But you know what such guys are always suffers of making fun by there own friends.For eg.Might if she is going for some Important work with his friend but if his bf wants her to go she will never ever think about her friend who basically guide her in bad times but choose to go with the bf.Such peoples who cares for other are not given importance and suffers loneliness.And their Importance was felt when they were not available anymore and that's very sad and pathetic.
I mean I've also been in a situationship but the girl was the one who broke all the connection with me first so should I say she was also having fun with me?
Ours wasn't even a situationship..I was in a committed relationship for over 4 years..my partner wanted to get physical and after being 3 years together, I said yes although I was hesitating a bit..trust me girls! Once you say yes, he is never going to do anything else for you..just his room and s*x.. nothing else..for 1 year, we didn't go outside, if we went there used to be big fights, he only used to say sorry when he wanted to get physical..whenever I told him to stop he used to say he has needs too and I need to understand..if I tried to leave, he used to beg on his knees, crying for me but never changed.. NEVER, I repeat NEVER say yes to s*x in any kind of relationship till the boy marries you..Also before or after the marriage, consent is always necessary!!
So you are saying sex is wrong while you don’t consider the need of your partner. Whether married or not your commitment to love is between two partners and not married is always destination if you living in society where Marrige is made by society not two people sometimes it’s difficult to marry your love. Not every situation is same. Married couple don’t feel love in their relationship and they ended up just being in that trap. Isn’t that bad?? Once you are married everything is good that’s also wrong. Know your partner first and decide give some time to both then decide. There is no wrong in sex. Why you making this as something strange while you are here due to sex … your brains works different than opposite gender then don’t have relationship in first place. So arranged Marrige. That’s it.
@@RaviPatel-if1uk what I mean to say is- 1) don't have a forceful sex before marriage just because your partner wants it and 2) consent is always necessary whether you are married or not.. If I am having stomachache and my partner forces me to have sex, tell me is he right? This is wrong even after marriage.. I am not saying not to have sex for lifetime, try to analyse the situation I meant here..
Heh ... Aisa kyo? Sex ke baad itna change kyo ho jata hai ki kabhi bahar ghumne bhi naa jae? ! Sab ladko me nahi hota ! I am 22 years old nearly 6ft , good looking & fair complexion but have no relation & I never make efforts for it! I think such boys are highly materialistic & one who rely upon senses only! No spiritual 🕉️ understanding, haven't seen hardships! I was a NEET aspirant & dropper & now in College & I know that sex may seem alluring but it come along with responsibility! So I am focusing on getting a job first & curbing my hormones or sensual emotions.
dear girls, this is the reason why you should never agree to any physical relation before marriage, because in 95% of the situation, the guy would never marry you.
@@debanikgoswami4834Yeah....Maine bhi jise apna sabkuch samjha, he told me ki i'll Marry with another girl, nt marry wid you bcz it's about marriage,jo gudda gudiya ka khel nahi hota or he told to me ki hmara vichar nahi milta, mutual understanding nahi milta😭😭😭 quality nd much more nahi mila mujhme use. after 9yrs use samjh aaya ki Mai uske layak nahi...ya keh sakte ki mujhe der se samjh aaya ki wo betrayer standard person mere layak nahi tha.😭🙂. He made me fool. I was depressed.. frustrated..sad...all things at the same time; but my sis is my friend..c dnt know about us much more but sister se baat krti hu ab or khush rahti hu...Haan uski Kami mujhe hmesha khelegi, bcz i loved him more than myself. Mere liye wo sabkuch tha..or uske liye Mai bas ek temporary enjoyment. 😢😭
Isn't it amazing that the whole comment section is filled with girls' horrible experience about dating wrong guyz who betrayed them but still people say "ladkiya jyada bewafa hoti h aur wo kbhi pyar nhi kr skti sachha".
Exactly!! The capability to cheat does not depend on gender at all, but on individuals. Ppl need to stop these stereotypes that girls are more likely to cheat
Yee toh reel h kabhi ground reality check karo didi kon jyada bewafa hain ye jo ladke hain naa inka kaam hi asia h ye thoda attractive, cool, aur flirting kar de toh ladkiyan pagal ho jati hain inke liye aur ye sab drama hota h physical tak ho jati h wahi innocent ladkaa kitni bhi efforts de unko aapp jaise ladkiyan lallu bol ke insult karte ho baad mai ye sab hota h aur sab ladko ko dosh de dete ho 🤡
@@subhamsahu5315 You are just spitting internet's stereotypes. A person can be likely to cheat, regardless of the gender. But since you really like to believe the bullshit on the internet, then let me tell you that it is statistically said that men are more likely to cheat. Now, I'm speaking after doing a bit research AND ppl's experiences from real life.
Thankyou soo much Anamika ❤️for cheering girls like us I can't tell you I had the toxic relationship of 2 years and finally it came to an end after a lots of fights .
I can feel her, even I have been in situationship that too with so-called best friend!! 😂 Never in my dreams had I imagined it would go this way , Nikhil only wasted a year of Adya, mine one wasted 5 years....this video made me remind everything and hate him even more...thank you! Edit : Commenting so that I would never forget this with every like
Dear girls, when you're in love with this kind of person it will be difficult for you to come out from this situationship. You'll feel like you can't live without that person, you'll be heartbroken. But trust me once you come out from this and move on you'll feel a relief. You'll learn from your mistake and will feel blessed that you're not with that wrong person anymore. I hope to all these girls who suffered, one day you'll find the right person who'll purely love you and will want eternity with you❤the love that you've always dreamed of.
I've been this kind of relationship like that person just contact you whenever its convenient for him. I was fed up , and silence was my big revenge , No text No calls , totally Nothing .. And have a peaceful mind.
