I made some wonderful friends in your Discord server. Just the sheer amount of wholesomeness I've gotten is great. One of my close friends got very busy IRL and I didn't have many people to socialize with. Until I joined your community. Now I've met many like minded, friendly and sweet guys and girls. It's a healthy mix of people and a very welcoming place to be in.
Since the very beginning Rose said that she wanted kids and Ed avoided the topic. AFTER they had sex he decides to tell her that he doesn't want kids? Is that the only thing he wanted her for? Honestly Ed is disgusting.
He probably just need companionship, not to build a new family. Meanwhile a new family is what Rose wanted. Straightly I say they never match for each other & Ed doesn't have to confront about anything.
I think Ed's problem is he doesn't see Rose as her own person, he just played out this whole trip in his head and was upset when Rose didn't react the way she did in his mind.
Psychology in Seattle mentioned this. Ed thought Rose was a for sure thing, and he was the one inspecting the goods, never thinking she also has needs and wants of her own that he wasn't willing to fulfill. Ed is a creep.
can we appreciate rose for a second? she's a very mature woman, brave, and genuinely knows what she wants in a relationship. after being constantly embarrassed by him in the publics eye, she finds the strength to stand up to him and be completely transparent about her disappointment, and anger. she handles the fact he doesn't want children extremely maturely, even though in that situation, anyone can lash out and become angry. Especially when lied to so many times. I feel like rose never "snapped" back at Ed because she did her best to not put him down in TV, to keep things respectful and honest between them. yet Ed didn't, only after they slept he told her the truth. which is absolutely gross.
I was hoping someone explained this. 😂 When I heard her say this, I DIED cus I don't remember the last time I've heard anyone on Filipino TV say it in a long time. (I dont have TFC anymore 😅)
I LOVE how Rose always starts her sentences with "I feel..." when she's disappointed-in this case almost entirely because of Ed. She rarely if not never uses condescendence to retaliate against him, which is something a lot of people-regardless of where they're from or how old they are-are unable to do. I've been single for the entirety of my short-ass life, so I don't know how I would react in her situation (and hope I never have to go through the same thing in my lifetime or put someone through it), but I hope I remember her and her grace when I'm going through a rough patch with someone. Also, thanks for the wonderful insight as always, Anthony :)
Why does everyone skip past how he waited until after they were intimate, before disclosing this information was super scummy. That wasn't by accident.
I am so proud of Rose for taking time to gather herself and really say all of the things that she needed to say. It's sick to me that Ed to this day acts like the only mistake he made was lying about his height. The problem is that he treated Rose like a pet and acted surprised any time she had an opinion or dreams for herself.
Ed was in love with his over romanticised expectation of rose rather than rose herself. Its like she's a character in his movie and the story revolves around him. He doesn't seem to understand that she is her own person to. He thinks the world revolves around him.
I like how you explain certain things, very informative and understanding. Do you also have a video('s) about making friends or making connections in general? 👍🏻👍🏻
My ex led me on for 3 years about having kids... And ended up saying he didn't want any. So I called it quits. Values have to be the same or COMPATIBLE. Our lifestyles didn't match. I was sick of being manipulated and lied to. I chose me and am so happy about it. I learned that my self-worth doesn't come from another person. Very good commentary!
@@carolinedelafuente7251 thank you, it means a lot. It was difficult. But I met someone amazing now and we are able to COMMUNICATE... Never knew what it was like to be ME while being with someone else... 😊 but it is possible for sure! Very happy now!
There's a good reason why 28 years after his divorce he couldn't get another woman to date him. (Not saying he didn't sleep with another women because from the grapevine, the guy did manage to land women to sleep with, but none was willing to be in a relationship with him)
You're so right about what Ed wanted and Rose wanted. Rose loved him for what mattered and he was trying to feed some gross infatuation with "exotic women". He deserves to be alone if he objectifies women to that degree that they MUST fit all of his expectations, when he lied to Rose about almost everything.
I think I've figured out, at least partly, why people like these kinds of videos. I've come up with two reasons. One is the obvious, people want to know more about a subject, so they get an experts opinion. The other is similar but not quite the same. People often have feelings about something, general feelings that they can't exactly put words to. A "somethings wrong here, I don't like this" feeling. Sometimes we try to explain it, but that explanation doesn't quite satisfy. Hearing someone more knowledgeable put words to and specify what we feel eases that uncertainty. Those are the reasons I could figure, at least.
When Anthony reacts to reality t.v. and validates what most of us are seeing in the moment...it’s just heartening because you can tell that although he’s a dating coach, he’s just a kind human being first and not some pretentious therapist.
I feel like he is manipulative and even abusive in some ways. He treats her with a complete lack of respect and then plays the sympathy card to get away with it as the victim in the situation.
