That family helped him get his claws deeper into her, by attacking her for it...just for drama in their lives...I was disgusted and devastated for the lass...
Exactly.. family need to stop calling these young girls fast, because if that is the case there is an underline issue. Need to stop trying to silence the victim and protecting the abuser
I cried right with her because I felt like she was extremely embarrassed and they just put her down instead of comforting her. She seems extremely hurt.
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The aunt and cousin demonstrated why she NEVER said anything. The typical blame it on the CHILD and let the man walk off with ZERO repercussion. The aunt showed it when she said she SAW the inappropriate behaviors and DIDNT SAY ANYTHING!!!
Exactly 💯 it partially the POS Aunt's fault that poor young lady probably went through the sexual abuse to begin with !! IF she would have done the RIGHT thing & wouldn't have ignored what was going on that young lady could have been SAVED from having to go thru the sexual abuse in the first place !! Then she turns around & blames the victim !!🤬 I CAN'T stand people like her !! God bless that young lady !!
@drew2fast489 nah the women In blue said she came in and they was under the covers and they took off doors so they knew if u even think its happened u should act on it they did nothing even when they see how the man has had her since childhood they didn't change up and ask for forgiveness they knew
@@karnmarriott2349 That's true, they did see that. But no one saw them have 5ex. All that stuff you mentioned is definitely a red flag but it's no smoking gun. They need her testimony.
@@drew2fast489 I think it's the fact that the cousins and aunt tried to fight her. Many things happen to kids and they don't tell because they are too scared or told not too. They did not give her a safe place to say something
He groomed her so well she has lied to herself and convinced herself that her predator was a hero and great father figure so much so that she went back to him as an adult.. now that’s what’s DIABOLICAL(!)
Unfortunately, this is something that I see occur in different households but unfortunately, I see this happen a little bit more often in black homes. 😢
Yeah, but it seems in her mind she isn't harmed. And she protects him by lying. Ofc as a 13 year old she was harmed. But she might not see it that way. He probably gave her the love she thought she wanted but not what she needed. And he really abused her. Probably irreversible mental damage. You can see she protects him. She knows what he did is wrong, at least socially. Hence why she's lying. But she's okay with what he did and still does with her.
The victim stated that he was the only grandfather figure she ever had. She was craving some father figure and his ab--use was what she got...and she ran with it because he made her feel special. Her family failed her big time. They hated her instead of helping, this left her with the only person who was 'nice' to her, which was him. Sometimes the victims will defend the ab --user because they believe his lies of love and care. He groomed her well and he's laughing at the family who helped him do so.
@@GeorgiaPeach-kv8ie and they also should bring the girl back to because she lied and took up for him about everything else so she might know about her grandmother death and could have had something to do with it as well. I'm just saying.
Thank you because that's exactly what majority of my family called me when my uncle was molesting me. Yet I had never been fast and no1 believed me until 20 yrs later when he call my mom 2 get my number to Apologize
The family keeps attacking her but she was groomed and abused by this man. They're seeing her as the other woman, when she was a victimized child. She shouldn't be sleeping with him into adulthood, but she was groomed since childhood.
Exactly they don’t want to accept the reality which is that he groomed her from the moment we was able to he had 24/7 access to that little girl and the thing is she’s lying to herself to cope with what happened to her and everyone is taking advantage of that
I feel that this is something that happens in a lot of household, especially black household, just from what I’ve seen. I remember a situation that happened to me when I was 17. At the time, I was taking courses online at home while I was coping with mental health issues. So I didn’t really have the opportunity to be outside or go to places to meet folks. A gentleman somehow got my number. I still don’t know how but he got my number somehow and he lied about his age. I thought this was a random number but somebody that was close and age to me talking to me and we had a conversation but once I discovered his actual age, he was in his late 20s early 30s, I tried to break it off. However, he somehow obtained information regarding where I stayed at and threaten to come to my house if I didn’t send him pictures. When my parents ended up finding out about it instead of confronting me and confronting that guy and seeing what they can do legally to get him, they yelled at me and treating me like an adult and punished me severely (when I say severely, I’m not mean they physically harmed me. They just grounded me for months without any kind of communications cell phone or anything). Nothing was done with The Guy and to this date I have issues going to my family about certain things, especially stuff regarding with this. Unfortunately, we tend to either treat children like adult or in this case, unfortunately, treat them like the other woman where ultimately this individual prayed and groomed a young girl to the point where she can’t translate what happened as abuse. I pray that the family rethink their actions and try to get her help and I do hope that she’s able to get help to heal from all of this. She’s going to need it.
Poor woman. She would probably be honest if her family wasn’t so ignorant and judgmental towards her. A 13 year old is a child and cannot consent. The emotions tied to sexually abused are very nuanced. Everyone reacts differently. Some want validation from their abuser, some hate their abuser and others block it out etc. Pray she gets help
The family is mad at her????!!! She was a CHILD!!! they should have figured out if that grown man was hurting their child family member instead of thinking she was being sneaky or the "other woman." How can they blame her???
