Would you submit to your husband who loves you and gives his life for you that you choose to marry? If the female is in submission to God she shall answer yes. Colossians 3:18-19 KJV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. [19] Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
If she is in submission to God she also shall not fornicate. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 KJV For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
@@ghostwriter5990 Greetings! Check out the entire clip, but particularly to the time stamp of between 28 seconds to 2 minute mark. The "mentor" discusses "The Woman's" need to be submitted to God, in order to demonstrate how she will become a submitted wife. She discusses the responsibilities of the man and woman.
She REALLY is!! It's always great to hear different viewpoints on topics like this. As much as I LOVE my pastor... I've never heard him cover marriage (from THIS viewpoint anyway)......so this woman is actually a spiritual breath of fresh air.
@@seandeans1279 obviously what she said didn’t resonate with you. I wish we had more people out here preaching The Word like she is🙏🏽 The world needs more spiritually discerned people (especially men) to lead the home and spread The Gospel….not bash others. Peace be unto you sir.
It’s a beautiful blessing. Having the one God picked for you by your side until death do us part. The one that tells you he loves you with his actions. The one that tells you I got you, we will be ok. When the storm is above your home. God is so good.
So true!!! I wish I was never married! Why ? Because of the reasons Apostle Paul gave. To the single people,please enquire of The LORD SERIOUSLY , before entering in engagement and marriage. It's so vital! It's about your destiny.
@@mayowaoyedokun9828hm i understand what your saying as marriage is difficult But you might discourage many people from marrying if we talk like that about marriage Implying that you want to give up i mean
@@BlueRivers-xg2rtYeah...they just pop out a bunch of kids for random s then play the "I've grown since then, don't judge me" game later. Most of these women go above and beyond not to submit anyway...the focus should be on choosing a man wisely in general.
What a blessing she is to these young women! This conversation was desperately needed. A man isn’t necessarily godly because she met him in church. I’m so glad this young lady was warned about this guy that she’s thinking about marrying after 2 years. The only thing worse than wasting years of your life waiting for someone to marry you, is marrying someone who isn’t a godly and having your life and the lives of your children affected by that.
I totally agree I married my husband not cause I wanted him but he was controlling and made me do it. I regret it till this day still married but when thru a lot with him. We have children
@@tiffwast3223 how are you really feel about it. I’m sorry that you had to go through that wow that’a hostage situation. A form of abuse really. You were forced into a situation where you didn’t have a choice. Do you have a voice in the relationship or is all decisions concerning the household are being made by him? Sounds like you have married an older man.
I love that these young ladies recognize the wisdom of a spiritually mature woman, and they are gathered around hungry for the Word and she is serving it up to them! Such a great example of the discipleship we need in the body!
Sadly, a lot of homes no longer do this. As a male who've dated without putting God 1st, I've seen how those relationships fell apart. I just started putting him 1st again, and my life has changed so much. Praise God. We are all children of his. He wants us to be close to him. Everything covered in this video I've been through at one point in my life, and I know the enemy is waiting for me to mess up again. But I know the enemy has no control over my life. Only god will be my 1st and only love.
how he treats God is how he will treat you! there are so many men in church that are not men of God! beware! so many clues in this young lady's testimony about this man she met in church: he isn't gainfully employed, he speaks ill of his mother, they have been together TWO YEARS and he isn't even talking about marriage...he is the car on bricks in the driveway blocking her new car. excellent teaching! thank you!
Speaking as the father of a daughter and the grandfather of granddaughters (my son's children), I agree you've pointed out the red flags. He _won't_ keep a job...notice by her description, he's the one walking away from the jobs. A man with husband qualities will work a job he doesn't like because, frankly, most jobs in the world are unpleasant or boring or hard....you have to "do the work" to eventually get a rewarding job. His mother may have been a bad mother, but even then, a Christian man doesn't speak ill of her, he'd just have little to say about her at all; that's another red flag if he's bad-mouthing his mother. And he hasn't said anything about marriage in two years (and I have a hard time believing he's hung around without sex for two years). Let me say something about men (at least men worth marrying). When a man is ready to marry, he will find his wife pretty quickly. Men don't have a long checklist, men don't want to waste time when they've decided to take a step, and men will settle for "close enough." Some women who don't understand how this works have been saying "When a man gets ready to marry, he marries the woman in front of him." So, women will try to keep themselves "in front" of a man she likes until he's ready to marry. But that's not how it works with men. A good man is not going to go two years with a woman without having talked about marriage if he's ready to marry. It will be only a few months before he starts talking about it. If he's got to reach some milestone first, he'll talk about that. If he's not ready to marry, he's not recognizing _any_ woman as wife material...that's not where his head is at. If he's ever ready to marry if the future, he's not necessarily going to recognize that woman as wife material because he's had her in the "just for fun" category all that time. He's going to look around at all his current options. So, ladies, don't waste your precious years on a man who hasn't told you within just a few months that he wants to marry you. Are there exceptions? Sure. But exceptions don't disprove the rule.
