I’m glad this topic is being talked about because most folks don’t sign up for a sexless marriage and live through the entrapment some ladies put some men through. I’ve stated that in a healthy marriage sex denial happens once in a while but it shouldn’t be often because why wouldn’t you want to have sex with your hot husband?!😂cmon ladies!!!
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Sooo these women are ok with laying it low & spreading it wide for 50+ complete strangers BUT they draw the line with the man you’ve committed your life to?? 😵💫
Exactly?! The stranger on tinder who they talked to for two days on tinder and might have a few severed heads in his freezer is fair game. but the man who stood up before God and his entire family and professed his love, signed a government contract putting his assets on the line, and went to work 50 hours a week for years to provide for them is a grapist for asking.. lol
I mean, you can hear them talk about how when they are interested in a guy, they make him wait to see if he's really interested in her, yet at the same time, they are still banging numerous guys on the side.
The issue isn't whether it's better to sleep with a lot of men or just one. The issue is whether or not a woman in a committed relationship should be allowed to say no EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE if she doesn't want to have sex.
I was married for 10 years. My wife gave me everything I wanted as far as bedroom fun. We really enjoyed ourselves in that area. And I love that girl with my whole heart I would give anything for her, I would crawl through broken glass in the desert for her. Unfortunately she passed five years ago. She really took care of our family, she was a real good woman. I miss her greatly. Modern women today have no idea how a relationship is supposed to work
I’ve been married for 13 years…. I can tell you your advice IS what keeps a marriage going. These women haven’t been in a relationship long enough to know what it takes.
Wow those responses are crazy. Your video on the “sex denial spreadsheet” really made me think about how often I say no to my husband. Since I watched that I’ve been saying yes every time, and you know what? I wasn’t that tired after all, and nothing on my to do list was nearly as enjoyable for me. My husband is waaaayy more relaxed too! It seems so obvious now.
I love seeing this! I have very very rarely said no throughout my entire 12 year marriage. And normally it's more of a postponing of sex rather than a flat out no. Like I ate too much at dinner, let's do it in a couple of hours sort of thing lol. The thing I have learned is that even if I start out not in the mood, within 5 minutes I have no idea why I wasn't in the mood to begin with lol. And the benefits are sooo good. I honestly believe it's one of the top reasons my marriage is as good as it is.
As a man, I must state: You are really pretty, and there is nothing wrong with your voice. Your husband is lucky to have you! So the modern entitled woman: Having regular sex with the husband is misogyny and oppression, but cheating on him or keeping and dating with multiple men is Okay... Because Chad and Tyrone definitely won't use them and dump them the next morning. Using your husband/ partner / multiple dudes is not misandry at all.... I hope you get the heavy irony and sarcasm.
Also modern entitled women: fleece men for as much spousal support and child support as possible when they did nothing to instantiate a divorce and want joint custody of their own children but are alienated instead. "Rights for me, but not for thee."
Our grandmothers would have been canceled if they had access to social media!! My grandmother used to say “Marriage isn’t hard. You just gotta F them and feed them.” That’s how you keep a man happy. You made them feel loved and special when you show sexual interest in them. Men don’t get compliments from their friends on Instagram like we do. It really makes them feel good if you tell them they are hot and you want them. Why wouldn’t you want your husband to feel loved and valued? And men think if you won’t sleep with them that you don’t love them. Rejection hurts. I think as women we really don’t understand this because men don’t turn down sex. But imagine if you put yourself out there and your husband said no all the time? It’s devastating. Instead of being so triggered these women should try having a little empathy
@@carmenromero4601 You come from Spain right? Can be seen. Therefore Spanish men search wives outside. Do not ask how I know, guapa! ;) Bad that no one wants to wife you but I am not surprised.
I just want to say how refreshing your opinion is. I have been married for the past 35 years. 10 years ago my wife was struck down with a disease of her brain stem. We have NOT had intercourse since August 2015. I have never ever forced her to make love to me or the other way around. We love each other and we believe in the marriage vows we took. In sickness and in health. I was very sick when I was in the military. I spent 105 days in hospital, died on the operating table twice and had my spleen rupture. It took 5 doctors to save me. My wife was there for me everyday. I never forgot that and that is why we are still together today. Forget what these abused, and brainwashed women think. They probably do not have husbands so they wouldn't know what true love is. Imagine giving up your body every night to a stranger but not wanting to give it up to your husband. WHY did you get married in the first place if you don't want to have sex with him? Oh by the way I cook, clean and do dishes and love seeing the look on my wife's face when I make supper for her. She wasn't expected to live past Christmas but because of my love and care she is still around. Oh one more thing. I had Esophageal CANCER at the same time I was looking after my wife. Radiation treatments 5 days a week and Chemo for 4 1/2 hours every Wednesday. Bet you women wish you had someone the loved you this much. It just goes to show how much you know about a REAL MAN. I'm 67 and glad I don't have to deal with women like the ones giving you problems. It just goes to show you that FEMINISTS can't take the truth. Keep up the good work.
Reading your story made me tear up on the inside. The love between you and your wife is so beautiful 😢. I pray to God that you two fight on and a miracle happens because I know you cherish each moment with each other.
@@lialiathelock Thank-you for those kind words. Yes it is truly a blessing when you find your other half. This is what the FEMINISTS are missing out on. I only made $ 25,000 Canadian at that time. Todays Feminists wouldn't give me the time of day. I am a simple hardworking guy. True love CAN be found with us that only make low - middle income. We may not have much in material things but we have loads of gold in each other. Be well Jannamain.
Man, sir, that's the kind of love and respect for your wife and your marriage that Rebecca is trying to tell these women they can have, but they don't want it. But when they all reach your age, and are alone with no children, grandchildren, husband, or anyone who loves them there, they'll finally get it. But it'll be too late by then. I salute you, sir! My wife has many illness issues and she worries constantly that I may leave, but I'm like you. I took my vows more seriously than I've ever taken anything.
I am disabled and have a chronic illness ,I always try my best to accommodate all my husband's needs he is always sweet and considerate and appreciative for taking care of him. ❤
Sadly, the women that are against this, are also angry and lonely.. cannot hold on to a man and a healthy relationships. I am extremely grateful for your content, I've grown and become a better wife thanks to your advice. I was already on a journey to my feminine side when I found your content, which has reinforce, strengthen and even helped to understand so much about my behavior and how it affects my relationship. Keep teaching us! We need more women like you willing to share your story and helping us get out of the LIES of feminist mentality.
I am unique that I am an actual independent woman, who ran maintenance and landscaping for the park service and didn't become a nurse 🙄 I am traditional in my relationships. I was also in the kink community before that safe space for women got destroyed. What these little girls think submission is, isn't. Leaning hard into my femininity is one of the sexiest things. I am a scientist and cooking is chemistry. As far as being pleasant, that goes both ways. What girls don't understand is that these guys are around other men all day long, and just need some feminine energy. I love men, I was raised by men. Even I have moments when I can't take all the crude jokes and farting and need to be around women, lol. The girls don't understand that it isn't submission, they are looking for civilization. It isn't a want but a need for an antidote.
just watch the whatever podcast or better yet, fresh and fit.. yesterday's show was a good example of the modern women entitlement.. catering to men.. even aknowledging facts... they fathom the idea of conceding to any point.. even one that shouldnt be even be debated such as men being stronger PHISYCALLY than women. the modern women are leeches.. they come up with a laundry list of demands but if a man has standards or just expect sex.. women get mad
@@RebeccaBarrett If these Women consider Sex with their Husband Such a Chore, Distasteful, Unappealing, Etc. Why did these Women Marry these Men? for the "Security" (Money?) are these Women Refraining from Spending their Partners Money like they Refrain from Sex With their Partners? we all know the answer to that. typically what you have in Sexless Marriages Is Average looking Women Denying Sex to their Average looking Husbands because they are, and or Want to have Sex with Above-Average looking Men. Since EVERY Woman considers herself a 10, and partnering with a Man She does NOT consider a 10 Is Settling.
I'm a male. My wife and I have been together for 33 years and married for 30 years. It makes me so sad that these women don't get the basic idea of Marriage. In marriage, you care about the other person above yourself and your partner does the same for you. Your Spouse is your Best Friend, get it? BEST FRIEND! In marriage, you put your spouse above everyone else.....no one is more important than your spouse, not your friends, not your parents and not your kids (why kids? because children grow up and leave, but your spouse will still be there "Till Death Do Us Part". If the person you want to marry is not your best friend and the most important person in your life, DON'T GET MARRIED!!
These women are always projecting ... "Let him use you as a masturbatory aid"... Are they implying being with 50 men or 100s of men ISN'T being used? Tbh in a marriage I'm just fine with being "used" in that way by my husband sometimes if ya know what I mean 😏😂 At least he wants to touch me and it's much more dignified being a Mrs. 😇
Yeah, it always makes me feel better about myself when my husband wants to have s3x with me, because it means he finds me beautiful and attractive! I don't know how being willing to have s3x with your husband when he asks is "being used" but deciding to go out and have s3x with guys you've never seen before and have only spent a hour or three with is not being used. Make it make sense! LOL
@@kristinewberg7656 they are the center of the universe. If they want it then it's good. If they don't want it and have to do it for someone else then it's bad, since they should never ever have feel obligated to do anything they don't want or that would make then feel uncomfortable if its for another person. Just standard run of the mill selfishness
A masturbatory aid... what a ridiculous statement. Masturbation kind of indirectly implies lack of penetration, doesn't it? It can be done with only one person in the room.
I don't talk to women anymore. I am so sick of the abuse and the arguing. But mostly I'm sick of the phase where they are fake then once they think you pair bonded the crazy comes out. I would rather just be alone. Women are hateful and rude for no reason all the time. When you talk about your struggles on line you are an incel or boring without even being known. Even y'all's comments I don't trust lol. That's what women did to us. We are way more likely to kill ourselves. Who knew in a world where women treat you like you should kill yourself for saying good morning with uncombed hair. Or less...