I entire agree with part when Ed asked ‘do you still love me ?’ Instead or checking if rose is okay or apologise to her for lying. I had an ex who did the same thing before, he lied to me and asked if I still love him instead of apologising. I remember just being in disbelief or disappointed that that’s all he said.
I think the word betrayal sums up what Rose felt at that moment. Not being open about the vasectomy for so many days, while letting her get closer to him and knowing her dream of having more kids, it’s a big betrayal to lead her on knowing you’re going to break their heart.
He went to the Philippines not for serious relationships or to get married ..just for his own pleasure, money and fame...he lied from day one until their relationships is over..he waited to the last minute then told Rose not having kids anymore... sex ..is his business of going to the Philippines.
I think Anthony hit the nail on the head that Ed wants validation because he hasn't had a relationship in 28 years but he is going about getting it in horrible way.
Ed did not love Rose. Ed went there to find someone to love him. DAMN ... that shit hit me. This guy keeps dropping so much knowledge in such a clear way. Thanks Anthony!
Thing is, whenever I've started seeing a girl I make a pretty solid point early on that I personally never, ever want children. Because I know that if a girl ever wants kids - or even *thinks* she might want kids - then I am definitely not the guy for her as I know that I 100% don't want them. It's courteous and simply avoids any potential heartbreak or disappointment further down the line. The fact Ed deceives Rose knowing she 100% wants kids and he 100% doesn't is completely beyond me. Total dick move in my opinion.
@@lilygates681 It's a shame that it's such a simple and effective mindset to take, yet it's actually quite rare. What's the point in being with someone if you're depriving them of the future they want? It's crazy. But thank you haha, it's a shame not everyone thinks like that!
@Kaylah B. Yes, of course :) Personally, they're just not for me. They irritate me, they annoy me, spend your money, don't appreciate the effort you're putting in for them, they whine, bitch and cry, go in tantrums, etc. I also like to go out and enjoy my own life, I couldn't just do that if I had a child, I'd have to get a babysitter or something first, then be back by a certain time. I couldn't get drunk as much as I'd want/like to because it's "irresponsible". I had one friend tell me "yeah, but in 18 years you got yourself a drinking buddy!", I replied "yeah, but for the first 18 years of its life I'm gonna be a drunk father, plus I got my own dad. I'd rather go out with him". You also can't just spontaneously have sex any more, you've gotta start thinking about where the kid is and properly timing it so they don't walk in or see you or whatever. They literally ruin everything haha. Also when they constantly want your attention or show you something they've "made" or "drawn", like I know it sounds mean but I don't care. "Look, I drew a picture of you!", no dude, you drew a scribble of multicolours that make up a picture of nothing, come back to me when you get some skill. What if I want to go out for a drink and they can come with me? They have to be out by a certain time which means I'd have to be out too. They just get in the way of life. Also, parents annoy me when they have kids. It's like all they can talk about. It does my head in. Nobody cares about your kid as much as you do and I don't care for how they're getting on in school, or what shenanigans they've been up to. It bores me, and I don't want to be that parent either. And then there's the other side of things. What if they get bullied? What if they get hurt? Their first heartbreak? I also don't want to have to deal with that either. I've been through all of that myself and I feel like it's an inevitable learning curve in life.. I couldn't see someone I love going through that all over again. To be honest with you, I've been told about having my "legacy" living on with children previously, but I don't really care about that. My life is nothing special and I don't particularly desire to have it living on through any offspring. People often question (like yourself) why I don't want kids - which is perfectly fine - but for me I often question why people DO want kids? Like, I'm always made to feel like I'm the odd one out for not wanting to procreate, but I can never get my head around why people actually DO want to themselves!? But I just think that's their decision and I understand a lot of people do, I just don't understand why. I'm 27 now, I decided long ago that I never want kids and my opinion hasn't changed. If my opinion DOES change, I can guarantee that it will be long into the future - but I can also guarantee that that is a very, VERY tiny percentage chance, hahaha. These are just my brainfart thoughts anyway, I'm sure I could write a whole lot more but I'm sure you get the picture at this stage. Apologies if some of this came off a bit defensive, that's not my intention (it's just the way I'm writing as the thoughts pop into my head hahah), hope that clears things up :)
Hey Anthony, I just watched a Netflix documentary about sexuality, how men percieve masculinity and how women percieve masculinity. About how easy is to get a hookup but how hard it's to get a real intimate relationship. It's called "Liberated: The New Sexual Revolution". I would love to see your opinion of this documentary :) Love your videos as always.
Little know fact. The sound (Word) that Rose made apparently means really in filippino. Like so people can see this lol (also can u react to gyllenholland??) 💕
I never believe this "drama" of Rose's sister asking for money because she speaks perfect english in text but when we met her, she only speaks tagalog. Most filipino will glady speak english on camera despite not influent or know a little bit of english but Maria did not speak english on camera so I kinda hesitate to believe that drama.
