i dont like money i like a niice romantic and kind and loving men if i like money girl mack big mistack some time like men with with money ther rude mean all the time angry some of them i like kind and loving wan iven thay are poor or not to hot i preafure his heart
Speaking as a guy, and one who has been in a similar situation, just to a *much* smaller degree, I can say it's more a feeling of pride and masculinity. The feeling that someone depends on you is a powerful and empowering feeling for some guys.
the idea that a man dont want his woman earning more is best comprehended by females in the analogy that they would not want their husbands looking prettier than they are. similar insecurity based on perceived social value.
+Halimah Jedani The hell :']?? Speak for yourself, you and I are not the same person. I would be *flattered* to have a man who looks prettier than me. Yeesh..
+Gr3gor Sorry you feel that way. Money is a means of exchange - and other "meaning" it has is not real. Society brainwashes men to believe that unless they are "providers" (i.e. earning more than their spouse), they have no value. Same for women in regards to their looks and/or desire/ability to bear children. This perpetual ignorance and gendered bias is the root of so much hatred and unhappiness in our culture. Would you seriously dismiss having a relationship with a smart, successful, attractive woman who actually loves you and respects you, simply because she makes more money (which could change overnight, at any given time, for either of you)? Worth asking WHY it would bother you...
The higher you earn, as a man, the more your dating pool expands. For females, it’s the opposite, the more they earn, the lesser they come across their “types”
@@vasilminkov4046 yes. This is how they do in high society across Europe. I’ve been introduced to “families” from Italy, France, Germany and diplomats from Africa. I married an amazing Tanzanian man. Most families do this if it’s not all. But we live in a society where children listen less to their parents and go dating stubbornly just to prove that it’s their own choice. But it’s still very well the case and I attend to do the same with my children.
These men probably spend their days working amongst aggressive, power hungry, dog eat dog type people. It's safe to say they're not in the mood for it when they get home.
What's the damned point of marrying a millionaire woman? You come home to a dark house, an empty fridge and nothing for dinner. So why would you stupidly narry a woman like that. Rather why not simply hook up on the odd weekend when your schedules meet. This does say a lot about how fn dumb men are. You marry a poor bitch then two years later she takes half of everything. I mean why would any self made man get involved in a long term relationshio with any woman? Better off having close male mates you look after and just look to hook up with a ho now and again then go ghost. This entire society is rigged to destroy you once you marry. You have zero authority and zero say in keeping the marriage together. Once she tires of you it's out the stinking door sweetheart with half if not more of everything you've busted your gut to make. Stinks to high heaven. Lots of moronic beta cuckolded male scum out there.
@@phorn100 Do not be afraid, there is no rich woman who wants to marry you. She wants to marry a man who hires a servant and wants to live in a high economic level. Most of the wealthy women marry a man in her economic level or never marry
@@phorn100 Um idiot, smart rich men know how to HIDE MONEY. A smart rich man worth ten million, tells any propespective partner he is only worth 5 million, and hides the rest.
Not true. I had a broke man as my ex boyfriend, but it did not work out. I gave him all I could but he only took - and only got more comfortable. I was fully in my masculine energy and it made me extremely unhappy just to give. Women are naturally receivers (that the feminine energy…) Women look naturally for a provider, protector and leader. A broke man usually lacks at least 2 of these 3 points.
men have the nerves to tell women they are beautiful and they want to have free sexual intervourse with them, I don't understand why women can't have the nerves to ask men for money and a luxurious lifestyle. Are poor women doomed to live with a poor man and have a crappy lifestyle, and when they try to date a rich guy they face the prejudice that they are gold diggers. Before arranged marriage was common in most western societies, and people were expected to date within their league, the relationship was based on social class. We can see in the book Pride and prejudice how poor Elisabeth was faced prejudice when falling in love with Mr. Darcy, she was insulted by a rich old lady. We can see here a clear example that the word golden diggers were created by bitter rich people, who didn't want their money going outside of their circle. Do you think Elisabeth is a gold digger, one of Jane Austen's most famous characters? Are poor women doomed to die alone, because if they marry a rich dude they face prejudice and people call them golden diggers, and if they marry a poor man they will have a horrible life? Men are supposed to be the family provider, men nowadays are so feminine and irresponsible.
Generally the only types of men who call women gold diggers are broke men who want to date women that they can't can't provide for. And they are the main ones lusting for free sex without investing or having anything to offer that the woman wants. People will talk regardless, just make sure a guy is able to provide what you want if he wants to be with you. Broke and stingy men will always whine and be hypocrites.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Sex is overrated anyways. I've never paid for a woman and gotten sex later and felt like it was a good investment. Having money is way better. So I actually agree with you lol.
I think it's the media that has desensitized us to life. We're shown unrealistic lifestyles in movies and aim to reach that. That's why if you marry because of your money your woman will eventually leave you. Same with looks. Cause once you've bought everything you can you get bored or if it runs out she'll go.
Also, men tend to appreciate inherent qualities in a woman, not what they have. Women, on the other hand, appreciate a man having resources to take care of her, and are willing to overlook his lack of other qualities. Therefor, a rich man can score a higher quality woman, by going outside of the pool of wealthy women, not only expanding his choice of partner, but also being able to trade their wealth for a woman of higher biological quality.
+TheCrazyFinn I value a man with a sense of responsibility and strong work ethic - in other words, LIKE ME. The man I married "takes care of" me through his kindness and thoughtfulness, and vice versa. We have a dynamic life, which means sometimes he pays for things, and sometimes I do, depending on our circumstances. Money has no "real" value. The facts are that I actually have much higher earning power than he does, and your comments are, quite simply, ignorant.
men want beauty, women want money= security, it's pure logic. Men think that women are stupid and fall in love easy, which is a myth, and women who do that have a turbulent life. WOmen need to use their brain when marrying or dating a guy, a date should be like a job interview. Educated women can never connect mentally with an uneducated man, they see things differently. Begin poor men shouldn't be an excuse when you live in a wealthy country, it means your lazy.
I love a guy who is kind and educated but dating a millionaire has always been my dream. I can't stand a broke guy. Or an educated guy who I can't have deep conversations with. Money and brain is my top priority.
@@johnt2795 I look like a mix of Kim kardashian and Angelina Jolie. I sing like Rihanna. And I got the intelligence of Natalie Portman. What I am? If you answer my riddle than, I may tell you.
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I'm that type of woman too. 28 almost and never been kissed. But I've always lived on little but was grateful. I always wondered if I'd meet a millionaire in my life. A man who could shower me with love. Guess I'll have to keep waiting cause I'm saving myself for the man who deserves me.
It's not gold digger nobody is seeking gold. It's called goal digger. The object is to find a man with the highest networth and work on your life's goal. Whether it's to go on that trip to the Maldives, go scubba diving, or start a business. Those are all goals obtained by dating a millionaire. Not gold.🙄
Yes majority of Rich Men prefer poor women(who is attractive for their eyes), because they love to provide things and it gives them satisfaction and happiness 😊.
My sister is the same way. She's making good money and refuses to date men who make less money than her. She even pays to do those internet background checks on them to see their credit score and all that other crap, and even dates men from those datesites that promise partners from higher income brackets. So far all her date stories have been awful and about creepers and weirdos (with money). I think she's going about this "search for happiness" thing the wrong way but, she may get lucky.
If I was a male millionaire, I would absolutely insist on a prenuptial. If 84% of females would expect me to prenup then that's great. I'm really so glad your all so open to the idea of it ;) Id also prefer a self made millionaire woman because she's already proven she's smart enough and we could actually have something in common. Call me weird but I'd hate to either be controlled or control others, that's called a failing relationship IMHO.
