has explained how to know a person using David's relationship with God. I too is looking for a man with such level of understanding

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      May the Lord prepare you a man such as that!

  • @solatim2142
    @solatim2142 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Expeditious Shana. I am your no.2 fan. I salute the Kitaka's. Merci beaucoup !!!

  • @ruthsenyonjo6145
    @ruthsenyonjo6145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the ministry to add value to marriages. This is purpose! May God grant you more wisdom beyond your years.

  • @dinahalinda4292
    @dinahalinda4292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed to watch this 😢. I love love Christian couples ❤ May God keep using you mightly 🙏

  • @Marykitala
    @Marykitala 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for being open.
    Have come to maintain my prayer after this insight.

  • @julietachen248
    @julietachen248 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow such an inspiring episode. So many people struggle with pride. But at the end of it all love wins.. Humility is key.
    All the best to the Kitakas as you keep inspiring us

  • @jovanis824
    @jovanis824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Banange tuwebwa omukisa in these videos they have added value in my life be blessed ba dia

  • @liliannabirye3951
    @liliannabirye3951 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is such an intimate discussion.Big up to you Shana for actually allowing to share your world with us.I don't think I can bring people this upclose so help me God

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏 It is He that works in us both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Phil 2:13). - RK

  • @melanie_77777
    @melanie_77777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now Ladies, this is what the Bible meant to not be equally unyoked.
    God is the Foundation, the Bible is the standard.
    No compromise.
    The challenges are set in but you'd rather they are with being a God fearing wife and having a God fearing Husband.
    Meanwhile a book should be in session for the Kitakas cause I wrote alot for a 30min pod.
    God bless you both and all the marriages out there set to be delivered in Jesus name through your platform.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen to the marriages set to be delivered...and as for the book :) you may be prophetically speaking!

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the message we need to look at how God has been graceful to us and we give that to our friends. Neighbors.
    Another is needed

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...being completely humble and gentle; being patient, and bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2

  • @rhonahm8243
    @rhonahm8243 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oba, who broke/gave up and started a conversation after the lusirika 🤔🤔😜🤪. Anyway, I have been blessed, thank you. Stay blessed.

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it is Mr. Kitaka, headship applies here😊. 'Daniel purposes in his heart.' So you cannot have it both ways.

  • @rukundoolivianakalyango714
    @rukundoolivianakalyango714 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mrs. Kitaka you're a blessed woman 😊I pray God will bless me with a humble, wise, God fearing and emotionally sensitive person like Mr. Kitaka when my time is right. In Jesus's Name 🙏

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊Ask for grace and a teachable spirit. God is amazing. He showers us with all kinds of blessings. Any talanta He gives to you, be a faithful servant🎉

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen Olivia. If we delight ourselves in the Lord, he grants us the desires of our hearts. May your prayer be honoured according to His will and may He prepare you for such a man. -RK

    • @rukundoolivianakalyango714
      @rukundoolivianakalyango714 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thekitakas AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

  • @stellahwangota9130
    @stellahwangota9130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I like the way this ended . Thank you

  • @faithamong2389
    @faithamong2389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching this in 2024
    It's such a blessing

    • @GiftEkyokwijuka
      @GiftEkyokwijuka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mee tooo

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The timing is always perfect! -RK

  • @theugandanvillagewife6647
    @theugandanvillagewife6647 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woooow nze leero am speechless bantu bange. The ending got me oba how....

  • @sarahteira1816
    @sarahteira1816 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is wisdom

  • @Marykitala
    @Marykitala 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You people inspire me alot

  • @politeayikiriza4605
    @politeayikiriza4605 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like the honest conversation ❤

  • @jovanis824
    @jovanis824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You people this intro ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ be blessed I can't be patient

  • @lillianmukisa3732
    @lillianmukisa3732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I note that Rukh-shana doesn't get to complete her beautiful explanations and opinions. My deepest desire and prayer is that her husband let's her express her voice even beyond the screen, she does have very deep and valid opinions that I was desiring ("dying") to hear but were often cut off. You are very beautiful inside out, woman of God!!❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for the kind words Lillian. About the ‘incomplete thoughts’ 😊 what you are experiencing is an offshoot of our off camera life/conversations. My husband and I talk for hours on end daily. And even when we are talking about a seemingly mundane thing he always has deep insights that come to him in the spur of the moment. If the insights are not allowed to find expression in that moment, they get lost and we all lose out. So I learnt to listen attentively to everything he says and can also tell when he has something to say before he says it 😂. That’s why we talk for hours on end on and off camera and our conversations take us into different spaces. It is one of the things I love about him. -RK

    • @annakatusiime5223
      @annakatusiime5223 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thekitakas That's why he had to lock you in😅. Kind of an answered prayer, right? I remember reading one of your blogs where you asked for such a person...

