Filo, you are only a few months away from giving birth. Your hormones are raging, you are dealing with a toddler and an infant with tummy problems. Give yourself a break, and wait this out. Bottom line is, you must do what is best for you and your family. If that’s a rebrand, great! If it’s goodbye, then you will find a new chapter (but will be missed!). Either way, take the time you need to make your decision, and please try to not put so much pressure on yourself. Thinking of you, and knowing you will do what’s best. ❤
I hope you don't quit! I would totally watch you going to thrift stores or just sharing your daily life. I think a lot of your followers would feel the same 💖
I’ve checked to see if you posted a few times but figured you were just enjoying your new little one. I personally love to see thrifted finds flipped or just see how people decorate their homes or style their outfits with thrifted finds. I enjoy your content because you are genuine and relatable. I’m sure many others do too and will watch you no matter what. 🤍 But if you feel you need to step away, that’s okay too. You don’t owe us anything 🤗
My second baby had the same kind of issue and we went through a TON of formulas. The only one that she could have was Similac Alimentum which has no milk protein in it. She is over a year old now and still can’t drink milk. I know every baby is different but just thought I’d tell ya. You are his momma so you know best 😊
Hearing you on this video reminded me a bit of how I felt after both my kids’ birth.. everything in life felt like a massive change and I was barely able to keep up with everything.. Things don’t have to be set in stone. It’s ok to not know what to do or which direction to go ( regarding your YT). Give yourself some time and lots of grace. You’re doing the best you can. P.s if you do feel extreme sadness or anxiety don’t hesitate reaching out to a professional to help you sort through this. ❤ Big hugs
I am so glad to hear that everything is okay! I was truly worried. I have watched you since 2017 and will truly miss your content! If you decide to rebrand, I am here for that too!
I watched your Amazon hauls and have also started shifting to wanting to do more second hand so my algorithm changed to thrift and marketplace shopping and hauls. Do what is authentic to you and your audience will follow along and you’ll attract new subscribers. When you’re ready. If you ever are.
You’re a darling girl and don’t need to worry about your followers. You have enough on your plate. I only had one child, but two is a handful. Take care of yourself and your family. That’s what matters most. God bless you.
❤Good luck to you. Have you considered pivoting and sharing your experience finding out about your baby’s illness? It could be helpful to others and cathartic for you. My niece went through this same thing and it was a Relief once the problem was identified and she was able to find a community.
Filo I have so enjoyed all your content. Especially the Amazon finds. You always find the coolest stuff and I have bought so many things because you brought them to my attention! I hope you don’t stop but I do understand that life ebbs and flows and takes us in different directions. You have to follow what makes you happy and brings you peace. But if you find any cool Amazon stuff please send them my way! I’m about to have my first granddaughter! She will be the first girl in our family for 75 years!!! We are a top boy heavy family and she’s going to be a little princess for sure!
First I’m so glad the baby and everyone is well. Take the time you need don’t let pressure society or anyone dictate how and what you need. We will miss you xoxxox
U dont relate to your old content?? AFFORDABLE?? thats literally why we are here because u post the best most affordable items from our FAVORITE BRANDS.... How can u NOT relate to AFFORDABLE LIVING BOO??? we are gonna watch whatever u post sweetie❤
I’m so glad you and your family are well. Being a mama is hard. Being a wife is hard. I can’t imagine how hard it would be putting my life out for the whole world to see and criticize. I really enjoy your content and have missed your wonderful personality. I wouldn’t mind seeing thrifting content. I watch that too. Who knows where this is going to take you. I wish you the best even if you decide to give it up all together. I truly hope you don’t because I never saw you as a failure. You do a wonderful job and I like that you look for a bargain!! Prayers for you and your little family.
filo you are such a sweetheart! I’d watch you, if you decide to experiment and try different content. I’d love thrifting videos. but you do whatever makes you happy and most at peace. You’re not a failure, you’re more brave than most people ever would be just by putting yourself out there in the first place ! ❤
Girl, you don’t need to apologize for anything!! I think it’ll be better when Luca is a little older and his diet is figured out. That takes a huge toll on a new mommy when your baby is having some sort of problem. You are good and human!!! We all go through this!!! It’ll get better!!!
There is a time for everything. Take time for you to heal. And, when you heal you will have more light on where to go, and what to do about everything. For now, look after you! You don't need to make a TH-cam decision right now. You have a whole life to live :) Good-bye does not need to be forever either. Life is a like a film reel, it keeps going on and on. It is not a still photo, it evolves and changes. Hugs!!
I love watching thrift hauls on YT- so for what it's worth I'd still be watching! I go thrifting pretty much every Sunday with the color tag sales at Goodwill. 😆 glad to see you and the familia are okay ❤ and support any choice you decide 😊 but would def miss your vids!
Crying with you 🥹 sad to see you go but understandable. Like you said, everyone has seasons in their life but I sure hope you change your mind and come back! Your videos are my fave 🥰 until then, keep being the best momma to your two cuties!
