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I wish I would've just told my ex wife "Ok No Problem" when asked for a divorce. Luckily I moved out & did no contact. Since then she's now reaching out through her burner aacount on Facebook. She's also reached out through a banking app we used to share together. I just read what she wrote & I continue to work on self improvement. Fellas don't let these women stress you out. If she walks away, then bid her farewell & you keep it moving. If you share kids with a woman who dumped you just focus on yourself & your children. You don't owe your kids mom nothing. Stay on task & focus on your purpose. Life is a Marathon & you will have lows & highs on this journey. Make the best of this life we've been given. Stay Blessed Everyone
Wise words bro. I know first hand about the BS with an ex wife and kids. Whatever you do, stay on your purpose and don’t let her get to you. Don’t let her use the kids on you either
@@bjnaves1192 she's already using the kids against me. I also know her mom went back & told her that I have a girlfriend. At this point in my life I don't care about her feelings. I'm about my money & making sure my nieces are well taken care of. My girlfriend is a blessing & I'm ready to start this journey with her. If lesbianism doesn't work out for my ex-wife then she will be screwed in her dating life.
Man, even that is saying too much. I just turned my back and kept moving. I'll never forget that day. And after almost 4 years, she still spying on me. Keep moving forward!
I have a reply better than that. And that's no reply at all. Instant ghost! Guys silence is power. They want to provoke you and Gaslight you into sending a beg text back so they can show their friends and laugh at you.
I managed to do it in two words last time ‘No Problem’ 🤣 She last minute cancelled a date. So I went straight to my gym instead Brilliant motivational content as always 💪🏽
It works so well because it takes a monumentally large pair of balls to be able to just walk away like that, especially when feelings were involved. It's really hard for dudes to do because so much ego is involved as well. It's a fucking strong response though, devastating for her even because it's so rare for them to witness. This was a good video, man.
I did this to a girl whom I saw in a regular basis, I asked her out, she declined. I straight up ignored her afterwards, while she was still staring at me from time to time. After the 3rd week of ignoring she stopped showing up. Idk if it's coincidence, of her not showing up anymore though 🤣
Perfect timing on this one bro. My ex is trying to worm her way back and moved on. I have a new woman I am interested in and she knows it. She closed the door on herself that was all the closure I needed.
@@northsideyanks you are correct. Just trying to see if she can steal me away from the new one and then bam , kicked to the curb. She is that kind of person.
Listen fellas just start going to the gym. It will get your mind and body straight. If you already go to the gym distract yourself with something else. Believe me it will work. But first say the three magic words lol!!!!
Told a chick "no problem" in December. Didn't speak to her for months. Well guess who just randomly popped back into my life and got them cheeks clapped? 🤣 Play the long game fellas.
She also got her cheeks clapped by Tom, Dick and Tyrone that month. She just wanted to see if she still has power over you. And she won. The fact you responded, set up a meet time tell her you still big-simpin. True power is saying no to her and her sloppy cheeks and saying you have a new girl in your life and you have moved on.
@@DanielLopez-wj5qk a real accomplishment is forgetting about her, getting yourself a badder chick, and she comes back UNFUCKED. So now you have the leverage of 2 women and u can choose what u want to do. But a girl returning after 7 months after getting her ass arched up by 6 dudes is a loss
23 years of marriage, invested heavily in the whole process, loved the girl dearly. Would have done just about anything not to finish in divorce. Long story short, conversation went, from her, let's get divorced. Well I said I've given you everything else you asked for so if it's divorce you now want, consider it done. Yes it was painful and still working through it, every day now getting better. Love your channel Shaun, you have great advice and certainly seem to have it together. Keep it rolling..... best wishes.
The best video yet. I'm going to remember this. In the past, all I have done is try to persuade them not to dump me. It never worked, it only ever made it worse or dragged it out.
In my experience you’ll get more answers if you say this to her then go grey rock & silent. Even though her answers are basic “ I’m a confused little girl that’s also testing you”, excuses. Everything under the Sun, has already been done! Dont sweat it, don’t be bitter, don’t be vengeful. Your girl, my woman any woman has nothing new to say when it comes to rejecting you.
I am still so embarrassed that one time I had oneitis... I allowed a woman to hold power over me. I put her on a pedestal and chased her when she ran away! Pathetic. I won't allow myself to act like that again. I was better, I am better. I just broke up with the girl I was seeing for the last 3 years. She was becoming disrespectful and unappreciative. Bye Felicia
Shaun I love your channel man I’m only 20 years old just turn 20 3 weeks ago and the videos u put out here it amazing man I love your channel keep it up dude!!
It's going to be so difficult, seemingly impossible at the time, but no matter how bad you feel, how much you want her back, please please listen to Shaun's advice on this video.