Rose REEALLYY tried to make it work and try to brush off the things that he said. She did love him but it's hard to love someone whenever they try to communicate to you that you come off as a child to them. Each conversation they had he dug a hole deeper and it's hard when he always put her in such uncomfortable situations. Like buying her lingerie and swim wear without her. He didn't know her style and he got things that were revealing. And instead of bringing it up in a better way he just said "Your breath stinks brush your teeth". Communication is key and if you hurt someone every time you try to communicate with them, makes it really hard to be around that someone. On top of that note as soon as the notion of my bf wanting kids came about I had a conversation with him about how I didn't want kids. If that was a deal breaker for us I was totally prepared for him to let go. I'd never hold onto someone if something I did would make them want to leave.
I find it very interesting that Ed said he had already made an appointment and was having a vasectomy, yet with his next girlfriend, he said they had a pregnancy scare. That also makes this conversation seem even more like a power move . He knew that she wanted children, and he was so sure that she was poor and desperate, he drew a line to establish he’s in charge. And he thought she would cave. Otherwise, he would’ve actually gotten a vasectomy to prevent children. He didn’t. He dated Liz for several months and still never had it done. BTW, the very abusive call leaked on you tube, I’d love your take on the call between Ed and Liz. His mask truly comes off.
In most Asian Culture it takes a lot of Time, Respect and Trust to make someone say "I love you" (It took me a month to say that to my ex 😅) and the funny thing is once you break that it will be really hard to fix cuz most Asian people especially woman in every break up would cry for a few days and then forgets and moves on but in some cases if that person is (as we say) "Marupok" then lucky! You got another chance! So I understand why Rose would totally finish it off just like that yeah sure he got off with those first few lies but the last one was the finishing blow, I bet Rose was not only upset about the baby thing but from all of the lies that has built up soo she was like a ticking time bomb yet Ed failed to realize that and the baby thing was the finishing blow she was just trying to set all of those aside cuz she did like him
Ugh, he seems so self serving, he only cares about his own wants and needs and if he does things for her it's ultimately because if affects his own happiness.
"Do you still love me?" DO.YOU.UNDERSTAND.HOW.FLIPPING.MANIPULATIVE THAT LINE WAS GJVGG like dude. Ed just ROYALLY effed up. For so long he lied to her about this future theyd have together but now that he's done everything he wanted to do with her, now that he's "charmed" her and coaxed her to be with him.THIS is when he chooses to tell the truth. HE KNOWS HE'S betrayed her and then he asks something like that? How can you ask her something like that right after you hurt her like that- He's basically crushed her dream of having kids with him and now he's like but hey dont get too mad because you love me and love conquers all. DUDE. thats was just so low.
OK this one is GOOD. It’s so full of truth bombs when it comes to love and he was so efficiently and accurately describe all the nuanced emotions that she is going through and you describe “pig” head exactly for who he is. Great video. There are cultural issues that you address that add a whole new level to the relationship dissection. I would love to see you react to even more of these type of relationships and less boring Hollywood ones. Hollywood people are so fake that I feel you can’t even get much from them that’s authentic because they are always “ performing “
The part where you talk about Ed going to a poor area of the world and buying love is so important. I haven't watched the show but from what I've seen in your reaction videos, Ed exploiting Rose is so obvious. He is an older, white, american man and she is a young girl from Philippines with not a lot of money. I think it's very important to recognize these power dynamic in their relationship (age, gender, class, race).
I really needed to watch this today. Sometimes I have some really bad days with my depression, I've had multiple people cheat on me, ex wife leave me for someone she met online, etc so sometimes when I'm by myself I get stuck in these destructive mental loops which make getting through the day so damn difficult. When you're stuck in these loops it's usually super hard to remember to try and love yourself and the be proud of the growth you have done as a person from previous experiences. Thank you for this video today.
Funny is. Even Rose cannot speak english that much but she knows Eds bullshit. And funny thing Ed knows english well but he lost for english words to answer the question hahahaha love from Philippines btw
Putting Big Ed’s face over his in the intro. 🤣 But seriously, though, he spoke a lot of truth in this video, and there are plenty of lessons to learn from watching this!
Wauh you reacting to then by saying what you really think about their situation give me an eye opening and a perspective I have never had or understood. I see myself in Big Ed " looking to see if someone would love me" and the constant lies..because I dont know I'm insecure no one would take me in.. I love it when you said you should love yourself and that should be your job ,but your first focus is loving that person because you love them , you explain it better , I definitely learn with this because I see how it connects to me . Thank you, you help me with this video when it comes to "Love"
I don't see Ed as bad, I see him as very sad. Rose is so strong. Being someone who generally loves people instantly, I know that feeling of disappointment when you end up feeling used. But I also agree with you Anthony that when you love people without expecting love in return that you often get a lot of love back.
