Yeah someone tried to use me to do something I don’t know i think it was rob something expensive i have but yeah i am very kind and i am kinda dumb so they tried to use me they were a close friend of mine so i hurt when i found out i hate people that use kindness for bad things
My friend borrowed my switch game card and has given it back for 2 months it’s pretty sad and he uses the “I lost it” excuse but he actually hid it under his mattress in his bedroom we aren’t friends anymore
Via catholic rules the aborted fetus to save the mother was seen as not a sin but saving a life because otherwise they both would have died so the priest should be on the wife’s side when it happened.
Can someone enlighten me on how someone can think being child free is a “bad influence?” I have an aunt and uncle who are both a childless couple (they did try for a child but had a miscarriage) and they have been nothing but warm and loving to me and my sister. I picked up some of my most valuable life lessons from THEM, and a lot of my best childhood memories came from spending time with them, particularly my aunt, whom I’m still quite close with. So…where is the bad influence that comes from being “child-free”?
My late wife and I were 'child free'. Not by choice. But we raised more than a few other people's children. Until *very* recently it seemed that my ex-partner and I could become parents, but ... circumstances ... have got in the way, and we've split up.
Cant you see it was never about children The original poster was going through tough times, and he simply didnt wanted to give a shit about that. So he came up with that excuse (Dealing with a person who is going through tough times, is tough, one should do that only if they are close to oneself, and i really dont blame him for that moment, I wouldnt even call him wrong when he asked for help, he was out of options (although wtf is a water heater problem) He went stupid when he had the audacity to literally demand for help) Edit- okay, FUCK! I wrote this before watching the full video And i have some change in my opinion now
It's not just kids. I've seen it with religion/atheism, motorbikes, music, movies, television shows. If you aren't interested in their obsession, you must be against it. Some people will insist on trying to gently convert you to their cause (come on over, we'll watch GoT together. You'll like it because I'll fill you in on every character's backstory.) Others will get pissed and think you're disrespecting them by not sharing their interests (had a neighbor get pissed because I didn't know what make/model his bike was.)
The last house I rented had the hot water heater burst at 4 am. The landlord was there by 6:30 with a new one. He was back on the road within an hour. This guy with the three kids was definitely trying to get in there so he could scam this person and refuse to leave. He was probably going to be evicted
Whenever someone tells me I'm being selfish I just respond: "Yeah. I am. I am prioritizing my own needs over yours." You'd be surprised how often that stops someone in their tracks. They're so used to people denying this that they haven't prepared for someone saying "yeah, tough luck for you."
I have a feeling that guy would refuse to leave her house and offer to buy her house instead. With his children, he can use that as an excuse and blame her for being insensitive to his situation. Ugh, why it looks like watching the same history repeats itself?
Can't wait for part two.... Ngl the suspense is getting to me.. I honestly don't understand how he could even have the courage to actually ask her for something after all he's done. I can't wait to find what the motive could be or was because I can't seen to wrap my head around any of this...
You seem like such a chill guy! We talked in the chat. Keep up the good work and much love from the netherlands! (PS, u should make a discord where people can chat with you!)
Had a freind who needed a place to stay, buy he became a drug addiction. He even literally stole from his own family. Short answer is I told him no, and he's probably still in and out of half way houses.
Can’t wait for the next part. This story is sad but honestly, my favorite when it comes to interest. Can’t wait for the next part, and hope that freeloader gets some more ass-kicking.
Lead up to PART 2, The lead up makes me think his plan was to MOVE IN and Claim tenancy the second he was able so she WITH SPACE could not FORCE them out like everyone else had. She had a LARGE FOOD PANTRY, so plenty of food to STEAL from her, as well as that HUGE HOUSE they could Seemingly force her from. This TOXIC and Abusive couple seems like they didn't really care about any friends and SOLD before they had a plan. Then Refused to lower their standards even though the COST of the house the wanted was Double what they had, and likely still Tipple what they have. You dont get this TOXIC at the drop of a hat unless she has just RUINED HIS MASTER PLAN to evict her from her own home.
