Brother Delivers Some HURTFUL Comments To The Bride | Say Yes to the Dress Atlanta

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  • @chicagomojo
    @chicagomojo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2517

    Her brother is the type of guy i would hate in 5 seconds of him speaking.

    • @sharvarigajendragadkar6192
      @sharvarigajendragadkar6192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Blows my mind that he has a girlfriend.

    • @sarah-annecarney5458
      @sarah-annecarney5458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      With his haircut he has no right to comment.

    • @ReayTraynor
      @ReayTraynor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@sharvarigajendragadkar6192 His girlfriend should take note because that's the way he'll treat her if they get married.

    • @TessaDShort
      @TessaDShort 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Pine Trees wow. You & Mark have a lot in common.

    • @tatertotter808
      @tatertotter808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Really fucking annoying

  • @thecorpsman9546
    @thecorpsman9546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2532

    ''This dress gave me butterflies and they killed all the butterflies.'' Aww, hearing that made me feel so bad for her. :c

    • @linmcc8342
      @linmcc8342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      She looked beautiful in the dress with the veil. I got chills when she walked out.

    • @sarah-annecarney5458
      @sarah-annecarney5458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too she needed her girls or great friends for support. I know my friends would be honest but constructive!

    • @tessiesmith3926
      @tessiesmith3926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @rokksysoftpaws7022
      @rokksysoftpaws7022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope the family watch it!

  • @MusicalKerbear
    @MusicalKerbear 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2051

    Wow when the consultant has to give you a lecture to be nicer..

    • @danib3279
      @danib3279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      and then they still put her down about the dress after she gave them the lecture -.-

    • @racheljenkins_04
      @racheljenkins_04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know! Her entourage was so rude!

  • @kimmywimmy7305
    @kimmywimmy7305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1259

    No wonder losing weight was the hardest thing she’s ever done. She grew up in all that negativity and had to undo that hardwired negative attitude.

    • @cwchris_
      @cwchris_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Kimmy wimmy fr I bet they were the type to be like “oh yay another diet as if the last one worked”

    • @vanessaroberts8066
      @vanessaroberts8066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Imagine growing up with a brother like that

    • @RayneZaleska
      @RayneZaleska 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cwchris_ or why dont you eat some more its not like your fat enough already.

    • @layneparker3087
      @layneparker3087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@vanessaroberts8066 Mine is a LOT like this brother, only mine doesn't even bother pretending he cares about me or my feelings. It took me a long, long time, but I finally put my foot down and have refused to be in the same room with him going on 2 years now. It's one of the best decisions I ever made in my life.
      People forget... toxic people in your family are STILL toxic people. You are NOT obligated to give access to your life to someone who is harmful to your mental and emotional wellbeing, EVEN IF they're more subtle about it and EVEN IF they're family.

    • @1957DLT
      @1957DLT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I seriously teared up for her.

  • @lilpurpleangel94
    @lilpurpleangel94 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2390

    There is a difference between CONSTRUCTIVE criticism and then just being plain rude. How dare they take away her moment

    • @freewithnature
      @freewithnature 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Wheres_Sandiego especially after having lost all the weight!!

    • @Babesinthewood97
      @Babesinthewood97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's probably their hobby

    • @jayrconica4088
      @jayrconica4088 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wheres_Sandiego I keep thinking I’m gonna see where’s Waldo every time I see your name

    • @aliezahjuarez1212
      @aliezahjuarez1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People are stupid

    • @sylviaking8866
      @sylviaking8866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some family dynamics are abusive. She should have left him at home. She has low self-esteem probably due to her weight battle and her family are insensitive.

  • @kylajohnson9848
    @kylajohnson9848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +621

    If this is how they act in front of the camera imagine what they say to her at home

    • @baishalimandal3293
      @baishalimandal3293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      This is not what a family should be. Horrible group of people they are.

  • @emmahowells8643
    @emmahowells8643 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2298

    The way she held herself completely changed once the family spoke... you could literally see her confidence fly out the window

    • @smpolit
      @smpolit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Emma Howells Yep. She wasn't worried about her arms until after her family started trashing it

    • @AshleyGarcia-dr1sw
      @AshleyGarcia-dr1sw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@smpolit ikr like bruh it's her dress 👗

  • @kitty62862
    @kitty62862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1110

    I don’t like this brother. At. All.
    Momma isn’t much better.
    They are accustomed to putting her down.