It really happened to her by a man who sexually violated her at 13 and she still slept with him as an adult she's going through a lot with all this hate she's been given I hope she gets some help to break free from this
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETTDo you, not understand what grooming is? If he's giving her a ton of attention & doing things for her & he pushes himself on her, it becomes EXTREMELY hard for a child to even understand they're being so violated. This is Stockholm syndrome to the max. She likely only ever wanted love but also didn't know how to stop it once the boundary was crossed already. Bc your private parts may be made to "feel good" & you love the person, is exactly why she is a perfect victim & CLEARLY why he didn't show.
It's truly disturbing that this family would blame a child for the actions of a grown man. They witnessed signs of grooming and failed to intervene, allowing a dangerous situation to escalate. Instead of supporting the victim, they focused on misplaced jealousy, ignoring the serious harm being inflicted.
She has some crazy Stockholm syndrome, it’s obvious she was sexually abused by this man and turned it into a relationship in her mind and it carried all the way into her adult years . Like Steve said if she talks to someone who understands grape and what it truly is she will realize what she did was not CONSENSUAL
It wasnt a relationship like THAT. This was an authoritative figure. So it is confusing as a child and through adulthood when you are told to “listen and respect” your abuser. I was abused by my sister’s father from 4 to 12, we moved with our grandparents, leaving him to fend for himself. I am 28 and have stopped talking and feeling bad of his loneliness for almost 5 years now. It is breaking away from the “respect and listen” phase of childhood. She’s “lying” because it is embarrassing and has yet to be in an environment to be able to finally break away. She needs help
This girl was abused as a child. He groomed her and used her. She is a victim. So much so that she is in denial and praised him. How did all these adults suspect this and blame the child. She is a broken woman who probably has little self worth and a perverted idea of sex now. She still needs to heal. Steve needs to stop commenting from his uneducated perspective. The fact that he tried to cast blame for her continuing to trust her abuser is insanity! And to call her a liar is just disgusting! This entire show is repulsive. They need to allocate some funding to actually helping these people and not just sending them off with his two cents and chair throwing!
I absolutely agree. I wish he didn’t say anything at all. Trusting your abuser is more common than you would think especially if the trust gets far like this as a child or pre teen in her case. May she get the help she needs.
They knew she was getting sexually assaulted as a child and instead of helping her, they was gossiping and being angry with HER and the grandma is no better because she knew it was happening
She’s mentally messed up and what he did to her is wrong and disgusting and violating. He is a coward for not coming on the show. Break the chains of this toxic cycle sweetie you got to get help and get away from this preying creepox!!
14:09 I feel that since she’s kept it to herself for so long and how her family treated her that she’s in denial. The way she started tearing up might’ve shown deep down she knows the painful truth
Her brain is probably blocking these memories in an attempt to keep her sain. When you're abused constantly, you learn how to disassociate from reality and essentially black out during the abuse. It happened to me. I had to go to therapy for my trauma. I hope that she gets the help that she needs and that her grandfather should be in prison. He's a predator. I know there are more victims.
100% agree. I have Dissociative identity disorder because of SA. It’s something that affects us everyday of our life and yet they barely get 5 years jail time.
not probably she most definitely has to be, there’s some sort of truama response reaction, your brain does when going through something traumatic or have gone through something traumatic, noticed the same thing when I was younger as I started to get older
She's literally a victim of this man and into adulthood as well. She was groomed and it continued. What are they not understanding and how the family members knew... but kept her in the SAME ENVIRONMENT with a predator. This is not uncommon with victims of sexual abuse. No one helped them get out of that cycle and I hope she gets help
If the victim has no escape, they HAVE to lie to themselves in order not to go mad or do something bad to themselves, it's a survival tactic and she got blamed for the only thing she could do, believing his lies. He's done a perfect job on her. Scary how the 'family' doesn't get it. Anger and violence are actually feelings of hurt or fear. I think the aggressive cousin is also 'involved' with the 'grandpa'. The adults in this family are the only ones to blame, all of them.
She was groomed. She has psychological effects of it from it as an adult. The family was too happy about blaming her as a child & being right. The adult should have said something instead of blaming the child. I don't believe there was any intention to help her at a young age. They are more worried about stealing grandma's man. Not about her safety. I hope she get help. You can see it in her eyes. She has buried her emotions. She feels shame & guilt. He should be the one feeling & suffering. I wonder if he ready did something to the grandmother.
Girl I understand completely. I was abused and groomed by my biological father at 13 till I was 16..I was made to believe it was normal. Please get the help you need. That grown man took advantage of you and still is to this day.
i wonder how to go about getting help for my trauma i went through for years of my childhood but i don’t want to risk someone getting put in foster care or jail so i don’t know what to do.. it’s terrible and ruining me
Back then a lot of 13 year old girls was groomed back in the 80s and 90s a lot of stuff like that happened in New York and they were sleeping with grown men not knowing they were groomed
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETT What are you on about? Grooming and ab--use is as old as mankind. It is also happening right now. This isn't an 80s or 90s problem. It's a global problem, always has been.
