Y’all will do anything to defend the slave mentality. I’m glad my generation is finally waking up. Yes there are some people who are sensitive. All I have left to say is breaking generational trauma is the strongest thing any child could do! ♥️
exactly i'm so happy that some people are seeing how slave like this is and from what i'm hearing from the girl is that Lauryn has gotten better and stopped beating/hurting them
Yep, my cousins and I had to get in a slave line for whippings. We had to all watch the ones in front of us get it first, and the little ones would be crying before it was their turn. I rarely ever cried. I hated adults. I found them weak and it was obvious that they were trying to take our power because they had none of their own, especially with other adults. They looked pathetic to me.
I don’t think discipline is the issue , she said she was primarily raised by her grandparents, it’s hard to accept discipline from a person thats not rlly there for you , especially when your probably getting hit for stupid shit bc your living with someone constantly on edge , and then forced to not feel being told “ fix your face “, you lose respect and in that moment you wanna retaliate, discipline is to bring sense to what you did wrong not avenge your frustration
I had a similar upbringing and I know what you are talking about. You felt as your dignity didn’t have any value. This is what it played in my mind all the time throughout those years and unlikely it lasted until I was 23, when I had the strength to run away to another continent. My mom changed too and she because vulnerable herself and I’m now protecting her of her own mind that is full of regrets and pain.
bro i feel the same way like when i was hearing those sounds my back butt and arms are hurting just listening to the whooping sounds omg i hated when my mom was you know BEATING me lol
@Sagegaming05 now.we have undisciplined children who crack under pressure, can't read and write, can't take constructive criticism and have "mental illness " to explain away their fuck ups.
i thought this 304 had sumn real life trauma to talk abt, she on here talm but a regular ssa whooping🙄🤣 idc what nobody say, a whooping is well needed sometimes. now BEATING children is different nd will not be tolerated
I got beat, like beat with extension cords, wood paddles to the point I couldn’t sit down. Brooms, the wire part of fly swatters. Went to school with bruises and black eyes but the beats aren’t what effected me but the verbal abuse. Whoopings aren’t “slave mentality” because people all over the world whoop their kids, even Caucasians. However there’s a difference between whoopings and abuse.
my mom beats me and i be wanting the hurt her so bad like how she did me. he older generation is "weak" too for passing down there trauma to the next generation. genz/milliennial has had enough of the older generations bull crap that there talking out about this like the only reason your saying this is because your parent beat you and you think its normal which no it is something that we should not normalize and the reason why black families beat there children is because of slavery so they would punish there children like how they were punished and it trickled down generations and there still doing this some parents are breaking the horrible cycle (and yes i know not only black people beat their children but i'm black so i can only speak about being apart of the black community. there also might be some miss spells or not correct grammar but its mostly from my anger at older people saying were weak because want to talk about how were feeling instead of beating the shit out of people but then again i'm just some naive little 15 year old) 🙄
@@Sagegaming05 nah you’re just weak af. Either learn how to be disciplined, stop doing shit to get beat for or emancipate yourself. Your generation has a complaint for everything in this world!
@@Sagegaming05 I’m a millennial and I appreciate my parents being hard on me and as a grown up I appreciate it! I’m not weak and I thank my parents for that! Most importantly, I never gave my parents problems or reason to whip me!!
No, what’s weak is that for year’s people normalized whoopings, year after year, I’m coo with a little popping but honestly what do whoopings do?? I was a good kid till I hit my teens I’m 16, whoopings didn’t do nun I always went around and still did what I pleased now I wasn’t bad I was just trying to live but when I got a talk I slowed down a little now do I act up here and there yea, but I’m still learning, I just feel like whooping kids never was the right way to go like how could you sit there hearing your kid scream, mommy stop, or daddy stop, like nah, then some parents let it go too far and the kids had marks on them, I was one of those kids, so popping a child I’m coo with that but then thing is in sometimes when it comes to discipline people are always runing to a belt instead of an conversation with the child and popping is totally fine I mean I ain’t saying what to do, but as child who got whoopings, to the point I had a busted lip, like Ik your probably reading this and being like see that ain’t a whooping, but see how the older generations were taught was that, grabbing anything just to whoop a child smh, so no we’re not weak, we’re tired of hearing the same thing, and it being normalized.
This is crazy you can’t whoop kids now man😭😭I got beat so many time now trama is wild laurannnn imma forever lover her she was being a mother🤷🏾♀️that’s tuff love stop doing Shii to get that belt
I can understand whoopings for no reason thats unacceptable but if you was a bad child doing things to that made you get whoopings you wrong for airing your mom out on the Internet u don't get sympathy from people who understands the reasoning for it growing up i realized our parents didn't have all the answers now they only did what they knew but i figured out there's other forms of discipline that are non physical thats worse than discipline that are physical i promise you with the method i learned from my dad i literally started wanting to start back getting whoopings
Just looking at the demeanor of her mum this does not surprise me at all, she was not a good mother to this young lady .if you are going to have children you have to give love not misery to them.