    • @neversaw
      @neversaw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It gives an insight as to how she got to her previous weight
      Fuck the mum and brother they're T O X I C

    • @Babesinthewood97
      @Babesinthewood97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly

    • @bunnyslippers191
      @bunnyslippers191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She's their target for all their own nastiness. It's obvious that they do this all the time. You can tell by the way those words just came pouring out the second she stood still in front of them in that first dress.

    • @Nicole_happydays92
      @Nicole_happydays92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They should've bit their tongues and gone to counseling to work on their attitudes.

    • @RayneZaleska
      @RayneZaleska 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@bunnyslippers191 i am worried about his girlfriend. It is obvious he can turn abusive in a instant.

  • @abidrauf11
    @abidrauf11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +685

    "I've got nothing bad to say about it"
    Shows how much of a pessimist he is. Only talks when there's something "bad" to be said.

    • @stephanies7284
      @stephanies7284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I hope he saw this and realized he needs to change his negative mindset. It's no wonder why she got overweight to begin with. Her family is toxic af.

  • @xaudxbeachxmusicx
    @xaudxbeachxmusicx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    "she wanted our opinion."
    "yeah but also support. she wanted support."
    🙌🙌🙌it's amazing how many people don't understand this

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah one can say "You know what? Why don't we try another dress instead?"

    • @EveryonesHiro88
      @EveryonesHiro88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Definitely. You can have an opinion about the dress but you don’t have to be rude. And if you can tell that a person is absolutely in love with the dress then you need to know when to back down and let them be happy with it.

  • @bonnienash8585
    @bonnienash8585 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5525

    God they knocked her down so badly I’m shocked. That was cruel. She’s done incredible to lose so much weight and looks fantastic. I feel so bad for her I hope she is happily married now.

    • @putinthegreatone1055
      @putinthegreatone1055 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Families are why we have nothing to do with either of ours ;)

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      I think they're so used to being mean to her that they don't know how to behave any other way. I hope she ran up the aisle with her husband and never looked back.

    • @annmitchell4663
      @annmitchell4663 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think a lot of it is scripted to add drama..?

    • @kaylabautista1658
      @kaylabautista1658 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexa Pagan
      I'm jjijnjjik

    • @thebeesknees8420
      @thebeesknees8420 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Her brother is rude shame on him. He has no opinion on what she is going to wear on her big day !!!

  • @tacobella99
    @tacobella99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    The girlfriend needs to run. It says a lot about his character to put his sister down like that.

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I wanna tell the girlfriend that 1 day she will be that sister

    • @layneparker3087
      @layneparker3087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 I'm pretty sure that girlfriend is ALREADY in his sister's shoes. Notice how she didn't say ONE WORD during the entire appointment. Seems to me like she's probably being steamrolled herself.

    • @skyandclouds5625
      @skyandclouds5625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And he loves putting her down, you can hear that in his tone.
      I can't imagine how abusive he is in private.

  • @deannar2277
    @deannar2277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +870

    OMG STOP PRESSURING THE POOR GIRL ITS HER WEDDING NOT YOURS MOTHER

    • @naimapinckney3596
      @naimapinckney3596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Deanna Ranglall exactly and the brother is a fuckin idiot.

    • @bethe4993
      @bethe4993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I ruined 666 but I simply had to like the comment.

  • @Jordynnlou
    @Jordynnlou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    I’m glad she’s getting married because it seems she’s became happier, healthy and loving relationship. Her life looks like it got better bc of her fiancé . I hope her life keeps getting better bc with a family like that no wonder she had some bad habits.

    • @monjaahrens8777
      @monjaahrens8777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I hope her fiancé takes her away from all that negativity caused by her family

  • @LRSL
    @LRSL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2020

    Poor girl she seems so sweet

    • @bmeeseeks2881
      @bmeeseeks2881 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Her family is mean. Plus the bride paying for her own dress so zip it!

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Sweet girl who comes from an aggressively awful family.

    • @unkowncoollookingrobot6174
      @unkowncoollookingrobot6174 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      vvmm I bet you're a sweet person.

    • @francinev3971
      @francinev3971 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There will be a lot of good things in store for her. They'll be awfully jealous when the time comes.

  • @avafagan8406
    @avafagan8406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1085

    165 POUNDS! OMG! I can barely lose 1 pound. She fricking awesome! She is gorgeous too xx

    • @weltonvillegal6258
      @weltonvillegal6258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Her face is just so beautiful.

    • @kellicoffman8440
      @kellicoffman8440 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Too true anyone that works hard to loose weight deserves to be praised and encouraged it’s hard work

    • @jbgem82
      @jbgem82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stop eating carbs. It's the only way I can lose weight. It sucks.