Ed talks like he just read 30 teen romance novels before this trip and suddenly thinks he's prince charming in a movie, where every line of his gets the girls swooning
I am one of those who asked for part 2 of ed and rose! Thank you so much for granting our wish!!! And also please we want another ed and rose video! I am now a subscriber! ❤️😘
He asks if she still loves him, because he is ready to assume the status as a victim. If her immediate answer was "no", (in his head) he could use the fact that he cannot afford more children and doesn't want any more as a "reason" that she doesn't want to be with him. As he is already doing. Saying things like "she wanted the green card and that she wanted his money"... Dumb logic... Ed logic.. Ugh
I'm a new viewer to your channel, really enjoying your videos so far. I noticed you mention on several occasions when someone is seeking validation from relationships. Can you do a video on how people can avoid this type of behavior?
Learning about narcissistic behaviour, self-love and not being hypocrite is the moral lesson of this story. As a Filipina most foreigner thinks that low to us. I'm proud of Rose, she's really a Queen and deserve a better man.
I now come back to this and say you have got to make a series of reactions to the relationship with Ed and his now ex Liz. I'll drop everything as soon as you start them
He is a con artist and people see through him, especially women. Who makes friends with a guy like that? Plus, he really is a BAD guy. Creepy. Covers it up by making jokes and smiling that stupid smile.
I made some wonderful friends in your Discord server. Just the sheer amount of wholesomeness I've gotten is great. One of my close friends got very busy IRL and I didn't have many people to socialize with. Until I joined your community. Now I've met many like minded, friendly and sweet guys and girls. It's a healthy mix of people and a very welcoming place to be in.
Omg, this is exactly what I need. Where do I find this?
:)
If it weren't for this comment, I wouldn't have known!
Marisabel it’s the first link in the description :)
@@marisabel5500 link in the description of the vid
Can you do 90 Day Fiance Paul and Karine?
Since the very beginning Rose said that she wanted kids and Ed avoided the topic. AFTER they had sex he decides to tell her that he doesn't want kids? Is that the only thing he wanted her for? Honestly Ed is disgusting.
laura so true I didn’t even consider that his truths come out only after intimacy
@@AnthonyRecenello I love your videos ♡
i now realized how disgusting it is. fuck. he should have been transparent with everything.
He probably just need companionship, not to build a new family. Meanwhile a new family is what Rose wanted. Straightly I say they never match for each other & Ed doesn't have to confront about anything.
SIMP
I think Ed's problem is he doesn't see Rose as her own person, he just played out this whole trip in his head and was upset when Rose didn't react the way she did in his mind.
Yeah, it’s very clear to see that she’s just an object to him.
I think once he got what he wanted that was it :(
He should have sent her the script beforehand
@@iFkNxLegend mad funny
Psychology in Seattle mentioned this. Ed thought Rose was a for sure thing, and he was the one inspecting the goods, never thinking she also has needs and wants of her own that he wasn't willing to fulfill. Ed is a creep.
can we appreciate rose for a second? she's a very mature woman, brave, and genuinely knows what she wants in a relationship. after being constantly embarrassed by him in the publics eye, she finds the strength to stand up to him and be completely transparent about her disappointment, and anger. she handles the fact he doesn't want children extremely maturely, even though in that situation, anyone can lash out and become angry. Especially when lied to so many times. I feel like rose never "snapped" back at Ed because she did her best to not put him down in TV, to keep things respectful and honest between them. yet Ed didn't, only after they slept he told her the truth. which is absolutely gross.
The "nge" part that Rose said is actually what a lot of Filipinos say when someone says something veryyyy cheesy lol. My mom does it A LOT haha
We also say "nge" most times when its so cringey or some sort. Obviously from Rose's reaction, she cringed on that pick up line
I was hoping someone explained this. 😂
When I heard her say this, I DIED cus I don't remember the last time I've heard anyone on Filipino TV say it in a long time. (I dont have TFC anymore 😅)
my mood for 2020 has the same energy as rose’s “meh”
When that person who left the comment said “grow a neck and grow up” bro I was on the floor😂😂😂
Roses browser history :
How to chocke a neckless man
Lmfao.
That ones old
LOL
Lmfao😂
😂😂😂😂
I LOVE how Rose always starts her sentences with "I feel..." when she's disappointed-in this case almost entirely because of Ed. She rarely if not never uses condescendence to retaliate against him, which is something a lot of people-regardless of where they're from or how old they are-are unable to do. I've been single for the entirety of my short-ass life, so I don't know how I would react in her situation (and hope I never have to go through the same thing in my lifetime or put someone through it), but I hope I remember her and her grace when I'm going through a rough patch with someone. Also, thanks for the wonderful insight as always, Anthony :)
So true about rose
Love that Rose is so grounded, mature and doesn't sell herself short 😊
... Is that a young Zendaya
@@planettsuki omg lol
"Your priority should not be to find someone who loves you" - that's some hard pill to swallow dude
IKR. It's what everyone wants. It's what I want. I want to love and to be loved in return.