Same happened to my second boy! Couldn’t nurse anymore so we tried formula. First one made him super congested for 2 months, I asked to switch formula, started soy…2 days later no longer congested but now pooping blood. Changed to nutramigen and much better! My other son the same so we tried alimentum and much better! Take this time off to be with your kids, things will get better! Don’t stress about it all…trust me, 5 kids later, all these bumps in the road are normal, and there will be many more!!! You got this!!!
No one can do the same thing forever!! I love that you don't relate to your old content. I've never seen a consumerist/haul channel shift to secondhand before, I think it's amazing (even if you don't post about it)
As a person who STRUGGLED with my mental health for the last four months, the biggest thing I learned is that today is often enough and there is no shame celebrating that you just made it through it. It’s okay to walk away from or not do things that use to be easy or okay for us to do. More importantly talking kindly to yourself or doing things bc they spark joy no matter how small isn’t selfish or stupid it’s needed. Keep going. You’re a business woman who took a hobby and a passion and found a way to make money. Most of us are here for the connection we get from seeing just you and what you’re up to. Id watch your thrifting bc it would help me be more savvy with money and clothes. Id watch you clean and organize just to get ideas. You got this and thank you for sharing your hard. It helps to know I’m not alone in hard.
I’m so happy that you are okay. There is nothing wrong with being okay….give yourself the grace that I’m sure you give everyone else. You have to take care of yourself which is super hard when you have two little ones. So thankful that you have family and a great friend to give you a hand…take their help without guilt. I have always been impressed with your channel and you. ❤
Filo, I love your channel and have been watching you for a long time. I had something similar happen to me lately so I can relate. You will come out stronger and better! If you enjoy it, keep filming. I will watch whatever you post ❤
I'm so sorry your son is (and you are) going through this. I'm 5.5 months pp with a cmpa baby and listening to you was like looking in a mirror with us. It's really hard. It is SO HARD. But, it does get better. Feeling for you, girl. Take care of yourself. We will be here if you decide to come back, but if not, that's ok too. Do what YOU need.
Filo!! It’s so good to see your face! I’m glad you and your family are all in good health and doing the best you can! Hang in there girl, and follow your heart. Those who love you will always be here and you may find some new friends along the way ❤
Life is overwhelming sweet girl. I have always enjoyed your channel and hope to continue seeing more content from you. Keep on going and remember that you are supported by a lot of people. ❤
I’m glad you and your family are doing well, which is the most important thing in life ❤ Do what feels right for you and gives you peace. The time will come when you have more clarity on what to do. We (behind a screen) will be here to support you on whatever makes you happy! But for now, lots of love and good wishes to you and your family 🥰
sounds like me what i went through with my 4th baby, my only son. He stayed constipated! i always had to use the same thing to get him to poop. I felt so freakin bad. I was only breast feeding. i had to switch to almond milk and that didn't even work right away. i never put him on any medication. i just changed my diet. i stopped breast feeding at 1 year. so i feel your pain girlfriend 💙 and about you takin time off...don't be so hard on yourself!! people do it all the time and the ones that are actually here for you will still be here for you!! period!!!!😉💙💙
Filo, amiga….. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ so much love and positivity for you!!! Girl, we would watch you read the phone book or watch paint dry lol. We love you dearly, what if you just vlog your everyday life? You could review books or OOTD. Praying for you and the fam. Your amiga who remembers sitting on the floor of your apartment giving reviews pre kids/pre marriage. Take care of yourself XOXOXO - Sandra
Glad ur all OK hope Luca is better now ❤ don't worry we are here if you do come back with anything you do its ok to take breaks, life happens and no need to apologise. Sorry that happened to you with tiktok so many wrong things with that app 🙈 ❤
It was great to hear from you. You do what you need to do for yourself but it will be hard to get through an Amazon Prime Day without your recommendations. I love your content. Whatever you do, take good care and know you have devoted fans.
First off thank God everyone is ok!! I was googling my little heart out to make sure you are ok! Next you cannot leave. You make so many people smile with your videos ( me being one of them!) even if it is just listening to you talk we love it. You are one of the most real people on TH-cam, never afraid to be yourself. Screw the dupes … we don’t care about that. As a plus size girl I would never watch for the clothes anyway lol I watched just to see you. I would love to see you thrift and do you amazing and temu hauls and all the things! Please think twice about leaving… we love you ❤❤
Just glad everyone’s and everything is okay! If you need to step back of course do it. You and your families well being is far more important than TH-cam.🫶🏼
You are a wonderful person,mother and wife.My granddaughter had the same issue as Luca,it’s very frustrating and I feel for you. If you feel you need to stop or take a break from making videos, please do. Please remember, you are NOT a failure or stupid! We will be here if you decide to continue.