@rdkirk3834 this is wisdom that fatherless daughters don't get...thank you SO much for sharing this knowledge. even with a father present, i still didn't get this information...now that i have read the Bible, i understand that a man who has sex with you without intentions on getting married/making children, is treating you like a prostitute. now i firmly believe dating is unnecessary...just ask God and He will reveal if the man in question is the one for you.
1 thing I disagree w, Some people don't have good parents, some mothers are terrible human beings! That caused the severe trauma in the childs life. We have to expose this because it gets swept under a rug
@@rdkirk3834i agree mostly But not all men that want to marry can get a wife or let me say even get in a relationship Some men get rejected a lot and then eventually give up on the pursuit of a relationship This is at least what i see around me as a young guy
This is so Good!… I have noticed many men and women want God-ish partners. Go to church and pray but still move in with me and have sex too. Many want both sides of it. We still have not learned the importance of getting to know someone properly
Very correct. They don't study the scripture...which is a big problem in many faiths. "Fonicators, idoltorers...CANNOT enter the Kingdom of heaven." The first time i saw that scripture i couldn't believe it. Thank God for revealing that and so much more to me. Many many women profess their love of the single life. Yet they are sexing (fornicating) likke crazy, unawares of what they are doing. I brought this to a group of ladies and they all just got quiet. Because i was championing their decision to remain single until the right person came along. But whenni brought the scripture to light then i realized they were single yes, but they were having sex still.....with multiple partners as well
I wish I had this conversation with someone early on in my life. I had to learn how how to be submissive and to submit to God for my husband. This is truly a blessing.
Ephesians 5:22-25 KJV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Amen. This is why its important to read the Holy bible. Submit is not a bad word idk why i feel like ppl mostly women feel like its bad to be submissive its just means to Respect and Know Your Place really. Now dont get me wrong dont just go around being submissions to just anyone of course.
Keyword- WIVES submit to your OWN HUSBAND. Your submission is to GOD in CHRIST until the I Do’s. But you must’ve submitted to CHRIST to show what life will be like with you (man or woman)
This is a true, valuable woman of God. She is a teacher, a much needed teacher. Quite frankly, every truly Christ driven church should be teaching/having classes just like this for men AND women, ( as well as boys and girls of a certain age capable of understanding the subject matter ).🙏
He sounds like he needs someone to be there for him the way God intended it as a woman tobea help mate.she shouldn't run.she should help him and if progress is not made on either of there ends. It's really Noone bussiness but the couple involved. I didn't hear red flags at all. I heard a man venting to a woman he thinks he can trust.peoplepull your heads out of places where they might be stuck.
I wish there were more women like this teaching this wisdom to young and older women because some of us NEVA GOT THAT WISDOM from our elders and we struggled and still struggle to know the right things to look and pray for. ❤
As a man thank you sister for sharing this. It's highlighted areas that I am working on and things maybe that I need to pray about too concerning my future Wife. Is there a part 2 to this video please
This was a really good video and I am glad to see these conversations happening. I disagree with that old blanket statement that if they treat their mom or dad badly, that is how they will treat them. Everyone did not receive love from their parents or whoever raised them, abuse and so much more can be there. You can treat someone better outside of your family because the love is different. Everyone needs counseling to work through their grief and that can be a telling sign for sure however even that depends on where they are at in lie.
This is so beautiful 🤍🔥when we follow God and submit to God he teaches us the real meaning of love our God is an amazing God he’s classified as just the one because no one is forgiving and so loving as much as our God is he loved us so much that he died for us to wash our sins!
Lovely to see seasoned & loving mothers out there disciplining the younger women...seeing biblical principles coming to life here. Sister is a lovely cook & a safe place to behold. Thank Jesus- keep, cover & bless her in this season & the ones to come💜
Some of us have toxic narcissistic mothers who have treat others poorly and do not want a healthy loving relationship, they want strife and they want victimhood. And these moms, we can only honor on our hearts from a distance.
Duh. But if she is, then you should marry her. That's the part that most of you fail to do. And then want to fornicate and defile the girl instead of making her a wife before God. God doesn't bless selfishness, nor does he bless anyone stringing his other innocent children along. It's a fine line so good luck.
This lady here is probably a stakeholder in the feminist movement!!! More Power to whoever wants to listen to her advice...madam..you are entitledto your own opinion...its sad tho...😢try and keep such to yourself though. Stop misleading these young queens out here.
Then with your self-centered attitude, you're not fit to be married. Set aside your male ego and really follow Christ. Leadership is serving not dominating. God calls you and your wife to submit to each other (sorry hon, it's there). Those verses are just an example of how to carry out Christ's command to love one another. There's nothing in there about who is the boss or who has the final say, etc.
@@emmanueluko4294 This is not a true Christ-like attitude. This is a worldly, sinful attitude. The Bible doesn't exist to give men an excuse to dominate. You're to act like Christ and love and serve, if you're able to set aside your ego.
If they are in a sinful relationship that needs to end immediately. The WOG should have stopped the conversation right there bc God does not bless fornication. Next, we never know what individuals have experienced with family members to just be cut and dry on the advice given. Last but not least, we are a people who were broken, peeled, and bound by demon powers and we have history, so seek God for whom he has chosen for you.