Even I had a relationship, the guy was really good but didn’t have the courage to face my parents or take on my responsibility, may be due to poor economic conditions.. it was me who fought with my parents and whole khaandaan to get me married to him but couldn’t see the same spirit in him..one day he told my friend that “Mai toh keh raha hu uss se ki kahan uske parents keh rahe hain wahan usey kr leni chahiye”.. This sentence was enough to wake me up but I still didn’t accept the fact that he’s taking a back step..isliye it’s better to realise early that if he’s not taking a stand to marry you, he’s never gonna marry you 😄😄
@@ieshameena7459 Right ya wrong se koi matlab hi nhi mujhe Bas same caste ki ladki chaiye, that's it, Average looking bhi hogi to mujhe koi issue nhi hai , ,but ye relationship mai katwane ka risk mai nhi le skta 😒
I cannot explain how helpful this video was to give me a clarity about my current relationship situation especially when you decide to keep it a secret
Please its my request to not fell for wrong boy he is a boy he wants to use you ... Emotionally physically and mentally will ruined you totally and will leave you with thousands of broken heart pain i mean the pain you can't even manage please if he loves you he will assure you with 💯 percent surelyyyyy please please never settle for bare minimum its clear open your eyes if he is not interested he will surely show you with his actions and you should be courageous enough to accept that he was just attracted and you are the only one who's putting efforts in this relationship that's why it's lasted till then... Please don't settle for it leave him you deserve much better ❤
Gurl the truth is all men are same we not gonna get out love bcoz its not exist now if he marry you till also he can divorced you where is love then so enjoy ur life u don't need a man
Have been in this. 6 yrs gone. Didnt knew this term. I hope, this term becomes more popular, and people understand this well and dont spoil their life.
Situationship is a 3rd grade idea to celebrate physical intimacy. Have you ever imagined with single partner throughout the life and exploring each other more and more upto the infinity. When infinity is felt... that's the Divinity. That is where the love is actually happening within the souls. Divinity is so precious that not everyone is so fortunate to ATTAIN that level in life and relationship. For immatures... Sex is Ejaculation 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm feeling so sad you guys who think Intercourse is Sex... Sex is known for Copulation not for Just Intercourse.
Your mistake is also there you should not give your physical self without taking commitment , this generation don't understand commitment and only understand sex and then their heart breaks
That is why girls need to change their mentality by not getting into any kind of relationship before marriage but you different creatures on the planet don't digest the actual truth
Situationship is the most horrible thing😑. Also, the last few lines are so true. Sometimes, we are so scared to be alone... that we settle for bare minimum. And, even if the signs are obvious that someone doesn't loves the way we love them, but still we keep ignoring those signs, thinking, that, maybe one day.. . they will understand... or things will change. But, things never change, until, it comes to a point, where we have to finally accept the reality and leave them.
1:27 he really plays the role of a caring loyal and good friend very phenomenally and like it suits him very much, the way he explains things ❤...he's cute yarr❤❤
to all the girls always tell the guy your dating that ur waiting for marriage and if continues to treat you with love and respect you have found the right person if his attitude changes congrats u found out his true intention
How about not getting involved with a man at all, then? If girls/women have no sexual desires, better just seek love and companionship amongst other girls and women. Even when married, why trade your body to a man for some pretentious love?
The only thing that I want people to listen, if you have even 1% of doubt on your partner, leave him/her immediately. Because your intuitions might be correct, still your mind try to defend your thoughts. I feel people should act maturely before it becomes too late.
@@ieshameena7459wow😍 you look very beautiful. Is that really you? I mean I can't express your beauty in words. You are looking very similar to actress Tanushree Dutta. Do you know her?
u are right but sometimes people get emotional and it is really difficult , i was in that place too , my bf came back after 6 months from breakup and told me that he is sorry and will die , i got so emotional that i forgot he gave me such a hard time ,cheated ,and played with my emotions but because once in past he was my best friend and i had so many beautiful memories ,i was thinking of having him back in my life but thnx to my friends who showed me reality .
@@shambhavimishra8171 It's the worst thing a person can do by showing his/her unreal identity. He is trying to manipulate you. Please be careful with such people.
14:38 proves that your guts never lies..i felt it soo mych everytime bro..your gut and mind warns/ gives you hint after a pnt of time in a reln..but pyaar mya itneh doob jateh hai kii..we ignore them...
Gen z ko kya pata hoga ki old school love is the true love only.. it's 2024 now but i still miss him..i still get his thought every night before sleeping..i still get to meet him at least in my dreams..🙂
Omg this story is so relatable to me and I know the pain of situationship.. it's bloody hurtful when your partner never choose you and you find him in another relationships and we even can't say anything bcz we never said it before that I want label in that relationship. But, now it's been almost 2 years and now I am happy with my would be husband 💕☺️❤
This video is very good and for those girls who trust any boy and think that it is love They are ready to do anything to make them happy but the boy does not love them, he just wants to play with their body, he does not want to live with them, he just wants to pass time.😊
That women is MYSELF when I consider my situation. A girl did manipulate me into thinking that she will be choosing me and later didn't; this video is so relatable.
I was also in a situationship in 2023 for 6 months....I was so so confused during that time 😭😣...after that 6 months I got my mental peace back again ...
I have this type of situationship problem. That time i not realizes. But after 1year i know what is the correct. And i do that.. I remove the fucking situationship relation.. In this time i have lots of peace 😊
I am so happy about my recent decisions 😍 .... a friend of one of my guy friend recently asked me to have fun .... and I told him I don't want any kind of relationship or situationship right now .... But he kept repeating it would be just fun and he doesn't want any kind of relationship either .... I made it clear I only want and will accept to Normal friend .... But he kept repeating his words and tried to seduce 🙂 and in turn I told him super childish stories of ghosts and irritated him so much ... And at last he told me to tell him when I have grown up ... And he never disturbed me by mssg or calling me again 😂 And after watching this video I am more than certain I did the damn right thing
@@neerajahirwar9056 yes ..... Just to annoy him 😂 he only wanted timepass and fun ... so I irritated him with my super childish story and he got bored in just 1.30 min 😁 as expected...and never disturbed me again
@@Tiatiiiiiiia sure 😂 .... Just a regular one , a guy went to visit in a jungle with friends and he lost them in the jungle ... the guy was alone and it was getting dark sooner ... he tried to get out of the jungle but in vain and decided to sit under a tree.... Though he was super worried about wild animals and creatures and the night fall create strange sounds in atmosphere those are scary .... The guy was regretting his decision for coming with friends and later he saw some strange shadows walking toward him ... He was so scared but later it came out these were his lost friends 😂 but he already fained before realizing
👏🏻👏🏻please keep on highlighting this situationship topic......there is so mch awareness needed to b spread on this topic , there r so many cruel people around preying on innocent souls in disguise of a tagless relationship..much appreciated u guys❤❤
One sided love can't change opposite person's heart ,,, it's true 💔 who is accept it he/she never hurts,,, actually this types changes always show up us in TV serial , movies etc...... We thought it's possible in real life but never happend ... 😢😢😢
Why?! He is not even in fault. He had clarity about his feelings, he wanted only physical relationship without commitment. Why would you want him to feel guilty!!!