It was great seeing you, I was worried, you are a strong person and your life has changed with two children and you are adjusting. Don’t ever say you are a failure because they took your TikTok down. We all make mistakes in life but we just have to pick ourselves up and keep going. I would love to see you make a comeback, but if you don’t you will be truly missed! Take care of yourself and family!❤🥰
Filo, this is gonna be a long one and even if you don’t respond, I hope you get a chance to read this. Before I had my daughter (first time mom) in 2023, I found you during your very early YT days and I loved and do love your videos. I was commenting, liking, & subscribed. ❤ I waited for your uploads; SHEIN hauls, Amazon review, must haves, etc. I love watching your videos. I never imagined becoming a mom would change anything I thought it would take me 3months to get back to being me.. I was wrong. So so wrong. My daughter had something VERY similar to what your son has. The lack of sleep and the depression I spiraled into was something I never thought would happen to me. Hearing you talk about it in this video honestly is very triggering to me. I’m so sorry you guys have been going through that. After I had my daughter I must of been away from YT for at least 5-6months it was lots of Filo hauls and reviews I missed in that time. I spent a few days trying to binge watch and like and comment lol I did it but ever since becoming a mom my social media time is so limited. I feel bad, I know how important the likes and comments can be for small YT channels and not to mention I just love your content. I even started following you on tik tok and the thrifting haul I saw was awesome! Especially since we live in the same area, I was like well I need to go to the thrift store I could find something as cute as what she did. But even scrolling tik tok is very limited now as a momma. I cannot imagine going through what I went through in the first year while having a toddler. Prays to you girly cause you have to be a tough cookie! My support system is strong I had mom and mom in law helping me sometimes 24/7 and it still was HARD. I would be super sad to see you go, but so happy if it helps your mental health. 🫶🏻 sending you lots of love and support! ❤
Oh you precious girl!!! You MUST give yourself a break!! Just take a step back and focus on you and your family right now. AND WHEN YOU’RE READY you will know what you want to do! Don’t stress and don’t hurry. We will all be here ready to watch, learn and laugh (I love it when you mispronounce words and get tongue tied) if you decide to return. I’m so thankful you posted this and to know what’s going on. I sure have missed you!! Prayers and hugs for you.
I will always watch you, I will always be a subscriber, I’m always here Loved seeing you post. Please do what’s in your heart, and what’s good for your mental health. If being a mom is what’s in your cards then that’s awesome. I know I will be here if and when you come back. Beautiful babies Filo. Remember they are not young forever, hug and kiss those babies. Anyway much love to you and your family from Pennsylvania- See you next time. 🩶🩶🩶🩶
Take the time you need for you and your family. If your content changes, so be it. We all grow and change. The ones that are meant to stick around will stick around and continue to support you. Who knows, it may also help gain alot of new subscribers that were meant to find you. From one Houstonian to another. ❤
Filo, You being you is worth watching any & everything you do!!!! We love you. You don't need to be ashamed of the accounts that were taken down. Shit happens and you move on. You have every right to have these feelings of sadness, being pissed off, angry It's understandable having those feelings of having the rug pulled out from underneath you. You are stronger than you think! Stop with all the self negativity ❤💛 YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AMAZING TALENTED and all of the wonderful adjectives to describe you. I hope all of this makes sence?? I love watching you, you have a calming personality, even if you feel like you are 😵💫. Please take this words I have written to you as positivitly as they are meant to be.💕
Oh girl❤ I hate that you feel that way you need to do what is best for you. Having said that fellow, I would watch you if it was just what’s going on in your life what are you doing in your house cleaning videos organizing videos, goodwill videos it doesn’t matter. We will watch it’s just like keeping up with what your friend is doing. It’s just real life and that’s enough.
Oh Filo, thank good you’re ok number one!!!! Number two….you follow your heart. ❤️ you do what you think is best. You can always make another account in TikTok and instagram and get your followers back!!! I promise!!!! But you do you honey!!! I’ve been with you since 2018!!!! It’s been a long time. I didn’t comment till really 2020. 😂 I was scared lol😅 now, idgaf!!! 😂 anyways, you come back when you see fit. We’ll all be here waiting!!!
we will all miss you but take as much time as you need and if you want to come back feel free to free to do whatever it is that you want ❤ I will say a prayer that you find peace
Take time. You are trying your best. You don't need to explain yourself whilst you are still trying to understand yourself during post- partum. Everything will become clear again. Sending love and healing x
You do not need to apologize! You have been thru a lot. Please give yourself time and Enjoy your 2 children. They grow up soo fast. We all miss your content, but you will know after sometime if that is something that you want to continue. If you do, know that we are here for you. 😊
We know you’ve got grit, Babe. You need to give yourself grace. The EXACT grace you’d give to anyone else in the trenches with two babies at home. Your perspective on priorities and rating what’s important vs what feels frivolous can change, evolve, rotate, flip flop, etc…. Thrifting can be awesome. Especially because it’s great for the planet. I really like watching folks who take a thrifted item(s) and revamp them in some simple way to make them more trendy, more classic, or even more personalized.
Whether you know it or not you are a success!!❤❤❤ Raising tiny humans is hard work! Follow your heart it will lead you to the right path at the right time. Much love, cyber hugs and positive vibes!!
So glad all is ok. Give yourself some grace. Life shifts with children. How bout just "Day in the life" videos. Just be you and show your day. What your coffee is, whats for meals, just what's happening. Lots of views on those type of videos. Grocery hauls, Amazon orders, recipes and such. Good luck and God Bless.