Why does everyone skip past how he waited until after they were intimate, before disclosing this information was super scummy. That wasn't by accident.
I am so proud of Rose for taking time to gather herself and really say all of the things that she needed to say. It's sick to me that Ed to this day acts like the only mistake he made was lying about his height. The problem is that he treated Rose like a pet and acted surprised any time she had an opinion or dreams for herself.
Ed was in love with his over romanticised expectation of rose rather than rose herself. Its like she's a character in his movie and the story revolves around him. He doesn't seem to understand that she is her own person to. He thinks the world revolves around him.
The way anthony describes things, his understanding, his Opinions are so true, I love em
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im trying to learn english, and his way to speak, is so understandable, thats make it really easy, (apart of his legend content)
you should watch psycology in seattle hes even better
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Funny how he feared she only wanted him for his money and yet also expected that he could buy her affection.
Why the heck did I make the thumbnail look like a candy cane?
Haha! also Anthony, could you react to more Harry styles (like him and Louis and his chemistry with other people etc). Love your content BTW.
I like how you explain certain things, very informative and understanding. Do you also have a video('s) about making friends or making connections in general? 👍🏻👍🏻
ANTHONY PLEASE REACT TO AARON BURRISS AND VERONICA MERRELL
Christmas in July, baybee
JSchlatt and JustaMinx would be a great topic for a video
My ex led me on for 3 years about having kids... And ended up saying he didn't want any. So I called it quits. Values have to be the same or COMPATIBLE. Our lifestyles didn't match. I was sick of being manipulated and lied to. I chose me and am so happy about it. I learned that my self-worth doesn't come from another person.
Very good commentary!
Exiting out a long ass toxic relationship is not easy. I'm so happy you're doing well now
@@carolinedelafuente7251 thank you, it means a lot. It was difficult. But I met someone amazing now and we are able to COMMUNICATE... Never knew what it was like to be ME while being with someone else... 😊 but it is possible for sure! Very happy now!
To all men out there. Don't be like Ed when trying to find a girl and you're already doing a good job : )
There's a good reason why 28 years after his divorce he couldn't get another woman to date him. (Not saying he didn't sleep with another women because from the grapevine, the guy did manage to land women to sleep with, but none was willing to be in a relationship with him)
You're so right about what Ed wanted and Rose wanted. Rose loved him for what mattered and he was trying to feed some gross infatuation with "exotic women". He deserves to be alone if he objectifies women to that degree that they MUST fit all of his expectations, when he lied to Rose about almost everything.
Anthony actually has a very trustworthy face. I wasn't really sure if I liked watching his videos at first, but consider me won over!
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Rose is a Gem, I hope she finds someone that really deserves her.
I think I've figured out, at least partly, why people like these kinds of videos.
I've come up with two reasons. One is the obvious, people want to know more about a subject, so they get an experts opinion.
The other is similar but not quite the same. People often have feelings about something, general feelings that they can't exactly put words to. A "somethings wrong here, I don't like this" feeling. Sometimes we try to explain it, but that explanation doesn't quite satisfy. Hearing someone more knowledgeable put words to and specify what we feel eases that uncertainty.
Those are the reasons I could figure, at least.
When Anthony reacts to reality t.v. and validates what most of us are seeing in the moment...it’s just heartening because you can tell that although he’s a dating coach, he’s just a kind human being first and not some pretentious therapist.
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Ed hasn’t been in a relationship for a longer amount of time than she’s been alive.
I feel like he is manipulative and even abusive in some ways. He treats her with a complete lack of respect and then plays the sympathy card to get away with it as the victim in the situation.
He really needs time to change and stop with the lies. The biggest thing holding him back is his personality.
It won't happen... He's been a trash person for, likely, his adult life. No changing it now.
@@lizfinkelstein1323 and so is his daughter lmaooo. The apple really doesn't fall far from the tree
I entire agree with part when Ed asked ‘do you still love me ?’ Instead or checking if rose is okay or apologise to her for lying. I had an ex who did the same thing before, he lied to me and asked if I still love him instead of apologising. I remember just being in disbelief or disappointed that that’s all he said.
Anthony: „It‘s almost as though he hasn’t many friends or relationships...“
Me: „I mean....“
She dodged a bullet with this one! I’m so glad she dumped him!! I’m so glad she didn’t procreate with this genetics!
His genetics are fine check out his daughter
@@bengreeley5681 We don't really know what his ex-wife looks like, the daughter might have mostly got her mothers looks
@@LMKgoddess point is, he’s not ugly enough to screw them up
@@bengreeley5681 Well with genetics it kinda is just a randomiser on what the kid gets so it's a bit more of a 50/50 for that
@@LMKgoddess yeah however his daughter is his twin and she's very pretty actually so looks wise he wouldn't screw them up 😆
I think the word betrayal sums up what Rose felt at that moment. Not being open about the vasectomy for so many days, while letting her get closer to him and knowing her dream of having more kids, it’s a big betrayal to lead her on knowing you’re going to break their heart.