12:36... Of course she lied. She's ashamed and embarrassed because of what a predator did to her. It doesn't matter how old she is now.. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A VICTIM... and a survivor. Everyone who refused to protect her should be in prison... including grandpa who groomed her. As for the other 2 she demons on the show... karma. That's all.
As soon as he said, "they needed to mind their business", I was like, innocent people don't say that. My heart goes out to her, she was victimized and still is. 💔
Common sense was not in the room this episode. She was a kid and groomed. Y’all can’t be that spiteful to her. She has trauma and now yall still against her even knowing she’s a victim is crazy
Kayla was fast but Steve's security was faster. This guy probably was the kid who liked to play defensive tackle on the playground. He Bum rushed that attack on Raicharr with the quickness. 🤣🤣😂😂
13:17 I can say as a survivor myself you develop not a normal kind of love, but a sort of dependency on the persons presence. It’s called survivors guilt / victim attachment.
He straight up groomed her & as a victim, she remained a victim. Stockholm. She doesn't know how to admit it bc I imagine she did love him once upon a time or still believes she does but can't see the HUGE boundaries where she's been violated & pressured for it to continue. He's been taking advantage of her & she's not just in denial, it's like she thought this would make it go away. Victims deal with things differently. My heart goes out to her. Never blame someone who was a naive child. The man is a pedophile. This whole story is just heartbreaking. She absolutely needs help. The family has been & will continue to victim blame, instead of ever having cared to get her the help she needed YEARS AGO, so even though she's an adult now, it just further proves she was groomed & didn't know how to handle the situation. I don't blame her for not feeling like she could speak up. She surely loved him & instead of them going after after the persuasive pedo, she just kept getting blamed. This is a case of Stockholm like I've never quite seen before.
SMH the community that watches Steve is so small minded it’s giving children and people without common sense. But all in all I feel for her, if you’ve never been groomed you’ll never understand. At the end of the day the family shouldn’t have gloated that she was sexually abused.. can we talk about THAT PART the black community is horrible for this someone gets SA and it’s brushed over or they think it’s deserved in some way 👀
Duh, no one said it doesn’t happen to other races it’s not a race thing I’m just bringing up the fact that the “brushing under the rug” thing happens a lot in the black community and they imply certain things on the victim. Read.
You don’t have to endure something that’s hurtful. It’s okay to walk away from anything that is damaging to your well-being. There are many male role models out there to confide in, but this man was not a role model. This man was a monster, and you should not hesitate to press charges.
13:05 It's called a 'trauma bond'. A trauma bond is an unhealthy emotional attachment that forms between an abuse victim and their abuser. It's a psychological response that can develop in abusive relationships, where the victim may feel a sense of connection or love with the abuser, even though the relationship is harmful. _One_ form of a trauma bond is called Stockholm Syndrome.
Storytime: I know a man who was sexually abused by a priest (bc of course). This sexual abuse started at 5 years old and didn't end until the victim was 19. Because the victim turned to him and said "if you EVER touch me ever again, I will end you". Fast forward over ten years later and more than ten men came out saying that they were all sexually abused by the same man and that man even had current victims. It can take twenty years for a victim to even realise they are one. I could go on forever.
They're all so angry with her like her being a little girl of 13 and this was happening to her is her fault and she's just this nasty person. Even if she slept with him after she was an adult there is psychological damage there. She has gotten so used to it and maybe she's just so ashamed of it she's had to normalize it in her mind and I'm sure he's also giving her money and gifts and things like that. None of this is her fault. None of it! Instead of hating her they should have been hugging her and crying for her. Instead she's just been a w**** in their mind since she was a little girl. Says a lot about their character.. I hope she gets support love and some help and I hope he goes to prison!
1000% that's what I'm saying! He warped her mind. It's easy to confuse a child. She likely only ever wanted love, but everyone just let him abuse her & blamed her. HUH?! MAYBE if you got her help & put him AWAY this abuse would've been done with when she was too young to understand!
They need to be directed at the grandpa the cousin got sat down running towards her like that 😂😂😂 I hope she gets help why the grandpa wasn't there 🤦🏾♂️
I didn’t even want to go to the comments until after. I’m glad I did still. This story is actually the most craziest story I heard from this show and I’ve been watching this for a longtime I felt it for her when she started crying at the end and try to laugh it off. Something did happen to her for real. And still sleeping with the man to as an adult. Clearly she’s been hypnotized and confused.
She wasnt surprised at all when the results came out that she lied and she even smiled. She knew she was lying during the test yet keeps lying to protect that “man”. I hope she heals ❤
Steve I’m an Amazon delivery driver and I delivered to one of your facilities in Stamford on bank street. I’m a big fan and listen to your shows while I work. ❤
She was groomed, plain and simple. And it sickened me the way her family attacked her instead of wanting to bring charges against her abuser.