Filo take care of you. Know we love you but also understand you are human. We will stand beside you either way. Know that I watch you for you not necessarily what you show us
Filo, take a breath. Please know that this is totally understandable. When you are feeling helpless and your child is hurting, it is true trauma to your mental health. It's ok to not know what to do. If you force a decision it only makes it worse. If it helps, I would watch videos with your new interests and content. The most important thing is you take care of you and your family. Praying for your strength and peace. All will be well in His timing. ❤
Take a deep breath and give yourself time to adjust to all the changes in your life. You are a super Mom. And a fair and honest influencer. You have made all our Christmas shopping so much easier over the years! Please don’t put pressure on yourself. Let it happen on its own. Just let it go and believe it or not, life will fall into place. Your passion will come back , if not for this, then something else. Keep your head up high. You deserve happiness.
PS and don’t watch any of those tradwife videos!! Yes- a traditional wife and mom is great, but this whole tradwife nitch on social media is ridiculous. No one has a perfect house and still has time to make cough drops. It’s more than ok to have a dump closet (or room!!) and go to Walgreens. ❤
1) Coming from a mom of 3 (I just had my 3rd), have you looked into Post Partum Depression? 2) My son was the exact same in the beginning couple of months. Even Enfamil Gentlease didn't work. Try ENFAMIL SENSITIVE. It saved my poor baby and our well being 👌🏽
I wish I could email to let you know that you can talk to me. My name is Haydee. I am 50 years old. I'm Puerto Rican so you can talk to me in Spanish. My youngest child is 11 years old. I am not a life coach but I don't mind listening to you when you need to talk. Please hang in there and trust that a higher power is guiding you. You have so much beauty inside you and trust that you will be able to reignite your light . Know that this too shall pass and I promise you will come out through the other side stronger than ever 💪💪💪 Love Haydee ❤️
Please don’t give up. I was worried and patiently waiting for you to come back. Motherhood is definitely very difficult to juggle and still have to work. You won’t suck at this. Just be yourself and keep it real and your followers will continue to follow and support you and your channel.
Girl stop it stop it right now i normally dont comment but you need to hear this you YOU ARE NOT A A FAILURE we all go through obstacles we all fall short we all have things come up that get us off track that may even point us in another direction we didnt ever think we'd go in but you use it you learned whether its your past mistakes failures or successes and you pusg forward girl what ever content you put on yt u have alot of supporters waiting and here to suppprt u besides the majority of us want to see the thrift finds girl we cant afford the other stuff sometimes lol stay strong u got this dont give up on yourself because we havent given up on u
Oh honey you are suffering from post pardum depression..... please get to your ob/gyn & speak to them about it. I promise you will feel so much better with treatment ❤❤❤
Honey, you don't owe anything to anyone besides yourself. Take care of yourself & your kids & family. If you have the time & energy for more at some point, great. But don't put pressure on yourself to keep up with anyone else's expectations but your own. Best to you & your family! :heart:
It's okay whatever you decide. Remember you have to do what is best for you. It's tough being a mom of two small children. If you need to talk to a therapist that's okay sometimes we just need to verbalize what we're struggling with to move past it. Maybe you can post once a month and when the kiddos are enrolled in school you can increase TH-cam videos to twice a month and so forth but not to the point where you feel overwhelmed. & Maybe you just decide it's best to quit the channel and you create another channel in the future about family life with some get ready with me. The possibilities are endless. You decide what is best for you and your family. Or maybe you can just create a channel that's just for moms and you all help each other with suggestions, it can be anything you want. Ask dad to watch the babies while you take a shower and do a little self care. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. One person I like to watch for fun on TH-cam but also because she is very wise is LisaLisaD1 and she's a certified life coach. Lisa is someone that I know in my heart wouldn't steer anyone in the wrong direction. Sending prayers and love, Haydee ❤️
Filo, you are only a few months away from giving birth. Your hormones are raging, you are dealing with a toddler and an infant with tummy problems. Give yourself a break, and wait this out. Bottom line is, you must do what is best for you and your family. If that’s a rebrand, great! If it’s goodbye, then you will find a new chapter (but will be missed!). Either way, take the time you need to make your decision, and please try to not put so much pressure on yourself. Thinking of you, and knowing you will do what’s best. ❤
I hope you don't quit! I would totally watch you going to thrift stores or just sharing your daily life. I think a lot of your followers would feel the same 💖
Definitely 💯. Most important thing is to take care of you 🙏🏻🫶🏻
Just glad to hear everyone is ok! You should not feel guilty about taking whatever time you need - if you do come back, I'll be here :)
I would love to watch your thrifted hauls! I would watch whatever from you
Me too.
@@dianereardon58 Me too, save me some mosey. LOL Blessings to you from Spring, TX (we are neighbors)
I’ve checked to see if you posted a few times but figured you were just enjoying your new little one. I personally love to see thrifted finds flipped or just see how people decorate their homes or style their outfits with thrifted finds. I enjoy your content because you are genuine and relatable. I’m sure many others do too and will watch you no matter what. 🤍 But if you feel you need to step away, that’s okay too. You don’t owe us anything 🤗
I would love thrifting videos!!! I don’t watch for the dupes i watch bc if your personality! Been here since the sorority shirts video!
I totally agree with you. I love her personality. I would literally watch anything from her.