I would definitely want more control, and the reason is someone has to be in control or the family will not be stable in the long run ... I think of it like this: -2 people don't drive the car, there is only one driver. -A ship has one captain. -There is one main leader of a given company or organization, it gives the company direction, decisiveness and stability. It's is no different with a family, a stable family need a leader to maintain it and keep it healthy.
You would not have much time to spend with each other. Your kids would be raised by Nannie’s. And personal assistance would be the person who cares for you primarily.
Elementary biology teaches us that when the female searches for a male searches for that male that can be a protector of the family and most important of the children. In the very past the criteria for choosing was physical power. Today however and with modern capitalism power translates into wealth. But this kind of power naturally attracts other females too. Millionaires and billionaires are usually surrounded by unavoidable temptations; heavy temptations which not all men have the self-control to resist. Therefore for a woman who just wants a family and a man to grow old with, seeking wealthy men may not always be the wisest choice.
On Men lol, You have no idea what your talking about. Out of the top 3 Rich Men 2 are well Known Family orientated Men. I bet your clueless why Such Incredibly Rich men would be Such Huge Family orientated men.
On Men lol, You have no idea what your talking about. Out of the top 3 Rich Men 2 are well Known Family orientated Men. I bet your clueless why Such Incredibly Rich men would be Such Huge Family orientated men.
Actually, I would have predicted exactly this result -- except I might have expected a larger percentage of wealthy men wanting a prenup. I think old attitudes about money and masculinity, held by both sexes, is still very much enduring. Women, however poor or wealthy -- don't want to marry men who earn less than they do. In modern society men don't prove their status any more by bringing home bison or killing enemies in battle (at least not on a regular basis). They prove it by bringing home money -- the more money, the more status. And women, on some level, have a certain discomfort at the prospect of marrying a man with a lower status (in terms of income) than they have. And still, in traditional terms, women don't earn their status in the same way that men do -- through this system of competitive status-seeking with money-earning acting as the surrogate for victory in the hunt or in combat. They still earn their status in nurturing, care-giving, supporting roles that seek out equivalence to the roles of "gathering" and mother/child rearing roles that we've inherited from ancient tribal societies. That's not to say that there aren't nurturing men and "Alpha" females -- but let's not kid ourselves. They're in minority and it doesn't seem likely that cultural influences are solely responsible for this. It's taken us generations to accept that sexual preferences are biological. Is it going to take us generations to accept that hierarchical/tribal roles may have a similar basis in biology? That there may be a reason, other than conditioning, why males tend to compete and women tend to cooperate? Why men fight and women talk? And why women want to marry older, higher status men and men want to marry younger, more beautiful women? NMS
If more women start becoming successful then there wouldn't be an imbalance on money. Then rich men would HAVE to have other qualities besides being rich and player
I've dated a few well-off men, and they tend to have this unfounded paranoia that you are only with them for their money. Even if you've got plenty of your own money, insist on paying for half of everything and really don't care for money in general, it doesn't matter, they always think the endgame is you wanting their money. Unfortunately, there's no real way of disproving it, so the relationship ends. Point is, men are way too paranoid about that, it's self destructive, stop it.
The reason men don't care about a woman's money is because she sure as hell is not going to be sharing any of it with him, for the most part, so what value does it have to him except a source of a sure fire trouble spot? Besides, most women who are wealthy got it from divorce, and that means she is out there at it again!
Women who are successful in their careers generally want equality in their partnerships. This preference increases for women as they advance in economic and career success. Financially successful men on the other hand are significantly more likely to want to be dominant (primary breadwinner/patriarch, dependent wife and kids, etc) in their partnerships. These men tend to be status oriented and tend to view dominance and paternalism (and perhaps also control) in a relationship as an additional marker of social status. Individual attitude data coupled with income/education data demonstrates this.
Such a lame dude response. A woman who often has so many more barriers than men to get where she is, guy says is automatically a gold digger for wanting to protect herself into her future. Get rid of the guy jumping to diminish women.
There was another 60 year old study that found that rich men who come from poor background, marry women from low socioeconomic class. But "old money" marries to wealthy women.
poor men also prefer big butts, while rich men prefer model body. I would never date or marry a broke or uneducated man. Im thankful that beauty standards have changed and become more universal.
Angel truth 😂😂 Attraction is the same my dear Money doesn’t change what you find attractive I’ve dated rich men that were utterly inlove with my big butt
Rich men want poor women because poor women are easily impressed by someone who's rich. Rich women want rich men because they want a guy who isn't going to just mooch off of them.
Men who are rich are just instantly more attractive. I'm not trying to be shallow, it's just the truth. Intelligence is attractive, and a high income usually demands high intelligence.
Please, millionaire men want a thin leggy woman, they'd take her if she was a millionaire or non-millionaire. Women are equally shallow, in different ways though
Yup. It's all about control. Always has been, always will. Male millionaires (in general) do not want to date or marry independent and financially secure women, they will lose the control that is so all-important to them. It isn't just financial either, they want financial control in order to completely control the women in their lives. Males (in general, not just millionaire males) are far more willing to date "below their education level", or below their socioeconomic status too, once again, it's about control, not any sense of displaced altruism. Women are the exact opposite, statistically. They tend to want to date and marry within their socioeconomic range and within their education level.
I doubt it's about financial control, men simply seek traits in a woman, like youth, fertility most female millionares don't have, as they are usually over 35.Women, on the other hand, tend to care very much about their potential partners' social status and rarely commit to somebody below their "rank".This widely observed phenomenon is called hypergamy.
Men with the means, don’t want an “independent woman.” We want a partner that we can show the world to, someone we can share our values and ideals with. We want someone to be an amazing mother to our children, supported in our pursuits, help de-stress our lives (this includes her help with our finances), and help take care of us in ways we can’t take care of ourselves. Most men are afraid to say what they ACTUALLY want because they are so tired of rejection that they will literally become what they think the woman wants, but when that happens… he’s no longer what attracted her in the first place. It’s a Catch-22. For me, someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, intelligence, and life wisdom, I don’t want a partner to nag me, question every decision I make, or belittle me. I will honor and respect her, love and protect her, but in exchange for her fidelity, respect, and tender care. A good man with the means simply wants a partner who he knows will be by his side. We will protect you, even to our own death, so the least you can do is to support us. That’s what a “millionaire man” wants. Want to turn them off? Tell them how much of an independent woman you are (translation - you don’t need us), how your failed relationships went (translation - we weren’t your first choice), how you don’t want kids (translation - we won’t have a legacy), how much you can’t stand your parents (translation - you don’t respect any hierarchy at all [marriage is about compromise and hierarchy no matter what]), how many other guys would just looooove to be with you (translation - you won’t be faithful), or … frankly anything where the focus is on you. We will “pretend” to love your shows (maybe we will, but we love you first and care about your interests), give you positive feedback on your dress (we don’t know anything about dresses but we know how important validation is), and wake up for any bump in the night…. Why? Because we love you. We LOVE you. The partner that would give us these things…? We love YOU. You will feel like a Queen because you have made us your King.
Wow! Finally someone with common sense. I can't believe no one else in the comments had said this yet. The vast majority of men just want an attractive, agreeable, loyal wife to grow old with. Yes there are scumbags who lie and cheat, but the overwhelmingly majority just want to live in peace and have a family.