That family helped him get his claws deeper into her, by attacking her for it...just for drama in their lives...I was disgusted and devastated for the lass...
I'm telling you where TF do these people come from. As a male abuse victim, if my own future children are hurt, I'm going on the warpath.
Yes
Exactly.. family need to stop calling these young girls fast, because if that is the case there is an underline issue. Need to stop trying to silence the victim and protecting the abuser
@@RyanTheDarkExactly!!!!!
Her tears at the end are very telling
@@happycatlady2012 that’s my niece and she didn’t have sex with him as a kid or adult that shit fraud af
I cried right with her because I felt like she was extremely embarrassed and they just put her down instead of comforting her. She seems extremely hurt.
Yep and when she said “they tried to help me” after first results, I knew.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that.
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The aunt and cousin demonstrated why she NEVER said anything. The typical blame it on the CHILD and let the man walk off with ZERO repercussion. The aunt showed it when she said she SAW the inappropriate behaviors and DIDNT SAY ANYTHING!!!
THIS!! And this is the case in most of these scenarios!
Exactly 💯 it partially the POS Aunt's fault that poor young lady probably went through the sexual abuse to begin with !! IF she would have done the RIGHT thing & wouldn't have ignored what was going on that young lady could have been SAVED from having to go thru the sexual abuse in the first place !! Then she turns around & blames the victim !!🤬 I CAN'T stand people like her !! God bless that young lady !!
All this energy need to be directed to grandpa!!! This poor woman is dealing with stockholm syndrome.
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I said the same exact thing !
Yea talk about a piss poor family her family cares more about money from the Grandfather then the fact he was molesting her.
Na, she likes it. She's just gross
@_pandart6435 Em no not how it works doesn't matter if she likes it she was groomed to like it she's a victim who never got the help she needed.
Am I the only one that listens to Steve while I cook or clean?
You're not the only one 😂
Nope. I do the same thing
Alll the time while i'm washing dishes too 😅
Nope you’re not
I’m at work listening lol
The title of this video should be renamed to: “Girl groomed by her grandfather- let down by entire family when they turn blind eye to sexual abuse.”
@@jaytee8426 Yes!
they watched it happen@@thoneycutt77
Yea her family is piss poor they don't care that she was molested and abused only that she's being given hush money.
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Zero sympathy for this moron bc she agreed to sex with grand pa even till this age at 23.
Amen
Craaaaaazy every one saw it but no one helped the CHILD!!!
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No one ever saw it take place and she denied it. It's a lot harder to help someone when they're in denial of needing help.
@drew2fast489 nah the women In blue said she came in and they was under the covers and they took off doors so they knew if u even think its happened u should act on it they did nothing even when they see how the man has had her since childhood they didn't change up and ask for forgiveness they knew
@@karnmarriott2349 That's true, they did see that. But no one saw them have 5ex. All that stuff you mentioned is definitely a red flag but it's no smoking gun. They need her testimony.
@@drew2fast489 I think it's the fact that the cousins and aunt tried to fight her. Many things happen to kids and they don't tell because they are too scared or told not too. They did not give her a safe place to say something
She needs therapy.. he really messed her up… poor baby
@@veronikabaham1111 the family messed her up
He groomed her so well she has lied to herself and convinced herself that her predator was a hero and great father figure so much so that she went back to him as an adult.. now that’s what’s DIABOLICAL(!)
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You say went back to, I believe it's been going on for years. 13 to be exact. 😢
Shes lip tucking so bad at the end. She knows the truth in her heart...
Arrest his now
@@cimonerivera5013can't. Statutes of limitations. The only way a case could be built around this is if they had a child together.
Odd that they found out that their niece and cousin was molested when she was 13 but are blaming her instead of the step-grandfather.....
Unfortunately, this is something that I see occur in different households but unfortunately, I see this happen a little bit more often in black homes. 😢
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Why is the cousin so angry, she wants to fight about it? Does she want Michael?
Exactly!!!
Or already sleeping with him😳@@bigdaddyfellowsh
The older white woman frantically combing the black young lady's wig while she shouts and screams is comical 😂🤣😂
I know her ears 👂🏻 were ringing
I screamed at this comment
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Why weren’t they help the other one with her wig? 😂
Lmaoooo 😂
Sometimes, the hardest thing is to let go of someone who harms you, but that’s the first step toward healing.
True, she didn't wants to admit it but her crying knows she was going through a tough mental situation
Exactly. She couldn't say it, but she definitely showed it. Steve's words got to her for sure.
Yeah, but it seems in her mind she isn't harmed. And she protects him by lying. Ofc as a 13 year old she was harmed. But she might not see it that way. He probably gave her the love she thought she wanted but not what she needed. And he really abused her. Probably irreversible mental damage. You can see she protects him. She knows what he did is wrong, at least socially. Hence why she's lying. But she's okay with what he did and still does with her.
