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Hi Parmita enjoyed ur video and the topic!! I had sent a note at the email provided here on 4/1/21; haven’t had a response back to the mail. Have again sent a mail based on this video too, today. Hope someone from your team will respond back
I used to think like that then I learnt to convey or confront using a neutral tone and even if the other person react further I say no more. Only entertain a dialog if responded with respect. :) This video has good example
Great advice Parmita. I have always been the type of person who has not been very confident and I started to notice that the body language I was exuding was causing people to walk all over me. People would sense that I wasn't anxious and softspoken and I would get picked on a lot or people would mistreat me because they knew I wasn't easy target. I had enough of it and learned that I needed to speak with more authority and to make eye contact and most importantly speak up immediately when someone talks down to me. You can still be kind and courteous but authoritative at the same time. If you don't you will always get walked on even if you are a nice person and don't deserve it. You have to command respect and stand tall and other people will notice and treat you a different way.
This is a very interesting topic that surely requires more space. You have spoken so well and encouraging. Could you please expand it in another video, like with more examples what exactly to say and behave in certain situations! Your boys are absolutely adorable and seem like very well brought up, bravo for the mom! 😀❤️
Hey not just resonated, it felt like it was just something I needed to breathe. As asked by you, I would like you to make the next video on baby steps to avoid social anxiety created by loud voiced intimidating people
It’s a vast topic... but definitely a good one... need more examples as in how to respond to it... something that we can share with even kids do make more such videos
Thank you so so much for this video. I think it was totally for me. I have this problem from childhood and I must say that I was appreciated that she keeps quite and she doesn't fight. After I got married , after many years I realized that I should stand for my rights and I shouldn't be a doormat that anybody can walk over me. That anger of past behaviors of others don't seem to go away. Kindly make a video as to how to let go of your past , I have tried but it's not working. Keep up the good work👍
Hey parmita i love your lipsticks especially the nude ones could you please do a video on that i have skin color like yours so i would really appreciate if you bring up a video on lipsticks
Hi mam in my opinion 1 more tip should be added : You must be confident that you haven't acted or said any thing weird or stupid for which you deserve this behaviour and you are not inferior than others in case of following etiquette. Actually I used to think that way when I had very low self esteem that I am not good at following social etiquette or being a gentalman.I mean stuffs like greeting a person by telling jai shri krishna or namaste. Mam If you think that this tip needed to be added than I would be happy if you add this in your next video .
Agree with your statement but example that was used… I am not sure …. Kamala doesn’t look to me graceful in that conversation, even more she looks like a woman with bad manners….
You are such an inspiration in every way! I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, no matter what the topic is. Thank you for being your amazing self and spreading so much light, hope & happiness to all of us! ❤
Hi, Gorgeous Lady, hope you r doing well, I saw your video about Gua Sha stone on Facebook, will you plz share link here.... I also want to watch... Thank you 🙂
Hi mam, u suggested skillshare, but I like ur video and I am really inspired by watching ur videos especially since this helps us to empower ourselves.Hope u share our own app in the upcoming days. The way u talk, makes us really feel good. Thank you
There are some people who just want you to respond and when u respond to their comment they become furious and try to put you down. There are people who never back up. They get amusement by letting people down. That's their only intention. What to do in such situation?
That's toxic behavior and there are only few things you can do such as - cut them off from your life as much as you can - if its getting too annoying , treat them exactly how they treat you so they'll realize what they're doing - they are craving for attention and want to get a response from you. So don't give them attention. Straight up ignore. It'll make them mad but its best for our mental health🔥 I've had the same problem for a while now but since lockdown started i was able to cut off many of them and rebuild the relationship by keeping some distance.
@@scarlyt1017 tq so much for understanding and taking time for writing such a long reply. I agree with everything you have said. The main problem is they are my family or relatives. So I try to ignore them as much as possible but still you know they do such kind of behavior. Living in an Indian society it makes more difficult.