Your translations here are your own interpretations, we as humans are much more complex than that and those translations of yours don't apply to every one or every situation, so speak for yourself, not in general terms. The worlds isn't black or white. I think the easiest way for a man to get all this prise, attention, validation, loyalty, admiration, longevity in a relationship is to be a woman's hero and of course not be a narcissistic prick, it is anti-seductive ;) Learn to self asses and be aware of your own shortcomings, lacks, skills and adjust to keep a balance... Example: if you're butt ugly, perhaps be a better communicator, or increase skills, something that can make women bypass your ugliness, a nice tone of voice, impeccable taste in clothing, rich lexicon, nice teeth... If you're a pain in the neck, become a lot more generous, make it up somehow and try to improve. If you suck as lover, be more open minded, acknowledge the other person's needs whilst trying to improve, give amazing massages... You mentioned you want someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, intelligence... Yet, you contradict yourself with this statement: "Men with the means, don’t want an independent woman.” You also shouldn't speak for others on this regard as i'm sure everybody has different opinions. Please clarify your thoughts, don't generalise unless is statistic fact, and check on yourself, what are the true values you can bring in a relationship beyond tangible. When both people love and care about each other, they'll work in finding common ground, compromises to make eachother happy, they'll learn to listen more and be less defensive, they come from a place of love during disagreements instead of aiming to win an argument, they assume the best of the other unless deceit is written all over their face, they embrace differences instead of condemning, they don't easily give up on eachother.
@@lilifreechannel414 I agree with what you are saying. I didn’t say I want someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, Intelligence. I said, for me (someone who has the aforementioned things), I wouldn’t want someone who does the latter things. The “independent woman” facade is just that. Humans are social, inherently. We can certainly talk about statistics; I’m a physician and live in the realm of hard data and statistics. It’s not a hidden fact that men, in general, do not care about the earnings potential of their partner. We can see this in numerous databases. You’re right; I shouldn’t speak for “everyone.”
As a married millionaire female myself I agree with the prenup thing. When I married my unicorn I made them sign one. If we divorce, our pony children already chose who they want to live with. We have many, so it doesn't really matter. Here in the USMA (United States of My Ass) it's really easy to be a multimillionaire. All I did was fall asleep and then one day when I was pouring cereal I got a paper that told me I was rich. Life is good. MYASSICA
Yes I have seen that alot with beautiful black women the ones that wont date black men interesting the rich white guys like the most beautiful filipnos, black and foreign women
Its the opposite, a lot of black girls went on millionaire forums and complained that most white guys do not want black women, and even a lot of white guys say in their profiles they prefer caucasian, latinas or asians. Same thing for asian men, they are the least requested group in dating sites.
Holy crap, I cant believe this is news to any of them! Shows how little they know about people. And the reason most rich men don't require their woman to be rich, isn't because they want "financial control". Its because most women who make a lot of their own money are homely looking.
Barbara Walters is a perfect example of this. Throughout her entire career she claimed to be a self reliant independent modern woman. Yet everyone one of her husband were rich men. Husband# 1:Robert Henry Katz, a business executive and former Navy lieutenant. Husband # 2:Lee Guber, theatrical producer and theater owner. Husband # 3:Merv Adelson, the CEO of Lorimar Television.
most of them are not even millionaires just liars who trick a young beautiful woman, and if there are millionaires they just see a woman as one night stand, because they only date within their league. I'm curious that why I checked this out.
"Men are this, women are that. Men want this, women want that. Poor men want this, rich men want that" Pathetic. Please, continue to divide us into smaller and smaller groups, each with its own rights and privileges, that's super helpful to every unique individual in America, to be categorized, classified, and defined as members of groups with different rights, rules, etc. That sure is SMART!
The funny thing is, the rich guys that are interested in rich women, are interested in them because they think they'll care less about their money (because they're rich.), so they'll be liked for who they are rather than the size of their wallet. But as it turns out the rich women care even more about their mans money... So if you're a rich guy wanting to be liked solely for your physical appearance and personality, you're basically screwed. Quite tragic really.
The man knows what he is talking about. It goes back to a mans natural instinct of wanting to provide for a women. No man regardless of his status wants to feel less than a man because a women is waving her paycheck in his face which is what a lot of women with feminist tendencies will do! The women once she has money becomes completley oblivious to a man's ego and how he may feel. At the end of the day I want my husband to make more money than me.
You don't need to get married to have the love and commitment. If you have to get married to have that, maybe you shouldn't be together in the first place. Also, if you married a someone who trusted you, invested their security in you, would you be ok with just kicking them out on the street with nothing? Isn't that also ruining someones life? You'd have to be a cruel bastard to do that to someone you once loved.
Labeling this as research is a bit of an insult to actual peer reviewed research. You admitted yourself in the first minute that you dont know whether this is reliable, or even that the people polled were millionaires.
It's kind of complicated, most of my pretty friends are nervous around rich man , they are afraid that they may think less of them of a gold dogger. So they don't date one ,I realised they got a delicate personality too.
The irony is that those women who'll only accept succesful millionaires as their mates are probably the same ones wondering "where have all the good men gone?". lol
I think it's the other way around, Ana. The problem isn't with the millionaire men it's with the millionaire women because men aren't sexually attracted to money but many women are. Which explains the statistics.
I addressed this in my other (just 10 seconds ago) comment. In my mind, if there is any exchange of sexuality or beauty, for wealth or asset, then a transaction has taken place. Maybe it's just the wording that we are debating. Again, there are so few relationships where such an exchange of sexuality for resources has not occurred in any way. Im not even saying there is an issue with this, I think it's actually unavoidable and doesn't stop beautiful relationships existing.
Being wealthy and self made does not equate to over compensating. There are plenty of wealthy people who are the whole package and financial control is not on their checklist.
Thanks! I'm not a 1%'er but I'm doing very well in my career/life and these people KILL ME with their jealous opinions. When they talk about 'the rich', the clips should be 5 seconds long, and they should simply say "I'm jealous". Ana can have as many opinions as she wants, she's a woman and they would die if their minds weren't able to change every 5 seconds. However, John makes me CRAZZZZYYYYY!!!! Nothing worse than a man with no balls. Thanks for the comment! ;-) Happy trails brother!
They're alluding that psychologically and maybe subconsciously, big breast have the ability to "feed the family" and provide the nourishment if survival is threatened or during hard times. Where as smaller breast psychologically say there's no need to rely upon feeding off of the woman because the resources for survival are there in abundance. Smaller breasts force the man to be the survival mechanism rather than the woman. Think of the saying "queens don't cook." A queen is not a domestic. Curvier bodies have always been considered maternal and associated with nourishment and comfort, while slender tall physiques have always been considered regal and associated with royalty and monarchy.
No man can give me what I want... I have a high and expensive taste, I like to leave in luxury.. I am a libra woman the empress who love to leave like a queen.....
"If anti-feminist is anti-woman, wouldn't that mean feminist is anti-man?" No, it wouldn't. Unless we assume that being pro-women also means being anti-men. If anti-feminist is anti-women, feminist is pro-women.
Sounds like the typical dynamic actually. Women look for status, preferably wealthy men who will provide for them. Men don't care about that, they care about looks and kindness. You see this same dynamic in other primates as well - females care about status, males care about looks (including age of course) and kindness. I don't see any reason to believe it has to do with men 'controlling' the woman he's with. It's much more likely that they are like all other primates and don't give a damn about wealth and status.
Men like to make women happy and we like to make them smile, and giving a woman an expensive gift would make a woman without money happy, to where a woman with money would be like, ehh its ok. It makes us men feel good to give the woman we love the world, and if the woman already has the world, that takes away that feeling.
I dont wanna be a millionare,i wanna be with a millionare men having a family. This doesnt mean I am being lazy or so, but the thing ia I wanna be an academician and neurologist and money isnt something meant to be I should focus on.
Lets put this in perspective. To be a millionare you only need a million dollars worth of anything. If you got you hose in the sixties, it was probably pretty cheap, but could be worth a million now, depending on location. I geass I'm saying that being a millionare ain't what it used to be. (Not that I would know from direct experience.)