My husband has never told me, “oh hey honey, my head hurts. Guess I can’t go to work today.” He has never said, “hey, I know I said I’d protect you and make you feel safe but I’m not really feeling it today.” He does everything in his power to provide for me why shouldn’t I do the same?
My grandmother taught me how to keep a man. Don't use sex as a weapon or punishment, it's ok to say no. Your husband should respect that, but also don't say it too much. They'll stop asking and probably find it somewhere else. In her own words why would you punish yourself? If you really love him you're going to want it too. 😊 I'm gonna say pretty solid advice I've been married for 13yrs together going on 17yrs.
@@wasimmomin1128 mine was a little different. She worked 60hrs a week. My granddad did most of the cooking. He earned his stay at home granddad right though. He did two tours in Vietnam and worked at the Toyota factory until a car rolled on top of him.
Okay THIS, I didn't see the og post just the clip she showed here and I'm thinking maybe the reason people got heated is that it comes across as never say no, your feelings don't matter, he wants it? He gets it. Case closed. And that's a big no. But if she said it the way you said it then that's reasonable for sure
@@roxy4325 yes! That small clip makes it seem like if you say no because you're in physical pain and clearly don't want sex then he's allowed to cheat or something because you're not "doing your duties as a wife"
I was widowed in my 40s. My marriage was the greatest achievement of my life. We fulfilled our vows! The loss of a husband is indescribable. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I just don’t understand these bitter women. I’m sad but I don’t let it get me down. I love it when people speak well of their spouses!
I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you loved fiercely, with your entire heart and soul. I agree with your sentiment; I can't imagine these bitter women actually love or respect their partners. If you read this comment, I hope it finds you well; I'm certain your husband would want you to find happiness where you can, until you can be with him again.
The issue is most women settle and marry men they're not attracted to just because they are desperate for a ring and family. Thus, once they get what they want, the sex dries up.
One of the main reasons I left my ex wife after 20 years was zero effort in sex and oral. I asked her and was turned down so many times I was sick of it. I just never understood how while I was working 12 - 16 hours a day so she could stay home with the kids, she couldn’t just suck it up for 15 minutes. When I finally left her she tried EVERYTHING to get me back including writing an insane sex contract agreeing to do dozens of depraved things on command. I told her I don’t want a prostitute, I wanted the wife I married and if it took me leaving to show you how much it matters after I told you a thousand times it’s too late.
@@loralu9420 If by her raising the children, you mean me getting up at 5 AM every day to go for a run, making breakfast for everyone in the house, making the kids lunches, then going to work, and coming home and cooking dinner, and doing the dishes, so her big responsibility was driving them to private school and picking them up, then, yes, I did, multiple times. As a woman, she had a very specific job as my wife, and she failed at that job. If you are no good at your job you get replaced. Oh, and that mother of the year took off to go live on the beach in Honduras on the $5,000 a month I give her and hasn’t seen the kids in 2 years.
Girl, preach!! I have been such a better partner since I've started listening to you! I've realized that me denying him bc I don't feel good is very selfish of me. Now as you said, there are exceptions but he never asks for sex if I'm truly sick. We are closer as a couple since I've started caring for him as much as he cares for me. I have an amazing man and I don't ever want you lose him over something stupid!
@@carmenromero4601 hmm, replying to a bunch of comments with just laughing emogis? Someone is coming across as a bit triggered. No words? Who did you lose because you weren't treating them right? Or who treated you so poorly that you determined never to treat anyone great again? That's where to start. Laughing isn't going to fix or change anything...
People like that will never see the logic or your explanations as worthy when they are viewing everything from a lense of hate, anger, and/or hurt. Keep up the good work! 👍 ❤
100% agree , men are different then us. They have different needs. Give it up seriously! I've been married 27 years im 49 and I still give it up when he wants it.
You can see they try to attack your looks (you're actually lovely looking) yet are the same people who'll say everyone is beautiful or everyone is a 10 😂
Well, they _never_ say that all men are a 10. In fact, they consider very few of them to be worthy, and those ones are essentially gods regardless of how little respect toward women is exhibited. Of course, _all_ women are 10s, unless they defy the matriarchy’s current narrative.
Ffs it gets even worse! I've legit had women who looked at me sideways for wanting to have kids. It's a dealbreaker for me that the woman must want them too... "Oh so you see women only as baby making machines!?"... I just walked off the date. This is why walks in the park and tea/coffee are the first dates now. If she's insane, I lose nothing.
Of course that's a dealbreaker! No one should date or marry anyone who doesn't share the same values/beliefs as them and wants the same things out of life, and whether or not you want kids is a huge part of that. And it's better to find that out as soon as possible before feelings get involved and then it's harder to break up. Plus good job with the coffee dates as a first date. I think that's good for everyone. You get to have a casual getting to know you conversation to know if you're compatible at all before moving forward.
"All those women who say that having a moment of intimacy with their husbands is something forced should divorce, do themselves a favor, and find a partner they are truly in love with. Also, give your husbands the opportunity to find someone who loves them. It's horrible to find out that the woman who is your wife feels that way and that sex with you is not a moment of spiritual and physical closeness."
The harsh truth is that these women will NEVER find love, because they are incapable of love. The very notion of marriage to them is transactional, nothing about intimacy.
well the problem is that would be a majority of modern wives, they couldn't get Chad to commit so they "settled" on a guy they don't really love but they can leach his resources.
It's incumbent upon men to screen the women they date to ensure that their future wife does indeed have genuine burning desire for them. The problem is that many men unfortunately have never experienced that in their relationships so they don't actually know what to screen for...
Girl you got to remember we live in a time when people be confused about whether they're men or women. So you think they'll apply logic to marriage? What you said is 💯 on point!
I think my husband is one of the few men that wants to have sex when I’m on my period. As he puts it “Hey babe, when the kids are asleep, I wanna slay the dragon” I have only fully rejected my husband for sex if I am in so much physical pain (like a pulled muscle in my back) or I am so sick that jostling me will make me throw up. Even then though….I at least offer if I can “help” him to tide over his urges until I am physically able to have sex with him again. As a married couple with kids, we had the conversation before children, that we would have sex at least once a week. Usually it is more, but just in case things get so busy or hectic, I keep track in a journal when we do the devils tango. I will look at it and see “oh, we haven’t had sex in three days. Soon as the kids are asleep, I’m slipping into something sexy and jumping him”
This is a much better alternative than the usual "Ooh I feel gross" type of excuses women make. Hell, the fact you keep a log on how many days he went without getting his weekly dose is awesome of you to be his Oasis.
Lynnsey Riley Woow a man's fantasy. A wife who initiates sex? Where do I go to buy one of these unicorns, he chuckles as he point to his name. You're special sweetheart although I have to admit I'm not into dragon slaying, however everyone to their own, Whatever floats your boat
@@HappywifeTaylor And that’s completely fair and normal too! Honestly my husband only originally wanted to have sex when I was on my period, because that was the only time we would do it without any protection when we were first in a relationship. I was on birth control and he would use condemns every-time we were intimate. Then one time he asked if we could try bareback when I was on my period; which by the way, that time of the month for me is very mild. First day is kind of crampy, but then the next four days it’s a mild annoyance with barely any aches and I just have to remember to change my pad/tampon. Anyways, I told him it would be messy and he replied “that’s what towels are for and we can shower afterwards” He thoroughly enjoyed it and for the next year that was the only time we would have unprotected sex. Then we got engaged, and that changed our sex arrangement completely 😜
Fact is any woman could take care of her man so quickly and easily it isn't even funny. And I think some women are too full of themselves or sincerely too stupid to realize it. If nothing else when he gets home drop to your knees give him five minutes and he will absolutely adore you for it! Men are so simple and easy to please. You simply just don't need to be a BIATCH
Your original video had such a positive impact on me and my mindset towards sex with my partner. I Was the woman who regularly pulled every card she had just to get out of sex. Like it was life or death. A little over a year ago I started getting pretty regular ptsd-esque flashbacks to numerous instances of sexual abuse I experienced as a minor. Prior to that our sex life had been great, but it almost immediately shifted into a stressful and lifeless one. I was upfront with my partner about the issues I was having, and he agreed that a temporary slow down of our normal sex life would be the best thing for me. Cut to a year later, and the end of every long day is a (often unspoken) stand-off match between his physical/mental wellbeing and my anxiety. This dynamic has never done our relationship any favors, often leading us into the same tired conversation, night after night after night. FOR A YEAR. When I watched your video, I cried. I knew I was supposed to want to have sex with my partner. I felt guilty every time I’d tell him no. But I gave more credit to my deeply flawed past relationships than the deeply sustainable one I have in the present. I felt the accountability. It was awesome. Owning my part of any problems I recurrently experience is healthy! I should be listening to takes that challenge and provoke me on a regular basis! Sometimes I’m not capable of seeing my own limiting beliefs until someone who thinks differently than me points them out! I feel genuinely sad that so many women who watched this video missed out on such a great opportunity.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing this here. I’m so proud of you for looking within and addressing your problems, it takes a lot of courage to do that. Im wishing you and your husband the best and to keep working at it daily! You got this 👏
this comment deserves more thumbs up. Also, you are very brave for surviving your experiences, and braver still for confronting your fears for the benefit of your marriage. You're a strong person, and your husband chose well and wisely when he picked you.
New subscriber here. Gone through your videos and I must say you are doing a great job. Modern women and feminists will come for you but traditional men and women will be here to support you. 👏🏾 🌹 👏🏾 🌺
I'm getting married in a few months (81 days) and I'm looking forward to sex. I've waited 32 years for this, I'm not going to be upset that my husband wants me. I'm thrilled he wants me as his life partner and bed partner. Especially since I have a disability that prevented me from dating throughout my twenties. So to be wanted, loved, and desired by the man I marry? I see nothing wrong with giving that right back to him with interest.
