THIS is why I said yrs. ago, that PRAYING for Wendy Williams was a waste of time
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- Several years ago, when it seemed Wendy Williams was loosing her health, marriage, and family, there were tons of people saying they were praying for her. I made a broadcast sharing why praying for her wasn't going to work. Today, I share more on that.
Wendy Williams' guardian filed a lawsuit against Lifetime's parent company. A woman named Sabrina Morrissey -- who says she's acting in her capacity as temporary guardian of W.W.H. (presumably Wendy Williams Hunter) -- just filed suit against A&E Television Networks, but she did it under seal. She has also asked for a restraining order!
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I am always enlightened by your words. I prayed for my husband for. 25 years to quit drinking...he had no desire to quit...sadly he died at age of 57 from alcoholism. Thank you for your insight...it helps me with my grief and feelings of guilt
I'm so sorry this happened. I am so glad this helped, because that is my purpose in making it. God continues to help you as you process it all.
Your prayers is not greater than someone's will. Now THAT is a word! You don't know what that message just did for me. Thank you!❤️❤️🙏🏾
With all due respect, we are all worthy of prayer and receiving positive, loving energy from spiritual beings. Perhaps Wendy didn’t make wise life choices. Perhaps she gained fame & worldly riches thru her brand of entertainment, which was basically thru others’ ruin or pain… but prayer is a loving positive intention that we convey towards others because Our heart has empathy or compassion. Ultimately it is God’s will that will bring about outcome.
This podcast was about free will & prayer. Your comment seems to be about something else.
I keep telling people that God is not as busy as we make him out to be. He's not out there rushing around answering prayers from billions of people everyday. He set physical and spiritual laws in motion and put us in charge of our lives.
Thank you. People act like they don't understand the meaning of free will and choice. I've been searching youtube for a genuine perspective and here it is...thank you
Prayer is NEVER a waste of time period.
you obviously didn't listen to this, never was it said that prayer was a waste of time, don't be silly. If you don't have the patience to listen so you can understand, do not comment, you're so controlled by your emotions you are commenting off a title
This was on time for me as well! I am going through a situation with my daughter, she stayed home until she was 26yrs, met a guy; then 4mos later they were married and she moved 3000 miles away. After 4 years of marriage, a big "disagreement" happened and now she is refusing to speak to certain members of her family (mainly her parents). BUT, her husband reaches out. After listening to you, I realized I have been praying incorrectly --- I have to accept if reconciliation is not her will, then it's not going to happen 😢. It's been one year since we have spoken. Thank you for your words of wisdom and for breaking down basic common sense.
HMMM, rather weird the husband reaches out. Don't allow him to triangle you. Have you tried writing your feelings to her in a letter and posting it..
I’m loving these episodes back to back ❤
The alcohol abuse has changed Wendy's brain chemistry. It has changed her personality and she doesn't even realize it. As someone who has experienced my own personal struggle with substance use abuse in the past, I can almost guarantee that Wendy does NOT want to be drinking the way she does. At the time of the documentary it had just become a habbit, she was not "enjoying"it. She was just drinking to get drunk and drown out her pain (emotional and physical). She was self-medicating and probably suicidal. The alcohol tricks her mind into thinking that no one can see her dysfunction or personality change, but everyone can see it except her. I pray for her to realize she is powerless over alcohol at this pont. Once she accepts that, then it is her choice to seek help or remain beholden to it. For some people, it takes a major life changing event for them to realize the need help. I just pray that she doesn't hurt herself or someone else before she comes to that realization. Get better Wendy ❤💐🙏🏽.
Free will is a double-edged sword, but it's necessary for our spiritual evolution.
Yes it is.
Wow! That’s profound !
22:30 we had an uncle too that used to say he'll never get old and he'd pass away around 50 looking handsome and dressed real good. That uncle indeed passed away while healthy and doing good financially and always dressing as great as he used to dress, without no valid reasons. But one thing all family members remembered about him at his funeral, was how he always used to say he'd die just like that. People barely even cried, it's as if he was preparing people for his departure during all those years before. He repeated it so much, that no one was really shocked when it happened.
Wendy Williams--I was never fond of her type of reporting.
I totally agree about people being in control of their lives, I’m so sick of folks not fully understanding that. Our actions good or bad bring consequences. At the beginning and end of the day we cannot escape our accountability. We have FREE WILL to do whatever we choose to do. PERIOD.
You shed a totally different light on this. I do believe prayer is powerful, but wow sending prayers to someone who has no will to change. My goodness, this is so true.
God is in CONTROL. He gives us free will!
Praying for someone to get the strength and Will to fight us never a waste!!!