Great content I would say most men will go through this what your saying is 💯 facts but I would say let them get burnt it’s the only way to learn brother that’s how I did but what your saying is facts if they go get with other woman straight away even if your in pain and hit the gym and focus on your money
You know Shaun, a thing that i find very interesting about videos like this and others that you've made, is that this can be related both if the girl is in a relationship with us or if she isn't...or at least, that's what i feel watching your videos. Keep this up 😄 (thank you from Italy)
My mistake was that I remembered her all the beautiful things we did in past, how it started and she told me to never leave her, her answer was "this was in the past" and I yelled at her, I regret for that. I shouldn't acted emotional at all, just I should've said to her, okay no problem. Lesson learned
Thank you Shaun... I needed this. I've lately been trying to "work" on our problems for the sake of my three children but I dont take her seriously. In fact I tell her all the time I cant take her seriously... Ive been improving myself and living in the gym the past year. Im done with school. Im just going to move on. She's not even worth it... I needed this big bro. Corner coach Shaun for the win again.
I was in that situation when I went to the doctors office to get a check up everything was good I touched the counter on accident the nurse randomly came behind me and walked close to side and touched my ear with her mouth and fuss at me from what I did saying she saying random stuff I don't like you I was only being nice to you etc .. .and she got aggressive with me I end the conversation saying ok and walked away and she watched me walked away out of the door
Yeah my ex broke up with me a week and a half after our families met for the first time while she was on her graduation trip in Europe with her sister. I panicked for like three days and called her family a couple times. We met up and had to exchange our shit and she called and lied to the cops to get a sheriff out to meet us and I still don’t know why. But after that I blocked her and haven’t given a shit since. Fucking crazy ass woman.
I need to admit this. I did some of this. Only because we have a child together and she was being secretive. We didn't break up though either. As soon as I found out, I did nothing but try to see my kid. Nothing else.
Embarrassed to say I did this in my 20s (30s now). He’s right, it didn’t work for me! I guess I was wired and influenced by movies, where the message is ‘to fight for her’. All and all it is horse shit and you should just walk away!
What if she get mad(as in started getting attitude) and say ill talk to u later and then she hangup. Is that flat out disrespect or kinda sum to look over???
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I wish I would've just told my ex wife "Ok No Problem" when asked for a divorce. Luckily I moved out & did no contact. Since then she's now reaching out through her burner aacount on Facebook. She's also reached out through a banking app we used to share together. I just read what she wrote & I continue to work on self improvement. Fellas don't let these women stress you out. If she walks away, then bid her farewell & you keep it moving. If you share kids with a woman who dumped you just focus on yourself & your children. You don't owe your kids mom nothing. Stay on task & focus on your purpose. Life is a Marathon & you will have lows & highs on this journey. Make the best of this life we've been given. Stay Blessed Everyone
Blessings bro have a good weekend ✊🏼
Wise words bro. I know first hand about the BS with an ex wife and kids. Whatever you do, stay on your purpose and don’t let her get to you. Don’t let her use the kids on you either
My ex wanted me back but she wanted me to fight for her. I laughed about that one, I'm like, I'm not the one asking you back.
@@bjnaves1192 she's already using the kids against me. I also know her mom went back & told her that I have a girlfriend. At this point in my life I don't care about her feelings. I'm about my money & making sure my nieces are well taken care of. My girlfriend is a blessing & I'm ready to start this journey with her. If lesbianism doesn't work out for my ex-wife then she will be screwed in her dating life.
@@planetphatness we should never fight to have a woman stay with us. I'm glad you laughed at her goofy ass & you kept it moving.
I am done putting my heart into women that don't deserve it.thanks for your help
Your heart is only to god and your mission
Man, even that is saying too much. I just turned my back and kept moving. I'll never forget that day. And after almost 4 years, she still spying on me. Keep moving forward!
I have a reply better than that. And that's no reply at all. Instant ghost! Guys silence is power. They want to provoke you and Gaslight you into sending a beg text back so they can show their friends and laugh at you.
I managed to do it in two words last time ‘No Problem’ 🤣
She last minute cancelled a date. So I went straight to my gym instead
Brilliant motivational content as always 💪🏽
🔥🔥🔥
Silence is also golden.
It works so well because it takes a monumentally large pair of balls to be able to just walk away like that, especially when feelings were involved. It's really hard for dudes to do because so much ego is involved as well. It's a fucking strong response though, devastating for her even because it's so rare for them to witness. This was a good video, man.
Facts bro 💯
Real talk!!