Jab situatioship me ho to use realise karana hi kyu hai . Kabhi usne commitment diya. Nahi diya to wo realise bhi kyu kare jab uska pahle se clear tha. It's toltally your fault to faltu ko apne aap ko victim dikhana band karo.
For all the boys and girls... Who are going to be in a Relationship or who are very new in relationship.. ⚫ SET YOUR BOUNDARIES........ very clearly in term of everything.... SET YOUR BOUNDARIES........ ◾ So that you won't regret in last ✅
The younger generation’s rush to experience everything early can lead to mistakes, but it’s also part of their learning process. Patience and guidance can help them navigate this phase better.
Main khud ladki hu but yaya koi bewafa nahi tha ladki bewkuf thi. Usne kabhi bola hi nahi ki pyar karta hai relationship me hai uska pahle se clear tha. To aap bewkuf ki tarah physical tak ho rahe hai.
This is called... Tu mujhe khuja, Main tujhe khujau...this is the fact. I have been with 4-5 girls in my life till date who were having the same mentality and were having such relationships with boys. Kehne ko bohot kuch hai, lekin koi faayda nahi hai, jisko Jo karna hai, wo wahi karega.@@KanchanYadav-fl1es
very amazing and very true. sometimes we don't give any label to relation just for fear of losing it and that relation eats up everything.. our secrecy, our self esteem, our precious time, our efforts our energies... and ends up with regrets
Everyone is talking about what is situationship but no one talking about how to overcome or moveon after the situationship when you got attached to that person...moving on is really a difficult process..
Yes this very discsating situation but if you concentrate on your self and being enclined with God means doing meditates or yoga doing such type of activities that giving you relief and peaceful mind soo you will definitely came out from this situation it's really work please follow this I am facing this type of things but I know tha proces off to came out from this worst situation
Main confuse hu ye situation ship relationship Aur open relationship mai difference kya hota h Sach iske ware mai kuch nhi pata kyun ki ajiban sanyashi hi banna h par difference kya hota h wese
@subhamsahu5315 situationship is for those people who want deep connection with someone, and they keep on being getting used by someone fulfilling the other's needs only and ignoring one's own mental health. Those are innocent people who keep on sacrificing themselves in situationship. Open relationship is something in which a person is open to all, available to all for anything including fun and fulfilling needs
I am 25 at 16 i was VERY CLEAR NEVER NEVER TRUST OTHER GIRL THEN MY SISTER I FOLLOWED HER SHE IS SHIELD FOR ME NOTHING CAN HARM ME SHE READY TO TAKE ALL ADVERSE SITUATION OF MY .
Yes ,A girl should understand first defining honestly making difference between relationship and situation ship before entering in to bond To avoid harsh consequences
Aise videos aur bnao ye ek tarah se awareness bdha rha h jisse public apni problems jisko vo kisise share ni krr paa rhe uske baare m rethink krr paare h solve krr paare h❤ proud of your team and channel 🎉
90 % of relationship in which sex is involved doesn't end with marriage because you already gave him that thing he was after you all about, and their acting about good guy ends..🙄🙄🙄
@@snehvipulkishor7983 it's not that easy now a days , alimony money keeps mens in control. And it's not necessary that you will face this situation in arrange marriage and not in love marriage. And 1 more important thing , maintaining a healthy socal life is also important....
Wife take responsibilities and hubby enjoying his life.. Wife has no life, only household work, kitchen, office work and other responsibilities thats it.@@snehvipulkishor7983
All I have to say is, always find two sided love, and make sure you feel like 'yes, this boy/girl is the right one' and make sure that you feel loved, loved for real. Then only think that you're in relationship, then only go physical. I am not discriminating girls from boys, but the society has not changed a bit. Virginity and all is still the same in this society, so both girls and boys , be sure about the person is right one. Because you'll never know how that girl will suffer in future just because of society. I feel bad about how our society is. But truth is truth.
another emotional chomu girl,,! 😂 its ur opinion, maybe it based on some fucking islamic ideology, or pandit ji type influencers, ......but tagging some one as escort or prostitute is not good, sex is basic need, if 2 people [ adult obviously] done consensual intimacy , what harm in this, ? sex is sex ,,,don't make it divine activity, and its good to before enter in marriage .... , 😄
This is the reality man,uh know ldki sacche dil se jisse pyar kre and agr ldka ni bhi krta h still han boldeta h he always says i like uh instead of i love uh aur hmesha fr hum compromise krne lgte aur unke tympass se bht kuch expect krte and at the end bht buri tarah tootjate
How can you have sex before marriage i dont understand may be its old school types but i believe in it. A man really wants to marry you will never ask for it.
Same here. I can't even imagine being physical with someone who is not my husband even if it is gonna be a love marriage for me I will be okay with sex only after marrying my lover.. but people of this generation are like" come on it's just casual sex"🤷. And many call me, outdated, old school and ask me to grow up
You know what, call me old school or whatever you want to! But i date to marry...i always feel like whoever will come into my life that person has to be permanent or else i am ready to live single happily ❤
Ohh God, again same story, watching this vd all those pain and trauma I felt again, humesha Aisa hi kyu hota hai, kyu logon ko humesha dusre options chahiye, I lost everything behind him, just gathering courage to move on, accept, learn and never repeat it again
Amazing content soo far.. comment section is filled with girls comment I am happy that all girls are getting awareness through this channel.. a huge respect button for this channel.. I also want to watch 2nd part of it I mean boys side of the story how he overcomes and all.. but this video is just has all my respect
In comment section i am seeing.. most of the comments are about onlyy same situationshipp.. oh my god.. what is going in this societyy.. everyy 3 4th person having same storyy.. likee whyy. The person who is loving beyond limits.. cryingg in a corner.. and that situationship person is enjoying..
Some stories are NOT A LOVE STORY! Agree?
True :)
Yeah 🙌 your right
Indeed 🙂
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I think Sam is like our brain. The conversation between female lead and sam was like a conversation between ❤ and 🧠.
Maybe that's why this character is made ..