If you stop someone's conversation to condemn them. They won't want to listen to you. Rather if you listen to them and provide them feedback they learn and can figure it out on their own. Like the woman was doing she understood where this woman was going she didn't even have to go there with her. And the bible doesn't read on occasions or certain circumstances honor your mother and father it just says honor your mother and father. Joyce Meyer was molested by her father when she was a girl and she initially struggled with honoring her father but she knew in order to be whole with Christ she had to overcome that struggle. So yes it's clean cut because it's clean cut in the 10 commandments. God said what he meant.
Matthew 18:21-35. Read it. Our sins against The Most High is greater than our sins against each other. YHWH didn't say forgive others for some offenses against you, we are to forgive for everything. YHWH shows us grace and mercy daily no matter how many time we sin against him. Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation. You can forgive someone without having a relationship with them. If that person is toxic, you can love them from afar, and also still be very respectful. It is very cut and dry/black and white/etc.
I hope this young woman leave that man quickly and I wish people would stop with the man of God and woman of God it’s not biblical especially when those being given that title are displaying lifestyles and behaviour very far from the Lord.
David displayed behavior that was very far from the Lord--- by impregnating a loyal soldier's wofe and then sending that man to the front lines to be killed---and he was a man after God's own heart. And Davis repented and was forgiven though the consequences of his behavior had to play out. Moses killed a man and hid his body but GOD CHOSE him to lead his people AND God talked to moses directly, something that HE didnt do with many people. Being a man or a woman of God does not mean being even close to perfect. There are so many people in the Bible they did a lot of raggedy things and yet God used them for His purpose. We do not know the mind or the heart of God. So we have no business saying who we think is or is not a man or woman of God.
She better run for the hills and never look back. I heard at least 3 red flags. Take it from someone who has been there and done that! I am happily divorced. Just because a man is going to church that doesn't mean he is serving God the way the Bible states he should. I was deceived and I have been by myself until I know God has sent my spouse. Please note I will not argue or debate with any trolls. Good Day😂
This is so true with women as well. I used to be such an empty soul sitting in a church seat. I knew how to do church very well, but was such a fence straddler. I thank the Lord Jesus Christ for deliverance! In the end, no one should play with the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus wants realness.
@ghostwriter5990 I don't get how asking for more details is considered trolling. The man probably was serving God like the Bible stated but she probably didn't like it like most women don't.
Idk, the lady example of the issues she is having with her bf is vague. We don't know the full story, and we probably never will. But if we are to take her grievances seriously, then we should take everything she is saying seriously. She has been with this guy for 2 years so obviously there is something she is holding on to. And let's say she has been deceived the whole time - what she is demonstrating now in this video is that she fails to take action and is unable to properly vet individuals who she allows in her circle. Just as much as the man she is dating is a red flag, so is she at her current place in life. Both individuals seems to have room for growth. I would argue that she should have approached the main lady in a setting that is just between them if she is seeking advice, and/or speak to her bf to either fix the issues or to peacefully end their relationship. It's bad enough she is airing this out in front the women sitting, it's even worse she is airing things out in front of countless people thanks to the video on social media.
Boy I miss my Mother! This is excellent advice! I got good wisdom like this from her and my Granny…praise God I still have Godly women around me by Mommies hit differently.
I don't agree with the- not in communication with a mother , then not ready for marriage. Some ppl not need be contacted and the relationship severed for reasons that obviously some ppl have never experienced. When dealing with sociopaths and Malignant Narcissistic family members, the spiritual answer will always be to dis- associate and move on-- or plan your own funeral-- spiritually and in the natural. # if you have not experienced situations like this, politely move along, and Thank The Most High.💫💫🙏🏾
Wow! I needed and need this. I think all women need this. I’m moved to change in my own relationship with God. I’m a widow, but I pray for a new love. This is wonderful.
This is why you don't go to another regarding your relationship except for God or your mate. This lady is speaking of this man without this man even being present not even hearing his story! Do you ladies think that Boaz if she was not submissive in their interactions? *Serious question.
Truth is truth. Once you hear it anywhere, you know by the Spirit of God. God bless you woman of God. Really love to know and date women with such wisdom. God bless you all
What about when Abraham's servent went to look for a bride for Issac. The bible says “No!” Abraham responded. “Be careful never to take my son there. 7 For the Lord, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and my native land, solemnly promised to give this land to my descendants.[a] He will send his angel ahead of you, and he will see to it that you find a wife there for my son. 8 If she is unwilling to come back with you, then you are free from this oath of mine. But under no circumstances are you to take my son there.” This was clearly an act of submission before marriage. Rebecca had to be willing to go before becoming Isaac's wife.
If he don’t know this he is not a man of God. And as a woman still growing with God if you don’t understand this you need to stay single . Don’t idolize marriage or you will be sent a counterfeit /narcissist
What if your parents have done you wrong and keep doing you wrong no matter how much you forgive them. At some point you have to turn the other cheek and walk away for your own mental health.
