Why do I keep attracting unavailable people? (and five steps to fix it *fast*)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
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Wow! Good stuff. I went for a walk at the park today and met several couples along my path. Instead of thinking “I wish I had a partner to walk with” (being in lack), my thought was “I’m happy for those couples who are spending time together on this beautiful day. My next thought was: “I’m excited that my ‘true love’ is on his way to me and we will walk together one day”. I consciously recognized I was thinking positive thoughts instead of negative. 🥰
I’ve recently realised that I always believed that relationships are hard work and cause heartbreak. I’ve also realised that I believed that ‘why would anyone love me’ and if they did I couldn’t understand why, so I would push them to prove it. I grew up not knowing what mood my dad would be in and if he was going to get in one of his moods. I always use to stand up for myself but was repeatedly told by my mum not to say anything because it makes things worse. So guess what, I grew up believing I was unloveable and not to say anything in case it made things worse, which I’ve done with my twin flame and in friendships etc. My health has suffered as a result of keeping it all inside. I now want to speak my truth and show the world the real me. I want to express my feelings to my dm about everything I’ve been through, the hurt, pain etc etc. Not sure how to do this without sounding like the crazy ex! Thank you MJ 🙏
This is so very true. For the longest I have been in toxic relationships. From friendships as a young child into high school and as a grown woman with my relationships with men. I have thought for the longest that a healthy loving relationship is not for me bc of all the toxic crap I have gone through. I have been working on myself for a long while & I'm definitely more open to a positive unconditionally loving relationship now. Being a survivor of all sorts of trauma and abuse hasn't made things easy, but I will not give up on moving forward. I am worthy of everything good, including true genuine love and healthy relationships. Awesome video Mary Jo, love you so much! Sending everyone love and light here! 🥰❤🥰❤🥰❤
I had NO CLUE what was coming towards me this am when I pulled up TH-cam! I certainly wasn't expecting a see a video from a YEAR ago that I needed to hear TODAY!
I couldn't get my notebook out fast enough and just wrote and wrote and wrote. My hand is all cramped up but my heart and mind are bursting with positivity and light.
Its scary too but I have absolutely nothing to lose by trying to break the cyclone of negativity that keeps me sad and alone or with the wrong people.
THANK YOU ❤
This video screamed at me. Thank you for your guidance ❤❤❤.
I've been asking myself this very same question!! I know we only attracted who or what we are.... Praying to release this negative pattern!! Thank you very much for this!!😘😘
MaryJo...I found your channel(s) about 7 months ago and it has been transformative and enlightening. Thank you for sharing what self love is and how to embrace our own amazingness. We are from the same generation and you make me smile often making references to trends, TV shows and people. I love your light, wisdom and willing to share your gift so freely. As one dog lover to another, seeing Charlie pics and on video just warms my heart. Keep shining!
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! SO MUCH!!!
It comes as easy or as hard as you wanted to if you wanted to come easy it will if you wanted to come hard it will I totally believe that what we tell ourselves in J is equally as important as what we don't tell our selves
I’m not sure where I read it but I love this quote - “luck is where opportunity and hard work meet”. Really enjoying your content as I just came across your channel and gaining so many great insights. Namaste 🙏🏼
Omg MJ you're my TH-cam Oprah lol, thank you so much💗
Basically....we must be, think, do, manifest, see, breathe, pray ‘positivity’ 🙏🏼💖....just everything ‘ALL’ good things✨💗
I don't know how this video reached to me today...may be God wanted me to hear this... Thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart for this video... God bless you and loads of love ❤❤❤❤
this was such a beautiful message. i loved your energy and the way you broke down limiting beliefs. i was hesitant to click on the video because of my own personal limiting belief that following through with identifying and breaking down those beliefs is incrediblt hard. while thats true, this made me understand the importance of doing so and that it can be a creative, liberating and exciting process. i smiled when you said "fantasizing" along with the "you go girl!" "i am lucky!" !! thank you :')
This just popped up. Thankyou Mary Jo
I belive in strong and worthy to have love and start a business to enjoy my first home. Im a very lucky person people whom come into my life have taught me good and bad lessons. Now I believe , I dont need to win then over for then to stay. Very powerful.