Don’t sound like trauma to me like girl you got a whooping. Tell us why your mama whooped you?? How many times she had to repeat herself before y’all sat down somewhere???
So weak. This is why are kids are so bad off now. You do wrong, you get corrective discipline. Simple. Now it's a crime to do it, but ya'll wanna cry when these kids are killed in the streets because no one ever checked them. So weak.
Much respect and gratitude to Selah for sharing this. She could write a book someday. Her ability to speak about this with the level of maturity and even give her mother grace is amazing. I hope she had/has therapy to help her cope with any lingering issues.
We all got whooping, and trust I got some bad ones. I still believe in discipline but my kids don't understand what a WHOOPING is they only know spankings. And they don't really get that because they are better behaved than I was. Punishing works better taking away what they love works better because it lasts longer.
I got my ass whopped with a cane once and other times with a belt or a shoe. I have 8 tattoos and am getting more piercings. I’m also a successful woman in my field of work & graduating with my third degree in May 2024. The beatings didn’t make me do this. I also parent my 13 year old son differently because whopping instills fear instead of building respect. Y’all are delusional to think that whopping your child or anyone for that matter should be the first course of action. I am not anti-spanking. I’m anti-abuse and anti- whopping your children out of anger.
It’s strange that this generation seems to be traumatized by EVERYTHING when past generations were able to overcome, learn & grow from these same things. At some point you have to ask YOURSELVES why.😢
See thats the thing right there. The “older generation” were NOT victims cause they took whatever circumstances they had to face and FLIPPED THAT THING to find the good in it, to find the value in it. Perspective!!!
It really wasn't traumatic. Maybe believing everything is traumatic is why so many ppl are so down... like someone said, perspective. So many worse things than a whooping can happen when you have no understanding of consequences...
Obviously it didn’t work you’re not acting like a young lady which your mom advocates about for one you’re sitting on social media putting on your pants🤔💯‼️
When I grew up I saw my mother knock the chit out my brothers and she was tiny. I was AFRAID of doing anything wrong, I only caught two whippings but I will never forget them, then she would put you on your knees with a bible to learn bible verses before you can get up. Taught me a lot but he never did that to her 35 grandchildren we were all shocked she didn’t whipped their arses. Oh she didn’t play even in her old age but had mellowed out. I was happy I had my father until my first year in College and he was electrocuted and died immediately. That was the worst thing that ever happened to me to this day and I’ve been through hell and have died twice and they bought me back to life. Each time I saw my daddy looking so angry with me saying go back where you come from it’s not your time. I’m crying not knowing anything because I never saw my daddy and he was mad at me. Young lady most people are not given a good deck of card as the old women use to say, but we have to deal with the deck we have in our hands. We can always chance that deck of cards but it’s going to take hard work and time. We can’t keep blaming our parents for our problems because we have to find a way to move on and be happy. Don’t been stuck because they were stuck and didn’t know how to parent and they had careers that were not normal. Talk to God and he will work it out for you, he will never ever fail you, you fail yourself. Stop blaming them and seek help for yourself as an adult. Much Love to you young lady.
yall are sick normalizing this behavior
exactly i hate how there trying to normalize this
ikr!!!!!!!!!
because it is normal, you used to get shipped off to war but a spanking is bad 😂😂😂😂
Y’all will do anything to defend the slave mentality. I’m glad my generation is finally waking up. Yes there are some people who are sensitive. All I have left to say is breaking generational trauma is the strongest thing any child could do! ♥️
Yesssssss finallyyyyyy
exactly i'm so happy that some people are seeing how slave like this is and from what i'm hearing from the girl is that Lauryn has gotten better and stopped beating/hurting them
❤❤❤💯🙌🏼 people out here normalising child abuse cuz they was conditioned by their own abuse
Sheltered, soft generation
It’s NOT slave mentality. It’s resilience!!
Yep, my cousins and I had to get in a slave line for whippings.
We had to all watch the ones in front of us get it first, and the little ones would be crying before it was their turn.
I rarely ever cried. I hated adults. I found them weak and it was obvious that they were trying to take our power because they had none of their own, especially with other adults.
They looked pathetic to me.