The victim stated that he was the only grandfather figure she ever had. She was craving some father figure and his ab--use was what she got...and she ran with it because he made her feel special. Her family failed her big time. They hated her instead of helping, this left her with the only person who was 'nice' to her, which was him. Sometimes the victims will defend the ab --user because they believe his lies of love and care. He groomed her well and he's laughing at the family who helped him do so.
Whenever I heard him say he couldn’t make it I knew he did it! Now get him back to see did he really kill her grandma
That part!!!
No wonder he didn't show up, was my thought after hearing the results. Also. Why would he tell the family, - "mind their business" told me a lot.🤨🧐
@@GeorgiaPeach-kv8ie and they also should bring the girl back to because she lied and took up for him about everything else so she might know about her grandmother death and could have had something to do with it as well. I'm just saying.
Yes I felt that way as well. @@Nita_100
His words of everyone minding their own business told alot.
The way people blame girls saying they’re “fast” when they get touched is insane.
Thank you because that's exactly what majority of my family called me when my uncle was molesting me. Yet I had never been fast and no1 believed me until 20 yrs later when he call my mom 2 get my number to Apologize
Exactly know that feeling oh so well
That old man groomed this 13 year old child. Steve was exactly right. Even now as an adult she is protecting his azz. He needs to be in jail.
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Steve’s looking at them fighting being like this isn’t Springer.
That's funny I thought the same thing!! 😂😂
they miss Jerry Springer
Ha! I just said this. lol 😂
Lol my literal thoughts i was sjust about to type this😂😂😂!!!!
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The family keeps attacking her but she was groomed and abused by this man. They're seeing her as the other woman, when she was a victimized child. She shouldn't be sleeping with him into adulthood, but she was groomed since childhood.
Exactly they don’t want to accept the reality which is that he groomed her from the moment we was able to he had 24/7 access to that little girl and the thing is she’s lying to herself to cope with what happened to her and everyone is taking advantage of that
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I feel that this is something that happens in a lot of household, especially black household, just from what I’ve seen. I remember a situation that happened to me when I was 17. At the time, I was taking courses online at home while I was coping with mental health issues. So I didn’t really have the opportunity to be outside or go to places to meet folks. A gentleman somehow got my number. I still don’t know how but he got my number somehow and he lied about his age. I thought this was a random number but somebody that was close and age to me talking to me and we had a conversation but once I discovered his actual age, he was in his late 20s early 30s, I tried to break it off. However, he somehow obtained information regarding where I stayed at and threaten to come to my house if I didn’t send him pictures. When my parents ended up finding out about it instead of confronting me and confronting that guy and seeing what they can do legally to get him, they yelled at me and treating me like an adult and punished me severely (when I say severely, I’m not mean they physically harmed me. They just grounded me for months without any kind of communications cell phone or anything). Nothing was done with The Guy and to this date I have issues going to my family about certain things, especially stuff regarding with this. Unfortunately, we tend to either treat children like adult or in this case, unfortunately, treat them like the other woman where ultimately this individual prayed and groomed a young girl to the point where she can’t translate what happened as abuse. I pray that the family rethink their actions and try to get her help and I do hope that she’s able to get help to heal from all of this. She’s going to need it.
Poor woman. She would probably be honest if her family wasn’t so ignorant and judgmental towards her. A 13 year old is a child and cannot consent. The emotions tied to sexually abused are very nuanced. Everyone reacts differently. Some want validation from their abuser, some hate their abuser and others block it out etc. Pray she gets help
Ppl in my family hear about situations like this & they victim blame too. I've had so many debates with them about it. 😠
The family is mad at her????!!! She was a CHILD!!! they should have figured out if that grown man was hurting their child family member instead of thinking she was being sneaky or the "other woman." How can they blame her???
Why are they treating her like a mistress….
That's how the black community views black women
That girl ran up on her and got dropped 😭 . Also Steve’s face during 😭 .
Seriously... the Bears should look at hiring some of Steve's security for their offensive line. God knows we need the help.
Fussing and fixing wigs😂😂😂
It really happened to her by a man who sexually violated her at 13 and she still slept with him as an adult she's going through a lot with all this hate she's been given I hope she gets some help to break free from this
The cousin ran right up to a punch😂😂
Got beat down after talking all of that ish LMBO
@@ceceisth3qu33n 99 LIKES for this comment and the cousin got 1 to the face!!!
@@lillieanna8142 yep
🏃🏾♀️ Run and got done up😂😂😂 🤼🏿♀️..Steve's team was on it with the brush 🪮💨
That’s why Michael wasn’t there , he’s SICK ‼️
See how he left her holding the bag. So if she really believes he cares about her, she should watch this video a few times. 🤬
@@Itsbrashaeee right
Yeah
Michael is a coward 🤬🤬🤬
The way her family is treating her is definitely the reason she’s denying it ever happened💔. She knows they would never believe her anyway🥺.
It’s never too late to break free from toxic relationships. Your future is still in your hands. Press charges and move forth.
@@SheejaSlade she wanted it
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETT At 13 years old? You’re actually sick for even saying that weird shit! She was a child that was groomed and raped by a predator.