Yes, forgive but Jesus doesn’t always call some of us to allow our mother and/or father back into our lives. There’s nothing to honor, when the parent was awful, unrepentant and abusive. Sometimes we must go no contact, especially if that keeps us safe, healthy and connected to God. I honor Jesus with everything I have within me. Thank you for the video. God bless everyone here!!❤
See the problem ppl don’t understand submission goes both ways. Most importantly it’s about both man and woman being submitted to God and following his commandments
As I found out the hard way just because someone goes to church doesn't mean they are dedicated to the lord. God ɓless these children to have a true teacher.
It’s not to late to seek God 💙 - linktr.ee/chandrameriel
Why would you not credit the owner of the original video ?
Would you submit to your husband who loves you and gives his life for you that you choose to marry?
If the female is in submission to God she shall answer yes.
Colossians 3:18-19 KJV
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. [19] Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
If she is in submission to God she also shall not fornicate.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
@@6renaaFollow the breadcrumbs.. if you really wanted to seek you would find..
@thechefsagent Please share the link to the original video. I have some young women who need to hear this.
Shes being a Titus 2 women, aged women teach the younger women how to be wives, something our community lacks today
@@scorchedearth824 You ain’t lying!!!
Yes 🙌🏾!!! Thanks for the reminder, brother/sis. Amen!
WRONG ughhhhh "our community lacks today" double negative ughhhhhh
Exactly and I'm so glad I have my Titus Women corners! #Women'sMinistry
This🎯
This is true discipleship! She is cooking, and they are preparing to break bread together as they discuss the ways of God
I would love to be apart of something like this.
It's not biased? Does she ask anything of her good or bad behavior or just his?
@@ghostwriter5990 Greetings! Check out the entire clip, but particularly to the time stamp of between 28 seconds to 2 minute mark. The "mentor" discusses "The Woman's" need to be submitted to God, in order to demonstrate how she will become a submitted wife. She discusses the responsibilities of the man and woman.
@td.2840 where is the entire clip?
You don't have this anymore. Sadddd
She cooking ten meals and whipping out wisdom also 🔥🔥
Bruhhh! 🔥🔥😂❤️
I'm ready for a nap just looking at her😫😆
Who is she?
@@KaliTN2TXWondering the same thing! Can someone who knows ask her to start a TH-cam channel?!?! 😅
She ain’t doing shit but running her single old ass mouth
This sister cooking literally and figuratively 🔥 all praises to The Most High GOD 🙌🏾🙏🏽
@@shawana1984 💯💯🤦🏾♂️
She REALLY is!! It's always great to hear different viewpoints on topics like this. As much as I LOVE my pastor... I've never heard him cover marriage (from THIS viewpoint anyway)......so this woman is actually a spiritual breath of fresh air.
She ain’t said a damn thing 🤣🤣🤣
@@seandeans1279 obviously what she said didn’t resonate with you.
I wish we had more people out here preaching The Word like she is🙏🏽
The world needs more spiritually discerned people (especially men) to lead the home and spread The Gospel….not bash others.
Peace be unto you sir.
@@seandeans1279you still upset😂
I don’t think the average Christian fully understands how much of a sacrifice marriage is.
So much, it takes God's strength to not to give up half way
It’s a beautiful blessing. Having the one God picked for you by your side until death do us part. The one that tells you he loves you with his actions. The one that tells you I got you, we will be ok. When the storm is above your home. God is so good.
So true!!! I wish I was never married! Why ?
Because of the reasons Apostle Paul gave.
To the single people,please enquire of The LORD SERIOUSLY , before entering in engagement and marriage.
It's so vital!
It's about your destiny.
Of course
But its worth it isnt it ?
@@mayowaoyedokun9828hm i understand what your saying as marriage is difficult
But you might discourage many people from marrying if we talk like that about marriage
Implying that you want to give up i mean
Good to see the older women teaching the younger women. That’s a blessing.
The Bible teaches that older women should be teaching young ones.
Our young ladies need to hear this too.
100%
They already know this, they just don't care.
Yeeeeesss! For a marriage consists of them both.🥰
Ephesians 5 verse 21-33
Who is this WOMAN!!
GOD HAS GIVEN HER A STRATEGY, draw THE YOUNG PEOPLE. She's a SAFE PLACE
Lord, continue lead and guide.
In Jesus Name, Amen
Amen ❤
She looks like Juanita Bynum
That is Naomi 😉
The title is nice. But men of God ain’t the only ones that need to be taught this.
The title very is misleading. It should be, "What Young Women Should Be Taught." Obviously it's a conversation with only women 🤷🏽♂️
Men need to know a women does not submit to bf before marriage cause your not husband...just like she is saying in the video.
Facts. 💯
@@BlueRivers-xg2rtYeah...they just pop out a bunch of kids for random s then play the "I've grown since then, don't judge me" game later. Most of these women go above and beyond not to submit anyway...the focus should be on choosing a man wisely in general.
@@BlueRivers-xg2rtAnd a man shouldn’t be providing for a gf before marriage.
What a blessing she is to these young women! This conversation was desperately needed. A man isn’t necessarily godly because she met him in church. I’m so glad this young lady was warned about this guy that she’s thinking about marrying after 2 years. The only thing worse than wasting years of your life waiting for someone to marry you, is marrying someone who isn’t a godly and having your life and the lives of your children affected by that.