It’s disgusting and they feed off the pain of children, you can see it in the eyes of abusive parents as they do it 😔
I don’t think discipline is the issue , she said she was primarily raised by her grandparents, it’s hard to accept discipline from a person thats not rlly there for you , especially when your probably getting hit for stupid shit bc your living with someone constantly on edge , and then forced to not feel being told “ fix your face “, you lose respect and in that moment you wanna retaliate, discipline is to bring sense to what you did wrong not avenge your frustration
I had a similar upbringing and I know what you are talking about. You felt as your dignity didn’t have any value. This is what it played in my mind all the time throughout those years and unlikely it lasted until I was 23, when I had the strength to run away to another continent. My mom changed too and she because vulnerable herself and I’m now protecting her of her own mind that is full of regrets and pain.
bro i feel the same way like when i was hearing those sounds my back butt and arms are hurting just listening to the whooping sounds omg i hated when my mom was you know BEATING me lol
Lauryn misseducated
We all got whooping people 🤷🏿
yes (speaking for myself) but that does not make it okay for that to happen to any of us.
so that supposed to make it OK?
@Sagegaming05 now.we have undisciplined children who crack under pressure, can't read and write, can't take constructive criticism and have "mental illness " to explain away their fuck ups.
i thought this 304 had sumn real life trauma to talk abt, she on here talm but a regular ssa whooping🙄🤣 idc what nobody say, a whooping is well needed sometimes. now BEATING children is different nd will not be tolerated
I got beat, like beat with extension cords, wood paddles to the point I couldn’t sit down. Brooms, the wire part of fly swatters. Went to school with bruises and black eyes but the beats aren’t what effected me but the verbal abuse. Whoopings aren’t “slave mentality” because people all over the world whoop their kids, even Caucasians. However there’s a difference between whoopings and abuse.
Lord gen z so weak!
my mom beats me and i be wanting the hurt her so bad like how she did me. he older generation is "weak" too for passing down there trauma to the next generation. genz/milliennial has had enough of the older generations bull crap that there talking out about this like the only reason your saying this is because your parent beat you and you think its normal which no it is something that we should not normalize and the reason why black families beat there children is because of slavery so they would punish there children like how they were punished and it trickled down generations and there still doing this some parents are breaking the horrible cycle (and yes i know not only black people beat their children but i'm black so i can only speak about being apart of the black community. there also might be some miss spells or not correct grammar but its mostly from my anger at older people saying were weak because want to talk about how were feeling instead of beating the shit out of people but then again i'm just some naive little 15 year old) 🙄
@@Sagegaming05 nah you’re just weak af. Either learn how to be disciplined, stop doing shit to get beat for or emancipate yourself. Your generation has a complaint for everything in this world!
@@Sagegaming05 I’m a millennial and I appreciate my parents being hard on me and as a grown up I appreciate it! I’m not weak and I thank my parents for that! Most importantly, I never gave my parents problems or reason to whip me!!
No, what’s weak is that for year’s people normalized whoopings, year after year, I’m coo with a little popping but honestly what do whoopings do?? I was a good kid till I hit my teens I’m 16, whoopings didn’t do nun I always went around and still did what I pleased now I wasn’t bad I was just trying to live but when I got a talk I slowed down a little now do I act up here and there yea, but I’m still learning, I just feel like whooping kids never was the right way to go like how could you sit there hearing your kid scream, mommy stop, or daddy stop, like nah, then some parents let it go too far and the kids had marks on them, I was one of those kids, so popping a child I’m coo with that but then thing is in sometimes when it comes to discipline people are always runing to a belt instead of an conversation with the child and popping is totally fine I mean I ain’t saying what to do, but as child who got whoopings, to the point I had a busted lip, like Ik your probably reading this and being like see that ain’t a whooping, but see how the older generations were taught was that, grabbing anything just to whoop a child smh, so no we’re not weak, we’re tired of hearing the same thing, and it being normalized.
@@YanahMarie youre sheltered n soft
“What is tough love but trauma we’ve mythologized as useful?”
Idk it just sounds like standard discipline to me 💀
This is crazy you can’t whoop kids now man😭😭I got beat so many time now trama is wild laurannnn imma forever lover her she was being a mother🤷🏾♀️that’s tuff love stop doing Shii to get that belt
Man my generation learned the word trauma and have ran with it ever since😭😭
@@lifetimekie8523 hitting your kids causes trauma even if it’s “disapline”.
I can understand whoopings for no reason thats unacceptable but if you was a bad child doing things to that made you get whoopings you wrong for airing your mom out on the Internet u don't get sympathy from people who understands the reasoning for it growing up i realized our parents didn't have all the answers now they only did what they knew but i figured out there's other forms of discipline that are non physical thats worse than discipline that are physical i promise you with the method i learned from my dad i literally started wanting to start back getting whoopings
Just looking at the demeanor of her mum this does not surprise me at all, she was not a good mother to this young lady .if you are going to have children you have to give love not misery to them.
are y’all serious right now ? 😂
Don’t sound like trauma to me like girl you got a whooping. Tell us why your mama whooped you?? How many times she had to repeat herself before y’all sat down somewhere???