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETT🎋 ys
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETTDo you, not understand what grooming is?
If he's giving her a ton of attention & doing things for her & he pushes himself on her, it becomes EXTREMELY hard for a child to even understand they're being so violated. This is Stockholm syndrome to the max. She likely only ever wanted love but also didn't know how to stop it once the boundary was crossed already. Bc your private parts may be made to "feel good" & you love the person, is exactly why she is a perfect victim & CLEARLY why he didn't show.
The look on Steve’s face when Kayla ran out is priceless 😂😂
Lmfao he always stands back and looks like, "Ahh yeah, here we go"..
My heart broke when I saw her start silently crying. Poor girl. I hope she gets some help and her family starts supporting her.
Truthfully, the young lady may be better without this dumb bunch of people in her life.
They caused too much heartache for her.
It's truly disturbing that this family would blame a child for the actions of a grown man. They witnessed signs of grooming and failed to intervene, allowing a dangerous situation to escalate. Instead of supporting the victim, they focused on misplaced jealousy, ignoring the serious harm being inflicted.
She has some crazy Stockholm syndrome, it’s obvious she was sexually abused by this man and turned it into a relationship in her mind and it carried all the way into her adult years . Like Steve said if she talks to someone who understands grape and what it truly is she will realize what she did was not CONSENSUAL
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It wasnt a relationship like THAT. This was an authoritative figure. So it is confusing as a child and through adulthood when you are told to “listen and respect” your abuser. I was abused by my sister’s father from 4 to 12, we moved with our grandparents, leaving him to fend for himself. I am 28 and have stopped talking and feeling bad of his loneliness for almost 5 years now. It is breaking away from the “respect and listen” phase of childhood.
She’s “lying” because it is embarrassing and has yet to be in an environment to be able to finally break away. She needs help
This girl was abused as a child. He groomed her and used her. She is a victim. So much so that she is in denial and praised him. How did all these adults suspect this and blame the child. She is a broken woman who probably has little self worth and a perverted idea of sex now. She still needs to heal. Steve needs to stop commenting from his uneducated perspective. The fact that he tried to cast blame for her continuing to trust her abuser is insanity! And to call her a liar is just disgusting! This entire show is repulsive. They need to allocate some funding to actually helping these people and not just sending them off with his two cents and chair throwing!
@@JoyLynda-og7qi I 100% agree. He clearly doesn’t understand how grooming works & I do not like how he tried to blame her
I absolutely agree. I wish he didn’t say anything at all. Trusting your abuser is more common than you would think especially if the trust gets far like this as a child or pre teen in her case. May she get the help she needs.
They knew she was getting sexually assaulted as a child and instead of helping her, they was gossiping and being angry with HER and the grandma is no better because she knew it was happening
They ALL FAILED THIS LITTLE 13 YEAR CHILD WHEN SHE NEEDED HELP CARE LOVE AND PROTECTION THE MOST
The fact that their blaming her & NOT pathetic pop pop when she was THIRTEEN is fckn insane!!! It’s giving Stockholm syndrome on her behalf.
There are comments doing the same thing. Saying she is not a victim. Pisses me off !!
She’s mentally messed up and what he did to her is wrong and disgusting and violating. He is a coward for not coming on the show. Break the chains of this toxic cycle sweetie you got to get help and get away from this preying creepox!!
Steve was in shock like he never was Security on Jerry Springer! 😂 😂😂
14:09 I feel that since she’s kept it to herself for so long and how her family treated her that she’s in denial. The way she started tearing up might’ve shown deep down she knows the painful truth
Her brain is probably blocking these memories in an attempt to keep her sain. When you're abused constantly, you learn how to disassociate from reality and essentially black out during the abuse. It happened to me. I had to go to therapy for my trauma. I hope that she gets the help that she needs and that her grandfather should be in prison. He's a predator. I know there are more victims.
100% agree. I have Dissociative identity disorder because of SA. It’s something that affects us everyday of our life and yet they barely get 5 years jail time.
not probably she most definitely has to be, there’s some sort of truama response reaction, your brain does when going through something traumatic or have gone through something traumatic, noticed the same thing when I was younger as I started to get older
She's literally a victim of this man and into adulthood as well. She was groomed and it continued. What are they not understanding and how the family members knew... but kept her in the SAME ENVIRONMENT with a predator. This is not uncommon with victims of sexual abuse. No one helped them get out of that cycle and I hope she gets help
This!!!! So well said.
If the victim has no escape, they HAVE to lie to themselves in order not to go mad or do something bad to themselves, it's a survival tactic and she got blamed for the only thing she could do, believing his lies. He's done a perfect job on her. Scary how the 'family' doesn't get it. Anger and violence are actually feelings of hurt or fear. I think the aggressive cousin is also 'involved' with the 'grandpa'. The adults in this family are the only ones to blame, all of them.
Steve was traumatized when the wigs came off 🤣🤣🤣🤣 his face took me out , the fight was a bonus
3:49 That Security Guard Dropped The Hell Outta Her
He has to play football
What is it with the protudi ng b r easts?