"The men want financial control..." yeah, but Ana, you're the one who wants to date the millionaire, solely for the fact that they're a millionaire. They worked for the money, so it's theirs. In fact, it's equal trade.
I'd say on average this is pretty true though there are different ways to make someone feel secure. My boyfriend is poor, but he's also very caring and likes to listen to me which does make me feel more secure in our relationship. I also do like to spoil him some, but maybe I'm just an odd gal. :)
I hope you look like a goddess for calling her semi average ,plus what is wrong in being divorced? You bring out all those adjectives to describe her in order to make yourself feel great. You probably aren't worth a cent.
...have you seen the rich women on millionaire matchmaker? Granted, it's likely from plastic surgery, personal trainers, and dental veneers, but most of them look like supermodels.
Unsure how the psychology works, but it is true that I would also feel a bit uneasy dating someone who makes less money than I do. The reasons I could think of is that I don’t have to worry about hurting his pride or feelings when we talk about money and that I would also want to look up to my man as a dependable provider who has more resources than me. Just speaking for myself. However, I have no issue dating man who makes less at the moment but has the clear potential and skills to make more money down the line.
The reason %84.5 of female millionaires choose to date a rich counterpart is because, regardless of how successful they are, they still want a man to take care of them. What was also stated was these women are protective of their money and often want a prenuptial agreement. Meanwhile, society and these women are perfectly fine with a man taking care of them and paying all the bills and would be insulted if he asked for a prenuptial agreement from them.
Compared to 2 decades ago, there is an increase in women between the ages of 19 and 32 who want to get married as compared to a decrease in men in that same age range. So demand for marriage is really coming from women. Regardless of your beliefs (and I take your word on not wanting marriage), most women we date want it. Believing that someone should be willing to put up 50% of their money for "love" is inspiring, but the fact of the matter remains that men are predominantly expected to do so.
I disagree that rich men's preference in females is based on financial control. The majority choice tends to restore the beneficent provider head of household that all alpha males strive for.
Even if males are not planning to have children that still doesn't dismiss the fact that males are genetically predisposed to find younger females more attractive than older females.
I think you will find that the women with less money who men are looking for, are more young and attractive than they are. So it balances out. Likewise millionaire women bring their physical beauty to the table, in addition to money. Hence why they have the luxury of saying "I'm not willing to marry down". Even if men said "I'd like to marry up" (which they generally don't), its not something that women are into.
this has nothing to do with rights; some people are rich, some poor, some men, some women, some white, some black etc. No one said anything about these people not having equal rights. But they are different and that should be acknowledged when studying them.
Many can have their opinion on this topic, but as a successful man, it is my opinion that the majority of male millionaires prefer a non-rich counterpart NOT for the purpose of controlling them, but because of the simplicity many of them bring to the relationship. A non-rich woman can become what the man needs in his life easier than a rich one. Meaning, she can offer him a simpler and peaceful lifestyle, multiple children (since her lifestyle may not be as highly driven), and is able to physically relocate to different parts of the world a lot easier than a highly competitive, corporate, income driven female millionaire would. Also, many successful women had to adopt a masculine, alpha male personality in order to compete with others to become wealthy in the first place. Most successful men don't want to partner with such a woman because two alpha personalities may not mesh well together. In addition, most driven men want to leave the stress, drive, and competitiveness of the business world out of the home. They want to come home to a peaceful woman untainted with pressures of the outside world.
I don't know why Ana is getting so much hate. Mate selection, such as Life, is not fair. Of course women are going to prefer a rich guy. Of course men are going to prefer a nurturing woman with big breasts. There are people that are different but this is the basic mate standard. You all sound like you wish to rewire the human brain, lol. Don't be mad if you don't fit the standard.
Women like money, men like beauty. Its normal
human man but their beauty doesn't last long.. women age faster and some also loose fertility at 40.
Ali Altaf men can also loose money with a wrong decision
@@alialtaf3412 intense skincare routine would suffice
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i dont like money i like a niice romantic and kind and loving men if i like money girl mack big mistack some time like men with with money ther rude mean all the time angry some of them
i like kind and loving wan iven thay are poor or not to hot i preafure his heart
Some men just want to take care of a woman and spoil her to death.
The best of Maya yup
The best of Maya yes that truth and I m kind of that you man you talking about
Where can I meet a man like that. Been thru a lot gave away a lot of myself and was not Appreciate.
If you know any of these saints please let me know.
Donald Wood I wish I could find one
Speaking as a guy, and one who has been in a similar situation, just to a *much* smaller degree, I can say it's more a feeling of pride and masculinity. The feeling that someone depends on you is a powerful and empowering feeling for some guys.
+BioLegacy141 Precisely - entirely ego-centric, and not at all born of love (especially for oneself). Extremely unhealthy relationship dynamic.
Aletheia shutcho goofy ass up
Alethia its nature darling. Men were born to be providers and protectors. FACTS
And that doesnt stop a woman from earning to provide for herself..
You're turning me on
Its true, because its natural for men to be heros. Men who are femine want masculine women because they are looking for what they lack
the idea that a man dont want his woman earning more is best comprehended by females in the analogy that they would not want their husbands looking prettier than they are.
similar insecurity based on perceived social value.
+Halimah Jedani
The hell :']?? Speak for yourself, you and I are not the same person. I would be *flattered* to have a man who looks prettier than me. Yeesh..
+Gr3gor Sorry you feel that way. Money is a means of exchange - and other "meaning" it has is not real. Society brainwashes men to believe that unless they are "providers" (i.e. earning more than their spouse), they have no value. Same for women in regards to their looks and/or desire/ability to bear children. This perpetual ignorance and gendered bias is the root of so much hatred and unhappiness in our culture. Would you seriously dismiss having a relationship with a smart, successful, attractive woman who actually loves you and respects you, simply because she makes more money (which could change overnight, at any given time, for either of you)? Worth asking WHY it would bother you...
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Halimah Jedani....Hey there
The higher you earn, as a man, the more your dating pool expands. For females, it’s the opposite, the more they earn, the lesser they come across their “types”
You forgot that some of them do not even need to date. They are introduce by their family. This was my case ;-)
Cuz women like money more than males. What woman will waste her time loving a male?
@@chloewinfrey You are saying that you are from rich family and they married you to a guy of other rich family? (WOW)
@@vasilminkov4046 yes. This is how they do in high society across Europe. I’ve been introduced to “families” from Italy, France, Germany and diplomats from Africa. I married an amazing Tanzanian man. Most families do this if it’s not all. But we live in a society where children listen less to their parents and go dating stubbornly just to prove that it’s their own choice. But it’s still very well the case and I attend to do the same with my children.
They often marry within class
These men probably spend their days working amongst aggressive, power hungry, dog eat dog type people. It's safe to say they're not in the mood for it when they get home.
A millionaire man doesn't like to date a millionaire woman because there is too much competition in that sense.he prefers to be in total control.
What's the damned point of marrying a millionaire woman? You come home to a dark house, an empty fridge and nothing for dinner. So why would you stupidly narry a woman like that. Rather why not simply hook up on the odd weekend when your schedules meet. This does say a lot about how fn dumb men are. You marry a poor bitch then two years later she takes half of everything. I mean why would any self made man get involved in a long term relationshio with any woman? Better off having close male mates you look after and just look to hook up with a ho now and again then go ghost. This entire society is rigged to destroy you once you marry. You have zero authority and zero say in keeping the marriage together. Once she tires of you it's out the stinking door sweetheart with half if not more of everything you've busted your gut to make. Stinks to high heaven. Lots of moronic beta cuckolded male scum out there.