  • @KembabaziAbigail-kq9nr
    @KembabaziAbigail-kq9nr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow great episode..
    These podcasts have really helped me build my relationship with God.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      It is a joy to hear that Abigail. We pray that you will grow deeper in Him. -RK

  • @emmasendi9778
    @emmasendi9778 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so beautiful.. I thank God for your marriage.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! -RK

  • @akansiimajoan3029
    @akansiimajoan3029 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Kitaka
    Honestly,you have made my evening
    I have watched this oba how many times,my marriage will grow sweet by ur melodic voices,u can't believe,I now talk lyk Shana😂🎉

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen to a beautiful marriage! But this talking like me I need more clarity on 😂😂. -RK

  • @nailahhashim9095
    @nailahhashim9095 ปีที่แล้ว

    May our Lord keep blessing u two
    To grower stronger spiritually in ur marriage 🙏🏻

  • @mercynamara5045
    @mercynamara5045 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great lessons..such a beautiful podcast. Thank you for allowing God to use you and for being real. Blessings all the way

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for listening. -RK

  • @barbrakilabira5083
    @barbrakilabira5083 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woow you are such a blessing and this is ministry you are doing

  • @kihikahenry3043
    @kihikahenry3043 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a masters cohabiting with an S.4 graduand, but truth is, I had to swallow my pride as I teach her so many things. But you know why I love her, she gives me comfort and peace unlike the fellow graduates I was with before. Hehe... but, pride comes before a fall.

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is okay..... Help her thru school too

    • @kihikahenry3043
      @kihikahenry3043 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@martharinebiseko1457 that's my plan, but as we plan, God has a plan too.

  • @nabayizzi
    @nabayizzi ปีที่แล้ว

    You both blessed me. May God bless you both, your marriage and the work of your hands. New subscriber here🎉

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! -RK

  • @theevolveugshow
    @theevolveugshow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so interesting how u guys spell marriage,for real we will cook for ever

  • @Debaye494
    @Debaye494 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this🙏

  • @fionanassaka4222
    @fionanassaka4222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a blessing to us that believe in marriage.

  • @ajunaconstnce1262
    @ajunaconstnce1262 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wat can I say to that🥺🥺🥰🥰the emotions ....

  • @phyby9651
    @phyby9651 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is deep. Thanks 😊

  • @jeannm4683
    @jeannm4683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for allowing God to use you 🙏.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      👐

    • @TinahSanyu
      @TinahSanyu ปีที่แล้ว

      Mwami kitaka mukama Katonda akure omukisa
      Mukyala kitaka you are blessed and highly favoured...

  • @loisotim7133
    @loisotim7133 ปีที่แล้ว

    So enriched

  • @estherkyohirwe6708
    @estherkyohirwe6708 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful words

  • @ninsiimaracheal8838
    @ninsiimaracheal8838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You people are responding for my sleepless nights this Easter season yet I have a PhD to bring home
    I just love you. Shana just know we are crying together...I just can't help it

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Looking forward to that PhD coming home :) even as your soul prospers.

  • @stevemiracle5375
    @stevemiracle5375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi the kitakas’ this is the Steves’😊, you guys you are a blessing to our marriage, Actually its my wife Lynn Esther Steve that inspired me to watch because little did know that she is already following each episode, but ever since i personally enjoy every episodes. Thank u for being true of yourselves guys. May Jesus continue to blessing your marriage as well ours.
    Shalom🙏

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Steve(s) , thank you for the kind words. We are glad that Lynn led you here. May you be blessed even more as you learn and grow in God and your marriage. -RK

  • @mollymusoki6341
    @mollymusoki6341 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good content

  • @hopeakello3685
    @hopeakello3685 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing... I love 💕

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! 😊 -RK

  • @abbychinyimba7428
    @abbychinyimba7428 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good content. thanks for sharing

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @Nakimerasharon
    @Nakimerasharon ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooow wooooow wooow❤❤❤ am learning 😢

  • @momentswithvivien3302
    @momentswithvivien3302 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!