Steve wilkos got warped back to 1997 from watching that lol
@@Videogamelover58 Lol
@@Ann-sj4pt Right!!!
She was groomed. She has psychological effects of it from it as an adult. The family was too happy about blaming her as a child & being right. The adult should have said something instead of blaming the child. I don't believe there was any intention to help her at a young age. They are more worried about stealing grandma's man. Not about her safety. I hope she get help. You can see it in her eyes. She has buried her emotions. She feels shame & guilt. He should be the one feeling & suffering. I wonder if he ready did something to the grandmother.
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Nothing is stronger than truth tears!!
The poor girl was groomed and brainwashed... I'm paused at 11:32 , right after the results.. I hope this is brought up.
👹The family calling her a fast lil girl should be ashamed of themselves😢
Girl I understand completely. I was abused and groomed by my biological father at 13 till I was 16..I was made to believe it was normal. Please get the help you need. That grown man took advantage of you and still is to this day.
They keep saying that she "Slept with him". He groomed, and SAed a child I'm so sorry she was let down by so many people.
If you talk to someone about what has happened to you as a child, you might soon find vindication. I hope it all works out for you.
i wonder how to go about getting help for my trauma i went through for years of my childhood but i don’t want to risk someone getting put in foster care or jail so i don’t know what to do.. it’s terrible and ruining me
This has to be one of the weirdest episodes 😳
Was not expecting any of that
Neither was I .
Grandpa know he was wrong for having a sexual relationship with her at a young age 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Back then a lot of 13 year old girls was groomed back in the 80s and 90s a lot of stuff like that happened in New York and they were sleeping with grown men not knowing they were groomed
He r@ped her
@@LAMAGIC-DA-BRACKETT What are you on about? Grooming and ab--use is as old as mankind. It is also happening right now. This isn't an 80s or 90s problem. It's a global problem, always has been.
When she started tearing up at the end, my eyes started tearing up too 😢😢 She felt everything Steve started saying 😭😭😭
12:36... Of course she lied. She's ashamed and embarrassed because of what a predator did to her. It doesn't matter how old she is now.. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A VICTIM... and a survivor. Everyone who refused to protect her should be in prison... including grandpa who groomed her. As for the other 2 she demons on the show... karma. That's all.
As soon as he said, "they needed to mind their business", I was like, innocent people don't say that. My heart goes out to her, she was victimized and still is. 💔
Common sense was not in the room this episode. She was a kid and groomed. Y’all can’t be that spiteful to her. She has trauma and now yall still against her even knowing she’s a victim is crazy
She’s a victim why are they mad at her??? She was 13 and that fool was 40 years old 🤮
Her family weird ASF, they found out she’s a victim & she was groomed her whole life and immediately started bashing her… how uneducated….
Damn she beat her cousin up for the first time 😂😂😂 I know she was happy af like we are not kids anymore Craig!
Kayla was fast but Steve's security was faster. This guy probably was the kid who liked to play defensive tackle on the playground. He Bum rushed that attack on Raicharr with the quickness. 🤣🤣😂😂
They’re disgusting. They should’ve protected that baby.
13:17 I can say as a survivor myself you develop not a normal kind of love, but a sort of dependency on the persons presence. It’s called survivors guilt / victim attachment.
So sad,what a horrid family this girl has
13:09 Now I wonder if she and grandpa killed grandma so they can be together…..
I hope she gets help!
I would never talk to them ever again. They just show how stupid they are, she was 13!!!!
Right!! Disgusting.
He straight up groomed her & as a victim, she remained a victim. Stockholm. She doesn't know how to admit it bc I imagine she did love him once upon a time or still believes she does but can't see the HUGE boundaries where she's been violated & pressured for it to continue. He's been taking advantage of her & she's not just in denial, it's like she thought this would make it go away. Victims deal with things differently. My heart goes out to her. Never blame someone who was a naive child. The man is a pedophile. This whole story is just heartbreaking. She absolutely needs help.
The family has been & will continue to victim blame, instead of ever having cared to get her the help she needed YEARS AGO, so even though she's an adult now, it just further proves she was groomed & didn't know how to handle the situation. I don't blame her for not feeling like she could speak up. She surely loved him & instead of them going after after the persuasive pedo, she just kept getting blamed.
This is a case of Stockholm like I've never quite seen before.
Umm what did i just watch?
@@Cor_Gaming a story of a girl that got groomed by a pervert. These two women are angry at the wrong person
A young lady trying to hide what went on, and the truth finally setting her free. I thought for sure Steve was going to hug her at the end.
@ this was just nasty to hear all together nd her actions show that she did do it
@@Cor_GamingThat she was groomed? & Clearly has an inverted view of sex ? Yea....that.