@@phorn100 . It makes me sad because I want to have my own millions but what if I can't find love like you said. I hope most guys don't think like you
@@unolowmanta7508 if you rich can hire a maid
@@phorn100 Do not be afraid, there is no rich woman who wants to marry you. She wants to marry a man who hires a servant and wants to live in a high economic level. Most of the wealthy women marry a man in her economic level or never marry
@@phorn100 Um idiot, smart rich men know how to HIDE MONEY. A smart rich man worth ten million, tells any propespective partner he is only worth 5 million, and hides the rest.
a rich man will change a broke woman's life but a rich woman will never look at a poor man's way
Not true. I'm a BW and I've dated BM and I've always seemed to make more. I stay with a car and a home. So....
Lyie
Not true. I had a broke man as my ex boyfriend, but it did not work out. I gave him all I could but he only took - and only got more comfortable. I was fully in my masculine energy and it made me extremely unhappy just to give. Women are naturally receivers (that the feminine energy…)
Women look naturally for a provider, protector and leader. A broke man usually lacks at least 2 of these 3 points.
men have the nerves to tell women they are beautiful and they want to have free sexual intervourse with them, I don't understand why women can't have the nerves to ask men for money and a luxurious lifestyle. Are poor women doomed to live with a poor man and have a crappy lifestyle, and when they try to date a rich guy they face the prejudice that they are gold diggers.
Before arranged marriage was common in most western societies, and people were expected to date within their league, the relationship was based on social class. We can see in the book Pride and prejudice how poor Elisabeth was faced prejudice when falling in love with Mr. Darcy, she was insulted by a rich old lady. We can see here a clear example that the word golden diggers were created by bitter rich people, who didn't want their money going outside of their circle. Do you think Elisabeth is a gold digger, one of Jane Austen's most famous characters? Are poor women doomed to die alone, because if they marry a rich dude they face prejudice and people call them golden diggers, and if they marry a poor man they will have a horrible life?
Men are supposed to be the family provider, men nowadays are so feminine and irresponsible.
Generally the only types of men who call women gold diggers are broke men who want to date women that they can't can't provide for. And they are the main ones lusting for free sex without investing or having anything to offer that the woman wants. People will talk regardless, just make sure a guy is able to provide what you want if he wants to be with you. Broke and stingy men will always whine and be hypocrites.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Sex is overrated anyways. I've never paid for a woman and gotten sex later and felt like it was a good investment. Having money is way better. So I actually agree with you lol.
@@matthewh6474 Praise Jesus. I'm not even christian but you made a smart remark.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 So true, finally someone with sense.
I think it's the media that has desensitized us to life. We're shown unrealistic lifestyles in movies and aim to reach that. That's why if you marry because of your money your woman will eventually leave you. Same with looks. Cause once you've bought everything you can you get bored or if it runs out she'll go.
Also, men tend to appreciate inherent qualities in a woman, not what they have. Women, on the other hand, appreciate a man having resources to take care of her, and are willing to overlook his lack of other qualities. Therefor, a rich man can score a higher quality woman, by going outside of the pool of wealthy women, not only expanding his choice of partner, but also being able to trade their wealth for a woman of higher biological quality.
+TheCrazyFinn I value a man with a sense of responsibility and strong work ethic - in other words, LIKE ME. The man I married "takes care of" me through his kindness and thoughtfulness, and vice versa. We have a dynamic life, which means sometimes he pays for things, and sometimes I do, depending on our circumstances. Money has no "real" value. The facts are that I actually have much higher earning power than he does, and your comments are, quite simply, ignorant.
men want beauty, women want money= security, it's pure logic. Men think that women are stupid and fall in love easy, which is a myth, and women who do that have a turbulent life. WOmen need to use their brain when marrying or dating a guy, a date should be like a job interview. Educated women can never connect mentally with an uneducated man, they see things differently. Begin poor men shouldn't be an excuse when you live in a wealthy country, it means your lazy.
I LOVE MY MILLONAIRE!! HE is Self Made and I LOVE HIM!! HE LOVES ME and I met him in HIGHSCOOL!! I was his Sweetheart Date! and I STILL AM!
I love a guy who is kind and educated but dating a millionaire has always been my dream. I can't stand a broke guy. Or an educated guy who I can't have deep conversations with. Money and brain is my top priority.
Angel truth hell yeah. Got w my girl when I was broke... I’m on the grind with something really promising. Gonna spoil her when I’ve got my millions
@@PoisonelleMisty4311 do you have beauty honey🤣🤣 what's your age and weight.
@@johnt2795 I look like a mix of Kim kardashian and Angelina Jolie. I sing like Rihanna. And I got the intelligence of Natalie Portman. What I am? If you answer my riddle than, I may tell you.
@@PoisonelleMisty4311 damn this is true then you are qualified for a millionaire.thankyou
Now I ain't saying she a gold digger
***** But she ain't messin with a broke nigga
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The rich man wants the young woman of innocence and one who they can train and provide for them.......
And there is nothing wrong with that. Don't be a feminist
I never said there was something wrong with this you analysis.......?
I'm that type of woman too. 28 almost and never been kissed. But I've always lived on little but was grateful. I always wondered if I'd meet a millionaire in my life. A man who could shower me with love. Guess I'll have to keep waiting cause I'm saving myself for the man who deserves me.
+Rhonda Jenkins il take care of you
lets be honest rich men want a woman who's always willing to you know what
Men are loving and generous.
+ignfan4life Lol can't tell if it's sarcasm or not
The comment was made so long ago that I don't even remember making it. However, I rewatched the vid and think my statement was pretty accurate.
@@ignfan4life well that's who I am and I'm waiting for my rich woman to come to me so I can give her all my 😍😍😍
@@ignfan4life most likely never going to happen so I'm going to be a loner for life😂🤣😂🤣
Depends on the man.
It's not gold digger nobody is seeking gold. It's called goal digger. The object is to find a man with the highest networth and work on your life's goal. Whether it's to go on that trip to the Maldives, go scubba diving, or start a business. Those are all goals obtained by dating a millionaire. Not gold.🙄
How could going ‘scubba’ diving be a life goal... guess some people have pretty low ambitions
Yes majority of Rich Men prefer poor women(who is attractive for their eyes), because they love to provide things and it gives them satisfaction and happiness 😊.
Maldives are Jew haters why are you supporting those killers.
I've noticed a lot of rich men marry black women.
I've noticed that too.
Really? That's an interesting observation..
Not really
@@CircumstancesNeverMatter ...who, what, and where?
@@kassimmatt1211 you wouldn't know. Rich men don't think like losers
My sister is the same way. She's making good money and refuses to date men who make less money than her. She even pays to do those internet background checks on them to see their credit score and all that other crap, and even dates men from those datesites that promise partners from higher income brackets. So far all her date stories have been awful and about creepers and weirdos (with money). I think she's going about this "search for happiness" thing the wrong way but, she may get lucky.
I do not blame her
Women allways looks up. Never down. Men just love women. Ugly, poor, old, fat, skinny, short, tall... We just fall in love
She should contact Some MATCHMAKERS agencies. They better filter the rich applicants and introduce her to those whom she's compatible with...
She should go to rich single events and mingle with other rich men.
If I was a male millionaire, I would absolutely insist on a prenuptial.
If 84% of females would expect me to prenup then that's great.
I'm really so glad your all so open to the idea of it ;)
Id also prefer a self made millionaire woman because she's already proven she's smart enough and we could actually have something in common.
Call me weird but I'd hate to either be controlled or control others, that's called a failing relationship IMHO.
I would definitely want more control, and the reason is someone has to be in control or the family will not be stable in the long run ...
I think of it like this:
-2 people don't drive the car, there is only one driver.
-A ship has one captain.
-There is one main leader of a given company or organization, it gives the company direction, decisiveness and stability.