He went to the Philippines not
for serious relationships or
to get married ..just for his own pleasure, money and fame...he lied from day one
until their relationships is over..he waited to the last
minute then told Rose not having kids anymore...
sex ..is his business of
going to the Philippines.
I think Anthony hit the nail on the head that Ed wants validation because he hasn't had a relationship in 28 years but he is going about getting it in horrible way.
I feel like Anthony would just be so lovely to date
Ed did not love Rose. Ed went there to find someone to love him. DAMN ... that shit hit me. This guy keeps dropping so much knowledge in such a clear way. Thanks Anthony!
Thing is, whenever I've started seeing a girl I make a pretty solid point early on that I personally never, ever want children. Because I know that if a girl ever wants kids - or even *thinks* she might want kids - then I am definitely not the guy for her as I know that I 100% don't want them. It's courteous and simply avoids any potential heartbreak or disappointment further down the line.
The fact Ed deceives Rose knowing she 100% wants kids and he 100% doesn't is completely beyond me. Total dick move in my opinion.
The world needs more people like you.
@@lilygates681 It's a shame that it's such a simple and effective mindset to take, yet it's actually quite rare. What's the point in being with someone if you're depriving them of the future they want? It's crazy. But thank you haha, it's a shame not everyone thinks like that!
@Kaylah B. Yes, of course :) Personally, they're just not for me. They irritate me, they annoy me, spend your money, don't appreciate the effort you're putting in for them, they whine, bitch and cry, go in tantrums, etc. I also like to go out and enjoy my own life, I couldn't just do that if I had a child, I'd have to get a babysitter or something first, then be back by a certain time. I couldn't get drunk as much as I'd want/like to because it's "irresponsible". I had one friend tell me "yeah, but in 18 years you got yourself a drinking buddy!", I replied "yeah, but for the first 18 years of its life I'm gonna be a drunk father, plus I got my own dad. I'd rather go out with him". You also can't just spontaneously have sex any more, you've gotta start thinking about where the kid is and properly timing it so they don't walk in or see you or whatever. They literally ruin everything haha. Also when they constantly want your attention or show you something they've "made" or "drawn", like I know it sounds mean but I don't care. "Look, I drew a picture of you!", no dude, you drew a scribble of multicolours that make up a picture of nothing, come back to me when you get some skill. What if I want to go out for a drink and they can come with me? They have to be out by a certain time which means I'd have to be out too. They just get in the way of life.
Also, parents annoy me when they have kids. It's like all they can talk about. It does my head in. Nobody cares about your kid as much as you do and I don't care for how they're getting on in school, or what shenanigans they've been up to. It bores me, and I don't want to be that parent either.
And then there's the other side of things. What if they get bullied? What if they get hurt? Their first heartbreak? I also don't want to have to deal with that either. I've been through all of that myself and I feel like it's an inevitable learning curve in life.. I couldn't see someone I love going through that all over again.
To be honest with you, I've been told about having my "legacy" living on with children previously, but I don't really care about that. My life is nothing special and I don't particularly desire to have it living on through any offspring. People often question (like yourself) why I don't want kids - which is perfectly fine - but for me I often question why people DO want kids? Like, I'm always made to feel like I'm the odd one out for not wanting to procreate, but I can never get my head around why people actually DO want to themselves!? But I just think that's their decision and I understand a lot of people do, I just don't understand why.
I'm 27 now, I decided long ago that I never want kids and my opinion hasn't changed. If my opinion DOES change, I can guarantee that it will be long into the future - but I can also guarantee that that is a very, VERY tiny percentage chance, hahaha. These are just my brainfart thoughts anyway, I'm sure I could write a whole lot more but I'm sure you get the picture at this stage. Apologies if some of this came off a bit defensive, that's not my intention (it's just the way I'm writing as the thoughts pop into my head hahah), hope that clears things up :)
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But it's such a good thumbnail! Summer Christmas!!!
Nope. He didnt tell her because he wanted to be intimate with her. And knew she would back out if he told her. So he told her after. Tricked her.
Hey Anthony, I just watched a Netflix documentary about sexuality, how men percieve masculinity and how women percieve masculinity. About how easy is to get a hookup but how hard it's to get a real intimate relationship.
It's called "Liberated: The New Sexual Revolution".
I would love to see your opinion of this documentary :)
Love your videos as always.
Interesting recommendation
Ooh I'm curious now. Gonna go check it out
You cringing... when he said “you’re my best view” is so accurate
Man the face anthony made when ed said "you still love me?" Was so god darn hilarious!