Do they ever "get the strength" to do whatever it is you're praying about? You didn't listen to this, so it's best, due to the nature of the subject, to not comment. If you don't have the patience to listen to it in full, you shouldn't be commenting.
Prayer change things
no, prayer used the RIGHT way changes things.
I feel the same way about Portia Williams , the real housewife of Atlanta. Everybody's praying for her but what she is enduring is sowing and reaping. If we are to pray for this woman it is for her to have common sense and a pricked conscience.
I gotta be honest, when i saw the topic i was like "what the", so i clicked and actively listened, it immediately hit me, like a light bulb had come on, we have been praying for many years for my mother to stop drinking and stop the drugs, but i now understand we can want this all we want, but if she doesnt want to shes not, she has to wanna change, God doesnt force us to do anything, he gives us a choice, i also saw myself when you mentioned about Wendy knowing about Kelvin's cheating in the beginning yet she chose to stay with him, she knew who he was then, but chose to marry this man, sometimes we im including myself, break our own hearts, its so easy to blams someone else, when we should as grown adults take accountability for our own cboices in life, everything isnt always about what somebody did to us, but what we allow, and what we do to ourselves. Thank you for this, i apologize im a little long winded 😂❤💯
I have tried to tell my family these things about my brother and I's estranged relationship. They have made comments about us both being Christians and didn't understand how in the world we do not have a relationship. I have explained to them that he does not want a relationship with me because he treats me like I am a stranger, and I am not feeling that. I do not pray for our relationship because he does not want one with me and shows me just how much he doesn't. So, I understand about a person's "will".
This conversation is so refreshing. I've been waiting on someone to bring the issue of free will into this conversation. She has dementia because of her drinking. It is not vengeful to acknowledge this. It's sad but true.
Your commentary is very profound and touched my heart. I am a non religious proponent of prayer because I understand that it works. What you gave me was insight on free will and a roadmap on how and where to direct my prayers. Thank You 🙏🙏🙏 Your prayers are not greater than someone will .
You understood the point of this. That's exactly it, our prayers are not greater than a person's will.
We all have free will! Use it wisely!
I agree with your point on the will of a man/woman but the word also speaks of intercession which means I can pray to God on behalf of an individual that their desires i.e. will is changed. God will hear and answer that prayer if the request is within His will...
From your comment I can tell you do not know what real intercession is, so there is no point in this exchange. DO NOT try to change the narrative here, stick with the topic of the podcast, or else you're going to get yourself confused. Intercession will not change an INDIVIDUAL's will, that is called witchcraft, when you try to change a person's will. By the way, the point of no podcast is to agree with me - its best to simply share your thoughts on the issue or topic at hand
The problem is that when people pray they ask, "God grant me my wishes" instead of "Thy will be done." No one knows God's will for themselves or anybody else. Many things I prayed for, I didn't get, and today I'm grateful that I never got what I wanted. We don't know God's will for Wendy Williams either. It's like God saying, here's your choice, it's up to you to pick it.
I disagree. We can intercede for people that are struggling in sin
sigh....so you don't understand what it means to intercede nor do you understand what sin is. There is SIN then there are bad habits - like drinking. They are NOT the same. Since I can see you don't have that basic understanding, it would be a waste of time to try to explain intercession and what that really is. God bless you. But it would do you good to study how intercession is to be used, and it IS NOT to be used to change a person's will - that is called Witchcraft....sigh.....
This is great insight and wisdom! Thank you, MVMO!
Most people are praying that Wendy Williams will choose a better fate for her life than remaining an alcoholic/substance abuser!!!!
I love how you started this video because I said Uh Oh as soon as I read the title 😂
You analysis of prayer verses free will is going to be so freeing for some people. I know I’ve struggled with that throughout my life. That for me was the greatest takeaway from your commentary today. Thank you 🙏🏾!
Thank you for speaking on Free Will.
Thank you for sharing this perspective. I appreciate this topic. It allowed me to reflect on a few things in my personal life.
This was very enlightening. Thank you for all that you do with your podcast.
Good Teaching Great Insight Thank You
I love how you spoke about agreement. Agreeing with and praying with someone who is willing , as well as able to change. Prayer can be effective when we come into alignment with an individual who has already set their will to change ,and that agreement with them will make the prayer effective. That is so profound. Thank you for sharing what "agreement "means. This changes my perspective!
This was so right on time for me. I am working on accepting my daughter moving out and living with her BF. I didn't think it was a good decision, of course, but her will is stronger than my wants for her. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! i love when you say "Stay with me, stay with me". 😊
100% - but addictions are hard to overcome - and no you can't pray it away for another person
I needed to hear this. Thank you!