Really hope you are ready . Because if you are not like you thought you was..... you will get all of the benefits while he will not. I will hope for the best for you both but more so him because a woman can make a mistake and be rewarded for it while men do not. Take care.
@@findways9330 Agreed. I'm the more conservative of the two of us, and I got into the "manosphere" stuff around the time we started dating to better understand him and myself. Went down a rabbit hole I don't regret 🤣🤣 I have zero illusions about what I'm getting into. I have spoken with every successful married couple I know over the years to understand (25, 30, 40, 50, 60, 82 years married). I've tried to learn all I can, and am still trying. And we're a unique circumstance where I'm a very Christian woman, very traditional, marriage is for life, my father is a preacher and will hold me to that (and is also my boss so if I don't uphold that I'm not only disowned, I'm out of a job and a mighty inheritance). So from every single angle of my life, I personally am incentivized to make my marriage work. More so because I was taught that if it's not working out, you need to fix it, not abandon it like a project in school. My family would NOT stand behind me in a divorce, and I wouldn't expect them to either. And more than all of this, I love and respect this man. He has proven in his every action that he is willing and able to be a husband and father, to work with me through problems, his, mine, and ours, & if he remained exactly as he is today for 50 years I would still love him. Doesn't mean he's perfect, but I'm certainly not either. What he is, is GOOD. And while there are good men everywhere, very few good men would take on a disabled wife straight out the gate. Later? Sure. But not at the start. I've had 5 back surgeries, fyi, a complete degenerative spine, that's why I didn't date, and why I came across him so late in life. I was too busy with the wait for surgery, have surgery, recover from surgery, rinse & repeat. I've given up on that cycle, it doesn't help, and I'd rather get back to a life than keep all that up. And this good man lets me do what I've always wanted to and I get to cook for him, do his laundry, run his errands, take care of his animals, and we don't even live together yet (80 days!). We are building a house though, and he's worked on that to get it done before the wedding. A truly good man. Anyway, this has been all over the place. I didn't sleep last night because a drastic weather change, cooked all night instead, and so my thoughts are all over the place. Hopefully you can find something coherent in all of this, because my tired brain can't. So sorry. I'll end with this: thank you for your well wishes for me and for him. I can understand your concerns in this society, and I appreciate your fears for him as a fellow man. I will do everything in my power to make those fears invalid. May God bless you and your in these troubled times and crazy society.
"Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent ... then come back together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." - 1 Corinthians 7.
They hate men. That’s all I can think of. There is not one time I didn’t want to make love to my husband. I love him dearly and I’m very attracted to him.
@@foximoxi8533 You're such a queen. But please do not be in a contact with those men hating women. They are jealous of you being in a happy relationship so they would do anything to put poison into your happy life. So keep a good distance from those feminists.
You're so correct. You are being good to your man and you seem happy. There are women out there who are jealous of what you have. They will have plenty of time to ponder the results of their choices and discuss those results...with their cats in old age, post wall.
You go girl! The world needs more Feminine, lady like, marriage minded, Virtuous women like you; Aly and Pearl. I wish we could clone you ladies. I'm tired of only seeing, Boss babe 304's with their foul language and High body counts. This Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0 stuff is ridiculous. From Johnny Delly
I wish I could show my wife this video. She has a medical condition that lowers her libido, but refuses to do anything about it. I keep telling her she needs to go to the doctor but she just shrugs it off. We officially hit one year since the last time, and it has been killing me. We have been together for over a decade, and I am trying so hard to keep it together. I just don’t want to be the kind of guy that will leave his wife if she has a medical condition, but at the same time this is killing me on the inside. She has been talking about wanting to buy a house, and I find myself hesitant because I am don’t know if this would be a good idea since if she leaves me she would get the house. I wish it was easier to talk to women about these issues without the tears and empty apologies.
This will eventually eat at you and you will snap and leave her. Better to confront this problem now than later. You are not a bad guy for wanting to make love to your wife. Sex is a necessary part of marriage. Imagine another woman throws herself at you, will you be able to stop yourself? Given your situation? Instead of waiting for that to happen, confront the problem head on now. If she fights you and flat out believes that sex is not important… well.. you have your answer. A low libido is no good reason to withhold sex from your spouse.
Rough situation. I think that once you are with someone, sex becomes a hormonal and psychological "need" at first, and then over time of course, it fades, but there are times when you want that sexual intimacy. There are guys who don't even care about sex after some years or whatever. Maybe don't want to start up again because of the hormonal cycle and "need" begins again. Obviously, in marriage it would be a healthy thing, especially if spontaneous. I'd now say that unless your wife has some kind of epiphany moment from within, any push for sex will just seem forced from her side, and pity sex given to you from your perspective. I wish you the best. I live in the USA and don't even bother anymore here. I have a passport and it's so much easier, at least for me, to take a trip or 3 every year and "get it all out" with women who are feminine and desire me. It just works better with genuine attraction, and no money exchange necessary.
Dude if you have some money just get a side chick. It sounds like your wife is practically begging you to do that. Don't be a silly soy boy, take care of yourself while also being a decent husband. But as a side note, if your wife not even trying to be better... Perhaps it's time to think about moving on...
I survived in a sex starved marriage for 10 years. I did it so my kids could have both parents in the home. If you don't have kids, get tf out. By the time I left I was on the verge of self-deletion. You don't deserve to be shut down like this. Get a lawyer. Get free.
RUN! You have a right to happiness. She refuses to do anything about her libido? She is not considering you in any way shape or form. A very common thing in modern marriages. For the women it's always "All about me and my feelings". Your marriage will only yield disappointment, frustration and unhappiness.
If someone cheats, it’s not the other person’s fault. Just be honest, communicate like mature adults, and break up, simple. Justifying cheating is disgusting
@@impudentdomain yes definitely. That’s why you break up, separate, divorce, whatever needs to happen. Just because someone withholds affection doesn’t mean you stoop down to their low level and cheat. That makes you just as bad, and then the next relationship will be hard because no one serious is going to healthily date someone who’s cheated on their partner before
😂😂😂yeah promote adultery !!! Feminists will get happier. Cheating diner solve any problems. By the way, I know men who can have sex with wife , but prefer to cheat instead.
Maybe it's because I've been a virgin my whole life with the goal of only being for and with my husband, but the idea of consistently not giving your husband sex when he asks just begs the question of why did you agree to marry him in the first place? I think a lot of women get married because they want to be taken care of but miss the part that they also need to take care of their husbands.
You're a very beautiful woman and your husband knows that! His opinion is the only one that should matter. Rule of thumb for these rude people is that if you can't actually find a legit reason to attack them on, attack their looks. Shallow AF!!!
I'm sorry, but this is the reason why I love hearing these advices from you. Not only you're fair and beautiful inside out, your voice is like listening to an older sister that wants the best for us. I want to be a good wife, a good mother, if I'm going to get some piece of advice I'm not gonna listen it from feminists lol
wow. some people take an opinion and take it to an extreme. but im glad this is a subject that is talked about. everyone in a relationship needs to talj about their sexual needs/appetite. if you don't same that smae desire, it could end badly. great vid.
I remember under 2000 subs where RB had the most annoying voice. It was timid and shaky but I hung in there as a listener. Now? I dont know if it's the new baby or just practice, but there's so much confidence in her speech. No shake, no shyness. She's earned my sub. And I thank her for being an example of a good woman.
I’ve been in a serious relationship for several years, and even in that I understand that it takes commitment. It takes sacrifice. One of the main things that keeps you together is loyalty and respect which includes doing things you don’t feel like doing to satisfy the other’s need’s. Nobody was saying to kill yourself to do that just that sometimes you’re going to have to do things you don’t feel like doing so it will last. For instance it’s like going to the gym, say you want to become a bodybuilder, you can’t go to the gym once and then return to sit on your ass at home everyday after that because you “ don’t feel like working out” and expect to get the muscular physique you desire and you won’t gain consistency that way either. If that example doesn’t simplify things how about this, imagine your husband said man I’m gonna quit my job, and he pays most of your bills, you ask why and he says well he doesn’t feel like doing his job anymore and it makes him sad sometimes to work there, he’d rather stay home to pursue his dream of becoming a writer…. What would you say to that, how would you feel? Would you feel like he didn’t care how that decision would affect you???
I don't have extra money to support your channel... BUT, what i can do is, watch the advertisements WITHOUT skipping them, so you can generate income that way! (Ok, I won't actually watch them, but I will let them run in the background! 😂) Keep doing what you are doing. You give me hope that "some" women will actually hear your message! 🍻
The fact that both sides felt the need to respond shows that both sides are not confident in their position. TH-cam please fix my algorithm I don’t want to hear women argue about who is the most lost and ignorant. Both sides are ignorant and justified in their own right 🤦🏾♀️
i almost always end up getting in the mood if i just start even if im not super into it in the beginning. i really love my husband and i love that connection with him. makes our marriage that much better!!!
So, too back you up on your point from early in the video, my mom always told me that there is no better cure for a headache than an orgasm. I can't confirm this from the male perspective, because I'm not prone to having headaches, but this is not the first time I've heard a woman say it
If some of those women would have s3x with their husbands more often, they might discover that they desire their husbands more and actually find him attractive again. It seems that for a lot of women, a lack of s3xual interaction leads to lack of s3xual attraction.
A lot of it stems from these people just viewing sex as this disposable, meaningless pleasure. Like a quick high. Instead of this beautiful, intense, spiritual, intimate expression of your love and affection for the other person. It's so sad when I meet people like that, that will have sex with anyone for any reason, and don't see the deeper meaning in it. It really is one of the most beautiful parts of a relationship, being able to share a special part of yourself no one else sees, and it really strengthens the bond between you.
I’m subscribing. I support your msg. My wife sent me this video. Needless to say we have a very happy marriage. They hate because they aren’t happy with their mates, out here projecting their issues to the rest of the world… pathetic
An issue I have been seeing over the past decade or so, has to do with people always going to the drastic ends of a conversation. When I speak, as you are, discussing within the context of basic reasonable behavior, they take it to the nth degree. It is sad. The second issue, is women who use sex to get what they want from a man do not want to give up that power and control. They also get angry when you say, "How is that different from walking the street?" lol.