I did this to a girl whom I saw in a regular basis, I asked her out, she declined. I straight up ignored her afterwards, while she was still staring at me from time to time. After the 3rd week of ignoring she stopped showing up. Idk if it's coincidence, of her not showing up anymore though 🤣
Works like a mf charm. When we exercise control over our emotions we win even when it seems like an L. Never ever chase! Let the universe universe!
My go to phrase is always
"i understand"
👍
Speaking as a 63 year old male !!
100 %
Perfect timing on this one bro. My ex is trying to worm her way back and moved on. I have a new woman I am interested in and she knows it. She closed the door on herself that was all the closure I needed.
@@northsideyanks you are correct. Just trying to see if she can steal me away from the new one and then bam , kicked to the curb. She is that kind of person.
The immediate response I got was:
"What does 'OK, no problem' mean?"
😂
" ok no problem " and next !
This is gold mate all the best to our allies across the pond 🇬🇧🇺🇲
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Listen fellas just start going to the gym. It will get your mind and body straight. If you already go to the gym distract yourself with something else. Believe me it will work. But first say the three magic words lol!!!!
I rather break her ego than to inflate it
💯
Just gave the ok no problem 😎
She’ll be back
Told a chick "no problem" in December. Didn't speak to her for months. Well guess who just randomly popped back into my life and got them cheeks clapped? 🤣 Play the long game fellas.
That’s usually how it goes 💪🏼
She also got her cheeks clapped by Tom, Dick and Tyrone that month. She just wanted to see if she still has power over you. And she won. The fact you responded, set up a meet time tell her you still big-simpin. True power is saying no to her and her sloppy cheeks and saying you have a new girl in your life and you have moved on.
After 4 dudes already clapped. This ain’t an accomplishment
@@lmaostrnoobTrue that. An accomplishment will be rejecting her and finding someone better and worth your time.
@@DanielLopez-wj5qk a real accomplishment is forgetting about her, getting yourself a badder chick, and she comes back UNFUCKED. So now you have the leverage of 2 women and u can choose what u want to do. But a girl returning after 7 months after getting her ass arched up by 6 dudes is a loss
Dumper laugh now cry later. Dumpee cry now laugh later 😂
Thank you amigo
Just cut your losses and move on fellas 💯
23 years of marriage, invested heavily in the whole process, loved the girl dearly.
Would have done just about anything not to finish in divorce. Long story short, conversation went, from her, let's get divorced. Well I said I've given you everything else you asked for so if it's divorce you now want, consider it done.
Yes it was painful and still working through it, every day now getting better.
Love your channel Shaun, you have great advice and certainly seem to have it together.
Keep it rolling..... best wishes.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 Exactly, sipped out, looser.
The best video yet. I'm going to remember this.
In the past, all I have done is try to persuade them not to dump me. It never worked, it only ever made it worse or dragged it out.
Wow, was feeling a bit down today then my brother comes up with this. Thanks dude. Much love
Stay ⬆️
Let’s see if this works I’m using your strategy as we speak. Truth. Will follow up.
💯💯 Good luck
@@ShaunZachary shit worked like a charm. Killed the ego. Options matter. 👍🏼
In under two weeks, salute🫡
Bro out here saving life’s
Amen! A-freakin-men! Shaun, I wish I could've heard this back when my breakup with my narcissistic cheating ex was fresh!
My brother Shaun is only trying to help us!!! Tough talk sucks sometimes. But it means he cares and is trying to make an impact.
great video, let her miss you and think about her decision
This been my mindset for ever, like I don’t need closure or clarity it’s over ok cool I’m out don’t hit me up for nothing
I’m gonna do it for my BOY Shaun! The next time…
One of the best videos yet... Real talk and perspective.. "Ok - No Problem"..... Thanks Shaun! 😂🤣😅
I like the “sweetie” at the end
This video is gold!
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Ok, no problem ✌️. Great video Shaun!
Fam I needed to hear this again.. I appreciate you alot. Love bro 💯
Right on time once again
Thank you my brother! The timing of this video is impeccable! I am in a very similar situation!
Lol l😅p😅😅
ok no problem are the words I would say no complain but it's true shaun I like your videos
I gotta admit i have been there...great advice.
Much support from Australia 🇦🇺 Shaun. Thankyou
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Truth to POWER!!!
Shaun you are the real deal thanx man
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Yessir speaking facts, have a good one OG.
Just started watching your content and I love it! You’ve helped me a lot. Thank you. I appreciate you. 🙏
5:04 i like how that guy disappeared behind the tree and got removed from this earth
My guy Shaun always coming with that 🔥
💯🔥💯
"We want women who want us" 😃 yes we do!
I'm here cuz Shaun speaks str8upFaxx
Thanks!
Thank you bro
In my experience you’ll get more answers if you say this to her then go grey rock & silent.