Hypocrisy and changes of convenience are some of the most despicable traits in these sorts of people. It speaks in loud tones of their selfishness, and it is even more shameful that they generally hide behind guilt traps and poor excuses.
That is one thing I dislike about social media. Even when people post things with the best of intentions, they might be putting someone on blast in a way they are uncomfortable with.
I'm sorry... did you know you could (gasp) MAKE hot water? And did you know you can mix it with cold water to make warm water? And did you know there's a container made to hold water called a Bathtub? And then? You can wash yourself in it. I know, I know, this futuristic tech is pretty mindblowing. My hot water was broken for ages and you make due. Feels like he'd try to move his family out if their internet was down, too, because to him losing a home luxury would be classified as an "emergency."
Jeez that Dave story. MY hot water heater went this past winter and it took a several days to replace (insurance issues delayed it) but that doesn't mean the house is UNLIVEABLE! A space heater and going to actual friends for showers and laundry is inconvenient but not the end of the world.
So Dave thinks he can refuse to help OP in her time of need, not contact her in 3 years, and then ask for a big favor like that. But I thought she was a bad example because she doesn't want to have children. What changed after 3 years, Dave? Oh yeah, you need OP now.
How the hell is not having hot water a serious emergency? Do you not have a stove? Can you not heat water if you actually need it? A cold shower isn't going to kill anyone. Sheesh. Dude just sounded like he wanted to live somewhere rent free.
Exactly. I've had both.siruations. My water meter and my water heater. Not at the same time,yet the repairs took less than 6 hours. We remained at the house during repairs,...so much for that excuse.
If I were OP, I would have responded to the original text asking for help with: "I would love to help you out but, I don't think a childless person, like my self, would be a good influence on you and your children. Therefore, I'm afraid I cannot, in good conscience, help you out." "I can, if you like, recommend some hotels in the area you could stay until your unfortunate situation has been resolved.".
Darn! I missed the live chat premiere! 🥲 I so look forward to them! Next time! Just finished watching your new vid though and it is GREAT as usual! Keep up your awesome content and presentation! ❤️ Love your channel! ❤️ and listen to you on Spotify too! 🥰
1st story, yeah....there is NO WAY that I would touch this with a 10 ft pole. #1 you are a single woman with no children. HE is a married man with children, that is not your friend (per his words). #2 a hot water heater is NOT a reason to move out. I have lived without a hot water heater for over 9 months due to cost to have my entire house gas replumbed. A water heater replacement itself is a few hours....I replaced mine in less than 2 hours.
i just started to watch your videos and i love watching them i found your channel while scrolling threw youtube and it looked cool so i clicked on it and i loved the vid and i started watching more i love your content keep it up.
My own water heater because plumbing has its own room has a drain next to it and the turn off valves are in that room can hit the lowest times. But some houses have everything burried, drains far from the tank and hard to find valves thus their time increases huge times.
Also just wanna drop it here.. can we have a discord for the community? I'd love to discuss these scenarios and povs with other people and with the admin as well as share some stories
Even if the water heater has to be replaced , as long as it doesn't have to be ordered because not in stock right then , it should only take a couple of hours.
dave: let me skwate in ur house i mean stay for a week op: no ur not skwating in my house dave: im gonna blast u on facebook to the karens shelly: i want to speak to ur manager op: this is not a grocery store karen
A water heater going out is NOT an emergency. Heat water in a big pot for baths, or use small containers for hot drinks. Of course, call a plumber and make an appointment to get the water heater checked or replaced.
Thumbs up for "pound sand" alone. I don't hear that much from anyone outside my family (always thought it was a great insult). Also, I got a hot water heater replaced in four hours on a Sunday. Sure, I had to take one cold shower and that wasn't much fun, but it's hardly a multiple day endeavor.
when the father said he needed to stay in their house cuz no hot water for his kids ME:JUST BOIL HOT WATER AND MIX IT WITH COLD WATER, THATS WHAT WE DID WHEN WE WERE YOUNG IN MY FAMILY
You can get a central air unit replaced in around 6 hours (inside&out.) Hot water heater should be a couple hours. Only reason it would be a couple days is if there's some sort of backorder on parts, or they had one plumber in town that was just booked solid. Also, correct me if I'm wrong, but you can heat water on the stove, take a cold shower, or shower at the Y, yes? Not having cold water doesn't really make you homeless.
