This is so true. Ex ex boyfriend used to do so much for me, even buying mbuzi and bringing it from 2 states away and eggs za kienyegji. Ultimately, he became so controlling and possessive. I couldn't handle it. In the end I left him and that's when he started telling me the truth of what he thought of me. He died suddenly at a young age and I didn't even mourn him.
Very true you cannot change a man. I went through it as a result of been devalued by the family of my x husband. Woman let's us respect ourselves. I made up my mind to associate myself with people! Who value me.
That's why it's good to study men like seriously and again love and prioritize yourself as a lady first, and having your own standards and boundaries and high self esteem from the time you are single and again once a woman studies men for the longest time, she's quick to read man's manipulation and komesha it on the spot but majority of men can't stand ladies who knows their tricks koz such ladies can't be manipulated at all... Studying men for the longest time can make one to never tolerate men's nonsense......Nikafa kuienda solo ubandikwe "selfish"....
This brings tears to my eyes, I have been a witness of this in my own family, and I have experienced it as well. Its a very painful thing,and if a woman doesn't leave in time,it can lead to death. Emotional abuse leads to physical abuse in the end.
Florence WOW that's deep.I felt ur talking about a narcissist,let's learn about them avoid them narcs.Kagoni great show,hv learn alot,bring Florence again.
Rĩrĩ nĩ rita rĩa mbere gũkenio nĩ mũtumia wa riika rĩrĩ akĩarĩrĩria ũhoro wa Kĩhiko. Mũtumia Mũũgĩ mũno. This Maitũ should be on shows like citizen,unlike B mswafari who is just full of nonsense. All aunties who pressure us into marriage should listen to this Maitũ. And i call her Maitũ because Maitũ in Gĩkũyũ is Mother. 🤗
Bi msafari give advice as per her generation where women mostly worked at home.dont call it nonscence because that setup worked for many.women nowadays have been liberated educated same as men which is good or best but not taught about marriage
@@janaleokesho8374And for me It is nonsense because it is not timely. I always do chose my words very carefully,no need to correct me,i know exactly what i mean when i express myself. I have listened to her and it is pure nonsense or atleast for me. However i have resonated with this woman. So kindly i know exactly what i meant,perhaps its you who may not understand why i expressed myself in that way. Ngatho. Rĩmwe nĩ wega wona mũndũ ndanoiga ũrĩa ũrenda ũgakira,ũkandĩka wee kĩrĩa ũngĩenda kuuga,tondũ aingĩ aitũ nĩ tokoragwo tũkĩmenya kĩrĩa tũroiga.No need for debate.
Hello everyone here. Thank you so much for your responses and feedback on the two videos in Metha Ya Kagoni. In this video I'm addressing a particular personality disorder that is more prevalent in men. I know there are many men who are terrorized by their women. Kindly do not feel that that's an attack on all men because it isn't. I have no reason to bash anyone. I’m just presenting the facts as they are as per the question. There is something called "The Battle of the sexes." People keep fighting in that battle as men and as women. Let’s not engage in that way. I will be expounding on all that and more in my You tube channel, POTENT TERRA, Maisha Scoop soon. We will get there by God’s mercies. When we get there, kindly subscribe, like and share the videos. Thank you again and be blessed.
I don't belief it's only a woman is suppose to walk out, even a man can walk out You cannot invest with someone for years and then you just wake up one morning and leave everything My point here is a woman should also be courageous enough to say enough is enough
This is very true... because ilifika place my ex hubby saved me desperate wife kwa phone yake...and I didn't find it a big deal that time,he really devalued me.
Florence, I just wish to point out that gaslighting is not a male issue , exclusively. Women can also be toxic gaslighters, demeaning their men at every opportunity, both in private in public.
Hi Maina M. Thanks for your feedback. It is apt. This was a short video and I'm afraid it did not capture the whole story. Of course women too can be terrible narcs. Follow me in my TH-cam channel (coming soon). Thanks a lot
It depends,some other women who are loved so much by their husbands are very nougty.They mistreat their husbands.They don't even give tea to their husbands as they prepare to work.They are very toxic to their husbands.Tell them to behave.