It didn't sound like trauma to me either.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 right cause I have a 4 year old and the fact is kids will def push your limit…. 🥴
Wow you are so right.
Looking for attention 😂
Yes!
She's bob marley grand daughter btw
Everyone co signing this would not want beating for something they did as an adult and a lot o adults need some act right!
So weak. This is why are kids are so bad off now. You do wrong, you get corrective discipline. Simple. Now it's a crime to do it, but ya'll wanna cry when these kids are killed in the streets because no one ever checked them. So weak.
She just looking for attention
Everyone got whooped at some point in their lives and trust me their whooping were a lot worse that yours
Much respect and gratitude to Selah for sharing this. She could write a book someday. Her ability to speak about this with the level of maturity and even give her mother grace is amazing. I hope she had/has therapy to help her cope with any lingering issues.
Girl I thought you was going to tell us something devastating. 😂
We all got whooping, and trust I got some bad ones. I still believe in discipline but my kids don't understand what a WHOOPING is they only know spankings. And they don't really get that because they are better behaved than I was. Punishing works better taking away what they love works better because it lasts longer.
Lets wait until she has her own kids🤦
Lauryn this is sick! Mimicking the enslavers with your children!
Sound like a parent disciplining their child
All I know is her daughter is not riddled with tattoos, and is not acting ratchet. Those butt whoopings definitely paid off. Salute to miss Hill.
Woopings don’t pay off ??????
Theyll ignore that tho, this generations soft
@@bernadettebradley7951
Almost every butt whooping I got, I earned, except for a few. So who they didn't pay off for?
Yeah who cares what it did to your offspring’s psyche right? Long as they don’t act ratchet and have tattoos. Another stupid take.
I got my ass whopped with a cane once and other times with a belt or a shoe. I have 8 tattoos and am getting more piercings. I’m also a successful woman in my field of work & graduating with my third degree in May 2024. The beatings didn’t make me do this. I also parent my 13 year old son differently because whopping instills fear instead of building respect. Y’all are delusional to think that whopping your child or anyone for that matter should be the first course of action. I am not anti-spanking. I’m anti-abuse and anti- whopping your children out of anger.
It’s strange that this generation seems to be traumatized by EVERYTHING when past generations were able to overcome, learn & grow from these same things. At some point you have to ask YOURSELVES why.😢
Hahaha good joke 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The older generations didn’t overcome actually, the victim becomes the victimizer so they think it’s normal to treat their kids like that
See thats the thing right there. The “older generation” were NOT victims cause they took whatever circumstances they had to face and FLIPPED THAT THING to find the good in it, to find the value in it. Perspective!!!
No they didn’t overcome they repressed it and passed it on to their kids silly goose
It really wasn't traumatic. Maybe believing everything is traumatic is why so many ppl are so down... like someone said, perspective. So many worse things than a whooping can happen when you have no understanding of consequences...
Obviously it didn’t work you’re not acting like a young lady which your mom advocates about for one you’re sitting on social media putting on your pants🤔💯‼️
Lmfao
💯😂
Who are you ? that is the daughter of Lauryn Hill speaking she knows her mother better than you and I.
When I grew up I saw my mother knock the chit out my brothers and she was tiny.
I was AFRAID of doing anything wrong, I only caught two whippings but I will never
forget them, then she would put you on your knees with a bible to learn bible verses
before you can get up. Taught me a lot but he never did that to her 35 grandchildren
we were all shocked she didn’t whipped their arses. Oh she didn’t play even in her
old age but had mellowed out. I was happy I had my father until my first year in
College and he was electrocuted and died immediately. That was the worst thing that
ever happened to me to this day and I’ve been through hell and have died twice and
they bought me back to life. Each time I saw my daddy looking so angry with me
saying go back where you come from it’s not your time. I’m crying not knowing anything
because I never saw my daddy and he was mad at me. Young lady most people are not
given a good deck of card as the old women use to say, but we have to deal with the deck
we have in our hands. We can always chance that deck of cards but it’s going to take
hard work and time. We can’t keep blaming our parents for our problems because we
have to find a way to move on and be happy. Don’t been stuck because they were stuck
and didn’t know how to parent and they had careers that were not normal. Talk to God
and he will work it out for you, he will never ever fail you, you fail yourself. Stop blaming
them and seek help for yourself as an adult. Much Love to you young lady.