My dads best friend is child free and he is so sweet he drove to our house that’s 12 hours away to see us plus he brought like 20 packs of a drink that is not sold in anywhere but Tennessee
This is at the same time a horror story about the things you can learn about someone through social media. Keep for the memes folks, and make anonymous private account
Sounds like he’s gonna rob or scam her out of her own house somehow.
yep red flag alert lock your doors and leave him in the dust
“ yo can I have ur house? I said I liked ur hair to someone yesterday”
Yeah squatter rights
The thing about squatters is that it’s very hard to get rid of them. You need to be very careful from the start with squatters.
yeah tbh these stories are the best when they end in. successful revenge
It is a shame how people use kindness as an excuse.
Yeah someone tried to use me to do something I don’t know i think it was rob something expensive i have but yeah i am very kind and i am kinda dumb so they tried to use me they were a close friend of mine so i hurt when i found out i hate people that use kindness for bad things
My friend borrowed my switch game card and has given it back for 2 months it’s pretty sad and he uses the “I lost it” excuse but he actually hid it under his mattress in his bedroom we aren’t friends anymore
@@ffown82 I feel so sorry for you
@@assassingaming1377 That is dissapointing.I feel bad for you
it a shame of playing fortnite almost the whole vid
Via catholic rules the aborted fetus to save the mother was seen as not a sin but saving a life because otherwise they both would have died so the priest should be on the wife’s side when it happened.
3:51
Yeah, this is what I don't understand.
@@dylanmcloughlin2187 well the child is doomed either way so you cannot see it as something to save but you can save the mother.
Story 1: let them take cold showers or find someone else to stay with. Their reason for not talking to you is complete bull.
Can someone enlighten me on how someone can think being child free is a “bad influence?”
I have an aunt and uncle who are both a childless couple (they did try for a child but had a miscarriage) and they have been nothing but warm and loving to me and my sister. I picked up some of my most valuable life lessons from THEM, and a lot of my best childhood memories came from spending time with them, particularly my aunt, whom I’m still quite close with.
So…where is the bad influence that comes from being “child-free”?
My late wife and I were 'child free'. Not by choice. But we raised more than a few other people's children. Until *very* recently it seemed that my ex-partner and I could become parents, but ... circumstances ... have got in the way, and we've split up.
Cant you see it was never about children
The original poster was going through tough times, and he simply didnt wanted to give a shit about that.
So he came up with that excuse
(Dealing with a person who is going through tough times, is tough, one should do that only if they are close to oneself, and i really dont blame him for that moment,
I wouldnt even call him wrong when he asked for help, he was out of options (although wtf is a water heater problem)
He went stupid when he had the audacity to literally demand for help)
Edit- okay, FUCK! I wrote this before watching the full video
And i have some change in my opinion now
Same have a aunt and uncle couldn’t have children. The rest of my family all have kids and they’re the only couple in my family that isn’t divorced
Bceause the person is for some reason stuck to old fashioned sexist ideals. To them womens main goals in life should be to get married and have kids.
It's not just kids. I've seen it with religion/atheism, motorbikes, music, movies, television shows. If you aren't interested in their obsession, you must be against it. Some people will insist on trying to gently convert you to their cause (come on over, we'll watch GoT together. You'll like it because I'll fill you in on every character's backstory.) Others will get pissed and think you're disrespecting them by not sharing their interests (had a neighbor get pissed because I didn't know what make/model his bike was.)
The last house I rented had the hot water heater burst at 4 am. The landlord was there by 6:30 with a new one. He was back on the road within an hour. This guy with the three kids was definitely trying to get in there so he could scam this person and refuse to leave. He was probably going to be evicted
Yea, I work in insurance, a broken water heater is considered an emergency so they send some to fix it the same day.