@@Ankita-xt2di Yeah ,maybe.
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True❤
Your observation skill is too good
I have a respect for this person who has such a caring friend.
But you know what such guys are always suffers of making fun by there own friends.For eg.Might if she is going for some Important work with his friend but if his bf wants her to go she will never ever think about her friend who basically guide her in bad times but choose to go with the bf.Such peoples who cares for other are not given importance and suffers loneliness.And their Importance was felt when they were not available anymore and that's very sad and pathetic.
@@rishikasharma6986 you said it right
Exactly @@rishikasharma6986
True👍
abe gay he wo
Its true....boyzzz dont want commitment..they just want to stay with girls just for their fun....correct line" ek majee leta h..dusre ka kat ta h.."😢
And here I am waiting for a girl who want a true love and not the situation ship and still waiting and wait for the right kne
I mean I've also been in a situationship but the girl was the one who broke all the connection with me first so should I say she was also having fun with me?
Right.... Aur ase justify krte h.. like they r correct... Aur dosh girls ka nikalte h.. pta ni kya kya bolte h girls k lye...
Sometimes boys being loyal and girls cheat cheating and loyalty is not gender based
@@DrDoof14 same bro same situation
The female lead finally spoke her heart and got the clarity of the day!!!
Ours wasn't even a situationship..I was in a committed relationship for over 4 years..my partner wanted to get physical and after being 3 years together, I said yes although I was hesitating a bit..trust me girls! Once you say yes, he is never going to do anything else for you..just his room and s*x.. nothing else..for 1 year, we didn't go outside, if we went there used to be big fights, he only used to say sorry when he wanted to get physical..whenever I told him to stop he used to say he has needs too and I need to understand..if I tried to leave, he used to beg on his knees, crying for me but never changed..
NEVER, I repeat NEVER say yes to s*x in any kind of relationship till the boy marries you..Also before or after the marriage, consent is always necessary!!
So you are saying sex is wrong while you don’t consider the need of your partner. Whether married or not your commitment to love is between two partners and not married is always destination if you living in society where Marrige is made by society not two people sometimes it’s difficult to marry your love. Not every situation is same. Married couple don’t feel love in their relationship and they ended up just being in that trap. Isn’t that bad?? Once you are married everything is good that’s also wrong. Know your partner first and decide give some time to both then decide. There is no wrong in sex. Why you making this as something strange while you are here due to sex … your brains works different than opposite gender then don’t have relationship in first place. So arranged Marrige. That’s it.
@@RaviPatel-if1uk what I mean to say is- 1) don't have a forceful sex before marriage just because your partner wants it and 2) consent is always necessary whether you are married or not.. If I am having stomachache and my partner forces me to have sex, tell me is he right? This is wrong even after marriage.. I am not saying not to have sex for lifetime, try to analyse the situation I meant here..
Heh ... Aisa kyo? Sex ke baad itna change kyo ho jata hai ki kabhi bahar ghumne bhi naa jae? ! Sab ladko me nahi hota ! I am 22 years old nearly 6ft , good looking & fair complexion but have no relation & I never make efforts for it! I think such boys are highly materialistic & one who rely upon senses only! No spiritual 🕉️ understanding, haven't seen hardships! I was a NEET aspirant & dropper & now in College & I know that sex may seem alluring but it come along with responsibility! So I am focusing on getting a job first & curbing my hormones or sensual emotions.
Mera wala to 4 sal se date kr raha tha jaise he physical hue itna besharam hogaya ki ake bata dia ki cheat krke aya hu vo bh poore arrogance k sath
@@RaviPatel-if1ukchup be ..... Ye sb smjh ara h merko ye manipulate krne ka troka h
dear girls, this is the reason why you should never agree to any physical relation before marriage, because in 95% of the situation, the guy would never marry you.
Smart guys are like Nikhil who understands the female psychology and work accordingly to it . More guys should be like him .
@@debanikgoswami4834Yeah....Maine bhi jise apna sabkuch samjha, he told me ki i'll Marry with another girl, nt marry wid you bcz it's about marriage,jo gudda gudiya ka khel nahi hota or he told to me ki hmara vichar nahi milta, mutual understanding nahi milta😭😭😭 quality nd much more nahi mila mujhme use. after 9yrs use samjh aaya ki Mai uske layak nahi...ya keh sakte ki mujhe der se samjh aaya ki wo betrayer standard person mere layak nahi tha.😭🙂. He made me fool.
I was depressed.. frustrated..sad...all things at the same time; but my sis is my friend..c dnt know about us much more but sister se baat krti hu ab or khush rahti hu...Haan uski Kami mujhe hmesha khelegi, bcz i loved him more than myself.
Mere liye wo sabkuch tha..or uske liye Mai bas ek temporary enjoyment.
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Isn't it amazing that the whole comment section is filled with girls' horrible experience about dating wrong guyz who betrayed them but still people say "ladkiya jyada bewafa hoti h aur wo kbhi pyar nhi kr skti sachha".
Exactly!! The capability to cheat does not depend on gender at all, but on individuals. Ppl need to stop these stereotypes that girls are more likely to cheat
True bro....
Men☕️ ...
Abhi dekhna bhai aapne yeh likha hai na abhi 2-4 male victim card khelne aayenge😂😂
Yee toh reel h kabhi ground reality check karo didi kon jyada bewafa hain ye jo ladke hain naa inka kaam hi asia h ye thoda attractive, cool, aur flirting kar de toh ladkiyan pagal ho jati hain inke liye aur ye sab drama hota h physical tak ho jati h wahi innocent ladkaa kitni bhi efforts de unko aapp jaise ladkiyan lallu bol ke insult karte ho baad mai ye sab hota h aur sab ladko ko dosh de dete ho 🤡
@@subhamsahu5315 You are just spitting internet's stereotypes. A person can be likely to cheat, regardless of the gender. But since you really like to believe the bullshit on the internet, then let me tell you that it is statistically said that men are more likely to cheat. Now, I'm speaking after doing a bit research AND ppl's experiences from real life.
@@cosmic_aurora-t4k True!
Cherrs to all the brave girls who have been finally in peace after a toxic relationship , win win girlll
Brave ???
Yeahh❤
Thankyou soo much Anamika ❤️for cheering girls like us I can't tell you I had the toxic relationship of 2 years and finally it came to an end after a lots of fights .