    • @morganderose3491
      @morganderose3491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She had gastric bypass

    • @ash12317
      @ash12317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They literally cut her stomach off so that she is forced into eating less.

  • @Akruze10
    @Akruze10 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3653

    No wonder she had weight issues with a family like that...

    • @noneyabusinezz6671
      @noneyabusinezz6671 7 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      A k for real. I need comfort food just watching this.

    • @mcdie5957
      @mcdie5957 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      A k ikr

    • @olgasa6943
      @olgasa6943 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      A k i was thinking the exact same thing made me wanna go out and get some junk food

    • @professionalcommenter
      @professionalcommenter 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      No kidding.. I wouldn't have.brought them nor invited them to my wedding.

    • @daemmerung19
      @daemmerung19 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are so right!

  • @pillowy1526
    @pillowy1526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    “I want to try the other one again”
    “Nooo!”
    “Please don’t.”
    Bro, why can’t her family respect her.

    • @naomipask9956
      @naomipask9956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      •Sugar Diamond• because they have nasty surrounding them like a toxic cloud. They'd be lucky to keep their invites to the wedding at that rate.

    • @yvonnemester3286
      @yvonnemester3286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Her brother is an asshole

  • @reinal7896
    @reinal7896 7 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    “I don’t need bling, I’m not a princess”
    Harsh tone: “YES YOU ARE”
    Wtf lol

    • @rissi2352
      @rissi2352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😐

  • @tinebean116
    @tinebean116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Seems like a narcissistic family...the brother was subtly smiling with glee while criticizing the dress/attacking her

    • @mdiddio
      @mdiddio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Oh yeah, total golden child and scapegoat dynamic.

    • @mdiddio
      @mdiddio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      My family, same thing. Took me getting married to really start seeing it. My mom was silent and polite during my dress selection. I found out years later it's because my maid of honor, who is almost 6 foot, told her if she made even one negative or passive aggressive snipe she'd make sure she'd be uninvited to the wedding.

    • @ThePimmy11
      @ThePimmy11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christ.......not every moment of bad behavior is down to the person being a narcissist. They aren't that common.

    • @mdiddio
      @mdiddio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@ThePimmy11 Hon, they are more common than can be tracked as most will never go to a therapist to be diagnosed.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🤬 Agreed. The brother seeming to smirk in glee when he put her down sent a shiver up my spine. The mother wasn't supportive and have no idea why that girlfriend was there as she never uttered a word on camera, although given how the other two negative nellies were carrying on, that was probably a good thing. I think 25 is too young to get married BUT in this case her getting away from that negatively is a very good thing...

  • @maariyah7233
    @maariyah7233 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2058

    Wow that is so hurtful. She seems so down to earth

  • @liv20051
    @liv20051 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1161

    Why was the girlfriend even there?😂😂

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Max Hellsing yeah girlfriend don’t worry, no one wants your stank boyfriend 😅

    • @thestarvinggames1281
      @thestarvinggames1281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @umma a she laughed when he made those comments about her actually

    • @tatertotter808
      @tatertotter808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She looked so bored lmao

    • @ladyjane8855
      @ladyjane8855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      To sulk and sneer, it seems.

    • @ellebassa9288
      @ellebassa9288 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly why is she here?

  • @officiallyanamika
    @officiallyanamika 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5105

    Damn! I feel terrible for this beautiful soul; such a horrible family. I'm glad that she's moving out of that family.

    • @neilasantiago4873
      @neilasantiago4873 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anamika Diaries .

    • @lililou5587
      @lililou5587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      She liked the dress ok but I don't think they were mean. the dress actually underlined her belly too much. It wasn't a very good choice even though she liked it. Family often tells you think that other people will not eventhough they may think it, but maybe the delivery was a little bit harsh

    • @UnscrupulousAgitator
      @UnscrupulousAgitator 7 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      There is a way to say that you don't like the dress without being rude and without lying

    • @elle823
      @elle823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Anamika Diaries her face when she hugs her mum says everything.

    • @xdcovey8667
      @xdcovey8667 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the boy look likes
      PEWDIEPIE!

  • @judithneeley5229
    @judithneeley5229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I hope her family is reading all the comments here about them.

  • @Rachy2049
    @Rachy2049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    I hope her in-laws are lovely, she deserves a much nicer family.

  • @tiffanytheclinician
    @tiffanytheclinician 5 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    “Please don’t, we like the other one.”
    Well, when you get married, you can wear the dress. Until then, keep the nasty comments about weight to yourself.