Me too
My second baby had the same kind of issue and we went through a TON of formulas. The only one that she could have was Similac Alimentum which has no milk protein in it. She is over a year old now and still can’t drink milk. I know every baby is different but just thought I’d tell ya. You are his momma so you know best 😊
We're just glad you and your family are ok. Your true subscribers would watch anything you chose to post. I love thrift hauls!! 😁
Hearing you on this video reminded me a bit of how I felt after both my kids’ birth.. everything in life felt like a massive change and I was barely able to keep up with everything.. Things don’t have to be set in stone. It’s ok to not know what to do or which direction to go ( regarding your YT). Give yourself some time and lots of grace. You’re doing the best you can.
P.s if you do feel extreme sadness or anxiety don’t hesitate reaching out to a professional to help you sort through this.
❤ Big hugs
I love love love thrifting hauls, temu, shein and amazon. Do whatever you love girl! Find what makes you happy!
Do what YOU need for YOU. Sending sooo much love 💕💕💕
I am so glad to hear that everything is okay! I was truly worried. I have watched you since 2017 and will truly miss your content! If you decide to rebrand, I am here for that too!
I watched your Amazon hauls and have also started shifting to wanting to do more second hand so my algorithm changed to thrift and marketplace shopping and hauls. Do what is authentic to you and your audience will follow along and you’ll attract new subscribers. When you’re ready. If you ever are.
omg I’m crying with you 😂 you are so beautiful! do whatever makes you happy ❤post whenever and we will be happy to see you!
You’re a darling girl and don’t need to worry about your followers. You have enough on your plate. I only had one child, but two is a handful. Take care of yourself and your family. That’s what matters most. God bless you.
❤Good luck to you. Have you considered pivoting and sharing your experience finding out about your baby’s illness? It could be helpful to others and cathartic for you. My niece went through this same thing and it was a Relief once the problem was identified and she was able to find a community.
Filo I have so enjoyed all your content. Especially the Amazon finds. You always find the coolest stuff and I have bought so many things because you brought them to my attention! I hope you don’t stop but I do understand that life ebbs and flows and takes us in different directions. You have to follow what makes you happy and brings you peace. But if you find any cool Amazon stuff please send them my way! I’m about to have my first granddaughter! She will be the first girl in our family for 75 years!!! We are a top boy heavy family and she’s going to be a little princess for sure!
First I’m so glad the baby and everyone is well. Take the time you need don’t let pressure society or anyone dictate how and what you need. We will miss you xoxxox
U dont relate to your old content?? AFFORDABLE?? thats literally why we are here because u post the best most affordable items from our FAVORITE BRANDS.... How can u NOT relate to AFFORDABLE LIVING BOO??? we are gonna watch whatever u post sweetie❤
I’m so glad you and your family are well. Being a mama is hard. Being a wife is hard. I can’t imagine how hard it would be putting my life out for the whole world to see and criticize. I really enjoy your content and have missed your wonderful personality. I wouldn’t mind seeing thrifting content. I watch that too. Who knows where this is going to take you. I wish you the best even if you decide to give it up all together. I truly hope you don’t because I never saw you as a failure. You do a wonderful job and I like that you look for a bargain!! Prayers for you and your little family.
filo you are such a sweetheart! I’d watch you, if you decide to experiment and try different content. I’d love thrifting videos. but you do whatever makes you happy and most at peace. You’re not a failure, you’re more brave than most people ever would be just by putting yourself out there in the first place ! ❤
Girl, you don’t need to apologize for anything!! I think it’ll be better when Luca is a little older and his diet is figured out. That takes a huge toll on a new mommy when your baby is having some sort of problem. You are good and human!!! We all go through this!!! It’ll get better!!!
There is a time for everything. Take time for you to heal. And, when you heal you will have more light on where to go, and what to do about everything. For now, look after you! You don't need to make a TH-cam decision right now. You have a whole life to live :) Good-bye does not need to be forever either. Life is a like a film reel, it keeps going on and on. It is not a still photo, it evolves and changes. Hugs!!
YOU ARE SO LOVED!!!! ❤❤❤
And I’d watch you clean or do anything so don’t worry about the content! Your personality is why we watch you!
I love watching thrift hauls on YT- so for what it's worth I'd still be watching! I go thrifting pretty much every Sunday with the color tag sales at Goodwill. 😆 glad to see you and the familia are okay ❤ and support any choice you decide 😊 but would def miss your vids!
Crying with you 🥹 sad to see you go but understandable. Like you said, everyone has seasons in their life but I sure hope you change your mind and come back! Your videos are my fave 🥰 until then, keep being the best momma to your two cuties!
Good luck with all the thoughts and decision making ahead. It was nice seeing a video pop up 😊
Same happened to my second boy! Couldn’t nurse anymore so we tried formula. First one made him super congested for 2 months, I asked to switch formula, started soy…2 days later no longer congested but now pooping blood. Changed to nutramigen and much better! My other son the same so we tried alimentum and much better! Take this time off to be with your kids, things will get better! Don’t stress about it all…trust me, 5 kids later, all these bumps in the road are normal, and there will be many more!!! You got this!!!
No one can do the same thing forever!! I love that you don't relate to your old content. I've never seen a consumerist/haul channel shift to secondhand before, I think it's amazing (even if you don't post about it)
Much love! I just want to give you a hug! First you have to take care of you! Would absolutely miss you if didn’t come back.