I love all your videos, but this one is my favorite !! I will show it to my son. What a beautiful message. Thank you so much, and thank you to the talented actors 😜
Wow super thankyou so much to this video your children's so cute 😍😍 this video happy's me to be positive think ♥️♥️♥️🤗🤩💃🇮🇳🙋 thankyou so much dear sis 😍😍
1. Don't be afraid to the confrontation... Speak up.. Stand up for yourself.. 2. Use Body language.. Takes up space... Eye contact.. Hand gesture.. 3. Don't shout out of anger..Or Don't silent instead..Reply in a sarcastic manner.. Or say them in a good note... Extra tips:- When people insult you say rhem..I didn't hear you can u repeat it... Most jokes lost the funny elements after First time.. Must try.. And again if they insult you... Say are you okay... Are u sure.. it's also must try.. And Lastly.. Don't react.. If they say you something.. Start talking to other people by ignoring the person... Lastly it's most powerful.. Look them in their eye.. And be cold silent...
Hello parmita mam... how are you doing...really superbly nice...I am following your channel right from the beginning...and i really appreciate your efforts...you are so awesome 👍👍Just keep it up...with good wishes
I'm a teacher of English and I'm a petite person and look so younger than my age (25), whenever I enter a classroom with either teenagers or adults they start to look down on me.When I feel it , my energy goes down and stupid mistakes begin to happen.I have a quite cute personality which suits young learners .but I'm so worried about how my students treat me.😢.
Fantastic video !! I came across the same situation. Yesterday one person make me down but I didn’t keep quiet and replied angrily. Instead i handle her different way. I was wondering that did i handled her properly or not. But ur video clear me that i handled correctly . Thank you
Wow this is very helpful... i am related with your topic...been experienced bullied with verbal harassment... in this video i now learned thank you so much Ms. Parmita so helpful... more power and godbless..
You are such a lovely lively Positive Person. I love your content about women building up theit personalities and confidence and yes grooming. Keep smiling. All the best to you.
Mam i have a doubt.. One of my friend puts me down sso much.. Whenever i get struck at a problem in class during math or science she asks me what happened to you ...ur not able to solve even these and starts mocking... How can i respond
Other's assumptions about you doesn't create your reality. Yes they will behave based on their assumptions and treat you poorly. In that case they are showing further who they are. Easy to cut them out even more. 😅... when authority uses these techniques to talk down to you to feel themselves superior then I don't know if one should consider them even an authority.
I had this co-worker who constantly making fun of my ideas, always trying to one up me she's I think more than 10 yrs older than me and I usually let things pass, I just don't want to make a conversation long and make a big deal out of it. But I now started to get annoyed with what she's doing.
Your videos are good, but using Kampala Harris as an example? My goodness, this women is an egotistical user of people. She lacks visible poise and inserts inappropriate behavior (nervous cackle) to cover.
Video on how to become a image coach 😍😍😍😍😍😍 I used to think it was a conceited thing to always get dolled up but now I see it's much bigger than that, so I'd love to know how to motivate and empower females ti be more confident 😀
I'm kind of wondering- those people who are being disrespectful with their body language (and hey, they can always state, quite truthfully, that they "haven't _said_ anything"!) are out to get a reaction from us. Aren't we "taking the bait" when we react instead of ignoring them?
I've never thought about this... if it is physically attack or abuse... we know it is not ok... and we should not accept it... the same goes to verbal and mental stuffs...
Mostly i don't speak up because i think this may not be that bad to be offended and even if i do as i start to speak up i start judging myself " maybe u should not say it like that" 😓
Hi dear,i am very sad and not interrsted to do anything,i have deep tear trough and not interested in filleres and surgery, and that runs from the inner corner of the eyelid along the infraorbital rim to the outermost corner of each eye. Its very hard to face when look out mirror,if you can help me out,please do something for that dear
I really love this Video, Thank you. I would like to see a video of actually boosting our mindset on how to ask for Financial help from our loved or even people we know are capable of helping ones without feeling we are burdening them.
hi, parmita i would like to join your facial yoga programme iam in my late 30's and suddenly saw a difference while taking pictures my eyes and face looks dull and assymetry so which programme should i join i see different ones for eyes,lips but is there one package which targets each part of face? please let me know thankyou
Hi blushers, Hope you enjoyed this video. I want to hear one person that inspires and empowers you.
The first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: skl.sh/blushwithmeparmita04211
Barack Obama- he is so articulate!
AOC. Even though I don't always agree with her. That speech she gave when that senator called her a b*tch was incredible.