I second that! TRUTH!!!!!
I totally agree I married my husband not cause I wanted him but he was controlling and made me do it. I regret it till this day still married but when thru a lot with him. We have children
@@tiffwast3223 how did he make you do it?
@@ertfgghhhhthere’s some expert manipulators out there…both men and women
@@tiffwast3223 how are you really feel about it. I’m sorry that you had to go through that wow that’a hostage situation. A form of abuse really. You were forced into a situation where you didn’t have a choice. Do you have a voice in the relationship or is all decisions concerning the household are being made by him? Sounds like you have married an older man.
I love that these young ladies recognize the wisdom of a spiritually mature woman, and they are gathered around hungry for the Word and she is serving it up to them! Such a great example of the discipleship we need in the body!
Sadly, a lot of homes no longer do this. As a male who've dated without putting God 1st, I've seen how those relationships fell apart. I just started putting him 1st again, and my life has changed so much. Praise God. We are all children of his. He wants us to be close to him. Everything covered in this video I've been through at one point in my life, and I know the enemy is waiting for me to mess up again. But I know the enemy has no control over my life. Only god will be my 1st and only love.
how he treats God is how he will treat you! there are so many men in church that are not men of God! beware! so many clues in this young lady's testimony about this man she met in church: he isn't gainfully employed, he speaks ill of his mother, they have been together TWO YEARS and he isn't even talking about marriage...he is the car on bricks in the driveway blocking her new car.
excellent teaching! thank you!
Speaking as the father of a daughter and the grandfather of granddaughters (my son's children), I agree you've pointed out the red flags. He _won't_ keep a job...notice by her description, he's the one walking away from the jobs. A man with husband qualities will work a job he doesn't like because, frankly, most jobs in the world are unpleasant or boring or hard....you have to "do the work" to eventually get a rewarding job. His mother may have been a bad mother, but even then, a Christian man doesn't speak ill of her, he'd just have little to say about her at all; that's another red flag if he's bad-mouthing his mother.
And he hasn't said anything about marriage in two years (and I have a hard time believing he's hung around without sex for two years). Let me say something about men (at least men worth marrying). When a man is ready to marry, he will find his wife pretty quickly. Men don't have a long checklist, men don't want to waste time when they've decided to take a step, and men will settle for "close enough." Some women who don't understand how this works have been saying "When a man gets ready to marry, he marries the woman in front of him." So, women will try to keep themselves "in front" of a man she likes until he's ready to marry. But that's not how it works with men. A good man is not going to go two years with a woman without having talked about marriage if he's ready to marry. It will be only a few months before he starts talking about it. If he's got to reach some milestone first, he'll talk about that.
If he's not ready to marry, he's not recognizing _any_ woman as wife material...that's not where his head is at. If he's ever ready to marry if the future, he's not necessarily going to recognize that woman as wife material because he's had her in the "just for fun" category all that time. He's going to look around at all his current options. So, ladies, don't waste your precious years on a man who hasn't told you within just a few months that he wants to marry you. Are there exceptions? Sure. But exceptions don't disprove the rule.
@rdkirk3834 this is wisdom that fatherless daughters don't get...thank you SO much for sharing this knowledge. even with a father present, i still didn't get this information...now that i have read the Bible, i understand that a man who has sex with you without intentions on getting married/making children, is treating you like a prostitute. now i firmly believe dating is unnecessary...just ask God and He will reveal if the man in question is the one for you.
1 thing I disagree w, Some people don't have good parents, some mothers are terrible human beings! That caused the severe trauma in the childs life. We have to expose this because it gets swept under a rug
@@rdkirk3834i agree mostly
But not all men that want to marry can get a wife or let me say even get in a relationship
Some men get rejected a lot and then eventually give up on the pursuit of a relationship
This is at least what i see around me as a young guy
@@dude9318 That's certainly what the statistics indicate.
I wish I had this type of woman growing up. I learned so many hard lessons. She’s beautiful and definitely on point.
This needs to go viral for sure!!!
Agreed, but it's not toxic.
THE MOST HIGH HAS PROVIDED INSTRUCTIONS FOR US !!!!!
That's right!
Hallelujah for that. We’re not out here with no instructions in this sinful world.
This is so Good!… I have noticed many men and women want God-ish partners. Go to church and pray but still move in with me and have sex too. Many want both sides of it. We still have not learned the importance of getting to know someone properly
Very correct. They don't study the scripture...which is a big problem in many faiths. "Fonicators, idoltorers...CANNOT enter the Kingdom of heaven." The first time i saw that scripture i couldn't believe it. Thank God for revealing that and so much more to me. Many many women profess their love of the single life. Yet they are sexing (fornicating) likke crazy, unawares of what they are doing. I brought this to a group of ladies and they all just got quiet. Because i was championing their decision to remain single until the right person came along. But whenni brought the scripture to light then i realized they were single yes, but they were having sex still.....with multiple partners as well
@@forward_ever_ever2595u talking like you don't have, ain't you a man don't you have a sex drive
Agreed
Which is why you need to be friends first with a person before you marry them
I wish I had this conversation with someone early on in my life. I had to learn how how to be submissive and to submit to God for my husband. This is truly a blessing.