As a person who STRUGGLED with my mental health for the last four months, the biggest thing I learned is that today is often enough and there is no shame celebrating that you just made it through it. It’s okay to walk away from or not do things that use to be easy or okay for us to do. More importantly talking kindly to yourself or doing things bc they spark joy no matter how small isn’t selfish or stupid it’s needed. Keep going. You’re a business woman who took a hobby and a passion and found a way to make money. Most of us are here for the connection we get from seeing just you and what you’re up to. Id watch your thrifting bc it would help me be more savvy with money and clothes. Id watch you clean and organize just to get ideas. You got this and thank you for sharing your hard. It helps to know I’m not alone in hard.
I’m so happy that you are okay. There is nothing wrong with being okay….give yourself the grace that I’m sure you give everyone else. You have to take care of yourself which is super hard when you have two little ones. So thankful that you have family and a great friend to give you a hand…take their help without guilt. I have always been impressed with your channel and you. ❤
I have really missed you.. I have checked several times to see if you had posted!! Just know you are missed and we love you❤❤
Filo, I love your channel and have been watching you for a long time. I had something similar happen to me lately so I can relate. You will come out stronger and better! If you enjoy it, keep filming. I will watch whatever you post ❤
I'm so sorry your son is (and you are) going through this. I'm 5.5 months pp with a cmpa baby and listening to you was like looking in a mirror with us. It's really hard. It is SO HARD. But, it does get better. Feeling for you, girl. Take care of yourself. We will be here if you decide to come back, but if not, that's ok too. Do what YOU need.
Will miss you but am happy knowing you’re all doing well and praying your sweet little boy continues to do better!❤
Filo!! It’s so good to see your face! I’m glad you and your family are all in good health and doing the best you can! Hang in there girl, and follow your heart. Those who love you will always be here and you may find some new friends along the way ❤
Life is overwhelming sweet girl. I have always enjoyed your channel and hope to continue seeing more content from you. Keep on going and remember that you are supported by a lot of people. ❤
I’m glad you and your family are doing well, which is the most important thing in life ❤ Do what feels right for you and gives you peace. The time will come when you have more clarity on what to do. We (behind a screen) will be here to support you on whatever makes you happy! But for now, lots of love and good wishes to you and your family 🥰
sounds like me what i went through with my 4th baby, my only son. He stayed constipated! i always had to use the same thing to get him to poop. I felt so freakin bad. I was only breast feeding. i had to switch to almond milk and that didn't even work right away. i never put him on any medication. i just changed my diet. i stopped breast feeding at 1 year. so i feel your pain girlfriend 💙 and about you takin time off...don't be so hard on yourself!! people do it all the time and the ones that are actually here for you will still be here for you!! period!!!!😉💙💙
Filo, amiga….. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ so much love and positivity for you!!! Girl, we would watch you read the phone book or watch paint dry lol. We love you dearly, what if you just vlog your everyday life? You could review books or OOTD. Praying for you and the fam. Your amiga who remembers sitting on the floor of your apartment giving reviews pre kids/pre marriage. Take care of yourself XOXOXO - Sandra
Glad ur all OK hope Luca is better now ❤ don't worry we are here if you do come back with anything you do its ok to take breaks, life happens and no need to apologise. Sorry that happened to you with tiktok so many wrong things with that app 🙈 ❤
Thank you Katie!
It was great to hear from you. You do what you need to do for yourself but it will be hard to get through an Amazon Prime Day without your recommendations. I love your content. Whatever you do, take good care and know you have devoted fans.
First off thank God everyone is ok!! I was googling my little heart out to make sure you are ok! Next you cannot leave. You make so many people smile with your videos ( me being one of them!) even if it is just listening to you talk we love it. You are one of the most real people on TH-cam, never afraid to be yourself. Screw the dupes … we don’t care about that. As a plus size girl I would never watch for the clothes anyway lol I watched just to see you. I would love to see you thrift and do you amazing and temu hauls and all the things! Please think twice about leaving… we love you ❤❤
Staying subscribed because ❤ you! You do you boo!
I’m glad you are doing ok. Praying for you and your family.
Just glad everyone’s and everything is okay! If you need to step back of course do it. You and your families well being is far more important than TH-cam.🫶🏼
You are a wonderful person,mother and wife.My granddaughter had the same issue as Luca,it’s very frustrating and I feel for you. If you feel you need to stop or take a break from making videos, please do. Please remember, you are NOT a failure or stupid! We will be here if you decide to continue.