Didn't even think about that. And besides yall can live without hot water for a day or 2.
Whenever someone tells me I'm being selfish I just respond: "Yeah. I am. I am prioritizing my own needs over yours."
You'd be surprised how often that stops someone in their tracks. They're so used to people denying this that they haven't prepared for someone saying "yeah, tough luck for you."
Works every single time, last thing someone expects is "Yep. Tough luck"
This is gold! Thanks for this.
yeah i do the same and it feels amazing and actually it helped my self esteem and now i care more about myself
Love the idea of calling out a guilt tripper on their machinations
Did you ever encounter someone who has a comeback for that? I also wanna know how their response went
I have a feeling that guy would refuse to leave her house and offer to buy her house instead. With his children, he can use that as an excuse and blame her for being insensitive to his situation. Ugh, why it looks like watching the same history repeats itself?
Can't wait for part two.... Ngl the suspense is getting to me.. I honestly don't understand how he could even have the courage to actually ask her for something after all he's done. I can't wait to find what the motive could be or was because I can't seen to wrap my head around any of this...
You seem like such a chill guy! We talked in the chat. Keep up the good work and much love from the netherlands!
(PS, u should make a discord where people can chat with you!)
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I love how everyone he knew wanted to get down to the bottom of it
moving out cause no hot water: "me in a ice bath everyday"
Had a freind who needed a place to stay, buy he became a drug addiction. He even literally stole from his own family. Short answer is I told him no, and he's probably still in and out of half way houses.
My aunt did that too ! She said the seller was givin them to my mother's friend
Can’t wait for the next part. This story is sad but honestly, my favorite when it comes to interest. Can’t wait for the next part, and hope that freeloader gets some more ass-kicking.
Love the content, keep it up 👍 also what game is in the background (the motorbike one)?
Obviously
Lead up to PART 2, The lead up makes me think his plan was to MOVE IN and Claim tenancy the second he was able so she WITH SPACE could not FORCE them out like everyone else had. She had a LARGE FOOD PANTRY, so plenty of food to STEAL from her, as well as that HUGE HOUSE they could Seemingly force her from. This TOXIC and Abusive couple seems like they didn't really care about any friends and SOLD before they had a plan. Then Refused to lower their standards even though the COST of the house the wanted was Double what they had, and likely still Tipple what they have. You dont get this TOXIC at the drop of a hat unless she has just RUINED HIS MASTER PLAN to evict her from her own home.
Oh a male Karen. That’s a rare One of the Karen species.
Rare specimen
Yes but they are VERY annoying and pathetic
It’s a shiny Karen
Their scientific word is ken
Daren
Hypocrisy and changes of convenience are some of the most despicable traits in these sorts of people. It speaks in loud tones of their selfishness, and it is even more shameful that they generally hide behind guilt traps and poor excuses.
That is one thing I dislike about social media. Even when people post things with the best of intentions, they might be putting someone on blast in a way they are uncomfortable with.
"Yup. Yup. Yup. Yup. Yup." in x2.0 speed is my new addition. 😂😂😂😂😂
I remember that but someone pls give timestamp
The law of staying 7 days and claiming tenants right will always baffle me. Who tf even came up with that
"Oh man, houses are worth so much right now, I should sell my house!" "Why are houses so expensive... I can't buy a house!"
I need part two please i can't wait 😩 😫 😭
Love your work 10/10
I'm sorry... did you know you could (gasp) MAKE hot water?
And did you know you can mix it with cold water to make warm water?
And did you know there's a container made to hold water called a Bathtub?
And then? You can wash yourself in it.
I know, I know, this futuristic tech is pretty mindblowing.
My hot water was broken for ages and you make due. Feels like he'd try to move his family out if their internet was down, too, because to him losing a home luxury would be classified as an "emergency."