I definitely needed to hear this today ❤. Thank you for sharing. That life past 55 story really hit home.
Thank you so much for this deconstruction on prayer. I appreciated this teaching sis.
Prayers will NOT be answered if they are NOT prayed the way JESUS said they have to....JESUS says to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. ,, one may have different faiths in many FALSE religions but unless a MAN be BORN AGAIN he will NEVER enter Heaven! JESUS CHRIST is the ONLY Mediator to FATHER GOD who is in control...
okay, this is NOT about Jesus. Its best you listen in full before commenting, now instead of blocking you , I'm going to assume you are not that spiritually mature, you couldn't win a fly, it's very obvious from your comment.
I was always taught that God helps those who help themselves. We are responsible for our own healing.
Or, after 15 yrs, we say God finally answered our prayer. As if God decided that 15yrs was better than 1yr to answer our prayer.
Lol, right!
I love your long messages-Enjoying the longer podcast!!!!
I would like to thank you for your descriptive analogies, as well as thorough commentary on the topic of prayer and what it is and what it is not. I am grateful that I found your channel. I am always willing to learn and grow!
In many ways I have observed is that "prayer" can be used to absolve a person from changing their life or being a willing participant in their own growth and transformation. Thank you again for sharing these words of wisdom.
I've listened to this a few times now and have to say that you hit it right on the head ! Bless you . ❤
I don’t any personal experience with dementia, so I decided to watch the documentary, I learned some stuff but the biggest take away of Wendy is that she is in a Norma Desmond type of situation. All her friends are people on her payroll so I believe she is doomed. I wish her son all the strength in the world.
right, I made a podcast last year comparing her situation to Norma Desmond
The words you spoke today was meant for me!
Thank You So Much For Opening My Eyes In A Different Way.
I Didn't Watch Wendy Williams Documentary
I would like to hear your thoughts on Tiffany Henyard. The Mayor of Dalton, Illinois
This makes perfect sense to me.
Explained in a very elegant way ❤
Ive definitely learned alot from listening
This is very true about prayer. I just learned this principle in my 50’s. Wish I could have learned this as a younger woman.🥺 As for Wendy, I’m a nurse and have taken care of people with Alcohol dementia. It comes from years of alcohol abuse. I just wonder if this is what she actually has, but her family doesn’t want to divulge.
You are correct about Wendy Williams--she had used her 'Free Will'.
I have never seen your posts, but I truly enjoyed this truth that you spat out! I knew and understood what you said, but I was caught up in, what I had been taught. It sounds crazy to me to even say that, but your teachings can overcloud your common sense. I have prayed for a family member from a baby and I helped raise him. I taught him that there is a God and some scripture. I was under the impression that he had a mental problem and was told by a doctor a few days ago, that he doesn't. Initially, I couldn't fathom that he doesn't, that it's just behavioral. That psychiatrist was telling me that he wants to be disgustingly nasty to the point of being homeless!😮. When I say, as soon as I smell a little mustiness, I HAVE to WASH!!! Not him. I just couldn't fathom it! However, I thought about it and began to realize that the doctor is correct. I decided to have a talk with him and HE confirmed it!😮. So, now I'm about to put him out again for good, because now I realize that he still never intended to do the right thing, even though he came to me.
If they don't want to change, let them go!
I think it's called a reverse mortgage.
Thank you, I now have a better understanding of prayer.
this was so powerful it was so pertaining to my life my situation right now that I am experiencing and everything she said is factual and Truth I also know that God does not answer a sinner's prayer unless it is in his will the way she explained God's will and the individuals will is the truth and nothing but the truth just today I was put in this situation 🙏😭 it's too long to get into but everything she said she had my situation on the head I love that she's thorough she explains she takes her time when she's done you can only see the picture how could you not
When it comes 2 disagreeing, I think people r on the defensive instead of processing the info 1st. It's okay 2 disagree, but it helps 2 listen & take n what is being said. It may not sound favorable, but that is life. Listening & processing allows us 2 make sound judgments, even if it's not 2 our liking.
Well the thing is most don't disagree they make statements, which is not the same. Disagreement is an opinion, but ppl who change the facts, get off on something that has nothing to do with it, etc, those aren't disagreements. I actually prefer real disagreement vs agreement, but often we just make statements not give our own opinion on the topic.
'No one's prayer is stronger than your own will power'. That is a powerful statement.
I struggle to understand the concept of free will when it involves trauma inflicted on the innocent that for many, forever alters their mindset?????