    • @samlamwam
      @samlamwam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      tiffany thomas I didn’t hear them say anything about her weight lmao it was her being insecure

    • @lamar9331
      @lamar9331 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

  • @professionalcommenter
    @professionalcommenter 7 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    If they ain't paying for the dress then they don't have a say as to what I wear.

    • @kaylamarie8907
      @kaylamarie8907 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Professional Commenter I mean, even if they were actually paying for the dress... It's still her dress and her wedding so I don't see the point of being so negative and mean

  • @Dachdogoriginal
    @Dachdogoriginal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    They are beyond RUDE. I'm glad that she has a loving voice of reason in her fiance and he is supportive of whoever she is.

  • @carinaejag
    @carinaejag 7 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Horrible family and especially the brother. What does it matter to him what dress she wears? He shouldnt even be there if he cant be supportive.

    • @mariagina9809
      @mariagina9809 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      carinaejag the girlfriend of her brother didnt even talk..😆😆😆

  • @paz6351
    @paz6351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    “I like the dress, but I don’t like myself” that broke my heart 🥺😩💔

  • @camyhill5212
    @camyhill5212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1828

    The brother's poor girlfriend looked so uncomfortable every time he talked

    • @livsweetdreams
      @livsweetdreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Because he knows too much about dresses . . . Just might be Gay . . .

    • @livsweetdreams
      @livsweetdreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Well actually I wouldn't say he knows anything about dresses but he sure acts sassy.

    • @asseater0077
      @asseater0077 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Camy Hill she’s regretting the decision to date him in the first place

    • @virginiacampos4274
      @virginiacampos4274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Forget the girlfriend she was laughing with the family when the bride’s brother was saying those awful comments.

    • @casey991000
      @casey991000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Virginia Johnson Birds of a feather fly together

  • @ecampbell9506
    @ecampbell9506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    "you're speechless! That's a first."
    Wow, that says a lot.

    • @mandie5410
      @mandie5410 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would've been like "Yeah mom now its you're turn to shut your mouth." 😂

  • @madirandall
    @madirandall 7 ปีที่แล้ว +569

    "This dress gave me butterflies... they killed all the butterflies..." THAT'S TERRIBLE

  • @endormimi5261
    @endormimi5261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I feel so bad for her, she's such a sweetheart and her family were so mean

    • @tastx3142
      @tastx3142 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sounds like she found a truly supportive man that she is marrying and hopefully she can build her life by limiting contact with her toxic family.

  • @cassiehenderson6192
    @cassiehenderson6192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    shout out to the the shop attendants who cared and were nicer to the bride than her entourage!!

  • @shishi7123
    @shishi7123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    This is a classic example of toxic family members

  • @vlad-igor
    @vlad-igor 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2379

    They should've gave positive constructive criticism. Or just say try a different dress there's tons of them to see which one fits best.

  • @ThePimmy11
    @ThePimmy11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Their comments are more about amusing themselves and each other rather than giving feedback to the bride.

  • @bigtuna4680
    @bigtuna4680 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1406

    Lmao the brother's girlfriend looked bored out of her mind

    • @lemonflavouredbleach2677
      @lemonflavouredbleach2677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      nosey person ikrrr

    • @lemonflavouredbleach2677
      @lemonflavouredbleach2677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I felt like she was just *there* like no comment at all

    • @Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
      @Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      That is me 99% of the time with people around, family or not. Watching this makes me realize how asshole-ish it looks. Lol

    • @casey991000
      @casey991000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      She's trying to ignore the fact that he's a little bitch

    • @RealtorArbutus
      @RealtorArbutus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      nosey person or she's like fuck, is it to late to get away from this family. Probably considering her other options

  • @jennym007
    @jennym007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I can’t stand these ‘honest’ entourage members who are just plain rude!
    Yes, the bride wants an opinion but not your judgement and your sour words...
    The mum and brother really spoiled what should have been a fun and happy day.

  • @sarahamazinggrace
    @sarahamazinggrace 7 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    No wonder she was 165lbs overweight. She was stuffing her feelings from growing up with these horrible people. Poor thing. So glad her new husband loves her and she feels safe with him.

  • @riarivera3200
    @riarivera3200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    Bruh Its her wedding.
    Her wedding, Her Dress. Not theirs.

    • @angelatulsiani
      @angelatulsiani 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactlyyyyy!!

    • @kellicoffman8440
      @kellicoffman8440 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep she’s the bride

    • @madisonspringer7476
      @madisonspringer7476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Plus, she’s paying. Families are literally there for support, not to give their opinions.

