That is such a good lesson , being vulnerable and engaging emotionally after disappointment has been one of my biggest hurdles , hearing Jada say that self protection removes God from the role of protector just gave me so much perspective.
He's healing mine too. I salute you! I pray that Your healing be accelerated from now and into 2021, so that You'll enjoy new opportunities, now, that the Father has for you on the other side of thru. In the Name of Jesus!!🙌💥💝
I can’t sleep , I’ve been in a bad mood all day today, just feel like I can’t Control what I feel , I was just thinking about everything this lady just said I know God wanted me to hear this!!!! 💔🙌🏾🙌🏾 you guys pray for me!
Praying for you this morning. Now that you obeyed God and heard it. Ask God to take you deeper in where He wants to take you in this season of life.Everything that God does is purposefully. Be blessed with God’s peace my friend in Christ Jesus
Psalm 20 Read and. ask your maker for his enterventions to help you and go on your knees and. pray ask for forgiveness keep his 10 holy Commandments. daily practise them. Exodus 20, Psalm 81 For your situation ,
Thank You Lord for Your perfect peace. I pray that You would help Ariel submit her will to Your perfect will so that she can experience peace that passeth all understanding. Lord I ask that You would align her emotions with what the scripture teaches, and that the ups and downs she is experiencing would be levelled by Your truth that she is accepted and loved. Bless her in Jesus name. Do a deep healing in her spirit and soul Lord. Thanking You in advance for all that You are going to do in and through her life. I ask You to send encouragement to help her through this season in Jesus name amen.
This was so powerful! Self protecting instead of allowing God to protect is such a struggle. I love how God uses others to clearly express His word to us.
I felt the same about my ex husband betrayal but after i found the courage and strength to completely forgive him i began to heal to the point where am now in casual communication with him from time to time God loves in us is whats AMAZING not us
LOVE what she is saying!! Definitely spoke loudly to me!! I realize that you can't always re-engage with certain ppl as she said due to continueous hurt and disappointment. I believe forgiveness the way God expects us is so downplayed. We disappoint and hurt so I'm glad she talked about all sides of the issue.
Wow! This has touched my Heart and Spirit in such a profound way. Giving me clarity on forgiveness, healing and trusting God to protect me. Your message is deeper than I could have ever imagined! Thank you My Sister in Christ! 🙏🙏🙏
So so good especially in a generation that is so quick to cancel and dismiss relationships and people. Thank you for this word of wisdom and for breaking this down.
I am sorry sometimes trust needs to be rebuilt. You will never put a peodo around your child. Or a thief in charge of your money. Forgiveness does not always equal trust.
No it doesn’t. Forgiveness doesn’t equal trust. But I don’t think that is what is being said. What I see it is as is...Trust God but forgive the person, always forgive the person. And then we trust God on if we should or should not allow an opportunity to build that trust again. The trust is always in God first and his understanding and what he says and where he guides us not necessarily in the person. If that makes sense.
Wish my mother was the type she described.......sounds like a real mom. Gotta break this curse, and continue to be this type of mom to my only daughter. God help me 🙏🏾
Healing is what I need right now. I am so crushed, I have been praying so much. There r days where i feel like I am ok but sumdays i feel like if i were to meet that person i would faint.. I'm tired of this feeling and it has affected me so badly, have lost hope n trust n even in love of a man. I m suffering.
You have just helped me with what I have been debating about. Thank you Jada. That qn, "Am I willing to engage emotionally?" is something I will remember forever. 💃🏽To letting God be our protector and not self protecting
I 🙏 so much for my mother because she been through heartbreaking and betrayal I have dealt with this too but God is a true healer sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen
As the days go by, I realize more and more how much we need the Lord. Only in beholding His grace, His time as a man and the eternal hope He gives us can we have true perspective!