@@riyapandey9231 har kisi ke toxic relationship hi ho rhe hai 😂
@@riyapandey9231 btw what's your age ??
I can feel her, even I have been in situationship that too with so-called best friend!! 😂 Never in my dreams had I imagined it would go this way , Nikhil only wasted a year of Adya, mine one wasted 5 years....this video made me remind everything and hate him even more...thank you!
Edit : Commenting so that I would never forget this with every like
Same sis
@@namitaverma6738 have u been able to move on now?
5 saal tak leta rha bina love you bole, pagal ladki.
Then why you are laughing 😳
@@nehasah9026 can u understand the laugh from pain? Ppl can laugh in various situations....in happiness, sadness, pain, pleasure even in depression 🙂
Dear girls, when you're in love with this kind of person it will be difficult for you to come out from this situationship. You'll feel like you can't live without that person, you'll be heartbroken. But trust me once you come out from this and move on you'll feel a relief. You'll learn from your mistake and will feel blessed that you're not with that wrong person anymore. I hope to all these girls who suffered, one day you'll find the right person who'll purely love you and will want eternity with you❤the love that you've always dreamed of.
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I've been this kind of relationship like that person just contact you whenever its convenient for him. I was fed up , and silence was my big revenge , No text No calls , totally Nothing .. And have a peaceful mind.
Even I had a relationship, the guy was really good but didn’t have the courage to face my parents or take on my responsibility, may be due to poor economic conditions.. it was me who fought with my parents and whole khaandaan to get me married to him but couldn’t see the same spirit in him..one day he told my friend that “Mai toh keh raha hu uss se ki kahan uske parents keh rahe hain wahan usey kr leni chahiye”.. This sentence was enough to wake me up but I still didn’t accept the fact that he’s taking a back step..isliye it’s better to realise early that if he’s not taking a stand to marry you, he’s never gonna marry you 😄😄
Kabhi relationship mai na rehne ka ghamand hai 🗿💪🏻
@@adarsh_mishra451 😂😂😂badhiya hai.. rehna bhi mat! But kai baar right partner bhi relationship me rehne se hi milta hai..
@@ieshameena7459
Right ya wrong se koi matlab hi nhi mujhe
Bas same caste ki ladki chaiye, that's it,
Average looking bhi hogi to mujhe koi issue nhi hai ,
,but ye relationship mai katwane ka risk mai nhi le skta 😒
If a guy doesn't see any future with you and can easily accept to see you getting married with someone else that means he never loved you
💔💔
I cannot explain how helpful this video was to give me a clarity about my current relationship situation especially when you decide to keep it a secret
Keep it a secret??? R u chutiya??? Abhi k abhi nikl jis bh kachre m ho ap
I my case it's too late for me to watch this vedio... I hope I could get it much earlier... ☹️☹️☹️☹️
Love is not about physical relationship
But it is about how well you physically read each other ❤️
True
No physical relationship, no love. If you aren't gonna get physical, the relationship is completely pointless.
@@CopperSulphate-dx1jyWo kch or bol rhe h or aap smjh kch or rhe ho
yes
@@CopperSulphate-dx1jy If you think that love is all about physical desires then you need some serious help.
Please its my request to not fell for wrong boy he is a boy he wants to use you ... Emotionally physically and mentally will ruined you totally and will leave you with thousands of broken heart pain i mean the pain you can't even manage please if he loves you he will assure you with 💯 percent surelyyyyy please please never settle for bare minimum its clear open your eyes if he is not interested he will surely show you with his actions and you should be courageous enough to accept that he was just attracted and you are the only one who's putting efforts in this relationship that's why it's lasted till then... Please don't settle for it leave him you deserve much better ❤
He already did 😊
Actually correct...
Gurl the truth is all men are same we not gonna get out love bcoz its not exist now if he marry you till also he can divorced you where is love then so enjoy ur life u don't need a man
Full barbaadi.🚩 Hookup culture is messed up.🤣🤣 Old school love>>>>>>>>>>>>
I am old school 💕
Only The Reason is Girls.😂😂
NO LUST COATED LOVE!
ONLY HARE KRISHNA HARE KRISHNA KRISHNA KRISHNA HARE HARE
HARE RAMA HARE RAMA RAMA RAMA RAMA HARE HARE
🥰🙏🏻
@@vedantyadav00hare Krishna 🦚🙏
No. Sometimes not😢
Have been in this. 6 yrs gone. Didnt knew this term. I hope, this term becomes more popular, and people understand this well and dont spoil their life.
che saal???😖💔
All girls should learn from this beautiful short film. Actually, it happens very normally in our society 😮
Glad to be a part of this short film, hope y'all like it ❤
yes we loved this film. It is way more than a moral to us.
@@Ramansh_Bundela u nail it as always ❤️❤️🧿
You were amazing ❤
You are soo cute
Loved your character!❤
Situationship is a 3rd grade idea to celebrate physical intimacy.
Have you ever imagined with single partner throughout the life and exploring each other more and more upto the infinity.
When infinity is felt... that's the Divinity. That is where the love is actually happening within the souls.
Divinity is so precious that not everyone is so fortunate to ATTAIN that level in life and relationship.
For immatures...
Sex is Ejaculation 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm feeling so sad you guys who think Intercourse is Sex...
Sex is known for Copulation not for Just Intercourse.
Par chud@i to Hui na
Nice thoughts..... ❤❤
Is man like u really exist????
@@kansharma cry more most of the girls like toxic men it is true
Hey Divyanshu, thanks!
I have gone through this earlier ! My mental health was …………..! Trauma Still effecting me! Same in this a single words! Is relatable!
Your mistake is also there you should not give your physical self without taking commitment , this generation don't understand commitment and only understand sex and then their heart breaks
More power to you , you are a hero and you will prioritise yourself ❤
even he commit to you in earlier stage, after sometime he will withdraw that. So girls please be patient while choosing your loved one.
Live in relationship ho ya situationship, loss is always girl's
No
Not at all 😒
Yes
Tumlog itna jante ho to karte hi q ho aisa kaam?
That is why girls need to change their mentality by not getting into any kind of relationship before marriage but you different creatures on the planet don't digest the actual truth
Situationship is the most horrible thing😑. Also, the last few lines are so true. Sometimes, we are so scared to be alone... that we settle for bare minimum. And, even if the signs are obvious that someone doesn't loves the way we love them, but still we keep ignoring those signs, thinking, that, maybe one day.. . they will understand... or things will change. But, things never change, until, it comes to a point, where we have to finally accept the reality and leave them.