Ephesians 5:22-25 KJV
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Amen. This is why its important to read the Holy bible. Submit is not a bad word idk why i feel like ppl mostly women feel like its bad to be submissive its just means to Respect and Know Your Place really. Now dont get me wrong dont just go around being submissions to just anyone of course.
Keyword- WIVES submit to your OWN HUSBAND. Your submission is to GOD in CHRIST until the I Do’s. But you must’ve submitted to CHRIST to show what life will be like with you (man or woman)
@@CrystalAlysehow did Adam and Eve marry
@@justinddennard By YHWH, Genesis 2:24.
@@Yahwehisall good now what does one flesh mean
What a wise woman!
This woman is doing Titus 2 Gods work. Amen!
This woman speaking facts!
Let God and the Bible guide you in life including marriage. Not social media. This woman is 100% right
I need someone like this wise women in my life and my walk with the Lord! ❤
This is a true, valuable woman of God. She is a teacher, a much needed teacher. Quite frankly, every truly Christ driven church should be teaching/having classes just like this for men AND women, ( as well as boys and girls of a certain age capable of understanding the subject matter ).🙏
Praise be to Jesus Christ!!! Girls, this wisdom is straight from the Almighty.
We need more parents in this world teaching their children these things. ❤
Men and Women of God should know this!
Thank you, Ma'am, in the video for your wisdom!❤❤
We are always talking to our boys about what to look for in a Woman of God. More conversations need to happen like this, it’s so important. 😊
Thanks so much for sharing! Thanks to everyone for you kind words, I so appreciate you all! Blessings!
AMEN!
This was so refreshing to see. Oh how wonderful it is that Our LORD JESUS provides community for His Body of Believers in Him.
Runnnnnn young lady. Red flags going off all over the place about this young man.
Most definitely
He sounds like he needs someone to be there for him the way God intended it as a woman tobea help mate.she shouldn't run.she should help him and if progress is not made on either of there ends. It's really Noone bussiness but the couple involved. I didn't hear red flags at all. I heard a man venting to a woman he thinks he can trust.peoplepull your heads out of places where they might be stuck.
That’s right. She needs to run. Women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men. That’s God’s job!
@@DoctorGnu My thoughts exactly. Listen and expect improvement then decide if it's time to move on.
@@DoctorGnugood input
I love what this lady is doing! EVERY MOTHER SHOULD HAVE THIS CONVERSATION WHITH THER DAUGHTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel so much power on this, that lady locked in, God honors her concecration as well, good stuff
I think our community needs this men of God know this. A true man of God would know these things
Lord blessed this woman!!
Women with wisdom. Rare. She's God fearing women... Respect. She's crown of her man. God bless u.
Hallelujah!!! She is absolutely correct!
I wish there were more women like this teaching this wisdom to young and older women because some of us NEVA GOT THAT WISDOM from our elders and we struggled and still struggle to know the right things to look and pray for. ❤
I pray that her eyes were opened to the truth and that she will not ignore the Red Flags 🙏🏾
Amen
Titus 2 woman in real life. Praise God!
As a man thank you sister for sharing this. It's highlighted areas that I am working on and things maybe that I need to pray about too concerning my future Wife. Is there a part 2 to this video please
Thats some apiritual truth that woman was spitting. I wish i knew her. Praise God for her.
This is the wisdom all women need, especially if they want to be married
May GOD bless this beautiful woman in the holy name of JESUS CHRIST and the other women too Amen 🙏🏽 she is truly wise
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, Jesus, that whosoever believeth on him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
This was a really good video and I am glad to see these conversations happening. I disagree with that old blanket statement that if they treat their mom or dad badly, that is how they will treat them. Everyone did not receive love from their parents or whoever raised them, abuse and so much more can be there. You can treat someone better outside of your family because the love is different. Everyone needs counseling to work through their grief and that can be a telling sign for sure however even that depends on where they are at in lie.
Run girl 🏃
EVERYONE Needs To Be Taught This!!
ALL GLORY ALL HONOR ALL PRAISE TO THE MOST HIGH!
Amen!!!!!
We’ve got to provide more of this for our young people.🙏🏽
This is so beautiful 🤍🔥when we follow God and submit to God he teaches us the real meaning of love our God is an amazing God he’s classified as just the one because no one is forgiving and so loving as much as our God is he loved us so much that he died for us to wash our sins!
So much wisdom in this kitchen praise the Lord!🙌🏾😇
Lovely to see seasoned & loving mothers out there disciplining the younger women...seeing biblical principles coming to life here. Sister is a lovely cook & a safe place to behold. Thank Jesus- keep, cover & bless her in this season & the ones to come💜
Everyone needs to know this not just men because it’s not a one sided thing
Thank you for posting this. I need the rest of it.
It's so good to hear someone talk/teach about marriage ACCORDING TO ACTUAL SCRIPTURE.
LOL.....😅😅😅 SHES SAYING A BUNCH OF NOTHING !!!
P.S. MISLEADING OUR QUEENS !!!