Need more vdio like this ..
Hi Parmita enjoyed ur video and the topic!! I had sent a note at the email provided here on 4/1/21; haven’t had a response back to the mail. Have again sent a mail based on this video too, today. Hope someone from your team will respond back
Shree narendra modi...out of any person in the world..he is the best.
Im worried about what will come out of my mouth when I respond. Lord!
Don’t think so much. 🤗
I used to think like that then I learnt to convey or confront using a neutral tone and even if the other person react further I say no more. Only entertain a dialog if responded with respect. :) This video has good example
Love that you're teaching your children these important lessons while you're teaching us too!
Thank you very much. We have to set good examples for them, right?
@@BlushwithmeParmita yeah exactly!! 👍
Yes I agree.Soo nice.
I would like more videos on boundaries how to set them gracefully
Great advice Parmita. I have always been the type of person who has not been very confident and I started to notice that the body language I was exuding was causing people to walk all over me. People would sense that I wasn't anxious and softspoken and I would get picked on a lot or people would mistreat me because they knew I wasn't easy target. I had enough of it and learned that I needed to speak with more authority and to make eye contact and most importantly speak up immediately when someone talks down to me. You can still be kind and courteous but authoritative at the same time. If you don't you will always get walked on even if you are a nice person and don't deserve it. You have to command respect and stand tall and other people will notice and treat you a different way.
This is a very interesting topic that surely requires more space. You have spoken so well and encouraging. Could you please expand it in another video, like with more examples what exactly to say and behave in certain situations!
Your boys are absolutely adorable and seem like very well brought up, bravo for the mom! 😀❤️
Thank you. I love the suggestion.
Hey not just resonated, it felt like it was just something I needed to breathe. As asked by you, I would like you to make the next video on baby steps to avoid social anxiety created by loud voiced intimidating people
It’s a vast topic... but definitely a good one... need more examples as in how to respond to it... something that we can share with even kids do make more such videos
Thank you so so much for this video. I think it was totally for me. I have this problem from childhood and I must say that I was appreciated that she keeps quite and she doesn't fight. After I got married , after many years I realized that I should stand for my rights and I shouldn't be a doormat that anybody can walk over me. That anger of past behaviors of others don't seem to go away. Kindly make a video as to how to let go of your past , I have tried but it's not working.
Keep up the good work👍
Hey parmita i love your lipsticks especially the nude ones could you please do a video on that i have skin color like yours so i would really appreciate if you bring up a video on lipsticks
Absolutely!
Hi mam in my opinion 1 more tip should be added :
You must be confident that you haven't acted or said any thing weird or stupid for which you deserve this behaviour and you are not inferior than others in case of following etiquette.
Actually I used to think that way when I had very low self esteem that I am not good at following social etiquette or being a gentalman.I mean stuffs like greeting a person by telling jai shri krishna or namaste.
Mam If you think that this tip needed to be added than I would be happy if you add this in your next video .
A lot of those people are cowards. When you start to pushing back they fall.apart.
i love you, you've made me feel special about myself
Agree with your statement but example that was used… I am not sure …. Kamala doesn’t look to me graceful in that conversation, even more she looks like a woman with bad manners….
Could you put captioning in this video for me? 🙏
The kids were PRECIOUS.
You are such an inspiration in every way! I thoroughly enjoy watching your videos, no matter what the topic is. Thank you for being your amazing self and spreading so much light, hope & happiness to all of us! ❤
Every one wants to know, amazing job lady👍👍
Thanks Parmita, that was really inspiring and gave me more confidence and courage!!
The best video ever! Really helped me. The content was spot on
Hi, Gorgeous Lady, hope you r doing well, I saw your video about Gua Sha stone on Facebook, will you plz share link here.... I also want to watch... Thank you 🙂
Iam watching your channel for the first time... Loved it☺️
Hi mam, u suggested skillshare, but I like ur video and I am really inspired by watching ur videos especially since this helps us to empower ourselves.Hope u share our own app in the upcoming days. The way u talk, makes us really feel good. Thank you
A new subscriber, I look forward to all your videos. Very inspirational, thanks.