It's is no different with a family, a stable family need a leader to maintain it and keep it healthy.
And that's why you are not a millionaire 😂😥
@@lagoonablue144 brokie is mad
You would not have much time to spend with each other. Your kids would be raised by Nannie’s. And personal assistance would be the person who cares for you primarily.
Nice!
Elementary biology teaches us that when the female searches for a male searches for that male that can be a protector of the family and most important of the children. In the very past the criteria for choosing was physical power. Today however and with modern capitalism power translates into wealth. But this kind of power naturally attracts other females too. Millionaires and billionaires are usually surrounded by unavoidable temptations; heavy temptations which not all men have the self-control to resist. Therefore for a woman who just wants a family and a man to grow old with, seeking wealthy men may not always be the wisest choice.
They become greedy and want it all
On Men lol, You have no idea what your talking about. Out of the top 3 Rich Men 2 are well Known Family orientated Men. I bet your clueless why Such Incredibly Rich men would be Such Huge Family orientated men.
On Men lol, You have no idea what your talking about. Out of the top 3 Rich Men 2 are well Known Family orientated Men. I bet your clueless why Such Incredibly Rich men would be Such Huge Family orientated men.
Nestor Gonzalez you're cool Nestor
¿"Therefore for a woman who just wants a family and a man to grow old with, seeking wealthy men may not always be the wisest choice."? Al contrario.
Actually, I would have predicted exactly this result -- except I might have expected a larger percentage of wealthy men wanting a prenup.
I think old attitudes about money and masculinity, held by both sexes, is still very much enduring. Women, however poor or wealthy -- don't want to marry men who earn less than they do. In modern society men don't prove their status any more by bringing home bison or killing enemies in battle (at least not on a regular basis). They prove it by bringing home money -- the more money, the more status. And women, on some level, have a certain discomfort at the prospect of marrying a man with a lower status (in terms of income) than they have.
And still, in traditional terms, women don't earn their status in the same way that men do -- through this system of competitive status-seeking with money-earning acting as the surrogate for victory in the hunt or in combat.
They still earn their status in nurturing, care-giving, supporting roles that seek out equivalence to the roles of "gathering" and mother/child rearing roles that we've inherited from ancient tribal societies.
That's not to say that there aren't nurturing men and "Alpha" females -- but let's not kid ourselves. They're in minority and it doesn't seem likely that cultural influences are solely responsible for this.
It's taken us generations to accept that sexual preferences are biological. Is it going to take us generations to accept that hierarchical/tribal roles may have a similar basis in biology? That there may be a reason, other than conditioning, why males tend to compete and women tend to cooperate? Why men fight and women talk?
And why women want to marry older, higher status men and men want to marry younger, more beautiful women?
NMS
I'm a thousandaire briefly every two weeks. Then I pay the rent and I'm broke again :P
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Theres also the factor that men feel threaten by successful women.
If more women start becoming successful then there wouldn't be an imbalance on money. Then rich men would HAVE to have other qualities besides being rich and player
I've dated a few well-off men, and they tend to have this unfounded paranoia that you are only with them for their money. Even if you've got plenty of your own money, insist on paying for half of everything and really don't care for money in general, it doesn't matter, they always think the endgame is you wanting their money. Unfortunately, there's no real way of disproving it, so the relationship ends. Point is, men are way too paranoid about that, it's self destructive, stop it.
The reason men don't care about a woman's money is because she sure as hell is not going to be sharing any of it with him, for the most part, so what value does it have to him except a source of a sure fire trouble spot? Besides, most women who are wealthy got it from divorce, and that means she is out there at it again!
He did not like you enough
In evwry right they r.
Its not unfounded when 80% of women initiqted divorce and take half of his shit
Its totally logical
Millionaire Women want millionaire cuz only a millionaire know her real worth how hard she had got there..
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Women who are successful in their careers generally want equality in their partnerships. This preference increases for women as they advance in economic and career success. Financially successful men on the other hand are significantly more likely to want to be dominant (primary breadwinner/patriarch, dependent wife and kids, etc) in their partnerships. These men tend to be status oriented and tend to view dominance and paternalism (and perhaps also control) in a relationship as an additional marker of social status. Individual attitude data coupled with income/education data demonstrates this.
there's 5 millionaires and 14,995 women trying to date them.
Men like the 'jiggle physics'.
Women like the money.
That's as simple as it gets.
Yeah. I remember a poem saying 'the heart asks more than life can give'. I always remind myself of that when I despair at how unperfect the world is.
Such a lame dude response. A woman who often has so many more barriers than men to get where she is, guy says is automatically a gold digger for wanting to protect herself into her future. Get rid of the guy jumping to diminish women.
There was another 60 year old study that found that rich men who come from poor background, marry women from low socioeconomic class. But "old money" marries to wealthy women.
poor men also prefer big butts, while rich men prefer model body. I would never date or marry a broke or uneducated man. Im thankful that beauty standards have changed and become more universal.
Angel truth........ Hey there
Angel truth 😂😂
Attraction is the same my dear
Money doesn’t change what you find attractive
I’ve dated rich men that were utterly inlove with my big butt
I mean,if ur pretty ur pretty!
@@Karpahid00 i have a picture of w cat, how do you know I'm pretty.
@@cheapishlyexpensive3476 i think your right dear
Rich men want poor women because poor women are easily impressed by someone who's rich. Rich women want rich men because they want a guy who isn't going to just mooch off of them.
conclusion=money buy rich women too
Men who are rich are just instantly more attractive. I'm not trying to be shallow, it's just the truth. Intelligence is attractive, and a high income usually demands high intelligence.
I MUST BECOME RICH!
Please, millionaire men want a thin leggy woman, they'd take her if she was a millionaire or non-millionaire. Women are equally shallow, in different ways though
Yup. It's all about control. Always has been, always will. Male millionaires (in general) do not want to date or marry independent and financially secure women, they will lose the control that is so all-important to them. It isn't just financial either, they want financial control in order to completely control the women in their lives. Males (in general, not just millionaire males) are far more willing to date "below their education level", or below their socioeconomic status too, once again, it's about control, not any sense of displaced altruism. Women are the exact opposite, statistically. They tend to want to date and marry within their socioeconomic range and within their education level.
I honestly thought millionaires went for younger women because
1. Their looks
2. Way easier to control
I doubt it's about financial control, men simply seek traits in a woman, like youth, fertility most female millionares don't have, as they are usually over 35.Women, on the other hand, tend to care very much about their potential partners' social status and rarely commit to somebody below their "rank".This widely observed phenomenon is called hypergamy.
Men with the means, don’t want an “independent woman.” We want a partner that we can show the world to, someone we can share our values and ideals with. We want someone to be an amazing mother to our children, supported in our pursuits, help de-stress our lives (this includes her help with our finances), and help take care of us in ways we can’t take care of ourselves. Most men are afraid to say what they ACTUALLY want because they are so tired of rejection that they will literally become what they think the woman wants, but when that happens… he’s no longer what attracted her in the first place. It’s a Catch-22.
For me, someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, intelligence, and life wisdom, I don’t want a partner to nag me, question every decision I make, or belittle me. I will honor and respect her, love and protect her, but in exchange for her fidelity, respect, and tender care. A good man with the means simply wants a partner who he knows will be by his side. We will protect you, even to our own death, so the least you can do is to support us. That’s what a “millionaire man” wants.