My God, I love you!!! This episode is a masterpiece!!! Shoot! All of your joints are masterpieces……including your shorts. Straight facts that hurts deeply. That’s why you’re happy and they’re miserable.❤
I feel like this is so personal. I have a super high sex drive so I legit never want to say no unless I am extremely sick. But I feel that means I can’t judge a woman with a lower sex drive who may really not want sex as much.
It’s also not about sex drive. It’s about wanting your partner by virtue of them wanting you. It’d be selfish to only have sex with your partner on a whim whenever your low libido kicked in. Low libido shouldn’t stop you from having sex with your partner if you really love and are attracted to them. If you’re seriously ill, then that’s obvious and your partner if they have any sense at all won’t even ask.
I understand why they would go crazy about this if this was taken out of context. But I definitely agree with what you're saying. Isn't the whole point of marriage is to be with the person that you love the most, meaning you're emotionally and physically attracted to them? I rather be single than be in a sexless marriage...
You hit the nail on the head when you said they aren’t attracted to their husbands or don’t desire them that’s why they don’t want to if they keep giving the same excuse. They just don’t want to admit it to themselves.
SELECTIVE OUTRAGE 🤨 Same women are man-less (not married) or getting cheated on because they let themselves go… or are withholding only to get cheated on too… folks are goofy. 😩
My wife always gave herself to me, and we lasted 33 years, before see past away. A faithful man, only wants to be physical with his wife. It's always the best, with the women we love. John Delly
I sleep like a rock! Like I usually wake up 2 to 3 times a night, but after my night with my hubby I don’t wake up at all. The next day I am well rested, relaxed, and active.
As someone who is married, I can agree with her stance. A lot of the times my beaches and maladies are from psychological stress and stuff like that. Bonding with my husband in an intimate way (not just sex), somehow makes everything better for me. And I’m confident it makes things better for him too.
You clearly see through their stupidity to the damaged women pining to spitefully damage a fellow woman. They are lost souls; they can't even tell their bitterness apart from their happiness, such as it is. In my view, you're a top-notch lady. Pretty, feminine, down to Earth, loving of your family.... fantastic. I hope other women follow your lead.
If I ever remarry, this will be my goal. Again. I tried with the ex, but he was the one who refused, not me. Thankful I finally understand it wasn't my fault!
That's definitely true about your body aches, headaches, etc going away when you have sex. You have such a pour of happy chemicals it really helps me sleep just as much as it does him I don't understand wth the big deal is. Quality over quantity, ladies. The other way around is so 🤢
It’s not true for others, if that were me I would be in worse pain and more uncomfortable and I would get depressed because my partner still made me have sex w and didn’t care that I was uncomfortable. One time after him constantly asking I gave in. And he still had sex w me while I was literally crying the whole time utter BS
@@jonuisfe5684 well that's a bit ridiculous. Nobody is talking about being forced to have sex under duress and crying out in pain. That is obviously not ok.
@@jonuisfe5684 Give him some money and tell him to seek a prostitute. If you can't fullfill your role as a woman, there is no reason for your man to not receive what he needs by another woman.
For whatever reason, the women complaining about having sex with their husbands for the most part have lost attraction for them. Many reasons for this, but most commonly today it is because they have had too many previous sexual partners. I spent almost 20 years in a sex-starved marriage. For most of the relationship my ex-wife acted as though sex was a burden and she was doing me a favor. Since getting divorced I've had a few longer-term relationships. Sex was never an issue in either one of them until the relationship started falling apart for other reasons. Thank you for making these videos. This is some of the best advice women need to hear. They simply do not understand the importance of intimate physical contact for many in their relationships.
You make a lot of logical sense Rebecca , great advice to women, if they would only listen and put your advice to use in their marriages they will reap many benefits 👍
Not everyone will have the heart you have. not everyone will appreciate you and what you do for them. Sometimes, it won’t be easy having a kind heart in a cruel world
It's ironic, a man wanting to be physically close and affectionate is seen as terrible and pigish. Especially considering 90% of the physical effort is exerted by the man. Imagine being wanted by someone to be physically giving and affectionate towards, when we all know how much more morally superior it is to only want someone for thier money. 🤔. Women can stop bringing what men want from them in marriage, but the second that man loses his job or gets sick it's time to leave him. Basically women are a luxury while men are a necessity. No women, know peace....
As a man i also learned from my previous long relationship (12 years, and yes sexual frustration was the main problem for me) that i need to cultivate those masculine traits and behaviors throughout time and that from that having her in the mood or aroused is waaay easier, especially if you keep flirting and dating alive. Yes, women are more difficult and complex to keep interested in frequent sex because the man also has to satisfy those nice guy/good father needs by making her feel more relax (#lovelanguage)
My husband of 32 years swears that sex fixes everything. And it pretty much does. What I have learned from many years of marriage that holding a grudge by refusing sex is actually abuse on both sides. I didn't know that but once I realized that I was manipulating by refusing sex, I changed my ways almost 98% of the time. I do see that he is no longer grumpy, he is loving, and gives so much back. even if I say of ya got 5 minutes...go. Its just a little thing but the rewards are 10 fold.
It's controversial bc feminism is about social engineering via the removal of guilt or obligation. Those are considered tools of oppression. Doing anything but following your emotional desires is oppression and any consequences resulting from you following your emotional desires is also oppression. This attitude makes you naturally incapable of a partnership bc you are not a partner.
Haters gonna hate lol, and I always get the nastiest looks by boss babes as a traditional house wife ha! You are doing just fine mama! I love you for this!
These women are mad you embrace your natural beauty, and they will sleep with a man in a cardboard box smh. Where are their standards at.. 🤔 My husband gets hit on right infront of me and our son and it's hilarious! I am glad I got a H.V.M ❤
@@jay_vee96 that's the real irony, they are trying to dictate what other women must choose rather than respecting their choices. They only proving the saying right : Misery loves company
I’m glad this topic is being talked about because most folks don’t sign up for a sexless marriage and live through the entrapment some ladies put some men through. I’ve stated that in a healthy marriage sex denial happens once in a while but it shouldn’t be often because why wouldn’t you want to have sex with your hot husband?!😂cmon ladies!!!
You nailed it!
@@RebeccaBarrett I’m appalled some ladies need to be told that we as woman scientifically even benefit more than men from sex; we need that sex lol
@@LatinsplainingTV it's because those ladies perceive "controlling the marriage" as more important than being happy in it.
When your husband stops asking for sex; your marriage is over.
Not only did my wife love me without condition, she NEVER denied me sexual intimacy; not once in the 22+ years of marriage we had together.
Sex with your husband = akin to slavery
Sex with random strangers = empowering
What a bizarre world we live in
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Oh, that's some fantastic logic.
Yup
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Facts! Makes zero sense.
Sooo these women are ok with laying it low & spreading it wide for 50+ complete strangers BUT they draw the line with the man you’ve committed your life to?? 😵💫
Exactly?! The stranger on tinder who they talked to for two days on tinder and might have a few severed heads in his freezer is fair game.
but the man who stood up before God and his entire family and professed his love, signed a government contract putting his assets on the line, and went to work 50 hours a week for years to provide for them is a grapist for asking.. lol
Bingo 🎯
I mean, you can hear them talk about how when they are interested in a guy, they make him wait to see if he's really interested in her, yet at the same time, they are still banging numerous guys on the side.
I don't even talk to women anymore. They only want my shit. Actively avoid.
The issue isn't whether it's better to sleep with a lot of men or just one. The issue is whether or not a woman in a committed relationship should be allowed to say no EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE if she doesn't want to have sex.
If feminists are upset, then you’re doing something right. 💯
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Right! 🙌💪
Couldn't agree more!
Those women who disagree with you don't need to be married at all.
@Mr Video Game
No its because she find her worth…. Lol
My grandmother's marriage advice - "keep his balls empty and his stomach full" 😂 Simple and straight to the point. Miss my grandma 😢
Yes!!! My nunny says “f them and feed them”
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Such a great advice but hardly 1% of the women in the world follow it...☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Smart woman👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It's really that simple.
I was married for 10 years. My wife gave me everything I wanted as far as bedroom fun. We really enjoyed ourselves in that area. And I love that girl with my whole heart I would give anything for her, I would crawl through broken glass in the desert for her. Unfortunately she passed five years ago. She really took care of our family, she was a real good woman. I miss her greatly. Modern women today have no idea how a relationship is supposed to work
Sorry for your loss
es, very sorry for your loss. Your story really touched me.. 😢
Sorry for your loss.
My sincere condolences for your wife.
That was so beautiful to read, very touching 😢I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this.
I’ve been married for
13 years…. I can tell you your advice IS what keeps a marriage going. These women haven’t been in a relationship long enough to know what it takes.
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@@carmenromero4601 Go on?
More women need to grow up to be just like you
Physical intimacy and 100% honesty - 2 biggest keys to a happy marriage.
@@SpiralingOut23 it really is.
"Hoeflation:
Today's men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 55 times worse than their grandmothers."
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you misst some 0 behind the 55 times. Let me give them to you 5500000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000
@@Barlmoro 😂😂😂
wooow.. & sadly true
“Hoeflation” hahaha
Wow those responses are crazy. Your video on the “sex denial spreadsheet” really made me think about how often I say no to my husband. Since I watched that I’ve been saying yes every time, and you know what? I wasn’t that tired after all, and nothing on my to do list was nearly as enjoyable for me. My husband is waaaayy more relaxed too! It seems so obvious now.
I bet he's more agreeable to your requests outside of the bedroom too. Thank you for being a superstar for your husband.
I love seeing this! I have very very rarely said no throughout my entire 12 year marriage. And normally it's more of a postponing of sex rather than a flat out no. Like I ate too much at dinner, let's do it in a couple of hours sort of thing lol. The thing I have learned is that even if I start out not in the mood, within 5 minutes I have no idea why I wasn't in the mood to begin with lol. And the benefits are sooo good. I honestly believe it's one of the top reasons my marriage is as good as it is.