It happens to my friend in her online friendship
You are totally right💯
Beautifully said ❤
@@Cos7mos thanks 😊
@@Nehakumari-cc3do 😌
1:27 he really plays the role of a caring loyal and good friend very phenomenally and like it suits him very much, the way he explains things ❤...he's cute yarr❤❤
It's 5:27 ig
You are right Priya Darshani ❤
he is a friendzoned guy.. he has no good future for himself.. total waste of energy on others who do not even care for him 😁
to all the girls always tell the guy your dating that ur waiting for marriage and if continues to treat you with love and respect you have found the right person if his attitude changes congrats u found out his true intention
💯
How about not getting involved with a man at all, then? If girls/women have no sexual desires, better just seek love and companionship amongst other girls and women. Even when married, why trade your body to a man for some pretentious love?
I m blessed with a guy jise mai avi bolu avi shadi kr le 🧿🧿
@@janhvisandipkumar2442 happy for u didi
@@atharvakadam571 thanku
Coz of these wrong guys always we ignore that man who really love us
sahi baat hai
The only thing that I want people to listen, if you have even 1% of doubt on your partner, leave him/her immediately. Because your intuitions might be correct, still your mind try to defend your thoughts. I feel people should act maturely before it becomes too late.
You are right but I believe intuitions and mind always indicate us but our heart doesn’t want to accept it/ or admit it to ourselves..
@@ieshameena7459wow😍 you look very beautiful. Is that really you? I mean I can't express your beauty in words. You are looking very similar to actress Tanushree Dutta. Do you know her?
@@BraunStrowman385 😂
u are right but sometimes people get emotional and it is really difficult , i was in that place too , my bf came back after 6 months from breakup and told me that he is sorry and will die , i got so emotional that i forgot he gave me such a hard time ,cheated ,and played with my emotions but because once in past he was my best friend and i had so many beautiful memories ,i was thinking of having him back in my life but thnx to my friends who showed me reality .
@@shambhavimishra8171 It's the worst thing a person can do by showing his/her unreal identity. He is trying to manipulate you. Please be careful with such people.
14:38 proves that your guts never lies..i felt it soo mych everytime bro..your gut and mind warns/ gives you hint after a pnt of time in a reln..but pyaar mya itneh doob jateh hai kii..we ignore them...
Hey girls u r a princess , a warrior, not just for anybody and everybody out there... Be special enough to not give in...
Ye ladki ka jo frnd hta h inke content m sbse samjhdaar h
True 😂😂
Sahi 😂😂😂😂😂
Bilkul
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
A Woman must know her Self Respect & dignity.
😂😂😂😂lol when u love someone truly u will lose ur self respect ❤❤❤
@@shreyashreya1328Nope😂😂
@@pkkkk50if that person is using u for advantages..yes
Upto some extent
No need to know. Have fun at both ends as much as you can
is no one gonna talk about how good they look together... Content Ka keeda you guys are the best
Gen z ko kya pata hoga ki old school love is the true love only.. it's 2024 now but i still miss him..i still get his thought every night before sleeping..i still get to meet him at least in my dreams..🙂
Toh brkup hua hi kyu
Hope you will get ur true love soon.
NO LUST COATED LOVE!
ONLY HARE KRISHNA HARE KRISHNA KRISHNA KRISHNA HARE HARE
HARE RAMA HARE RAMA RAMA RAMA RAMA HARE HARE
🥰🙏🏻
Hare Krishna ❤
May you get your love soon❤
Omg this story is so relatable to me and I know the pain of situationship.. it's bloody hurtful when your partner never choose you and you find him in another relationships and we even can't say anything bcz we never said it before that I want label in that relationship. But, now it's been almost 2 years and now I am happy with my would be husband 💕☺️❤
Actually this is called hook up...
Hook up is sexual intercourse without any commitment and emotional attachment..
It is called prostitution
No its,not@@shreya3087
@@shreya3087no, prostituion me paise dene padte hai yhan hook-up tha
Ajkal ye genz log isko situationship kehte he. Crush he, attraction he but relationship wale efforts nahi dalne
Faltu ka western culture follow kar rahe hai tho im from this generation but ik our generation is fucked up
This video is very good and for those girls who trust any boy and think that it is love They are ready to do anything to make them happy but the boy does not love them, he just wants to play with their body, he does not want to live with them, he just wants to pass time.😊
Meri bhi same story thi . But sach mei mujhe ab ye story dikhne k baad pata chala ki wo relationship nhi tha situationship tha 😊
You are not virgin anymore
😊😊😊😊😊
@@hamelton7709ye to sach kaha apne 😅😅
@@hamelton7709In today's world, no one is a virgin 😅
I'm thankful to god
I got a gentleman
Who cares for my words, sentence, my feelings
Who really love me
I got a💎 gem
Husband h to Acha h warna tooo
Keep him safe❤
@@satavisharakshit yes sis 🤗
❤
😂@@sochloabbiwaqth
That women is MYSELF when I consider my situation. A girl did manipulate me into thinking that she will be choosing me and later didn't; this video is so relatable.
Situationship is the worst type of relationship mental and physical health sb khrb hojati h
Kabhi kisi relationship mai na rehne ka ghamand hai 🗿💪🏻
@@adarsh_mishra451same, bohot accha hai
Even so more when your partner is a Narcissist 🤷
Am I the only one who heard, “then don’t be in DULULU”? 😂
@@who-mad bcs it was
yeah.. it's new term imported from western influencers.. it means don't be delusional
Yeah it's called delulu not dululu😅
Kitna achhe se ldkion ki thinking, situation aur feeling. Ko express kra Hai girls should learn form this story...
Sam is the smartest and the most sensible character here.❤
And single too
My 13 year love is my Husband ❤ and we are Happy with our Relationship 🥰 Thank you God 🙏 🌹 All boys are not same 🚫
#touchwood❤🤲
I have a respect for this person who has such a caring friend
Good massage for this generation 👏🏻
I was also in a situationship in 2023 for 6 months....I was so so confused during that time 😭😣...after that 6 months I got my mental peace back again ...