    • @dionysus2179
      @dionysus2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Her life, if I was her that family could go to hell before I let them ruin my big day

    • @EvansSt83
      @EvansSt83 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. She's only going to be wearing that dress for one day! They need to chill out!

  • @qcouple4930
    @qcouple4930 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1676

    I’m so confused as to why they had no dresses with sleeves. What store has absolutely no dresses with sleeves.

    • @Leahbabez14
      @Leahbabez14 7 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      QTC for real, I'm fuming because I have the same problem she does plus thousands of stretch marks

    • @kogancames1107
      @kogancames1107 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Well the did say that they can add or do what ever u wanted to the dress during taloring

    • @tweetyspecial
      @tweetyspecial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I’m getting married, would love a conservative dress with sleeves but out of the dozens of shops that I’ve been to, they may have 1 dress if any at all. And their alterations aren’t cheap

    • @emilyplatt8172
      @emilyplatt8172 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe none in her budget?

    • @Bee-zh4gx
      @Bee-zh4gx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Given the dresses she was looking at were lace dresses, and I assume the sleeves would also be a lace material, alterations would be necessary regardless to ensure they fit correctly on the circumference of her arms. I totally agree though, I can't believe there were no dresses with sleeves for her to at least try!Perhaps that's standard with +size dresses to show the fit of the dress, rather than the alterations that can made :)

  • @bballmomma5900
    @bballmomma5900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Who wants to smack the mom & brother?!?

  • @magicalsquidunicornssovern7883
    @magicalsquidunicornssovern7883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    The bad thing is that the brother and mom aren't paying for it but apparently they are getting married to her fiance.

  • @jazzpop1233
    @jazzpop1233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Family: Makes fun of the dress for a minute straight
    *adds belt*
    Family: i love it!

  • @Laura-e6f5l
    @Laura-e6f5l 6 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    She didn’t want to be a princess...
    She wanted to be a bride.

  • @akyukuu
    @akyukuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very strong woman for putting up with a toxic family. I'm glad you're moving on!

  • @jessgreen2464
    @jessgreen2464 7 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    "I hate everything about this dress."*adds fancy belt*"OMG I love it, it's perfect."??

    • @LE-gf3no
      @LE-gf3no 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ahahah:)

    • @queenlanapepsicola2338
      @queenlanapepsicola2338 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She seems fake to me. But everyone should still feel pretty on her day.

    • @Sarah-lr6vp
      @Sarah-lr6vp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Probably the counselling done by the assistants got them thinking abt the brides feelings

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      well she did just get yelled at to be more supportive. but i'm sure the bride can see through it, the cat's already out of the bag.

  • @offgridjack5779
    @offgridjack5779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I hope that girlfriend sitting there next to Mr. Wunnerful is paying attention. If she marries him she will be in for much worse!!

    • @meeranaidu4656
      @meeranaidu4656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well, she was chuckling along when they were tearing down the poor bride. And after that she just zoned out.

    • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
      @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@meeranaidu4656 Well she may not think so now but in the future she could be in his sister's place

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@meeranaidu4656 Exactly! She did not seem to care. She is one of those women who tell themselves that "he will be nice to me" after witnessing 'red flag' behavior with his own family.

  • @adinfunez5683
    @adinfunez5683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    The brothers girlfriend probably like "wtf am I dating".

    • @shioriryukaze
      @shioriryukaze 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Wouldn't shock me if she broke up with him just after this episode. Then again she's probably been having to deal with him for such a long time that she thinks it's normal.

    • @intrepidtomato
      @intrepidtomato 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Nah, she laughed at his comment. Fuck her. Sorry. She should know better than to do that to the other girl.

    • @amy-ge9sv
      @amy-ge9sv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      she laughed so she's probably exactly like him

    • @mistypotter1272
      @mistypotter1272 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope she's thinking that because he's just a nasty human

    • @mistypotter1272
      @mistypotter1272 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope she's thinking that because he's just a nasty human

  • @flywithme8865
    @flywithme8865 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “This dress gave me butterflies but they killed all the butterflies” that broke my heart oh no sweetie I’m so sorry :(

  • @pinktion3660
    @pinktion3660 7 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    Congrats on her loosing weight!