Pretty certain women don't want to be happy. They just want drama.
As a man, I must state: You are really pretty, and there is nothing wrong with your voice. Your husband is lucky to have you!
So the modern entitled woman: Having regular sex with the husband is misogyny and oppression, but cheating on him or keeping and dating with multiple men is Okay... Because Chad and Tyrone definitely won't use them and dump them the next morning. Using your husband/ partner / multiple dudes is not misandry at all.... I hope you get the heavy irony and sarcasm.
STOP SIMPING
Simp mode
Also modern entitled women: fleece men for as much spousal support and child support as possible when they did nothing to instantiate a divorce and want joint custody of their own children but are alienated instead. "Rights for me, but not for thee."
@@user-vg8ox3he1i she's pretty, tho.
@@user-vg8ox3he1i complementing someone is simping now??? Wth
Our grandmothers would have been canceled if they had access to social media!! My grandmother used to say “Marriage isn’t hard. You just gotta F them and feed them.” That’s how you keep a man happy. You made them feel loved and special when you show sexual interest in them. Men don’t get compliments from their friends on Instagram like we do. It really makes them feel good if you tell them they are hot and you want them. Why wouldn’t you want your husband to feel loved and valued? And men think if you won’t sleep with them that you don’t love them. Rejection hurts. I think as women we really don’t understand this because men don’t turn down sex. But imagine if you put yourself out there and your husband said no all the time? It’s devastating. Instead of being so triggered these women should try having a little empathy
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@@carmenromero4601 And a woman without empathy shows herself.
@@jamesjonnes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh really
@@carmenromero4601 You come from Spain right? Can be seen. Therefore Spanish men search wives outside. Do not ask how I know, guapa! ;) Bad that no one wants to wife you but I am not surprised.
@@jamesjonnes A woman? A kid or a hoe
I just want to say how refreshing your opinion is. I have been married for the past 35 years. 10 years ago my wife was struck down with a disease of her brain stem. We have NOT had intercourse since August 2015. I have never ever forced her to make love to me or the other way around. We love each other and we believe in the marriage vows we took. In sickness and in health.
I was very sick when I was in the military. I spent 105 days in hospital, died on the operating table twice and had my spleen rupture. It took 5 doctors to save me. My wife was there for me everyday. I never forgot that and that is why we are still together today.
Forget what these abused, and brainwashed women think. They probably do not have husbands so they wouldn't know what true love is. Imagine giving up your body every night to a stranger but not wanting to give it up to your husband. WHY did you get married in the first place if you don't want to have sex with him? Oh by the way I cook, clean and do dishes and love seeing the look on my wife's face when I make supper for her. She wasn't expected to live past Christmas but because of my love and care she is still around.
Oh one more thing. I had Esophageal CANCER at the same time I was looking after my wife. Radiation treatments 5 days a week and Chemo for 4 1/2 hours every Wednesday. Bet you women wish you had someone the loved you this much. It just goes to show how much you know about a REAL MAN. I'm 67 and glad I don't have to deal with women like the ones giving you problems. It just goes to show you that FEMINISTS can't take the truth.
Keep up the good work.
Reading your story made me tear up on the inside. The love between you and your wife is so beautiful 😢. I pray to God that you two fight on and a miracle happens because I know you cherish each moment with each other.
@@lialiathelock Thank-you for those kind words. Yes it is truly a blessing when you find your other half. This is what the FEMINISTS are missing out on. I only made $ 25,000 Canadian at that time. Todays Feminists wouldn't give me the time of day. I am a simple hardworking guy. True love CAN be found with us that only make low - middle income. We may not have much in material things but we have loads of gold in each other. Be well Jannamain.
Man, sir, that's the kind of love and respect for your wife and your marriage that Rebecca is trying to tell these women they can have, but they don't want it. But when they all reach your age, and are alone with no children, grandchildren, husband, or anyone who loves them there, they'll finally get it. But it'll be too late by then. I salute you, sir! My wife has many illness issues and she worries constantly that I may leave, but I'm like you. I took my vows more seriously than I've ever taken anything.
So pretty.
@@genkki4776 Sir I salute you. We are from the generation that knows what true love and commitment is. Much Respect to you sir.
I am disabled and have a chronic illness ,I always try my best to accommodate all my husband's needs he is always sweet and considerate and appreciative for taking care of him. ❤
Sadly, the women that are against this, are also angry and lonely.. cannot hold on to a man and a healthy relationships. I am extremely grateful for your content, I've grown and become a better wife thanks to your advice. I was already on a journey to my feminine side when I found your content, which has reinforce, strengthen and even helped to understand so much about my behavior and how it affects my relationship. Keep teaching us! We need more women like you willing to share your story and helping us get out of the LIES of feminist mentality.
I appreciate that Monica!! Stories like yours keeps me going.
I am unique that I am an actual independent woman, who ran maintenance and landscaping for the park service and didn't become a nurse 🙄 I am traditional in my relationships. I was also in the kink community before that safe space for women got destroyed. What these little girls think submission is, isn't. Leaning hard into my femininity is one of the sexiest things. I am a scientist and cooking is chemistry. As far as being pleasant, that goes both ways. What girls don't understand is that these guys are around other men all day long, and just need some feminine energy. I love men, I was raised by men. Even I have moments when I can't take all the crude jokes and farting and need to be around women, lol. The girls don't understand that it isn't submission, they are looking for civilization. It isn't a want but a need for an antidote.
The "psychic" type with 3 female cats, 1 male dog, and led light strips strung around the apartment that smells like incense and roll your own cigs.
just watch the whatever podcast or better yet, fresh and fit.. yesterday's show was a good example of the modern women entitlement..
catering to men.. even aknowledging facts... they fathom the idea of conceding to any point.. even one that shouldnt be even be debated such as men being stronger PHISYCALLY than women.
the modern women are leeches.. they come up with a laundry list of demands but if a man has standards or just expect sex.. women get mad
@@RebeccaBarrett If these Women consider Sex with their Husband Such a Chore, Distasteful, Unappealing, Etc. Why did these Women Marry these Men? for the "Security" (Money?) are these Women Refraining from Spending their Partners Money like they Refrain from Sex With their Partners? we all know the answer to that. typically what you have in Sexless Marriages Is Average looking Women Denying Sex to their Average looking Husbands because they are, and or Want to have Sex with Above-Average looking Men. Since EVERY Woman considers herself a 10, and partnering with a Man She does NOT consider a 10 Is Settling.
I'm a male. My wife and I have been together for 33 years and married for 30 years. It makes me so sad that these women don't get the basic idea of Marriage. In marriage, you care about the other person above yourself and your partner does the same for you.
Your Spouse is your Best Friend, get it? BEST FRIEND! In marriage, you put your spouse above everyone else.....no one is more important than your spouse, not your friends, not your parents and not your kids (why kids? because children grow up and leave, but your spouse will still be there "Till Death Do Us Part". If the person you want to marry is not your best friend and the most important person in your life, DON'T GET MARRIED!!
Finaly someone gets it. That is what the Bible says too btw.
And you can’t tell them anything
💯 I wish I could like this comment a thousand times. This is exactly right, and is truly the secret to a happy marriage.
It’s funny how women won’t take accountability for their pathetic behaviors! Keep up your great work!
Because it's like dealing with children.
Then they're like why do you date younger women. Cause it's the same experience but she looks at me like I'm batman and is prettier.
So sleeping with 100 random men is empowerment. But sleeping with the one man I vowed to love forever is oppression 🤦🏾♀️.
Mr. Barrett is one lucky guy real ish
No cap. These banshees can't stand it
In my last marriage I went years without sex. I’m done with marriage. I wish the best for you Rebecca. You speak the truth.
These women are always projecting ... "Let him use you as a masturbatory aid"... Are they implying being with 50 men or 100s of men ISN'T being used?
Tbh in a marriage I'm just fine with being "used" in that way by my husband sometimes if ya know what I mean 😏😂 At least he wants to touch me and it's much more dignified being a Mrs. 😇
Yeah, it always makes me feel better about myself when my husband wants to have s3x with me, because it means he finds me beautiful and attractive! I don't know how being willing to have s3x with your husband when he asks is "being used" but deciding to go out and have s3x with guys you've never seen before and have only spent a hour or three with is not being used. Make it make sense! LOL
@@kristinewberg7656 they are the center of the universe. If they want it then it's good. If they don't want it and have to do it for someone else then it's bad, since they should never ever have feel obligated to do anything they don't want or that would make then feel uncomfortable if its for another person. Just standard run of the mill selfishness
A masturbatory aid... what a ridiculous statement. Masturbation kind of indirectly implies lack of penetration, doesn't it? It can be done with only one person in the room.
I don't talk to women anymore. I am so sick of the abuse and the arguing. But mostly I'm sick of the phase where they are fake then once they think you pair bonded the crazy comes out.
I would rather just be alone.
Women are hateful and rude for no reason all the time. When you talk about your struggles on line you are an incel or boring without even being known.
Even y'all's comments I don't trust lol. That's what women did to us. We are way more likely to kill ourselves. Who knew in a world where women treat you like you should kill yourself for saying good morning with uncombed hair. Or less...
Absolutely agree.
My husband has never told me, “oh hey honey, my head hurts. Guess I can’t go to work today.” He has never said, “hey, I know I said I’d protect you and make you feel safe but I’m not really feeling it today.” He does everything in his power to provide for me why shouldn’t I do the same?
Yes yes and yes 👏🏾
A measure of completement ....you will be blessed and your husband as well because you've both given 100% .... Love ...all around
Oh look! A top tier couple.
My grandmother taught me how to keep a man. Don't use sex as a weapon or punishment, it's ok to say no. Your husband should respect that, but also don't say it too much. They'll stop asking and probably find it somewhere else. In her own words why would you punish yourself? If you really love him you're going to want it too. 😊 I'm gonna say pretty solid advice I've been married for 13yrs together going on 17yrs.