Want to turn them off? Tell them how much of an independent woman you are (translation - you don’t need us), how your failed relationships went (translation - we weren’t your first choice), how you don’t want kids (translation - we won’t have a legacy), how much you can’t stand your parents (translation - you don’t respect any hierarchy at all [marriage is about compromise and hierarchy no matter what]), how many other guys would just looooove to be with you (translation - you won’t be faithful), or … frankly anything where the focus is on you. We will “pretend” to love your shows (maybe we will, but we love you first and care about your interests), give you positive feedback on your dress (we don’t know anything about dresses but we know how important validation is), and wake up for any bump in the night…. Why? Because we love you. We LOVE you. The partner that would give us these things…? We love YOU. You will feel like a Queen because you have made us your King.
Wow! Finally someone with common sense. I can't believe no one else in the comments had said this yet. The vast majority of men just want an attractive, agreeable, loyal wife to grow old with. Yes there are scumbags who lie and cheat, but the overwhelmingly majority just want to live in peace and have a family.
Your translations here are your own interpretations, we as humans are much more complex than that and those translations of yours don't apply to every one or every situation, so speak for yourself, not in general terms. The worlds isn't black or white. I think the easiest way for a man to get all this prise, attention, validation, loyalty, admiration, longevity in a relationship is to be a woman's hero and of course not be a narcissistic prick, it is anti-seductive ;)
Learn to self asses and be aware of your own shortcomings, lacks, skills and adjust to keep a balance...
Example: if you're butt ugly, perhaps be a better communicator, or increase skills, something that can make women bypass your ugliness, a nice tone of voice, impeccable taste in clothing, rich lexicon, nice teeth...
If you're a pain in the neck, become a lot more generous, make it up somehow and try to improve.
If you suck as lover, be more open minded, acknowledge the other person's needs whilst trying to improve, give amazing massages...
You mentioned you want someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, intelligence... Yet, you contradict yourself with this statement: "Men with the means, don’t want an independent woman.”
You also shouldn't speak for others on this regard as i'm sure everybody has different opinions.
Please clarify your thoughts, don't generalise unless is statistic fact, and check on yourself, what are the true values you can bring in a relationship beyond tangible.
When both people love and care about each other, they'll work in finding common ground, compromises to make eachother happy, they'll learn to listen more and be less defensive, they come from a place of love during disagreements instead of aiming to win an argument, they assume the best of the other unless deceit is written all over their face, they embrace differences instead of condemning, they don't easily give up on eachother.
@@lilifreechannel414 I agree with what you are saying.
I didn’t say I want someone with a good job, decent net worth, drive, Intelligence. I said, for me (someone who has the aforementioned things), I wouldn’t want someone who does the latter things. The “independent woman” facade is just that. Humans are social, inherently.
We can certainly talk about statistics; I’m a physician and live in the realm of hard data and statistics. It’s not a hidden fact that men, in general, do not care about the earnings potential of their partner. We can see this in numerous databases. You’re right; I shouldn’t speak for “everyone.”
@@Anonymous92838 I consider myself blessed, not “rich and wealthy.” I live well below my means because I work to live, not live to work.
As a married millionaire female myself I agree with the prenup thing. When I married my unicorn I made them sign one. If we divorce, our pony children already chose who they want to live with. We have many, so it doesn't really matter. Here in the USMA (United States of My Ass) it's really easy to be a multimillionaire. All I did was fall asleep and then one day when I was pouring cereal I got a paper that told me I was rich. Life is good. MYASSICA
Just what millionaire is so desperate to go to a web site. I'm rich and can't get a date.
the interesting part is he answers his own question and then feels Baffle About what goes on in men's mind, said the Man.
He's not a man.
they left out the fact that a lot of these rich white male billionaires also seem to have a preference for black women
Yes I have seen that alot with beautiful black women the ones that wont date black men interesting the rich white guys like the most beautiful filipnos, black and foreign women
introvertsrulethisworld pathetic...untrue. my dad married 2 whites 1 black....he loved them for whatever he loved them for.
Its the opposite, a lot of black girls went on millionaire forums and complained that most white guys do not want black women, and even a lot of white guys say in their profiles they prefer caucasian, latinas or asians. Same thing for asian men, they are the least requested group in dating sites.
Yes very true I only dated wealthy men and married a millionaire
They like to race play and hv a domme at home frfr
I love that everyone on the show is getting better :) Great to see these folks evolving in their chosen fields.
Holy crap, I cant believe this is news to any of them! Shows how little they know about people. And the reason most rich men don't require their woman to be rich, isn't because they want "financial control". Its because most women who make a lot of their own money are homely looking.
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Barbara Walters is a perfect example of this. Throughout her entire career she claimed to be a self reliant independent modern woman. Yet everyone one of her husband were rich men.
Husband# 1:Robert Henry Katz, a business executive and former Navy lieutenant.
Husband # 2:Lee Guber, theatrical producer and theater owner.
Husband # 3:Merv Adelson, the CEO of Lorimar Television.
Successful, secure, and confident women will date millionaire men because they are not afraid of other people will think less of them.
money talks and bullshit walks. that's just the way it is is most cases.
it seems strange to me that millionaires would be using dating sites...
most of them are not even millionaires just liars who trick a young beautiful woman, and if there are millionaires they just see a woman as one night stand, because they only date within their league. I'm curious that why I checked this out.
One rich man tend to have many women as he wants. Rich man can take care of five women’s regardless of marital status. That’s the fact.
"Men are this, women are that. Men want this, women want that. Poor men want this, rich men want that"
Pathetic. Please, continue to divide us into smaller and smaller groups, each with its own rights and privileges, that's super helpful to every unique individual in America, to be categorized, classified, and defined as members of groups with different rights, rules, etc. That sure is SMART!
The funny thing is, the rich guys that are interested in rich women, are interested in them because they think they'll care less about their money (because they're rich.), so they'll be liked for who they are rather than the size of their wallet.
But as it turns out the rich women care even more about their mans money...
So if you're a rich guy wanting to be liked solely for your physical appearance and personality, you're basically screwed.
Quite tragic really.
The man knows what he is talking about. It goes back to a mans natural instinct of wanting to provide for a women. No man regardless of his status wants to feel less than a man because a women is waving her paycheck in his face which is what a lot of women with feminist tendencies will do! The women once she has money becomes completley oblivious to a man's ego and how he may feel. At the end of the day I want my husband to make more money than me.
Crazy talk. I want to make a good substance of money we BOTH can have and make. Not one having the advantage over the other
I need to stop thinking all rich people are selfish because it makes me selfish.
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You don't need to get married to have the love and commitment. If you have to get married to have that, maybe you shouldn't be together in the first place. Also, if you married a someone who trusted you, invested their security in you, would you be ok with just kicking them out on the street with nothing? Isn't that also ruining someones life? You'd have to be a cruel bastard to do that to someone you once loved.
Labeling this as research is a bit of an insult to actual peer reviewed research. You admitted yourself in the first minute that you dont know whether this is reliable, or even that the people polled were millionaires.
It's kind of complicated, most of my pretty friends are nervous around rich man , they are afraid that they may think less of them of a gold dogger. So they don't date one ,I realised they got a delicate personality too.
agreed completely , we as men are expected to provide and earn more than our female counterparts. If we don't it increases our chances of divorce.
The irony is that those women who'll only accept succesful millionaires as their mates are probably the same ones wondering "where have all the good men gone?". lol
I think it's the other way around, Ana. The problem isn't with the millionaire men it's with the millionaire women because men aren't sexually attracted to money but many women are. Which explains the statistics.
I addressed this in my other (just 10 seconds ago) comment.
In my mind, if there is any exchange of sexuality or beauty, for wealth or asset, then a transaction has taken place.
Maybe it's just the wording that we are debating.
Again, there are so few relationships where such an exchange of sexuality for resources has not occurred in any way.
Im not even saying there is an issue with this, I think it's actually unavoidable and doesn't stop beautiful relationships existing.
Being wealthy and self made does not equate to over compensating. There are plenty of wealthy people who are the whole package and financial control is not on their checklist.