My favorite part is when you kinda threw the remote when Ed said "do you still love me?". Yes i know thats so manipulative
She was essentially supposed to be an animate sack that eats, sleeps, and breathes but doesn't have a voice. With recurring investments lol.
The way he told her after they had sex... soo shady! smh :(
Little know fact. The sound (Word) that Rose made apparently means really in filippino. Like so people can see this lol (also can u react to gyllenholland??) 💕
100% your words at the end. Rose makes me respect her, she knows better than Ed.
I never believe this "drama" of Rose's sister asking for money because she speaks perfect english in text but when we met her, she only speaks tagalog.
Most filipino will glady speak english on camera despite not influent or know a little bit of english but Maria did not speak english on camera so I kinda hesitate to believe that drama.
You're right. Rose revealed it was set up by the producers for drama.
big ed is so beyond lucky to get anyone let alone rose and he takes her for granted
Check out Ed’s daughter
Their relationship is the definition of "life's comedy from afar and tragedy on close" or something like that
I like Rose. Lol. Her response to his view comment was awesomeness.
Rose REEALLYY tried to make it work and try to brush off the things that he said. She did love him but it's hard to love someone whenever they try to communicate to you that you come off as a child to them. Each conversation they had he dug a hole deeper and it's hard when he always put her in such uncomfortable situations. Like buying her lingerie and swim wear without her. He didn't know her style and he got things that were revealing. And instead of bringing it up in a better way he just said "Your breath stinks brush your teeth". Communication is key and if you hurt someone every time you try to communicate with them, makes it really hard to be around that someone. On top of that note as soon as the notion of my bf wanting kids came about I had a conversation with him about how I didn't want kids. If that was a deal breaker for us I was totally prepared for him to let go. I'd never hold onto someone if something I did would make them want to leave.
I find it very interesting that Ed said he had already made an appointment and was having a vasectomy, yet with his next girlfriend, he said they had a pregnancy scare. That also makes this conversation seem even more like a power move . He knew that she wanted children, and he was so sure that she was poor and desperate, he drew a line to establish he’s in charge. And he thought she would cave. Otherwise, he would’ve actually gotten a vasectomy to prevent children. He didn’t. He dated Liz for several months and still never had it done. BTW, the very abusive call leaked on you tube, I’d love your take on the call between Ed and Liz. His mask truly comes off.
In most Asian Culture it takes a lot of Time, Respect and Trust to make someone say "I love you" (It took me a month to say that to my ex 😅) and the funny thing is once you break that it will be really hard to fix cuz most Asian people especially woman in every break up would cry for a few days and then forgets and moves on but in some cases if that person is (as we say) "Marupok" then lucky! You got another chance! So I understand why Rose would totally finish it off just like that yeah sure he got off with those first few lies but the last one was the finishing blow, I bet Rose was not only upset about the baby thing but from all of the lies that has built up soo she was like a ticking time bomb yet Ed failed to realize that and the baby thing was the finishing blow she was just trying to set all of those aside cuz she did like him
Ugh, he seems so self serving, he only cares about his own wants and needs and if he does things for her it's ultimately because if affects his own happiness.
0:56 omg, that:s Liz from Ed's 90 day fiance the single life! 😆 Well, now we know she's definitely paid by tlc. 😳
Omg i had to go back and check it out lol
That Pikachu face at 16:16 should be the new meme for "confused".
You should look into Jihoon and Deaven on 90 day fiancé the other way
Yes. Please do this one.
Yesss
that one is hilarious, oh Jihoon, he's a hoot. Very much an underachiever, but a hoot.
Rose is such a boss. I feel terrible for the way she was treated :(
"Do you still love me?"
DO.YOU.UNDERSTAND.HOW.FLIPPING.MANIPULATIVE THAT LINE WAS GJVGG like dude. Ed just ROYALLY effed up. For so long he lied to her about this future theyd have together but now that he's done everything he wanted to do with her, now that he's "charmed" her and coaxed her to be with him.THIS is when he chooses to tell the truth. HE KNOWS HE'S betrayed her and then he asks something like that? How can you ask her something like that right after you hurt her like that-
He's basically crushed her dream of having kids with him and now he's like but hey dont get too mad because you love me and love conquers all. DUDE. thats was just so low.
OK this one is GOOD. It’s so full of truth bombs when it comes to love and he was so efficiently and accurately describe all the nuanced emotions that she is going through and you describe “pig” head exactly for who he is. Great video. There are cultural issues that you address that add a whole new level to the relationship dissection. I would love to see you react to even more of these type of relationships and less boring Hollywood ones. Hollywood people are so fake that I feel you can’t even get much from them that’s authentic because they are always “ performing “
The part where you talk about Ed going to a poor area of the world and buying love is so important. I haven't watched the show but from what I've seen in your reaction videos, Ed exploiting Rose is so obvious. He is an older, white, american man and she is a young girl from Philippines with not a lot of money. I think it's very important to recognize these power dynamic in their relationship (age, gender, class, race).