  • @opemipoesther4215
    @opemipoesther4215 ปีที่แล้ว

    36:59 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mbatuddebetty9485
    @mbatuddebetty9485 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr KItaka Felix u are gem do u have a brother like u omuumppe

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😃 Betty, if Mw. Kitaka had a brother and ‘gave him’ to you, wouldn’t that distort the order of things? “He who finds a wife…🤣”? -RK. On a more serious note, put the request for your husband before God, trust and wait upon the Lord while seeking first His righteousness…He is faithful. -RK

  • @nyakatocatherinezion8882
    @nyakatocatherinezion8882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best episode so far for me ❤

    • @irenenamatende9583
      @irenenamatende9583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I enjoy you laughter at the end too❤️❤️💕

  • @ainez6464
    @ainez6464 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Purpose not to forget the picture of your spouse regardless of their shortcomings, because that's not a true picture of whom they are. The Grace that sustains us, Says Mr Kitaka.
    Has anyone noticed the submission in R.N.K. 🎉by the way? It is just amazing.
    You won already 😂

    • @irenenamatende9583
      @irenenamatende9583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your conversation is so timely for me❤️❤️

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :) I'm not sure what you see but it hasn't come easy. -RK

  • @karene_B
    @karene_B ปีที่แล้ว

    GOD'S CHILDREN

  • @namanyadoryne3882
    @namanyadoryne3882 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwwww Awwwww Awwwww 😢😢😢

  • @rochellenteeba6291
    @rochellenteeba6291 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Naye these guys bring us back to earth regarding this marriage ministry. We need to share this content with as many people as possible . Wabula

  • @Lyliank-xn6vg
    @Lyliank-xn6vg ปีที่แล้ว +17

    i will say if a man is not from God i will not get married

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be Spirit-led, anywhere with Jesus, trust Him, you can safely go😊🎉

    • @julietkentaro7802
      @julietkentaro7802 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right dear

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Focus on you and walking in Him and the ones not spirit-led may be far from you. For you will know them by their fruit and the consideration won't even be there. -RK

  • @violahyusufu1966
    @violahyusufu1966 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Have been putting pain on my husband heart because i don't respect him according to the way i have to
    And my problem is my husband is small sized and financially broke so it makes me sound very bad at him
    Am sorry my husband 😢😢 let me deal with it thanks for the messages

  • @flavianamiiro3764
    @flavianamiiro3764 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Kili wano..."who said am Settling" the Kitaakas I love love love while learning. God bless your beautiful marriage. Amen.

  • @CynthiaKyofuna
    @CynthiaKyofuna ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This man affirmed you at the end, I could feel your apprehension Rukhshana. He is honored to do life with you, he is leading you as he lets Christ lead him. Let your heartstrings flow and receive from this cup greatly. You are doing an amazing thing showing us how marriage should glorify God, and we thank you ❤️❤️🌺🌺

    • @persist.b.ushindi
      @persist.b.ushindi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That book on Honor by Ap.Moses Mukisa is such a blessing and life saver.

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the way Mr. Kitaka always holds Rukh's hands eeeeh ummm only God knows how i feel

  • @rwakijumasarah1716
    @rwakijumasarah1716 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    too short but sweet😉😍. I never get enough of this always. i always have to repeat watching and listening like 2 times😂 , u guys bless my heart sooo much and i keep blushing from the start to the end🙂. am not yet married but u guys make marriage look so beautiful, easy and authentic🙌. a man who loves the lord is all that i need 🤩👃

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I couldn't agree more Sarah. A man who loves and is submitted to God will help make marriage worthwhile even with all its struggles. -RK

    • @annettewere4843
      @annettewere4843 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeees, may God fulfill your heart's desire, it is noble.