I have been going through this ,physically abused actually yesterday I was told that I don't think and I was given a sleep over then I stayed, I have two children with him but finally a have said enough is enough tomorrow am living n am leaving children behind coz am jobless but with time when I get settled a will come back for them
I am going through the same,he calls me all kinds of names hadi ananiambia side chick is more good than me,I have no parents nor anyone to tell,I have two boys and I am leaving with my kids,please my siz don't leave you kids behind plz I beg you,even me I don't know where am leaving to but I better die with my kids beside me than to leave my kids with him
Si wote wanaingianga kwa roho moja, kuna wengine wanaingianga kwa sababu zingine na muemewe ameingia kwa roho moja wake wengine ata hawana heshima wanaharibu nyumba zao, mume ananjaribu kusimamisha nyumba zao lakini mke mmm mmm si wake wote apana
To me it's vice versa. Women enter the marriage with one leg, that the reason they always say ""ndikenjerwo mbuì gùkù" they devalue men that the reason you always see most of families men looks like zombies and women and children very different. Most of families men are the first casualties and are the ones who die first because of alot of humiliation from their wife to a extent of poisoning his children.
I refuse to be devalued to further extent.After 24yrs of abusive marriage n perserverance;siku nilitoka hata sio kufukuzwa;nilienda kuingia nikagongwa na chuma Kwa kichwa kukiwa na Giza!Nilisikia maji yakiteremkia Kwa uso.Kuenda Kwa mwangaza nikapata ni damu inatiririka na ilikuwa Saa nne usiku.Ilibidi boda ikanipatia lift hadi hospitali nikaoshwa na kushonwa 4 stitches.Inlaws sided with him.I had to call it quits now am going strong n supporting our 4 children
This stupid abusing men just need some who can show them that their abuse is not tolerated. I was not that woman discussed here. I entered marriage undecided unsure snd no commitment. Liked the guy so I had not much attachment. He should me that I was the best thing that happened to him. Looking back I have no regrets; He was not fake and has remained the kind, respectful and God loving Christian I met 24 yrs ago.
A certain lady started showing a daughter she came in with to please the man when differences about the girl started Even demeaning her to other children mpaka in sighting them against her .it reached a point one became physical to the girl. All these to align herself with wish to please a man.women you sacrifice your life and outside wedlock child to please a sadist? Shame!
Totally disagree and yes I am a guy. The more attention you give many women, the more they view it as weakness. The explosion of the redpill movement is testament to that fact.
Hata wanawake huboeka sana na wanaume wao,ni kunyamaza wengi huwà wananyamaza.
Na tunangangana tu,they should not think they are special ..we are all humans.
Ooh hata mimi
Shuuuu Aki ongea pole pole🙉
Madam Florence is soo much blessed with wisdom🥰plz be bringing her more
The fundamentals and principles of marriage have lost meaning because they are now based on temporary ideals. The guest was on point. Asante.
Monica hapa umeweza .
Very mature counsellor and composed
This is so true. Ex ex boyfriend used to do so much for me, even buying mbuzi and bringing it from 2 states away and eggs za kienyegji. Ultimately, he became so controlling and possessive. I couldn't handle it. In the end I left him and that's when he started telling me the truth of what he thought of me. He died suddenly at a young age and I didn't even mourn him.
people in a party at
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Monica thanks so much for advising women to deliver themselves from bondage of selfish beings
Who else have noticed Monica Ako smart.....
Waa
This is my story
True. She's looking very nice in that colour combination.
Wow I know Florence she is so knowledgeable. Thanks Kagoni for the show.
Thank you mum Nyambura nimesoma kitu
Very true you cannot change a man. I went through it as a result of been devalued by the family of my x husband. Woman let's us respect ourselves. I made up my mind to associate myself with people! Who value me.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 na joto ya mwili
That's why it's good to study men like seriously and again love and prioritize yourself as a lady first, and having your own standards and boundaries and high self esteem from the time you are single and again once a woman studies men for the longest time, she's quick to read man's manipulation and komesha it on the spot but majority of men can't stand ladies who knows their tricks koz such ladies can't be manipulated at all... Studying men for the longest time can make one to never tolerate men's nonsense......Nikafa kuienda solo ubandikwe "selfish"....
Khai this is very true,,strong women can't tolerate emotional manipulation;hence they are labelled difficult,selfish etc...
@@alicemaina3964 Difficult it is but it's better to be labeled all sorts of names but to never compromise to majority of men's nonsense....
Mrs Kirubi is a great woman of God.I served with her and she carries with her wisdom.