I really needed to watch this today. Sometimes I have some really bad days with my depression, I've had multiple people cheat on me, ex wife leave me for someone she met online, etc so sometimes when I'm by myself I get stuck in these destructive mental loops which make getting through the day so damn difficult. When you're stuck in these loops it's usually super hard to remember to try and love yourself and the be proud of the growth you have done as a person from previous experiences. Thank you for this video today.
Funny is. Even Rose cannot speak english that much but she knows Eds bullshit. And funny thing Ed knows english well but he lost for english words to answer the question hahahaha love from Philippines btw
Bro you have the cutest laugh omfg
By analysing their relationship you made realise I also always need validation... Wow I'm just like Ed
Putting Big Ed’s face over his in the intro. 🤣
But seriously, though, he spoke a lot of truth in this video, and there are plenty of lessons to learn from watching this!
Can you please react to Dylan is in Trouble and his friend Misoa?
You should react to “the button” is kind of like jubilee in that it’s a speed dating show but even more hilariously shallow😂
The answer he was looking for was even more simple than you explained. All he had to say was “because I’m selfish”
Ed: You're my best view
*_Flert_*
Wauh you reacting to then by saying what you really think about their situation give me an eye opening and a perspective I have never had or understood. I see myself in Big Ed " looking to see if someone would love me" and the constant lies..because I dont know I'm insecure no one would take me in.. I love it when you said you should love yourself and that should be your job ,but your first focus is loving that person because you love them , you explain it better , I definitely learn with this because I see how it connects to me . Thank you, you help me with this video when it comes to "Love"
Poor Rose! She had an ulcer and went through that kind of situation!
I don't see Ed as bad, I see him as very sad. Rose is so strong. Being someone who generally loves people instantly, I know that feeling of disappointment when you end up feeling used. But I also agree with you Anthony that when you love people without expecting love in return that you often get a lot of love back.
Check out Dr Phil's, 'Life Code'
man i just love this channel
Ed talks like he just read 30 teen romance novels before this trip and suddenly thinks he's prince charming in a movie, where every line of his gets the girls swooning
OH MY GOD. I NEVER KNEW THE "I LIKE THE VIEW. YOU DO? YES. YOU'RE MY BEST VIEW" came from this.
Love this! Started watching your vids & now I can't stop!
love your videos man. both entertaining and informative
Amazing commentary, right to the point! Beautifully said ❤️
Anthony: Big Ed seems like he doesn't have many friends...
Big Ed: 👁💧👄💧👁
I am one of those who asked for part 2 of ed and rose! Thank you so much for granting our wish!!! And also please we want another ed and rose video! I am now a subscriber! ❤️😘
He asks if she still loves him, because he is ready to assume the status as a victim. If her immediate answer was "no", (in his head) he could use the fact that he cannot afford more children and doesn't want any more as a "reason" that she doesn't want to be with him. As he is already doing. Saying things like "she wanted the green card and that she wanted his money"... Dumb logic... Ed logic.. Ugh
Oh man Anthony I love your videos ... I’m a new subscriber. You keep popping up in my recommendations. I love watching other couples as well!
Damn. I just wanted part 2 of seeing your reaction to Ed's craziness but the insights generated were actually really good
When you laughed at Ed saying Rose was his best view 😂Your laugh is contagious😂😂😂
I'm a new viewer to your channel, really enjoying your videos so far. I noticed you mention on several occasions when someone is seeking validation from relationships. Can you do a video on how people can avoid this type of behavior?
Such wise words from Anthony yet again, oh my ❤️
The song remixed version of the first dialogue of Rose and Ed, is stuck in my mind.
This content is just golden. 💕
Learning about narcissistic behaviour, self-love and not being hypocrite is the moral lesson of this story. As a Filipina most foreigner thinks that low to us. I'm proud of Rose, she's really a Queen and deserve a better man.
I love your reactions!❤️😂
I now come back to this and say you have got to make a series of reactions to the relationship with Ed and his now ex Liz. I'll drop everything as soon as you start them
ALMOST like he doesn’t have many friends or relationships??
He is a con artist and people see through him, especially women. Who makes friends with a guy like that? Plus, he really is a BAD guy. Creepy. Covers it up by making jokes and smiling that stupid smile.
Watched 1 video today and then watched many more :D like how chill your video's are.
Omg!! I love your personality and the way you laugh!!! It’s so cute!! 🥰😅
I NEEDED THIS I REALLY WANTED THIS
So insightful!! Now I ask myself what is love, wow
Lmao when anthony reacted to ed saying "you're my best view"
That was me when i first heard it lmao
Omg can't believe you mentioned me lmao. Thanks😂😂
I love your advice about loving yourself first. 💪
I LOVED your reaction to "do you still love me?" Then all the other things he should've said lol