You and your children are beautiful♥️Take care of you♥️You are appreciated❣️
Hugs to you!!!! You have a lot on your plate. Do what gives you peace
It was great seeing you, I was worried, you are a strong person and your life has changed with two children and you are adjusting. Don’t ever say you are a failure because they took your TikTok down. We all make mistakes in life but we just have to pick ourselves up and keep going. I would love to see you make a comeback, but if you don’t you will be truly missed! Take care of yourself and family!❤🥰
Filo, this is gonna be a long one and even if you don’t respond, I hope you get a chance to read this. Before I had my daughter (first time mom) in 2023, I found you during your very early YT days and I loved and do love your videos. I was commenting, liking, & subscribed. ❤ I waited for your uploads; SHEIN hauls, Amazon review, must haves, etc. I love watching your videos. I never imagined becoming a mom would change anything I thought it would take me 3months to get back to being me.. I was wrong. So so wrong. My daughter had something VERY similar to what your son has. The lack of sleep and the depression I spiraled into was something I never thought would happen to me. Hearing you talk about it in this video honestly is very triggering to me. I’m so sorry you guys have been going through that. After I had my daughter I must of been away from YT for at least 5-6months it was lots of Filo hauls and reviews I missed in that time. I spent a few days trying to binge watch and like and comment lol I did it but ever since becoming a mom my social media time is so limited. I feel bad, I know how important the likes and comments can be for small YT channels and not to mention I just love your content. I even started following you on tik tok and the thrifting haul I saw was awesome! Especially since we live in the same area, I was like well I need to go to the thrift store I could find something as cute as what she did. But even scrolling tik tok is very limited now as a momma. I cannot imagine going through what I went through in the first year while having a toddler. Prays to you girly cause you have to be a tough cookie! My support system is strong I had mom and mom in law helping me sometimes 24/7 and it still was HARD. I would be super sad to see you go, but so happy if it helps your mental health. 🫶🏻 sending you lots of love and support! ❤
Oh you precious girl!!! You MUST give yourself a break!! Just take a step back and focus on you and your family right now. AND WHEN YOU’RE READY you will know what you want to do! Don’t stress and don’t hurry. We will all be here ready to watch, learn and laugh (I love it when you mispronounce words and get tongue tied) if you decide to return. I’m so thankful you posted this and to know what’s going on. I sure have missed you!! Prayers and hugs for you.
I will always watch you, I will always be a subscriber, I’m always here Loved seeing you post. Please do what’s in your heart, and what’s good for your mental health. If being a mom is what’s in your cards then that’s awesome. I know I will be here if and when you come back. Beautiful babies Filo. Remember they are not young forever, hug and kiss those babies. Anyway much love to you and your family from Pennsylvania- See you next time. 🩶🩶🩶🩶
Take the time you need for you and your family. If your content changes, so be it. We all grow and change. The ones that are meant to stick around will stick around and continue to support you. Who knows, it may also help gain alot of new subscribers that were meant to find you. From one Houstonian to another. ❤
Filo, You being you is worth watching any & everything you do!!!! We love you. You don't need to be ashamed of the accounts that were taken down. Shit happens and you move on. You have every right to have these feelings of sadness, being pissed off, angry It's understandable having those feelings of having the rug pulled out from underneath you. You are stronger than you think! Stop with all the self negativity ❤💛 YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AMAZING TALENTED and all of the wonderful adjectives to describe you. I hope all of this makes sence?? I love watching you, you have a calming personality, even if you feel like you are 😵💫. Please take this words I have written to you as positivitly as they are meant to be.💕
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Oh girl❤ I hate that you feel that way you need to do what is best for you. Having said that fellow, I would watch you if it was just what’s going on in your life what are you doing in your house cleaning videos organizing videos, goodwill videos it doesn’t matter. We will watch it’s just like keeping up with what your friend is doing. It’s just real life and that’s enough.
Awwww Filo❤❤
Hope all is well.
I hope you feel better...but you are not alone in your feelings. I've noticed that a lot of youtubers seem to be feeling emotional for some reason
Hang in there. I think you will find your way back to us. Keep the faith 🙏😘
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
I would love watching thrift shopping, do it please!
I hope you don’t go away Angel. You are so sweet and you content is so real you yourself have been so missed and I have missed you.
Do what is best for you, but your family is all well so please take that in and consider that a true blessing.
Oh Filo, thank good you’re ok number one!!!! Number two….you follow your heart. ❤️ you do what you think is best. You can always make another account in TikTok and instagram and get your followers back!!! I promise!!!! But you do you honey!!! I’ve been with you since 2018!!!! It’s been a long time. I didn’t comment till really 2020. 😂 I was scared lol😅 now, idgaf!!! 😂 anyways, you come back when you see fit. We’ll all be here waiting!!!
we will all miss you but take as much time as you need and if you want to come back feel free to free to do whatever it is that you want ❤ I will say a prayer that you find peace
Also just glad you are okay
We love you, we understand, and you do you!!!!
Take time. You are trying your best. You don't need to explain yourself whilst you are still trying to understand yourself during post- partum. Everything will become clear again. Sending love and healing x
You do not need to apologize! You have been thru a lot. Please give yourself time and Enjoy your 2 children.
They grow up soo fast. We all miss your content, but you will know after sometime if that is something that you want to continue. If you do, know that we are here for you. 😊
You are not failing you are kind human who has a lot on her plate. Stay strong and we are here
We know you’ve got grit, Babe. You need to give yourself grace. The EXACT grace you’d give to anyone else in the trenches with two babies at home. Your perspective on priorities and rating what’s important vs what feels frivolous can change, evolve, rotate, flip flop, etc…. Thrifting can be awesome. Especially because it’s great for the planet. I really like watching folks who take a thrifted item(s) and revamp them in some simple way to make them more trendy, more classic, or even more personalized.