I think i also contributed to all this knowing what type of person he was. I even sent him a text to end the friendship coz he was acting so wired and did not talk to me. I was really lonely so I wanted someone to be by my side even when i could see that he was taking our friendship for granted. Its not easy making friends and he was my only friend......but iv Learned the hard way. ...then I remembered “He will Never leave me Nor forsake me” i was then filled with Joy.... and im now in the process of starting over with God as my best friend, who sticks closer than a brother
Wow, thanks for the enlightenment today; we definitely need to pray for wisdom when making these decisions...This is confirmation to something that I am praying about...
Y’all I’m going threw the same thing. But this person which was my best friend has hurt me before in different ways I honestly don’t want her to be part of my life, but at the same time I want to forgive her. I find it so hard to forgive, but I need to and want to. 🤍✝️
I went through the same. What I find helpful for me is Lord I need mercy everyday and because I need mercy and forgiveness then I'm choosing to release this person. Write everything down how they hurt me you and ask the holy spirit to help you release the person. Tear it up and ask for guidance you might need to reposition but still love them.
My better together friend thank u for speaking to me and helping me to get through with this I am a person who when I am hurt I withdraw myself. I just need.
I know I'm self protecting right now because I have been hurt over and over by the same set of people. They live in denial of this and always believe they are on the right. It is hard to emotionally engage these people again... I don't know if I even want to try anymore. What you are saying is true but it feels like opening a healing scar. I don't know if I want to go through that trauma of vulnerability with them anymore. So for now, I pray the Lord will help me ...because in the process of walling out these people it feels like I am also walling out everyone else and the holy spirit, from taking control of the hurt. I am self protecting... which I know is not okay. Please pray for me.
I think people avoid life groups because we literally don’t know how to respond when someone fails us. I think that comes from unhealthy close friend and family dynamics, which have not taught us how to engage after betrayals or perceived betrayals. I’m in a life group now, but only now, which is after I’ve learned to set up healthy boundaries and stick to them as opposed to feeling guilty about them and resentful later. 1 step at a time, but the “Christian people to do life with” step is necessary, I believe, and GOOD! 🙂
I just recently broke up with my male friend our friendship was platonic, but he did have feelings for me , which i (from) the start dismissed. We agreed to be friends and went on trips together, but then he changed, when i already started investing my heart, time and effort..... he disappointed me so many times thou i gave him chances over and over again.... for a year.....and i gotten used to his disappointments that it became so toxic. I blame myself because i could see him for who he was but i gave him so many chances.
I needed to hear this. I just listened at this about 6 times. I don't know how to be a friend to anyone, and I don't trust anyone. I have a problem being a friend because how I was taught at home and in church. I have been single married and now a widow and I have been taught a married woman don't need to be around a single woman. And I don't understand this at all. A lot of my friends are married and they can't be around me because I'm single so they cut me off. I have never disrespect anyone marriage. I just don't try being friends with anyone because I know if they are single one day they will get married and the friendship is over. Can someone please explain this to me.
Love people where they are. Hurt people hurt people. Forgive and move on. When they stalk you on Google then Gang stalk you that's something else TAHOE'S Stalking
Make Lord. Jesus Christ be your. friend your. Shepard for ever Lord Jesus Christ did. have. Sell. out Judas. at. his. table. and looked what the done. to him. inspire he had came. for the purpose the hater was there setting traps for him he lucky he did came. to save us but it's not over and till him come must get his big reward ISAIAH. 53 be blessed with Psalm. 1,
Betrayal is as old as Genesis and the New Testament, Jesus was betrayed by Judith. Let go and let God, stay in the Bible when betrayed and you will find comfort there.
That is such a good lesson , being vulnerable and engaging emotionally after disappointment has been one of my biggest hurdles , hearing Jada say that self protection removes God from the role of protector just gave me so much perspective.