They could use bucket if not use electric rod for heating water
This is what I apply to every possible situation: "You're a jerk!" "Yeah, and you'd better f*cking deal with it"
1:20 Friends; there when they need you. Gone when you need them
this was recommended and i love it
(Sorry if I mispelled it I'm not an english speaker.)
How can people just straight up ask such favours after going low or no contact after being such jerks??? This just baffles me!!
I just watched groot ride Kurama to land and crank 90s on Rick Sanchez wile using a candy cane pick axe
Jeez that Dave story. MY hot water heater went this past winter and it took a several days to replace (insurance issues delayed it) but that doesn't mean the house is UNLIVEABLE! A space heater and going to actual friends for showers and laundry is inconvenient but not the end of the world.
More addicting than a netflix series
So Dave thinks he can refuse to help OP in her time of need, not contact her in 3 years, and then ask for a big favor like that. But I thought she was a bad example because she doesn't want to have children. What changed after 3 years, Dave? Oh yeah, you need OP now.
Wife jealous of her?
OP : seriusly get some tea
Me at 2 in the morning😐
Ah yes my favorite series
@@AmItheJerk Nobody will ever get the joy I get listening to this on my way home from school ☺️☺️☺️
Damn.. can't wait for part 2
I love ur tik tokk and spotify toooo
How the hell is not having hot water a serious emergency? Do you not have a stove? Can you not heat water if you actually need it? A cold shower isn't going to kill anyone. Sheesh. Dude just sounded like he wanted to live somewhere rent free.
Great story! And no you are not a jerk
Exactly. I've had both.siruations. My water meter and my water heater. Not at the same time,yet the repairs took less than 6 hours. We remained at the house during repairs,...so much for that excuse.
If I were OP, I would have responded to the original text asking for help with: "I would love to help you out but, I don't think a childless person, like my self, would be a good influence on you and your children. Therefore, I'm afraid I cannot, in good conscience, help you out." "I can, if you like, recommend some hotels in the area you could stay until your unfortunate situation has been resolved.".
would have responded with “i thought i was a bad influence? 😂 go find someone who’s “not a bad influence” to live with” 😝😻
The shocked Pikachu face that the seller's market applies to everyone's house and not just theirs
I love these stories i watch like 5 vids a dau
Oh man I was excited to hear part two. Oh well I'll catch it when you upload it.
Very nice vid. Thanks You.
I love your videos and content ❤️❤️❤️
@@AmItheJerk Yes sir
@@AmItheJerk I subbed too
Is noone gonna talk about how the man is cranking ‘90s in the backround?
when he said to get tea i actually made myself tea to enjoy while listening
hello :D i love ur vids man great job
1)These sort of Jerks doesn't need any consolation.
Wow, those people were lucky. My waterheater broke and they couldn't fix it for an entire MONTH. And it was in the middle of winter.
Our boiler broke once and we didn't ask for help, naw we covered ourselves in blankets till it was fixed
Darn! I missed the live chat premiere! 🥲 I so look forward to them! Next time! Just finished watching your new vid though and it is GREAT as usual! Keep up your awesome content and presentation! ❤️ Love your channel! ❤️ and listen to you on Spotify too! 🥰
What do you mean bye live chat premiere like on reddit or something also your comment is lovely it is nice to see people like you 😁
@@assassingaming1377 no it’s a thing on TH-cam when they release the video you can chat with the people watching
@@Psycophant oh ok
Congrats on 500k
need part 2 immediately ong
1st story, yeah....there is NO WAY that I would touch this with a 10 ft pole. #1 you are a single woman with no children. HE is a married man with children, that is not your friend (per his words). #2 a hot water heater is NOT a reason to move out. I have lived without a hot water heater for over 9 months due to cost to have my entire house gas replumbed. A water heater replacement itself is a few hours....I replaced mine in less than 2 hours.
I feel bad about how a man is trying to hustle you into your house
I was so invested in the fortnite gameplay i had a hard time actually listening lmao
He’s a bad influence on me. I LOVE that
It will be good if the person on 1st story used air quotes and said "im child free and im bad influence to his childs"
You can hear the shock in his voice also the audacity of this man
i just started to watch your videos and i love watching them i found your channel while scrolling threw youtube and it looked cool so i clicked on it and i loved the vid and i started watching more i love your content keep it up.