Usually most grand momma's say to their daughters - "Keep your husband's stomach full and his balls empty!" 😁
@@wasimmomin1128 mine was a little different. She worked 60hrs a week. My granddad did most of the cooking. He earned his stay at home granddad right though. He did two tours in Vietnam and worked at the Toyota factory until a car rolled on top of him.
Okay THIS, I didn't see the og post just the clip she showed here and I'm thinking maybe the reason people got heated is that it comes across as never say no, your feelings don't matter, he wants it? He gets it. Case closed. And that's a big no. But if she said it the way you said it then that's reasonable for sure
@@roxy4325 Thank you. I appreciate you saying this.😊
@@roxy4325 yes! That small clip makes it seem like if you say no because you're in physical pain and clearly don't want sex then he's allowed to cheat or something because you're not "doing your duties as a wife"
I was widowed in my 40s. My marriage was the greatest achievement of my life. We fulfilled our vows! The loss of a husband is indescribable. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I just don’t understand these bitter women. I’m sad but I don’t let it get me down. I love it when people speak well of their spouses!
I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like you loved fiercely, with your entire heart and soul. I agree with your sentiment; I can't imagine these bitter women actually love or respect their partners. If you read this comment, I hope it finds you well; I'm certain your husband would want you to find happiness where you can, until you can be with him again.
The issue is most women settle and marry men they're not attracted to just because they are desperate for a ring and family. Thus, once they get what they want, the sex dries up.
One of the main reasons I left my ex wife after 20 years was zero effort in sex and oral. I asked her and was turned down so many times I was sick of it. I just never understood how while I was working 12 - 16 hours a day so she could stay home with the kids, she couldn’t just suck it up for 15 minutes. When I finally left her she tried EVERYTHING to get me back including writing an insane sex contract agreeing to do dozens of depraved things on command. I told her I don’t want a prostitute, I wanted the wife I married and if it took me leaving to show you how much it matters after I told you a thousand times it’s too late.
Did you cheat on her while she was home raising your children?
@@loralu9420 If by her raising the children, you mean me getting up at 5 AM every day to go for a run, making breakfast for everyone in the house, making the kids lunches, then going to work, and coming home and cooking dinner, and doing the dishes, so her big responsibility was driving them to private school and picking them up, then, yes, I did, multiple times. As a woman, she had a very specific job as my wife, and she failed at that job. If you are no good at your job you get replaced. Oh, and that mother of the year took off to go live on the beach in Honduras on the $5,000 a month I give her and hasn’t seen the kids in 2 years.
It sounded like she needed therapy
Girl, preach!! I have been such a better partner since I've started listening to you! I've realized that me denying him bc I don't feel good is very selfish of me. Now as you said, there are exceptions but he never asks for sex if I'm truly sick. We are closer as a couple since I've started caring for him as much as he cares for me. I have an amazing man and I don't ever want you lose him over something stupid!
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@@carmenromero4601 you must be single
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@@carmenromero4601 hmm, replying to a bunch of comments with just laughing emogis? Someone is coming across as a bit triggered. No words? Who did you lose because you weren't treating them right? Or who treated you so poorly that you determined never to treat anyone great again? That's where to start. Laughing isn't going to fix or change anything...
If a husband is in a sexless marriage where he has all the responsibilities, but very little privileges, who's really the "slave"?
Bingo
You only get flack when you're over the target. ( anti aircraft fire , bomber )
People like that will never see the logic or your explanations as worthy when they are viewing everything from a lense of hate, anger, and/or hurt.
Keep up the good work! 👍 ❤
You did right Rebecca, by confronting the haters head on, instead of giving them a 'mea culpa'. I salute your fortitude, Rebecca. Well done.
100% agree , men are different then us. They have different needs. Give it up seriously! I've been married 27 years im 49 and I still give it up when he wants it.
You can see they try to attack your looks (you're actually lovely looking) yet are the same people who'll say everyone is beautiful or everyone is a 10 😂
They just mad they probably have a buzz cut
Well, they _never_ say that all men are a 10. In fact, they consider very few of them to be worthy, and those ones are essentially gods regardless of how little respect toward women is exhibited. Of course, _all_ women are 10s, unless they defy the matriarchy’s current narrative.
Bullying is allowed when they call us incels for having standards or issues.
I wouldn't date anybody who told me they've slept with three hundred people.
"2" is too many unless she's a widow or her ex-husband is a sleazy cheater.
Ffs it gets even worse! I've legit had women who looked at me sideways for wanting to have kids. It's a dealbreaker for me that the woman must want them too... "Oh so you see women only as baby making machines!?"... I just walked off the date. This is why walks in the park and tea/coffee are the first dates now. If she's insane, I lose nothing.
Oh that’s sad. I hope you find a valuable woman who appreciates marriage and family.
Yeah, any woman like than is an auto dump. She doesn't exist for me afterwards and any interest I had in her evaporates.
Better to cut it off early than to waste your time and energy on someone who isn't going work out.
Those same women have 3 babies and 2 different baby daddies lol
Of course that's a dealbreaker! No one should date or marry anyone who doesn't share the same values/beliefs as them and wants the same things out of life, and whether or not you want kids is a huge part of that. And it's better to find that out as soon as possible before feelings get involved and then it's harder to break up. Plus good job with the coffee dates as a first date. I think that's good for everyone. You get to have a casual getting to know you conversation to know if you're compatible at all before moving forward.
The girl who said “oh so you’re just a hole for his masturbation” has absolutely been completely ran through and can’t cope.
But she was right though. Women who have sex they don’t wanna have are just a hole. And this woman is just as pathetic as feminists tbh
"All those women who say that having a moment of intimacy with their husbands is something forced should divorce, do themselves a favor, and find a partner they are truly in love with. Also, give your husbands the opportunity to find someone who loves them. It's horrible to find out that the woman who is your wife feels that way and that sex with you is not a moment of spiritual and physical closeness."
The harsh truth is that these women will NEVER find love, because they are incapable of love. The very notion of marriage to them is transactional, nothing about intimacy.
well the problem is that would be a majority of modern wives, they couldn't get Chad to commit so they "settled" on a guy they don't really love but they can leach his resources.
@@impudentdomain men need to choose better we gotta raise standards
It's incumbent upon men to screen the women they date to ensure that their future wife does indeed have genuine burning desire for them. The problem is that many men unfortunately have never experienced that in their relationships so they don't actually know what to screen for...
@@joseph6243 agree
Girl you got to remember we live in a time when people be confused about whether they're men or women. So you think they'll apply logic to marriage? What you said is 💯 on point!
I think my husband is one of the few men that wants to have sex when I’m on my period. As he puts it “Hey babe, when the kids are asleep, I wanna slay the dragon”
I have only fully rejected my husband for sex if I am in so much physical pain (like a pulled muscle in my back) or I am so sick that jostling me will make me throw up. Even then though….I at least offer if I can “help” him to tide over his urges until I am physically able to have sex with him again.
As a married couple with kids, we had the conversation before children, that we would have sex at least once a week. Usually it is more, but just in case things get so busy or hectic, I keep track in a journal when we do the devils tango. I will look at it and see “oh, we haven’t had sex in three days. Soon as the kids are asleep, I’m slipping into something sexy and jumping him”
This is a much better alternative than the usual "Ooh I feel gross" type of excuses women make. Hell, the fact you keep a log on how many days he went without getting his weekly dose is awesome of you to be his Oasis.
Lynnsey Riley
Woow a man's fantasy. A wife who initiates sex? Where do I go to buy one of these unicorns, he chuckles as he point to his name. You're special sweetheart although I have to admit I'm not into dragon slaying, however everyone to their own, Whatever floats your boat
My husband has told me on several occasions he respects the period enough to leave me alone for those 5 days.
@@HappywifeTaylor And that’s completely fair and normal too!
Honestly my husband only originally wanted to have sex when I was on my period, because that was the only time we would do it without any protection when we were first in a relationship. I was on birth control and he would use condemns every-time we were intimate. Then one time he asked if we could try bareback when I was on my period; which by the way, that time of the month for me is very mild. First day is kind of crampy, but then the next four days it’s a mild annoyance with barely any aches and I just have to remember to change my pad/tampon. Anyways, I told him it would be messy and he replied “that’s what towels are for and we can shower afterwards”
He thoroughly enjoyed it and for the next year that was the only time we would have unprotected sex. Then we got engaged, and that changed our sex arrangement completely 😜
Fact is any woman could take care of her man so quickly and easily it isn't even funny.
And I think some women are too full of themselves or sincerely too stupid to realize it.
If nothing else when he gets home drop to your knees give him five minutes and he will absolutely adore you for it!
Men are so simple and easy to please. You simply just don't need to be a BIATCH
Your original video had such a positive impact on me and my mindset towards sex with my partner.
I Was the woman who regularly pulled every card she had just to get out of sex. Like it was life or death.
A little over a year ago I started getting pretty regular ptsd-esque flashbacks to numerous instances of sexual abuse I experienced as a minor. Prior to that our sex life had been great, but it almost immediately shifted into a stressful and lifeless one. I was upfront with my partner about the issues I was having, and he agreed that a temporary slow down of our normal sex life would be the best thing for me.
Cut to a year later, and the end of every long day is a (often unspoken) stand-off match between his physical/mental wellbeing and my anxiety.
This dynamic has never done our relationship any favors, often leading us into the same tired conversation, night after night after night. FOR A YEAR.
When I watched your video, I cried. I knew I was supposed to want to have sex with my partner. I felt guilty every time I’d tell him no. But I gave more credit to my deeply flawed past relationships than the deeply sustainable one I have in the present.
I felt the accountability. It was awesome. Owning my part of any problems I recurrently experience is healthy! I should be listening to takes that challenge and provoke me on a regular basis! Sometimes I’m not capable of seeing my own limiting beliefs until someone who thinks differently than me points them out!