This woman is telling of my story .
i saw myself in this story also
It's the high time you move out..
Never ever change to make any man happy. You ll b disappointed wen you realize you HV no value in his miserable heart
sure
I have never heard abuse described in such a clear and precise manner.Uri matu aigue
This brings tears to my eyes, I have been a witness of this in my own family, and I have experienced it as well. Its a very painful thing,and if a woman doesn't leave in time,it can lead to death. Emotional abuse leads to physical abuse in the end.
straight to the point.wonderful ladies
Women get bored too. They just don't show it
Such words full of wisdom, umenisaindia sana, my value matters
Florence WOW that's deep.I felt ur talking about a narcissist,let's learn about them avoid them narcs.Kagoni great show,hv learn alot,bring Florence again.
So relatable..aki women..May God see us through
Amazing teachings Kagoni n Madam.We appreciate
Florence has talked exactly what many ladies go thru in the name of marriage...
Waiting from Ngong to listen to my village and school mate
This is very true
🖑🖑 Ngai ature amurathîmîte na amugitîrîte nî mûheyaga thaayû
Rĩrĩ nĩ rita rĩa mbere gũkenio nĩ mũtumia wa riika rĩrĩ akĩarĩrĩria ũhoro wa Kĩhiko. Mũtumia Mũũgĩ mũno. This Maitũ should be on shows like citizen,unlike B mswafari who is just full of nonsense. All aunties who pressure us into marriage should listen to this Maitũ. And i call her Maitũ because Maitũ in Gĩkũyũ is Mother. 🤗
Tuko my friend. We are not in the business of sugar coating info. Tell the truth because the truth sets you free
Very wise words 🤗
Bi msafari give advice as per her generation where women mostly worked at home.dont call it nonscence because that setup worked for many.women nowadays have been liberated educated same as men which is good or best but not taught about marriage
@@janaleokesho8374And for me It is nonsense because it is not timely. I always do chose my words very carefully,no need to correct me,i know exactly what i mean when i express myself. I have listened to her and it is pure nonsense or atleast for me. However i have resonated with this woman. So kindly i know exactly what i meant,perhaps its you who may not understand why i expressed myself in that way. Ngatho. Rĩmwe nĩ wega wona mũndũ ndanoiga ũrĩa ũrenda ũgakira,ũkandĩka wee kĩrĩa ũngĩenda kuuga,tondũ aingĩ aitũ nĩ tokoragwo tũkĩmenya kĩrĩa tũroiga.No need for debate.
Carol's facial reactions are priceless!!
I always enjoy watching her expressions too. She reminds me of some of my mom's friends how they would behave when telling spicy stories 😆 🤣
She amazing when it comes to facial expressions 😍
Hello everyone here. Thank you so much for your responses and feedback on the two videos in Metha Ya Kagoni. In this video I'm addressing a particular personality disorder that is more prevalent in men. I know there are many men who are terrorized by their women. Kindly do not feel that that's an attack on all men because it isn't. I have no reason to bash anyone. I’m just presenting the facts as they are as per the question. There is something called "The Battle of the sexes." People keep fighting in that battle as men and as women. Let’s not engage in that way. I will be expounding on all that and more in my You tube channel, POTENT TERRA, Maisha Scoop soon. We will get there by God’s mercies. When we get there, kindly subscribe, like and share the videos. Thank you again and be blessed.
You are talking the truth about devaluation..
Could you please alert me when your channel is up? I want to follow you
Thank you so much.
OMG..may our Good Lord Graciously help all ladies to read the red flags so that you don't get to the point of being devalued 🙏🙏
I'm loving this Mum
Thank you TJ
Emotional abuse is the worst form of abuse
Yes and verbal!
More volume please 📢
Ongeza volume
Aki this is true..they're so manipulative...very clever
Telling the truth well represented
I thank God now I see that so clearly.
I don't belief it's only a woman is suppose to walk out, even a man can walk out
You cannot invest with someone for years and then you just wake up one morning and leave everything
My point here is a woman should also be courageous enough to say enough is enough
Wow thank you xana mami
That's very true.May God help our mothers.
This is very true... because ilifika place my ex hubby saved me desperate wife kwa phone yake...and I didn't find it a big deal that time,he really devalued me.
Wow very sad. What an animal
Thank you so much
Florence, I just wish to point out that gaslighting is not a male issue , exclusively. Women can also be toxic gaslighters, demeaning their men at every opportunity, both in private in public.