Same here! God knows I needed that
I had Family and Friends & my Ex Husband betrayed me, but God is healing my heart. Amen
Were you able to find support? Im having probs
@@rlourie5683 reach out to your local Mental health place in your city
He's healing mine too. I salute you! I pray that Your healing be accelerated from now and into 2021, so that You'll enjoy new opportunities, now, that the Father has for you on the other side of thru. In the Name of Jesus!!🙌💥💝
Just stay prayed up sis the lord will deliver you I've been thru that aswell
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc Always 🙏
I can’t sleep , I’ve been in a bad mood all day today, just feel like I can’t Control what I feel , I was just thinking about everything this lady just said I know God wanted me to hear this!!!! 💔🙌🏾🙌🏾 you guys pray for me!
Ariel, we are standing with you in prayer! We pray that God will fill you with His perfect peace as you seek Him. 💜
Praying for you this morning. Now that you obeyed God and heard it. Ask God to take you deeper in where He wants to take you in this season of life.Everything that God does is purposefully. Be blessed with God’s peace my friend in Christ Jesus
Psalm 20 Read and. ask your maker for his enterventions to help you and go on your knees and. pray ask for forgiveness keep his 10 holy Commandments. daily practise them. Exodus 20, Psalm 81 For your situation ,
Thank You Lord for Your perfect peace. I pray that You would help Ariel submit her will to Your perfect will so that she can experience peace that passeth all understanding. Lord I ask that You would align her emotions with what the scripture teaches, and that the ups and downs she is experiencing would be levelled by Your truth that she is accepted and loved. Bless her in Jesus name. Do a deep healing in her spirit and soul Lord. Thanking You in advance for all that You are going to do in and through her life. I ask You to send encouragement to help her through this season in Jesus name amen.
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This was so powerful! Self protecting instead of allowing God to protect is such a struggle. I love how God uses others to clearly express His word to us.
I felt the same about my ex husband betrayal but after i found the courage and strength to completely forgive him i began to heal to the point where am now in casual communication with him from time to time God loves in us is whats AMAZING not us
A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
"Huge betrayals or human brokenness". Such a Word!!! Wow
Your mom is amazing! Definitely inspirational ❤️
LOVE what she is saying!! Definitely spoke loudly to me!! I realize that you can't always re-engage with certain ppl as she said due to continueous hurt and disappointment. I believe forgiveness the way God expects us is so downplayed. We disappoint and hurt so I'm glad she talked about all sides of the issue.
Wow! This has touched my Heart and Spirit in such a profound way. Giving me clarity on forgiveness, healing and trusting God to protect me. Your message is deeper than I could have ever imagined! Thank you My Sister in Christ! 🙏🙏🙏
Praise the Lord! We are so happy to hear how He is speaking to you through these conversations. God bless you 💜
So so good especially in a generation that is so quick to cancel and dismiss relationships and people. Thank you for this word of wisdom and for breaking this down.
"Clinical forgiveness"🙆 Ms Jada calling me out🙇🙇
This was powerful...The idea of clinical forgiveness struck me.
I am sorry sometimes trust needs to be rebuilt. You will never put a peodo around your child. Or a thief in charge of your money. Forgiveness does not always equal trust.
@Ashleigh thank you for articulating that phrase. I have never heard it before but you are right on point.
No it doesn’t. Forgiveness doesn’t equal trust. But I don’t think that is what is being said. What I see it is as is...Trust God but forgive the person, always forgive the person. And then we trust God on if we should or should not allow an opportunity to build that trust again. The trust is always in God first and his understanding and what he says and where he guides us not necessarily in the person. If that makes sense.
@@tialatrec9537 Yes Tia!!
Were you listening to what she said or are you responding from a hurt place?
Wish my mother was the type she described.......sounds like a real mom. Gotta break this curse, and continue to be this type of mom to my only daughter. God help me 🙏🏾
Thank you woman of GOD for the perspective and taking your Mother's godly wise counsel.
Amen. She look like Holly Robinson Peete to me.
Yes!
I am sure she has heard that most of her life lol
I always thought she was holly at first
Jada is me. I am Jada!
That clinical forgiving part! Wooh!