I feel genuinely sad that so many women who watched this video missed out on such a great opportunity.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing this here. I’m so proud of you for looking within and addressing your problems, it takes a lot of courage to do that. Im wishing you and your husband the best and to keep working at it daily! You got this 👏
@@RebeccaBarrett thank you for choosing to make content that empowers instead of enables 🙏
this comment deserves more thumbs up. Also, you are very brave for surviving your experiences, and braver still for confronting your fears for the benefit of your marriage. You're a strong person, and your husband chose well and wisely when he picked you.
Wow! You are special!😇
New subscriber here. Gone through your videos and I must say you are doing a great job. Modern women and feminists will come for you but traditional men and women will be here to support you. 👏🏾 🌹 👏🏾 🌺
I appreciate you being here 🙏
It’s not just “traditional” folk who support her, as nobody who is rational can dispute this straightforward logic.
I'm getting married in a few months (81 days) and I'm looking forward to sex. I've waited 32 years for this, I'm not going to be upset that my husband wants me. I'm thrilled he wants me as his life partner and bed partner. Especially since I have a disability that prevented me from dating throughout my twenties. So to be wanted, loved, and desired by the man I marry? I see nothing wrong with giving that right back to him with interest.
Really hope you are ready . Because if you are not like you thought you was..... you will get all of the benefits while he will not. I will hope for the best for you both but more so him because a woman can make a mistake and be rewarded for it while men do not. Take care.
@@findways9330 Agreed. I'm the more conservative of the two of us, and I got into the "manosphere" stuff around the time we started dating to better understand him and myself. Went down a rabbit hole I don't regret 🤣🤣
I have zero illusions about what I'm getting into. I have spoken with every successful married couple I know over the years to understand (25, 30, 40, 50, 60, 82 years married). I've tried to learn all I can, and am still trying. And we're a unique circumstance where I'm a very Christian woman, very traditional, marriage is for life, my father is a preacher and will hold me to that (and is also my boss so if I don't uphold that I'm not only disowned, I'm out of a job and a mighty inheritance). So from every single angle of my life, I personally am incentivized to make my marriage work. More so because I was taught that if it's not working out, you need to fix it, not abandon it like a project in school. My family would NOT stand behind me in a divorce, and I wouldn't expect them to either. And more than all of this, I love and respect this man. He has proven in his every action that he is willing and able to be a husband and father, to work with me through problems, his, mine, and ours, & if he remained exactly as he is today for 50 years I would still love him. Doesn't mean he's perfect, but I'm certainly not either. What he is, is GOOD. And while there are good men everywhere, very few good men would take on a disabled wife straight out the gate. Later? Sure. But not at the start. I've had 5 back surgeries, fyi, a complete degenerative spine, that's why I didn't date, and why I came across him so late in life. I was too busy with the wait for surgery, have surgery, recover from surgery, rinse & repeat. I've given up on that cycle, it doesn't help, and I'd rather get back to a life than keep all that up. And this good man lets me do what I've always wanted to and I get to cook for him, do his laundry, run his errands, take care of his animals, and we don't even live together yet (80 days!). We are building a house though, and he's worked on that to get it done before the wedding. A truly good man.
Anyway, this has been all over the place. I didn't sleep last night because a drastic weather change, cooked all night instead, and so my thoughts are all over the place. Hopefully you can find something coherent in all of this, because my tired brain can't. So sorry.
I'll end with this: thank you for your well wishes for me and for him. I can understand your concerns in this society, and I appreciate your fears for him as a fellow man. I will do everything in my power to make those fears invalid. May God bless you and your in these troubled times and crazy society.
@@pennilesswriter1556 reading this made me happy. Thank you and take care of eachother well.
@@pennilesswriter1556 This was probably the most wholesome thing I've read in a long time. I wish you and him the best.
"Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent ... then come back together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." - 1 Corinthians 7.
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They are assuming their terrible sex life is universal
They hate men. That’s all I can think of. There is not one time I didn’t want to make love to my husband. I love him dearly and I’m very attracted to him.
I’ve also been with my husband for 8 years.. so. 🤷♀️
@@foximoxi8533 You're such a queen. But please do not be in a contact with those men hating women. They are jealous of you being in a happy relationship so they would do anything to put poison into your happy life. So keep a good distance from those feminists.
Women really do hate us. You give them everything and they try to see if you will kill yourself.
@@foximoxi8533why don't women initiate intimacy?
The women who have a problem with this message are the same women who will never be proposed to.
Of course we love you , your face , your content ! ❤You go girl!!!!! FTHATERS
You're so correct. You are being good to your man and you seem happy. There are women out there who are jealous of what you have. They will have plenty of time to ponder the results of their choices and discuss those results...with their cats in old age, post wall.
You go girl! The world needs more Feminine, lady like, marriage minded, Virtuous women like you; Aly and Pearl. I wish we could clone you ladies.
I'm tired of only seeing, Boss babe 304's with their foul language and High body counts. This
Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0 stuff is ridiculous.
From Johnny Delly
You know it's like this. Man May kill individual PEOPLE..
BUT FEMALES can kill a whole SOCIETY.
Which we are now seeing in real-time in the West
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They're usually denying their husbands sex because they're giving it to someone else
I wish I could show my wife this video. She has a medical condition that lowers her libido, but refuses to do anything about it. I keep telling her she needs to go to the doctor but she just shrugs it off. We officially hit one year since the last time, and it has been killing me. We have been together for over a decade, and I am trying so hard to keep it together. I just don’t want to be the kind of guy that will leave his wife if she has a medical condition, but at the same time this is killing me on the inside. She has been talking about wanting to buy a house, and I find myself hesitant because I am don’t know if this would be a good idea since if she leaves me she would get the house. I wish it was easier to talk to women about these issues without the tears and empty apologies.
This will eventually eat at you and you will snap and leave her. Better to confront this problem now than later. You are not a bad guy for wanting to make love to your wife. Sex is a necessary part of marriage. Imagine another woman throws herself at you, will you be able to stop yourself? Given your situation? Instead of waiting for that to happen, confront the problem head on now. If she fights you and flat out believes that sex is not important… well.. you have your answer.
A low libido is no good reason to withhold sex from your spouse.
Rough situation. I think that once you are with someone, sex becomes a hormonal and psychological "need" at first, and then over time of course, it fades, but there are times when you want that sexual intimacy.
There are guys who don't even care about sex after some years or whatever. Maybe don't want to start up again because of the hormonal cycle and "need" begins again. Obviously, in marriage it would be a healthy thing, especially if spontaneous.
I'd now say that unless your wife has some kind of epiphany moment from within, any push for sex will just seem forced from her side, and pity sex given to you from your perspective.
I wish you the best. I live in the USA and don't even bother anymore here. I have a passport and it's so much easier, at least for me, to take a trip or 3 every year and "get it all out" with women who are feminine and desire me. It just works better with genuine attraction, and no money exchange necessary.
Dude if you have some money just get a side chick. It sounds like your wife is practically begging you to do that.
Don't be a silly soy boy, take care of yourself while also being a decent husband.
But as a side note, if your wife not even trying to be better...
Perhaps it's time to think about moving on...
I survived in a sex starved marriage for 10 years. I did it so my kids could have both parents in the home. If you don't have kids, get tf out. By the time I left I was on the verge of self-deletion. You don't deserve to be shut down like this. Get a lawyer. Get free.
RUN! You have a right to happiness. She refuses to do anything about her libido? She is not considering you in any way shape or form. A very common thing in modern marriages. For the women it's always "All about me and my feelings". Your marriage will only yield disappointment, frustration and unhappiness.
I am soo shocked when I hear there are marriages that do not have sex for YEARS. Cannot imagine that!
If you don't want to have sex with your man, don't get angry if he goes elsewhere and don't blame him for the relationship being ruined.
If someone cheats, it’s not the other person’s fault. Just be honest, communicate like mature adults, and break up, simple. Justifying cheating is disgusting
@@fitnessen2860 I agree, but it will still destroy the marriage to withhold affection,
@@impudentdomain yes definitely. That’s why you break up, separate, divorce, whatever needs to happen. Just because someone withholds affection doesn’t mean you stoop down to their low level and cheat. That makes you just as bad, and then the next relationship will be hard because no one serious is going to healthily date someone who’s cheated on their partner before
😂😂😂yeah promote adultery !!! Feminists will get happier. Cheating diner solve any problems. By the way, I know men who can have sex with wife , but prefer to cheat instead.
@@fitnessen2860 lol that's not true unfortunately
Maybe it's because I've been a virgin my whole life with the goal of only being for and with my husband, but the idea of consistently not giving your husband sex when he asks just begs the question of why did you agree to marry him in the first place? I think a lot of women get married because they want to be taken care of but miss the part that they also need to take care of their husbands.
Exactly
You're a very beautiful woman and your husband knows that! His opinion is the only one that should matter. Rule of thumb for these rude people is that if you can't actually find a legit reason to attack them on, attack their looks. Shallow AF!!!
I'm sorry, but this is the reason why I love hearing these advices from you. Not only you're fair and beautiful inside out, your voice is like listening to an older sister that wants the best for us. I want to be a good wife, a good mother, if I'm going to get some piece of advice I'm not gonna listen it from feminists lol
wow. some people take an opinion and take it to an extreme. but im glad this is a subject that is talked about. everyone in a relationship needs to talj about their sexual needs/appetite. if you don't same that smae desire, it could end badly. great vid.
BEHOLD Gentleman......
........the LOGIC is strong with this one. 🤘😎😈
I remember under 2000 subs where RB had the most annoying voice. It was timid and shaky but I hung in there as a listener. Now? I dont know if it's the new baby or just practice, but there's so much confidence in her speech. No shake, no shyness. She's earned my sub. And I thank her for being an example of a good woman.
I've been married for 40 yrs.....and this young woman is right. Period.