Hi Maina M. Thanks for your feedback. It is apt. This was a short video and I'm afraid it did not capture the whole story. Of course women too can be terrible narcs. Follow me in my TH-cam channel (coming soon). Thanks a lot
Oooo God tusaidie ss was mama
SHE HAS SPOKEN THE TRUTH NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.
This great topic
This lady is talking point after point
Self Love all the way
Weee Leo nmesoma kitu🤭
It depends,some other women who are loved so much by their husbands are very nougty.They mistreat their husbands.They don't even give tea to their husbands as they prepare to work.They are very toxic to their husbands.Tell them to behave.
Tea is not a big deal I can chemsha maji and make tea also too many hotels available.mimi chai I drink at work.
Mimi niliingia na miguu yote mbili,nasija boeka.
I have been going through this ,physically abused actually yesterday I was told that I don't think and I was given a sleep over then I stayed, I have two children with him but finally a have said enough is enough tomorrow am living n am leaving children behind coz am jobless but with time when I get settled a will come back for them
Please take ur kids with u, don't leave them behind, take them wherever u go
Take your kids with you ,that man cannot take care of those kids
May God give u strength to move out and may everything work out well. Ngai arogutongiria🙏
@ lucy.... plizzz....dont leave da babies......where u fall...let da babies fall before u........trust God .....He is faithful......
I am going through the same,he calls me all kinds of names hadi ananiambia side chick is more good than me,I have no parents nor anyone to tell,I have two boys and I am leaving with my kids,please my siz don't leave you kids behind plz I beg you,even me I don't know where am leaving to but I better die with my kids beside me than to leave my kids with him
"'"' security in numbers '"'
I believe pple ignore the fact n reality even psts don't tell the truth marriage is for two not one
Self love...
Congrats Monica nice Host ☺️
Mum 😍
It is true
Monica l love your Pulli. It's nice
DUBAI WAITING
Si wote wanaingianga kwa roho moja, kuna wengine wanaingianga kwa sababu zingine na muemewe ameingia kwa roho moja wake wengine ata hawana heshima wanaharibu nyumba zao, mume ananjaribu kusimamisha nyumba zao lakini mke mmm mmm si wake wote apana
To me it's vice versa. Women enter the marriage with one leg, that the reason they always say ""ndikenjerwo mbuì gùkù" they devalue men that the reason you always see most of families men looks like zombies and women and children very different. Most of families men are the first casualties and are the ones who die first because of alot of humiliation from their wife to a extent of poisoning his children.
Frank Kigen,I think nakujua from campo
I refuse to be devalued to further extent.After 24yrs of abusive marriage n perserverance;siku nilitoka hata sio kufukuzwa;nilienda kuingia nikagongwa na chuma Kwa kichwa kukiwa na Giza!Nilisikia maji yakiteremkia Kwa uso.Kuenda Kwa mwangaza nikapata ni damu inatiririka na ilikuwa Saa nne usiku.Ilibidi boda ikanipatia lift hadi hospitali nikaoshwa na kushonwa 4 stitches.Inlaws sided with him.I had to call it quits now am going strong n supporting our 4 children
Weeee.
Soo serious
usiache watoto tafadhali
The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy.
Maitu tera generation ino tondu ina mbugi matù
why generalize all men..
Sounds more of a feminist than a marriage coach.
This stupid abusing men just need some who can show them that their abuse is not tolerated.
I was not that woman discussed here. I entered marriage undecided unsure snd no commitment. Liked the guy so I had not much attachment. He should me that I was the best thing that happened to him. Looking back I have no regrets; He was not fake and has remained the kind, respectful and God loving Christian I met 24 yrs ago.
Waiting from Ruiru.
Waiting
A certain lady started showing a daughter she came in with to please the man when differences about the girl started Even demeaning her to other children mpaka in sighting them against her .it reached a point one became physical to the girl. All these to align herself with wish to please a man.women you sacrifice your life and outside wedlock child to please a sadist? Shame!
In short Athuri niakiguuu 😁😁😁😁😁
Woii Pauline wiitu🙈
Where I am aki,😢😢😢😢😢
Totally disagree and yes I am a guy. The more attention you give many women, the more they view it as weakness. The explosion of the redpill movement is testament to that fact.
We get bored easily
she is taking about narccist