    • @rwakijumasarah1716
      @rwakijumasarah1716 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thekitakas ❤

  • @eugeniatushabe9154
    @eugeniatushabe9154 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How I ended up here last night at 23.00hrs! I was already in bed but for some reason I couldn't fall asleep. Anyway, I got up and picked up my phone, went to TH-cam to pass time till I get sleepy then I straight away came across this video! It addressed me in many ways and I feel the Holy Spirit led me here! There's so much I learnt from you both. Thank you🙏🏽

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      We are glad you were led here :) Eugenia!

  • @patricianakigudde1579
    @patricianakigudde1579 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I dont really know how I landed this amazing podcast.
    But I really love them both.

  • @ylu_cuerna4640
    @ylu_cuerna4640 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So truthful, so painful.. And at the same time so deeply profound 😔
    More grace to you both. The Kitakas you are, forever in Jesus name. Amen

  • @MsGratefulgal
    @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is a beautiful thing to know that one's spouse is making an effort to build the marriage/to love. I had no idea that to love is hardwork😅/sacrifice/laying down one's life for another/crushing own pride.
    I am learning that opening up to another helps them to know you and to help them make an effort to participate accordingly (for every action, there is a reaction)
    Never to give up reminding one another to make an effort to improve one's 'home' thus refreshing the mind 2 Pet. 1:3-12 in order to escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires
    Wow, marriage is a full-time job 24/7😅 Bliss awaits to those who work and value work. Looking to Jesus, sustains us.

    • @kansiimebeata9311
      @kansiimebeata9311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ms.gratefulgal, the Bible says, wives, submit to your own husband, husband, love your wife as Christ loves the church. Christ died on the cross, so, man must die for his wife..... Literally, someone has got to make sacrifice to save the marriage.

    • @MsGratefulgal
      @MsGratefulgal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kansiimebeata9311 thank you Beata. The sober one helps the other, bearing patiently until both come to the full understanding of Christ Jesus (Love)

  • @CynthiaKyofuna
    @CynthiaKyofuna ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eehhh this was deep… I felt that Rukhshana and I face the same thing. The reconciliation of who I married and who I had as a friend is hard because my friend and my husband seem like two different people.
    Super glad to have watched this.

  • @josephineebiu
    @josephineebiu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am always blessed by this couple!
    Thank you the kitakas for allowing the Lord to use you to speak to marriages! These real stories build!

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      We are thankful for the opportunity to share our lives in the hope that it helps someone some couples grow better. -RK

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "You are the woman that I felt saw me...over time, the world agrees with you. And I promise you, the woman who saw me is much more precious than any weaknesses or shortcomings, so be it far from me that I will glorify the weaknesses above that woman." Just wow! ❤‍🔥 If this is not a perfect example of how Christ loved the church!

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Weee I am telling you I love these guys.

    • @ninsiimaracheal8838
      @ninsiimaracheal8838 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Rachel (namesake) for writing the words for me... you know in these podcasts am helping Shana in crying...we always cry together and I miss the most important words. The more I play it again, the more I cry.....
      Thank you the Kitakas....it's not easy to do life with a spouse you just met and you have a responsibility of being one. But if that's the truth, am ready to walk the path well knowing that the grace is sufficient..in my weakness

    • @rosekitur8429
      @rosekitur8429 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Those last perfect words from a man to a woman he loves❤. It gives me tears. It reminds me of The Love of Christ for a mere being like me.
      Then reminded me in 2018 when I was going through hell and in a dream A man appeared to me and hug me so tightly and said to me I Love you, I accept who you are, I Love you both with your son and I don't care of your past. I cried tears of Joy and it began a journey of healing.
      I don't know if that Man was Jesus (he was so perfect) or my future husband 😊.
      Am still waiting and not losing hope.
      Kitakas you bless me. I can't wait to share and to re- listen these podcast with my husband in future.
      ❤❤❤

  • @richardsemwanga7587
    @richardsemwanga7587 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Separate your partner from weakness! There's purity in every man! And that's the truth in a man

  • @carolinembithe4544
    @carolinembithe4544 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sending love from Kenya..I'm not married but following you is really preparing me for it. Keep loving, alil of your vernacular here and there that I don't understand but I'm glad I follow your teachings.