Thank you for coming into my life.
✨🌻🌻soooo happy YOU....are doing this channel🤗
This just popped up but needed it today!! Thank you 💖
Epiphany! I totally tell people "I only attract married or emotionally unavailable men." Wow
Hands down I needed this video ... and I'm more than positive the Universe knew I needed to hear this message!!! I had to take notes cause this was just that AMAZING!!! Thank You MJ for sharing your energy and delivering so many on point messages! XOXO
Wow thank You Lady MJ! Im in tears 😭
I always told myself that there will never be another man as great as my dad & Grandfather(R.I.P.) EVER, especially after my Grandpa passed away at age 15...And guess what.... that’s exactly what I have experienced smh
I will rewatch and take notes & replace my old belief system ASAP! I’m tired of being the common denominator to my failed relationships!
You are such a beautiful blessing 💙!!
Thank You!!!
Thank you MJ.. I needed this today..🌻🌻🌻🌻 much luv🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Just love you, your worth it, I'm at peace, no point asking a brick wall once for some kind of truth, but to keep asking, dont waste your precious life, anyone who cant tell you the truth, in my opinion, doesnt really care about you, especially when they see and know how much hurt, confusion, and pain they've caused you ! Walk, away NOW ! Someone who cares about you, does not keep doing that ! So, please dont let them, it's up to you, you are in control of your life ! It's yours, not theres! Dont waste your life, Get busy, do you, no more giving your life and love away to someone who is a player ! If it is a twin flame, your better off, doing your own work , cause at a soul connection it should pull them up too, so you know, no improvement, not a real connection, PLAYER ! That's how I see it ! I hope that helps you guys ! Things always happen when you least expect it and you are not looking ! Do you, your number one ! Love live and enjoy !
I'm so grateful for this video message. It's everything that I've needed to work on. Just wonderful! Thank you.
Wow Thankyou!! Clarity is powerful xx
Congratulations on your new channel ...you are one of the best!...love and light to you ♥️🌟
I hear u loud and clear. Now fighting who to trust? My loyalty is always used and abused. Soul Searching for Honesty. Kindred Spirit. 😌
I've just ran into this video and yes hits me on the head!!! I've been single-alone for 5years and it sucks!!!
So grateful for this video. You are an angel!
I’m sooo glad I found your channels ❤️
Excellent content MJ, I am very grateful.
Thank you again MJ. BIG Love and Happy Beliefs only!
Thank you MJ I have a friend who's going through this torturous relationship and she just needs to know that she is a better person so I sent this to her and told her to listen to it twice and I hope she follows it thank you so much for much-needed positive affirmations
Great throwback!! Thank you sooo much for this video and all of your content!! 🙏❤️
Thank you so much for this video. These videos really impact and help to change us all for the better 💖💖💖
Thank you for all your empowering content.
You're a beautiful soul, MJ. Keep lighting the path for those who walk beside you. Could you please make a video on intuition- how to become more aware and receptive of it, how to sit in your knowing that it comes from a higher place and having the courage to follow/act on it. I'm trying to listen more to what feels true to heart (my knowing) without over analysing or convincing myself out of that certainty. Thank you 😘
Wow, just what I needed to embrace today! Thank You ✨
Hey MJ, thank you for this insight. So lucky to have you 😊❤️💜🍀
We also need to feel lucky physically, that plays a huge role in the process and helps the belief to change. Blessings to you
Chock full 'o' golden nuggets!! This Cappy's been searching her entire lifetime for this "recipe"...I must rewatch it again, and again... Thanks for putting it together so concise and clearly for those of us who didn't grow up around the most optimal energy and are missing many key foundational blocks. [[Pearls, I say...just pearls!!]] :)
YOU ARE SO GOOD I LOVE THIS YOUR READING I BELIEVE IN YOUR TAKING ABOUT THIS FEEELING THANK
be positive thinking positive thoughts manifest the amazing works and dreams YESYESYES YOU GO GIRL LOVE THIS NEW CHANNEL MUCH LOVE MJ MUCH LOVE ❤️😘☀️🔥
Thank you for this, very important! But i could only really hear this, when i was really ready for that change and believe. And I am ready, girl!! 😊
😆😆😆 Cappy here!! Don't worry, I do not take it personally!