Same, but i felt that situation when the girl said " oneday he will realize that he loves me or have feelings for me"
I have this type of situationship problem. That time i not realizes. But after 1year i know what is the correct. And i do that.. I remove the fucking situationship relation.. In this time i have lots of peace 😊
Bro i got too i mujhe 2 weeks huye it feel bad but here doing great hope tum thik ho
How??
Omg 😢yrrr its very painful 😢
I am so happy about my recent decisions 😍 .... a friend of one of my guy friend recently asked me to have fun .... and I told him I don't want any kind of relationship or situationship right now ....
But he kept repeating it would be just fun and he doesn't want any kind of relationship either ....
I made it clear I only want and will accept to Normal friend ....
But he kept repeating his words and tried to seduce 🙂 and in turn I told him super childish stories of ghosts and irritated him so much ...
And at last he told me to tell him when I have grown up ...
And he never disturbed me by mssg or calling me again 😂
And after watching this video I am more than certain I did the damn right thing
You tortured him,by telling ghost 👻 stories.😬
@@neerajahirwar9056 yes .....
Just to annoy him 😂 he only wanted timepass and fun ... so I irritated him with my super childish story and he got bored in just 1.30 min 😁 as expected...and never disturbed me again
@@soumili5719 😂👍
@@soumili5719 heyyy can you pls share those super childish stories?? I'm really curious.
@@Tiatiiiiiiia sure 😂 ....
Just a regular one , a guy went to visit in a jungle with friends and he lost them in the jungle ... the guy was alone and it was getting dark sooner ... he tried to get out of the jungle but in vain and decided to sit under a tree....
Though he was super worried about wild animals and creatures and the night fall create strange sounds in atmosphere those are scary ....
The guy was regretting his decision for coming with friends and later he saw some strange shadows walking toward him ...
He was so scared but later it came out these were his lost friends 😂 but he already fained before realizing
Physical relationship is situationship mutual understanding is a true love
👏🏻👏🏻please keep on highlighting this situationship topic......there is so mch awareness needed to b spread on this topic , there r so many cruel people around preying on innocent souls in disguise of a tagless relationship..much appreciated u guys❤❤
Giving real meaning of situation to audience right
Sooooo excitedddd!!!!!!!You make the best short films!!!Love you Content ka keedaaaaaaa!!!
Yes
One geniune advice for all .. samne vale hmesha bebful smjo .. explain each and every thing you want or don't want..
So true. This short film 100% makes sense.
One sided love can't change opposite person's heart ,,, it's true 💔 who is accept it he/she never hurts,,, actually this types changes always show up us in TV serial , movies etc...... We thought it's possible in real life but never happend ... 😢😢😢
💯
It's true
Make a second part as well ❤
That boy should also feel empty from inside.He should understand his mistake.😢
It is never going to happen....A person in a situationship will never realize what he had lost.....
These kind of boys will never admit what they did. They won’t even understand what is his mistake.
Why?! He is not even in fault. He had clarity about his feelings, he wanted only physical relationship without commitment. Why would you want him to feel guilty!!!
Wake up girl!! Never going to happen
Jab situatioship me ho to use realise karana hi kyu hai . Kabhi usne commitment diya. Nahi diya to wo realise bhi kyu kare jab uska pahle se clear tha. It's toltally your fault to faltu ko apne aap ko victim dikhana band karo.
Superb, it's awesome, keep creating such stuffs.
Thank you 😊 👍
True love never demand for physical relationship....!!! 🙏 Please be alert girls🩷
Ap bhi barnwl ho Hamara cast mein ye Western culture nhi Hai...
Chutiyapa paisa khati auraten aur harami red flag mard k saath hi set hoti yeh
True it's better you break the relation than being in it in such circumstances where physical relationship is demanded
Please mention be alert boys also dont need to live in illusion world
👍💯
God sent this to me at right time 🙃
True love and marriage are best❤❤❤.
For all the boys and girls... Who are going to be in a Relationship or who are very new in relationship..
⚫ SET YOUR BOUNDARIES........ very clearly in term of everything.... SET YOUR BOUNDARIES........
◾ So that you won't regret in last ✅
The younger generation’s rush to experience everything early can lead to mistakes, but it’s also part of their learning process. Patience and guidance can help them navigate this phase better.
Rumour -- ladkiya bewafa hoti h
Fact- ladke bewafa hote h
Main khud ladki hu but yaya koi bewafa nahi tha ladki bewkuf thi. Usne kabhi bola hi nahi ki pyar karta hai relationship me hai uska pahle se clear tha. To aap bewkuf ki tarah physical tak ho rahe hai.
Basically bole to insan pe depend krta h gender pe nhi ki woh bewafa h ya nhi...👍 Who is agree??
@@khushimaaheen1737 Offcourse bewafa hona gender based thodi hoga.
This is called... Tu mujhe khuja, Main tujhe khujau...this is the fact. I have been with 4-5 girls in my life till date who were having the same mentality and were having such relationships with boys. Kehne ko bohot kuch hai, lekin koi faayda nahi hai, jisko Jo karna hai, wo wahi karega.@@KanchanYadav-fl1es
Real Fact - Rich ladke bewafa hote h.. kyunki uske pas Options zyada hote h.. ladkiyon ka khawab hota h usse shaadi karna
Situationship mein kaun kaun haazri doh😂😂😂😂....
As a 90's kid I don't know these things
Hamare zamane me to ise cheating kahte hai
Aur hamare zamane me itna khul ke koi nahee deta
10:06 sab kuch karne ke badd ..they aren't in a relationship 😂
Situationship is equals to "leni deni karna"😂
whyy so relatableee...
1:04 - 1:06 I just can't😂. What kind of bye is that lmao
This is very relatable in almost everyone's life for atleast once 😢😢😢
very amazing and very true. sometimes we don't give any label to relation just for fear of losing it and that relation eats up everything.. our secrecy, our self esteem, our precious time, our efforts our energies...
and ends up with regrets
Everyone is talking about what is situationship but no one talking about how to overcome or moveon after the situationship when you got attached to that person...moving on is really a difficult process..