I’ve been in a serious relationship for several years, and even in that I understand that it takes commitment. It takes sacrifice. One of the main things that keeps you together is loyalty and respect which includes doing things you don’t feel like doing to satisfy the other’s need’s. Nobody was saying to kill yourself to do that just that sometimes you’re going to have to do things you don’t feel like doing so it will last. For instance it’s like going to the gym, say you want to become a bodybuilder, you can’t go to the gym once and then return to sit on your ass at home everyday after that because you “ don’t feel like working out” and expect to get the muscular physique you desire and you won’t gain consistency that way either. If that example doesn’t simplify things how about this, imagine your husband said man I’m gonna quit my job, and he pays most of your bills, you ask why and he says well he doesn’t feel like doing his job anymore and it makes him sad sometimes to work there, he’d rather stay home to pursue his dream of becoming a writer…. What would you say to that, how would you feel? Would you feel like he didn’t care how that decision would affect you???
This is a seriously underrated comment. Those are both great examples. 👏🏼👏🏼
I don't have extra money to support your channel... BUT, what i can do is, watch the advertisements WITHOUT skipping them, so you can generate income that way! (Ok, I won't actually watch them, but I will let them run in the background! 😂) Keep doing what you are doing. You give me hope that "some" women will actually hear your message! 🍻
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The fact that both sides felt the need to respond shows that both sides are not confident in their position. TH-cam please fix my algorithm I don’t want to hear women argue about who is the most lost and ignorant. Both sides are ignorant and justified in their own right 🤦🏾♀️
i almost always end up getting in the mood if i just start even if im not super into it in the beginning. i really love my husband and i love that connection with him. makes our marriage that much better!!!
These women HATE that MEN love YOU Mama!
Rebecca when I saw your spreed sheet video, it honestly was great advice. It’s important to talk about these issue in marriage. ❤
So, too back you up on your point from early in the video, my mom always told me that there is no better cure for a headache than an orgasm. I can't confirm this from the male perspective, because I'm not prone to having headaches, but this is not the first time I've heard a woman say it
If some of those women would have s3x with their husbands more often, they might discover that they desire their husbands more and actually find him attractive again. It seems that for a lot of women, a lack of s3xual interaction leads to lack of s3xual attraction.
A lot of it stems from these people just viewing sex as this disposable, meaningless pleasure. Like a quick high. Instead of this beautiful, intense, spiritual, intimate expression of your love and affection for the other person. It's so sad when I meet people like that, that will have sex with anyone for any reason, and don't see the deeper meaning in it. It really is one of the most beautiful parts of a relationship, being able to share a special part of yourself no one else sees, and it really strengthens the bond between you.
That's the bottom line ... They are not attracted to their husbands.....
I’m subscribing. I support your msg. My wife sent me this video. Needless to say we have a very happy marriage. They hate because they aren’t happy with their mates, out here projecting their issues to the rest of the world… pathetic
An issue I have been seeing over the past decade or so, has to do with people always going to the drastic ends of a conversation. When I speak, as you are, discussing within the context of basic reasonable behavior, they take it to the nth degree. It is sad. The second issue, is women who use sex to get what they want from a man do not want to give up that power and control. They also get angry when you say, "How is that different from walking the street?" lol.
Some are just dead inside!
My God, I love you!!! This episode is a masterpiece!!! Shoot! All of your joints are masterpieces……including your shorts. Straight facts that hurts deeply. That’s why you’re happy and they’re miserable.❤
Say it louder for the feminists who aren't ever listening
I feel like this is so personal. I have a super high sex drive so I legit never want to say no unless I am extremely sick. But I feel that means I can’t judge a woman with a lower sex drive who may really not want sex as much.
But the problem is they want do sex before marriage but once they get marriage they show their ture colour
It’s also not about sex drive. It’s about wanting your partner by virtue of them wanting you. It’d be selfish to only have sex with your partner on a whim whenever your low libido kicked in. Low libido shouldn’t stop you from having sex with your partner if you really love and are attracted to them. If you’re seriously ill, then that’s obvious and your partner if they have any sense at all won’t even ask.
Crazy concept: if something makes your spouse happy, make your spouse happy.
I understand why they would go crazy about this if this was taken out of context. But I definitely agree with what you're saying. Isn't the whole point of marriage is to be with the person that you love the most, meaning you're emotionally and physically attracted to them? I rather be single than be in a sexless marriage...
I think most guys and healthy women would rather be single
You hit the nail on the head when you said they aren’t attracted to their husbands or don’t desire them that’s why they don’t want to if they keep giving the same excuse. They just don’t want to admit it to themselves.
Thank you for your content. It’s greatly appreciated!
SELECTIVE OUTRAGE 🤨 Same women are man-less (not married) or getting cheated on because they let themselves go… or are withholding only to get cheated on too… folks are goofy. 😩
But that’s why people need to watch the whole video. From the short, people went off the deep end 🤦🏾♀️ we get what you meant 😅💗
Girl, once they are triggered they don’t want to watch the whole video 🤣
@@RebeccaBarrett conviction will do that 😂 it either gets you together or will have you out here giving every excuse under heaven.
AMÉN SISTER ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥👏👏👏👏
My wife always gave herself to me, and we lasted 33 years, before see past away.
A faithful man, only wants to be physical with his wife.
It's always the best, with the women we love.
John Delly
I sleep like a rock! Like I usually wake up 2 to 3 times a night, but after my night with my hubby I don’t wake up at all. The next day I am well rested, relaxed, and active.
You are a better person then what the misinformed feminists will ever be. Keep up the good work!
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As someone who is married, I can agree with her stance. A lot of the times my beaches and maladies are from psychological stress and stuff like that. Bonding with my husband in an intimate way (not just sex), somehow makes everything better for me. And I’m confident it makes things better for him too.
You clearly see through their stupidity to the damaged women pining to spitefully damage a fellow woman. They are lost souls; they can't even tell their bitterness apart from their happiness, such as it is.
In my view, you're a top-notch lady. Pretty, feminine, down to Earth, loving of your family.... fantastic. I hope other women follow your lead.
If I ever remarry, this will be my goal. Again. I tried with the ex, but he was the one who refused, not me. Thankful I finally understand it wasn't my fault!
That's definitely true about your body aches, headaches, etc going away when you have sex. You have such a pour of happy chemicals it really helps me sleep just as much as it does him I don't understand wth the big deal is. Quality over quantity, ladies. The other way around is so 🤢
It’s not true for others, if that were me I would be in worse pain and more uncomfortable and I would get depressed because my partner still made me have sex w and didn’t care that I was uncomfortable.
One time after him constantly asking I gave in. And he still had sex w me while I was literally crying the whole time utter BS
@@jonuisfe5684 Nice made up story.
@@jonuisfe5684 well that's a bit ridiculous. Nobody is talking about being forced to have sex under duress and crying out in pain. That is obviously not ok.
@@jonuisfe5684 Give him some money and tell him to seek a prostitute. If you can't fullfill your role as a woman, there is no reason for your man to not receive what he needs by another woman.
I agree with you Rebecca, that has always been called marital duty.
For whatever reason, the women complaining about having sex with their husbands for the most part have lost attraction for them. Many reasons for this, but most commonly today it is because they have had too many previous sexual partners.
I spent almost 20 years in a sex-starved marriage. For most of the relationship my ex-wife acted as though sex was a burden and she was doing me a favor. Since getting divorced I've had a few longer-term relationships. Sex was never an issue in either one of them until the relationship started falling apart for other reasons.
Thank you for making these videos. This is some of the best advice women need to hear. They simply do not understand the importance of intimate physical contact for many in their relationships.
You make a lot of logical sense Rebecca , great advice to women, if they would only listen and put your advice to use in their marriages they will reap many benefits 👍
Not everyone will have the heart you have. not everyone will appreciate you and what you do for them. Sometimes, it won’t be easy having a kind heart in a cruel world
It's ironic, a man wanting to be physically close and affectionate is seen as terrible and pigish.
Especially considering 90% of the physical effort is exerted by the man.
Imagine being wanted by someone to be physically giving and affectionate towards, when we all know how much more morally superior it is to only want someone for thier money. 🤔.
Women can stop bringing what men want from them in marriage, but the second that man loses his job or gets sick it's time to leave him.
Basically women are a luxury while men are a necessity.
No women, know peace....
As a man i also learned from my previous long relationship (12 years, and yes sexual frustration was the main problem for me) that i need to cultivate those masculine traits and behaviors throughout time and that from that having her in the mood or aroused is waaay easier, especially if you keep flirting and dating alive.
Yes, women are more difficult and complex to keep interested in frequent sex because the man also has to satisfy those nice guy/good father needs by making her feel more relax (#lovelanguage)
My husband of 32 years swears that sex fixes everything. And it pretty much does. What I have learned from many years of marriage that holding a grudge by refusing sex is actually abuse on both sides. I didn't know that but once I realized that I was manipulating by refusing sex, I changed my ways almost 98% of the time. I do see that he is no longer grumpy, he is loving, and gives so much back. even if I say of ya got 5 minutes...go. Its just a little thing but the rewards are 10 fold.
It's controversial bc feminism is about social engineering via the removal of guilt or obligation. Those are considered tools of oppression. Doing anything but following your emotional desires is oppression and any consequences resulting from you following your emotional desires is also oppression. This attitude makes you naturally incapable of a partnership bc you are not a partner.
Very good comeback to the backlash! 👍🏾
Haters gonna hate lol, and I always get the nastiest looks by boss babes as a traditional house wife ha! You are doing just fine mama! I love you for this!
These women are mad you embrace your natural beauty, and they will sleep with a man in a cardboard box smh. Where are their standards at.. 🤔 My husband gets hit on right infront of me and our son and it's hilarious! I am glad I got a H.V.M ❤
@@jay_vee96 that's the real irony, they are trying to dictate what other women must choose rather than respecting their choices. They only proving the saying right : Misery loves company
@Daemok This is very true, I feel for the men out there that is trying to find a good women. It is lonely being a good person.