But kidding aside, thanks!
I understand! But what happens if you start giving up on relationships? When you can’t find that person who treats you well and is there for you and loves and is interested in you and wants to be with you and not just as a option or as well as others just wants to be with you and for a lifetime? When you can’t find that you just get comfortable being alone? Not that you want to but it does take a toll! I don’t believe that there is only one person for one person! I know there is always someone else for someone! People need people! Thank you!
Wow! Thank you for this video! It came across in divine timing.
This was awesome! Thank you.
Thank you MJ! I really needed to hear this! I love this new channel! These are the messages I need to hear! Trying to change negative self talk and this is so helpful and hopefully will help to the path of healing. Much love to you! You are a light in the world! Keep shining on!
An awesome topic! Thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I’ve been journaling since I was about 12. I have boxes and boxes full of books. I told my sister if something ever happens to me she better come to my house and get the books! LOL
❤️I am so grateful for you👑🥰 Thanks MJ🙏
Thank you I needed to hear this
MaryJo i love your work. Such beautiful and inspiring messages in this video...thank you!
Thank you MJ.
I needed this. Thank you. ✨
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This video was from a while ago?
☺✨ Now. Thank you. ❤
Have absolutely attracted low vibrational relationships and releasing it all....... great reading MJ, Thankyou 😊😊😊
Wonderfully clear, thank you
Your work is so important for this world. Thank you ❤️
Wow. Uh oh...grabs 🍿🍿Great title btw @8:55👀
Thank u so much MJ....
Thank you MJ💐💐💐 this is enlightening to me. I've had that negative beliefs for a long time. It's time to get rid of it. Being a Cappy its hard but I will push through. 11:11
I will take the rubbish out 😄😄😄 Spring cleaning time! 😍
Well done MJ, I love this, great message 💕
Wonderful messages with great tools to use and implement a change thoughts! Omgoodness how I enjoy this channel!💕😊
This was great MaryJo
This channel is such a good idea. Thank you for your time and energy in working to help us all. :)
👍 I love the videos!! Looking forward to seeing more from you!
Wow I love this. Thank you MJ for your knowledge and sharing it with us!
Amazing advice thank u, love this channel x
Thank you... I'm working on myself & my way of thinking
Dear MJ, I love you 🌹🙏❤️
I really love you, you are amazing. Thank you.❤👏
Thank you for all you do.
your channel helps me so much!
I always attract people who are emotionally unavailable because it keeps me safe from having a long term relationship. I came to this conclusion recently. I am very much head over heels for someone who I am a client of and he cannot act on it ethically because of his job. This keeps the passion building but also keeps me at a safe distance so I cannot get hurt. It's because I'm afraid. Now that I am conscious of this I'm not sure what to do about it.
If it were me, I would leave his client base, and then tell him why. 😉👍💝
You are such a GOD -send to me...Love You
TY TY
I hope no one treats me like that😂😂😂
* I will have to revisit to this to write down some of the real life practical examples that you suggested
*Definitely, perspectives must be changed to focus on looking at those subconscious beliefs by reflecting on own behaviors & speech
*If you can manifest something negative, you can do the opposite & manifest something positive
*You can take back your power
*You are in control of you
*If you looks for negative things, your mind will show you the evidence.
*If you look for positive things, your mind will show you the evidence
**There is infinite amount of resources in the universe, so there is more than enough for me**
*celebrate others accomplishments, it shows that you too can obtain something similar or better or whatever you desire
* I'm the creator of my own experiences
*There is nothing wrong with you: the false limiting beliefs need to changed
5 step Process of attracting what you want
1. Become of aware of your patterns (the belief behind this pattern) & take responsibility for this (this step I have & have been discussing this step for at least 6 months with others)
I.e. I believe I can't lose weight
2. Get clear on what you do want
I.e I believe I attract a partner that treat me in the way that I deserve to be loved (I was working on this step today, so I discovered though do much reading & writing, I solidify my beliefs by talking it out loud & being open to others suggestions without being obligated to change my position)
3. Day dream or visualize it:
*this step is very easy for
my Scorpio 🌞 & Aquarius 🌙.