Whether you know it or not you are a success!!❤❤❤ Raising tiny humans is hard work! Follow your heart it will lead you to the right path at the right time. Much love, cyber hugs and positive vibes!!
Such a beautiful family 🥰🥰
So glad all is ok. Give yourself some grace. Life shifts with children. How bout just "Day in the life" videos. Just be you and show your day. What your coffee is, whats for meals, just what's happening. Lots of views on those type of videos. Grocery hauls, Amazon orders, recipes and such. Good luck and God Bless.
happy to hear everyone the kids are good. It was sad watching your mental health suffer. take care of yourself first and foremost.
Filo take care of you. Know we love you but also understand you are human. We will stand beside you either way. Know that I watch you for you not necessarily what you show us
You wanna be a mommy vlogger id watch. You do thrift with me id watch. House decor, try on, crafting. Honestly anything
I was wondering where you were. Take care of you first and your family. We'll be here when and if you are ready to come back.
Filo, take a breath. Please know that this is totally understandable. When you are feeling helpless and your child is hurting, it is true trauma to your mental health. It's ok to not know what to do. If you force a decision it only makes it worse. If it helps, I would watch videos with your new interests and content. The most important thing is you take care of you and your family. Praying for your strength and peace. All will be well in His timing. ❤
Take a deep breath and give yourself time to adjust to all the changes in your life.
You are a super Mom.
And a fair and honest influencer. You have made all our Christmas shopping so much easier over the years!
Please don’t put pressure on yourself. Let it happen on its own. Just let it go and believe it or not, life will fall into place. Your passion will come back , if not for this, then something else. Keep your head up high. You deserve happiness.
PS and don’t watch any of those tradwife videos!! Yes- a traditional wife and mom is great, but this whole tradwife nitch on social media is ridiculous. No one has a perfect house and still has time to make cough drops. It’s more than ok to have a dump closet (or room!!) and go to Walgreens. ❤
1) Coming from a mom of 3 (I just had my 3rd), have you looked into Post Partum Depression?
2) My son was the exact same in the beginning couple of months. Even Enfamil Gentlease didn't work. Try ENFAMIL SENSITIVE. It saved my poor baby and our well being 👌🏽
I wish I could email to let you know that you can talk to me.
My name is Haydee. I am 50 years old. I'm Puerto Rican so you can talk to me in Spanish.
My youngest child is 11 years old. I am not a life coach but I don't mind listening to you when you need to talk.
Please hang in there and trust that a higher power is guiding you. You have so much beauty inside you and trust that you will be able to reignite your light . Know that this too shall pass and I promise you will come out through the other side stronger than ever 💪💪💪
Love Haydee ❤️
Do what you need to do now to take care of yourself. We’ll all be here when you’re ready, no rush. We care deeply about you💕
Please don’t give up. I was worried and patiently waiting for you to come back.
Motherhood is definitely very difficult to juggle and still have to work. You won’t suck at this. Just be yourself and keep it real and your followers will continue to follow and support you and your channel.
Girl stop it stop it right now i normally dont comment but you need to hear this you YOU ARE NOT A A FAILURE we all go through obstacles we all fall short we all have things come up that get us off track that may even point us in another direction we didnt ever think we'd go in but you use it you learned whether its your past mistakes failures or successes and you pusg forward girl what ever content you put on yt u have alot of supporters waiting and here to suppprt u besides the majority of us want to see the thrift finds girl we cant afford the other stuff sometimes lol stay strong u got this dont give up on yourself because we havent given up on u
We love you ❤
Please come back ❤
Oh honey you are suffering from post pardum depression..... please get to your ob/gyn & speak to them about it. I promise you will feel so much better with treatment ❤❤❤
Filo, we love you no matter what!
Honey, you don't owe anything to anyone besides yourself.
Take care of yourself & your kids & family.
If you have the time & energy for more at some point, great.
But don't put pressure on yourself to keep up with anyone else's expectations but your own.
Best to you & your family! :heart:
How did you loose your tik tok? Just a video or the entire channel?
It's okay whatever you decide. Remember you have to do what is best for you. It's tough being a mom of two small children. If you need to talk to a therapist that's okay sometimes we just need to verbalize what we're struggling with to move past it. Maybe you can post once a month and when the kiddos are enrolled in school you can increase TH-cam videos to twice a month and so forth but not to the point where you feel overwhelmed.
& Maybe you just decide it's best to quit the channel and you create another channel in the future about family life with some get ready with me. The possibilities are endless. You decide what is best for you and your family.
Or maybe you can just create a channel that's just for moms and you all help each other with suggestions, it can be anything you want.
Ask dad to watch the babies while you take a shower and do a little self care.
You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you.
One person I like to watch for fun on TH-cam but also because she is very wise is LisaLisaD1 and she's a certified life coach. Lisa is someone that I know in my heart wouldn't steer anyone in the wrong direction.
Sending prayers and love, Haydee ❤️
DO THE CONTENT THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!
So glad you are ok. I would watch thrifting videos. I will miss the amazon prime day videos. You do what is best for you. I hope it's not goodbye.
Girl, I lost my TikTok account because of a dupe video as well! I did not create a new one.