You know, if you want someone to help you, you ought to help them at some point in time.
I had no hot water for a while during the winter as my heater broke but me and my family were still completely fine
I hate in the stories OP is always guilted- "How could you do this to a child?!!" I'm not doing anything, these are YOUR kids and YOUR responsibility
New water heater install 3 hours depending on plumbing. Fixing an element 5 minutes to 1 hour depending on setup.
My own water heater because plumbing has its own room has a drain next to it and the turn off valves are in that room can hit the lowest times. But some houses have everything burried, drains far from the tank and hard to find valves thus their time increases huge times.
Got my popcorn and tea this will be good
Also just wanna drop it here.. can we have a discord for the community? I'd love to discuss these scenarios and povs with other people and with the admin as well as share some stories
great video
nooo i was heavly invested please post very soon
Even if the water heater has to be replaced , as long as it doesn't have to be ordered because not in stock right then , it should only take a couple of hours.
Great job, have a good day.
dave: let me skwate in ur house i mean stay for a week
op: no ur not skwating in my house
dave: im gonna blast u on facebook to the karens
shelly: i want to speak to ur manager
op: this is not a grocery store karen
A water heater going out is NOT an emergency. Heat water in a big pot for baths, or use small containers for hot drinks.
Of course, call a plumber and make an appointment to get the water heater checked or replaced.
I love ur vids
So much drama over nothing. I would have told him, I can't live with anyone because I'm a bad influence.
Thumbs up for "pound sand" alone. I don't hear that much from anyone outside my family (always thought it was a great insult). Also, I got a hot water heater replaced in four hours on a Sunday. Sure, I had to take one cold shower and that wasn't much fun, but it's hardly a multiple day endeavor.
Gonna be honest it really does sound like they were trying to get tenants rights
when the father said he needed to stay in their house cuz no hot water for his kids
ME:JUST BOIL HOT WATER AND MIX IT WITH COLD WATER, THATS WHAT WE DID WHEN WE WERE YOUNG IN MY FAMILY
Broken water heater is not an emergency situation.
You can get a central air unit replaced in around 6 hours (inside&out.) Hot water heater should be a couple hours. Only reason it would be a couple days is if there's some sort of backorder on parts, or they had one plumber in town that was just booked solid.
Also, correct me if I'm wrong, but you can heat water on the stove, take a cold shower, or shower at the Y, yes? Not having cold water doesn't really make you homeless.
i as not prepared to get a cliffhanger on a reddit stories video
I have been reading all these stories and can't believe people like this exist. Where does this sense entitlement comes from in the first place......
Good video 👍👍
Thanks for the video
For Dave’s water heater I thought he was evicted
if i was in this situation my brain will definitely stop functioning
His mother would be disappointed in him.
My dads best friend is child free and he is so sweet he drove to our house that’s 12 hours away to see us plus he brought like 20 packs of a drink that is not sold in anywhere but Tennessee
I cant ever figure out the family relations during the story, as there are always SO MANY family members
Back2Basic: i was 55 before i saw my place in my family, so family guilt is slowly being tramped down with i know WHERE I stand!
I can’t lie I actually paused the video and made some tea for the second part 😂
Bruh they call no hot water an emergency talk about spoiled
The thumbnails’ male karen: HOUSE MY FAMILY
Me: ok *turns his family into houses*
Him: WHAT YOU DO?!
Me: You said “HOUSE MY FAMILY”.
This is at the same time a horror story about the things you can learn about someone through social media. Keep for the memes folks, and make anonymous private account
Can someone please explain the “tenants rights” thing to me? I’m not American so I don’t understand.
Already hyped before it started
once my water heater broke and a guy fixed it in about 10 minutes, pretty fast ngl
Damn the gameplay in the background is sweaty
People lived hundreds of years without hot water heaters. You heat the cold water on the stove...what a load of BS🙄