Yes this very discsating situation but if you concentrate on your self and being enclined with God means doing meditates or yoga doing such type of activities that giving you relief and peaceful mind soo you will definitely came out from this situation it's really work please follow this I am facing this type of things but I know tha proces off to came out from this worst situation
It's really worked believe and making you heart heal that you will just came out from this type of situation ship
This situationship can kill our mental health 🙃
Main confuse hu ye situation ship relationship Aur open relationship mai difference kya hota h
Sach iske ware mai kuch nhi pata kyun ki ajiban sanyashi hi banna h par difference kya hota h wese
@subhamsahu5315 situationship is for those people who want deep connection with someone, and they keep on being getting used by someone fulfilling the other's needs only and ignoring one's own mental health. Those are innocent people who keep on sacrificing themselves in situationship.
Open relationship is something in which a person is open to all, available to all for anything including fun and fulfilling needs
I am 25 at 16 i was VERY CLEAR NEVER NEVER TRUST OTHER GIRL THEN MY SISTER I FOLLOWED HER SHE IS SHIELD FOR ME NOTHING CAN HARM ME SHE READY TO TAKE ALL ADVERSE SITUATION OF MY .
Set your boundaries and don't get physical with anyone literally anyone... Know your worth
Smart guys are like Nikhil who understands female psychology and work accordingly to it. High value man don't commit to women so easily .
Wow esne mere akkhe khol diya😊🎉❤ nice too see you
Thanks I needed this 💔
Yes ,A girl should understand first defining honestly making difference between relationship and situation ship before entering in to bond
To avoid harsh consequences
Mujhe mera answer mill gya .... Thanku to make this video 😊❤
Aise videos aur bnao ye ek tarah se awareness bdha rha h jisse public apni problems jisko vo kisise share ni krr paa rhe uske baare m rethink krr paare h solve krr paare h❤ proud of your team and channel 🎉
Not dating ka part 2 kiu nhi bana rhe :(
I'm also waiting for that😢
Is video ke lite content ka Leeds ki maa chod gayi hae😂😂😂
They did not tell they will do 2 part
Excavation
Hame bhi chahiye
The best lesson ever.. keep uploading these kind of lesson based movies 👍👍
girls you are precious don't be a situation with any guy respect yourself
90 % of relationship in which sex is involved doesn't end with marriage because you already gave him that thing he was after you all about, and their acting about good guy ends..🙄🙄🙄
In marraige also it ends vry soon....as women take charge of household .....men keep lady involved in family thn jst turn around.
@@snehvipulkishor7983 it's not that easy now a days , alimony money keeps mens in control. And it's not necessary that you will face this situation in arrange marriage and not in love marriage. And 1 more important thing , maintaining a healthy socal life is also important....
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Wife take responsibilities and hubby enjoying his life.. Wife has no life, only household work, kitchen, office work and other responsibilities thats it.@@snehvipulkishor7983
Right
All I have to say is, always find two sided love, and make sure you feel like 'yes, this boy/girl is the right one' and make sure that you feel loved, loved for real. Then only think that you're in relationship, then only go physical. I am not discriminating girls from boys, but the society has not changed a bit. Virginity and all is still the same in this society, so both girls and boys , be sure about the person is right one. Because you'll never know how that girl will suffer in future just because of society. I feel bad about how our society is. But truth is truth.
❤That's not exist now gurl better to enjoy ur life don't give ur control on anyone
Even I can feel her in my one sided love as well.. 😢💔
Sex without marriage is prostitution. Period. I don't care what you are thinking but it is what it is.
another emotional chomu girl,,! 😂 its ur opinion, maybe it based on some fucking islamic ideology, or pandit ji type influencers, ......but tagging some one as escort or prostitute is not good, sex is basic need, if 2 people [ adult obviously] done consensual intimacy , what harm in this, ? sex is sex ,,,don't make it divine activity, and its good to before enter in marriage .... , 😄
No doubt in that..see Adya's fate..😂
Loved the film... it's so good... Youth should watch this
This is the reality man,uh know ldki sacche dil se jisse pyar kre and agr ldka ni bhi krta h still han boldeta h he always says i like uh instead of i love uh aur hmesha fr hum compromise krne lgte aur unke tympass se bht kuch expect krte and at the end bht buri tarah tootjate
Blind Faith Is Killing
Clarity Is The Key To Any Relationship ❤
It's too much painful for this girl. I want to see this part 2.
Video me 1 year hogaya situationship hoke lekin His friend is wearing the same ear ring from past 1 year🤭😂😂
How can you have sex before marriage i dont understand may be its old school types but i believe in it. A man really wants to marry you will never ask for it.
Correct jo log sadi ke pahle physical hote hain sadi krna ni chahte but Majburi me kr lete hi fir sadi ke bad wife ko chor ke dushron ko dekhte hi
What if he can't do sex properly or impotent. Then also you will be screwed up 😅
Same here. I can't even imagine being physical with someone who is not my husband even if it is gonna be a love marriage for me I will be okay with sex only after marrying my lover.. but people of this generation are like" come on it's just casual sex"🤷. And many call me, outdated, old school and ask me to grow up
Totally correct bro .. same here !
Right beb❤mere jesi tum
You know what, call me old school or whatever you want to! But i date to marry...i always feel like whoever will come into my life that person has to be permanent or else i am ready to live single happily ❤
Same policy:
I date to marry
First give me marriage commitment
If u can't ...get the fuck out of my life
Same ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
This sort movie is also too good 👍😊🎉❤ keep it up
Cantent ka keeda is so perfectionist 😊😊
Love it 😊
Ohh God, again same story, watching this vd all those pain and trauma I felt again, humesha Aisa hi kyu hota hai, kyu logon ko humesha dusre options chahiye, I lost everything behind him, just gathering courage to move on, accept, learn and never repeat it again
Amazing content soo far.. comment section is filled with girls comment I am happy that all girls are getting awareness through this channel.. a huge respect button for this channel.. I also want to watch 2nd part of it I mean boys side of the story how he overcomes and all.. but this video is just has all my respect
Nice story only watching this and commenting this ❤ 8:26
In comment section i am seeing.. most of the comments are about onlyy same situationshipp.. oh my god.. what is going in this societyy.. everyy 3 4th person having same storyy.. likee whyy. The person who is loving beyond limits.. cryingg in a corner.. and that situationship person is enjoying..
Society is doomed
And the worst generation is yet to come 💀
Exactly
@@taniyakumari3795 justt a toxic lifestylee...
Keep your body for your husband not damage yourself before marriage by indulging into pre marital sex
I'm so much excited to see this.