Healing is what I need right now. I am so crushed, I have been praying so much. There r days where i feel like I am ok but sumdays i feel like if i were to meet that person i would faint.. I'm tired of this feeling and it has affected me so badly, have lost hope n trust n even in love of a man. I m suffering.
"You don't need people to be Jesus, you already have Jesus" PREACH!!!
Your Mother is a Wise Woman! Thank her for that wisdom💐❤️
This is very timely. Thank you 💞
We are so happy to hear that you enjoyed this clip! Thanks for watching. 💜
You have just helped me with what I have been debating about. Thank you Jada. That qn, "Am I willing to engage emotionally?" is something I will remember forever.
💃🏽To letting God be our protector and not self protecting
Praise the Lord! We are so happy to hear how this conversation helped you! God bless you 💜
Even when they fail again, I will protect you and give you discernment! Great wisdom here! New Subscriber!
I 🙏 so much for my mother because she been through heartbreaking and betrayal I have dealt with this too but God is a true healer sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen
This is what I needed to hear 😭😭😭😭
Jesus Christ loves you
Yes! This is a great reminder for all of us! God bless you 💜
The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?
Wow! I didn’t know it called clinical forgiveness. I have practiced that all my life and didn’t reconnect with my emotions. This spoke volumes to me.
As the days go by, I realize more and more how much we need the Lord. Only in beholding His grace, His time as a man and the eternal hope He gives us can we have true perspective!
I think i also contributed to all this knowing what type of person he was. I even sent him a text to end the friendship coz he was acting so wired and did not talk to me. I was really lonely so I wanted someone to be by my side even when i could see that he was taking our friendship for granted. Its not easy making friends and he was my only friend......but iv Learned the hard way. ...then I remembered “He will Never leave me Nor forsake me” i was then filled with Joy.... and im now in the process of starting over with God as my best friend, who sticks closer than a brother
Wow, thanks for the enlightenment today; we definitely need to pray for wisdom when making these decisions...This is confirmation to something that I am praying about...
We are so happy to hear how God used this conversations confirm and speak to you! Thanks for watching. God bless you! 💜
I definitely self protect in my friendships and need to work on not doing that! Thank y’all for these videos ❤️
So do i! Ive done it for years
Wow, I am self protecting, I need deliverance
So do i! Please help us God!
Y’all I’m going threw the same thing. But this person which was my best friend has hurt me before in different ways I honestly don’t want her to be part of my life, but at the same time I want to forgive her. I find it so hard to forgive, but I need to and want to. 🤍✝️
Take your time darling, if want to free your heart just do it softly I know it is not easy but talk to God hope u make
the piloT Thank you, yes I pray every night for guidance. ❤️
I went through the same. What I find helpful for me is Lord I need mercy everyday and because I need mercy and forgiveness then I'm choosing to release this person. Write everything down how they hurt me you and ask the holy spirit to help you release the person. Tear it up and ask for guidance you might need to reposition but still love them.
It’s a process... it doesn’t happen all at once😊
Thank you, I needed to hear this.
This is for me. Thank you.
My better together friend thank u for speaking to me and helping me to get through with this I am a person who when I am hurt I withdraw myself. I just need.
Wow you're self protecting and thats His job... so so good. I have be told to stay in my lane ( in a loving way), I am learning what that means.
This message is relatable. Thank you God.
This is soooo good and needed. Thank you PastorJada Edwards
So great wisdom! Thank you Jada!
I know I'm self protecting right now because I have been hurt over and over by the same set of people. They live in denial of this and always believe they are on the right. It is hard to emotionally engage these people again... I don't know if I even want to try anymore. What you are saying is true but it feels like opening a healing scar. I don't know if I want to go through that trauma of vulnerability with them anymore. So for now, I pray the Lord will help me ...because in the process of walling out these people it feels like I am also walling out everyone else and the holy spirit, from taking control of the hurt. I am self protecting... which I know is not okay. Please pray for me.
I definitely believe you can experience heartbreak outside of a romantic relationship
...Am I going to re engage emotionally?” Good teaching 🤳
My God this is good!! I’ve been in this space for nearly two years
Wow this is such a great conversation
Thank you .