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My councelors .....im learning from u people ....i pray God keeps you together not only for u but for me too....your my marriage role models .....love love you so much guys

  • @amyitogot5088
    @amyitogot5088 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Not glorifying the weaknesses of our spouse and knowing that it is by the grace of God. I have learnt alot.

  • @anitatumusiime8323
    @anitatumusiime8323 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can't fail to understand mwami Kitaka, he is so clear, drives his points home, it's amazing

  • @dalson1706
    @dalson1706 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know what it means to be silent in the same house ,mine was extreme end for good 8 months ,when I told God let you will be done in marriage even around me knew my marriage was over but I trust God and God turned things around and my marriage was restored ,it was a miracle ,thx once again for saving people's marriage.

  • @jacintaewuramaotoo2400
    @jacintaewuramaotoo2400 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    With few minutes into the podcast I quickly subscribed and turned on the notification! I can’t afford to miss and upload! I’ve been so blessed by this podcast!! God bless you both!!

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome aboard! And thank you.

  • @annettewere4843
    @annettewere4843 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is deep stuff, real discipleship. I have watched like six episodes of " The Kitaka's" in the last 2 days. God loves this.

  • @joygood2795
    @joygood2795 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am first here today. Thanks for always blessing me with so much wisdom the Kitakas❤❤

    • @charityngabirano-fz2pd
      @charityngabirano-fz2pd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too❤
      Here taking notes ❤

    • @joygood2795
      @joygood2795 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charityngabirano-fz2pd Mrs. JM omu bwati... glad to know you also tap from the well of wisdom of the Kitakas. How is outside countries?

  • @godfreyluwate6084
    @godfreyluwate6084 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks so much for this am always waiting for the new podcasts
    They are of help
    Many thanks

  • @angellakyarimpa1323
    @angellakyarimpa1323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A true definition of marriage as in Ephesians 5.
    Wonderful man, keep it up sanctifying your wife you'll surely enjoy life together.

  • @laureenkabaseke
    @laureenkabaseke ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you both. Thank you for Ministry

  • @ashepetflavia4295
    @ashepetflavia4295 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Olwalero mubadde mu kiboko. But we are learning.

  • @ingabirebetty1203
    @ingabirebetty1203 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Separate your partner from weakness !!

  • @kimberlychelsea9341
    @kimberlychelsea9341 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shana brown looks very lovely on you.❤Blessed couple.Thanks for being raw and same time giving marriages lessons.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome! RK

  • @laker256
    @laker256 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel the Holy Spirit in this channel.
    Continue with the great work.

  • @stelakem
    @stelakem ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ehhh but Mr. Kitaka always has the perfect words to make his wife feel so special! 🥰🥰 God bless you both! ❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That he really does 😊! -RK

  • @brendansimenta6013
    @brendansimenta6013 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow..this is so beautiful❤

  • @tusiimecatherine5651
    @tusiimecatherine5651 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for letting us in your space. Am learning so much

  • @imacayebazibwe6412
    @imacayebazibwe6412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you people ❤, but I have one request, how about you sit closer to one another so Mr. Kitaka can hold Shana wellooo. Sometimes I feel like he wants to touch but Shana is a bit far🙈

    • @hongof1561
      @hongof1561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he touches her when interjecting though. he needs to allow her to express herself more.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I actually touch her to ease my entry so that I avoid disrupting her flow. The touch is a way of communicating that I have something to share and in a way inquiring whether it’s okay. But also, I touch my wife the same way when we’re talking in private. I actually thought it was sweet. Nonetheless, I’ll be more mindful about it.

    • @imacayebazibwe6412
      @imacayebazibwe6412 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thekitakas actually, I love the way you reach out to touch her. Pliz, don't be mindful😂 I'm enjoying the touch. In any case, you won't avoid it coz it comes naturally 😉

    • @rahjay1960
      @rahjay1960 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love the touching. Mr. Kitaka keep it up
      These are some of the things we crave for in marriages

  • @Oscar-x2e4q
    @Oscar-x2e4q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is actually interesting 😂😂

  • @deno1512
    @deno1512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Came back to give my appreciation for this seed. Thank you so much guys