It's simple. As I already shared it's the job of those around the innocent to protect them. If adults don't protect children, that's the adults fault. It's starts and stops there. It's nothing to be confused about unless a person is making it more complicated than it is. Don't do that okay, just understand just as you have a free will so do others. You can both exercise it in any way you choose. It may help to listen to this podcast a few times. I've kept it simple enough, on purpose, for anyone to understand whether they believe in God or not. Free will is something we all do understand. We may not like what ppl choose to do with theirs but we do all understand the basic concept.
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I love how you analyze and look at a situation for what it is. I do feel bad for Wendy, but I believe she has lost alot, and lost her will to go on. Even with the graves disease,she continued to drink. It's not Karma, its just what it is. She can still have quality of life, but its sad how all this has turned out.
The urge will always be there to continue to drink. that’s how alcoholism works. It’s an illness and an addiction.
Actually that is not true. I have worked with many addicts and most who get free through hard work, say they get to a point where they no longer have the desire - that's how the stay free, now if someone is still fighting the desire for the substance vs being free , then yes, for them, they will have the desire always.
I see I'm late on this podcast but dang you put your foot in this one you broke it down I love it I wish you could go longer on your podcast sometimes but I guess that's me being selfish because your content be so good I just want you to keep talking but as usual amazing job breaking things down as you do so well
I love this thank you
This content was very informative.
You can still pray for a person …I think that would be blessings for you …that at least shows you care …..I agree a person has their own will and they will do what they want to do (choices in life) we don’t know what people really go through…childhood experiences that mold us into adulthood and how we “deal” with life onwards but we all choose to do good or bad …I’d say you should never give up your own life for someone that is giving up theirs but still have the compassion Jesus had for us when we sinned ….he did say as he was dying on the cross ….father forgive them, for they not know what they do …Luke 24:34 🙏🏽
Its very important to listen IN CONTEXT. It was never said, NOR implied that it isn't good to pray for a person. Where did this come from? In this podcast it is being discussed the USE of prayer when it comes to a person's free will and MANY examples given. Stick with the topic, don't try to read into what is being said and walk away with something that was never stated is always my advice
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Hi i like your commentary. In my opinion though I believe the people do have a will but it is also a stronghold and sometimes that can be hard to break. Does prayer work I believe it can cause it has for those I prayer for before with strongholds.I am not debating this is just my thoughts or what i have also read according to what I have read. All in Love!!
Lol, I'm not sure why you feel it necessary to say it's all in love. If you have a different opinion based on facts then by all means state it. debates are welcomed here. So using your logic : Cain killed Able because he had a stronghold? If strongholds play a part in things the way you're saying it, why didn't God himself mention these things when dealing with human beings and their decision making? Have you been around lots of teachings about devil's, demons, and the like? I'm just asking, all in love of course, 😁
Sooo deeeep
I remember telling my mom a couple years ago that her prayer was the equivalent to black magic.
She told me she'd pray that something life altering (even if it's bad) would happen to give someone a wake up call, w/e it takes!! Literally praying something negative over someone in hopes for a positive result from it.
Im glad God doesnt respond to those prayers, & i hope he doesnt reflect those prayers on the person who prayed them 🙈
I remember praising & worshiping at home, & the person living w/ me was being annoying & rude in the other room. I immediately had an angry outburst, & then felt so guilty. I looked to God like why'd you let me do that?!?! I always thought the closer i got to Jesus, the less id want to be fleshly. The less id sin & do bad things. I honestly still dont have the answer to that, b/c if Jesus cant change me, what can? How did Peter gain control over his impulsiveness? 🤷🏽♀️ idk
Thanks for this ! I often struggle praying for others who are making bad choices. I don't want to pray my will or agenda. Would you mind giving an example of how you would pray for Wendy or anyone acting on their own will and going against Gods!
Don't. Focus on yourself and learn from their mistakes.
Oh maam i am gonna need a minute i hear you but i need time to grasp your words ❤
be sure you listen in context, don't be so emotional you comment off a title, get control of yourself, and go from there, we all have to do that if a subject is triggering
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When someone has a JOB and taking care of you, YOU are not their best interest…they are working for MONEY, a pay check, only… NOT YOUR WELLBEING ‼️
Excellent podcast ! We all have free will . I've known this my whole life. You can hope and pray for someone but if they personally choose to keep doing whatever they want to do , good or bad , it won't help them .
I've never seen it more than with Trump and dictators . They have fully chosen to hurt people.
No matter how it hurts my heart , prayer won't change that. Ive chosen to prayer for those affected by the evil and hurt . ❤
Her style is gonna be missed. It’s good to mix it up and not have such niceties on daytime TV. It’s good to grovel and get gossipy and dirty sometimes. Now all these talk shows are all the same.
Why doesn't this god intervene when somebody is being affected by someone else's use of their free will? Bogus
Because they both have free will. Otherwise we would all be robots.