I think people avoid life groups because we literally don’t know how to respond when someone fails us. I think that comes from unhealthy close friend and family dynamics, which have not taught us how to engage after betrayals or perceived betrayals. I’m in a life group now, but only now, which is after I’ve learned to set up healthy boundaries and stick to them as opposed to feeling guilty about them and resentful later. 1 step at a time, but the “Christian people to do life with” step is necessary, I believe, and GOOD! 🙂
Thank you for the wisdom imparted. I needed this as well!❤
I needed to hear this. Will rewatch again to process more deeply. Ty
This woman is truly anoited.
I thank God for healing me to forgive the people that have hurt me. Without God, being in my life I couldn't have forgiveness.
I just recently broke up with my male friend our friendship was platonic, but he did have feelings for me , which i (from) the start dismissed. We agreed to be friends and went on trips together, but then he changed, when i already started investing my heart, time and effort..... he disappointed me so many times thou i gave him chances over and over again.... for a year.....and i gotten used to his disappointments that it became so toxic. I blame myself because i could see him for who he was but i gave him so many chances.
Amen! Beautifully said.
Thank you Queen 👑
Wowee, that just spoke volumes!
It's been 8 years for me, and I have a hard time finding a godly man who I like. And the first 3-4 years I just wasn't ready.
I needed this today
We are so happy to hear that this encouraged you where you are at! God bless you 💜
This helps me right now in my life thank you Jesus for the word 🙏
This is so REAL!
This was so good. 😊❤
I needed to hear this. I just listened at this about 6 times. I don't know how to be a friend to anyone, and I don't trust anyone. I have a problem being a friend because how I was taught at home and in church. I have been single married and now a widow and I have been taught a married woman don't need to be around a single woman. And I don't understand this at all. A lot of my friends are married and they can't be around me because I'm single so they cut me off. I have never disrespect anyone marriage. I just don't try being friends with anyone because I know if they are single one day they will get married and the friendship is over. Can someone please explain this to me.
I absolutely love this
Wow!!! This is amazing.
Wow!! This was so good!
This is really good.
Amazing revelation this one🔥🔥🔥
That was powerful!
This was very beautiful... thank you 🙏🏽
Thank u jada glory to God
This has helped me so much. Tfs
Thank you 💕
wow! I totally needed to hear this
Such a powerful truth. I love how Christine Caine is agreeing so hard she looks like a bobblehead!🤣 I was doing the same thing!!
Love your ministry! Keep the inspiration coming 👑☝🏽🙌🏽❣
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Profound wisdom 🙌💯
🗣 that’s a good word!
Whew! Come on Sis!
On point great love it.
Wow!!! This was a lesson for me!
Love the videos
Speak! 💕
This is wonderful 😭❤️
This is me!!
Me too I take that very seriously
Good word you better preach
LOVE YOURSELF! Forgive Yourself!
Put God First.
We betray ourselves. Your intuition told you not to trust that person.
Am I going to be vulnerable again??? Hmmmm ....something to think about?
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Love people where they are. Hurt people hurt people. Forgive and move on. When they stalk you on Google then Gang stalk you that's something else TAHOE'S Stalking
This is tough boi...
Jada, or Auntie Jada! How are you?!!
Tell husband I said you're blowin' UP!!
Wow
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NEXT TiME first. read. Psalm. 39 before you open your your on. certain things
Make Lord. Jesus Christ be your. friend your. Shepard for ever Lord Jesus Christ did. have. Sell. out Judas. at. his. table. and looked what the done. to him. inspire he had came. for the purpose the hater was there setting traps for him he lucky he did came. to save us but it's not over and till him come must get his big reward ISAIAH. 53 be blessed with Psalm. 1,
Betrayal is as old as Genesis and the New Testament, Jesus was betrayed by Judith. Let go and let God, stay in the Bible when betrayed and you will find comfort there.