There are some people who just want you to respond and when u respond to their comment they become furious and try to put you down. There are people who never back up. They get amusement by letting people down. That's their only intention. What to do in such situation?
That's toxic behavior and there are only few things you can do such as
- cut them off from your life as much as you can
- if its getting too annoying , treat them exactly how they treat you so they'll realize what they're doing
- they are craving for attention and want to get a response from you. So don't give them attention. Straight up ignore. It'll make them mad but its best for our mental health🔥
I've had the same problem for a while now but since lockdown started i was able to cut off many of them and rebuild the relationship by keeping some distance.
@@scarlyt1017 tq so much for understanding and taking time for writing such a long reply.
I agree with everything you have said. The main problem is they are my family or relatives. So I try to ignore them as much as possible but still you know they do such kind of behavior. Living in an Indian society it makes more difficult.
Plzz tell me how to deal with hypocrite people around me haters as well??
Ans me plz🥺
This video is absolutely awesome. All that you said is so true.
I love all your videos, but this one is my favorite !! I will show it to my son. What a beautiful message. Thank you so much, and thank you to the talented actors 😜
hi pramita ലവ് you so much am from kerala,
Njanoru malayali😊
You upload this at the perfect time
Wow super thankyou so much to this video your children's so cute 😍😍 this video happy's me to be positive think ♥️♥️♥️🤗🤩💃🇮🇳🙋 thankyou so much dear sis 😍😍
1. Don't be afraid to the confrontation... Speak up.. Stand up for yourself..
2. Use Body language.. Takes up space... Eye contact.. Hand gesture..
3. Don't shout out of anger..Or Don't silent instead..Reply in a sarcastic manner.. Or say them in a good note...
Extra tips:- When people insult you say rhem..I didn't hear you can u repeat it... Most jokes lost the funny elements after First time.. Must try..
And again if they insult you... Say are you okay... Are u sure.. it's also must try..
And Lastly.. Don't react.. If they say you something.. Start talking to other people by ignoring the person...
Lastly it's most powerful.. Look them in their eye.. And be cold silent...
How we can enroll in your course?
Hello parmita mam... how are you doing...really superbly nice...I am following your channel right from the beginning...and i really appreciate your efforts...you are so awesome 👍👍Just keep it up...with good wishes
I'm a teacher of English and I'm a petite person and look so younger than my age (25), whenever I enter a classroom with either teenagers or adults they start to look down on me.When I feel it , my energy goes down and stupid mistakes begin to happen.I have a quite cute personality which suits young learners .but I'm so worried about how my students treat me.😢.
Fantastic video !!
I came across the same situation. Yesterday one person make me down but I didn’t keep quiet and replied angrily. Instead i handle her different way. I was wondering that did i handled her properly or not. But ur video clear me that i handled correctly . Thank you
Wow this is very helpful... i am related with your topic...been experienced bullied with verbal harassment... in this video i now learned thank you so much Ms. Parmita so helpful... more power and godbless..
Hello ma'am, my eyes have sunk in. Please tell me an exercise to correct them. Please
AoA.dear your motivational videos are so much informative and help full for achieving our goals I really thanks for you dear blush with me 😊😊💞
You are such a lovely lively Positive Person. I love your content about women building up theit personalities and confidence and yes grooming. Keep smiling. All the best to you.
Mam i have a doubt..
One of my friend puts me down sso much..
Whenever i get struck at a problem in class during math or science she asks me what happened to you ...ur not able to solve even these and starts mocking...
How can i respond
Other's assumptions about you doesn't create your reality. Yes they will behave based on their assumptions and treat you poorly. In that case they are showing further who they are. Easy to cut them out even more. 😅... when authority uses these techniques to talk down to you to feel themselves superior then I don't know if one should consider them even an authority.
I just want to be myself, not any one els
I had this co-worker who constantly making fun of my ideas, always trying to one up me she's I think more than 10 yrs older than me and I usually let things pass, I just don't want to make a conversation long and make a big deal out of it. But I now started to get annoyed with what she's doing.
You are helpful but dont like that you are promotimg another product on your videos. Pls stick to your topic.. Thank you.
How to become alpha female.
Please make video on it.
very helpful and informative, thank you
Your suggestions are very scattered than focused. You are jumping from one point to another.
I love the way you are explaining the things very great.