@@emmanueluko4294 And it's thinking like that that has got our people in the situations we're in now.
I love how this lady is mentoring these young ladies doing something regular (cooking). This is true discipleship.❤
I need a one on one with her!! This really touched my spirit! I am hungry for more wisdom!
That’s Ms. Toy Banks give her her dues
Thank you for telling us who she is! I can’t stand when people post someone’s videos and don’t tell us who they are. It’s so disrespectful!!
Thank you 🤗.
Thank you! I came to the comments to learn who she was
Yes, by watching her video, the original.
Some of us have toxic narcissistic mothers who have treat others poorly and do not want a healthy loving relationship, they want strife and they want victimhood. And these moms, we can only honor on our hearts from a distance.
This
Sorry, if the lady I am dating doesn't show signs of being cooperative with my leadership im not interested in marrying her.
Duh. But if she is, then you should marry her. That's the part that most of you fail to do. And then want to fornicate and defile the girl instead of making her a wife before God. God doesn't bless selfishness, nor does he bless anyone stringing his other innocent children along. It's a fine line so good luck.
Thank you so much for this input. Your comment is 🎉 appreciated. I believe so too.
This lady here is probably a stakeholder in the feminist movement!!!
More Power to whoever wants to listen to her advice...madam..you are entitledto your own opinion...its sad tho...😢try and keep such to yourself though. Stop misleading these young queens out here.
Then with your self-centered attitude, you're not fit to be married. Set aside your male ego and really follow Christ. Leadership is serving not dominating. God calls you and your wife to submit to each other (sorry hon, it's there). Those verses are just an example of how to carry out Christ's command to love one another. There's nothing in there about who is the boss or who has the final say, etc.
@@emmanueluko4294 This is not a true Christ-like attitude. This is a worldly, sinful attitude. The Bible doesn't exist to give men an excuse to dominate. You're to act like Christ and love and serve, if you're able to set aside your ego.
She broke this down ❤amen preach sis preach to the young ladies….
May our Lord and Savior JESUS Christ bless this woman!
She’s dope!!🔥🔥🔥
If they are in a sinful relationship that needs to end immediately. The WOG should have stopped the conversation right there bc God does not bless fornication. Next, we never know what individuals have experienced with family members to just be cut and dry on the advice given. Last but not least, we are a people who were broken, peeled, and bound by demon powers and we have history, so seek God for whom he has chosen for you.
If you stop someone's conversation to condemn them. They won't want to listen to you. Rather if you listen to them and provide them feedback they learn and can figure it out on their own. Like the woman was doing she understood where this woman was going she didn't even have to go there with her. And the bible doesn't read on occasions or certain circumstances honor your mother and father it just says honor your mother and father. Joyce Meyer was molested by her father when she was a girl and she initially struggled with honoring her father but she knew in order to be whole with Christ she had to overcome that struggle. So yes it's clean cut because it's clean cut in the 10 commandments. God said what he meant.
We really can't say what God would do. Remember Rahab?
@@Dr.Sharron Give clarity please 🥺
Matthew 18:21-35. Read it. Our sins against The Most High is greater than our sins against each other. YHWH didn't say forgive others for some offenses against you, we are to forgive for everything. YHWH shows us grace and mercy daily no matter how many time we sin against him. Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation. You can forgive someone without having a relationship with them. If that person is toxic, you can love them from afar, and also still be very respectful. It is very cut and dry/black and white/etc.
She's right
I hope this young woman leave that man quickly and I wish people would stop with the man of God and woman of God it’s not biblical especially when those being given that title are displaying lifestyles and behaviour very far from the Lord.
Who started these titles and what do we call each other?
David displayed behavior that was very far from the Lord--- by impregnating a loyal soldier's wofe and then sending that man to the front lines to be killed---and he was a man after God's own heart. And Davis repented and was forgiven though the consequences of his behavior had to play out.
Moses killed a man and hid his body but GOD CHOSE him to lead his people AND God talked to moses directly, something that HE didnt do with many people.
Being a man or a woman of God does not mean being even close to perfect. There are so many people in the Bible they did a lot of raggedy things and yet God used them for His purpose.
We do not know the mind or the heart of God. So we have no business saying who we think is or is not a man or woman of God.
This is how life should be older women teaching younger women how to serve men the right way. These wisdoms would carry a young lady a long way .
Wow this is so good, coming from a spouse/father this lady is super right ✅️ 👏
She better run for the hills and never look back. I heard at least 3 red flags. Take it from someone who has been there and done that! I am happily divorced. Just because a man is going to church that doesn't mean he is serving God the way the Bible states he should. I was deceived and I have been by myself until I know God has sent my spouse. Please note I will not argue or debate with any trolls. Good Day😂
This is so true with women as well.
I used to be such an empty soul sitting in a church seat. I knew how to do church very well, but was such a fence straddler.
I thank the Lord Jesus Christ for deliverance!
In the end, no one should play with the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus wants realness.
And what did your man do that he wasn't serving God like the Bible said?
@@aneciawatson4832 see what I mean? Have you heard the man's side of the story?
@ghostwriter5990 I don't get how asking for more details is considered trolling. The man probably was serving God like the Bible stated but she probably didn't like it like most women don't.