@ and did had sex with him again when older? Crazy
SMH the community that watches Steve is so small minded it’s giving children and people without common sense. But all in all I feel for her, if you’ve never been groomed you’ll never understand. At the end of the day the family shouldn’t have gloated that she was sexually abused.. can we talk about THAT PART the black community is horrible for this someone gets SA and it’s brushed over or they think it’s deserved in some way 👀
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How sad 😢 it happens in other races too, but there seems to be lots of black men on Steve with the population percentage is figured in
Duh, no one said it doesn’t happen to other races it’s not a race thing I’m just bringing up the fact that the “brushing under the rug” thing happens a lot in the black community and they imply certain things on the victim. Read.
WHOEVER WATCH THIS PLEASE DON'T SPILL IT 😂😂😂😂 CAUSE THIS A GOOD ONE
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You don’t have to endure something that’s hurtful. It’s okay to walk away from anything that is damaging to your well-being. There are many male role models out there to confide in, but this man was not a role model. This man was a monster, and you should not hesitate to press charges.
Exactly!!!
True love and care never involve crossing boundaries or causing harm. You deserve that kind of love.
Why the Hell are they hating on her? She was raped as a child, and she most likely didn't see at bad as a adult. She needs help.
I'll be honest I thought she was going to pass I can't be shocked by anything on this show!
It was so obvious she was lying lol. She didn’t answer any question straight up
13:05 It's called a 'trauma bond'. A trauma bond is an unhealthy emotional attachment that forms between an abuse victim and their abuser. It's a psychological response that can develop in abusive relationships, where the victim may feel a sense of connection or love with the abuser, even though the relationship is harmful. _One_ form of a trauma bond is called Stockholm Syndrome.
For her to cry at the end it’s obvious it was true
"They need to mind their business" - He did it!
Storytime: I know a man who was sexually abused by a priest (bc of course). This sexual abuse started at 5 years old and didn't end until the victim was 19. Because the victim turned to him and said "if you EVER touch me ever again, I will end you". Fast forward over ten years later and more than ten men came out saying that they were all sexually abused by the same man and that man even had current victims. It can take twenty years for a victim to even realise they are one. I could go on forever.
She won't press charges. He's giving her money and in return she sleeps with him.
3:55 steve looking like he just got warped back in time to 1997 lol
LMFAOOOOOOO you ain’t lying or nothing I’m crackin up 🤣🤣
The way her family acted I would of denied it as a child and as an adult too, they are part of the problem for sure
3:55 steves reaction lol
@@GHOSTIE-ui5fo 😭🤣
They're all so angry with her like her being a little girl of 13 and this was happening to her is her fault and she's just this nasty person. Even if she slept with him after she was an adult there is psychological damage there. She has gotten so used to it and maybe she's just so ashamed of it she's had to normalize it in her mind and I'm sure he's also giving her money and gifts and things like that. None of this is her fault. None of it! Instead of hating her they should have been hugging her and crying for her. Instead she's just been a w**** in their mind since she was a little girl. Says a lot about their character.. I hope she gets support love and some help and I hope he goes to prison!
1000% that's what I'm saying! He warped her mind. It's easy to confuse a child. She likely only ever wanted love, but everyone just let him abuse her & blamed her. HUH?! MAYBE if you got her help & put him AWAY this abuse would've been done with when she was too young to understand!
She just need to set herself free. And just tell the truth
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Omg..I wasnt expecting that!
Not He said “2 Rhinos“😂😂😂
These recent episodes have been reckless… I love the entertainment 🤣
Everybody blame the girl. He is a predator. The family should be ashamed
They need to be directed at the grandpa the cousin got sat down running towards her like that 😂😂😂 I hope she gets help why the grandpa wasn't there 🤦🏾♂️
4:52 cousins beating her up, mother abandoned her, grandmother treated her like a mistress instead of stopping the abuse. This baby needs help.
After 15:10 she zones out wuth the 100 mile stare of a shocked. Victim!😢
I didn’t even want to go to the comments until after. I’m glad I did still. This story is actually the most craziest story I heard from this show and I’ve been watching this for a longtime
I felt it for her when she started crying at the end and try to laugh it off. Something did happen to her for real.
And still sleeping with the man to as an adult. Clearly she’s been hypnotized and confused.
i only clicked because of the thumbnail 😂😂
Sameeeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ 😂😂 never known for steve to let the guest get down like that
Me too😂
Turns out she was in fact sleeping with grandpa 😅
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“Throw the chair Steve” 😂
Lmfaoooo Steve’s face at @4:07 is priceless
They celebrating that they were right when them being right means her family failed her over and over.
No wonder why Grandpa didn’t come to the show. He needs a test too.
She was holding back those tears at the end,that's super sad what happened to her and her family just acts like it's her fault 😢
The real crime is naming your daughter Raicharr
@@dannigro8794 names are weird and made up. Full stop. Lol
THROW THE CHAIR STEVE!!!!!!! Got me in a chokehold fr rn !!!!!!!!! Lmmfaooooooo
This thumbnail got me cackling over here😂
She wasnt surprised at all when the results came out that she lied and she even smiled. She knew she was lying during the test yet keeps lying to protect that “man”.
I hope she heals ❤
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