    • @briggyb
      @briggyb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Daffy Unicorn *losing

  • @winonaramsey5930
    @winonaramsey5930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Here’s my thing this poor girl is paying for the stress herself so you know what other peoples opinions doesn’t matter. However I’m paying for my daughters dress and I don’t care what it looks like she’s the one that’s wearing it as long as she feels beautiful and special that’s all that matters I don’t care what it looks like I’m not wearing it

    • @homersimpsonsdoughnut6280
      @homersimpsonsdoughnut6280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      **dress* sorry, I had to do it 😅

    • @Pussycatfeathers
      @Pussycatfeathers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      even if youre paying for the dress it doesnt mean you have the right to choose it for a bride like you said, its her dress, her wedding, her choice, i would be happy to see my daughter in a plastic bag if she felt good in it!!!

  • @staceyleblanc234
    @staceyleblanc234 7 ปีที่แล้ว +784

    I love the first dress on her and her family are being jerks

    • @aads1823
      @aads1823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People who dont see the beauty in lace dont understand elegance period

  • @melisspooky
    @melisspooky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad that the lady spoke up about how negative her family was being, and she was right. Support first, opinions last. It was so satisfying that she called them out.

  • @AprilManson
    @AprilManson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I love when the lady said yeah but she’s wearing it

  • @shoobidoobie3793
    @shoobidoobie3793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's so cute how she says that their 1st date lasted 8h and they just talked and talked and that the next day she knew she was going to marry him. How beautiful must it be to know you've just met the love of your life without any hesitations 💓

  • @rhyfelwrDuw
    @rhyfelwrDuw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    I'm nearly in tears watching this! What a nasty family she has! She looked beautiful in both dresses!!

  • @marykitten4947
    @marykitten4947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I understand this girl pain, I get the same from my family to. She’s amazing you did something amazing and you found real love not everyone can say that

  • @kgraves2269
    @kgraves2269 7 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    She looked fantastic in the first dress and second. She looked fantastic period.

  • @Jae-lg6nv
    @Jae-lg6nv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way the brother sits lines up with the level of care and respect he shows. His arms outstretched, legs wide - making sure he takes up all the space and not giving the women on his sides an inch. My soul would wither and die if my boys treated their sister like that and/or their sister treated them like that. The best aspect of parenting multiple children is witnessing the love and bond grow between siblings. Parents and caregivers have a responsibility to foster those relationships.

  • @angelineperales
    @angelineperales 7 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    My daughter was insecure about her dress trying on she's a thick girl..her dress assistant picked all these gowns and my daughter fell in love with her gown...strapless and mermaid style..Thank God I didn't have any negative comments from our family or friends because it did look gorgeous...and glad her brother gpt speechless...she looks amazing..and again...she's wearing it..

    • @cecellis7122
      @cecellis7122 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad she found a dress that she felt confident in. Some people forget that dresses are for everyone and if we find something we really love we shouldn't be restricted by our weight.

  • @elizafarron567
    @elizafarron567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "That Killed all the butterflies.."
    BENTLEY NOOO BENTLEY!
    No shade. I felt horrible for the bride. Her brother was awful! 😭

  • @SurahOnline
    @SurahOnline 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1565

    Wow. What a loving family we have here 😕 lol damn

    • @janellmeads1399
      @janellmeads1399 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Surah Online
      I shopped for my wedding dress alone. This is exactly the reason why

    • @AshleyGarcia-dr1sw
      @AshleyGarcia-dr1sw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janellmeads1399 lol

    • @sugerbiskits
      @sugerbiskits 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same!

    • @SarahML1000
      @SarahML1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janellmeads1399 I went with my future husband and mother-in-law so that I would have what I liked instead of what my mother would have told me to wear. It is so sad when families behave that way. Good for you shopping by yourself

  • @1234-e7y
    @1234-e7y 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Her brother got eyebrows thicker than his skull 💀

    • @MC-bq2fl
      @MC-bq2fl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏👏👏 girl you hit the nail on the head

    • @katie4335
      @katie4335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The eyebrows on her brother really need to go

    • @pennyzografou5462
      @pennyzografou5462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everything is so wrong with this person. Even his eyebrows. But most of all, his character.

    • @kellygervais3440
      @kellygervais3440 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yup cro magnum man...

  • @ka635
    @ka635 7 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Every episode: oh I don’t know about this dress *adds the SAME belt * wow it’s so unique and pretty

  • @saviitrius
    @saviitrius 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm tired of mothers trying to drill into their daughters' heads that they're "princesses". In your eyes, maybe. But that is clearly NOT the image the daughter prefers to see herself as.

  • @laurie8617
    @laurie8617 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I LOVED dress #1 on her. So pretty. But #2 she looked stunning.