Idk, the lady example of the issues she is having with her bf is vague. We don't know the full story, and we probably never will.
But if we are to take her grievances seriously, then we should take everything she is saying seriously. She has been with this guy for 2 years so obviously there is something she is holding on to. And let's say she has been deceived the whole time - what she is demonstrating now in this video is that she fails to take action and is unable to properly vet individuals who she allows in her circle.
Just as much as the man she is dating is a red flag, so is she at her current place in life. Both individuals seems to have room for growth. I would argue that she should have approached the main lady in a setting that is just between them if she is seeking advice, and/or speak to her bf to either fix the issues or to peacefully end their relationship. It's bad enough she is airing this out in front the women sitting, it's even worse she is airing things out in front of countless people thanks to the video on social media.
This right here!!!! Yes Ma'am!! I am soooo glad she said this!!! All need to hear this!!! Amen Amen!!!❤❤❤❤
Boy I miss my Mother! This is excellent advice! I got good wisdom like this from her and my Granny…praise God I still have Godly women around me by Mommies hit differently.
I don't agree with the- not in communication with a mother , then not ready for marriage.
Some ppl not need be contacted and the relationship severed for reasons that obviously some ppl have never experienced.
When dealing with sociopaths and Malignant Narcissistic family members, the spiritual answer will always be to dis- associate and move on-- or plan your own funeral-- spiritually and in the natural.
# if you have not experienced situations like this, politely move along, and Thank The Most High.💫💫🙏🏾
This is an absolutely great, priceless, direct and brutally honest conversation.
GOD BLESS YOU
Wow! I needed and need this. I think all women need this. I’m moved to change in my own relationship with God. I’m a widow, but I pray for a new love. This is wonderful.
I don't share this ideology, but I love how she's guiding her, and her advice can apply whether you are a believer or not 💛✨
This is why you don't go to another regarding your relationship except for God or your mate. This lady is speaking of this man without this man even being present not even hearing his story!
Do you ladies think that Boaz if she was not submissive in their interactions?
*Serious question.
Nothing but TRUTH, it feels good to know there are women who know. APTTMHY ❤🤲🏾🙌🏾👑🗣️🙏🏾
I didn’t realize this was a skit until the younger lady started talking but this is still really good and necessary.
Truth is truth. Once you hear it anywhere, you know by the Spirit of God. God bless you woman of God. Really love to know and date women with such wisdom. God bless you all
What about when Abraham's servent went to look for a bride for Issac. The bible says “No!” Abraham responded. “Be careful never to take my son there. 7 For the Lord, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and my native land, solemnly promised to give this land to my descendants.[a] He will send his angel ahead of you, and he will see to it that you find a wife there for my son. 8 If she is unwilling to come back with you, then you are free from this oath of mine. But under no circumstances are you to take my son there.” This was clearly an act of submission before marriage. Rebecca had to be willing to go before becoming Isaac's wife.
I love this❤glory, be too God.
If he don’t know this he is not a man of God. And as a woman still growing with God if you don’t understand this you need to stay single . Don’t idolize marriage or you will be sent a counterfeit /narcissist
Agreed, God Bless ..
Should also be taught to Woman of God...
Wow great job
Training or talking to lady on the need for submission in marriage.
It should be title "Men this is how you know you got a real woman of God" 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿✝️✝️✝️💯💯💯
💯 true! I see some of those flaws in me, and I can acknowledge that i displayed the signs she speaks of.
Always listen to mama when she is cooking and giving advise.. That is wisdom. As a young man, I am listening to this too...
If only I had someone like this in my life for the past 10years I wouldn’t be here. Regret is a painful thing to live with
There's always multiple sides to the story.. it's not always as simple as it seems..
What if your parents have done you wrong and keep doing you wrong no matter how much you forgive them. At some point you have to turn the other cheek and walk away for your own mental health.
You answered your own question. 🙋🏾♀️
@@22lanisha 🙏🏾 it was a statement not a question as there is not question mark (❓) but tank you darling 🙏🏾.
Amen. Narcissistic people/parents have to be avoided at all costs. They do the devil’s bidding. The Lord said to flee from wicked people.
❤ Well said, and God will not delay your blessings.
Blessed is this woman of God ❤
Yes, forgive but Jesus doesn’t always call some of us to allow our mother and/or father back into our lives. There’s nothing to honor, when the parent was awful, unrepentant and abusive. Sometimes we must go no contact, especially if that keeps us safe, healthy and connected to God. I honor Jesus with everything I have within me. Thank you for the video. God bless everyone here!!❤
That forgiving mother part hit me. I don’t know how to.
I didn't have that, so that is exactly the role I had to assume. We need elders in this world teaching this! Praise be to YHWH!
See the problem ppl don’t understand submission goes both ways. Most importantly it’s about both man and woman being submitted to God and following his commandments
As I found out the hard way just because someone goes to church doesn't mean they are dedicated to the lord. God ɓless these children to have a true teacher.
Man she giving it from both aspects whats she should expect from him and how she should carry herself. This is tough
This is the best Godly advice about relationships. 💗💗