Thank you Parmita..all your videos are content oriented and really amazing!! Appreciate your tireless efforts..
thank u so much ma'am. I feel more confident after seeing this video.
Your videos are good, but using Kampala Harris as an example? My goodness, this women is an egotistical user of people. She lacks visible poise and inserts inappropriate behavior (nervous cackle) to cover.
Your video is awesome.Can we talk to you personally.Is there any no where I can contact you?
Beautiful, sweet, wise boys💗💕
Video on how to become a image coach 😍😍😍😍😍😍 I used to think it was a conceited thing to always get dolled up but now I see it's much bigger than that, so I'd love to know how to motivate and empower females ti be more confident 😀
Thank you beautiful Parmita🥰
Even if you stop them they will continue because this is the way they behave
Thank you so much this information. It’s truly empowering! Glad I found you!!
👍🏻😊💕 Love your style and spirit!
Thank you for this wonderful video! I’m going to show it to my child too! 🙏
You are true guru
Great Advice. Thank YOU!
I'm kind of wondering- those people who are being disrespectful with their body language (and hey, they can always state, quite truthfully, that they "haven't _said_ anything"!) are out to get a reaction from us. Aren't we "taking the bait" when we react instead of ignoring them?
Yes, they want a reaction! we. Have to protect our energy from energy vampires 🙏🙏💙💙 we are constantly transmitting and recieving energy🙏🙏💙💙
Thank you so much, love your videos you are so amazing!
Ohhhhh…..Kamala is aggressive-she is cringey!
Totally agree🤝
Too much ego, but irrelevant content.
Blah blah blah
The kind of video that doesn't make any difference in your life, just wasted time 🤢
I've never thought about this... if it is physically attack or abuse... we know it is not ok... and we should not accept it... the same goes to verbal and mental stuffs...
Love your top !!! I think black and gold suits you so well . Love the way you are ... never change!!!!!
Mostly i don't speak up because i think this may not be that bad to be offended and even if i do as i start to speak up i start judging myself " maybe u should not say it like that" 😓
I was respecting you until you showed Kamala Harris as a good example. She is not.
*💥🎪🎀 **05:07** Interpersonal skills **09:27*
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*08:07 - 09:50 BE FIERCE in social media*💥🎪💋
12:44 CS “Social media handles’
Hi dear,i am very sad and not interrsted to do anything,i have deep tear trough and not interested in filleres and surgery, and that runs from the inner corner of the eyelid along the infraorbital rim to the outermost corner of each eye. Its very hard to face when look out mirror,if you can help me out,please do something for that dear
I have a question to you
Can I know for how long this face yoga effect will last ...
plz answer quickly 😫😫😫
Beautiful children and lucky to have a beautiful, loving mother.
I really love this Video, Thank you. I would like to see a video of actually boosting our mindset on how to ask for Financial help from our loved or even people we know are capable of helping ones without feeling we are burdening them.
hi, parmita i would like to join your facial yoga programme iam in my late 30's and suddenly saw a difference while taking pictures my eyes and face looks dull and assymetry so which programme should i join i see different ones for eyes,lips but is there one package which targets each part of face? please let me know thankyou
The boys are gorgeous.😊❤ Beautiful loving family ❤
Pls show avout sagging hands
Disappointed to see Harris. Unsubscribing.
😂
Hey parmita thanks plz make video on how to speak in public
Thank you dear parmita,I love your style and love your energy ❤
You've helped me alot
Thank you for sharing.I like your video.Love it.
Thank you so much ma'm
Im a man and this helped me too. Thank you
It's great to hear it worked for you!
Thank you for another great video Parmita and God bless to you! 😊💖🙌
Thanx so much for ur tips n guidance..helps a lot ..
Really facing these problems 🙏🙏pls help
Thanks parmita mam
Pls u make your video hindi language pls
This woman is commendable.....kudos😊
Waste of time
Okay, how?
Amazing job! Lovely 🏵️ Very beneficial videos.
Your biggest fan from Bangladesh...
Hello ❤️are you a South Indian 😍
This is fab thx for sharing hun just Wish u would have given few more examples.
Loved it . Watching first time
Get to the point...yawn yawn yawn
Good helps ... should be implemented