Thanks! I'm not a 1%'er but I'm doing very well in my career/life and these people KILL ME with their jealous opinions.
When they talk about 'the rich', the clips should be 5 seconds long, and they should simply say "I'm jealous".
Ana can have as many opinions as she wants, she's a woman and they would die if their minds weren't able to change every 5 seconds. However, John makes me CRAZZZZYYYYY!!!! Nothing worse than a man with no balls.
Thanks for the comment! ;-) Happy trails brother!
So, since I prefer smaller-ish, more proportional breasts, does that indicate that I'm meant to be wealthy?
wait wait... why do small breasts mean they can withstand hard times?? you lost me there and I'm dying to know
Because they eat less?
They're alluding that psychologically and maybe subconsciously, big breast have the ability to "feed the family" and provide the nourishment if survival is threatened or during hard times. Where as smaller breast psychologically say there's no need to rely upon feeding off of the woman because the resources for survival are there in abundance. Smaller breasts force the man to be the survival mechanism rather than the woman. Think of the saying "queens don't cook." A queen is not a domestic. Curvier bodies have always been considered maternal and associated with nourishment and comfort, while slender tall physiques have always been considered regal and associated with royalty and monarchy.
That’s why some women nowadays go to plastic surgeon to enhance their breasts? Hehehe
Stephanie Salan hey the you looking so beautiful
AshleyNicole hey there beautiful
It is part of the game women play, dude! It is part of their tactic to blame men of nearly everything!
No man can give me what I want... I have a high and expensive taste, I like to leave in luxury.. I am a libra woman the empress who love to leave like a queen.....
Considering your personality, you aren't slave leave queen
"If anti-feminist is anti-woman, wouldn't that mean feminist is anti-man?"
No, it wouldn't. Unless we assume that being pro-women also means being anti-men. If anti-feminist is anti-women, feminist is pro-women.
These stats are the best argument for MGTOW I've heard yet.
Sounds like the typical dynamic actually. Women look for status, preferably wealthy men who will provide for them. Men don't care about that, they care about looks and kindness. You see this same dynamic in other primates as well - females care about status, males care about looks (including age of course) and kindness.
I don't see any reason to believe it has to do with men 'controlling' the woman he's with. It's much more likely that they are like all other primates and don't give a damn about wealth and status.
That small breast large breast statement is complete BS
better than two watermelons
Men like to make women happy and we like to make them smile, and giving a woman an expensive gift would make a woman without money happy, to where a woman with money would be like, ehh its ok. It makes us men feel good to give the woman we love the world, and if the woman already has the world, that takes away that feeling.
She ain't gon get a millionaire man with those 2 dents on her forehead.
I dont wanna be a millionare,i wanna be with a millionare men having a family. This doesnt mean I am being lazy or so, but the thing ia I wanna be an academician and neurologist and money isnt something meant to be I should focus on.
Lets put this in perspective. To be a millionare you only need a million dollars worth of anything. If you got you hose in the sixties, it was probably pretty cheap, but could be worth a million now, depending on location. I geass I'm saying that being a millionare ain't what it used to be. (Not that I would know from direct experience.)
"The men want financial control..." yeah, but Ana, you're the one who wants to date the millionaire, solely for the fact that they're a millionaire. They worked for the money, so it's theirs. In fact, it's equal trade.
it's hard to be a man, I mean a not rich man
If I'm a millionaire all I want is a woman with a tiny waist and a big round bubble butt.
0:35 made me stay. I was like sure... sure.
Simpler explanation: rich men ALREADY KNOW that rich women are even bigger gold diggers. Upvote if you agree
I'd say on average this is pretty true though there are different ways to make someone feel secure.
My boyfriend is poor, but he's also very caring and likes to listen to me which does make me feel more secure in our relationship. I also do like to spoil him some, but maybe I'm just an odd gal. :)
Women love millionaire guys but billionaires are on a different level they can get any girl they want.
As long as they pay for it...
Not every girl , but more women than avg
Sooo this means I can marry prince Harry ? lol
I hope you look like a goddess for calling her semi average ,plus what is wrong in being divorced? You bring out all those adjectives to describe her in order to make yourself feel great. You probably aren't worth a cent.
Well, Christians only marry one partner, unless they are mormens or Muslims.
...have you seen the rich women on millionaire matchmaker? Granted, it's likely from plastic surgery, personal trainers, and dental veneers, but most of them look like supermodels.
Wait. I have big breasts, so I'm only going to attract poor guys?! Nooooooooooooo...
keep digging.
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Unsure how the psychology works, but it is true that I would also feel a bit uneasy dating someone who makes less money than I do. The reasons I could think of is that I don’t have to worry about hurting his pride or feelings when we talk about money and that I would also want to look up to my man as a dependable provider who has more resources than me. Just speaking for myself. However, I have no issue dating man who makes less at the moment but has the clear potential and skills to make more money down the line.
The reason %84.5 of female millionaires choose to date a rich counterpart is because, regardless of how successful they are, they still want a man to take care of them. What was also stated was these women are protective of their money and often want a prenuptial agreement. Meanwhile, society and these women are perfectly fine with a man taking care of them and paying all the bills and would be insulted if he asked for a prenuptial agreement from them.
What is so wrong with observing trends and trying to figure out why they exist?
Compared to 2 decades ago, there is an increase in women between the ages of 19 and 32 who want to get married as compared to a decrease in men in that same age range. So demand for marriage is really coming from women. Regardless of your beliefs (and I take your word on not wanting marriage), most women we date want it. Believing that someone should be willing to put up 50% of their money for "love" is inspiring, but the fact of the matter remains that men are predominantly expected to do so.
Women want more powerful men.
Youth may not equal beauty, but for those without beauty, youth is the next best thing :)
I disagree that rich men's preference in females is based on financial control. The majority choice tends to restore the beneficent provider head of household that all alpha males strive for.
Even if males are not planning to have children that still doesn't dismiss the fact that males are genetically predisposed to find younger females more attractive than older females.
I think you will find that the women with less money who men are looking for, are more young and attractive than they are. So it balances out.
Likewise millionaire women bring their physical beauty to the table, in addition to money. Hence why they have the luxury of saying "I'm not willing to marry down".
Even if men said "I'd like to marry up" (which they generally don't), its not something that women are into.
this has nothing to do with rights;
some people are rich, some poor, some men, some women, some white, some black etc.
No one said anything about these people not having equal rights. But they are different and that should be acknowledged when studying them.
Many can have their opinion on this topic, but as a successful man, it is my opinion that the majority of male millionaires prefer a non-rich counterpart NOT for the purpose of controlling them, but because of the simplicity many of them bring to the relationship. A non-rich woman can become what the man needs in his life easier than a rich one. Meaning, she can offer him a simpler and peaceful lifestyle, multiple children (since her lifestyle may not be as highly driven), and is able to physically relocate to different parts of the world a lot easier than a highly competitive, corporate, income driven female millionaire would.
Also, many successful women had to adopt a masculine, alpha male personality in order to compete with others to become wealthy in the first place. Most successful men don't want to partner with such a woman because two alpha personalities may not mesh well together. In addition, most driven men want to leave the stress, drive, and competitiveness of the business world out of the home. They want to come home to a peaceful woman untainted with pressures of the outside world.
I suppose so. Whatever you do, if you have a lot of money you've really got to be careful, everyone wants a slice of your pie.
I don't know why Ana is getting so much hate. Mate selection, such as Life, is not fair. Of course women are going to prefer a rich guy. Of course men are going to prefer a nurturing woman with big breasts. There are people that are different but this is the basic mate standard. You all sound like you wish to rewire the human brain, lol. Don't be mad if you don't fit the standard.