  • @audrey1053
    @audrey1053 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    *Do people realise they are going to be on TV?*
    *Like don't pick your nose, don't pick on your relatives!*

  • @GotWrackspurts
    @GotWrackspurts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    "Did he help settle the west?" I mean, rude but what a great reference

    • @rominamoreno3803
      @rominamoreno3803 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jess Gilchrist sorry but what that means? I'm not really good in english

    • @Puppuchy
      @Puppuchy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Romina Moreno basically means the dress is old looking-so old that the USA was just beginning to expand westward

    • @rominamoreno3803
      @rominamoreno3803 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Puppuchy oh! I get it! Thanks

    • @GotWrackspurts
      @GotWrackspurts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Puppuchy *Canada (I assume he's also Canadian as Jenny is)

  • @lindathomas6116
    @lindathomas6116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why I went shopping for my Wedding Gown by myself! (And paid for it by myself!) l didn’t give a hoot what anyone else thought! That was 38 years ago now, I’m 60 and widowed. Thank goodness for Grandkids, my reason for living!
    I don’t think this was the first time her brother treated her this way. She needs to grow a backbone and put that boy in his place!
    I would never let anyone speak to me like that brother or not!

  • @nikkinoivern4392
    @nikkinoivern4392 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    she worked hard on losing weight, it was very hard for her, and she looks beautiful, and they pull her down, that's just awful, they deserve to NOT BE AT THE FREAKING WEDDING!!!!

    • @hendo0068
      @hendo0068 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nikkinoivern- she DIDNT “work” she had surgery 😒

    • @aprilrawls8929
      @aprilrawls8929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hard work is losing that weight without medical intervention. It's hard as hell....but then your not gonna have that excess skin! She's young enough she could have done it on her own...but thats full commitment and dedication!

    • @kelsiehogan576
      @kelsiehogan576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s a ton of work that goes into bypass. She may have had to lose a certain amount of weight before she could get the surgery, you have to be sooo careful with what you eat, how you eat, and how much. It’s HARD.

    • @yeetskeet3561
      @yeetskeet3561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      April Rawls Actually to get that bypass you have to work to get to certain weight to do it, so she probably did worked hard to get there with medical intervention for a reason.

    • @kelsiehogan576
      @kelsiehogan576 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! My mom had bypass a year and a half ago, and she had to lose weight before they would even do the surgery. She also had to give HERSELF injections EVERY DAY 😩 I’ve seen how much work goes into bypass, and the people saying she didn’t work for it, bug the crap out of me

  • @Maybethistime15
    @Maybethistime15 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it honestly broke my heart how she loved the first dress and after her family shot it down her mood instantly changed to "i like this dress but i don't like myself in the dress"....she's such a lovely girl i just don't know how they could be so mean to her

  • @skedaddleskedoodle2640
    @skedaddleskedoodle2640 7 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I do love the first one, but the second one is BEAUUTTTIFFFUUUULL. It made her curves and figure very nice.

    • @amiga71
      @amiga71 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Second one for her anyday

    • @beccadotelpy
      @beccadotelpy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      PåintThëWørld I agree. Her family was brutal (or at least edited to look that way) but the second dress did just fit better.

    • @teresarosemcallister2604
      @teresarosemcallister2604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It did fit her better but the bling and detailing wasn't what she wanted plus her family were just major douche canoes.

    • @dreamlife7181
      @dreamlife7181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think at last she also thought that the 2nd one was better but she didn't buy that because her family chose that...and she really wanted to show them that she is not gonna choose the dress which they think will look good on her....and she was absolutely right.... her family was so mean to her....if I was there I would also do the same....and she is looking very nice on the 1st dress as well....

  • @camicri4263
    @camicri4263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would just tell them to either shut up or get out if they can't be supportive or I would leave and come back another day. Boy....that is so mean!

  • @matrixiekitty2127
    @matrixiekitty2127 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Poor girl!! She loved that dress and when her family insulted it she felt sad and insecure and that’s so sad. Heartbreaking that she would rather get what they wanted instead of what she wanted.

    • @katie4335
      @katie4335 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why I'm not buying a dress because of all of the comments this family made. Excuse me first of all her mother doesn't get to decide how she looks and why would the girlfriend come. That's rude of the entourage. Hate this family

  • @justxsweet1070
    @justxsweet1070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mother:"say yes to the dress,just say it!" Talk about pressure

    • @provrr
      @provrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So dominating!

  • @chelseajohnson1388
    @chelseajohnson1388 7 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    His poor girlfriend doesn't know her man is gay.

    • @samanthasherwood9206
      @samanthasherwood9206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Chelsea Johnson I said the same thing!! 😂😂

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Yeah, he is a bit much. Bitter queens are tough to deal with.