*When I did EMDR, I had to create a safe place to go when during my trauma work
4. Install the new belief with positive self talk
5. Right now, you/I have the ability to create what you/I desire
1. Identify the beliefs
2. Replace the old, toxic, unhealthy belief
Im glad I came over i needed this listen to Adel and stared 😢😢 no more bs i want to stand up 4 myself and tell people what i want
I've decided that a relationship with another was never what I needed just desired but I didn't want it to last because I don't won't pick someone that it could work out with. I am the one who is emotionally unavailable . I'm closed off.
Thank you!
I am so greatful for this vdo my angel!!! Omg i cant thank enough darling..... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🎋❤
TY TY
Yes, let fix this
Love this
MJ, I love you. Thank you for everything you do to help us feel so understood. I wish we could be friends. Lol.
I appreciate you so much ❤️
"when people are in love energy, their meat suit follows"... LOVE THIS!!!
Thank you so much!!!🙏♥️
Thankyou x
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Thank you MJ! Your the best and we are all so blessed to have you share such a gift and insite. I am grateful.... stay blessed you beautiful soul ♥️
✨🙏medications of releasing
For the longest time my son to tell people my mom's crazy and for a while I let that go telling him you know what I'm not crazy you are for telling people that I am then it got to where I realized that wasn't right either and I finally started telling him you know what you believe that but I know I'm not so in that way I stepped into my own power of knowing that I'm fine just the way I am now he says negative things they just roll off my back because I know what I am what I am not he just doesn't know me well enough just things that he does
Awesome 🤗🥰
Heyy.. Heyy....Girl...Heyyy.....
Relationships are hard work, how does viewing relationships this way a negative and false limiting belief, what is a better/healthier way of looking/viewing relationships?
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this especially now after three years of trying to figure out why this was continually happening to me. I have a dating site profile page that pretty much says "if you're broken or in a third party situation please stay away!" I hardly ever get any responses obviously because I'm putting out negative energy!! Again thank you❤️
Why can’t I find that link to your tarot class???????????
Hahahhaha......what a topic!!!! 😃
#PowerfulFixers
#BeautifulEmpresses
Whats if I try to reenforce these new beliefs, yet reality still reenforces and brings it and keeps shoving it at me in my face... and you try so hard to keep the faith, but logically and physically its not happening.
Ive tried loa, even when years ago when authorities and religious community etc were conspiring to take my kids... to the point I had no choice but to give in to the religious community to keep my kids, and keep them safe... now Ive tried all the moving thing, they track me down, dont leave me alone, and as they have the authorities and heaped lies on me its not something I can do more of knowing my case bar a miracle... I try keeping upbeat, but secretly I cry because like over half my life has been consistently ruined despite every effort I made, but only consiquences, but kept working on myself spiritually to keep my sanity and rise above but recently a "twin flame" suddenly left me and said all my working on myself was not worth it, and nobody would ever want me and Ill never change 😧... (Maybe it was all my issues I was fighting and frigtened of and low self esteem etc that caused it too)... I know I tried my hardest to keep afloat by myself in life, and now I lost my closest friend/first guy I trusted, over all this "negativity" and even he started acting toxic to me. I know I give off (vulnerable) vibes among others and I cant put my finger on all the "smells I give off" even if I try acting confidant when Im consistently pushed down and hardy feel control of my life..., but I dont mean to. Ive tried for the millionth time again to pick myself up even at the cherry on the cake moments... yet I never see a true breakthrough... my life has been constantly hell almost from my earliest experiences... I guess Im proggrammed with so many negative beliefs where do I start!. It made me into a people pleaser which only recently I became more concious about how Im destroying myself through that and left metephorically sh*tted on the head by giving people every bit of the best of me only for them to do a cruel 180 on me, and me questioning, why if I only tried to be good, show kindness, understanding, seeing things from others perspective etc and not try to cause conflict or blame, why this is all not working out to make even one consistent ongoing trusting friendship, not to even mention respectable longlasting healthy non toxic partnerships. And yes I do blame myself, because since I was a kid I was pointed out and made ashamed of my flaws... wasted all my life working on myself, yet "yet all my working on myself wasnt worth it ..." 😢😩
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It is TRUTH. 😁❤🌷454😂😂😂