Even though her answers are basic “ I’m a confused little girl that’s also testing you”, excuses.
Everything under the Sun, has already been done!
Dont sweat it, don’t be bitter, don’t be vengeful.
Your girl, my woman any woman has nothing new to say when it comes to rejecting you.
Damn, i wish i knew this 3weeks ago.
Good one Shaun 👍 thank you
10 months radio silence, whenever, if ever she sees me its gonna be like she saw a ghost 😂
Preach, sir!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤I Love this Brother Shaun😅😅😅😅meow
Excellent ❤video Shaun 🎉
Thank you brother
I am still so embarrassed that one time I had oneitis... I allowed a woman to hold power over me. I put her on a pedestal and chased her when she ran away! Pathetic.
I won't allow myself to act like that again. I was better, I am better. I just broke up with the girl I was seeing for the last 3 years. She was becoming disrespectful and unappreciative. Bye Felicia
Well said. 💯
Thank you Shaun i needed someone to tell me this.
Man you kept it 💯
💯💯
Again Shaun, brilliant my brother 👍
Shaun I love your channel man I’m only 20 years old just turn 20 3 weeks ago and the videos u put out here it amazing man I love your channel keep it up dude!!
Appreciate it man. Stay locked in 🔒
I was doing the “ok no problem” thing until my friends edged me on. I should’ve been more stoic
This vid is a Hood classic
💯💯💯
It's going to be so difficult, seemingly impossible at the time, but no matter how bad you feel, how much you want her back, please please listen to Shaun's advice on this video.
😂 nice next time i do exactly that
He's so right, African man say ok, no problem all the time
Great content I would say most men will go through this what your saying is 💯 facts but I would say let them get burnt it’s the only way to learn brother that’s how I did but what your saying is facts if they go get with other woman straight away even if your in pain and hit the gym and focus on your money
Thanks,bro.
"Bustdowns"
I haven't heard that word since 2003
😂 💯
Wild stallions lol
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You know Shaun, a thing that i find very interesting about videos like this and others that you've made, is that this can be related both if the girl is in a relationship with us or if she isn't...or at least, that's what i feel watching your videos. Keep this up 😄 (thank you from Italy)
Love your content bro...we appreciate u. 💯
🤜🏼🤛🏼
Appreciate u bro needed this been subbed for a while
My mistake was that I remembered her all the beautiful things we did in past, how it started and she told me to never leave her, her answer was "this was in the past" and I yelled at her, I regret for that. I shouldn't acted emotional at all, just I should've said to her, okay no problem. Lesson learned
Ok No problem
real talk ok no problem
Thank you Shaun... I needed this. I've lately been trying to "work" on our problems for the sake of my three children but I dont take her seriously. In fact I tell her all the time I cant take her seriously... Ive been improving myself and living in the gym the past year. Im done with school. Im just going to move on. She's not even worth it... I needed this big bro. Corner coach Shaun for the win again.
Or “I understand”
This game
Thanks for this video
Goat
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I was in that situation when I went to the doctors office to get a check up everything was good I touched the counter on accident the nurse randomly came behind me and walked close to side and touched my ear with her mouth and fuss at me from what I did saying she saying random stuff I don't like you I was only being nice to you etc .. .and she got aggressive with me I end the conversation saying ok and walked away and she watched me walked away out of the door
At first this is hard than it’s like don’t waste my time. Next
True
Word up!
Yeah my ex broke up with me a week and a half after our families met for the first time while she was on her graduation trip in Europe with her sister. I panicked for like three days and called her family a couple times. We met up and had to exchange our shit and she called and lied to the cops to get a sheriff out to meet us and I still don’t know why. But after that I blocked her and haven’t given a shit since. Fucking crazy ass woman.
All facts 💯
I need to admit this. I did some of this. Only because we have a child together and she was being secretive. We didn't break up though either. As soon as I found out, I did nothing but try to see my kid. Nothing else.
Fair play, that’s what a real man does 👍
Thank you!
Needed that
Let's gooooooo 💪🏿👐🏿 hey another great video appreciate u my guy ...
Ok, 👍 is even shorter.
What happens if you beg and chased and then told her I never want her in my life again and send some of my sh*,t back?
Shorty angered me so much I just told her to basically f*ck off
Embarrassed to say I did this in my 20s (30s now). He’s right, it didn’t work for me! I guess I was wired and influenced by movies, where the message is ‘to fight for her’. All and all it is horse shit and you should just walk away!
What if she get mad(as in started getting attitude) and say ill talk to u later and then she hangup. Is that flat out disrespect or kinda sum to look over???
I heard the English, the Spanish I did not hear the French one 😂😂😂
Word🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yup in my 30s I don’t do any of the things I did In my 20s it’s that simple