    • @romyec
      @romyec 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I thought so. He should go to Kleinfeld and be a queen for a day, we all know that is what he wants.

    • @oneheart7943
      @oneheart7943 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww. Is it true?

    • @hendusamae
      @hendusamae 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      One Heart ...

  • @danib3279
    @danib3279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the consultant told the family “also support” then they proceed to continue to be unsupportive

  • @Captain-Yuzu
    @Captain-Yuzu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    She's paying for it not them, her day = her dress. If that girl who's next to the bro is his gf he should say the exact same thing to her for her dress fitting, lets see how long they'll last. It's not their wedding its her wedding and if the mom wants bling she can bling her up her own dress.

  • @NiaPgn
    @NiaPgn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This family. I’m glad she found such a supportive partner. With a family like that she needs that.

  • @tinacontonio9992
    @tinacontonio9992 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Forget the brother I wonder what he would say if his bride was wearing the dress insult her to be the bride you want to be make yourself happy

    • @tish7560
      @tish7560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tina Contonio his girlfriend was speechless. She was probably thinking twice about being with him. Personally, I'd feel dirty being with someone that's going to be so rude to someone their supposed to love. If he can hurt his sister whats stopping him from hurting her? Nothing.

    • @professionalcommenter
      @professionalcommenter 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Camila Artistica, I 100% agree with you. I was always told that if a man treats the women in his life bad, than he has no problem treating you the same way.

  • @nothere9153
    @nothere9153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And the way her brother smirks while talking just BUTTERS MY EGG ROLL🤬😡 I cant even find the words to express how mad this makes me

    • @nothere9153
      @nothere9153 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even the way her brother sits just shows his personality 🤦‍♀️

  • @maddybannana123fun6
    @maddybannana123fun6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I’m sorry but that was really funny ‘this dress gave me butterflies and they killed the butterfly’s ‘

    • @elderlypoodle9181
      @elderlypoodle9181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      MaddyBannana123 Fun I know !!! The butterfly comment xo

  • @Shalikali
    @Shalikali 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree that the second dress looked better on her body and gave her a sleeker silhouette, but at the end of the day it is what makes the bride feel most beautiful.

  • @astridbirgitteovern7662
    @astridbirgitteovern7662 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She has good taste, her family doesn’t. What’s with the bling obsession? Princess, princess, princess......blah!

  • @jen-heartofglass7339
    @jen-heartofglass7339 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She is gorgeous. She was so happy and excited then mom and 'the should shut his trap' brother made the rude comments.

  • @bigbiddygothbih4404
    @bigbiddygothbih4404 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “No belt”
    Ugly
    “Little belt”
    Beautiful

  • @barbarakaiwi8364
    @barbarakaiwi8364 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She should have listened to her family.

  • @shannon7339
    @shannon7339 7 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    They were both horrible to her but the second dress did look stunning on her

  • @jodypascoe5812
    @jodypascoe5812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can see how her brothers jokes make her doubt herself. But what he said cracked me up lol. The cut of the other dress was more flattering but she needed to go with the one that gave her butterflies, and the belt did make a huge difference.

  • @mineaxyie
    @mineaxyie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    WOW! Her weight loss is amazing, very impressing!! Not many people can do that! Besides, she's beautiful despite her weight. I think she looked beautiful in the first dress. Absolutely beautiful!

  • @whereiswaldo5872
    @whereiswaldo5872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The best part about TH-cam is the comment section where I’m having a bad day I just watch a random video then head straight to the the comment section guys are savage and shady AF and I’m loving every second of it😂🤣

  • @emilywatt6393
    @emilywatt6393 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    they kinda look the same

    • @susu959
      @susu959 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well maybe it's because their relates

  • @sassysls1851
    @sassysls1851 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is interesting to see those who have never dealt with this in their family get a glimpse into it. It is a bit cathartic to see the comments about the family’s behavior since this has been my experience for 50 years of my life. This young lady seems like a lovely person and I hope her groom is as amazing as he sounds.

  • @alyssabrown2229
    @alyssabrown2229 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She struggles with self confidence big time but she did such an amazing job with her weight loss and stuff she looks so good

  • @lindaparadis983
    @lindaparadis983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi ! Im from Sudbury too. Been in Québec over 40 years. Wish you the best.

  • @MGongopadhyay
    @MGongopadhyay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kindness never costed anyone anything and they were downright mean to the Bride-to-be. Are you sure they are her family and friend? Really, nasty people.

  • @Reese196
    @Reese196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I teared up when she immediately turned around. She looks absolutely gorgeous